aj357222 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
13	The next relationship…	Dating After Divorce	aj357222	/r/Divorce_Men	26/11/24 11:05 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Anybody ever sent the ex wife's tracking device on a long distance journey? Oh, I get it. IMO those other reactions seem completely overblown, but does your ex legit have tracking tags already deployed to your kid? For that specific purpose??	/r/Divorce_Men	09/11/25 06:13 PM
6	Anybody ever sent the ex wife's tracking device on a long distance journey? There is a lot to unpack here.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/11/25 05:59 PM
9	What do YOU want? Love this post, thank you for asking the question. It’s a legitimately challenging concept for an identity that’s been built around service, and providing. I’ll be somebody in my own time.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/10/25 09:02 PM
1	Do you get hassled when out in public with your kids? Arguments over what, exactly?	/r/Divorce_Men	15/10/25 08:43 AM
3	Men who got walked out on, is it offensive when your STBX says they mourned your marriage during it? If that curiosity ever comes to pass, then I won’t be the one left trying to alter the historical record. Facts remain facts. I’ll answer any questions they might have truthfully and to the best of my ability.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/10/25 05:21 PM
3	Men who got walked out on, is it offensive when your STBX says they mourned your marriage during it? Probably not. If they ever ask I might confirm certain details or whatever, but they’re old enough already to put two & two together themselves, I don’t stand to gain anything by pushing my own prerogative. However righteous it might leave me feeling it doesn’t add anything tangibly positive to their ongoing relationship with their mom (or AP, who is new partner) now. It’s definitely difficult but in the end the only truth that really matters is the one I hold myself.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/10/25 05:02 PM
4	Men who got walked out on, is it offensive when your STBX says they mourned your marriage during it? No. I’d already been framed (and others accepted) as the villain, so it was more of a signal to me of the value I held in those people’s minds to begin with. It was kind of bewildering. Like - who AM I to you? Plus, having been on the downstream side of a bitter divorce as a child, I kinda knew the best strategy for my own kids was NOT to fan the flames of drama and bitterness with a network who clearly didn’t give AF. The catharsis would be temporary but kids would remember forever. Why be that…	/r/Divorce_Men	07/10/25 04:14 PM
13	Men who got walked out on, is it offensive when your STBX says they mourned your marriage during it? She took the proactive position of painting me as some sort of giant asshole to everyone, so it definitely tilted the response from our community and social circle when her AP turned out to be our son’s hockey coach. I had to mourn our relationship solo. In the few chances that I did gather a glimpse of “her side” from anyone, it certainly seems like she had no choice (/s). I’ve outgrown the anger and being triggered but it remains disheartening to think about, for sure.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/10/25 03:23 PM
6	It's Over! Congrats!!! 👏 What will you do to celebrate?	/r/Divorce_Men	01/10/25 12:04 PM
2	How do you handle your own birthday? I asked ChatGPT to build an index of all the free birthday promos and offers available in my local area. Am Canadian, so you’ll have to adjust for your locale, but this was actually a lot of fun. I got free Starbucks, a cinnamon bun, a J from the dispensary, a Jersey Mikes sub, and baskin robbins ice cream!	/r/Divorce_Men	17/09/25 08:40 PM
5	Have to meet the "new man", how to approach this? I look forward to the day my kids are grown up and are no longer sharing a roof with her AP, when I can reintroduce myself to the POS, formally.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/09/25 06:33 PM
0	Son, do not marry her if… she is the youngest member of her family of origin Fuck, the TRUTH!!!	/r/Divorce_Men	25/08/25 05:38 PM
6	What ruined your marriage? We lost our sense of shared values.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/08/25 04:45 PM
1	Child support estimate For any Canadians MySupportCalculator	/r/Divorce_Men	31/07/25 10:49 PM
13	Ex wife going on big trip with new man Your kids see it too, brother 🫶	/r/Divorce_Men	23/07/25 12:15 PM
2	Thumbs Up Emoji Facts! 😆	/r/Divorce_Men	12/07/25 04:37 AM
3	Thumbs Up Emoji This, 1,000,000% She has them on but doesn’t know it. So satisfying.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/07/25 04:01 PM
3	Thumbs Up Emoji Digital equivalent of “Yup.”	/r/Divorce_Men	11/07/25 04:00 PM
2	Divorce topics important to older men ⬆️ such a huge takeaway in terms of life skills.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/07/25 12:00 PM
6	Who all is spending Valentine’s Day alone? 🙋‍♂️ Made the kids a fun breakfast, packed a note and some candy in their lunch today. Just enough so they know I care.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/02/25 06:47 PM
763	Woman loses lawsuit against school district which banned her from volunteering after learning she works on OnlyFans I can empathize with how this was handled but to cite a violation of your “right to volunteer” at a school is a terribly weak legal argument to make.	/r/PussyPassDenied	13/02/25 12:28 PM
9	For those who didn’t choose this… Trying everything I could to show her love and ultimately learning I was truly invisible to her. The feeling of being discarded cuts pretty deep.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/02/25 12:48 AM
3	Going Through a Divorce in Ontario? Sign Separation Agreement Right Away Did ChatGPT write this? Point #1 is worrisome, because that’s a pretty foundational document to subsequent divorce proceedings and you definitely don’t want to fuck it up. Do you know your rights and obligations? Once that agreement is mutually executed it’ll take a court order to force a disinterested party to agree to amendments. And #2, your financial documents should already be in hand BEFORE signing the separation agreement.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/02/25 10:07 PM
2	Why do you cry these days? Who do you cry to and how often? Just thinking about her evokes those feelings of being discarded. Still cuts pretty deep. Throw in a melancholy song. It’s over.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/02/25 05:12 PM
7	How did social circles and communities change after divorce? We lived in a small town of about 1300 people for 11 years. Our three kids grew up there. I played on the mens slow pitch team in town with a dozen or so other guys from town, also curled on the mens league recreational curling night at the local rink. Not a single person I fraternized with reached out to me after we split and the house went for sale. It was probably an equally tough pill to swallow as her betrayal, that I just wasn’t a factor or entity in the community the way she was. IDK what…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/01/25 01:55 AM
1	50:50 Parenting Location matters in the context of answering this question. My own jurisdiction of Ontario, Canada provides almost no resistance at all for fathers who seek 50/50 access time, and puts the onus entirely on their counter-party to justify why it would be denied. Also, in objective terms, what is their hump, exactly? Just pure denial on the basis of injuring you? Or is there something more tangible (perhaps they want to move w the kids, or something)?	/r/Divorce_Men	08/01/25 02:10 PM
1	Best way to prioritize sex? Subscribed to this thread!! 😆	/r/Divorce_Men	03/01/25 02:06 PM
9	Are any of you in this group on good terms with your ex? I like referring to it as an armistice.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/12/24 04:27 PM
2	Did you guys give your STBXW the courtesy of letting her know you were dating again? You don’t mention kids so IMO she really doesn’t have any shred of claim to be informed of your status/maneuvers here. My Ex had an AP for months leading up to her eventually initiating the separation - it was someone from inside our network/community. I very much relish the memory of what was the look on her face when one of her girlfriends showed her my online dating profile for the first time.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/12/24 04:24 PM
3	'Narcissist' the most over used word of 2023/2024 TikTok is fkn wild place, man.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/12/24 04:22 AM
9	How many of you are still friends w your ex wife? Never lol	/r/Divorce_Men	30/11/24 10:29 PM
1	The next relationship… I genuinely appreciate you taking the time to do that. I'm not one to overshare but for sake of transparency the wife and I split December 2022. I re-engaged with dating in Fall 2023. This relationship that just ended was just past the 1 year marker and ran from Nov 2023 to very recently. Not that I need to defend it, but there has absolutely been time for reflection and work towards personal growth in all of this period. And in fact, that work is really just one long continual process IMO. Pers…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/11/24 04:08 PM
3	Happy birthday? Happy Birthday man! You only turn 44 once.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/09/24 01:49 AM
7	She said, "You could just pick up the dog poop without me asking. You see it just like I do." Sucks to give up the dog though. Hope you were able to restore that piece to your life!	/r/Divorce_Men	31/08/24 10:40 PM
3	Today’s my bday. Happy Birthday you sexy fucker!!	/r/Divorce_Men	21/08/24 08:55 PM
8	Thoughts on being divorced at 25 without kids? Mulligan!	/r/Divorce_Men	04/07/24 11:38 AM
9	Is it selfish to want to be happy? My partner of 17 years (3 kids) just left me so “she could be happier with someone else”. I don’t suggest doing this to your wife.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/01/24 01:53 PM
27	Marriage is undefeated in killing libido and it appears there's nothing I can do to stop it Dude this was exactly my situation and it turns out she was banging my sons hockey coach. Then she initiated separation proceedings.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/09/23 10:47 AM
2	Waiting Game I am in this exact same boat rn. Trying to measure her commitment to this outcome on the daily. Total limbo!	/r/Divorce_Men	23/06/23 10:07 AM
1	Dealing with being the less social parent Hey OP, acknowledging this thread is a little stale but it came up in a search and serendipitously, I too occupy the less-social-parent role and an unexpectedly thrust into figuring this out post-separation from my spouse of 17 years. Three kids…school, sports, socials. All that. I genuinely hope things are going well and getting better for you now, almost two months since your initial post.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/06/23 09:48 AM