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| 24 | I just realized that women are encouraged to apologize for wanting, well anything and I'm done GAFThis! A million times THIS!! I'm still kicking myself about one of my previous breakups. I had been asking for more from him/the relationship and decided to break it off when he was clearly not willing to meet my standards. But then my sorry a** started apologizing for causing him pain, when HE should have been apologizing for wasting my time and efforts... 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 03:23 PM |
| 5 | The ad I got on a video about domestic violence. On International Women’s Day!Nope, nope, nope. CRINGE CITY!! Just looking at the screenshot, his body language says it all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 10:56 PM |
| 66 | Disgusting Vday GiftsEw!! What have we come to, seriously. And you just KNOW that candle will be lit every single day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 05:52 PM |
| 3 | I'm obsessed with this song!! Not all attention is quality attentionThank you!! And yes, I'm keeping my 2 other jobs: waitress and part time model 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 07:04 PM |
| 2 | I'm obsessed with this song!! Not all attention is quality attentionSame here. I love the artists they feature and the super clean aesthetics 👌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 07:02 PM |
| 166 | Ladies of Reddit, what’s the sexiest thing an overweight gamer in his 30s can do to make you have sex with himUgh...this society screwed us up so much that we actually sacrifice our wellbeing as to not seem "shallow" or offend scrotes. I'm so thankful I found FDS!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 06:25 PM |
| 200 | Ladies of Reddit, what’s the sexiest thing an overweight gamer in his 30s can do to make you have sex with himI was still in my nice, considerate phase, so I stayed a reasonable time then ended the date. But I ran out like a bat out of hell lol. And when he texted for the next date, I politely declined. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 05:27 PM |
| 1089 | Ladies of Reddit, what’s the sexiest thing an overweight gamer in his 30s can do to make you have sex with himShow up with unwashed hair and yellow plaque-y teeth. Take me on a "date" to a mall's food court and actually NOT offer to get me anything. Instead, proceed to tell me all about his ex girlfriend who still lives with him and brings her dates home for sexy times. This is a true story and even my old pickmeisha self is cringing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 05:11 PM |
| 3 | Soundtrack of your love life 👑💕Suddenly I See by KT Tunstall | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 04:08 PM |
| 11 | Lovely bit of standard shaming by TikTok Pickminique 🙄This 👆🏼!!! I also think that they hyper focus on their perceived physical shortcoming (ha!) to avoid having to do any sort of self-reflection. It's so much easier for them blame women who rejected them because they are "Shallow" than actually having to work on bettering themselves... I honestly have never rejected any man based on the fact that they were my height or slightly shorter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 10:40 PM |
| 11 | Lovely bit of standard shaming by TikTok Pickminique 🙄Oh lord! Not another one...crawling out of the cool girl void. The funniest thing about this video is that she unintentionally made super valid FDS arguments. Like...who wants to date someone who sleeps on the floor? Or refuses to get therapy? or loves Tarantino movies (big red flag imo)? Or has an STD?!? Wut? Sigh...If only she could really listen to herself 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 10:30 PM |
| 35 | ' gOlD DigGeR 'How has she not dumped his a$$ is beyond me. He's broke, manipulative and withholds affection. Why is she still holding on? Imo, any able bodied man who begs for money instead of work for it is pathetic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 04:10 PM |
| 81 | Ladies, now the war is really on. We have came this far now. One down, many more to go!The fact that some people are being billed for that on a monthly basis and are ok with having it appear on their bank statements is just... 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 05:09 AM |
| 6 | For every caveman, there is at least one pickmeisha who thinks he is a king.I am so sorry you had to witness that!! It must have been disheartening! I think animal abuse is one of the lowest, most vile human and especially male behaviors. It takes a special kind of depravity to pick on defenseless creatures like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 03:55 AM |
| 12 | Mini rant about needing to let strange men into my placeThis is such a good idea and I would hire you in a heartbeat!! I can only imagine how many more women would. I understand that it would not be easy in a male dominated field (not to mention the male clientele) but I'm pretty sure that with a good Marketing strategy you would have great success. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 03:38 AM |
| 3 | Had a hard week so i made a charcuterie board with champagne, a lavender candle and a vase full of fresh flowers. Don't wait for a guy to treat you right when you can skip men and do that for yourself.I love dates!! They're very sweet, chewy treats. Very nutritious too. As someone mentioned, try to get organic if possible. And I would also recommend Medjool date. They's a little more expensive but sooo worth it. In my country, we usually enjoy them plain or stuffed with walnuts, cashews or roasted almond. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 04:00 AM |
| 48 | When men tell on themselvesOne of the most spot on comments: "Men’s rights = why are women not doing what we want" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 07:30 PM |
| 26 | Apparently Reddit does not think that ADVOCATING CHILD MURDER violates their Terms of Service. This is from our "satire" sub (basically just a bunch of incels pretending to be us and saying outrageous shit to try and get us banned)I took a look at a few posts. And it's fascinating how triggered and threatened they have to be to actually spend energy on a whole sub. Clearly obsessed 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 05:37 AM |
| -1 | I'm appalled by some of the comments on Jammies' latest post. If you want to participate here, you have to respect our community. If being expected to follow subreddit rules makes you "feel unwelcome", then leave.Not trying to minimize the trauma and anger that we all carry from our past, but I respectfully disagree with your comment. This sub's core mission is to help us move forward. And yes we need to unload all the baggage, but how wallowing in the past helpful to other FDSers? In my eyes, we need to come here ready to apply the FDS principles, and with the attitude of doing the work on our own, namely dealing with the grief and trauma. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 10:48 AM |
| 36 | Distancing myself from my boyfriend. How to keep that strength when you love him?Sis, leave that man! You can do it! I know that you love him, but ask yourself, does he really love you? He knows he makes you sad and abuses you (yes, the guilt and pressure is abuse) yet he continues to treat you the same way. That's not love. Please put yourself first! I promise that once you build the life you deserve, the loneliness doesn't hit so hard as being alone in a relationship. Sending you lots of light and positive thoughts 💓 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 10:00 AM |
| -52 | Solid dating advice from seniors 👌. June is a mood 😄I know!!! And Aileen is older than him. Guess the wall doesn't even apply to women in their 90s 💪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 03:16 AM |
| 59 | yeah, accurate. All I need is a coven.Imagine a coven of all the characters that are misunderstood or vilified just because they're different and not pickmes, meekly accepting their fates? Ursula, maleficient, the wicked witch of the West... I would grab my pointiest hat and my darkest lipstick and join tomorrow 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 02:39 AM |
| 30 | I'm almost entirely certain a man intentionally waited for me near my car at work.Sis, you're not gullible. It's years and years of society's conditioning that pushes us to be polite to others. And when someone takes you by surprise it's unfortunately a knee jerk reaction. I would recommend changing up your routine a bit, leave at slightly different times everyday, walk to your car with a trusted (female) colleague, and park in different spots. And always be hyper vigilant when you're out and about. I know it SUCKS that you'd have to alter your routine, but that's what we nee… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 04:17 AM |
| 23 | I'm so LuCkY ! My bf didn't leave me after I had his child ! The bar is in hell ! I feel sry for these young women .. ! Father leaving kids and mother is so common that she feels lucky ! ✋🙂We have a saying where I come from: "A cat never leaves a wedding kitchen" From my standpoint, he didn't leave because she probably does everything for the baby and whatever she doesn't do is picked up by her and/or his parents. So why would the guy leave? He's got the best deal out of this: no actual responsabilities, all the glory and a gf so grateful she probably gives him sex anytime he wants and lets him play video games/hang out with the boys to his heart's content. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 06:40 PM |
| 3 | Wouldn’t surprised if this was the futureI feel this should be a real thing!! Like ambulance chasers, there should be lawyers chasing women's moving trucks and offering to take their case to court 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 04:38 AM |
| 26 | Stumbled upon this nugget while on OLD. Posted by a guy who looks like a clogged shower drain 😒 The scrodacity!By being very hairy and looking scummy 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 01:18 AM |
| 33 | Stumbled upon this nugget while on OLD. Posted by a guy who looks like a clogged shower drain 😒 The scrodacity!Plus the prayer beads necklace 🙅♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 10:52 PM |
| 28 | Stumbled upon this nugget while on OLD. Posted by a guy who looks like a clogged shower drain 😒 The scrodacity!Haha!! Nope! 100% accurate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 10:51 PM |
| 15 | Stumbled upon this nugget while on OLD. Posted by a guy who looks like a clogged shower drain 😒 The scrodacity!Preach 🙌 !! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 10:44 PM |
| 27 | Stumbled upon this nugget while on OLD. Posted by a guy who looks like a clogged shower drain 😒 The scrodacity!Seriously!! I shudder at that thought 😖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 10:35 PM |
| 3 | Remove yourself from the concept of men*Ecological pov Just imagine if we were only 3.5 billion on earth!!! The planet will breathe 🌍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 02:48 PM |
| 2 | Famous romanian singer Dani Mocanu sentenced to 6 months in prison for inciting hate against women.Hmm...Why is that "art" never about elevating women or just other people in general? Reaaally wondering 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 03:14 AM |
| 60 | Don’t feed the trolls.Pure gold!!! 👑😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 11:12 PM |
| 44 | *Cries in spinster.*💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 08:55 PM |
| 253 | *Cries in spinster.*I know! Or having kids with some jerk shudder | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 08:10 PM |
| 25 | Stealthing Conviction Update: Sentenced to 3 years, 9 months!This makes me so happy!!! 🎉 Depraved scrote put his health, future and his family's financial wellbeing in jeopardy. And for what? To get his d*ck wet! Not to mention blatant disregard of the sex worker as well! He is getting what he deserves. And deportation at the end of his sentence is the cherry on the sundae 👌 Zero tolerance! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 06:58 PM |
| 5 | Progress never regresssA pros and cons list is actually a great idea! It can help get some clarity in the breakup fog. Thank you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 02:34 AM |
| 9 | Progress never regresssYes queen!! 💪 Do you mind sharing what you do to get over him that quick? I find that feelings would linger on a while, even if the guy was a total lvm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 02:15 AM |
| 187 | Scrote wants to divorce his wife that recently gave birth to their child because he's no longer in love and he's mad that they haven't had sex in FOUR months (she just have birth!). Now he's upset that his family and friends see him as selfish (not the fact that he's created a single parent home).It makes me so mad that he's saying "she just had a baby" not our baby, not our child. As if she's just an acquaintance or something. I hope for her and her baby's sake that he will not stick around and co-parent. Useless piece of trash! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 08:20 PM |
| 8 | Weird Red Flags?I used to date someone who could never make up his mind on where and what to order. At first I found it endearing, but realized it was a sign of a deeper issue with avoidance and non-commitment. We had a frustratingly lukewarm relationship that went nowhere. It's a weird one, I know 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 09:13 PM |
| 25 | Weird Red Flags?Totally agree! But when the alerts are on and they check their phone as soon as it rings, it's suspish' | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 08:14 PM |
| 15 | Weird Red Flags?One of my exes would always have his phone either face down or in his pocket at all times (eg: even when cuddling on the couch) And it was not a respect thing either, notifications would be on and he would check it as soon as it pinged. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 08:12 PM |
| 173 | Weird Red Flags?Not wanting to use moisturizer, sunscreen or chapstick because "it's for women" Taking forever to decide what to eat Putting cell phone face down | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 06:00 PM |
| 26 | Three German Men Market a Hot Pink Glove to Dispose of Period Products Like a Doggy Poo BagYuck! I know!! Yet, we're the ones that need to use gloves... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 03:26 PM |
| 81 | Three German Men Market a Hot Pink Glove to Dispose of Period Products Like a Doggy Poo Bag"Smells unpleasant"??! Oh Yeah? What about the stench after your daily, hour-long poop fest, Brian? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 02:44 PM |
| 64 | This is the type of obtuse mentality that I'm referring to when I say "men are committed to misunderstanding us"Why is that not surprising? 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 07:40 PM |
| 61 | This is the type of obtuse mentality that I'm referring to when I say "men are committed to misunderstanding us"Yeeesh! He's so vulgar and creepy. That's the "king" we're supposed to go to for advice? I'm stopping myself from going into a rabbit hole with this one lol. Not worth it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 07:39 PM |
| 189 | This is the type of obtuse mentality that I'm referring to when I say "men are committed to misunderstanding us"Just googled Kevin Samuels. He looks sketchy AF!! Like a pimp in a fancy suit... That's a no for me. I'd rather stay "bitter" and lonely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 06:48 PM |
| 115 | Hint; this is done on purpose. It's not that men/grown boys can't aim, it's an assertion of dominance over women.Sorry but that's on her and her husband. Having teenagers with this poor of a hygiene means they weren't raised properly. You reap what you sow 🤷♀️ It's too late now, but my advice to her would be to have a separate, out of bounds, bathroom (if possible) just for her and never clean theirs. Let them pee in filth... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 04:22 PM |
| 66 | Found this on a relationship sub. Women think this kind of behaviour is endearing ?! Nah sis 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ makes me wonder what else he thinks gets done by magic. Some guy commented and argued with me about how men do more domestic labour lmao I can’t handle this sub. I never want to be married.The part that annoys me is her cooking and him hovering around "BS'ing" and drinking a beer. Dude you got 2 hands and admittedly free time, can't you chop a damn onion? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 12:42 PM |
| 195 | Dateline is making me lose faith in ALL menIt doesn't surprise me that they couldn't find any. And for some reason, it also annoys me that they were actively searching for one. An unsuccessful attempt to demonstrate "Women too" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 05:05 PM |
| 29 | Dateline is making me lose faith in ALL menDateline NBC | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 04:51 PM |
| 86 | LVM makes creepy, objectifying comment about a woman athlete. HVM tells him why that's creepy and grossNow imagine if the commenter was a woman... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Single ladies in our twenties are truly the independent women of societyThis!!!! 👆 The struggles of being single and the value of independence don't magically vanish in our 30s and beyond. IMO we generally just have a bit more resilience to face those challenges. I can be wrong but I sometimes feel like these types of posts actually reinforce that notion of "wall" that FDS is striving to break down... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 03:47 PM |
| 15 | Apparently women are ruining good men. What in the pick me is this?Puh-lease! Go back to your seat, girl 😒 Guess who else is flipping exhausted...those women who carry the emotional burden, the physical labor of keeping a house, raising children while often working outside the home. And to top it off, they have to deal with whiny men who complain that "you're never happy no matter how hard I try" or "just tell me what I need to do and I'll do it" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 03:45 AM |
| 1 | And the award for best caption goes to...👏 (translation in the comments)Ad: "You're a feminist. Become a police officer" Caption: "You're a goldfish. Get a cat" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 04:14 AM |
| 106 | I went on a walk today and a man spit in my faceI am so sorry you had to go through that! It is absolutely not silly! You have every right to be angry. You were violated and that is NOT ok!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 08:07 PM |
| 34 | The Every Single Gen-Z & Millenial Man Starter PackSeriously!!! All I did was ask what he named the family of raccoons that lived in his kitchen 😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 09:58 PM |
| 51 | Ditch the LVM and get the Doctorate: A Cautionary Tale.Congratulations!!! On your thesis and on dumping the dead weight! 👑💪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 05:30 PM |
| 143 | The Every Single Gen-Z & Millenial Man Starter PackI remember how shocked I was the first time I went to an ex's place. This guy was in his 30's and 100% of his meals were from take out. So he never used his kitchen. It had only 2 things: Bags and bags of recyclables that he never took out. They took over half the kitchen space 1 box of cereal He got mad when I teased him lightly about it. And pickme me didn't see that as a red flag *smh * | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 05:26 PM |
| 103 | Apparently the manosphere thinks that women are "sexually harassing" men by wearing makeup and revealing clothes. Female beauty is seen as aggression against men, which in their mind justifies male violence against women. I wonder if the Atlanta shooter spent any time on Reddit incel forums 🤔This has nothing to do with how we dress!!! I think that men are simply threatened by our presence in public spaces. They still operate with their caveman brains. And to them we should be chained to a kitchen stove somewhere. I always think back to this experiment as an example (Video Here). Even covered from head to toe, the actor continues to be harassed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Found this gem on IG. Caption of the year 😂!! (Translation in the comments)Ad: "You're a feminist. Become a police officer" Caption: "You're a goldfish. Get a cat" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 03:46 PM |
| 196 | This has to be a joke...if it’s not this is reaching new levels of pick me status.That was just perfect!!! Chef's kiss 👌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 10:39 PM |
| 61 | To hear what LV scrotes think of women and how they try to manipulate us, watch some "comedy." 100% he's not kidding. 50 years old, never been married, and this is how he treats women. High standards will save your life.And probably reeks of coffee breath and or whiskey 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 07:15 PM |
| 34 | To hear what LV scrotes think of women and how they try to manipulate us, watch some "comedy." 100% he's not kidding. 50 years old, never been married, and this is how he treats women. High standards will save your life."Not the freshest selection..." oh boy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 07:14 PM |
| 13 | Discussion about physical & mental health intersecting with misogynyGreat thread!!! I'm a visible minority, but thankfully have never noticed any negative treatment based on that or faced challenges other people have with the medical community due to their ethnic background. I am however, a fat woman. I've always been fat. Part of it is genetic, big bones running in the family... And part of it is mental health issues that sometimes prevent me from caring for myself properly and consistently. BUT overall despite my size, I have no health issues whatsoever (stami… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 05:34 PM |
| 12 | Atlanta Shooting Updates: Suspect Says Was Motivated By Sex Addiction And Not RacismAnd the cherry on this clusterf**k of a sundae is the frickin' spokesmen for the sheriff's office who goes: "Yesterday was a really bad day for him and this is what he did". Oh and of course, since he's white, he's not going to be called a terrorist... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 03:54 AM |
| 111 | A man who only values you for your fertility and beauty is no HVM: never give up studying, advancing your career or your financial security for a manLol Seriously!!! ...or she should become a witch. A much better alternative imo 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 02:55 PM |
| 71 | That’s a lot of words for “on call booty”I'm sorry but this makes me want to flip a table or something! Another trigger for me when I used to be on OLD apps was "Ethical non-Monogamy" 🤢 what's ethical about that?!?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 02:44 PM |
| 294 | A man who only values you for your fertility and beauty is no HVM: never give up studying, advancing your career or your financial security for a manAnd when she turns 50+ and can no longer offer fertility? Then what? What happens to that commitment? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 01:56 PM |
| 31 | TV shows with strong woman energy?I love "Miss Fischer's Murder Mysteries". It's delightful and the main protagonist is a badass! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 01:53 PM |
| 154 | You’re single!"Stupid Single" 😄 This should be a flair!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 03:23 AM |
| 6 | Hell Hath No Fury Like a Man Rejected 🙅🏻♀️Thank you 💗 And oh absolutely!! I was lucky (ha!) that my dad is well known in our city, otherwise that cop would not have bothered to even move. Or he would have brushed it off, because you know, boys will be boys... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 03:11 AM |
| 3 | Hell Hath No Fury Like a Man Rejected 🙅🏻♀️Thank you!! And see? Even when it's men who perpetrate horrible acts, we're the ones saying sorry to each other 💗 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 03:07 AM |
| 11 | Hell Hath No Fury Like a Man Rejected 🙅🏻♀️Typical! Marry a good and "pure" woman, with little to no experience, then blame her for a lackluster sex life...🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 03:00 AM |
| 36 | Hell Hath No Fury Like a Man Rejected 🙅🏻♀️Ugh!! "Scum of the earth" come to mind when I look at his face!! It just sickens me to know that we're all subjected to so much hatred and violence because we say no. How dare we!!! And this actually reminds me of something I went through as a teenager...so story time (sorry a bit long 😅) I was 15/16. Near my high school there was this coffee shop that was exclusively frequented by men (I come from a MENA country where misogyny/patriarchy is living its best life). It was also a known drug dealer… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 10:18 PM |
| 198 | Guess I'm Strange AF ThenEspecially since those SAME men wouldn't date a woman with a mental illness (or worse they would take advantage of it) AND they wouldn't date a woman who's chubby or has no boobs, or has a low sex drive and the list goes ooooon... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 02:15 AM |
| 15 | I'm gonna buy a house, and I need bffs with cats and dogsI mean...living in a nice house with your besties + a lovely snarky older woman, eating cheesecake and having fun adventures sounds like a dream! Where do I sign up? 🤩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 01:57 AM |
| 90 | I'm gonna buy a house, and I need bffs with cats and dogsI've been on a Golden Girls binge lately and I know it's fictional, but I would 500% live that way. In a heartbeat!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 08:47 PM |
| 30 | I don't know whether to laugh or cringeUgh! He's pathetic, knows it and still doesn't seem to care. One advice... Block his ass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 05:43 AM |
| 106 | Chinese dad makes beautiful dresses for daughter; the dad is adorable, the daughter is adorable, and the dresses are adorable! From the South China Morning Post YouTube channelYess! And I love how he worked on himself to get over his fear of people's judgements, because his daughter is more important. Not to mention that he's great at it!! He's got a keen eye for design! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 06:08 PM |
| 131 | Chinese dad makes beautiful dresses for daughter; the dad is adorable, the daughter is adorable, and the dresses are adorable! From the South China Morning Post YouTube channelThis is so precious!! 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 05:59 PM |
| 137 | Why are men?😑 We need a pit, a very large and very deep pit. And then we need to throw them all in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 05:26 PM |
| 66 | Male Pandering At Its Finest.. Embarrassing.Lol! Sure cuz you'll keep that ass forever. Once it turns into play-doh, or a bouncier one comes along, who's going to hold it for you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 05:22 PM |
| 6 | Twirling for the patriarchy. More in commentsSo basically: Wife Mother - to him and their children Maid Cook and waitress Personal assistant/errand girl Financial planner Psychoanalyst Builder Employee Sex doll - and wtf is: "I know he won't be satisfied" She's selling the dream!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 06:19 PM |
| 70 | From The "Book Of Negs" (Negging). This Is What Seduction/Red Pill/Pick-Up Artists Have Been Teaching Males To Do To UsThose are not negs imo, those are downright insults. I don't know if they ever work on women or if the scrotes are just that delusional! Seduction...puh-lease!! 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 06:23 PM |
| 7 | The road to self-love is sometimes painful and arduous but today I'm celebrating myself with a birthstone ring!! We are worth it 👑That's mainly why I chose this one 😍 So I can have a constant reminder in front of me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 09:07 PM |
| 9 | The road to self-love is sometimes painful and arduous but today I'm celebrating myself with a birthstone ring!! We are worth it 👑Not at all!! I got it from Moon Magic. They have beautiful and surprisingly affordable pieces. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 09:05 PM |
| 78 | What do you do to show yourself extra love and care without spending money?Great thread!! Over the last few weeks I've been scheduling a mandatory self-care night, usually on Thursdays. I even put it down on my calendar. This is my routine: Vacuum and tidy up. A clean place works wonders for my mind Take a long and very hot shower with a podcast in the background. Shampoo, hair mask, deep face and body exfoliation etc...then I moisturize Make a quick dinner Make a big pot of tea and bust out my fancy looking tea cup Light a candle Plonk myself down on the couch under a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 01:02 AM |
| 17 | Just a heads up, this is MENA men and their way of thinking. Theyll string a girl along for 4 years, sleep with her countless times, and then once hes had enough using her as a cum rag he'll bring home a 'virgin' wife to marry, and if he finds out said wife isn't a virgin all hell breaks looseYeah - same here. Where I'm from, (first-time) brides are required to produce a "virginity certificate" before getting married. Despicable!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 10:16 PM |
| 2 | This isn't "being the asshole," it's a power move!What makes me the saddest for her is that she could have finished college and become a game developer, which seemed to be something she wanted to be. Instead she got stuck with this sorry excuse of a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 04:56 AM |
| 2 | You ladies have literary/cinematic women who are prime examples of this sub?Phryne Fisher (Miss Fisher Murder Mysteries) and Jessica Fletcher (Murder She Wrote). Both badasses, both living fabulous lives and doing whatever they darn well please! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 04:49 AM |
| 13 | "Listen Jeremy...""Have a seat and relax" 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 06:06 AM |
| 8 | As a woman you're always either too young or too old for things, because the perfect age is when you're a manPREACH!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 07:10 PM |
| 50 | Just a short list of demands from a cross-eyed man. Must be seXualLy oPeN.That last part about the brothers is disturbing. "Seeking a goddess with a sprinkle of incest"...Yuck! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 05:43 AM |
| 3 | I know this is a joke, but these indie boys are hard to resist. I’m leveling up though, slowly but surely 😭I can smell those shoes through the screen 😷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 06:13 PM |
| 32 | Another Kinkmeisha abused by her “amazing”🙄 boyfriend.And this is how we end up watching a true crime show about her! Smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 04:22 PM |
| 22 | Not sure how to respond to this...You said it yourself, he's 23 and shouldn't be taught how to treat a woman he's interested in or in the least ask her out for a 1st date. Sounds like this guy is breadcrumbing you and I would advise to block and move on! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 06:47 AM |
| 42 | Why are men so willing to let a great woman go and not make any effort? I can’t wrap my head around it.One of the reasons imo is - they think that if they were able to get a great woman, then surely there must more women like that for them out there, so when the "novelty" wears off in their delusional minds, they have to seek out another "model". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 11:08 AM |
| 3 | noooooooo take me back :(I love the naked parade! Sweet sweet revenge 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 04:04 AM |
| 227 | 6+ years with a man and no ring?A tiny part of me was hoping for a happy ending with a "1 day single" or something like that. This is just sad! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 09:21 PM |
| 3 | Kso, when are we holding men accountable?Smh! This is what I call the "Jolene" plea. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 06:26 PM |
| 26 | Next time LVM cries and begs forgiveness after you caught him cheating remember this video, he's not sorry, just sad he gets caught and may lose you and the other girlTHANK YOU for this gem!! From the "Oh lord, oh lord..." to the "I can't feel my hands..." and the sobbing like toddlers. This had me crying 🤣🤣 At 00.44 and 01.09 are my favorite!! I know I shouldn't laugh at people's misery, but they brought it upon themselves and so I don't feel bad one bit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 09:01 PM |
| 9 | 34 year old scum tortures, rapes and forces his 21 year old GF to eat her her own vomit/feces over 23 days “I've pummelled her so hard… she can't talk anymore," Crilley reportedly bragged to a friend”.Pure evil!! This guy needs to have the same thing done to him, be allowed to recover and go through it all over again. I am losing my faith in humanity more and more every day... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 01:56 AM |
| 11 | Thoughts?This is so sweet!! 💗 I gotta admit, it also makes me a bit sad. With the current state of things, relationships like these are very rare. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 11:45 PM |
| 35 | How is a Pickmeisha made?Giiiirl! Ditto! There's a saying in my (middle eastern-ish) country that goes something like: "A man should only be criticized for his wallet." And that infuriates the s*** out of me!! Ok so basically women have to be close to perfect to be eligible. But as long as he is able to provide financially, his highness gets to pick and choose. 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 05:07 PM |
| 51 | How is a Pickmeisha made?For me it was: Demeaning, overly critical narc mother, Emotionally absent father, "Unconventional" body type (ie. Fat) that led to bullying and disdain from others, Low self esteem and no sense of self worth. This was the perfect recipe to get a people pleaser that would chase the elusive male attention and validation I never got growing up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Guy I knew for 2 weeks and slept with 8 years ago has msg’d me until 2016 (and I ignored him for the most part). 4 years later, He’s back. He’s now married, has a son and has suddenly “thought of me”.She's baaaack 😁 But seriously, what a loser. Can't take a hint!?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Nostalgic older songs that you realize are super pick me or LVMBrandy & Monica - The boy is mine I used to loooove this song and still do. But from an FDS point of view? Super pickme! You both know that the boy (not man!) is cheating on you so you fight over him and bring each other down instead of leaving his a**. The music video kinda offered some redemption in the end, but still... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 09:49 PM |
| 2 | RESOURCES! How to go about surviving the Coronavirus self-isolation period! Do it like a Pro!Thank you! Very appreciated! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 04:28 AM |
| 7 | Have a laugh, ladies: When an internet challenge is simply men doing what we women do everydaySuper funny!! The "That was unpleasant...but smooooth" killed me 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 10:23 PM |
| 3 | Ladies! It's rough out there, that's for sure. But I know y'all got this. So, what projects/hobbies are you working on?Of course! Check your DMs in a few 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 04:47 PM |
| 40 | Ladies! It's rough out there, that's for sure. But I know y'all got this. So, what projects/hobbies are you working on?Go ladies 🎉🎉 ! Let's make confinement our b****! Currently working on: Updating my resume and professional profile, to start job hunting once the chaos is over Self-care: physical and mental Taking a udemy course on emotional intelligence Finding quick at-home workouts Practicing new makeup looks. Goal: 1 new look every day Getting back on the Keto wagon. Can't be tempted if I can't go out 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 01:57 AM |
| 59 | For those men who are 35+ and say ‘i’M nOt lOoKiNG 4 aNYtHINg sERIoUS’ my dude you’re half way to being elderly lmao like get it together Michael. Stop deluding yourselves into thinking you’re a spring chicken, you’re not!"Get it together Michael" 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 01:49 AM |
| 34 | Who are some of the HVM in your life?I would say none right now. My father passed a few years ago. And even though he was a HVM for me, he definitely had some areas of improvement, especially where it came to his and my mother's relationship. The guy I'm seeing right now is still being vetted, so I can't say for sure. My male friends are fine, but don't fit that either. This is going to sound sad 😂 but the only consistent HVM in my life right now is my cat. He's always waiting for me when I get home. He respects and (especially) en… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 03:48 PM |
| 147 | It's not getting better, ladies.Suppose she loses weight now. They get married, she's a thin wife. He's happy. What will happen when she gets pregnant and puts on baby weight? She's going to go through the same crap again. Also, he's generous for accepting her as minority?? What a racist prick!!! Girl, drop the dead weight = HIM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 03:48 PM |
| 24 | Best way to spend time being quarantined?Catching up on reading Decluttering your closet, cosmetics, workspace... incidentally, this is a great opportunity to set aside anything you'd like to donate to charity Meditating, yoga Pampering yourself: long baths/showers, face masks, diy mani-pedis... Updating your resume, LinkedIn profile Binge watching shows Every night I make trello list for what to do the next day and I find it helps me keep a semblance of sanity while locked up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 03:24 AM |
| 81 | At least she sees his true coloursOh his friends told him...must be legit medical advice! I made a gif for just this situation - Introducing the Blocka Lady | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 02:05 AM |
| 21 | Absolutely NotHell Naw! Doesn't this guy have a family or friends to take him in? Why would she be or feel responsible for him? While putting other people in her life at risk... Me thinks he probably asked others but got shot down, then he figured he'd try manipulating his way back with her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 03:34 AM |
| 89 | My mom having a beautiful FDS moment (english is her second language :P )Your mom is a queen 💗💗 We should all be on a diet from LVM!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 03:25 AM |
| 2 | Has your ex LVM ever admitted to deceiving you?I know! But I was too blind to see that and actually blamed myself for not being good enough for him. It's been 3 years and he used to still text me a couple times a year saying he missed me. He did that again this summer wanting to "catch up". When I pointed out that he had a gf, he said it wasn't the same than when he was with me. I blocked his a** pronto!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 12:32 AM |
| 35 | I feel ill after reading this, especially with all these children involved.I'd be curious to know more about this man. Anyone this dedicated to "carry on his genetic line" must be a genius or a superhuman, right? Right?? And not some kind of narcissistic moron with a God complex... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 10:41 PM |
| 3 | I'm not asking for too much. I'm asking the wrong motherf*****Girl, same!!! I was listening to it in my kitchen last night and it just clicked in my brain. Here's to all of us! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 03:58 PM |
| 36 | Scrote goes mad after wedding jokeThis needs to be a flair!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 04:05 PM |
| 29 | Has your ex LVM ever admitted to deceiving you?Sorry you had to go through that!! My coward ex broke up with me by phone after 4 months with the excuse that he was planning to permanently move to another country, then cut off all communication. A year later he reached out to apologize for the way he ended things. Obviously he was still living here and pickmeisha me accepted to see him. We ended up in bed because I (stupidly) still had feelings for him and had hope that we would rekindle the relationship 🤦🏻♀️ I became emotional after we hook… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 04:25 AM |
| 23 | FDS RESCUE MISSION😂 Lock me up and throw the key! ✊ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 06:14 PM |
| 73 | FDS RESCUE MISSIONIs it just me or it seems that she doesn't like casual sex after all? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 04:30 PM |
| 32 | Get you a guy whose compassion, care, commitment and sense of responsibility live up to this beautiful example from the animal queendom. 🦅 🦅This, right here is #goals ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 01:59 PM |
| 12 | Feeling apprehensive about the future (18F)I am in my mid 30's, have spent my teenage years + my whole adulthood up until now dating, and have had shitty luck in love. I would say it mostly stemmed from, amongst other things, low self esteem, not conforming to beauty standards, a pickmeisha mom that constantly berated me for not conforming to said standards etc... It's made me utterly miserable and I feel like I spent some of my most precious years seeking external validation from people in general and pining after LVM/Boys specifically.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 02:06 AM |
| 14 | Knew this 48(!) y/o was a f***boi.. one of his pics was at least 20 years old and the others in his underwear but he kept saying he was open to a relationship. 2nd time he gave me his # I messaged him saying good morning without mentioning who I was just to see what happened. This is what ensued...No joke, this made me want to barf. Sick, disgusting, entitled morons!! Who can't even form proper sentences 😡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 06:50 PM |
| 7 | Just because you look a certain way doesn't mean you deserve less!!!Oof! I needed this! Thank you 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 01:55 AM |
| 74 | Don’t ever breed anyone who will blatantly undermine your contributions like this or who thinks $1300 a month is a significant amount 🤡Make HIM stay at home for a week to take care of the house and family. Pretty sure he'll go back to his job running! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 06:52 PM |
| 54 | Best motivational FDS quotes?This one reminds me to keep leveling up - "Visualize your highest self and start showing up as her" And "Know your worth then add tax" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 04:20 AM |
| 66 | Post your list of physical no-go's in men (Straight up honest thread)Physical attributes Guys shorter than 5'8 / 5'7 Balding guys that insist on keeping their hair long and wear it in ratty ponytails Small, dainty looking hands with thin fingers Guys with full, feminine looking hips. Not their fault, but I can't! And this is more in the realm of grooming Long Nails. Maybe it's just me but these make a guy seem creepy AF! Especially when there's a visible effort to maintain them long Poor oral care - Yellow, plaqued teeth. Yuck! Dandruff BO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 07:08 PM |
| 1 | I still don’t feel good enoughJust scrolled down the sub's feed to come back and thank you for this suggestion 🙌 I binged a few episodes last night and I love how illuminating this podcast is, in a super relatable way! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 02:50 PM |
| 3 | Salvageable or not?I'm not dating anyone else. I had actually planned on taking a hiatus from dating and was about to close my OLD account when he reached out. And that is probably what I'll do if this doesn't lead anywhere. But I see your point, I need to work on conveying a "dating-other-people" energy to him. As for FWB, I for sure will not be up for it if he asked. Personally, it's always brought me confusion and heartache, which I can no longer tolerate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 11:26 PM |
| 23 | Should I confront the guy who spread lies about our "relationship"?Seconding this - I would do it just for the satisfaction of seeing him fumble for words. Then walk away with your head held high. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 02:31 AM |
| 38 | Delusional Men of Tinder 🙄 Had that he’s into meeting quality people and just because one has a PhD or is a pharmacist doesn’t mean he’s keen on only meeting people with high profile jobs. Funny how he talks about drama queens when he is the drama queen"Spontaneity is key", "Mental connection is more important"... So many of his words gave me serious déjà vu. I feel like I read all this bullshit before in eerily similar style. Do they all copy and paste from each other? BARF! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 01:11 AM |
| 13 | Playlist for HVW? Anyone know any songs that can help get you into the mindset of being a HVW?First song that came to my mind was from the badass Eartha Kitt - Champagne Taste. And her delivery? Ooof 😍👌 Another one I love is by Joy Crookes - Man's World | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 09:51 PM |
| 9 | A real conversation I have literally just hadWhat a piece of trash. But I'm here for you sass!! 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 03:18 AM |
| 35 | Turn what others might see as a weekness into your strength.I love her!! And resting bitch face ftw. I wonder if one can train themselves to get one... I have a resting nice face which I find makes me seem more trustworthy and approachable. But on the flip side I hate that sometimes it makes people think they can stomp all over me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 03:10 AM |
| 11 | Sis goes above and beyond to help this jobless LVM and is shocked when he flips out on her the one time she doesn’t baby him.Look at this bozo: https://twitter.com/PDX_GT/status/1214230143016689664?s=20 All hail the "King" 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 04:05 AM |
| 9 | If guys have anything, it’s unearned confidence. Ladies, build up your self esteem!Bwahahaa 😂😂😂 Yup, sounds about right! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 03:50 PM |
| 45 | If guys have anything, it’s unearned confidence. Ladies, build up your self esteem!Oh My!! * Fans self * Where can I get in touch with this fine specimen of a man? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 05:05 AM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 2nd 2020)I kept it light and positive by telling him that I had wanted to see him earlier in the day to enjoy the nice weather with him (which was the broad initial plan). And that I was happy to reschedule. The more I think about it, the more I suspect that maybe he had a plan in his head to try and get laid. I'm working tomorrow so it wouldn't have been as practical to do that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 06:07 PM |
| 30 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 2nd 2020)I hope it's ok to post this question here. Basically I've been on a few dates with this really great guy (or so it seems). He asked me out to go on a 4th date on Jan 1st, but didn't confirm a time and place. So today, he messages me around 2pm saying he'd had a bad hangover after a NYE'S party, and asks if I was still down to going out. I said I was not because It was too late to confirm any plans (I was also in pjs vacuuming my place). He then sends a sad emoji and says that he had already made… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 06:50 AM |
| 6 | How old are you and how long have you been FDS?That is absolutely a reference to Flight of the Conchords 😀 . Love that show and your alternate screen name choices. Happy New Year sis!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 10:44 PM |
| 16 | How old are you and how long have you been FDS?34 y.o. Been here a little over a month. Feeling my self value and backbone getting stronger every day thanks to this community! 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 09:18 PM |
| 34 | Does anyone else feel like FDS plays a significant role in your life at this point?Absolutely! I'm a newbie here but very thankful FDS exists. It's opening my eyes on so many things and teaching me to raise my standards. I'm dropping the fuckboy I've been sleeping with a few times a year and for whom I had developed feelings. We met 5 years ago and everytime we'd see each other, I'd try to be fun and welcoming and agreeable (blegh) in the hopes he'd see me as potentially more than just the girl he rings up when he's bored and needs a quick fuck + some validation. I'd drop "sub… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 11:58 PM |
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