| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 257 | How many red flags can you count? 🚩🚩🚩Poor woman desperately needs FDS | MALE DEPRAVITY | ahsiemkcip | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 05:29 AM |
| 173 | Ok, I thought my last post was bad but this one takes the cake. The whole system facilitates male depravity. | MALE DEPRAVITY | ahsiemkcip | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Ladies remember, men are allowed to look shit for their age... but for women looking old/normal/young for your age is bad 🙄🙄🙄 | CULTURAL MISOGYNY | ahsiemkcip | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 06:57 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 155 | Men who are “jealous” of abusers give me the creepsAbsolutely, all they’re really saying is “I wish I was as good at manipulating women as they are” phrased differently. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 11:31 PM |
| 4 | May be FDS or may be that after I saw myself in a picture with my “hot” crush I was more attractive... either way, even hot men are meh now.But at the same time don't trust them either, the amount of religious men who I've known firsthand who visit prostitutes while claiming to be chaste is astounding. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 11:18 AM |
| 27 | I like that someone fixed this picture's caption. I have seen it without that. 🤮How pathetic can you be to need a whole other person to stop you from being a piece of shit. Just go to therapy, Afiq 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 11:29 AM |
| 23 | May be FDS or may be that after I saw myself in a picture with my “hot” crush I was more attractive... either way, even hot men are meh now.I don't really even look at them now, like they don't even register as beings to be attracted to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 01:20 AM |
| 22 | In response to “not all men!!!”YES. So many men cannot understand that we are under no obligation to trust them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 01:14 PM |
| 22 | In response to “not all men!!!”"Not all men" "But enough men" "Lol nah you're all making it all up" The worst response to this argument from men that I've witnessed is where they just completely dismiss the reality-based fears that the majority if not all woman report having as being over-reactions and dramatisations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 01:10 PM |
| 147 | Example of high value behaviorThis just about ticks every box: caring, loving, resourceful, quick-to-action, generous, capable, empathetic, kind, hard-working, anticipating of your needs. This is the epitome of high value behaviour. I just read a post in another sub where her horrible, lazy husband was so awful to her that she threw the turkey off their balcony so it's a nice juxtaposition. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 11:21 AM |
| 13 | Older me would've defended myself. Now I know what makes me a HVW and I don't need to justify it to anyone. Block. Delete. Move on.Yep, insta-block if I see that NSFW tag 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 02:14 PM |
| 305 | In one of our Negotiations classes, our professor made us read this story, and asked us one question: Among the four characters, who is to be blamed for the girl's death? I initially thought the old man was responsible, but now I feel it was the guy's fault. Btw, 75% of our class blamed the girl.I think no one is really to blame for her death here (unless you want to count the crocodile). Sometimes things happen in life and no one is directly to blame. However, The old man is guilty of being a disgusting degenerate. The young man is guilty of being un-empathetic, unkind and uncaring. The young girl is "guilty" of being desperate and naive. Maybe reckless too. The grandma is guilty of giving crappy advice in the situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 12:48 PM |
| 47 | Petition Signed 😎 💅🏼I think she meant some men might feel bad when shamed but a lot might not care about being shamed, so it mightn't have the intended effect. I don't think she meant that we should care if they feel bad for being shamed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 04:58 AM |
| 187 | Wow...get properly cooked and nutritious meals A lot of men don't seem to want to even do that for themselves, never mind others. I don't understand it since treating yourself well brings so much joy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 12:36 PM |
| 65 | So anyway, sex is not a needIf you’re starving you don’t turn down food that is offered to you even if you don’t like the taste. If you’re dying of thirst you don’t turn up your nose at available potable water even if it looks gross. If you need shelter from the elements you take it from where you can find it even if it isn’t to your liking. So why don’t they just fuck each other if it’s a need? Because it isn’t a need, it’s a want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 03:59 AM |
| 10 | Why are mothers such Pickmes for their sons?The comment you replied to seriously reads like someone larping as a FDS supporter to get the sub banned, like wtf? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 01:23 PM |
| 5 | What’s the worst pick-me song of all time?deleted What is this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 11:49 AM |
| 36 | I bet Clint’s WIFE doesn’t even know she’s in a non-monogamous relationship.I got a message like this one time and I found his wife on Facebook and sent her a screenshot. Her response was something like “yeah he’s always like this, it’s just the way he is 🙄☹️“. It was so sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 02:07 AM |
| 24 | Regardless of how you feel about WAP, her outlook is awesomeIkr, owning sex is making sure your partner puts your pleasure first, making sure sex is what you want it to be and having the agency to not do degrading sexual acts you don’t want to do. AND only having sex with people you 100% want to have sex with. This is just pandering to men’s horniness wrapped up as feminism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 01:56 AM |
| 49 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits plunges further into hatred and misogyny, calls women "scum" and "piece of shit", says we deserve to be paid less than men and are unsuitable for management, implies women should be used as incubators by low income men to keep the birth rate highIf they are brigading we should all report it to the admins, their sub will eventually be banned. The sad thing is no one cares if they have their shitty little communities, just leave ours the fuck alone! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 12:22 PM |
| 68 | the image speaks for itselfThe nails... I could understand having worn down nails if they worked hard physically or something, but they're always overweight internet addicts with soft little hands. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 02:52 PM |
| 245 | I really think they are losing there minds. THE F***ING AUDACITY.“Intimate partner” lmao, what a clown 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 04:41 AM |
| 17 | You don't really miss him. Trust me.Holy shit, I was just thinking that I feel sad I dumped my ex and I miss him then this rolls around on my feed! I'm waiting for my dinner to be delivered (Friday night treat for myself 😊😊) and I'm hangry! Thank you 💜💜💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Ok, I thought my last post was bad but this one takes the cake. The whole system facilitates male depravity.That is absolutely horrific, thank you for linking it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 04:46 AM |
| 3 | We should pray for her...Nooo! Goats smell awful as well, his house must have reeked! Good on you for ditching him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 04:18 AM |
| 5 | We should pray for her...I wanna puke just reading that 🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 03:14 AM |
| 11 | We should pray for her...Oh honey, I once dated a guy who: kept goslings in his bedroom and let them shit all over his floor stepped in dog poo in BARE FEET in front of me like he did it on the reg, like he did not notice or care in the slightest saw his dog piss on his bed and did NOTHING about it, I had to insist he put his bedding in the wash had the worst personal hygiene of any person I have ever met, ever, including feet that I could smell when we went out to the movies EVEN THOUGH HE HAD SHOES ON It is so embarra… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 03:12 AM |
| 9 | Pictures of scantily dressed women cause a region of the male brain associated with tool use to light up. Their brains literally categorize us as something to be used. The "hostile sexists" studied showed no brain activity that indicates they recognize women in bikinis as humans with thoughts.I just want to say how much I love this sub. A study is posted and instead of it being accepted without thinking because it aligns with the sub's viewpoint the comments are full of critical thinking. Magnificent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 03:04 AM |
| 5 | For only $40 he can promise to never marry you!!Ah that makes more sense! Promise rings aren't really a thing in my country that I know of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 05:23 PM |
| 5 | How many red flags can you count? 🚩🚩🚩Poor woman desperately needs FDSI'm so sorry to hear you went through that! That must've been incredibly hard. I really hope you're doing better now <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 04:16 PM |
| 31 | For only $40 he can promise to never marry you!!I've never understood the concept of promise rings. What are you promising???? Edit: I mean from the man's perspective. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 03:32 PM |
| 25 | Men will shamelessly use you if you let themI loved him and part of me still does, unfortunately. Oh honey I 100% understand :( I still love my dumbass, freeloading recent ex too, even with all the anger, resentment and hurt I feel. What he got from me: a place to live for free since I own my home, everything bought for him, all his appointments and car maintenance taken care of, every bill paid, support while he was at uni, personal cheerleader and therapist, gardener, nurse, chef, stylist, assistant, cleaner etc. etc. etc. What I got: a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 11:49 AM |
| 4 | I can’t believe an FDS-er is defending this man. BuT mAh ViDeO gAmEs...deleted What is this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 05:05 PM |
| 93 | Just when you thought she was leaving his ass. I think guess the sub should be a new flair.deleted What is this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 02:34 PM |
| 27 | Why do women tolerate this? They know but they stay...deleted What is this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 02:32 PM |
| 33 | Post on the news subreddit about Poland’s protests and the first two comments are about how there are no good pictures of the naked women protestors. Even got gilded for “saving them” the clickReminds me of when there were a few front page posts of a naked woman having a psychotic break on top of a car. Almost all of the comments were from men objectifying her because she was conventionally attractive. The lack of compassion made me sick :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 01:01 PM |
| 40 | Found an old photo of a “gift” my LVM ex gave me :)))))) this was a 35 year old man with enough savings to buy a house in cash.Noooooo that's horrific! He could have just bought a nice gift bag for less than a dollar and it would've looked 100 times better! Why would he think this is ok???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 04:26 AM |
| 11 | The fact men have admitted to going home to look up porn featuring a specific type of woman who happened to piss them off that day tells you literally everything you need to know about what men think of the correlation between real women and pornographyWhen I was in high school a group of boys harassed me every day saying I looked like a porn star and saying horrible sexual things to me. I was new to the school and it made me feel absolutely horrible. Guess which guys then came sliding into my dms one after another trying to flirt with me a year after we graduated 🙄🙄🤢🤮 The debauchery starts early and has no bounds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 01:49 AM |
| 21 | This makes me feel so sad...I know you're being lighthearted but in this kind of situation I would genuinely worry about him hurting the child if this is how he is. So many men have hurt or killed their children to get back at a woman for trying to leave them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 01:43 PM |
| 36 | Joining FDS, I found it a bit weird that men couldn't comment. Joining r/TwoXChromosomes, I realised how fucking good the rule isUgh it reminds me of a sub that died (/r/smallboobproblems) after it became apparent that it was modded by a man who was clearly using the posts of women complaining about the issues of having small boobs to sexually harass users and get himself off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 11:58 PM |
| 6 | Won’t Somebody Think of the Men??Yeah, maybe they need to know what it's like to be legally barred from the workforce itself! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 03:21 PM |
| 5 | Won’t Somebody Think of the Men??"When you’re accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression" (Ironically this quote was first used on the internet by LVM whinging about feminists lol) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 03:17 PM |
| 12 | Toughest time of my life and how he dealsI’m glad you have some to help you through your difficult time. He sounds like a lovely HVM. Whatever it is you’re going through, remember it will pass 💙💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 05:55 AM |
| 79 | Subtle but still gotta get called outYep, it’s 100% on them they have the sexual attractiveness of a dead fish and can’t figure out how to ask for consent in a way that isn’t completely dead pan and socially awkward. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 05:29 AM |
| 3 | I'd like to get everyone's thoughts on this post in response to mine on why I feel hypergamy is a good thing and women should want a partner who is able to provide and make their life easier.She’s gonna change her tune real quick when she’s the one who has a child by this NVM who then is “scared” to support her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 01:34 AM |
| 30 | I thought this belonged here.Sure! Here you go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 01:43 PM |
| 150 | I thought this belonged here.I love how much he got roasted in the comments for that post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 12:06 PM |
| 3 | FDS got me likeAh ok thank you! I'll investigate it from my country then. Thanks a bunch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 08:13 AM |
| 7 | FDS got me likeWow! You are an incredible woman! I'm really interested in learning the process you went through to sponsor her as I'd like to do the same. Would you please consider whitelisting me so I can get some more information? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 08:04 AM |
| 8 | John Gray in his ted talk explains that studies showed than women’s stress level is higher than those of men in a relationship (4x more at home to be exact). This is insane. If your relationship brings you stress, stay single ! No one In Nature is able to survive to long term stress .I was one of those girls, for me it was that I didn't feel valid or successful if I didn't have a boyfriend. It sucked all the time but it was what I thought I was meant to be doing. We need to raise our girls and change our society so they don't feel like their worth stems from their relationship status. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 07:48 AM |
| 16 | John Gray in his ted talk explains that studies showed than women’s stress level is higher than those of men in a relationship (4x more at home to be exact). This is insane. If your relationship brings you stress, stay single ! No one In Nature is able to survive to long term stress .Me too! Six years as well but broke up two weeks ago. I'm happier and healthier for it already. Congrats! <3 #kickhimout2020 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 07:45 AM |
| 3 | Learning self defense and or carrying pepper spray is so important.I 100% agree with this! I think it’s super important to do everything to secure your own safety. A few more things I think are important: security cameras house alarm window and door sensors (there’s a lot of smart devices out now so you can be notified on your phone if a door or window is opened) good quality locks and security doors on external doors and windows motion floodlights a lock on your bedroom door (keep it closed at night but have a good fire escape plan) get a gun and train, train,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 02:50 AM |
| 2 | The majority of people in this community have an extremely warped view of sex.I mean, you can literally die from blood clots? Maybe do a brief google and educate yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/20 01:08 PM |
| 30 | What's your mAlE FemInISt story?I was at university and feeling super vulnerable after getting out of a long relationship (big surprise he turned out to be a LVM who dated me at 14 when he was 19) when I met a guy who seemed lovely and was happy to have a FWB-style thing with me while I recovered. After multiple red flags such as telling others we were in a serious relationship, awful hygiene, horrible slut shaming and comments about other women and his exes I told him I was ending the the WB part of our FWB and that we could … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 08:41 PM |
| 9 | Does anyone else constantly feel like men are liable to snap and kill them at any moment?Yes, I feel that way. My dad was abusive though so I might be biased. The man who sexually assaulted me seemed sweeter and kinder than the average man and afterwards went around crowing feminism, sex positivity and how important consent is. He was like night and day in terms of personality. I just split up with my long term boyfriend and the first thing I thought was “am I in physical danger?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Women asks if she should kick her 21 yr old daughter out because her 52 yr old husband cant cOnTroL hImSeLf🤢🤢🤢There’s so much to unpack here. For her: Why would someone even need to ask for advice on this??? Protect your child you silly woman! For him: How can you treat someone you married (who is age appropriate) like this? I’d bet my last dollar she looks far better for her age than he does. “Can’t control himself” what bullshit, he’s just dying to sexually assault the daughter and turn around and tell the mum it was her fault because he warned her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 05:28 AM |
| 6 | All the hate for Nikki blades in the comments.. saying this is why she's single 🙄 No it's bc she's out of your league stfuAnother scenario where LVM are mad because a) they can't afford to take her out and b) she wouldn't go out with them anyway. Men have no problem with this concept when they can afford to pay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 02:48 PM |
| 44 | What hard lessons did you learn over the years through dating?Yep! A lot of guys are willing to pretend they’re too stupid to understand an argument to avoid conflict and it just leads to a world of pain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 02:57 AM |
| 96 | Felipe Esparza Explains When to Marry Your GirlfriendThis makes me so sad, it makes me wonder if there are any men who truly care about the women in their lives. I know I’m salty at the moment but fuck, how can this be such a common thing 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 05:44 PM |
| 95 | all of the comments were criticizing the bf and she STILL defends himI think it's like "oh look how silly my boyfriend is! Boys will be boys..." Yeah, boys will be disrespectful pieces of shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 02:11 PM |
| 4 | !!!I'm making this my desktop wallpaper! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 04:43 PM |
| 3 | There's this new Tiktok trend of singing this song to your girlfriend 'Why Beer is better than Women' and watching her reaction, and it's not just the kids doing it. Disgusting, once you hear the lyrics..How's beer gonna fuck you, clean your clothes, cook your food, have your kids for your "legacy" and do all the other billion things you want her to do for you while you do this shit to her? Go have a beer and leave women the fuck alone then if it's so much better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 02:56 PM |
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