alanwak3 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	A breathing exercise that helped me, sharing it with you all.	alanwak3	/r/seduction	29/06/12 12:20 AM
1	Things to Say to a Girl \| Dating Tips and Dating Advice by David Wygant	alanwak3	/r/seduction	16/08/12 04:36 AM
1	Book Review: Unlimited Selling Power: How To Master Hypnotic Selling Skills	alanwak3	/r/seduction	14/07/12 03:20 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Any tricks to force myself to talk to everyone? WANT to do it.	/r/seduction	11/09/12 11:34 PM
5	Conversational Threading: Never run out of things to say, EVER I don't see why it's risky when talking to psychologists? I've used techniques like this in conversations with psychologists before, and never got "tore into." Honestly if someone tears into you because you use conversation threading, the problem seems to be on their side, not yours.	/r/seduction	23/07/12 01:35 AM
3	Does anyone feel immensely better after they get touched by anyone really? its perfectly natural, as physical touch has a health benefit; as a matter of fact, if babies don't get physical touch they die.	/r/seduction	20/07/12 01:35 AM
2	Read List for Beginners v2 I'd recommend "Monsters and Magical Sticks," it uses NLP in it (although not by name), clears a lot of preconcieved notions and gives some stuff that can be used in set. :)	/r/seduction	18/07/12 04:04 PM
1	Read List for Beginners v2 Would you happen to know which books have the communication model in it? I know the milton model and the meta model.	/r/seduction	18/07/12 03:03 AM
1	Read List for Beginners v2 agreed; its important to stick with the original NLP, not any of the watered down self-help or sellout shit.	/r/seduction	18/07/12 03:01 AM
1	Read List for Beginners v2 active listening (as a side, i've found active listening to be not as helpful as "track backing," where you repeat their exact words back to them; if they say baby you say baby, instead of infant, for example) is a rapport building tactic, and rapport is more or less required for any nlp tactics to have an effect.	/r/seduction	18/07/12 03:00 AM
1	Read List for Beginners v2 i use it frequently, and enjoy the results it gets in set, and in my own self-improvement ventures. where did you learn nlp? you may be learning nlp from less-than-good sources, as any asshole with a typewritter can write books about NLp these days. kudos for trying nlp by the way, most people pick an opinion about nlp and stick with it no matter what.	/r/seduction	18/07/12 02:58 AM
1	Read List for Beginners v2 not bad, not bad. For NLP id recommend "monsters and magical sticks: does hypnotism exist?" its a great book, that clears a lot of the misconceptions. as far as nlp goes i also recommend ross jeffries speed seduction, as he puts out so much good mateiral for free. not nlp related, but Psycho-Cybernetics is a self-help book everyone should own.	/r/seduction	18/07/12 02:57 AM
1	Gunker's starter guide: depress to success. Im glad someone is actually suggesting books be read, the aversion people in some parts of the community have against reading these days is borderline anti-intellectualism.	/r/seduction	08/07/12 02:11 AM
1	Has anyone tried the full on asshole approach? ya ive tried the "im secretly a nice guy but im trying to be an asshole because i think thatll win you over" approach before its not good. not saying that about you personally, just saying my experience :)	/r/seduction	07/07/12 04:44 PM
2	Voice pitch and approval seeking? look up Roger Love, his vocal lessons have completely changed my speaking ability. i used to be known as a quiet mumbler, now everyone comments that i have a powerful speaking voice.	/r/seduction	07/07/12 04:43 PM
1	How do I get rid of this thirst for validation? in Transactional Analysis (I recommend everyone read Im OK Youre OK, this book is life changing) they describe how every person needs "strokes," validation, recongition of their existence. Its healthy, without them we would die. so in a sense youll never not have a thirst for validation, however there will come a point where you simply are getting enough strokes, and you simply wont crave it. the whole "dont give a fuck what anyone thinks be completely autonomous" schtick is played out, silly an…	/r/seduction	07/07/12 04:42 PM
2	Quick question. if a compliment is fake or trying to win someone over it will hurt your game.	/r/seduction	06/07/12 06:22 AM
2	Too much freakin information out there! my honest opinion is this: if its not something you can use in field its not worth reading. there comes a point where you have the right mindset, and then you can begin to occam razor the weird rabbit-hole shit thats plauging everything these days. you will also begin to notice overlap, theres a 'meta game' that exists in PUA methods, there comes a point, rather quickly, where it all becomes variations of a theme. probably because we pua are like stand up comedians, always stealing eachothers sh…	/r/seduction	06/07/12 06:19 AM
2	Alcoholic living in sobriety, CANNOT do the bar scene/go out for drinks... good environment to meet gals/go on dates??? you would be surprised at how many girls there are that dont drink, its a quality i look for myself. i am very proud of the fact i dont drink or do drugs, i have never gotten a weird look. you can meet girls everywhere, the hunt for the birth cannon never ends, starbucks, coffee shops, book stores, parks, streets, in the line at the grocery.	/r/seduction	30/06/12 02:19 AM
2	Why does every PUA Coach sound so OVERLY salesman? ross jeffries, a pua coach that is currently in process of changing his name to paul ross.	/r/seduction	29/06/12 03:59 AM
2	Why does every PUA Coach sound so OVERLY salesman? need to sign up for better newsletters. rj sends me nothing but videos and articles, as well as announcing live dates. rsd puts out a good newsletter also, it seems they always send videos or actual articles.	/r/seduction	29/06/12 12:08 AM