| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 38 | Four and a half hours of mediation to get nowhere. | Rant | aintTrollingYou | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/24 10:50 PM |
| 8 | Being ghosted by my adult son after weeks of relative normalcy. Advice? | Need Support | aintTrollingYou | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/04/24 11:06 AM |
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| 11 | “Marriage saves money. You will be on a double income and get tax breaks. So many economic advantages.”My wife couldn't hold down a job for shit. Best jobs she was qualified for she got into labor disputes about the smallest things. My divorce isn't finalized but the result is that I am going to pay out the ass so that lazy ******* can keep her 'quality of life'. I'm in my 50's and I basically put my retirement mostly into the real estate we owned. Now she feels most of that money is owed to her because she inherited our first home from her father, even though it put us $290k in debt. She blew an… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/24 12:37 AM |
| 3 | Narcissism seems to be the new buzzword today. Did or are you dealing with that in your present or past divorce?If I'm being honest I think we both are narcissists but in different ways. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/07/24 06:25 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with been physically terrified of marrying my girlfriendJust be aware prenups are not iron clad, and might wind up costing money for lawyers to defend it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/06/24 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Four and a half hours of mediation to get nowhere.Good advice! I should have posted prior to it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/24 05:08 PM |
| 3 | Four and a half hours of mediation to get nowhere.Yes we do. The dates for mediation, pre-trial, and trial were thankfully set at the same time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/24 08:46 AM |
| 10 | Red flagsShe was working at a strip club and dabbling with crack cocaine. In case you're wondering, no I did not meet her at the strip club and no, I have never had anything to do with crack. I pulled her out of that shit, to my demise. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/05/24 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Is there a natural way out of the depression? Time? Gym?I'm using the exercise route. It's working for me, but I'm doing something five-six days a week, alternating between the gym and long bike rides. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/05/24 09:23 PM |
| 3 | overcoming depression without medicationAdd bicycling to your routine. Bonus if you have access to trails that get you close to nature. Helps maintain weight and your mental health. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/24 01:53 PM |
| 6 | Contempt hearing.Contempt bros unite! I have a contempt hearing myself today. Best of luck with yours, but IMHO your ex doesn't have a leg to stand on. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/04/24 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Being ghosted by my adult son after weeks of relative normalcy. Advice?Yeah, I've been very conscious of this, haven't blown up his phone or bitched about it via text. We had informal plans for him to help me with something on Tuesday. I probably wouldn't have noticed anything if it weren't for that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/04/24 06:26 PM |
| 3 | Being ghosted by my adult son after weeks of relative normalcy. Advice?Thanks. I’ll check out that sub. Hope your situation improves. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/04/24 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Being ghosted by my adult son after weeks of relative normalcy. Advice?I’m very sorry for your situation and I feel you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/04/24 01:00 PM |
| 13 | My Wife is literally dodging the Process Server.My wife served me papers by walking in with the process server after she had moved out for about six weeks. I don’t think there’s anything your wife can do about it, but I’m not a lawyer. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/02/24 04:23 PM |
| 6 | When to STOP trying to bring her back:1) Stop thinking about having her back. You are better than that. You deserve better than that, regardless of how she makes you feel. 2) Focus on yourself. Your happiness can't rely on what she does or doesn't do, that's bound to let you down. 3) Sounds like you two are amicable at the moment. Be prepared for that to stop suddenly. Not that it will, but it often does. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/02/24 01:09 PM |
| 3 | Single Divorced Men, how are you dealing with the void on Valentine's day?Am doing nothing related to this silly Hallmark holiday and having a great time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/02/24 01:48 AM |
| 4 | Happy ‘V’ day… 🫡Happy V Day to you too, brother. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/02/24 02:07 PM |
| 5 | Did your Wife start seeing a Therapist before she filed for Divorce?Oh, mine is similar but actually kinda worse: shit started when my STBX started antidepressants on recommendation from a “Life Coach” who turned her on to an online pharmacy that (in my unqualified opinion) really didn’t monitor her enough at the start. She was suppose to start therapy about a week after she sneered in my face that she doesn’t love me. It was a bizarre transition between her start and our end. This dumbass life coach is an old high school friend of hers who used to be a professi… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/02/24 07:43 PM |
| 5 | ConfessionSo you still think justice exists? | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/01/24 10:59 PM |
| 5 | Are there people who got to the other side of struggle and pain?It'll ebb and flow. You can't help that. You may feel past everything and then one day you see a crack in the sidewalk and it all floods back. And that's fine, and you'll be fine. To me it's a lot like a physical injury; time deadens the pain and over time it'll mostly heal but probably never be exactly the same. There are things you learn to live with, or without. I guess that's achieving maturity more than happiness but it's the same when you experience any great loss in your life. In the mean… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/24 02:24 PM |
| 15 | In case you are missing your ex-wife today...My STBX is a hoarder. She moved out Friday and I've spend the weekend moving the piles and stacks of near-worthless crap to rooms I can live without, then dusted, swept and mopped these areas for the first time in years. It's been so good for my mental health. So, thanks for checking, but no way am I missing that insane woman today! | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/01/24 07:04 PM |
| 3 | Did They Accuse You of Any of These?We're not there yet. I expect the accusation to be a part of a court order to remove me from the home because two days ago she storms into my office with her phone camera rolling say "Stay out of email! Stop cyberstalking me!" It's like she's flashing me and saying "don't look at my tits!" | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/01/24 12:48 PM |
| 3 | Grew an inchThe formula is losing weight. Just do that and you dick will look noticeably bigger. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/01/24 12:18 PM |
| 7 | Did They Accuse You of Any of These?Only thing on my bingo card you’re missing is accusations of cyberstalking because she left her gmail open a browser window? | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/01/24 03:02 AM |
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