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Warlizard just proves what we've all been told all along. Get your ass out in the field and learn.
/r/seduction19/01/12 09:28 AM
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My buddy once told me "once you've tasted Baskin Robbins 31 flavors, you don't want to eat one flavor every day the rest of your life" I guess in your case you've tried 75-90 flavors. You're clearly very successful, confident, and alpha. You're what the PUA community calls a "leader of men". I see this in the way you take the time to listen and thoughtfully and genuinely answer everyone's questions and not ignore even the "little guy". I can see it in the awe, respect, envy, and praise some of t…
/r/seduction19/01/12 08:07 AM
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Just because you can't drive a Ferrari doesn't mean you have to walk.
/r/seduction25/12/11 11:57 PM
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Beefy, elaborating on your #2 comment. My buddy that introduced me to pickup via The Game told me "every now and then a woman needs to be reminded that you have options". If his woman was acting up and taking the relationship for granted, he'd take her out on the town and openly interact with other girls. He was already a very socially connected Alpha before he began dating her, and wherever he goes tons of girls that know him come up and hug and chat him up. Seems kinda cruel, but I notice she …
/r/seduction25/12/11 07:02 PM
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When I first started pickup, I kept reading from the gurus that girls wouldn't mention the bf if they were into you. I thought it was bs. Turns out, not bs. I've had girls not mention the boyfriend until I've had them on the couch half naked during their LMR. Shocked the hell out of me seeing it firsthand for the first time.
/r/seduction25/12/11 10:30 AM
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The monkey swinging through the jungle doesn't let go of a vine until it has firm grasp of the next vine. This statement might be a little mean sounding, but it illustrates my point. A lot of women won't bail out of a relationship unless they have something else lined up. They like having the safety and security of knowing they're going to be taken care of. We've all seen really desirable women that are only on the market for a couple weeks between relationships. More often than not, the new guy…
/r/seduction25/12/11 09:48 AM
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You guys are getting down voted because of your harsh wording. But what you're saying has fundamental truth to it. If the girl is putting herself in a position where she's living a single lifestyle but still has a boyfriend, she's likely to be at minimum looking to have some fun on the side, and at maximum looking for an out from her current relationship.
/r/seduction25/12/11 08:35 AM
1

What's the politician handshake?
/r/seduction05/01/11 11:04 PM
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You're a horrible human being. Does reddit have a way to filter out by username?
/r/seduction05/01/11 12:38 AM
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I'm only able to successfully stack naturally when I go into "state". I'm still learning, so I need to usually need to open 2-3 warm up sets when socializing before I go into state and I get a head of steam going like a locomotive and the conversation just flows naturally. I've never been able to successfully stack while not in state. Perhaps some of the more veteran PUA's on here can though.
/r/seduction04/01/11 08:20 PM
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You should rephrase that to "Alpha males", not men. I'm rAFC, but when I was full blown AFC I totally looked outward for validation from others.
/r/seduction04/01/11 08:12 PM
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Agreed. Bars are not the venue to discuss religion, politics, and science if you're going for pickup.
/r/seduction04/01/11 08:08 PM
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This. Women + Shit Tests = Men + Negs In both cases, one gender is "busting the balls" of the other. For men, you need neg chicks who perceive themselves as higher value in an environment. The higher the woman's perceived value, the more negs need to be forced in order to build attraction. I think the OP is on to something though. I think shit testing/negging a male who perceives HIMSELF higher value would be effective in attracting a high value male to the female.
/r/seduction04/01/11 08:03 PM
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Only way out of the friendzone that I've found.
/r/seduction09/12/10 10:02 PM
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Next time someone posts: Friends with a girl for 5 years, how do I make it more? Everyone pile into the thread and post: Sidebar!
/r/seduction09/12/10 08:51 PM
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Prediction: Something's going to happen later on down the road where your 10yr-high-five-friend is going to want to bang you now. Just from my own experience.
/r/seduction09/12/10 08:40 PM
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I have buddy's that live with their parents and pull massive p00n. Not an issue.
/r/seduction08/12/10 09:59 PM
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IDontGetSeduction, your account is a total breath of fresh air to all the serious answers on here. You come into threads and explain the opposite of what you're actually supposed to do for seduction. Though other redditors before you have pioneered the hilarious concept of special accounts to explain totally wrong answers, such as this guy, or the sub-reddit Shitty Advice, your account fills the niche for your fellow sedditors.
/r/seduction07/12/10 12:46 PM
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Her: you look 16 You: "Shhh, fake ID. Didn't you teach my 6th grade English class?"
/r/seduction04/12/10 12:01 AM
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eww, i just googled turkish mother images. guess you gotta get em before they're wrecked :P http://bp0.blogger.com/_S0Gs6lA38ls/SGh5yAImIEI/AAAAAAAABK8/Nb749_iG6Mk/s400/turkish_girl_01.jpg
/r/seduction03/12/10 01:34 AM
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Time to go MILF hunting in Turkey! Who's with me!?
/r/seduction03/12/10 12:44 AM
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It's my understanding that the "false" time constraint is used during opening so that that your set doesn't get creeped out that you're never going leave. http://www.attractology.com/outergame/false_time_constraints.php I personally prefer non-verbal false time constraints where I rock my body away from the set to make it appear I'm on my way out of there. Seems to work very effectively. If you're already at the "fooling around" phase, it doesn't sound like the time constraint applies. Maybe oth…
/r/seduction29/11/10 08:10 PM
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"and further that other men in her office can make her feel that way" I might be over-analyzing it, but, boy, does that have some nasty undertones and implications.
/r/seduction23/11/10 06:57 AM
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Excellent one. New technique duly noted. At super packed/busy bars on weekends I try sending a girl in to fetch the drinks for us, or if I'm solo or with just a buddy, tip the bartender $10. Guaranteed you'll never have to wait the rest of the night. They'll pick you out even if you're rows of bodies back in the crowd line. I like your way better though. Nice.
/r/seduction23/11/10 12:21 AM
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In that sense, a job interview IS like pickup. I notice the best jobs I've landed I wasn't heavily invested if I got the job. I was willing to walk with no hard feelings. I spent a lot of time in the interviews asking them about the job to see if I wanted it, and less of their time spent interviewing me.
/r/seduction22/11/10 11:57 PM
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only problem with that is that she's taken :O
/r/seduction22/11/10 08:59 PM
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I learned this technique from that Mystery Method website a while ago. I simply go blazing in to a set and go "so how does everyone know each other" and that quickly lets me know who's single, who's there with a bf, who's there with an orbiter, etc.
/r/seduction22/11/10 07:53 AM
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"3) I have a tendency to not look in the eyes or at a person's face when I talk, which is part of my being shy" The single biggest event that had me a believer in pickup was when I read the below guide on starting to make eye contact with people. Make eye contact with BOTH men and women too by the way. http://www.pickupguide.com/eye-contact-pickup-theory/ Don't overwhelm yourself with all the other techniques of pickup quite yet. Baby steps. You're not gonna be Don Juan overnight. It doesn't req…
/r/seduction21/11/10 12:49 PM
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haha. or just follow her home.
/r/seduction21/11/10 08:37 AM
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i always reply with "i'm sorry who is this?" right off the bat.
/r/seduction21/11/10 08:28 AM
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Never been to Latin America, but I've heard stories about the catcalling and such there. I'm friends with a circle of Russians that also are the same way; very chauvinistic culture. Fun as hell to hang out with though. They all seem to have what the pickup community would call the Cocky/Funny attitude and the Russian girls just eat it up.
/r/seduction21/11/10 08:17 AM
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Hanging out with someone who is better at pickup than you is an awesome way to learn and hone your skills. I find that I have to branch out on my own from time to time though just because they usually end up hooking all the girls I want :O
/r/seduction21/11/10 08:12 AM
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Don't add him to FB, keep your txts short, don't be available on Fridays and Saturdays, start the kino early with a big ol' grizzly bear hug next time you see him. :P
/r/seduction21/11/10 04:28 AM
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I was able to talk to a couple of them and determine that two were single and two were there with bf's. Didn't get time to get any info on the other girls there though. I knew one of the girls there and she was hugging me and tickling me; gave me a lot of preselection. Guess I have a descent foundation laid if I encounter these girls again.
/r/seduction21/11/10 04:00 AM
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I don't understand the relationship between the tough military guy and the chubby chick. It could be that the military guy was working the chubby chick to get at the hb7 sister and you became an obstacle.
/r/seduction19/11/10 12:45 PM
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tis the season to sit on santa's lap.
/r/seduction18/11/10 11:47 PM
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Always turn the heat down in your house in the winter. Get a big cozy comforter; make sure your bed is the only warm place in the house. Yeehaw!
/r/seduction18/11/10 07:16 PM
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I appreciate you putting yourself out there by posting this qwave, but man, your last couple posts have been like watching a trainwreck in progress. I probably should keep my mouth shut but I'm just cringing in my seat right now.
/r/seduction18/11/10 11:11 AM
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I'm also in IT. Trying to get a hookup through work is risky for the reasons other posters have already covered. However, work is a great place to sharpen your social skills. I started talking to everyone and being friendly. I get hugs from lots of girls now. Found some new guy friends too, including a couple fishing buddies. I've turned down a couple of indirect sexual offers from women coworkers too. Kinda torn because the career side of me says I made the right choice, but the man side of me …
/r/seduction16/11/10 10:17 PM
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This. What Mouthpiece said. BTW Mouthpiece, you're very good picking out topic hooks from conversations. Do you do that well for live face-to-face conversations as well? If so, you probably have no problem keeping a conversation going wherever you go.
/r/seduction16/11/10 08:57 AM
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Thanks, I'll check that out too.
/r/seduction15/11/10 11:33 AM
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appreciated
/r/seduction15/11/10 03:33 AM
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I had they exact same thing happen to me with some of my buddies when I first discovered pickup. Yes, he's AMOG'ing you. Your perception is spot on. He's noticing your climb in social status and he's defending his status in the group. Think of a young ram butting heads with the alpha ram for access to the females. Also think about a teenager fighting and rebelling with his parents as he moves from being the dependent submissive child for his whole life to the independent free man. His is a natur…
/r/seduction03/11/10 12:52 AM
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He must already be a master then.
/r/seduction26/10/10 10:53 PM
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One good first step, whether you're out walking, at the mall, store, work, out to eat, is to really focus on holding eye contact with people. Both men and women. Hold friendly eye contact with people you normally wouldn't have the balls to look at. Hot women, dudes that look like badasses with tattoos, etc. You'll be surprised with the results. It will give you hope, and it's a manageable first baby step.
/r/seduction26/10/10 10:12 PM
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Unfortunately, following the advice "don't shit where you eat." "don't fish off the company dock" etc is easier said than done. You ARE going to feel attraction towards your female coworkers. It's inevitable to feel powerful attraction for women you spend a large part of your daily life being around. I think the majority of us have at least hooked up with a coworker at some point in our lives. As other sedditors mentioned, the fallout from the breakup can be brutal though. Office gossip, facing …
/r/seduction26/10/10 09:09 PM
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my buddy has a quote he always throws at me "all the best ones are taken". This holds true for the most part. Any girl that's worth being with has to be plucked away from someone else. The quality girls simply aren't available in the traditional sense. In the cases where these quality women do find themselves single, they rarely stay on the market for very long at all.
/r/seduction26/10/10 01:08 PM
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I just stumbled on this link today. It features Neil Strauss from about 4 years ago on the Jimmy Kimmel Show. My first thought is that Alba seemed into Strauss. Also, Kimmel seemed to be threatened by Strauss and started to AMOG him. Interrupting Strauss so he couldn't hold court. Condescending him; talking down to him; making fun of his baldness. I've had guys AMOG me in this fashion before so I recognize it. I don't watch the Kimmel show so I don't know if this is par for the course for a Kimm…
/r/seduction25/10/10 08:39 AM
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Because of social proof and power position, I've seen managers/bartenders/owners clean house on the women in restaurant settings. I'm talking the type of situation where they've slept with 3,4, or 5 of the women on the staff. I've seen this situation working at Kmart many years ago too. My buddy also cleaned house working as a shift manager at a Home Depot. He was in his late 20's landing 18-25yr old hotties that worked there.
/r/seduction23/10/10 08:14 PM
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Subtract her clothes, divide her legs, and show her your natural log.
/r/seduction22/10/10 12:39 AM
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Loved the part where the AMOG cock-blocked you with the chair and you friended him resulting in the girl moving into his spot. Sweet move.
/r/seduction22/10/10 12:34 AM
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"Once you're not gaming her, she won't want to hang out if you're paying attention to other women." This is the opposite of what actually happens.
/r/seduction21/10/10 11:37 PM
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intjpua's advice is totally correct. But also think about this. do you really want to be with a chick like this? there's better options out there.
/r/seduction18/10/10 10:11 AM
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I started off a foreigner to the bar scene in my mid 20's. It's a shock to your system to be immersed in that environment for the first time. Throw picking-up-girls out the window at first. Just try to go to the bars a few times and get acclimated. We humans are all built in with fear of foreign territories. Make it so the bar isn't a foreign territory and you'll be able to relax more. You have enough going on in your mind just having approach anxiety of women. Fear of a foreign environment just…
/r/seduction18/10/10 07:54 AM
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Warcowboy, look at the circumstances of the crumminess in this particular case.
/r/seduction16/10/10 11:33 AM
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"To be heard, you had to speak loudly inches away from the other person's ear." Oh that's really too bad. You have to get inches away from a girl now. Girls have cooties.
/r/seduction16/10/10 09:06 AM
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It sounds like you're trying to do the David DeAngelo "Cocky/Funny" method of pickup. You should be able to start working kino that way by doing stuff like physically lifting her up in the air and getting her shrieking and laughing. Get her following your commands and go from there. Can you provide details to what the guy who got the HB7 was doing leading up to that? Was he with other girls? Friends? Is it possible he knew her from before?
/r/seduction16/10/10 09:02 AM
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STABBED IN THE TUMMY!
/r/seduction16/10/10 08:11 AM
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Two of my friends live with their parents and pull more poon than King Solomon. I'm still amazed by it.
/r/seduction16/10/10 08:03 AM
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monk, you're wording was a bit harsh so you got down-voted, but you are correct. OP, you can run game on girls of any age with the same positive results. It doesn't matter. I was shocked when I first discovered this. It doesn't matter.
/r/seduction16/10/10 08:01 AM
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Learn everything you can from this guy. Notice how he treats you cool and talks you up behind your back, not down. This guy is very socially intelligent. Notice what he does to command attention of the masses (holding court). Notice how he handles it when his dominance and authority are challenged by other AMOGs and other women(shit tests). Pay attention to his body language and mannerisms more that the words he speaks. In my own experience, it's been impossible for me to work my way higher up i…
/r/seduction16/10/10 01:02 AM
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Your point made me think of gambling. Vegas knows you need to taste wins at least some of the time or you'd never come back.
/r/seduction15/10/10 09:14 PM
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Religious girls love to have sex too! And they have a tendency not to blab about it.
/r/seduction14/10/10 11:55 PM
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We need a followup after "movie night"
/r/seduction14/10/10 09:55 PM
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http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=beta+male
/r/seduction14/10/10 09:22 PM
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It sounds to me like you've sorta taken on the role of the "gay friend" in this group. Not suggesting you're gay by any means, but picture a gay dude hanging out with these girls and that's sort of how I picture you in your interactions with them...listening to their problems and getting emotionally caught up in their dramas, etc. Change your thinking a little bit here. You're around a bunch of girls all the time. Preselection through the roof. You should be their protector and leader. Other wom…
/r/seduction14/10/10 09:48 AM
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This friend of your is an AMOG. I've been in, and known friendships where one person likes to have status/value/power over the other friends. It's not in his best interest to see you ascend in status/value/power at risk of losing his leadership place in your entourage. I'm sure he's a great friend in a lot of other ways, but I've seen this happen before. OP, just out of curiosity , how do these girls respond to your buddy? Are you seeing the women display attraction towards him during these grou…
/r/seduction14/10/10 12:20 AM
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Is this a guy you just recently met? If so, just ignore him is the easiest way to deal with it. Most guys get the hint. On the other hand, if this is a guy who's been orbiting around you for a while, it's best to confront him and make clear the nature of your relationship.
/r/seduction08/10/10 03:32 PM
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Are these "friends" female and also around the age of 19? If so, fucking go! Time to switch targets.
/r/seduction07/10/10 12:58 PM
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"I'm a typical engineer, small social circle, not very experienced with girls/relationships, smokes weed, fairly funny, on my way to an average 9-5 day job life." You're on your way to making more money than 90% of America and probably 99% of the world as a whole. Talk about selling yourself short. You have some internal issues you need to deal with before you can get this girl
/r/seduction07/10/10 12:54 PM
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Eye contact is a great first step in learning pickup. It's low risk and gets amazing results. It's a good starting trick for teaching newbies the game. As far as eye contact outdoors, the low-results issue that the OP brought up happen for me also. I've only had consistent success getting girls to blush, crack a smile, etc, when I pass them indoors like in a hallway.
/r/seduction07/10/10 05:52 AM
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I wouldn't follow that advice. Looks like you're putting to much thought into the interaction. Destroys your value showing up like that. Knock on her door to borrow some milk and go from there. Start a quick convo and leave. A day or two later, get another girl over to your place and send her down to the gals apartment with the repayment milk. Now you have two girls to pick from.
/r/seduction07/10/10 05:41 AM
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amen
/r/seduction07/10/10 05:25 AM
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Thanks for the NSFW heads up. ass.
/r/seduction06/10/10 07:54 PM
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You actually lost her during the make out session. When she turned down your advance, you should have backed off as if nothing happened, being lighthearted, playful and keeping the humor, went back to playing guitar with her or something. Then you should have reinitiated the kiss again later. Rinse, wash, repeat the backoff/reinitiate steps if you get rejected. Keep plowing ahead. Just keep plowing. If she really didn't want you to seduce her, she'd find a reason to leave the room. By the way, M…
/r/seduction06/10/10 10:57 AM
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Ya, unfortunately I agree with cbraga. I've made your mistake and failed to pull the trigger. The window is closing rapidly if not already. "sat close together" tells me you plowed no kino. tickling? wresting? hugging? anything? I always run the gum test. 90% of the girls I've kissed for the first time suddenly decide to chew a piece of gum. She pops some orbitz in while you're watching a movie, then all systems go. get to it.
/r/seduction06/10/10 12:41 AM
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A couple of questions if you don't mind taking the time. What was it that attracted you to this guy out of all your other coworkers in your office? Do you know or know of women he's dated in his past? Does he have a reputation for being a player? Apologize for not answering your question. Just trying to get a better picture of what's happening here.
/r/seduction06/10/10 12:33 AM
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Have you ever gotten good at anything in two weeks? Thick skin my friend.
/r/seduction05/10/10 11:20 PM
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This girl is definitely shopping her wares on the market.
/r/seduction05/10/10 01:03 AM
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Does this really work? Or does it simply just make them want you more?
/r/seduction05/10/10 12:41 AM
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Depends on the situation. A little light flirting is usually ok. Some girls are looking for an out though. The monkey doesn't let go of the vine until it has firm grasp of the next vine.
/r/seduction05/10/10 12:34 AM
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The "no kino" part is great advice. It sucks, but even greeting/parting hugs can be interpreted as magic to a girl that likes you.
/r/seduction04/10/10 10:23 PM
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Any reddit post has to be treated as a troll, sure. But I think in this case, it's a real issue. You start getting good at pickup and you're going to have female fans. Some that you don't want in "that" way. Just like a hot chick. She has so many options, she has to friendzone or ignore some of them just to keep things manageable.
/r/seduction04/10/10 10:18 PM
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If you hook up with this new gal, the door's gonna blow wide open with other friends in this circle. Like a lion with access to all the females on the plains of the Serengeti. All them will want you. Badly. Just make sure you respect their reputation and privacy, don't brag about it (leave that to the girls). You'll be set. Good luck.
/r/seduction04/10/10 07:55 PM
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Bottom line is that a guy and a girl can never really be "just friends". Just won't happen. There's always someone who wants more. Sometimes it's the "friendzoned" guy and sometimes the it's the girl (usually a fatty...sorry but true). Someone always wants the other in a guy-girl friendship. We're not biologically wired to invest a lot of our time in a member of the opposite sex without intimacy. One option would be the friends-with-benefits, which has it's own issues, but I'm sure others on her…
/r/seduction04/10/10 07:44 PM
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