ajfoucault Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Should women be “giving guys a chance”? women should have as high standards as they can date The problem is most women (and some men too) don't abide by the "as they can date" part of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/25 03:18 AM
37	Women definitely equate (involuntarily) single men with losers It’s hilarious to think that I have to try to “impress” some of these insanely boring and uninteresting women. bro cooked with this sentence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/25 10:13 PM
6	"Every woman is unique in their taste in men" lol no they aren't White Being white in OLD gives the person a massive advantage, even if the height or other factors are lacking. Also a body count in the 30+ is definitely in "universal appeal" territory, I'd say.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/25 06:20 PM
10	American men are becoming disinterested But socializing is much more chaotic and "RNG" based, and has failure and uncertainty built into it not as a bug, but as a feature. This is so well put. Thank you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/25 09:01 AM
0	Single mothers symbolize something deeply painful to a lot of men This could apply to other contexts that do not involve a single mother. I will borrow some of your ideas and expand on them a bit with a personal experience I had while dating someone for 3 months in 2021. But he was the one she gave her best to. Her youth, her body, her freedom. "You didn't get to have me on my prime years, I gave my years from 18 to 21 to a man in his 30s (which is a huge red flag in of itself) and now that I've had my share of poor decisions, I choose you, and I can't even be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/25 06:26 PM
0	There is honestly no need to have kids, enter a long term relationship or become married anymore as a man Kelly Marie Tran as a below average is wild. She's attractive. Saoirse Ronan as average is also insane. She's super attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 04:35 PM
2	Women, what is your perception of the male experience? What do you think life is like for us, or in what ways do you imagine or see it differing? Oh, I apologize, I wasn't clear enough in my original post. She was the ONLY one that was toxic. The rest were mature, well-adjusted, wonderful women, and even when it wouldn't work out, the breakups were healthy and mutual.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 07:47 PM
8	Women, what is your perception of the male experience? What do you think life is like for us, or in what ways do you imagine or see it differing? thinks life is a continuous adolescence that includes only run and games and no responsibilities doesn't stick to her words mama's girl very impulsive wants instant gratification can't listen can't imagine life in other people's shoes, throws tantrums when she's wrong and starts pointing fingers and making accusations I see you've met the ONLY (thanfully) toxic ex I've had. She was female tho.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 06:52 PM
2	What public figure would you choose to be a role model for the opposite sex? One of these is not like the others.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 06:47 PM
6	this might be an unpopular opinion but dating the top 20% of men are overrated. Just get you an average man and live an average lifestyle. Dating the top 20% of men is not what its cracked up to be This graph is... wild.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 05:25 PM
–	I believe some peoples problem is that they are trying to fill a void and people can sense that Desperation and urgency also tends to set off a lot of red flags, as it often indicates something is wrong. Other times it's a sign of something more serious. Can confirm. Dated someone that after the 3rd date was already pushy for a label on our relationship (talking stage to boyfriend-girlfriend in only 3 dates is weird). Also, the fact that it took two months and a half to make it to the 3rd date because of how "busy" she was on the weekends was another red flag in of itself. Either way it's …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 06:33 PM
1	Why do men not like women "settling" for them if they are doing the same thing? *mediocrity Based take, despite the typo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/23 05:59 PM
1	The worst part about getting older as a dude is how much faster women age than men, and at only 32 being forced to date girls in their 20s most of the time. You can’t discuss this though, women get mad! I find them to more demanding as they age. Their standards rise as they age. This. So much this. Your looks have depreciated and you come with a high body count and also emotional baggage. Don't expect better men to hit on you now than the ones who were hitting on you in your prime. That is why you see a lot of women who are permasingles in the mid 30s and up categories in dating apps.	/r/AllPillDebate	25/08/23 06:23 PM
0	The worst part about getting older as a dude is how much faster women age than men, and at only 32 being forced to date girls in their 20s most of the time. You can’t discuss this though, women get mad! Unpopular opinion, but Margot Robbie is mid and overrated.	/r/AllPillDebate	25/08/23 06:21 PM
1	My failure with women is leading me to leave earth. Being a man who has NEVER been in any form of physical intimacy with a women is mentally destroying. I understand your perspective. But you are thinking of a permanent "solution" for what seems to be a temporary problem. How old are you?	/r/AllPillDebate	22/08/23 04:48 PM
2	You Can’t Truly Love Your Partner If Height Is A Dealbreaker for a good majority of people today wanting to genuinely love and grow with someone isn’t the driving force behind getting relationships. For most people it’s always a myriad of selfish self serving motivations. Unfathomably based.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 08:22 PM
1	Q4M: If “settling” is bad, why should women “lower their standards” and “be less selective/picky”? This woman is absolutely unhinged. If I hadn't seen the name of the subreddit, I would have thought it's some copy-pasta meme stuff.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 08:03 PM
11	Many of the problems in the dating landscape can be attributed to a lack of viable social venues for young people. This woman is based and must be protected at all costs. Whoever you are, I hope you thrive, and I hope your plain-looking female friends learn humility from you and re-assess their standards and tastes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 10:08 PM
6	'There is more to life than sex and relationships' She knows it “hurts” now but in 4-6 weeks she’ll sucker some other chump into her life by simply flinging her legs open. Men, however, have to absorb the burden of thousands of left swipes on dating apps and frequent venues for meeting new people only to experience a relentless wave of perpetual rejection for months or years. Unfathomably based.	/r/AllPillDebate	03/08/23 06:09 PM
2	You have three wishes, what dating behaviors in men/women would you change? Write the novel and I'll be your editor and agent. I want 30% of the profits. Including movie adaptations and all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 04:47 PM
2	You have three wishes, what dating behaviors in men/women would you change? This whole thing sounds straight out of an Isaac Asimov or Michael Crichton novel.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 03:50 PM
4	Female women, how would you feel if most men did not desire you at all? That being said, so many men suffer such loneliness. Specially young men. Figuring out relationships and even casual interactions are tough. Men and women live in such different worlds that understanding each other even in a casual encounter like a party is really tough. This is strangely wholesome. The lady sought to understand OP and even went as far as acknowledging the issue of loneliness that plagues so many men (and even some women) in Western society. Kudos to you for being an empathetic …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 03:55 PM
4	If you met your ideal woman today, do you think she would like you? but the personality fit (or the fact that she "gets you") is what makes it exceptional. Unfathomably based.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 09:21 PM
6	Do you know any guys who are REALLY unsuccessful with women? What's their story? Malcom women What is a Malcom woman?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 07:28 PM
2	If I need to be perfectly happy alone for a partner to find a partner to like me, why would I want a partner in the first place? There’s a large scale between needing someone because you hate yourself and wanting someone because you recognize it can enrich your life but would be okay alone. I think this is where the crux of the matter lies, truly. One thing is thinking: "well, I have a great career, a solid group of friends, a loving and supportive extended family, and I feel great about my looks! Surely having a partner would enhance this!" Another thing is thinking: "I have no friends or family to care for me. I hate my…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/23 06:26 PM
2	Men always talk about promiscuous women, and how it affects the women(wich is true) BUT it's the same for men until only the rage remains. Metalcore band name alert.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/23 05:14 PM
10	Most "male approaches" are just misunderstandings from women Unfathomably based. I asked a woman for a napkin this past weekend (there were people in my way, stopping me to get to that side of the table at the social event). She gave it to me and quickly scurried away. I literally ONLY wanted the napkin. Next time I am bringing napkins in my pocket to avoid misunderstandings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/23 04:19 PM
4	Guys should filter out women who don't show any interest, romantically or sexually To be fair if men actually did that and left women alone that would absolutely fix almost all problems we have with dating. The lack of attention would force women to readjust their standards and make them willing to date men on their level. Unfathomably based.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/23 10:28 PM
–	What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you downvoted if you said it? Unfathomably based.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/23 07:12 PM
1	What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you downvoted if you said it? I don't know why everyone says that women should play cold and hard to get. That's some fucked up shit. It's playing games. I want to feel validated. I want to feel wanted. It's not a bad thing. It's a GOOD THING, for the love of christ. Based.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/23 06:26 PM
–	40 percent of Japanese men in their 20s have never been on a date any source to back this claim up? Huge if true!	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/23 06:13 PM
1	Men in your 30s, do you actually not want to date women in their 30s? Based.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/23 07:51 AM
3	What's the general consensus on the right age to marry as a man? I think just marry up in your 30s but skip the sleeping around in your 20s part?	/r/RPChristians	26/06/22 12:55 AM
5	Recently divorced - I don't know how to vet women without sleeping with them (is it even possible?) I kinda want to see eye to eye on some level with OP and ask a similar question: I don't believe in sex outside of marriage either but what if you end up marrying a woman with WAY LOWER libido and sex drive than you? How can one asses and vet that area of their personality?	/r/RPChristians	27/01/21 05:22 AM
4	3 Year RP Field Report Amazingly stated. Encouraging. Thank you for sharing. Your wife is part of the circle that you disciple, though so make sure to still devote time and attention to her. A Christian's first mission field is his family. But everything else is on point. Keep pursuing discipleship with those around you!	/r/RPChristians	24/12/20 09:34 PM
-2	Dating as a Single Christian Not necessarily hitting on the guy per se, but just saying "hi, how are you?" Or just some baseline level of courtesy and friendly inquiry would go a long way ("that's a cool hat you've got, are you a Dodgers fan?" For instance).	/r/RPChristians	28/11/20 08:28 AM
4	Do not be unequally yoked. So well-written. Thank you so much for sharing.	/r/RPChristians	25/11/20 06:04 AM