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New girl sounds rad man. I feel like you are upset most about being replaced and being wanted. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Attachment_theory#Anxious-resistant_insecure_attachment
/r/seduction05/03/15 11:27 PM
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A dozen isn't close to enough. There are billions of people in the world; you can't expect to click with one of the first twelve you like. Keep dating and going out, this is a big area to practice and takes time.
/r/seduction28/02/15 06:48 PM
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There is only one comment on this entire post about boundaries. Nice guys get friendzoned because they don't establish firm boundaries.
/r/seduction22/09/14 06:47 AM
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The hardest thing nice guys have is continuing with relationships that are more conducive to the needs of other people vs their own- they let themselves get walked over so other people good while they take the beating. A girl ended things with me tonight. For the first time I had been the one who had been wishy washy and not committed. I waited too long to decide I wanted to go all in. She told me she had been feeling like she was going to throw up all day because she was afraid to lose me as a …
/r/seduction15/09/14 09:11 AM
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fisherman with the biggest net catches the most fish. don't stop spreading it.
/r/seduction26/04/14 05:44 AM
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Milk before meat. If people still can't or aren't applying, then they still need it. I don't read much anymore because of the same reasons; maybe you should spend more time doing other things than reading things you already know?
/r/seduction20/03/14 08:57 PM
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Man, this isn't gonna be easy to hear, but you need new friends. Your friends sound like they're rubbing off on you and not helping you become who you want to be.
/r/seduction05/03/14 11:52 PM
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i feel like you totally missed what he said. go have a good time and help other people have a good time too.
/r/seduction13/12/13 07:57 PM
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"close friends"
/r/seduction17/09/13 03:42 PM
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I would think it would be super easy to teach something about linguistics, incorporate kino, and make your intentions known in a fun and seductive manner..
/r/seduction14/06/13 04:34 AM
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Any improvement you make in yourself you do for you and for nobody else, that's the #1 rule.
/r/seduction13/05/13 05:48 AM
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Maybe just covering the phone with one hand and pulling her in closer with the other?
/r/seduction10/05/13 06:09 PM
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Putting their phone in your pocket comes off awfully controlling...
/r/seduction10/05/13 07:31 AM
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I think a pretty typical response here is something sexual because that's what most regular guys would do. I think subtle is definitely the better route here, because it would make you stand out in her mind more.
/r/seduction10/05/13 07:04 AM
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Don't give up hope. I'm the same way and I think that communication and everything should be key, but that's because we are idealists. The reality is communication isn't the way "we think it should be" all the time. Change your perception and everything else will change with it.
/r/seduction20/04/13 03:31 AM
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Yup, I can agree with that.
/r/seduction20/04/13 12:11 AM
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I personally would never do a movie date until I'd been out with a girl 4-5 times. But, with her being a film major, that changes things.
/r/seduction19/04/13 09:01 PM
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Unless the "movie date" is a date at one of your places, please don't do a movie date. It's honestly one of the worst dates you can do. Do something fun like darts, pool, an arcade, ice skating, way easier to initiate kino and much more fun.
/r/seduction19/04/13 04:10 PM
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you know, this is usually true, and the hardest part is getting over the hope that they do. you start dating other people, and getting back into the abundance mentality, but you still have that hope, that space in your mind for her to walk right back into if she wanted to. it's so difficult to excavate her from that space. what we need to realize is, that she walked out, that space is open for the taking, and she needs to earn it just as much as the next one.
/r/seduction19/04/13 07:41 AM
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... I go on plenty of dates and ask plenty of girls out, but I don't start group activities with my friends enough. New goal acquired.
/r/seduction17/04/13 10:36 PM
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Holy hell, are you me? The exact same thing happened to me this semester. I went from being super abundance mentality last semester and right after Christmas break, to meeting a girl and getting really emotionally invested in a girl who wasn't available and who also still communicates with her abusive ex. She ended it, and it broke me, and now I'm rebuilding.. which is why I've gone out with 6 different girls in the last 2 weeks and I have 4-5 dates planned for this week. The mistake we made bro…
/r/seduction07/04/13 08:21 PM
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Stop drinking.
/r/seduction28/03/13 05:00 PM
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one of the funniest things ive read recently and perfect for me right now.. minus the alcohol.
/r/seduction22/03/13 05:43 AM
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Doesn't matter how much you have of something if it isn't a good or valuable thing.
/r/seduction11/03/13 02:02 AM
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Darn, well that's unfortunate.
/r/seduction16/02/13 09:45 AM
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Keep going to the gym and exercising and eating right and your circulation will improve and your hands will warm up over time.
/r/seduction15/02/13 09:53 PM
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Great post; bold & confident. But, I'm curious about the bolded lines. She obviously forgave you for being passive in the past.
/r/seduction14/01/13 07:28 AM
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so, should we always let them bring up exclusivity first?
/r/seduction13/01/13 11:52 PM
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Using kino, improving my posture and frame, and dressing well. But most importantly, practice and repetition.
/r/seduction28/12/12 02:45 AM
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The only way you could pull it off is if you are dressed up, and your fits are impeccable. Like he is, all the time.
/r/seduction22/10/12 07:08 AM
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Or Neal Caffrey in White Collar.
/r/seduction21/10/12 10:09 PM
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awesome. this is so good.
/r/seduction07/10/12 04:31 AM
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Excellent post for the less "loud and in charge" people out there.
/r/seduction04/10/12 07:47 AM
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This guy says deal with it
/r/seduction11/09/12 06:23 AM
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this left a good feel
/r/seduction11/09/12 06:06 AM
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time for a mentality change dude. i game too but balance is key, you'll be so much happier if you can get out more often.
/r/seduction08/09/12 08:37 PM
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I think for most people approaching is the most difficult part, and with so much information available it's easy to forget simple things like this. But, I agree!
/r/seduction27/08/12 08:53 PM
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Everyone gets blown out. It's only once you stop being scared of it that it stops holding you back. Conquering fear is one of the most primal and addictive feelings in the world. try it out. That's motivating. Awesome.
/r/seduction30/07/12 03:47 AM
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this is excellent advice for where you're at. she is just an option, repeat the process and don't be outcome dependent.
/r/seduction08/07/12 05:57 AM
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i'm going to go against the grain, you need to find a girl who's good at picking up guys and get advice from her.
/r/seduction02/07/12 09:29 AM
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Find friends that aren't douchebags that try to wreck what you've been working on Annnnd after you resolve the bigger issue of your "friends", calmly explain that your "friend" was jealous of your interaction and relationships you had been establishing and did blahblahblah on the faceberk.
/r/seduction30/06/12 10:04 AM
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Your experience is almost identical to mine. We are still friends and I just realized a few days ago I no longer have an interest in more. Feels good man.
/r/seduction26/06/12 07:41 AM
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You won't feel exactly what you felt for her for anyone else, I mean she fueled a huge transformation and change in your life. But that change lead you to the opportunity to feel something even better with someone else.
/r/seduction10/06/12 09:49 PM
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APC New Standard, slightly cheaper. You'll need to spend some time reading about sizing though, because they do stretch a lot. I wear 33 in other raw denim (Skulls, Imperial), and got a 31 in APCs and they fit awesome now.
/r/seduction30/05/12 09:26 PM
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