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NO! He can’t be rehabilitated (research this, please). Keep him out of your home and far away from your children. I wouldn’t even want your husband showing him pictures of your kids. Your husband should talk to whomever is supervising his release and learn about these kind of offenders. He shouldn’t want him around your kids. That bothers me. No, no, no!
/r/RedPillWives01/01/23 06:19 AM
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I make him breakfast, lunch, and dinner every single day, unless he has a meeting.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/22 03:18 AM
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I’m making lasagna (his mom’s recipe that is so delicious), sautéed zucchini, Caesar salad, and garlic bread for dinner, then pecan pie for dessert.
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/21 08:02 PM
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I’m married to a very hvm who has hvm friends. None of them have even heard of the red pill.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/21 01:21 AM
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Totally agree. I think they should try therapy, if she wants to try to make this work. He should NOT be guilting her.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/21 04:13 AM
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I’m sorry, this must be hard for both of you. Is there any possible way you can adjust his kink in a way that you don’t hate it? If it’s anything degrading to you, I would say it may be very hard to fix. Maybe ask over on r/sex, with your throw away, but more details about his preferences. They’re all about helping people, but they will tell you that you never have to participate in or like things you just don’t like. I think a sexless marriage will be very, very hard on the 2 of you because you…
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/21 03:44 PM
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I don’t know where you were raised, but are there cultural or religious expectations for women to be virgins when they marry? I understand you thought you were marrying the other 2. But for him, this may actually be a dealbreaker, especially with him being a virgin when you met. You being sexually experienced (even minimally) may be emasculating to him if you’re in a culture where female virginity is valued. Can you two try counseling? Just a suggestion, while honesty and full transparency is id…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/21 05:20 PM
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Stop hugging all of them. You can shake hands or just wave goodbye and leave. Start dating more guys. Use Christian dating sites or groups in your areas to meet other people. You’ll get over him by finding someone new. He’s not interested and seeming hurt and desperate won’t make him interested.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/21 11:09 AM
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The journal the other poster replied is a great idea. Just get a space for your thoughts and feelings where he isn’t criticizing you. Build up some strength. Don’t criticize him. Try not to say “you ALWAYS (do this or that or blame me) and the therapist said not to.” Let the therapist handle that part of him. If he criticizes you, and it’s reasonable, try to correct it and move on. If it’s wearing you down, go do a hobby or something that makes you happy. Even taking a break to get your nails do…
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/21 11:05 AM
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I agree with those who have said it sounds like you’ve criticized his choices in the past. It also sounds like you’re controlling him—you’re trying to make him pick the date. Relieve all pressure and accept him as he is. If he doesn’t like planning date night, don’t do it. Find inner happiness and do hobbies instead of trying to get him to plan these nights. I know you want to spend time with him, but you have to take the pressure off first. Let him just enjoy being around you so that he’ll want…
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/21 10:56 AM
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I have 4 kids and breastfed them all for about 18months. I second the nursing bras. Get good ones that don’t cause clogged ducts, but support you and give some shape. The great thing about breastfeeding boobs is they help conceal the postpartum belly. Flowy tops and wrap dresses that are fitted around your breasts can be really flattering. I used to also wear a nursing tank (the brand was discontinued) that was an actual bra style on top, but then compression tank on the belly. LOVED those and w…
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/21 08:37 PM
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He’s a not drunk guy at the bar at last call scrambling to find anything to take home wanting sex—he has some choice. It is possible that he wants the quiet, younger, less aggressive girl because he is a predator. But also, I live in Texas where the age of consent is 17, and your situation is not always predator and prey. He may be a good guy who honestly is attracted to you and not her. Just PLEASE be careful. Do like the others have said and tell your church, your family, and your friends when…
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/21 12:17 AM
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That’s great! Sounds like it couldn’t have gone any better. Glad you’re happy and hope it works out well with him! The jumpsuit sounds perfect!
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/21 04:46 PM
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La Perla or Dita Von Teese’s line
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/21 02:22 AM
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She might not be his type. He might prefer the more timid girl who doesn’t come onto him. She may have been too forward, even if it was all feminine and flirtatious. Just because you think she’s more attractive doesn’t mean he does. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/21 02:13 AM
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I’m not saying he’s a bad guy, but you have yet to experience the game some men play. He could just be saying he finds you intelligent and insightful because he knows it’s what you want to hear. I’m not saying you’re not, but just know that some men are very good at seeming sincere when they’re just trying to get you in bed. Please listen to this poster about the power dynamic. It’s not necessarily wrong, but something you’re not prepared for. And as much as I hate to say it, don’t be fooled int…
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/21 01:45 AM
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In addition to my comment, I also completely agree with all of this! Big upvote.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/21 09:20 PM
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I went through a version of this. I’m a 35 yR old SAHM, married for 16 years to a HVM, and I’m happy. The transition from college and working to staying home and raising kids took some time. It’s really great that you realize you need to work on this. Not only does trying to control him emasculate him, but it makes it very clear you don’t respect him. You don’t respect him as a good earner and provider, you doubt his ability to perform and succeed in the workplace, and you’re even suggesting he …
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/21 09:13 PM
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Can you bake something yourself? I would hesitate to bring a bottle of hard liquor. Maybe a more palatable dessert wine? Editing because you asked what to wear. I would do some kind of dress. If it’s cold already where you are, add thick tights and dress boots. Are you planning to be intimate with him? I guess you could dress a little more revealingly, if you are. Maybe a lower cut sweater? Since you’ll be at his house, you’re dressing only for him, without other men looking at you. A knee-lengt…
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/21 07:59 PM
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This is a really good idea. It shows him respect and that you care about keeping your family’s home clean—both are very important.
/r/RedPillWives17/05/21 01:47 PM
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