aielam Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Picking up shy girls The auto-shit test is a fantastic concept. I love it.	/r/seduction	21/03/12 01:32 PM
2	Picking up shy girls This is fantastic.	/r/seduction	21/03/12 01:31 PM
3	Picking up shy girls Texting is GREAT for shy girls! It removes the pressure of responding right away. We can formulate our words better and even joke around in ways we wouldn't if it were face to face. If you're not getting a response from this particular girl, maybe she's just not interested. Because I LOVE the text game.	/r/seduction	21/03/12 01:29 PM
1	Picking up shy girls What was said above is great. When I'm nervous I may fiddle with my phone or whatever just to have something to look at or do with my hands, but it doesn't mean I'm not interested. Now, if I completely turn my back on you or close my body language off completely, that means not interested. Most people would know enough about body language to see the right signals, and if you don't, you may want to educate yourself.	/r/seduction	21/03/12 01:25 PM
3	Picking up shy girls Body language maybe. Is she tensed up or fairly relaxed? Even if she is shy and consequently tense, there will be a difference between shy-tension and you're-creeping-me-out tension.	/r/seduction	20/03/12 09:03 PM
11	Picking up shy girls It's not like a conscious decision for me exactly. Like, I don't pick up a book to read just for its pick up potential. But if I'm reading a book that's really great, and I take it somewhere with me to read, it's in the back of my mind that a cute guy could potentially ask me about it.	/r/seduction	20/03/12 06:06 PM
29	Picking up shy girls This one is hard. That's something that will vary with each girl. But here's what it is from my perspective: I would love to be engaged in conversation at the library, bookstore, or coffee shop based on what I'm reading at these locations. Some girls may be annoyed that you're interrupting their reading, so be prepared for that. But others just need that conversation starter and even use it as their own pick up device. My best advice: Don't be an idiot. Be intelligent. Desire real conversation, …	/r/seduction	20/03/12 05:48 PM
32	Picking up shy girls Absolutely. Many shy girls don't see the need to push themselves out of shyness. They accept it as part of who they are and go about their lives. (And that's TOTALLY fine!) Others, like myself, see that it makes life difficult sometimes, and really try hard to overcome it. But we all have our insecurities and/or idiosyncrasies that push us back into introversion at times. it just takes a certain kind of person to get us to open up and be more comfortable.	/r/seduction	20/03/12 05:18 PM
7	Picking up shy girls Shyness is not necessarily a sign the she's socially inept. Seriously. Some people just don't do well with first meetings. But get to know her a little and you might be surprised at how open she can be one on one. It's often large groups or crowds (like one might see at the bar) that intimidate me. But watch a movie with me alone and I'll talk to you for hours about the social and political implications of said movie. Just sayin, the shy girl just needs to find her comfort zone, and that's NOT a…	/r/seduction	20/03/12 04:57 PM
94	Picking up shy girls Shy girl (irl) here. Ask questions a lot. Leading questions, not yes or no questions. It's likely that the shy ones are also the smart ones, so it helps if you are too. For example, ask about the books she's reading and what makes her like them so much. "Why" is a great question, because it asks politely for her to open up, and you'll learn a great deal about the kind of girl she is.	/r/seduction	20/03/12 04:53 PM