albertabest1 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	My wife moved out with the kids today without informing where. I was informed by a neighbor asking if it was normal a moving truck was emptying our house. That really sucks bro. Layer up asap and don't spare money or effort. The first few weeks will be hard but it does get better, slowly but surely. In the end you might be thankful for what she did.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/06/25 10:15 PM
11	Need some advice And slam that door in her face for good measure	/r/Divorce_Men	14/05/25 11:16 PM
16	Need some advice She's manipulating you. Run while you can and don't look back bro, you'll be glad later.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/05/25 11:15 PM
10	Had to lawyer up on my ex =/ Good job bro. Fight for your kids and don't give an inch. Good luck.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/04/25 12:14 AM
8	I am getting worse, not better Hang in there brother and remember that life is about ups and downs. Maybe she's up and you're down now, but that WILL NOT last forever and your turn is coming. Love yourself and love your kids, just focus on that and you'll get through this.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/03/25 09:17 PM
15	Why? She only cares about herself and her own happiness. Everything else comes second. Sad, but that's the truth. Ignore it and have a great time with your kids.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/12/24 02:39 AM
1	STBX lawyer asks me to pay half her appraisal on my home This is almost identical to my situation. I'm also self employed, my house has gone up in value since she left in 2022, I owned it since before I met my ex. I've done multiple renos, paid mortgages, and did standard maintenance on the house since. I'm not going to accept anything other than our separation date and the property value at that time. I got an appraisal right after she left, that's the number I'll stick by. My lawyer said that the judge will usually go with the separation date rather…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/12/24 01:26 AM
2	STBX lawyer asks me to pay half her appraisal on my home Same here.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/12/24 04:54 AM
2	STBX lawyer asks me to pay half her appraisal on my home Would current value or value at the time of separation be considered? House could be worth more now. It likely has less mortgage, and OP has probably invested time and money into maintaince since she left.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/12/24 02:10 AM
1	Wife “wants us to be great co-parents” but she is asking for it ALL… Great advice!	/r/Divorce_Men	13/12/24 12:17 AM
3	I guess it's my turn That's a tough situation. Hang in there brother, and fight!	/r/Divorce_Men	06/11/24 04:10 AM
7	Wife had an affair Why not? There's no reason to hide the truth, plus he might be blamed that it's his fault.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/11/24 06:47 AM
7	Happy birthday? Don't feel down like that bro. You have your kids, the cheating leech is gone. That alone is a great reason to celebrate. Happy birthday brother. Btw, I'm the same age and also with two kids. Cheers!	/r/Divorce_Men	27/09/24 11:05 PM
3	It's not going how she planned You nailed it brother	/r/Divorce_Men	23/09/24 10:26 PM
1	How much did you spend? 10k for a lawyer who hasn't done anything yet and I'm almost 2 years into the really slow process. I have to buy her out for 30k. The lawyer will probably take a couple more grand to finalize the process if there's no more stalling. I get to keep the house (i bought it before our relationship started and it's only me on the title, valued at 300k with 230k left on the mortage), I will also keep all of the debt (50k), but I just want the process to be done already so I can go on with my life. Btw,…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/06/24 09:55 PM
3	Is it wrong to ask my wife for a mental evaluation before I sign mediation paperwork? We should have all done this before we got together with them. Just like Borat asked the matchmaker to show him clean papers for his potential wife, her mother, and grandmother so he could make sure it doesn't run in the family, like it often does.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/06/24 09:39 PM
3	How are you guys with the exes family. I don't want to see them or communicate with them, but when i have to, I am polite and to the point.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/04/24 07:11 AM
1	New man at drop off! "Trust the ex that she's making solid decisions"? Not a chance!	/r/Divorce_Men	22/03/24 03:24 PM
2	New man at drop off! 👆💯	/r/Divorce_Men	22/03/24 03:11 PM
2	Post divorce struggling Bro you gave your ex wife a chance after she cheated on you and that didn't pan out so well. Distance yourself any way you can.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/03/24 03:59 PM
22	What do young women care about these days? I guess having a baby together wasn’t enough. Being a father to her son wasn’t enough. Moving across the country for her wasn’t enough. Buying her gifts wasn’t enough. Getting married wasn’t enough. Buying a family home wasn’t enough. Many, if not most women, only care about themselves and their happiness (in whatever form they envision it).	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/24 08:30 PM
3	Married a dentist full of ego and I am a software engineer who makes almost same as her. I can’t take anymore of this verbal, mental and physical abuse. GTFOH	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/24 07:19 PM
5	After your divorce did you realize that women added little or a lot to your life? A little to nothing ! Way better off without the dead weight.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/01/24 06:38 AM
7	Get it together. Well said.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/01/24 08:03 AM
3	Humiliated. Not your humiliation bro, that's all on her. Move forward and don't look back, good riddance.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/12/23 07:44 AM
4	Cancer sucks, Divorce is worse That is tough. She is on another level of evil and selfishness. Just keep fighting. My thoughts and prayers are with you.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/11/23 02:53 PM
1	the step-"dad" walking the daughter down the aisle along the bio father has to be a humiliation ritual Hell no! It's not okay. Always be fully engaged and present for your kids, no matter what. Kids will know who the dad is and how important he is. There are red lines that are not to be crossed.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/11/23 02:39 AM
12	Who are these men that go through divorce once and then get married again, and WTF are they thinking?? Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/11/23 10:27 PM
1	Family mediation Try using ChatGPT. Just tell it what you'd like to prevent and it will give you a good list to start with. You can then ask it to be more specific about certain things you're concerned with.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/10/23 07:58 AM
2	Men in your 40s who got divorced in your early 40s from the love of your life. If you found genuine happiness again (where you don’t think about your ex on a regular basis), how did you find it? Rule #1: You have to love yourself more than you love her! You also have to stop living in the past and those memories. Life goes on, be strong, and make the best of it.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/10/23 04:55 PM
17	Thousands of dollars to the trash just because she wanted out Getting married is singing your life away, literally. The law is biased against men. The risks far outweigh any benefits. Western society is completely broken.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/07/23 09:43 PM
1	Kevin Costner wife want divorce and $250k to maintain her lifestyle, even after she signed prenup She's just jumping on a bandwagon of strong and independent women. She also wants to take the full advantage of a system that is extremely biased against men while she still can. I'm just wondering if she even saw 250k in her lifetime before meeting Kostner.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/06/23 02:25 AM
1	Cautionary tale from affairs subreddit She is pure evil! Some of the comments of support and encouragement to take him for everything she can are so sickening but show the mindset of the evil immorals we have to defend ourselves against, all while they have the full support of the law. What needs to happen in order for this assault on us men to stop?	/r/Divorce_Men	25/04/23 09:10 PM
2	Cautionary tale from affairs subreddit She says in her comments that she has secret credit cards and is trying to hide them	/r/Divorce_Men	25/04/23 08:22 PM
2	Going crazy! You nailed it!	/r/Divorce_Men	13/04/23 01:36 PM