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alarumba/r/MensRights04/11/19 05:50 PM
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My account is nearing 18 years, and I'm 36. Fucken scary... Problem is, everywhere else has been consumed. The forums I went to as a kid only have a couple of die-hards left on them, and you're practically encroaching on their space. Reddit has the advantage of finding more spaces that you gel with and cutting out those you don't. You can even do that with Facebook to some extent. But that's encouraged this homogenisation of the internet. Reddit used to be a page that you went to in order to fin…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/06/26 10:05 AM
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Hell, you can't guarantee a friend becoming a celebrity will remain your friend.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/26 11:32 PM
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/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/26 11:28 PM
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Though as is often the case with conservatives, they only complain about a weapon's impact when they're not wielding it. The loudest critics of virtue signalling wear red hats. They're quite happy to play the victim when it suits.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/26 07:18 PM
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On the surface, choosing not to participate in social groups appears to be a choice. But what has led the person to make such a choice? I'm an introvert. And not in a shy way, I'm old enough to be out of my shell. But I do need time to myself to recover, especially after a mentally intensive job. I'm not given enough time to do so, though. It's work, chores, rest, repeat. Usually social functions require burning the midnight oil, which can take a lot of time to recover from. That's if I even hav…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/01/26 04:42 PM
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You're suffering from survivorship bias. Not only do you glorify the billionaires, focusing on those who took a gamble and won instead of those who didn't, you're also glorifying the brown nosers that weasled their way into being a right hand yes man by trying to be one. Unfortunately, most of the brown nosers don't actually get to bask in that wealth. They just get their wealth extracted. Wealth is created by labour. No one is superhuman enough to earn billions.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/11/25 05:41 PM
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Or they take over the show and repurpose it, like the Movember foundation.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/11/25 05:25 PM
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I went to a trade school in 2008. Similarly, I was told that's the path I should take. Explaining all the people influencing me and how they did is a long story. Pimp my Ride was an influence... By the end of school, there was no work. Economic crisis and all that. Returning to school in my late 20s, it would be 2020 when I left university with an engineering degree. More of the same. I had an internship that didn't result in a job. The employer openly said "there's no point hiring you when we c…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/25 08:15 PM
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For all of them, dying was just a simple thing you decide on a whim. The modern world is so great that it's just expected of you to die, to keep it that way. They all operated on the logic that sacrificing your life for the greater good is something that just happens and the biggest victim of your death is your wife and daughters. With the intensification of individualism in American culture (and therefore the culture of the western world) I imagine this would be a hard sell for WWIII.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/10/25 06:39 PM
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They watch Magic Mike for the plot.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/25 07:11 AM
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I'm in New Zealand. Very big here cause of Australia's influence. I'm also a regular rider at the Distinguished Gentleman's Ride, which Movember has partnered up with. I've sported the mo several times over the last decade for the cause. I did not know all about this until now however, I thought they were mostly legit (mostly, all the big name charities tend to be a little suss.)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/25 06:11 AM
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And so those who aim to advance women in the workplace may assiduously deny this progress despite it being an achievement of their own efforts. That was satisfying to read someone else say.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/10/24 12:33 AM
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One time I was feeling really ill at work. Automotive workshop job. I was finding it hard to stand up let alone focus. One of the ladies in the office mocked me for having "the man flu." Turned out it was Chlamydia from my partner sleeping around behind my back. There's reasons I'm in this sub, aye...
/r/MensRights24/10/24 07:36 PM
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I find therapy valuable. In the process of saying things out loud and trying to explain things to someone else, you catch the inconsistencies, hypocrisy, and cognitive dissonance. It shines a light on your darkest thoughts. Problem I have is accessibility. On the social healthcare system I'm in, resources are kept deliberately thin (neolib politicians salivate over the thought of an American healthcare system), so the few therapists available are committed to helping "marginalised groups." So yo…
/r/MensRights20/10/24 06:26 PM
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It's really not overrated, and shouldn't be dismissed. And that's coming from someone who thinks they might be asexual. Sex is like air. It's no big deal unless you're not getting any. It's more than sex too. It's intimacy. That's a very deep craving that many have. And cause hetero men aren't meant to be all wuuvy dovey cuddly, sex is often the only socially acceptable means of achieving that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/08/24 12:09 PM
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My comment was appropriate with your first comment: "why is diversity good in a business again?" but with the context you've added it does change things. I'm delving into devil's advocacy here, as I'm still figuring this shit out personally. You can argue the different upbringings those of various identities can also contribute in a similar manner to the other aspects I covered before. They've lived a different life, with different conflicts and perspectives, so they may be able to add more to a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/10/22 09:04 PM
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People with different backgrounds have different experiences and views. This can help with looking at a problem in various directions. A concept or solution that seems obvious to one person may have been missed by all others. This doesn't have to mean race, gender or sexuality, it can also mean age, time in an industry, previous work experience in other fields, etc. Hell, even your weekend hobbies can help. In my engineering office, I used to be a motorbike mechanic so have more of a practical m…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/10/22 08:02 PM
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After a mental breakdown/suicide attempt, my parents took me to see the doctor. My Dad said I had been resistant to getting help. The doc then pulled up a ten year history of referrals seeking help from the mental health services, and being declined every time. That's when it dawned on him that I had been desperately trying to fix myself and been trying to keep them insulated from the drama. It was cathartic.
/r/MensRights02/08/22 11:22 PM
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I disagree, at least for myself. I have a limited capacity to how many emotions I can contain, which leads to mental breakdowns when I take things too far. I'm still learning when and how to vent, cause I'm naturally a shy doormat that avoids confrontation. But it's better to try catch things early with a "no" than to tolerate shit and lead to a "fuck off." And if people can't handle the no, then they were never gonna handle things getting worse. This goes for partners, bosses, friends, etc. Hel…
/r/MensRights02/08/22 11:16 PM
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Which would only be fair considering vehicle insurers do discriminate on sex for their pricing.
/r/MensRights21/01/22 02:03 AM
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Three men and one woman kill themselves means women comprise 25% of deaths by suicide. When another man kills themself that drops to 20%, which is a massive success. Hence why you'll often get turned away or ignored by mental health services. Saving us doesn't help their KPIs.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/09/21 06:32 AM
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It's too uncomfortable for them to realise TERF hatred towards trans people originates from their hatred of men. MTFs are imposters invading women's spaces, FTMs are traitors giving up their feminitity to seek the benefits of patriarchy. If AHS accept that, they'll realise the have something in common with TERFs. So they'll ignore it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/08/21 10:59 AM
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I think it would be fair to say it once was for equality. They saw things women didn't have that men did, and they wanted them. That's fair. And there are still people calling themselves feminists where that's ultimately their goal. Like us here. We're called male advocates and we're for equality too. You can be for equality with a focus on one group, for whatever your reason to focus on that group might be.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/08/21 10:49 AM
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To be honest it was tangent thoughts in my head that should've been explained. It depends on how you frame patriarchy. If you leave it as I said it, usually you won't get any pushback. If you say "supposed advantages of patriarchy" you'll upset quite a few people and the rest of what you said will mean nothing. I've made that mistake before.
/r/MensRights22/07/21 03:33 AM
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I think this idea is slowly becoming better understood as I've argued it in a few leftist places with reasonable success. I've called TERFs misandrists at their core because their problem isn't the transition itself, but it's the threat that a transwomen is a male imposter invading female spaces. Having once been a man is a sin that can't be washed away. And transmen are traitors, trying exploit the benefits the patriarchy will give (though be careful where you say that one.)
/r/MensRights22/07/21 01:42 AM
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Cause every notch on the bed is a victory. Quantity over quality! /s
/r/MensRights17/07/21 11:52 AM
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Tangent thought: any partners who think it might be sexy to use the opportunity for surprise/wake up sex, discuss with your partner if they would be interested first! Doing it out of the blue could open up severe wounds, and even preplanned and consensual can still be upsetting in daze of waking up so you need to understand the risks going in.
/r/MensRights17/07/21 11:49 AM
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Sorry, this is a copy and paste of a reply I made to someone else here: It's actually kinda disturbing how much incest you can get away with. We think of French Royalty creating abominations but that was after several generations. If it's just the one guy you pretty much get Gheghis Khan's lineage, with a bunch of half siblings and first cousins unwittingly shacking up. Please oh please don't assume I'm ok with incest, I'm just being contrarian and difficult. Biology is way more resistent than w…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/21 03:26 AM
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Totally agree. They're certainly not concepts I believe should justify the persecution of men, but I bring them up as an example of how people think they way they do now. The women and children first mentality wasn't created out of thin air in one of our monthly patriarchy meetings. It's actually kinda disturbing how much incest you can get away with. We think of French Royalty creating abominations but that was after several generations. If it's just the one guy you pretty much get Gheghis Khan…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/21 03:19 AM
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Cheers, that's what I was going for. I don't advocate for these things, hence why I'm here. We need to understand the causes to treat the symptoms.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/21 03:06 AM
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We were cavemen a lot longer than we've been a global population of billions, so there's a lot of evolutionary baggage we're carrying. But yeah, I totally agree. We've done well to break down a lot of social stigmas, but men being disposable just works too well. Cause who else is gonna do the dirty and dangerous work?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/21 07:49 PM
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There's more to it. It's not just systemic issues like the jobs we do, but also the social aspects. For me, I'm from a town full of bros and bogans and doing dumb shit in cars was what you did to fit in. Taking risks was what proved your worth and "made you a man." The ladies pretended to be above it but they wouldn't be caught dead going out with anyone else. There's also plenty of times when something dodgey had to be done, like going up a ladder and hanging off the side of a building, it's al…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/21 05:57 PM
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Totally get that man. That's why I haven't given up on this place yet. There's no where else to complain about things that feminism does get wrong, like their domination of social sciences resulting in men being ignored in mental health services, and of course the Duluth Model. Think I'd get banned from those subs if I dare mention those things. But I don't think everything about feminism is wrong, and this place often over generalises. Except TERFs, fuck them. Haven't heard of the leftwing plac…
/r/MensRights17/05/21 12:26 PM
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Cheers to you too dude. Clearly not everyone agrees though. But I knew that might happen. Been saying this stuff for a while and it's not often well recieved. I would say menslib is the place to go to, but I feel they go too far in the opposite direction a lot of the time; men are a problem, intersectionality cannot be critiqued. Bropill is similar. Overall they're a bit more chill though, less spitefull. They're at least worth paying attention to.
/r/MensRights17/05/21 12:14 PM
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Cheers man. Though I've just noticed someone downvoting everything we've said. If they're watching they're welcome to participate in the conversation.
/r/MensRights17/05/21 11:23 AM
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It's been the trend in this sub for a while now unfortunately. Ten years ago it was about obtaining the moral high ground by being respectful and not being spiteful. But it's moving towards a "fight fire with fire" mentality. It has a lot to do with redpill and MGTOW dominating the space. It's the problem most subs will face. When a larger amount of people join the sub, fewer people are willing to commit the time. Long but nuanced comments get drowned out as quickly read comments provoking stron…
/r/MensRights17/05/21 11:02 AM
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Agreed. This place is meant to be combating negative stereotypes, not reinforcing them.
/r/MensRights17/05/21 10:48 AM
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If feminism is misandry, wouldn't that make the men's right movement misogynist? Seems logical if this is a ying versus yang fight. Making this a fight for government attention is a loosing war. Might win the occasional battle, but feminists already have their tentacles deep into the establishment and the public psyche. They're already the good guys and we're the baddies. Working together isn't out of love for their movement. Treating them with kindness isn't because they deserve it. It's a bitt…
/r/MensRights19/04/21 05:13 PM
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Ok, this turned into a rambly mess so I ain't gonna be upset if you don't pay attention to it. You're right about the commenter that's coming at you too aggressively. This sub used to be a lot like menslib. A bit more chill, about the conversation, everyone building towards better understanding. There was good dialogue. It didn't necessarily believe patriarchy didn't exist, but it was critical of the concept. This sub getting so popular unfortunately attracts all the scorned and heated people, a…
/r/MensRights18/04/21 08:23 PM
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A lot of schools are happy to accept any excuse to get rid of shop classes. They require machines, tools and materials, versus the textbooks you can force the parents to purchase.
/r/MensRights15/01/21 08:27 PM
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The criticism segment is amusing. "Several scholars have argued..." with all the little "who?" notes left behind.
/r/MensRights09/11/20 06:19 AM
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I remember mentioning it to my last girlfriend, and she hadn't a clue what it meant. She wasn't an idiot, it's just not something that is brought up enough for the average person to be conscious of. Whereas kids know what misogyny is.
/r/MensRights29/04/20 09:33 AM
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This subreddit can be a very angry echo chamber sometimes It can be. It's a place to vent. Sometimes, and in increasing frequency, it can be taken too far. There's been a shift from taking the high road to fighting fire with fire. That kind of thinking used to be reprehensible here. The menslib sub is closer to what this sub used to be like in terms of tone. More discussions and support, less rants and hate. But that place ain't great since there's this sense of accepting men are bad and need fi…
/r/MensRights29/04/20 09:28 AM
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I once parked my motorbike in a spot someone thought belonged to them. I returned to it lying in the middle of the road. The park was empty so I was unable to retaliate.
/r/MensRights24/02/20 02:04 AM
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Mosh pits are full of guys spoiling for a fight. Bunch of skinheads trying to prove how tough they are. The only mosh pits I've felt comfortable at was seeing DragonForce twice. The Meatheads are too cool for them, leaving the chill metalheads and guitar hero nerds to have a good time.
/r/MensRights24/02/20 01:59 AM
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That's a fair argument to make. But enough people believe, myself included, that the laws at the time were heavy handed and retroactively pardoning people is reasonable. Especially since the move could change the futures of the majority of them, removing a criminal record preventing them from being as productive a member of society as they would otherwise be. It doesn't just benefit the individual.
/r/MensRights18/02/20 04:14 AM
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"It is better that ten innocent people suffer than that one guilty person escape." /s
/r/MensRights10/02/20 01:44 AM
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Why does it matter?
/r/MensRights23/01/20 08:26 PM
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Just got to the Jockey committing suicide. Will have to read the rest later. That has been very, very interesting.
/r/MensRights18/01/20 05:55 PM
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Giving benefit of the doubt. I don't think everything they've done is terrible, I think they've had some good heads that genuinely wanted to make a fairer world. The radical misandric vien that's come to represent all of them is what bothers me. Isn't it funny how Google keyboard is telling me misandric is a misspelt word? It's not in their lexicon. Pretty telling.
/r/MensRights18/01/20 08:34 AM
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Unfortunately I think the pendulum needs to swing more in their favour before the general public becomes aware to what's going on. We need more men scorned and more women thinking "you can't say/do that to my brother/son/husband/father!" before they realise it's not about equality anymore (if it ever truly was). At the moment, breaking the glass ceiling and 75 cents to the dollar have got their attention and they are oblivious to the toxicity.
/r/MensRights18/01/20 05:28 AM
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Guilt by association. It's not like the opposition to this sub is above that. I would discourage the use of his comics. Tangent thought on the opposition; Most of the posts on against-mr are heavily downvoted posts used to represent the culture of this sub. Or untouched comments made weeks after the original post. I don't know how they manage to find them. I doubt it's because they use alt accounts to create those posts. That would be silly...
/r/MensRights10/01/20 08:26 AM
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It's not a choice I ever want to have to make, but not a choice I would want to deny anyone else.
/r/MensRights10/01/20 08:18 AM
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I worded my original post to suit the sub, where male role models are super important (and I agree). I think it's important for kids to have role models of various backgrounds in their lives, not just the gender binary. That doesn't always have to be the parents. I have a couple of mates who are single mothers, so I'm a male role model to some of their kids. I try to be a good one. I hang out with a lot of LGBT people so I'm more for helping them than protecting the nuclear family.
/r/MensRights25/12/19 11:36 PM
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There's more pressure on same sex couples to do well as parents because of the stigma. The need to prove themselves would probably help to make them better than hetero couples. One of my lesbian mates is such a tomboy that she would make a great traditionally masculine figure. If her and her partner said they were having kids I would be super excited.
/r/MensRights25/12/19 08:44 AM
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Sick bern
/r/MensRights21/12/19 11:42 AM
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Cause we go from a sub of legitimate grievances to just a bunch of misogynists. It's easy ammo for the opposition.
/r/MensRights06/12/19 08:24 PM
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Thanks man. And if you're intent was to infuriate, someone playing nice is always more frustrating to a troll than someone who gets incited into anger. They want to stir up shit, if you remain cool that stirs up their shit instead. I know when I've gotten angry, I've basically lost (especially when getting angry can be mocked as toxic masculinity).
/r/MensRights05/12/19 01:56 AM
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You're coming from a place of hate. You're over generalising a massive group of people, most of whom are fantastic people, because you've been scorned by hate groups. It's not worth sinking to their level. We can only be better than them by being better than them. Most of my partners have split bills, have been valued parts of the conversation, and have been my equals. Others have expected I pay for everything, been vapid and materialistic and haven't been of much use to me besides warming the b…
/r/MensRights05/12/19 12:01 AM
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Most women have more to offer. I know you're only joking, but comments like that get spread around "anti-hate" hate subs as a reason why this place shouldn't get taken seriously. Edit: In response to the downvotes
/r/MensRights04/12/19 11:27 PM
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That's understandable. I've said the same thing when people here have said "all feminists are x", so I should know better.
/r/MensRights02/12/19 11:33 PM
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You're right. I'm showing my bias. Been spending too much time in r/watchredditdie, which is a toxic sub.
/r/MensRights02/12/19 09:19 PM
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I find it amusing, but mostly depressing, that the same people who judge men to be obsessed with sex also laugh at men who can't get laid. The same people who would say "don't slut shame you fucking incel" without a hint of irony. We're not to judge a women's worth by how valued by men they are, but the reverse is perfectly acceptable. If they didn't have double standards, they wouldn't have any standards at all...
/r/MensRights02/12/19 09:11 PM
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The assumption fits with what's typical of ban/lock heavy Reddit mods. Of course your scenario may be the reality, but it would be very unlikely.
/r/MensRights02/12/19 09:06 PM
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People saying Jordan Peterson is bad were getting downvoted. That's clearly a toxic environment and needs to be locked for the benefit of their agenda their community.
/r/MensRights02/12/19 07:37 AM
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On the topic of Jordan Peterson That guy is a hack. The cult king of incels. Edit: Downvote all you want mouth breathers, you're still going to bed alone tonight . Sorry, it doesn't get better for people like you They're really all about bringing people up with them aren't they? They really want to make the world a better place for everyone.
/r/MensRights02/12/19 07:34 AM
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TERF is an important one to know. They're terrible people and their little clique is growing bigger and louder.
/r/MensRights15/11/19 05:53 AM
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I'm glad I'm not alone in noticing trans hate stems from misandry.
/r/MensRights15/11/19 05:49 AM
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This is currently on the front page of one of the top "ladies focussed" subs. I love how casual the white male hatred has become.
/r/MensRights04/11/19 05:53 PM
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I do know a couple with an open relationship that does work for them. All actions are discussed before making them so they can each voice their interest or concerns. Though they're both women so it wasn't going to be a "traditional" marriage anyway. It wouldn't work for me, but I respect it can work for them.
/r/MensRights30/10/19 07:56 PM
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Gay men are welcome here. Defining masculinity is that much more awkward for them, they're often thought of as "one of the girls" and there's an expectation there to be stereotypically effeminate. It should be something brought up more often here. Though this sub is mostly going to be about problems with interacting with women. Just like 2XC can be summarised as "ugh, men."
/r/MensRights24/10/19 04:38 AM
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It's like rain on your wedding day.
/r/MensRights24/10/19 04:27 AM
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This was the spoilt milk comment that partly inspired OP's post. Not the worst thing in the world, but still not a respectful thing to say. The AMR sub is the best place to see anything dodgy from here (well, maybe 5% of what they complain about from here is valid). Funnily enough, since they like to downvoted brigade they're doing a good job of cleaning the place up.
/r/MensRights15/10/19 05:49 AM
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I'd appreciate a post on this. A big part of why I liked this place in the part was the need for evidence and civility, things missing from the other movements we have disagreements with. But I've seen a shift away from "the ends justifies the means is a bad thing" to "this is how they fight, we need to retaliate in kind." I find myself spending more time on Menslib since the demeanor there is more chill, even though I have my concerns there too. The only topics allowed for discussion are pre-ap…
/r/MensRights14/10/19 10:08 PM
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Incel has become a word to describe a certain type of horrid person who is genuinely a mysogynist, not just someone who is literally involuntary celibate. Though like any derogatory word, it's use has spread wider than what it actually defines. Plus guys who can't get laid are thought of as lesser men, which is a stupid way of judging a person's worth.
/r/MensRights14/10/19 09:45 PM
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When you hate men so much, MTFs are impersonators and FTMs are gender traitors. Gender Critical is a scary place.
/r/MensRights26/09/19 03:46 AM
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"This sub has turned to shit with all this alt-right rhetoric!"
/r/MensRights15/09/19 08:01 PM
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Squeeze them to force the pee out faster.
/r/MensRights10/09/19 03:34 AM
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This place is worryingly going in that direction. I got into a debate here where "the ends justifies the means" was being defended and I was being downvoted for saying exactly what you had said. 5 years ago I would've been backed up.
/r/MensRights23/08/19 11:39 AM
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A have a friend in the industry. She says it's better than retail, at least you can negotiate how you get fucked.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/19 07:40 AM
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My suicide attempt was ignored by all health professionals I came into contact with, so wouldn't be surprised if it wasn't recorded.
/r/MensRights03/08/19 11:51 PM
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I've wondered if she's been coached to tag along with him to discredit his name later. She doesn't seem to be the most politically motivated person except for her Bernie Bro Boosting.
/r/MensRights31/07/19 07:34 AM
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I remember a girl mate at high school mentioning she had to go see the school counsellor. I replied "the school has a counsellor?"
/r/MensRights18/07/19 11:56 PM
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Judging by the downvotes I guess that is the way this place wants to go now. I haven't been paying enough attention to see the shift. Hopefully more action outside of this sub happens as a result. We've never reached a point where talking about these issues in public has been anything less than social suicide.
/r/MensRights25/06/19 09:08 PM
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My next comment in that chain more closely resembles what you said before. It was a gross generalisation. The irrational paranoia is in the comment saying all Feminists are incapable of empathy. That's like saying all MRAs are misogynists. Asking that from us is not walking on eggshells, it's asking us not to lie to push our agenda. "The ends justifies the means" is exactly what we're meant to be against cause it's so often used against us. Has the general attitude of this sub changed to accept …
/r/MensRights25/06/19 03:06 AM
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It's a shame this isn't always the popular opinion here.
/r/MensRights25/06/19 02:26 AM
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We're really heading into a culture civil war soon. All sides want to fight thinking that's the only way to resolve conflict. It's why I'm finding it so hard to still identify as left. There's a naive side of me that hopes rational discussion can solve everything. I'll have to screenshot an exchange I had with the Anarchism moderators. I think you'll get a giggle out of it. In my contest towards being banned, I was asked "Are you a feminist?" Didn't realise Anarchism and feminism were so intertw…
/r/MensRights24/06/19 12:07 PM
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I'm for this sub, not against. I want it to gain legitimacy, not fall into being another hate sub. MRA's, thanks to their opposition, will always be represented by their worst. If we elevate our worst to be reasonable and respectful, then the opposition will have no "gotcha!" moments to use against us. Saying all feminists are incapable of empathy is not only false, but it's just a shit thing to say. Sweeping generalisations is what this subreddit is meant to be battling against. It might be cat…
/r/MensRights24/06/19 11:17 AM
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This is the shit that gets screen capped and spread around to give this sub a bad name.
/r/MensRights24/06/19 07:35 AM
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One would hope.
/r/MensRights08/06/19 11:32 PM
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I hope she learns from this and makes a change for the better.
/r/MensRights15/02/19 08:08 PM
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I wish I had this response in mind when my girlfriend and I had a similar argument. Being "hangry" is a poor excuse to treat me like shit.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/01/19 12:45 AM
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Wouldn't that be a bit counterproductive? /s
/r/MensRights23/10/18 06:45 PM
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I guess she ran out of race cards to play.
/r/MensRights10/09/18 01:50 AM
81

"A feminist tool"
/r/PussyPassDenied14/08/18 09:16 PM
1

Mongoose makes her sound cool. I prefer saying Mong-goo.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/07/18 03:36 AM
8

I don't think they noticed.
/r/MensRights05/07/18 01:16 AM
6

That would make for a good skit. Women walks in to find a urinal full of Scots lifting their kilts up. Man walks into the men's bathroom to have a bunch of women in pantsuits shrieking.
/r/MensRights11/05/18 12:59 AM
3

I don't disagree entirely. I welcome the idea of talking more about masculinity and understanding it better. I don't appreciate the assumption that we're monsters that need to contain ourselves.
/r/MensRights02/05/18 11:00 PM
1

Do you believe in free speech and think the government shouldn't have the ability to decide what you can and can't say? Eugenics are just as worrying. And great people can come out of bad families. And I know plenty of people with a low IQ that have amazing talents elsewhere. If everything was handled perfectly, it might be a great idea. I especially like the idea of breeding many degenerative diseases out of the population. No asthma or eczma would be nice too (I have both). But nothing can be …
/r/PussyPassDenied26/03/18 06:30 AM
1

It's generally against the best interests of modern day governments to have a declining population. More kids = more future tax payers. Also a large labour force needing jobs keeps wages down. That's before getting into how morally horrible the idea of government controlled birth rates are.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/03/18 10:26 PM
1

I'm a kiwi. The word is very influenced by Australian culture here. Where a cunt is a mate, and a mate is a cunt. I've lost friends from the use of the word despite this. They couldn't attack you with facts, they just told you to shut up. Cause that's the only ability they have. Me being critical of you isn't because of any desire to discredit you, cause I get the feeling. They only way to rise above the cunts is to be better than them, not to succumb to hatefilled insults, as cathartic as it fe…
/r/MensRights15/11/17 07:33 AM
1

I can't expect anything more from someone than I'm willing to give them. If I want respect, I have to give it. I am a pacifist hippy though.
/r/MensRights15/11/17 03:05 AM
2

The current climate provokes rage. Some of it should be allowed, in order for others to reason them out of it. Otherwise these repressed feelings boil over. And men don't get many places to talk about feelings.
/r/MensRights15/11/17 02:25 AM
10

Don't let them poke you towards using aggressive language. They want that, so they can use you as an example to represent us all. Totally appreciate the frustration though.
/r/MensRights15/11/17 02:21 AM
2

Stick around. You'll see more examples on this sub.
/r/MensRights15/11/17 02:17 AM
2

Cheers dude. That's what I figured.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 12:12 AM
1

I'm not responsible for this person being deleted, just noticed as I went to reply. But man, whatta dick...
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 10:45 PM
1

And you're wasting your time acting like a badass to someone that isn't gonna be convinced. Keep self hating yourself, redditor.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 07:54 PM
1

I'm at a stage where I can laugh it off. There was a time that I would be hyper critical and would act like it's the end of the world. And I was at a party with a pretty lady taking the time to talk to me, so going outside and exercising is working.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 09:06 AM
1

Afraid so. But I'm working on it.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 07:50 PM
1

I'm still in a transitional phase. Had a brilliantly stupid moment over the weekend. Had a cute friend of the friend talking one on one with me. I'm still shit at telling but she seemed into me. We we're talking about pets and I showed off photos of my dog as a puppy. Said that you could not say no to those eyes. She said , "do you like big eyes?" staring right at me. "What, like anime?" It was just so stupid, all I can do is laugh and move on. Her enthusiasm to talk to me stalled but we struck …
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 05:39 AM
21

Unfortunately we're raised to laugh it off.
/r/MensRights01/11/17 07:15 PM
4

When your opinions don't hold up to scrutiny, you need to ban those who disagree. That's why I'm pleased to see this sub doesn't have to worry about that.
/r/MensRights01/11/17 04:35 AM
9

Dissenting voices are allowed to be here so it hasn't fallen victim to over enforcement.
/r/MensRights01/11/17 02:43 AM
1

Sucks to hear but you're right. Got to remain introspective and call out the people who take things too far.
/r/MensRights31/10/17 11:08 PM
17

Tragically
/r/MensRights04/08/17 12:18 AM
36

I too like to say things to upset people.
/r/MensRights04/08/17 12:08 AM
1

Finally, after so long on this site, I've finally found my home. Thank you. Edit: just posted up my current project. I'm hoping they appreciate it.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/07/17 01:01 PM
7

It's not strange to be angry at people succeeding, having done less work than yourself. It's not a good way to live, but it's a natural feeling.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/07/17 03:32 AM
2

Telling people to fuck off isn't a great way at making friends.
/r/MensRights16/06/17 05:41 AM
2

You'd get upset at your reflection.
/r/MensRights16/06/17 05:30 AM
9

The only saving grace is the comment section is against the post. At least the people actively engaged in this sub are opposed to the the post's mentality. It's the casual upvoter that's propping this up.
/r/MensRights16/06/17 05:29 AM
6

DON'T TELL PEOPLE WHAT TO DO YOU HYPOCRITE.
/r/MensRights16/06/17 05:27 AM
1

Cheers yo. I tried to get that across but didn't do it so well.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/03/17 04:07 PM
3

That's depressing. Making the penis the pedestal. It's not like that's all he had to work with surely?
/r/PussyPassDenied04/03/17 03:09 PM
1

If weird doesn't spark your curiosity, I feel sorry for ya.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/03/17 02:52 PM

Dicks are like boobs. Yeah, there's potential to do more fun stuff with bigger equipment. But are you going to turn down what's in front of you?
/r/PussyPassDenied04/03/17 02:25 PM
5

It's like the old joke about Conspiracy theorists. They won't believe that aliens haven't reached earth until they finally do and say it's their first time here. Even then some people won't be convinced. Every metric could point towards complete societal domination by women, but some rad fems still won't be convinced.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/02/17 01:33 AM
2

I feel the chore comment is unfair. That's real dismissive of what could be a real life deforming moment in a young boy's life. Some of these boys will be loosing their virginity, a moment remembered for the rest of their life. It's not like buying a phone since you're last one broke. But you're not wrong. I know anecdotally how in past relationships I'm expected to be dominate. Until we merge into one uniform gender, sex will never be truly equal. And the majority of girls have less physical ab…
/r/PussyPassDenied05/02/17 08:43 PM
21

I disagree that such a situation would be more damaging to a female than a male. There are emotionally weak boys that can easily be manipulated into situations they want to take no part in that can leave them scarred, and there are confident and/or naive girls that would be quite excited by the idea of sleeping with an attractive teacher. We're suitably precious about girls as we should be, but boys don't really matter since the teacher saved them from jackin it. Boys will always be horny boys, …
/r/PussyPassDenied05/02/17 11:32 AM
12

The right has encouraged the left to eat itself apart with identity politics to distract us from economic reform. Do you really think politicians actually give a damn about unborn babies?
/r/MensRights09/08/16 08:26 AM
1

But that's audio rape.
/r/MensRights16/07/16 11:58 AM
7

At least you're not going to get banned for saying all that unlike other subs.
/r/MensRights12/10/15 05:50 AM
2

This how sub is about feels. This whole thread is about the close mindedness and people that only fight for their side. Calling people with gender issues mentally ill is a bit of a dick move. No, I'm not from srs. They hate me over there.
/r/MensRights01/09/15 07:28 AM
4

I would tread carefully when suggesting a gender identity issue is an illness. Disorder, maybe, though even that sounds cruel.
/r/MensRights01/09/15 06:58 AM
3

Oh boy, that phrase is a keeper!
/r/MensRights01/09/15 06:55 AM
1

Where can I get them from? Can I mine them?
/r/PussyPassDenied29/07/15 08:38 AM
3

She's a real piece of work.
/r/MensRights06/07/15 04:25 AM
8

20 years ago, a women said this in a university magazine. Guess where she is now?
/r/MensRights06/07/15 01:53 AM
0

Not wanting to talk about yourself is fair enough.
/r/MensRights06/07/15 01:30 AM
-1

I would love to feel less disassociated with the world.
/r/MensRights06/07/15 01:20 AM
0

What's your background? Few people are willing to defend themselves making comments against mental health, just wondering how your history and/or education have influenced you. I'm curious as someone that has been diagnosed with BPD, which is a real oddball thing and I often wonder if it's really an illness or simply a personality flaw.
/r/MensRights06/07/15 01:19 AM
2

That'd have been some good Poe's Law had it not been for the /s.
/r/MensRights12/06/15 05:06 AM
1

True. Ultimately that will be the best way forward. But some people just want to watch the world burn. I'm one of them.
/r/MensRights11/06/15 03:24 AM
5

All that is why I would like to see this sub banned. I want to watch the shitstorm.
/r/MensRights11/06/15 03:06 AM
19

Fucking queer amirite? /s
/r/MensRights16/05/15 11:54 AM
5

I agree. A stopped clock is right twice a day.
/r/MensRights11/02/15 12:51 AM
2

They're not in control of the weather, don't be silly. They're in control of how the weather influences society. A sunny day would be equally oppressive. You'd be stealing all those children away from their mothers on a nice day they could've enjoyed together, only so they can be taught a curriculum designed by patriarchs.
/r/MensRights28/01/15 01:36 AM
1

That's like arresting vandals. You stopped them but they've still left damage behind.
/r/MensRights10/01/15 02:52 AM
7

2x is practically part of the "SRS Fempire". They really should add it to their directory.
/r/MensRights09/01/15 06:02 AM
7

It's a fucking pain. Does everyone tap the fish tank glass after reading the warning? For fucks sake.
/r/MensRights09/01/15 05:58 AM
15

Exactly. Don't talk to the police. It does you no favours. I admitted to flirtatiously playfighting with a girl earlier in the night before I was assaulted by some men. I had just confessed to assaulting a women in the eyes of the police officers. Nothing happened to those men. Getting police involved only served to fuck me over.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/01/15 12:40 AM
3

The more you buy, the more you save.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/01/15 12:30 AM
31

It's a pseudo-intellectual way of saying "I can't even."
/r/MensRights26/12/14 08:15 AM
1

Jews were the main womens of the holocaust.
/r/MensRights20/09/14 07:37 AM
2

Dang, that's some good Poe's law.
/r/MensRights19/09/14 12:04 PM
5

The women must be believed.
/r/MensRights19/09/14 11:28 AM
58

Guilty until proven to have gotten away with it.
/r/MensRights19/09/14 11:13 AM
2

Yep. New Zealand has had an ad campaign saying just that for the last 7-8 years.
/r/MensRights03/08/14 03:39 AM
4

That's the idea, otherwise we would be hypocrites.
/r/MensRights08/04/14 06:46 AM
2

Do you think Feminists and Mens' Rights Activists can ever ... get along? Why/why not? I've recently learnt we still have a long way to go. Each group tends to be more concerned or more aware of their own side. What's failing is understanding the other side and having a reasonable discussion about the issues. We need to be able to put forward our opinions and having them considered as well as listening to others and taking in that information. Instead we're getting insults, sarcasm, threats and …
/r/MensRights23/12/12 03:41 AM
0

I made the mistake of leaving a link in the comments. Presumably that was why I was banned from 2XC recently, but I was offered no explanation.
/r/MensRights23/12/12 03:16 AM
0

Oh god that video is horrid.
/r/MensRights22/12/12 09:32 PM
-1

I've been banned from posting in 2XC. I've learnt a lot in that subreddit. Learnt about their side of the story. Learnt what I would be doing wrong and better myself. Especially on the topics of White Knights and Nice Guys. I've had a few problems, with myself and others, on those ones. You have the power of the internet to mould it? I've just been banned. I understand I've broken their second rule. That wasn't a good idea. But having your support means I was onto something. You can't consider y…
/r/MensRights22/12/12 09:11 PM
9

That's good life advice.
/r/MensRights22/12/12 10:27 AM
0

Here's the link to the conversation. I'm not trying to get upvotes myself or to get anyone to attack them so please use your discretion. Edit: Removed link.
/r/MensRights22/12/12 08:30 AM
3

Can/has that been used as an argument in such a case? Will/has it been effective?
/r/MensRights26/02/12 01:55 AM
2

The page I'm reading now hasn't got that on it. Have they changed the article since it was originally posted on here?
/r/MensRights19/02/12 05:49 PM
4

I mean, sheesh, I know for a fact that me not having a university degree is going to be a major issue for anyone who wants to mess with me. Who the hell am I? A waitress, for crying out loud. I'm not really technically qualified to be speaking for a movement. It's a shame that you, and many others, that are intelligent are also intelligent enough to know their own perceived faults and will stop themselves from presenting their own opinions. Whereas the massive amount of dimwits with opinions hav…
/r/MensRights05/02/12 11:03 PM
3

My ex still has my Gameboy Colour and Pokemon Red. Bitch.
/r/seduction09/12/11 01:05 AM
15

It's a heavily biased report. Disgusting really.
/r/MensRights04/12/11 07:44 AM
2

Woo! He keeps on deleting the threads once I respond to them then creating others. I'm just going to keep on replying, maybe submit to r/mensrights cause I'm sure they'll have a laugh.
/r/MensRights21/11/11 11:01 PM
6

Head ups, you and I have pissed off some dude on r/SRS.
/r/MensRights21/11/11 10:57 PM
5

Calling Nice Guys sick is a bit cruel isn't it?
/r/seduction24/10/11 09:49 PM
1

TIL I'm not a real man.
/r/MensRights12/10/11 10:47 PM
44

I must be a dog cause I just ate the pizza my brother left in the fridge last night.
/r/seduction11/10/11 11:43 PM
3

I'm generally too stunned at the ridiculousness of the person contradicting themselves to think about moving away. Like a deer in the headlights.
/r/MensRights10/10/11 01:56 AM
3

I like the pain chick...
/r/MensRights06/06/11 10:00 PM
5

Not often do I read an entire article, so easy to flick through tabs whilst on reddit. That was very interesting and I learnt a lot.
/r/seduction03/06/11 04:02 AM
8

Yes I'm a girl. Now that I mentioned that, I expect to be downvoted. No way. This isn't a No Girls Allowed club. You're welcome here.
/r/MensRights31/12/10 10:06 PM
6

Poe's Law.
/r/MensRights09/11/10 08:53 AM
4

I'm at number 5. It can only get better from here!
/r/MensRights05/10/10 09:22 AM
2

Simply dressing in black is enough. It's so slimming! Search up "goth ninja" on google for inspiration.
/r/seduction24/08/10 06:44 AM
2

The way you dress attracts those similarly dressed. If you're after a type of guy, dress in a similar fashion. I like goth girls, so I tend not to wear much colour. If I have a bandshirt I make sure it fits well and is of a decent band (not an obscure band but a rarely heard of band well regarded in their genre, it'll be a topic of conversation and you'll look better than every other dude wearing a baggy AC/DC shirt). Black jeans; boot fit with boots for metal gigs, skinny jeans with chucks for …
/r/seduction23/08/10 04:21 AM
6

The dude was far too preachy and offended so became an easy target. The women was repeating the same drivel over and over. The presenter was one sided rather than outlining the views of both sides. A really shitty article, but all and all, and excellent portrayal of how the see-saw of male and female abuse has just moved to the other side rather than finding it's balance.
/r/MensRights14/02/10 08:10 PM
2

Fair enough, but I still see a lot of what I had mentioned. Though I was being over-generalizing. By the way, I do believe everyone has the right to complain and not be limited to one partner. It was good to hear a positive comment is all.
/r/MensRights22/08/09 04:02 AM
1

Not only that but men get comments not too dissimilar to "Oh em gee! Gay!"
/r/MensRights07/07/09 03:51 AM
1

Amen bruddah, preach it!
/r/MensRights07/07/09 03:49 AM
4

3 hours later...
/r/MensRights01/06/09 05:49 AM
3

I lost interest after she started making fun of learning French. I'm meant to avoid sites with an American flag in their banner. Silly me.
/r/MensRights01/06/09 05:36 AM
4

Sexism directed at any sex isn't cool here or anywhere. But he's right. Whether it be for genetic reasons, or for societal conditioning, women tend to gossip more and put others down in order to gain more power amongst their group. Men take orders and understand their place and expect their good work will be rewarded by being moved up higher in the food chain (except for Alpha male fighting). There are always exceptions, but that's the general rule. We'll never get past sexism until we irradicat…
/r/MensRights20/04/09 08:58 PM
2

How did the audience react to this? How did Dr Phil react to this? I could only hope that they'd realise that the man is in a difficult position and 'Lis' is ridiculously unfair and biased, but I have my doubts because the world isn't perfect (and my opinion of that being the case is only reinforced by this situation).
/r/MensRights07/03/09 10:00 PM
1

VHS? Really?
/r/MensRights28/02/09 09:57 PM
2

I suppose it would work both ways. I'm all for equality. However I believe fewer men require the defensive Mens Rights knowledge to become indignant, self-righteous jerks. Most tend to go for the offensive chauvinistic approach in order to be jerks. No it doesn't further the conversation. It's more on a tangent spawned from the conversation. But isn't that why there is multiple threads on reddit? Ad hominem it may be, but I do believe there is a personality type that does gravitate toward femini…
/r/MensRights23/02/09 03:15 AM
5

Quoting the first comment (I'll read more eventually, once I've had a comic dose): (Is it rude to suggest that a certain personality type is attracted to feminism because it provides them with endless reasons to act like an indignant, self-righteous jerk?) It is rude cause you're hitting a nerve. You're hitting a nerve because it is true. Will be adding that to my repertoire.
/r/MensRights22/02/09 08:46 AM
1

"Everyone agrees women should have equal rights, but this woman, and many others we've profiled on this Web site, does not want equal responsibility." Aka; Feminists.
/r/MensRights20/02/09 11:00 PM
1

Too many raging, unclear thoughts coursing through my head. Kept on typing half sentences and going "no, that isn't right" and would delete and start again. Typical. Think that's the best way I can describe it. Edit: What was the explicit reason for the ban?
/r/MensRights20/02/09 10:58 PM
1

I think it's a fabulous idea!
/r/MensRights15/02/09 08:33 PM
8

Who's got a blog that we can copy and paste this article to, replacing men with blacks? I want to see what kind of reaction it stirs up. Then come clean.
/r/MensRights11/02/09 01:20 AM
3

I wish I could say "you're just spiteful people". Sadly I agree. Learnt these lessons by the age of 17 luckily before any real damage happened. My trust in others has taken a knock though...
/r/MensRights07/02/09 11:11 PM
1

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8t0GRH3yoiI There's an example. A good song in my opinion, though I can understand why it wouldn't be to other people's taste. I once mocked rap. Then I looked at the music I listened to and thought "hmm, I'm the pot calling the Kettle black aren't I?". Considering this is my most listened to band: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3R0vgmjOe5Y
/r/MensRights05/02/09 10:42 PM
2

Awesome. Scandinavian Black Metal is a good example of portraying emotions in a very badass way.
/r/MensRights05/02/09 07:47 PM
0

Rhetorical question right?
/r/MensRights05/02/09 07:39 PM
2

In a perfect world.
/r/MensRights03/02/09 07:18 PM
1

I thought 'he' meant 'he', 'she' meant 'she', and 'all' meant 'all'? Why isn't saying not their father better?
/r/MensRights01/02/09 07:38 PM
1

for the child who discovers that the man he or she loves is not her father Freudian slip?
/r/MensRights01/02/09 05:13 AM
-4

Are you... are you single?
/r/MensRights22/01/09 12:04 AM
2

No, thank you.
/r/MensRights21/01/09 11:57 PM
2

There are fundamentalists in everything.
/r/MensRights21/01/09 11:55 PM
5

I got pushed into loosing my virginity by some broad. Got an std as my reward.
/r/MensRights20/01/09 08:19 PM
6

Only problem I could see happening with this is men specifically targeting women on this list to rape, knowing that the women has less chance of being taken seriously when they then accuse the man. I was thinking maybe the database should be left for the authorities, so that men wouldn't know and couldn't target specific women but could still be looked back on when a women does file an accusation. However, I would certainly like to know myself if a women I was dating had such a history so I can …
/r/MensRights19/01/09 10:01 PM
2

Then she is found to be innocent, and this is remembered as the case where women are 'often' falsely accused and shouldn't be accused ever again, so help me Lucifer.
/r/MensRights19/01/09 09:39 PM
3

Where's Margret Thatcher?
/r/MensRights18/01/09 04:45 AM
6

Feminism didn't achieve equality. It achieved bias in favor of women.
/r/MensRights18/01/09 03:21 AM
1

I know. Badass aye?
/r/MensRights17/01/09 08:40 AM
7

"It's very dangerous to start discriminating against a class of people on the basis of perceived characteristics of a few." It's not simply 'a class of people', it's half the frikken population of adults! But Dr Neville Robertson, a community psychologist at the University of Waikato thinks that there are no grounds for discrimination claims over the policy. "It has been clumsily handled. But this is being portrayed as an infringement of men's rights and I would have to ask that if I'm allocated…
/r/MensRights16/01/09 11:55 PM
4

A popular animated show in New Zealand, Bro Town, had one quote I'll always remember. One guy was about to stop a girl from running away with stolen goods, but the guys mate holds him back and says "she's a hot asian chick. She deserves a second chance".
/r/MensRights14/01/09 11:04 PM
1

This site gave me a virus. I've been fighting it for the last 12 hours. The free version of McAfee my ISP gave me is bullshit.
/r/MensRights13/01/09 07:49 PM
1

Sadly. I was bad enough with girls. Now having this and being too nice of a guy to keep it quiet, it's narrowed down all the girls I could get with further. Gosh darnnit.
/r/MensRights11/01/09 07:14 PM
3

A 'virgin' gave me warts. And that's when I became bitter.
/r/MensRights11/01/09 04:03 AM
3

50/SM/Reno
/r/MensRights10/01/09 08:47 AM
9

I love you.
/r/MensRights10/01/09 04:42 AM
2

Staying single doesn't mean you won't ever get into the scenario I outlined above. Unless you stick with the hand lovin'.
/r/MensRights09/01/09 05:34 AM
0

Until we get robots that can accurately look at all the information and come to a logical and fair conclusion, we can only use humans that at the best of times are completely biased and unfair. Guilty until proven innocent.
/r/MensRights08/01/09 10:13 PM
5

Until some broad you slept with 4 years ago claims their 5 year old son is yours and declares they'll see you in court. I got my numbers right.
/r/MensRights08/01/09 10:07 PM
1

I was thinking more along the line of Ipods. You upgrade to the next model every time. I'm fine with a record player myself.
/r/MensRights06/01/09 05:34 AM
2

I agree with the whole mental space thing. I'm happy just being in the presence of a great gal who loves me. I've been reading up on things like this a lot since I broke up with the last girlfriend. Think the main reason for it was we were young and the relationship got old. Though I still feel as though she just wanted a chance to play the field. Suppose I now have the chance too, but I've never been a very good playa :p
/r/MensRights06/01/09 05:29 AM
0

"cuz I know that she'd be faithful waiting for me to come home" My trust earnt me an STD.
/r/MensRights06/01/09 05:12 AM
1

That's crazy talk! You're crazy!
/r/MensRights06/01/09 05:10 AM
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