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| 1 | SCROTES tell on themselves all the time on dating apps. Say no to low effort. They shouldn't be dating if they have no money. | GLOBAL RESISTANCE | albus247 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 05:05 AM |
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| 17 | After Carefully Reading & Listening to Feedback From Men on Reddit About FDS, I Think Some May Actually Have A PointBrigading from other scrotes. Listen to their podcast! I love it on my daily walks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/23 11:37 PM |
| 70 | After Carefully Reading & Listening to Feedback From Men on Reddit About FDS, I Think Some May Actually Have A PointLmao we miss y'all 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/23 11:07 PM |
| 1 | A Chad Named Brad (Patreon)Agh i don't even remember. I recently re-listened to all of them. I think it may have had to do with men who choose to do casual relationships. They often don't have the stuff required to make it long haul. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/23 04:44 PM |
| 1 | The 25 Tactics of Male PowerYou are so obsessed with a defunct subreddit. Why don't you go on a date? Oh wait can't get one huh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/23 04:35 AM |
| 6 | A Chad Named Brad (Patreon)Lmaoooo i always remember reaux or Lilith mentioning how these men lose their ability to pair bond and it feels so true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/23 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Prescription Prostitute - PART 2!Wrong sub scrote | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/23 09:45 PM |
| 7 | Why University Greek Life Is Structurally Pick-Me w/ Jana Matthews (FDS PODCAST EPISODE 91)I think it's only available on their Patreon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/22 11:07 PM |
| 29 | Bitter Reject Drake Calls Serena Williams' Husband A Groupie & He Claps BackMy personal mantra is actually more like "when all the boys don't want you, you're doing something right. Keep it up" but I'm afraid you won't like that one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/22 10:59 AM |
| 228 | Bitter Reject Drake Calls Serena Williams' Husband A Groupie & He Claps BackHe's just mad he fumbled her...like he did every baddie he's ever tried for. When all the girls don't want you, you become the common denominator | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/22 08:45 PM |
| 18 | Rihanna invited Bloated Mess #JohnnyDeppIsAnAbuser to her Savage x Fenty Vol. 4 Fashion Show as a "surprise guest"I refuse to trust anyone who is friends with Marilyn Manson. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/22 03:45 AM |
| 11 | Rihanna invited Bloated Mess #JohnnyDeppIsAnAbuser to her Savage x Fenty Vol. 4 Fashion Show as a "surprise guest"Again the UK trial already said he was guilty. He dragged her just because he could. One thing I'm not concerned about (and if there's anything this sub has taught me) is that a scrote is a scrote is a scrote. If he has terrible/poor character, he'll strike again. Hopefully, this time he's not lucky and time sets the record straight and gives her justice. No one mentions those atrocious messages he sent to Paul Bettany where they were discussing m$rdering her. Not the words of an innocent man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/22 03:45 AM |
| 52 | Rihanna invited Bloated Mess #JohnnyDeppIsAnAbuser to her Savage x Fenty Vol. 4 Fashion Show as a "surprise guest"There is literally countless evidence that AH wasn't lying including the UK report that corroborated that Depp beat her. Y'all want to ride and die for him but you realize that he had a history of drunken, reckless behavior right? People on sets didn't want to work with him anymore because he was unprofessional and aggressive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/22 11:09 PM |
| 58 | Democratic Congressional Candidate Declares Men Have A ’Right To Sex’ (FDS PODCAST EPISODE 86)Have y'all read the tragedy of heterosexuality?? By Jane Ward? I feel like the FDS girls will love it because it outlines exactly the entitlement that males have towards us and how it's been part of our grooming process for centuries. If you haven't, please do pick it up! I'm almost halfway through. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/22 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Listen Up Scrotes! Here’s Why Women Think You’re Creepy (FDS PODCAST EP. 84)THIS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/22 05:39 AM |
| 13 | Detty Peeg Chronicles: Males Aren't Washing Their BedsheetsThat try guys scandal and Adam Levine was just one after another. Top that off with the details coming out about Brad Pitt and Angie's dispute. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/22 02:14 AM |
| 72 | Mixed (Sexual) Orientation Marriage (PATREON)Omg this woman deeply lacks self respect and the dude has taken her for a total ride. The lengths women will go to just to avoid being single is astounding to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/22 12:15 AM |
| 6 | Massive Protests Erupt in Iran against the "Morality Police" Who Murdered Mahsa Amini for Not Properly Wearing Hijab. The Islamic Republic is Cutting Internet To Keep The Protests from Spreading. Please pass on these videos and don't let them!I second you, in India's case it is non muslims (we know who they are) who are forcing them and they're not forcing them out of good will for women because the same men forcing them to take it off do unspeakable things to women in India from their own religious group. People who aren't aware of this really should be. Ultimately the choice to wear it or not should be left to the woman, we cannot yank their clothing off of them because we believe we know better. Often this leads them to further vi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/22 11:05 PM |
| 99 | The Rise of Gen Z Celibacy (PATREON EXCLUSIVE)It's propaganda if it doesn't benefit patriarchy and women with internalized misogyny apparently | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/22 01:27 PM |
| 53 | A HVM will make you like your own personality MOREI wouldn't be so quick to lab someone a HVM after a date. A HVM man is comprised of a set of good consistent behaviors. Just being interested in what you have to say is the bare minimum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 11:52 AM |
| 14 | Mother in laws that prioritize their son in laws over their own daughterMy father used to say that I was his equivalent of a walking deity, worth 10 sons and then some. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 09:16 PM |
| 296 | As a Ukrainian living in USA, here is how most of my dates used to go for the past 10 years"you're Latina" "No Indian" "Damn. I was kinda hoping you were latina. Do you think you could whisper ey papi in my ear later? I just go wild for fiesta latin girls" I wanted to vomit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 02:00 AM |
| 6 | Rejected by 300 "hot girls", NVM cries about having to settle for "average" girls to get laidAlso because he himself thinks he's unworthy of love so he automatically distrusts any woman who does and thinks she's a clown for choosing him, a man well below her league. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 08:58 PM |
| 15 | This is why you never stay with a man who expresses interest in anal. What he really wants is to hurt and humiliate you.Okay please put trigger warnings that was A LOT. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 09:07 AM |
| 6 | Since y’all liked part one here’s more of her wisdom for the girlies who don’t wanna download TikTok 😫If a man calls you crazy, leave. That's all. Don't ever try to change them when they have exposed themselves. It makes them defensive and more importantly it drains YOU. Nothing kills a man's ego faster than indifference. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 11:47 PM |
| 2 | Always keep this in mind, ladies ✨Really? Like what? I see her on my fyp sometimes and she usually holds up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 11:05 PM |
| 4 | My third grade French teacher hit on me at the gym todayI had a pick me roommates who hooked up with our 11th grade Spanish teacher. He was in his 20s (I think 26) when he taught us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 02:51 AM |
| 28 | A message to the kinkmeishas: No, porn is not "normal".Sis I once had a man accuse me of cheating because i thought Fred Weasley from the Harry Potter books was attractive. TRUST ME THEY KNOW WHAT THEY'RE DOING | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 05:09 AM |
| 10 | Why didn’t her husband just clean the house shirtlessIt's interesting how men think sapphic women relate to women the same way they do. We weren't raised on objectifying them the same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 02:18 AM |
| 68 | Men want me to back down even when I am rightPlease don't go alone. Take a trusted friend or family | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 09:25 PM |
| 12 | Pickmes contributing to the idea that women should be low maintenanceHonestly i disagree, in countries like India, pickmeism is HORRIBLE. The worse the patriarchy, the more indoctrinated the women are. I just made my mom read why does he do that? By Lundy Bancroft and she said it could describe SO many women she knew. She's a pickmeisha but hopefully she'll reform after this. Either way narcissistic men and pick me women are common to us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 11:58 AM |
| 3 | Heartbreaking. Wife wants to spend time with lv hubby v-day weekend, gets ignored. He admits he’s trash but doesn’t want her with another manCAN WE RESCUE HER THIS IS SO SAD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 08:00 AM |
| 15 | HV Traits I've Observed in men I know - basically a few real life illustrations of why you shouldn't settle.I only have one HVM example I can think of; my dad. He would leave early from his business trips (instead of staying and partying with coworkers) to fly back home to read me bed time stories, he started saving for my education about three years before I was born and began investing as soon as possible. He bought me all the books and toys I ever wanted and shot fun music videos with me and put on pretend fashion shows. He took me to Mani pedis and would get them done with me (he was straight but … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 07:33 AM |
| 19 | If he doesn't do anything for you on VDay you need to block him. Period. Any low effort? Bye.Saint Valentine blesses us all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 03:17 AM |
| 23 | Good LuckWhat opportunity? Smegma cleanup? Free therapy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 04:40 AM |
| 3 | Age Gaps in the MediaWas the movie Carol? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 07:39 AM |
| 1 | The bar is in hell.They're predators not protectors | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 06:06 AM |
| 482 | Pickmes really need to shape up and get a clue 🤢Pick mes have the most unsatisfying sex lives | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 08:29 PM |
| 66 | What is it about South Asian/Desi culture that makes the men so depraved?Honestly I cannot speak for other Desi women but the culture in India in put me off so much that I refused to date or even talk to most men until I moved to a first world country for uni. Not that the men were better I'm the first world country but at least I had more rights here. You will find little sympathy there for women, even my own mother exhibits a lot of internalized misogyny even though my father was HV, a rarity. It took me years to realize no one was going to be like my father. I hav… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 09:03 PM |
| 32 | What is it about South Asian/Desi culture that makes the men so depraved?A society that promotes patriarchy and prevents women from having education/jobs creates a society where women are dependent on men for survival. Pick me moms and negligent or abusive dads usually. Arrange marriage also guarantees them wives they don't deserve. Many of them have a god complex and their families nurture this. I avoid them as much as possible because I've yet to meet one that has genuine empathy for the well-being of women who wasn't also trying to gain them to use as a sexual app… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 08:30 PM |
| 80 | A breakdown of Jason Mamoa's red flags now that he and Lisa Bonet announced their divorceSomething I think never gets me ruined was in the original GOt books, Jason Momoa's character never r*ped Daenerys, he actually waited until she was comfortable and ready, but for some reason they chose to eschew this in the show...so they basically added a horrible scene that was never there in the book and ruined a perfectly good character for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 09:28 AM |
| 2 | Just because a guy doesn't have some negative traits doesn't mean he is HV"If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor. If an elephant has its foot on the tail of a mouse and you say that you are neutral, the mouse will not appreciate your neutrality." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 11:50 PM |
| 13 | Stop Oversharing and Be SecretiveMy father used to say speak out loud, but move in silence. What he meant was that when urgent/pressing matters come it's important to exercise your voice and speak up on behalf of yourself and the more vulnerable, but whatever your personal/professional goals, tell no one. Move in silence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 10:19 AM |
| 39 | Marriage and prenups which truly benefit womenI know a lot of households im Asia where the husbands give their wives their paycheck every month, she uses it for the household, for herself and then the rest is his. In some others, a husbands money is considered his family's money, but his wife's money is considered her own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 10:51 AM |
| 7 | Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind?Not at all. As a person who has struggled with depression for years, even in the best or worst of times I always had me. When you're depressed and alone, you alone are responsible for getting back on your feet and you have no one holding you back. Marriage and kids will not cure depression. Think of how your kids or husband would benefit from having a depressed mom? What would their upbringing be if you could not be there for them 100%? As I kept thinking about this I was like at least I don't h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 04:02 AM |
| 8 | Beware of men who engage in avoidance, intimidation, infantilisation, or emotionally abusive manipulations when you bring up a concern. The very moment he displays any of the following (& more), DROP him! Do not let men damage your health.If a man tickled me while I was trying to have a serious conversation with him, it would be a straight taser to his scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 08:22 PM |
| 28 | Male friends are a myth.Even the Lannisters frown at this "relationship" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 09:47 PM |
| 2 | Can’t wait to see the male commenters of DM collectively lose their tiny minds.Omg mods can we please have this flair? We could use it for daily news of misogyny run rampant | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 08:21 PM |
| 13 | "women's value is looks, men's value is resources"So I'm not gonna lie I reached that point in my dating life. I was so sick of the scrotes so I was like I won't bother if he won't! Went out in a university sweatshirt and a ponytail and didn't give a damn. Stopped dating entirely after that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 09:03 AM |
| 24 | Reminder: Time is precious.They aren't as cautious as us because they don't need to be. The statistics tell you enough about what a danger most men are to us. Our first date could always be our last one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 07:20 PM |
| 13 | No, a woman from a 3rd world country will not put up with your stink! (An anecdote)It's strange that immigrants from the third world, especially south Asia are demonized as curry smelling and stinky when we literally invented the concept of daily bathing! I have never ever smelled a stinky woman in south Asia, maybe a few scrotes here and there (it's certainly a very scrote like behavior) but was horrified at how little men in the UK bathed and how they were oblivious to their own smell. Fucking projection | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 07:44 PM |
| 6 | Whoever needs this reminder! 👑Even with friends, I often found boundaries taken for granted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 08:53 AM |
| 43 | Do not let men of color triangulate you against women of colorIndian men do this a lot and colonialism has a lot to do with it. They can be very colorist and put white women on a pedestal while simultaneously slut shaming them for "being easy" compared to Indian girls. At the same time they chastise Indian women for being prudish, too traditional or not traditional/cultured enough. They even gaslight us about intergenerational trauma and the severe patriarchal conditions we grow up in in India, calling us dramatic. It's why I've never been drawn to one unl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 04:18 AM |
| 11 | Do not let men of color triangulate you against women of colorShort answer is yes. They do do this because of internalized racism/colonialism but it manifests as crazy sexism against their own. Do not date men like this. They will idealize you and be upset when you don't play into their fantasies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 04:10 AM |
| 4 | Is marriage always a good idea for a woman with assets?SAME. That's one of the major reasons preventing me from wanting it. I enjoy my solitude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 11:30 PM |
| 50 | Is marriage always a good idea for a woman with assets?Tbh I've debated this a lot because I don't really believe in marriage nor do I want to be married. I am bi so if I got married I'd prefer it be to a woman. But FDS is very pro-marriage with men. I wonder what their thoughts are on women who aren't so keen on marriage in the first place, should we refrain from dating men if we wind up forever gfs? Idk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 08:19 PM |
| 20 | Dating outside of your raceYup! Desi men are a breed unto themselves and I wouldn't be quick to label any of them HV unless they show they have broken from the oppressive, patriarchal conditioning most of us have. If he doesn't challenge his parents and does literally everything they say (down to them choosing his clothes or career path) RUN. If you're white he will expect that you're easy, if you're brown he will run you into the ground with his cultural expectations | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 10:42 PM |
| 23 | Please don’t idealise men from other culturesThe mark of a LVM is a man who trashes women from his culture instead of showing empathy and solidarity. Immediate red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 11:08 AM |
| 3 | If it’s not a fuck yes, it’s a no!I love the second part but I really think we need to rid the idea that we are their things or their special toys. We deserve to be invested in, because we are worthy of investment. We are valuable and adaptive human beings and without us, there wouldn't be much on this planet. Men should fight for that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 08:44 AM |
| 11 | What do you wish someone had told you about men when you were 14?If you don't want to, don't. And if he makes you and forces you to do something you don't want to, leave him. You get to choose, this is your story. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 06:53 AM |
| 6 | this is (yes really) a marketing strategy for a dating app.Agreed. Too many of them were like this and in my past LV behavior I tolerated too many of their advances and got myself into many dangerous situations! Only upon stumbling on FDS did I realize NUMEROUS women had experiences like this. It was so baffling and hurtful at first and really these scrotes had me doubting my self worth. My self esteem took a huge tumble on those apps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 11:19 PM |
| 24 | this is (yes really) a marketing strategy for a dating app.YUP can confirm. I never met a scrote off a dating app who wasn't either a) psychopath b) weirdo c)emotionally unstable/unavailable/dysfunctional d) porn addicts e) RP/PUA or perverts To find a good person there is like trying to find a needle in a shit stained haystack. You may find one, but at what cost? You're still gonna remember the shit smell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 09:44 PM |
| 38 | this is (yes really) a marketing strategy for a dating app."I'm not a regular dating app, I'm a COOL dating app" lmao all them are using the same strategies. Even hinge did this. Gimme a break. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 08:22 PM |
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