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aileme/r/seduction20/12/13 11:13 AM
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Thank you! Great advice, I am glad we share a similar view on things, cool
/r/seduction22/03/18 07:14 PM
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Any tips for relationships? I am currently dating a girl for 3 months and it’s really good so far, just looking for different views/ideas about/for relationships
/r/seduction22/03/18 10:05 AM
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You need a huge mindset change. Let's look at some things In the first third of what you wrote you specify what you are doing wrong. You know it, you wrote it down, now you can take action and change what you're doing. Then it seems you are really lonely, you can go out and meet people to make friends. It's hard but also isn't, just put yourself out there Girls shouldn't be a focus for you now at all, you need to step on your path and live up to your purpose. Btw. No one gave you a chance (I pre…
/r/seduction31/10/17 11:47 AM
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Bro, you could've lost it to her already. Don't take too long as she might bail on you. I've had to initiate every time Ofcourse you had to, you're a fucking man, it's like 1 in 100 girls make the first move (talking the normal good looking girls) I know you might be nervous, but really sex is fucking awesome and I am pretty sure you'll enjoy it. You don't have to worry about anything, awkward shit happens all the time and noone will judge you :)
/r/seduction06/06/16 01:20 AM
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You need to read all you wrote here. Just "I'm undesirable" alone speaks a thousand words You need to change yourself for yourself, to make yourself feel great, desirable and awesome Look into self improvement and change your mindset. People recommended books to you, No More Mr. Nice Guy is a must for you, Models should be quite helpful too. From what I've read in the comments, I'd say you did not really try "literally EVERYTHING" to improve yourself, it rather seems like you did very little. So…
/r/seduction06/06/16 01:08 AM
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Flirty comments here and there? Give me some examples man Compliments.. yeaah, idk about that, really depends if you are setting the frame as a friendly compliment or a compliment that makes obvious what your intentions are. I'd stay away from compliments as a whole anyways, I almost never compliment girls and I wouldn't change it. Girls are used to being complimented, but it's mostly suckups who compliment honestly.
/r/seduction06/06/16 12:56 AM
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Didn't notice I was replying to a comment and not pm on mobile.. shit
/r/seduction11/01/16 04:12 AM
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Have you read No More Mr. Nice Guy ? I read it like 2 months ago and I think it might help you with this 'issue'
/r/seduction10/01/16 10:10 PM
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Get more female friends
/r/seduction10/01/16 10:05 PM
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Yeah def in for the wa group
/r/seduction10/01/16 10:04 PM
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So, what do you want? What is your goal with this girl? F-close? What is your goal for the date? K-close? Alright. Do you feel like only kissing her or do you wanna fuck her? Do what you want. Be assertive, be dominant, be a man. Take the lead and make it a fun date. If you want to f-close her, escalate fast, nothing wrong about it, take her to your place after and don't be scared to do what you really want
/r/seduction23/12/15 12:32 AM
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To add to this. Once you will feel less socially awkward and you will be fine socializing atleast with other men, try practicing pickup. It should be better this way, as trying to learn to pick up women first and straight away before ironing out your flaws might end in you hurting yourself and setting you almost back where you began.
/r/seduction23/12/15 12:10 AM
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Read the sidebar Read The Game by Neil Strauss Read No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover Read Models by Mark Manson In the meantime, hit a gym regularly and take care of your looks, find friends - at school/get a part time job and make friends there(get both male and female friends, but be a man and act as one - No More Mr. Nice Guy should help a ton) Focus on yourself first and not on girls primarily, they will come when you will get better (personal experience). Invest time into hobbies. Spea…
/r/seduction23/12/15 12:01 AM
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Then stop caring about shit and work on yourself, workout, enjoy some hobbies, have fun with friends. That creates value and value equals attraction
/r/seduction16/12/15 09:18 PM
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Would you happen to have a link to Palmistry? I can't find it anywhere
/r/seduction04/11/15 12:56 AM
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Put yourself on a pedestal. Get hobbies, try new things, start lifting. Seriously, hitting the gym helps your confidence, makes you look better and is a great way to focus on yourself
/r/seduction04/11/15 12:05 AM
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Say hi and ask what she's studying or whatever and continue from there, there's tons of material on game and advice on this sub alone and this question is horribly redundant
/r/seduction04/11/15 12:01 AM
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I've got 3 almost completed field reports on my desktop, never got around finishing them and posting. I just feel the seduction communitx changed so much in the last year or maybe it's me who changed. If you are interested, I will definitely post them sometime in coming days
/r/seduction23/10/15 12:52 AM
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You say that at no point were you consciously "gaming"... but this whole thing is basically a field report. You realizing you are in control, push pull, signs of interests, you named it yourself. I don't think there's anything bad about "gaming" and admitting to it, you're not a weirdo and it's the thing this subreddit is about.
/r/seduction15/10/15 08:47 AM
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Take it this way, you embarassed yourself and are still here, so good job, it's not the end of the world, now try it again with a different girl today.
/r/seduction06/10/15 06:30 AM
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What if concentrating on yourself includes going out with people?
/r/seduction16/09/15 03:54 PM
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Great post, seddit mostly says to stay away from chatting, messaging etc. but young generation has their phone at them all the time and you can make a connection through messaging too. It's just a bit harder and you should totally talk to the girl in person before, cause you might not know how she will react to something you might write jokingly.
/r/seduction16/09/15 03:42 PM
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Asking is stupid, shows insecurity a lot
/r/seduction03/09/15 06:25 AM
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I didn't mean it should be a problem. Rather that this girl seems open to making new friends and didn't mean anything more
/r/seduction14/07/15 03:15 PM
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RemindMe! 13 hours
/r/seduction13/07/15 06:02 AM
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A lot of girls give out their number just to be polite or make friends. You don't have many female friends, right?
/r/seduction13/07/15 06:01 AM
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Number 10. applies to friendship offers after a break up too
/r/seduction24/05/15 10:09 PM
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Thanks for this comment, it helps a ton as I am dealing with a break up right now after a 1yr relationship with this girl who I totally love.. Anyways, maybe you can give me some insight on this.. She told me she still has feelings for me and strong ones, but right now deals with a lot of shit at school and at her home and is just at a bad place in general, she also has some health problems on top of that. So she told me she wants to get herself sorted out and when she's happy with herself and i…
/r/seduction20/05/15 10:13 PM
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Yeah, definitely, give it a try, that won't hurt, maybe she'll make up her mind.
/r/seduction28/04/15 11:20 PM
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Hmm, I see. What do you expect from her? A date, eventual sex, relationship or something else? You pointed out some SOI's, but how was the overal mood? Did you hit on her or make your intentions obvious? A lot of girls give out numbers and then flake just like in your case. It would be much more fun, if you found someone who would care about you, like you do now about this girl ;)
/r/seduction28/04/15 11:09 PM
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You should stop caring so much about this one and go look for other girls.
/r/seduction28/04/15 11:02 PM
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You can't talk to her directly that you want to slip her a note?
/r/seduction10/01/15 02:16 AM
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Since you've never been in a relationship before? Before what? Too overwhelming.. Then just chill out and take it easy, don't take it too serious, you have so many tries with so many different girls
/r/seduction05/11/14 10:13 PM
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You answered yourself, because it's a one letter reply
/r/seduction26/07/14 01:37 AM
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Depends on where you're from
/r/seduction28/04/14 10:02 AM
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Thanks! I have heard about it before but never found it, I guess I can't use google well enough lol
/r/seduction20/04/14 05:05 PM
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Where can I find The Game?
/r/seduction20/04/14 11:09 AM
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For me, I got broken up 3-4 weeks ago and for me.. it was going out and smiling around and literally walking up to random girls and talking to them. Realizing how nice some of them seemed made it easier each day until I got a date and then another one and I am fine and feel much better now.
/r/seduction14/04/14 08:19 PM
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Yeah you're right, I have no problems talking with people on a daily basis, there's so much stuff, Christmas and New Year's coming up.. I don't know why I freak out so much..
/r/seduction20/12/13 01:52 PM
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Well I really wanted to ask the questions mainly, but there's the part about how it started etc. I already posted in /r/askseddit, but didn't get any answers. I read the sidebar multiple times before, I guess I'll remind myself again.
/r/seduction20/12/13 01:26 PM
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Then do that with legs over his lap and try to lead him too, look at him, start making out. He'll catch on... if not then I don't get that dude
/r/seduction19/12/13 03:54 PM
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Yeah she's different in some ways, but there's better girls that are worth spending time with and girls that will make you feel different too. I've been there too
/r/seduction17/12/13 05:05 PM
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Very nice read, good job man. Which tests did she pull on you?
/r/seduction12/12/13 02:16 AM
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Ah sure, I thought you meant a specific bet... yeah I can see this working, except I don't think I'll find a use for it as for some reason the girl always goes for it too when I make that eye contact.. well I guess I'll try this friday night, I've got nothing to lose anyways
/r/seduction11/12/13 05:21 PM
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Explain?
/r/seduction11/12/13 12:10 PM
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Please post to /r/relationship_advice ;) they will help you out
/r/seduction05/12/13 10:33 PM
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She has moved on = move on as well... You'll be much better off that way, I know from my own experience.
/r/seduction03/12/13 04:28 PM
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