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Bro, what phone are you rocking? Any new phone nowadays can take very respectable pictures… Unless you’re looking for staged, super high resolution, professional looking photos, I don’t see why would you spend two thousand dons on a dedicated camera.
/r/seduction24/07/26 10:43 PM
5

Yes, if you already know how to pick up girls, being in a band WILL help. If you don’t, it won’t magically teach you.
/r/seduction07/04/26 01:37 PM
3

He doesn’t know how to cook the situation up to that point. That’s the question on the post.
/r/seduction27/03/26 06:40 PM
7

Tell her you only have one bed, and the only way you can have her if it you two share it.
/r/seduction27/03/26 05:01 PM
11

I had heard of that phenomenon before. I suppose it’s not so uncommon. I wouldn’t say they’re “off the market” though. I’m sure they would all be game for the right guy, if pursued.
/r/seduction03/03/26 01:38 AM
1

You’re a fool if you believe being “vulnerable” actually turns women on. They can claim that as much as they want. Empirical evidence shows it turns them off, every time.
/r/seduction07/02/26 05:09 PM
6

What’s stopping you from attracting the women you want being young and well off? Whatever the answer to this question is, it would be the same reason why your plan would fail.
/r/seduction11/01/26 05:29 AM
9

It always dawns too late.
/r/seduction07/01/26 07:59 PM
102

Come on dude. That’s the kind of chance you’ll be kicking yourself about in a few years if you miss it.
/r/seduction07/01/26 04:35 PM
35

It’s a fine line to tread. On one hand, women strongly prefer guys who are coveted by other women, so if a set of girls are attracted to one guy, that triggers attraction from other girls to that same guy. On the other hand, “flirting with everyone” can easily come across as desperate, which is the strongest women-repellent known to man. I’d say it comes down to who is seeking attention from who. If girls go after the same guy, that makes him attractive to more girls. If one guy is going around …
/r/seduction13/08/25 05:06 PM
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Guys who naturally have attractive features.
/r/seduction13/08/25 04:54 PM
8

There’s no way you’re approaching 100 women in a single night. Even 50 is very unlikely.
/r/seduction15/07/25 02:24 AM
3

In the marginal chance that she does get pregnant, will you be willing to claim the child? Just wear the condom, dude.
/r/seduction25/06/25 01:19 AM
8

Take advantage of the other guy being a total loser with no game and just kiss her, dude. Don’t overthink it.
/r/seduction23/06/25 01:46 PM
2

Just date younger, less accomplished chicks.
/r/seduction21/06/25 10:47 PM
5

You’re probably less average than you realize.
/r/seduction21/06/25 07:22 PM
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Relatively easy to pull off if you’re super attractive and have a well crafted profile. Borderline impossible if you’re average.
/r/seduction21/06/25 02:11 PM
3

Literally anywhere so long as the setting is appropriate. A night out, for example, is a great occasion to be approaching girls because they're expecting to be approached at that time. Even at the gym might be an ok scenario if you weren't so forward with your intentions, which you give away the second you call them cute. Strike up a conversation, create tension while maintaining plausible deniability, and watch how they respond. Girls will make it easy for you if they are interested. They proba…
/r/seduction12/06/25 07:11 PM
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Every girl you approach hears the same spiel: "you're cute, what's your name?" It doesn't matter that you think it's harmless, it still is obviously a cold approach, and very quickly word might spread or others around you will notice it, and that's when you're gonna become the guy who approaches every girl at the gym. That is NOT a reputation you want.
/r/seduction12/06/25 06:42 PM
9

You should stop that immediately. It’s one thing to approach girls every night if you’re going out and it’s a different set of strangers each night. That’s not how it works at a gym though. Everyone knows pretty much everyone, especially if you’re going at the same time every day. Best case scenario, you’re gonna quickly get yourself an awful reputation. Worst case scenario, you could find yourself in a fist fight, banned from the gym, or even criminally charged for something.
/r/seduction12/06/25 06:09 PM
1

You make a good point, but the OP was planning a (high risk) multi phase approach.
/r/seduction17/05/25 04:42 PM
1

What happened at the end of the 5 years? Did you marry her?
/r/seduction17/05/25 04:39 PM
1

He didn’t tell me himself, it was my other uncle (his brother) who told me.
/r/seduction21/03/25 10:47 PM
5

One of my uncles banged every single lady in his dancing class. One of my cousins (not this uncle’s daughter) got engaged to a guy she met at her dancing class. I think this is a solid strategy for dating.
/r/seduction21/03/25 05:02 PM
1

Exactly. He bowed and still recovered no ground.
/r/seduction10/03/25 05:33 AM
7

Shouldn’t have apologized.
/r/seduction10/03/25 05:30 AM
23

Chicks are chicks. If a girl is berating you over that word then she wasn’t that into you in the first place.
/r/seduction10/03/25 05:27 AM
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Because that’s what this is.
/r/seduction06/03/25 04:04 PM
2

Do not date muslim women.
/r/seduction22/01/25 04:47 PM
2

Sure, and you’re just soooo good, you took 7+ days to even kiss this girl. Pure pick up skill.
/r/seduction20/08/24 03:02 PM
-5

Seems made up.
/r/seduction20/08/24 02:21 PM
2

No, my dude. I would just not wait 7 days to make a move on a girl who showed interest on day #0, nor would I second guess myself if I was already out on a date with the girl.
/r/seduction20/08/24 02:02 PM
0

This is the most unlikely, unconventional seduction strategy. I doubt any of it ever happened.
/r/seduction20/08/24 12:48 PM
4

Cooked.
/r/seduction26/07/24 08:56 PM
9

And what gym would that be? 🤣
/r/seduction25/07/24 02:23 PM
1

Seems to me like you’ve set up your routine entirely around picking up women, like that’s your ultimate goal and the most important thing in your life. That might be coming across in your interactions more than you realize. Impossible to know for sure without watching you approaching, but there’s a non-negligible chance that you me be giving off desperate vibes. I think you would benefit from stepping away from dating for a while.
/r/seduction16/07/24 05:58 PM
5

It shows.
/r/seduction20/06/24 06:16 AM
2

rap·port /raˈpôr/ noun a close and harmonious relationship in which the people or groups concerned understand each other's feelings or ideas and communicate well. "she was able to establish a good rapport with the children"
/r/seduction20/06/24 06:13 AM
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It's important to get the logistics right but you're getting too far ahead of yourself. Your biggest concern seems to be having sex, when it actually should be having a pleasant date. Sex is just a consequence of a successful date. If I were you I would take the girl to the spacious bar where it would be presumably easier to talk and build a connection with her, then see if I could make out with her somewhere. Only then, after she has responded positively to everything that's happened up to that…
/r/seduction20/06/24 05:43 AM
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Not necessarily initiate but they would be receptive of your flirting.
/r/seduction19/06/24 01:07 PM
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Approaching people in public during the day is fine so long as you know what you’re doing and are not creepy about it. “Asking to be friends” is weird though. Comes off like a crazy lonely dude who’s begging for attention. Actual friendship is a byproduct of lived experiences, not an agreement between two people.
/r/seduction19/06/24 01:06 PM
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I mean this purely from a seduction-focused and realistic point of view — you are a cashier. It’s not only inappropriate to hit on customers at the workplace, it’s more likely your flirting will make the ladies uncomfortable than aroused while checking out their groceries. Even if the job etiquette and perceived creepiness weren’t an issue, it’s a job with the lowest conceivable status and that alone would deter most attractive girls from considering you as a sexual partner. However, there is a …
/r/seduction19/06/24 12:48 PM
4

Yes, bad.
/r/seduction17/06/24 11:02 PM
2

Sincere friendship between guys and girls is rare and is built over time. Girls don’t “make friends” with guys they just met at the airport 30 minutes prior. She made a move on you, dude.
/r/seduction17/06/24 04:41 PM
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I am “skinny fat” and I just started a serious relationship with a babe as of 4 months ago. More fat than skinny now.
/r/seduction14/06/24 03:14 PM
2

Dude, I had a somewhat similar incident. Chick was insanely beautiful, exactly my type. I know she was pretty into me because when we first matched she was about to go out of town for 10 days, and I thought for sure I couldn’t manage to heat things back up once she came back, but nope — I asked her out after 9 days of radio silence and she promptly accepted, gave me her exact availability, the whole nine yards. We had a lot in common, too. She had just graduated from the same university I did 2 …
/r/seduction08/06/24 12:00 AM
1

She’s willing to cheat on him with you, or let you steal her from him. Your circumstances may seem enticing right now but if you end up dating her, she will do the same thing to you.
/r/seduction06/06/24 08:25 PM
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I've been experiencing a bit of a dilemma - when you attain a girl's contact info in a non-romantic manner (say group project) is it okay to hit her up after that class is over? How would one go by doing so without risking being creepy? I think every guy has been there at some point in his life. You got the cute girl's number by happenstance, and now you're tempted to text her flirtatiously. My sincerest advice is don't do it. Unless she's been giving you clear signs of interest, she probably th…
/r/seduction03/06/24 10:23 PM
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so ive been single for 13 years no sex no kissing one date that she brought her kid with her (red flag) I will not bother reading past the first line. There are thugs, fat men, ugly men, sick men, you name it, who manage to find a woman. No one stays utterly single that long due to looks; your problem must be something with your confidence and the way you present yourself. Your appeal is so low that you went 13 years without kissing a single lady — you're in no position to talk about red flags.
/r/seduction03/06/24 08:56 PM
1

Hard fumble. At least you learned something.
/r/seduction03/06/24 04:43 PM
0

I take my girlfriend out once, sometimes twice in a week. If you’re “dating” multiple girls you’re obviously going to spend #girls X #cost_of_date.
/r/seduction31/05/24 04:50 PM
0

Do you need to be rich? Absolutely not. Do you need to have money for basic things? Obviously yes. As the man you will be expected to pay for most dates, if not all. If you can’t afford to take a girl out, she will lose respect for you.
/r/seduction31/05/24 03:50 PM
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Go start a family, dude.
/r/seduction31/05/24 02:27 PM
1

If what you tell us is accurate and not embellished at all, then you’re in the top 1% — doing better than 99% of us out there. Who cares what this one chick thinks?
/r/seduction28/05/24 07:50 PM
4

Your shitpost is awfully written.
/r/seduction17/05/24 10:14 PM
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Plus I worry about getting her pregnant if we are not at that stage yet. The starting a family together stage?
/r/seduction14/05/24 06:19 PM
1

Dude, just message her nonchalantly. She knows the people she follows on social media. She remembers you. Just be chill, ask how her life has been, if she still lives in the same town as you, and if you could get her number. If you succeed, text her and ask when she’s free to see you.
/r/seduction06/05/24 03:27 PM
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Nothing wrong with a good old “sup?”, and then joke about her being your airport crush. Better luck next time.
/r/seduction06/05/24 06:51 AM
5

I had the exact same experience with a baddie I was really into. I was sad I blew it but lesson learned. Never doing dinner for a first date again.
/r/seduction05/05/24 11:52 AM
1

What’s stopping you from humping everything you see my dude? Just say you wanna live like a wild dog in the bushes already.
/r/seduction02/05/24 10:55 PM
5

Nah.
/r/seduction02/05/24 05:31 PM
26

(triple digits no brag) Thank goodness you clarified it’s not a brag mate. Really would’ve seemed that way otherwise.
/r/seduction02/05/24 05:06 PM
1

Funny you think that. I perceive it the opposite way. To me, rejection hurts way more when you know the interest was there originally and it was you who fumbled it.
/r/seduction02/05/24 04:43 PM
172

Approaching (especially cold approaching) a gal in person is far more difficult because you have no clue whether she’s attracted to you in the first place. That variable is altogether out of the way in online dating — you know there’s mutual attraction because you two matched.
/r/seduction02/05/24 03:47 PM
3

That was brilliant LOL
/r/seduction02/05/24 02:34 PM
3

In the jungles of Africa it sure is.
/r/seduction01/05/24 07:56 PM
-2

You talked to her for 7 hours and didn’t make a move? Didn’t lean in for a kiss, nothing? Are you sure you’re really 24?
/r/seduction07/04/24 10:22 AM
7

Why aren’t you going in to kiss her on the first date?
/r/seduction06/04/24 03:53 PM
9

Extremely irresponsible to be entertaining these thoughts when both parts are married, which is sad but not surprising seeing as you felt the need to second-degree anonimize an already anonymous post. Not related to your story but just some general life advice — stop writing like a 14 year old girl.
/r/seduction22/03/24 03:34 PM
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This is only accomplishable by going back to being a stranger to the girl. Once you’ve distanced yourself enough, you can improve your persona by dressing better, getting fitter, and meeting other girls. Only then she might find you attractive again.
/r/seduction20/02/24 02:38 AM
86

Definitely not delusional, this chick’s looking to cheat.
/r/seduction13/02/24 10:20 PM
2

Do you think a 5’4 or 5’5 entrepreneur making $300,000+ with his business is getting women left and right?
/r/seduction10/02/24 01:45 PM
5

You’d be surprised.
/r/seduction09/02/24 11:19 PM
68

The money helps, of course, but the majority of six figure jobs require a degree of dedication that steals most of your energy and free time, or some background that you mostly find from the quiet and reclusive guys.
/r/seduction09/02/24 07:00 PM
146

Lots of guys making six figures not getting the kind of action you’d imagine.
/r/seduction09/02/24 06:54 PM
3

Not exactly. There’s no switch that you flip and all of a sudden your profile is cool and it starts raining matches on you. It works on a spectrum. There are some photos and prompts that make your profile cooler, and others that make it less so. You gotta find the ones that work and then maximize that. You also gotta know where you fall in the dating marketplace. Girls like edgy guys, and you gotta keep in mind the limit of edginess you can pull off. If you’re a Chaddastic man, you would probabl…
/r/seduction07/02/24 12:13 PM
6

Dating apps are all about looks and presentation. You can be the biggest loser and do very well on them if you look cool on your photos and give off good vibes. Conversely, you can be a greatly successful dude and not do well at all if you have a boring profile. It’s also all about making the right moves at the right time, being savvy with your texting, and a whole lot of luck. I’ve missed out on several women who liked me simply because the timing was bad. I’ve also gone on dates with gorgeous …
/r/seduction07/02/24 10:48 AM
43

I’ve made that mistake and can confirm this is all true. You may think a dinner will impress the girl but it’s actually a terrible idea.
/r/seduction29/01/24 10:01 PM
2

That’s a very open-ended question and only complicates things. When you ask “what do you like to eat” the chick’s mind goes completely blank and all of a sudden planning this date with you becomes a big hassle. Girls prefer it when you take the lead like “let’s meet at this place at this time to do this” because it requires zero effort from them.
/r/seduction29/01/24 01:37 AM
3

It is indeed a bad idea. Gives her full freedom to pick a bad time and place so she’s in a convenient position to cancel later on.
/r/seduction28/01/24 01:58 AM
-9

Don’t tell them your height unless you got a lot to show, like 6’2 or more.
/r/seduction13/01/24 10:34 AM
1

This has gotta be a fake story. Has to be.
/r/seduction06/09/23 08:46 PM
6

I’m think your “advice” falls under common sense, man. Instead of advising people not to do it, you should come here to share your own technique to stop yourself from doing it.
/r/seduction17/07/23 01:49 PM
61

No one gives power away consciously or willingly. People do it because they get carried away in the process, and once they realize they did it it’s too late.
/r/seduction17/07/23 01:43 PM
2

Dude, the world is not like that. Yes, most people have some awesome sex adventure to brag about, but people are not fornicating left and right like you think they are. Most people get to be sexually active from being in a relationship. The stallions of the world, the guys who pick up the best girl anywhere they go, are very few.
/r/seduction19/06/23 06:43 PM
1

Love that book.
/r/seduction24/05/23 03:41 PM
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