akathedoc Archive

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7	My gf caught me sexting a random girl She caught you. Something you didnt want to be caught with. Which you acknowledge, is wrong and she acknowledges is wrong when in an assumedly LTR. You lied, beta bucks, instead of doubling down and owning it. Now like you said, “broken trust” which will never fully heal the relationship. At the start of an LTR, you get 100% blind faith. You’ve ruined that instead if keeping her as a plate and filling your fetish void with other plates you’ve mislead this poor chick into thinking youre actually …	/r/askMRP	28/05/23 06:53 PM
4	Advice for "equality" in the bedroom Yeah agreed. You’re going to need to level up your O game. Learn different techniques for ideas if you find yourself doing the same thing. Building sexual tension throughout the day via touching, emotional charged words or thoughts of what you want to do to her later etc. If she is not soaked before you get down there, you’re going down for a 20 minute adventure. Your goal would be to make her cum in 5 minutes ultimately. Might take a while and may even be unrealistic but it’s all about the setu…	/r/askMRP	13/02/23 01:25 AM
12	Got mad at a FWB/plate, dropped her and blocked her. Now shes going crazy. What do I do now? I know this is Mrp but can I get advice on what should I do? I'm feeling extremely guilty like a soft faggot and rethinking backpedal Sounds like her problem, not yours. She led herself on. You were always the sidepiece. She feels bad cause shes got nothing to show for her cheating. No validation, she is seeking your validation for cheating. All those texts are her hamster rationalizing her bad behavior. Keep her as a plate or find another girl. If you do keep her as a plate, best to make it clear to her and yourself that you do not see a future. She is a cheater, she will do that to you. Do what you want and own it. Go read W…	/r/askMRP	17/01/23 04:18 PM
8	Withhold affection : How effective is it and how far should one take it! Yes, communicate clearly. “ I do not like this behavior” it would be easier to help if you elaborated on the behavior that you do not like with examples. Communicate effectively the problem she is presenting then that you do not like it. Give her a chance to fix it. Come from a place of affection and the good of the relationship. I.e she is being emotional and looking to manufacture some kind of affection. You are pulling your affection as basically a covert contract and not communicating what i…	/r/askMRP	17/01/23 12:41 PM
8	Why is STFU so hard? (honest question) So you're spinning your wheels on making a decision when you keep repeating the word reluctance. Take it one of two ways. You are not ready or you do not want a surrogate child. Whether it's now or later does not matter. You do not know how to say no. You're hamstering / deluding yourself and her with this building trust goal. When will it be enough trust ? You can't possibly give her an objective answer as it is inherently a subjective notion. Go read no more mr nice guy. No wonder she is havin…	/r/askMRP	26/11/22 03:27 PM
1	Where to to go Read the sidebar links in this sub reddit. Look at the stickied posts. The reading alone will take you time weeks - months to digest. Read / practice, improve. Come back and post here when you need clarification or about your field reports.	/r/askMRP	10/10/22 11:25 AM
1	Responding to getting asked for favors with hints for sex The point is to untangle favor and sex. Go about it however youd like. I’ve only played out one likely scenario.	/r/askMRP	01/02/22 05:47 PM
6	Responding to getting asked for favors with hints for sex Trading favors for sex is fine with context. If this is happening on rare occasion… no issue. If it’s frequent read on. She is already thinking of having sex regardless of whether you do the favor or not. She is manipulating you to do a favor which is fine, everyone participates in manipulation one way or another. I would be concerned if she starts promising things and not delivering and then you may have a problem with it and are exhibiting outcome dependence. You should be okay with the favor …	/r/askMRP	01/02/22 02:33 PM
2	Did I fail? Best response here	/r/askMRP	25/12/21 02:55 AM
2	Stop ignoring your wife “If you’re ignoring her, how the fuck are you going to pass it “ First of all, you are the judge of your actions not her. Whether or not you pass her shit test in her eyes is irrelevant. If you choose to ignore her because she made some half ass cheeky shit test, ignore it move on and lead the conversation to something productive. I.e building daily attraction, setting up plans, doing something. The ignoring her shit tests is a brute force way to deal with them. There are other and more subtle w…	/r/MarriedRedPill	20/09/21 12:04 PM
2	Cuddles ain't free vs Kino Reading is one thing. Practicing is where you gain the actual experience to change your brain wiring. Practice catch and release. Do approaches on girls, flirt etc knowing that you dont intend to break any boundaries on your relationship. Go to bars with a buddy, flirt with girls be the wingman. Teach yourself you are the catch. If you can’t do these then you’ve got work and a starting point.	/r/askMRP	03/09/21 09:48 PM
4	Being good at texting won't get you laid Might be an age thing. The rules still apply but once you hit about 21 and have expendable income and your own apartment then you’ll start realizing what OP is saying is dead on.	/r/TheRedPill	07/11/20 10:59 PM