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Well I've matched with 100s of women on dating apps. I'm attractive that's why I'm getting them matches.
/r/seduction10/09/22 11:23 PM
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And they struggle...
/r/seduction10/09/22 08:00 PM
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Teasing works great in person. How do you tease in texting when looking for hookup on bumble/tinder? I just call them hot/compliment them and ask for movie and cuddle in 3-4 messages. What do you say about that?
/r/seduction01/09/22 10:45 PM
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True. Game won't even work if she's not interested in the first place.
/r/seduction30/08/22 10:50 AM
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Yeah this is like hot over cute. Good facial features, nice physique, style is what turns them on sexually. Or you can even add other traits idk
/r/seduction25/07/22 02:54 PM
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And yeah you can become handsome by improving your style. It's that easy to look good. We just have made it hard for ourselves. And also with conversations, overthinking way too much. Just do the basics, have a normal conversation, be decent, interesting, kind and respectful.
/r/seduction16/07/22 09:40 PM
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Idk what to say. Like it's random. Once I got a hottie. And once I got rejected by a girl who was not even half as hot as her. I simply said "Hi , my name is this". I saw you dancing alone, do you wanna dance with me? And rejected.
/r/seduction16/07/22 10:29 AM
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How do you show your masculinity and confidence?
/r/seduction16/07/22 03:20 AM
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How do you do that then? What's your plan like? I'm short and attractive guy. I dance well and went out with a motive to have fun and I got girls dancing with me. I made out with one and she approached me. Almost made out with another, I danced with her she was grabbing me and wrapping her hands around my shoulders. 1 makeout out of 4 times going out solo. But I always danced with girls. Either they included me in their group or they approached me. And they approached me just because I was havin…
/r/seduction16/07/22 03:13 AM
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And how do they do that?
/r/seduction16/07/22 02:57 AM
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People both men and women do feel happy during and after sex. They say it's great and love it for a reason. Why would they be on dating apps, approach etc if sex didn't make them happy?
/r/seduction16/06/22 05:25 PM
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And how do you plan to do that? Every hetero man wants some pussy.
/r/seduction16/06/22 05:24 PM
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But he was right about the normal dude as well.
/r/seduction16/06/22 08:34 AM
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That guide is just 31 pages long with only 2 pages on flirting where he mentioned some paid program. How did that guide help you other than that flirting is banter?
/r/seduction02/06/22 10:04 PM
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Selfie where I look great facially and hot or jumping in a desert having fun, silhoutte pic? What should I choose?
/r/seduction29/05/22 12:18 PM
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Does this work? Photos with women?
/r/seduction29/05/22 10:24 AM
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No in India it means single man entering a club without a woman. Going solo
/r/seduction28/05/22 03:19 PM
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I don't have outgoing friends. And in my city they don't allow stag men into the clubs unless you pay a lot.
/r/seduction28/05/22 03:08 PM
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This. I'm great looking guy and no volume. While average looking dudes banging hot women.
/r/seduction28/05/22 09:55 AM
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I fucking hate puas. Trying bs things on girls. Trying to get them cheat on their SO. And heck it's all a performance. I'd much prefer Manson's approach on this. Any other good stuff apart from Mark Manson where you don't try to trick women and treat them as humans?
/r/seduction24/05/22 11:04 PM
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Then how these unattractive puas with world class game are doing it? Or is it just lies and marketing gimmicks?
/r/seduction24/05/22 10:27 PM
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That's why physical attractiveness and game is completely different. Physical attraction matters a lot before you can even game. But game matters a lot too.
/r/seduction23/05/22 09:03 PM
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We prefer women to ask us out so we don't come off too quick, desperate. I've been out with 3 girls and all of them asked me. Whenever I asked them, they flaked.
/r/seduction23/05/22 08:56 PM
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Yeah bro but it's bit harder to meet women in person. I work in a male dominated sector. And clubbing as a stag here is tad bit difficult when your friends don't like clubbing.
/r/seduction18/05/22 07:30 AM
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Same bro same I get 2-3 matches a day and Idk what tf should I say. So many women and it gets tiring
/r/seduction17/05/22 10:52 PM
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Yeah. It shouldn't be as well. Also many people don't workout and they feel good about themselves and talk to women. But yeah working out can give that appearance edge over somebody who doesn't work out. I guess you need something going on in your life to feel good and confident about yourself.
/r/seduction10/05/22 12:33 PM
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Umm isn't your self esteem low if you feel good after talking to women? I mean I should be able to have that charisma in any situation.
/r/seduction10/05/22 11:35 AM
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Yeah I also believe this. It's just that when I was a kid, high schooler I used to interact with lot of people of both sexes. But when I went to college, I had not many girls around me and became shy. Now I can talk to women in real world, not great at it but it's just my mind says that "you're not good enough". I mean it's not google where it's all logical and you'll have to learn certain things, work within systems to crack it. I also read this line from somewhere "It doesn't matter how you mu…
/r/seduction10/05/22 11:08 AM
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Is wit or being witty also a learned attribute?
/r/seduction10/05/22 10:50 AM
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Where's the good advice? Practical advice that actually works. I always had women being attracted to me. But I didn't take risks, shy. But I always wanted to improve. Become elite physically and mentally. A self assured, secure, comfortable with himself man. My rule is simple. You attract as you are. If you worked on appearance and became sexy, you'll attract sexy people. Same for mind. Be fun, attractive and don't play games. Be yourself and improve always. Become better.
/r/seduction05/05/22 07:00 PM
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My mindset is in fulfilling my needs. I want to have Eurotrips, stress free life so I want to make more money. I want to look better so that I can become more comfortable with myself and my body, so I workout. I'm just saying women can also be one of the reasons and men shouldn't be shamed or looked down upon for that. And I agree with everything you said.
/r/seduction05/05/22 06:23 PM
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Appearance do matter. I was skinny or maybe too skinny. And I was confident with this girl. Making jokes, sexual ones too. Never was taken seriously. Hit the gym, appearance improved a bit, muscles came. And she was more receptive now while me being the same.
/r/seduction02/05/22 07:38 PM
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It's worse than online dating
/r/seduction02/05/22 07:04 PM
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If you are average looking with limited assets and clout you have very limited chances to become some sort of superstar that attracts people. Women will approach you if you are good looking or have huge social influence. I agree with rest of post except this. Assets are irrelevant, it's about how alpha you are like you said earlier in the post. I literally see gangbangers that have nothing going for them but they are alpha and land more HBB than the "nice guys" with solid education and careers. …
/r/seduction02/05/22 10:17 AM
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Appearance matters, confidence matters. But confidence without appearance (if you haven't worked on it) you won't get the girls you want. Same goes for appearance without confidence and self-esteem, you ain't getting shit.
/r/seduction30/04/22 09:34 AM
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Umm can't you suck at things initially and you improve at them? Like any skill you learn unless you're natural you're gonna suck at it and will have to improve if you want to get better at that skill. So this feeling of "not good enough" is just baseless imo. You're not good at something and you learn to get better at it. For eg: driving car, cooking etc.
/r/seduction19/04/22 07:02 AM
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What should be the top 3 priorities as a man? I just want to stop giving fucks to vagina tbh.
/r/seduction19/04/22 06:45 AM
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Yeah but this whole approach works only after eye contact has been made and smiles have passed. What to do with a girl who's hot but you've not established eye contact with her?
/r/seduction17/03/22 07:07 PM
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I don't what to say. I don't how to approach. Girl staight away decline my dancing proposals.
/r/seduction17/03/22 06:33 PM
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Yeah I completely agree. I can't dance at daygame or online dating. I need to work on the last part. Anything on that? I was thinking of doing Todd V's free online game course.
/r/seduction17/03/22 05:53 PM
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And that's where the confidence issue comes. And I have just one female friend. It's online and we don't meet at all. Others have moved out of the city or lost touch.
/r/seduction17/03/22 05:28 PM
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Approaching random women in India. It's possible but quite hard as well. Probability of getting beaten up is quite high. I mentioned about couple of my approaches to my girl friends and they called me a creep. And told me not to do that. And online dating, omg you know all about that. It's shit every fucking where on this earth. I don't get matches for days sometimes.
/r/seduction17/03/22 05:22 PM
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Actually it's not allowed unless you pay a lot to get in. At some places you can't even get in the club if there's no girl with you. So basically we have to beg the girls roaming around to help us get entry in the clubs. Sometimes they want us to pay for their drinks in exchange. So basically these girls use us for their drinks and food.
/r/seduction17/03/22 05:17 PM
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Honestly I want to but I can't. As a single man with no outgoing friends, I can't hit the clubs solo as in the west. Also are there any videos I can look up on this?
/r/seduction17/03/22 05:14 PM
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Which I don't
/r/seduction17/03/22 05:11 PM
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I understand what you're saying. And cent percent it's what causing the issues. I display neediness irl and on dating apps. But when I don't it's displayed as lack of effort. So getting absolutely nothing. And about doing things to get girls. It's recommended to join dance, yoga classes to be around and pick up girls.
/r/seduction17/03/22 05:11 PM
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I mean if you got great skills, show them off. You got muscles, dance show them off. Most people can't make my moves and might get intimidated. I'm not gonna stop it for them. I'm gonna do it how I like it. And in addition hone my social skills.
/r/seduction17/03/22 03:00 PM
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Is it the same with muscles too? People showing off their muscles because it's been proven to get them women. Being in shape helps.
/r/seduction17/03/22 02:27 PM
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I'm skinny fat and I want to be in better shape. I'd like to look good and admire myself in the mirror, on the beach. So I want to build some muscles and lose some fat.
/r/seduction17/03/22 02:25 PM
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How about I make those amazing moves because I can and I want them to happen? And not to impress some chicks.
/r/seduction17/03/22 02:23 PM
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I guess I'm just gonna enjoy dancing and have a great time. I'll try to stop this attention seeking.
/r/seduction17/03/22 02:05 PM
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People here saying I show off my dance moves to get their attention. Which is partly true. How do I stop fucking do that? And I'm a great dancer already. I'm thinking of joining dance class to pickup girls. But I don't think that's a right reason to join a dance class. Is it?
/r/seduction17/03/22 02:03 PM
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I know I'm a great dancer. And I know it will get women notice me because it does. Now what I'm trying to do is to stop being a fucking try hard and stop being this desperate. I want to stop fucking caring. You got something for that?
/r/seduction17/03/22 02:00 PM
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How not to do that ? How do I stop being a try hard? It also happens to me on dating apps.
/r/seduction17/03/22 01:32 PM
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How would you even converse in a club when she is dancing and you can't even hear each other?
/r/seduction17/03/22 12:32 PM
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I dress well. I look hot, not a chad but still. The friend of the girl I danced with was with my friend. She said I was trying too hard. Idk what to do about that. Also I don't lead. Like in India you have to pay high charges as a stag to get into clubs. So we talked to a few girls to get us in and now they wanted me to pay for them which I didn't want to. Idk how can I be more assertive.
/r/seduction17/03/22 12:19 PM
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And they had a good body? How does a good looking 25 y/o with avg. Skinny muscular body, anti social, lack of confidence do this? I won't say I have great sense of humour and yeah I lack balls. This is the truth that I accept now.
/r/seduction08/03/22 09:10 PM
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Yeah I'm skinny and short. I'm learning to he comfortable with it. Accept it. And improve.
/r/seduction06/03/22 05:40 PM
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How to be fully comfortable with myself? How to be comfortable with short, skinny, fat, your body image? Your self worth? And I'm not asking how to fake it but truly being comfortable with it.
/r/seduction06/03/22 09:18 AM
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Well this is what we have to accept. We can't do anything about it.
/r/seduction06/03/22 08:51 AM
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Yeah occasional exceptions would have to be really fun guys to be around to attract high quality women.
/r/seduction06/03/22 08:08 AM
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So what's the work around with this? How do I get better?
/r/seduction06/03/22 08:06 AM
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I didn't mean I'm not getting likes, matches. I do but often they unmatch after the first message.
/r/seduction06/03/22 08:04 AM
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Then how short, scrawny or fat men getting women if they're coming off arrogant? I know online dating will be really hard for them due to sheer competition in the space. But offline if they are social and around women, they do get girls.
/r/seduction06/03/22 08:03 AM
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Yeah I'm 25 and kinda in his situation. I'm skinny and short. I want to be comfortable in my own skin. I thought of working out to look good and for my mental health. Now I work out my mind will say why workout if you're comfortable in your own skin or you want to be? Why change? This mind man.
/r/seduction05/03/22 11:04 PM
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Yeah dms?
/r/seduction05/03/22 10:17 PM
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Rated 5.75 to 6.25 on truerateme. Yes I agree tho. Nowadays you've to be top tier. Model looks. In shape.
/r/seduction05/03/22 07:13 PM
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I've been told to get in shape and I'll get there. I'm short as well. But how do you build true confidence without that? Like even if you're not in shape. Short and skinny. As we have read again and again, women are attracted more to confidence than 6 pack abs and muscles.
/r/seduction05/03/22 07:12 PM
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I feel scared a bit. Don't want to be beaten up. Especially with how conservative India is.
/r/seduction05/03/22 06:14 PM
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How do I do this in Delhi? I don't want to come off creepy. I was in the mall standing and did nothing. I did 2 approaches months ago. One gave me insta. She blocked me right after. Second said no even though she was staring at me up and down.
/r/seduction05/03/22 05:55 PM
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Rated 5.75 to 6.25 on truerateme. Isn't that in top 20%?
/r/seduction05/03/22 05:41 PM
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Not true. Above average, attractive and I get none. Online dating sucks for me. You still gotta have game.
/r/seduction05/03/22 05:22 PM
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I'm above average and I struggle big time.
/r/seduction05/03/22 05:22 PM
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Any dance classes you know about in Delhi? I can't seem to find good ones.
/r/seduction01/03/22 08:39 AM
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I'm also 25 and in the same boat dude. I've a job, skinny muscular-fat, short. Trying to get fitter. I work out mainly for confidence and mental health though along with improving my build ofc. Also thinking of getting therapy. Looking into mindfulness, meditation for now. Girls are the last thing on my mind now. I'm prioritising my health over anything else.
/r/seduction01/03/22 08:24 AM
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I'm about 5'5. So I would really like to be fit. Look how I wanna look like. Then maintain it. But gaining muscle is hard.
/r/seduction01/03/22 05:43 AM
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I'm about 5'5. When I had really thin arms I was 52 kgs. I gained weight before that. But stress and not eating enough made me lose weight.
/r/seduction01/03/22 05:41 AM
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I like to travel, play football and a good dancer. But my accidents (not major), fear have stopped me from traveling solo. I don't have friends for social life. I live in India. Can't hit the clubs solo unless I splash out a lot of money. Also I'm skinny and short. Sometimes I fear being in fights with bigger men and being around hot girls. It's all in my head. Lack of self-esteem and confidence.
/r/seduction28/02/22 05:12 PM
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Yeah it's just that muscles create a minute difference in your attractiveness. I've experienced this myself. When I trimmed my weird ass moustache and gained a little bit muscle, many women started noticing me. But still many of them call me a kid because of my thin arms and not looking masculine enough. But still inner confidence is the king. Even after getting little bit of muscles I didn't feel much better.
/r/seduction28/02/22 05:04 PM
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I tried it. Like I really love my face. Then I was called narcissistic and self obsessed. Everything seems to be flawed.
/r/seduction28/02/22 02:42 PM
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Yeah. But I would also like to have inner confidence. Not just from my muscles, my car, my work. How do I get the confidence from within? I know many people who built muscles but still had same old self-esteem and lack of confidence.
/r/seduction28/02/22 02:27 PM
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I'm in the same boat. I'm very attractive to some people after I gained some weight. But I lack self esteem and confidence. And when I try to workout because I was skinny af and wanted to get to healthier weight. But I'm always told you're doing it for pussy. And made to feel bad about it. If I was enough with my build, why I was not attracting women before? Definitely it was lack of self confidence and self-esteem was the issue back then as well more than my build. But yeah build helps.
/r/seduction28/02/22 02:20 PM
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It's expensive everywhere. Specially in the country I live in. We're looked down upon if we go to therapy.
/r/seduction26/02/22 10:22 PM
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Can't I fake it till I make it?
/r/seduction26/02/22 10:02 PM
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How do I work on my mindset man? My behaviour? Should I go for therapy? It's affecting other areas of my life, my focus, my work, my exercises. I'm not giving my best anywhere.
/r/seduction26/02/22 09:58 PM
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My mindset. That I'm being told by women that most women will fuck me if I worked out. Some women telling me work on your personality before you work on physical aspects. That mindset ain't gonna attract any woman. Some saying accept yourself, you're enough. Muscle or lack of doesn't make a difference. It's your mindset. But I never got attention from women before I worked out. I never had random women checking me out. So lack of muscles do make difference. Being skinny do make a difference.
/r/seduction26/02/22 09:53 PM
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I thought I didn't take risks. I didn't do things just because I was scared to do them. I thought learning inner game will help. I always used to feel inferior in college. Yes dating apps screw up your mental health but Idk if I wanna go for therapy.
/r/seduction26/02/22 04:31 PM
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I want to but people say you're doing it for pussy. You should feel comfortable in your skin. You're enough etc.. But I got far more attention after the gym. I got matches on apps after I gained some muscle. So gym definitely helps with chicks. I don't go there to pick the girls in gym specifically. Even one girl told me she would have fucked my brains out if I had just little bit more muscle. But I still look skinny.
/r/seduction26/02/22 04:09 PM
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Yeah man I got more than 500 matches in last 2-3 years. Got booty calls, dates. But I didn't go. And I thought gaining muscle will help. But then people say you're doing it for girls. You should be confident in who you are. Accept yourself. You're enough. Then I shouldn't work out after all? I've got far more attention after I gained weight. If I was enough why I wasn't getting attention when I was skinny. I did it to get fit, look good, build confidence, self esteem and attract women.
/r/seduction26/02/22 03:58 PM
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But I do feel like a nice guy. Even now I feel like I made her feel like a slut. I only wanted one thing and she unmatched me for that.
/r/seduction26/02/22 03:36 PM
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It's harder to meet women in person. Especially when you've an engineering job. You'll have to go out of your way to meet them. I want to work on my physique which I'm comfortable with, my mindset and my inner game. I don't want to be a little bitter man. I got really lucky with what I got. I'll work hard to ber attractive, confident. I want to be a self-assured, attractive, confident man. Gym, reading books can help with that. I want to get laid a lot. Let's see how things go.
/r/seduction23/02/22 09:00 PM
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How would a virgin will get sex? As a guy who don't want to do paid sex, it's almost impossible to get good at it when you ain't getting any action because of your neediness and lack of self confidence because you're short, skinny fat despite having a handsome face and always being told that I'm so pretty and have a great skin.
/r/seduction23/02/22 07:54 PM
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But isn't it true that women do want more traditionally masculine men? I'm pretty good looking dude. But I'm skinny muscular, 5'5. I've always been told "Imagine your smv if you had been 6 ft and had more muscles" which is true. I'm not saying that my height and physique had a lot to do for me not getting sex at all. It's my neediness and not being confident enough fucks me over and over. I'm not confident about my physique. I think I look like a kid with those skinny arms. But If I had been tal…
/r/seduction23/02/22 07:46 PM
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How to work on inner game? And outer game is all about gym, getting in shape?
/r/seduction10/02/22 10:34 AM
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Yeah one of the reasons I get attention is because I got skinny muscular. I always looked cute. But fitness and style changed the game a bit for me. Now from above average I can only go elite. Improving myself physically, mentally, financially is the only goal I have. I work for my needs and I'm gonna get what I want.
/r/seduction27/01/22 10:41 PM
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Don't have any female friends. They left the city.
/r/seduction27/01/22 06:17 PM
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I don't go in night clubs. I mean I want to but I don't have friends who do clubbing. And it's hard to enter a club in Delhi being a stag. Also I lack confidence. I feel inferior/shy around hot women.
/r/seduction27/01/22 06:14 PM
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Cool bro. I'll watch it. Thanks.
/r/seduction27/01/22 06:29 AM
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Yeah I'll try to do that.
/r/seduction27/01/22 06:22 AM
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Thanks bro. But I'd like to make it more natural. Try to be relax and also make it natural for girls. I don't want to be beaten up at all lol
/r/seduction27/01/22 06:22 AM
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Yes. Fitness and grooming are at the top. Trying to work on them. But it's just I get minor setbacks everytime. My shoulder pains most of the time when I do shoulder/arnold presses.And it just makes me not to work out.
/r/seduction27/01/22 06:19 AM
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I mean when she's gone and then you want to approach her, you go from behind. Don't you? Excuse me and try to get their attention.
/r/seduction27/01/22 06:16 AM
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Is it that common there? Lots of Cold approaches there?
/r/seduction27/01/22 05:56 AM
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Then I'll have to pick up the pace. Go faster than them and then turn around instantly and approach them. That might startle them too
/r/seduction27/01/22 05:55 AM
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I went from behind. She was walking and talking on the phone. I reached close to her. And said "excuse me?". When she stopped said "hi" and began with it. Though what I said might sound unnatural. I need to work on making it natural. I would be lying if I say I don't look good. It might worked a bit because of that and still got blocked later. In India, it might be hard. Gotta work on outer and inner game.
/r/seduction27/01/22 05:48 AM
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I'm 25 and I looked like a kid when I clean shave. But I look my best when clean shaven. I don't care if someone thinks I look like a kid. I'll rock the look I think the best.
/r/seduction26/01/22 04:48 PM
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See I had mentioned in my two truths and a lie prompt that "my dance moves made a latina grind on me". Maybe that triggered her.
/r/seduction21/01/22 08:17 PM
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Maybe you should see my tinder profile. I've had matches from hotties all over the world. Then you can say if I'm ugly or not.
/r/seduction21/01/22 06:03 PM
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Not true. I was just called a creep yesterday by a hinge match. And I believe I was better looking than her.
/r/seduction21/01/22 05:47 PM
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Bruh it is what it is. I just said what I saw. Plenty of my friends have got laid like this. You do what you feel right.
/r/seduction18/01/22 11:58 AM
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What you do is improve yourself. Workout, groom, take better photos. I did the same and I became attractive.
/r/seduction18/01/22 11:48 AM
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I've met 0 women in the last year. I'm attractive but no lays when you don't meet women. Social skills have gone to rust.
/r/seduction10/01/22 06:38 PM
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Only if you've traits of bad boys
/r/seduction09/01/22 04:35 PM
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I agree. I say the same things to myself that once I'm bulky enough, I'll approach. I'm short, she won't like me. But the truth is I've approach anxiety and social skills of a rock. Even at my skinny self, short stature many women checked me out and I just being a pussy just turned my eyes away from them. Now I just fap. And I'm very cute, handsome. But if you're insecure and not confident you won't even get sniff of a pussy.
/r/seduction07/01/22 09:33 AM
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In your dms
/r/seduction02/01/22 02:49 PM
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Not very but there's someone going to be better than you and you just accept that. And being ok and happy is nice. But will you have the mindset to improve if you're ok and happy with your current state? Like take me for example, I'm currently skinny af. Am i happy with it? No. I don't like my scrawny arms. Sometimes i feel underconfident but Am I insecure? No. I know i can improve on that. I want to change that for better quality of life. I don't want to be weak. Even if i don't attract girls, …
/r/seduction04/09/21 09:51 PM
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Relationships and intimacy are not entirely controlled by you while being fit and financially stable is almost 100% under your control. I've never been in a relationship myself. I'm responsible but not entirely. I guess just keep trying.
/r/seduction04/09/21 09:16 PM
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But having money and being fit does affect your confidence and mental state. If you're skinny af or obese or broke, it kinda hit your self esteem and confidence. I've felt conquering the world after a good workout. Confidence just pumps up. Inner and outer side do work with each other. No?
/r/seduction04/09/21 09:02 PM
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Nah 20-25 year olds calling me kid.
/r/seduction03/08/21 08:44 AM
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Yeah i believe it's low. I'm always looking for validation i guess. Idk how i'll be able to build it. My opinion of me, it's just that i look good but that's that. I think working out will help.
/r/seduction03/08/21 07:14 AM
1

Yeah it's me. Completely me. And i'm underconfident. I always think if i look at them too, I'll come off as creep.
/r/seduction03/08/21 07:10 AM
1

I like clean shaven. I look very attractive in that.
/r/seduction02/08/21 08:47 PM
1

Yeah thanks man will do that.
/r/seduction02/08/21 07:53 PM
3

Yeah thanks for that. I think working out and getting bigger will give me that confidence. I'll be able to do other things better when i feel good about myself. It's all about confidence in the end.
/r/seduction02/08/21 07:50 PM
1

Yeah thanks for it. i know but i look like one and probably talk like one. Even my tinder match who was dtf, called me a kid and unmatched me later.
/r/seduction02/08/21 07:39 PM
1

How do I get my shit together? I look good. I've got more than 1000 matches on tinder/bumble. Hot women but still no sex. I feel very underconfident because i look scrawny. And seem to come off desperate as i've been told.
/r/seduction02/08/21 07:31 PM
1

I don't meet women tbh. Only scope i had was online dating but i deleted tinder. I can't go to bars as i have no one to go with and they don't allow stags. I don't get to hang around women. It's just when i walk outside, i see women taking glances at me. And i try to look away, so I don't come off a creep staring at them.
/r/seduction02/08/21 05:50 PM
1

I like it a lot when i get attention. Their glances. I love it tbh. And i'd like to have sex too but i ain't getting any.
/r/seduction02/08/21 04:54 PM
3

I'm not based in US. I'll try to get a job in Europe in a year or so and stay there for some time. Travel, meet people there etc. I guess moving out and living alone will make me a man.
/r/seduction02/08/21 04:41 PM
2

Yeah i know that and I've been rejected because of looking like a kid numerous times. But I don't want to make lifestyle changes to attract women. Okay I guess idk how to become a man
/r/seduction02/08/21 03:31 PM
-5

I examined it and still jumped to that idky
/r/seduction02/08/21 03:24 PM
1

I meant physically looking like a kid. Ofcourse with your experiences you'll mature.
/r/seduction02/08/21 03:22 PM
-1

It's that women validation. You see it's a good thing because you're saying you getting validated by women. I'm saying even if you don't get that, what's wrong with being a kid? Unless you wanna change it for you
/r/seduction02/08/21 02:19 PM
1

Oh it's just that McGregor use it a lot to mock people. So i thought, sorry.
/r/seduction02/08/21 02:17 PM
2

Yeah i get that but what's wrong with looking like a kid?
/r/seduction02/08/21 01:53 PM
5

What's wrong with liking my face?
/r/seduction02/08/21 01:12 PM
7

I really love my face a lot. My most attractive body part i guess. I won't grow beard to hide that.
/r/seduction02/08/21 12:44 PM
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