ajeterdanslapoubelle Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
83	Becoming alpha when never needed to be?	Rant/Venting	ajeterdanslapoubelle	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/22 02:51 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Becoming alpha when never needed to be? Yeah, there's definitely some truth in your criticisms. I gotta man up and level up.	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/22 05:37 AM
3	Becoming alpha when never needed to be? I've gotten some good advice here and am going to get to work.	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/22 11:27 PM
2	Becoming alpha when never needed to be? Oh for sure he was being arrogant, especially since we were all a little drunk. But it was more playful than hurtful. You know, two buddies playing 1v1 and he dropped the game winner in my face.	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/22 11:23 PM
2	Becoming alpha when never needed to be? It wasn't malicious from him, just more so, "come on, bro, sit down, this is grown up stuff."	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/22 10:02 PM
7	Becoming alpha when never needed to be? Not sure. But no matter who we are, we all have our insecurities and room for improvement.	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/22 10:00 PM
1	Becoming alpha when never needed to be? Yes, when I was doing bjj and muay Thai, I definitely had a swagger. I need to start again.	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/22 10:00 PM
3	Becoming alpha when never needed to be? It's that potent? I've been thinking of trying the Angion Method. You heard of it?	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/22 09:59 PM
1	Becoming alpha when never needed to be? Damn, good point. Move strength to strength. I was definitely a dangle guy in my sport, almost to a fault. Had to add some bite and it took me to the next level. I love the analogy you used because I can think of incorporating some elements of another player while not losing my own strengths. So I just want to add a little bite, but not become the grinder.	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/22 09:58 PM
2	Becoming alpha when never needed to be? Good steps! Getting there. The diaphragm is a good one because my voice is a little hollow and airy.	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/22 09:54 PM
3	Becoming alpha when never needed to be? Fantastic insight and big respect for you to overcome what you did. I'm glad you're getting the right treatment and getting involved in sport. Let's fucking go!	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/22 09:52 PM
2	Becoming alpha when never needed to be? Congrats on hitting your stride! Love the process-focused mentality. Yes, I need to focus on being more outcome independent and seeking less approval/validation.	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/22 06:47 PM
3	Becoming alpha when never needed to be? That's quality. Appreciate it!	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/22 06:42 PM
8	Becoming alpha when never needed to be? Hell yeah! Yes, watching thoughts is important. I've always been the little guy at home: my bro is taller/bigger than me and grew up when the family wasn't as established yet, my dad is much older, smarter, wiser, and experienced than I am, plus he's very traditional. So I go into situations conditioned into thinking I'm the smaller guy, when in reality I'm the bigger one. I defer to others because that was my position in the home and I didn't want to challenge the hierarchy (serious consequence…	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/22 03:51 PM
7	Becoming alpha when never needed to be? Damn, that's some good insight. I respect your journey. What kinds of issues do you face when managing people? I definitely have issues with rejection and need to push my limits on that side. I have some insecurities and crutches to fall back on to make myself feel better again, usually through seeking validation. There are so many things I suck at and need to embrace. I started doing BJJ/Muay Thai, and got my ass whooped. I'm not from an elite financial background, immigrant background, but my …	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/22 03:44 PM