ahugerat Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	It’s crazy how even women well past their prime think they can still afford to be picky, sometimes even more so than genuinely desirable women Lol I was just talking with a 84 yr old woman the other day and she said she LOVES being alone and having her house to herself and couldn't imagine sharing her home with a man. She said she has friends that makes her life feel full and she hasn't felt like shes missing out on anything being single for decades now.	/r/AllPillDebate	19/08/23 07:24 PM
4	It’s crazy how even women well past their prime think they can still afford to be picky, sometimes even more so than genuinely desirable women Exactly. A woman at that age is likely fine being alone and therefore are picky. With maturity and more relationship experience people tend to know exactly what they want and don't want to waste time with people that don't have all the qualities they desire and there's nothing wrong with that.	/r/AllPillDebate	19/08/23 01:46 AM
1	What do I do? Do you have female friends that are like this? All of my girl friends (who btw are same age as OP) aren't wanting casual relationships at this age and want something serious.	/r/AllPillDebate	27/07/23 05:33 PM
-1	What do I do? This is just simply not true lmao	/r/AllPillDebate	27/07/23 04:53 PM
1	What do I do? OP says he's gone on dates and has had sex I wouldn't call that "inexperienced" he just hasn't had a serious relationship yet.	/r/AllPillDebate	27/07/23 04:52 PM
3	What do I do? Don't worry I don't think quietness or nervousness is something that's inherently a turn off for every woman. My current boyfriend was pretty quiet our first couple dates and I did most the talking which I didn't mind and it ended up in a relationship. And we've talked about it since and he said he was nervous/didn't know what to say to me and I just find it endearing lol. You just gotta wait for the right one to come around and in the meantime just focus on what brings you happiness right now.	/r/AllPillDebate	27/07/23 12:59 AM
4	What do I do? Coming from a woman, you sound like you're doing fine. Keep doing what you're doing and don't be too hung up on the fact that you haven't found someone yet. I understand the comments saying you need to work on yourself and your mental health and I do think thats true to an extent (if you're always talking about being miserable and hating yourself it can definitley be a turn off and unattractive) but you don't have to love yourself 100% to get into a relationship. With my current partner we're ab…	/r/AllPillDebate	27/07/23 12:05 AM
1	The number one cause of violence against women is the shitbag men they pick to sleep with. Men talking to each other on the internet and saying mean but true things about women is not violence against women. I'm sure they do, but I feel like a lot of the incels I've seen online are experiencing depression/anxiety/lack of confidence and I'm saying investing in good friendships and truly putting yourself out there can mitigate that. I guess my point is there are things a person can do to make their life feel more fulfilling and eliminate the frustrations and depression they experience other than finding a girlfriend and entering a relationship. Obviously the whole thing with incels is their dismay ove…	/r/AllPillDebate	12/07/23 01:39 AM
1	The number one cause of violence against women is the shitbag men they pick to sleep with. Men talking to each other on the internet and saying mean but true things about women is not violence against women. Yeah but if you're lonely you should pour your energy into strong platonic friendships to help mitigate the loneliness felt. Sure it doesn't necessarily replace the bond/closeness you may get in a relationship with a significant other but anytime I've been single my friends have made my life still feel full. My personal belief is that you should feel whole on your own before getting into a relationship anyway because if not that's where you can easily get into codependent or unhealthy relationsh…	/r/AllPillDebate	11/07/23 11:46 PM
1	The number one cause of violence against women is the shitbag men they pick to sleep with. Men talking to each other on the internet and saying mean but true things about women is not violence against women. I feel like because of this incels should get off dating apps and focus on making organic connections/friendships with other people irl. Get involved in the community and volunteer, find a club, or just a hobby that gets them out into the real world and interacting with as many people as possible. The more social experience and experience talking to women irl the better. I have ADHD and struggled with my social skills as a teenager but I forced myself to put myself out there in college and now h…	/r/AllPillDebate	11/07/23 09:44 PM
1	The number one cause of violence against women is the shitbag men they pick to sleep with. Men talking to each other on the internet and saying mean but true things about women is not violence against women. I don't think that that's a claim a lot of women actually make. I think most if not all abusers do whatever they can to manipulate and gain trust early in the relationship and then the abuse slowly begins. It's unfair to put the blame on the person being manipulated and abused for "picking" a bad guy versus putting the blame solely on the abuser. I've had friends that have been in abusive relationships and it's absolutely horrible and there is no one to blame but the abuser. Many of these men we…	/r/AllPillDebate	11/07/23 08:39 AM
0	The number one cause of violence against women is the shitbag men they pick to sleep with. Men talking to each other on the internet and saying mean but true things about women is not violence against women. This post grossly diminishes the complexity of abusive relationships. And speech is not violence but when you have a whole population of people speaking violent rhetoric and it yields violence it becomes an issue.	/r/AllPillDebate	11/07/23 07:39 AM
2	Im 6ft tall, skinny lanklet, and have a average-to below average looking face Please don't bleach your skin. If cosmetic surgeries will make you feel confident then do it but see if there's anything that's more easily attainable to do to spruce up your look before resorting to surgery (i.e skincare, a haircut, get your brows done, etc)	/r/AllPillDebate	07/07/23 08:12 PM
-1	I'm going to be honest being undesirable male is miserable existence. I try to focus on hobbies and interest but at the end of the day I know I'm a low value male and it makes me miserable. Don't take this the wrong way but if it's an option therapy might be good. Sounds like a larger mental health issue is going on versus being just a "low value" male.	/r/AllPillDebate	07/07/23 06:45 PM
-4	Women: Dick size doesn't matter sweetie, it's just about the motion of the ocean! Also women r/BadDragon Women are individuals and can have personal preferences. Some women may like larger penises and some women don't care. I feel like it's the men that perpetuate the "women only want big dicks" argument as a result of insecurity/societal pressure from OTHER MEN and not women.	/r/AllPillDebate	07/07/23 06:44 PM