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That came out of the mouth of a 40 year old man?! There really is no hope
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 12:35 PM
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I dated a surgeon for 3 years. While he did have some great qualities, he also had a god complex. He would even talk about how he was playing god. He would tell me I was going to be a “doctors wife” to amp me up. I used to spend time at the hospital with him when he did overnights, so the surgeons would be in this lounge room eating/napping, reading, charting... and I would hear their conversations. Let me just say I was struck by their shameless egos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 04:53 PM
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Same. I’m actually impressed with my level of fitness, passion, and tolerance when I think back to that time 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 07:57 PM
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I agree. When I think about how a man acted in the beginning of getting to know me when we were still dating other people, it is a big difference from how they act when they’re comfortable and they know they’ve got you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 07:55 PM
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It does and I usually can tell if a guy is bad news. But sometimes that line is blurry with the good ones, like knowing is something is a minor compromise or actually an issue being watered down
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 07:52 PM
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I think death grip, porn, and difficulty with vulnerability all contribute. I once had a FWB (ugh, I know) who would never cum. Ever. He was very into it and to this day he still wants more, but I would be doing the absolute most for HOURS every single time. It was brutal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 03:19 PM
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My struggle with this is that it’s so hard to tell that early on if a guy is a keeper
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 02:26 PM
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Fuck as many men as you want to and never tell anyone your sexual history. If they ask, know immediately that they are the type of man who refers to women as sluts and use it to weed them out of your life. As a side note, men don’t seem to comprehend that the women who are sexually skilled and confident are the ones who have more sexual experience, duh. Go for it and don’t feel an ounce of shame or regret.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 08:40 PM
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I once heard a man in a bar whisper to his friend that one of my friends looked like a child, pointing at her. He said this in a snarky, negative tone. Which is why it surprised me when he chatted her up for the rest of the night and tried taking her home to fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 11:19 PM
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Wait who said the wife was serving the dinner 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 05:25 AM
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Woman here. I’m not against that fail safe question but I would like to warn that in some situations it might seem like a little much, kind of porn-esque. Like if a women you were getting hot and heavy with threw in right before sex “do you want my tight little pussy?”. That’s how “do you want this dick?” Reads to me. In some situations you might be like damn that’s hot but in others that type of dirty talk could be a mismatch with the emotional vibe you two have going on. Many men request conse…
/r/seduction11/02/20 02:43 PM
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I’d straight lie. They can play dirty and so can I, fuck em.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 12:58 AM
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I’m not insulted at all by your suggestion, it is probable. I’ve been thinking about it lately and trying to separate whether I’m attracted to low value traits, repulsed by high value traits, or just running into the wrong HVM. It’s hard to figure out... seems to me like men with decent looks and a little bit of money are shitty people. And men without money or good looks are high value and treat you well. Is it just a compromise? An off chance that a “winner” will fall for you and you’ll get it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 02:29 AM
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Tell us your ways. I’m 27 and dead convinced all men fit into 2 categories: super obsessed with me/boring/immature OR LVM. Is your boyfriend the boring nice guy? Or is there some other subtype hiding?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 05:22 AM
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I get what you mean, it is a rather intimate gesture. Personally, emotional vulnerability/closeness takes a lot of time while physical is much easier. I’ve always been this way. I could have sex with someone in a matter of a few weeks and wait 3 years to let them really connect with me emotionally. Either way, hand holding is definitely something that should only happen when you’re sure there’s a connection felt on both sides. It would be really uncomfortable if I wasn’t feeling the guy.
/r/seduction13/12/19 05:17 PM
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That’s perfectly ok, it did read like sarcasm, but ‘‘twas merely enlightenment. I assume this approach will take you a little practice to perfect on dates but the knowledge is powerful and will serve you well. I admire your intent to use it genuinely and without mind games, that also goes a long way. I do think it will work on dates. Don’t worry about channeling charming Russell, just use the general principles and you’ll be ahead of the game. The way I think of it is being playful and humorous …
/r/seduction12/12/19 01:47 AM
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Sweating over here
/r/seduction09/12/19 03:54 PM
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Not at all. Applying it to recent dates I’ve been on, this is what charming is made of. I never realized what that subtle difference was between a guy who seemed fake or desperate and one who was into me but generally just fun, and I think it’s largely this approach.
/r/seduction09/12/19 03:31 PM
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As a woman, I agree with the sexual undertones initiated by the man and being a fun tease about it. Confident, funny, and affectionate vibes are so flirty to me. But, you want to keep it light and innocent for awhile. You want her to have a feeling/suspicion that you’re coming onto her. It can easily be creepy and violating when a man you don’t really know and haven’t built enough of a bond with says overtly sexual things. If a man implied that I was a slut/bad at sex/ he negatively judged my bo…
/r/seduction08/12/19 08:28 AM
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(27F) Woah...I think you really have something here
/r/seduction08/12/19 08:15 AM
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27F here. I wouldn’t worry about escalation, especially on a 1-2 date. If a man walks me to my car and gives me an affectionate hug I’m very satisfied and believe he may be into me. I suggest a kiss around the 2-3 date, no later than that. But you don’t have to stand outside in the freezing cold making out, you just do some light kissing for a minute or two and tell her to get home safely, you hope to see her again soon. Also a lot is done on the date itself, when you’re in the warm indoors. Tou…
/r/seduction08/12/19 08:08 AM
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27F here, serial dater, and absolutely agreed! The one thing I disagree with is kissing her if you’re not into her at all. That is mixed signals city, if you kiss me I’m counting on a 2nd date.
/r/seduction08/12/19 07:57 AM
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This. One time I was on a first date with a guy and as we were transitioning from one place to the next he casually grabbed my hand. He didn’t say anything or act unsure, he did it very confidently/calmly and then let it go when we reached our destination a few minutes later. It was affectionate, reassuring, and bold — I loved it. All of the sudden I was questioning every man who hadn’t done that lol.
/r/seduction08/12/19 07:51 AM
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Can you do this and also sleep with them? My problem is I have sex with them and then it seems like they know they’ve got me, no matter how I act afterward. Can I still play this game after sex with a guy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/19 03:26 AM
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