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Discussionalby333/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 11:48 AM
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My daughter (20) at university messaged me yesterday excited she has been asked on a date (she has no interest in online dating) I said that must happen all the time. She says outside of online dating men aren't really asking young women on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:16 PM
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I think also she does not want to appear to be easy to a guy she might go on to have a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 01:13 PM
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I love rom coms! I'm slightly sad they don't really make them anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:44 AM
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My partner is 40 (I'm 46) she insist on making g my meals she thinks it's her job but I think if she thought for 1 second I expected it she'd stop. I dont agree with this but She's said to me the other day that women have gone soft back when she was out clubbing if a guy pinched her ass she'd just tell the guy to fuck off and go about her day there'd be no talk of sa but then she always quite enjoyed cat calling and sexual banter. In her early 20s she was a bar maid so it came with the job. Pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:34 PM
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I mean I wouldn't really consider $130 as an expensive dinner to be honest, i earn ok . I get providing is a desirable trait I just wouldn't have wanted that to be how I ended up with the love of my life, it doesn't feel romantic or sexy. If I dated a girl and we had a great time and got on well but she had another date later that week and the guy spent way more on the date than me and for that reason the lady went with the other guy it means we weren't compatible and the system works I'm just n…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:19 PM
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Op said going fancy a basic dinner isn't what I'd call fancy. I feelike men who spend big early are trying to compensate for a lack of attractive traits or suffer from a lack of confidence in their social skills. Isn't it the opposite of self esteem if you need the big expensive gesture otherwise you worry a man isn't keen?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:17 PM
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I feel like the kind of woman I'd want for a relationship would feel awkward if I splashed out a huge ton of cash on a first meeting. It's a terrible way to judge interest. Men pay for sex with prostitutes so how much cash they spend is a measure of how much they want sex rather than their interest in being a decent partner in a relationship. Largely its false he's trying to impress and usually its not sustainable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:20 PM
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I'm thinking back on my encounters with doctors here in the UK and most of them are weird and really awkward. I don't think I've come across a single one that fits the TV trope of the suave charming well dressed doctor. Perhaps it's different in the us
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:13 AM
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She's not really trad it's an odd dynamic really food is her purview she very much enjoys feeding her family and even cooks snacks for my team at work. But she's quite cotrarian if she thought for one second I expected it she wouldn't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:42 AM
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My so always cooks still after 18 years I do most of the other housework we share the washing although I do more but she's always insisted on making the food and shopping online. I do occasionally take lunch to her at work if she works weekends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:24 PM
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Women love to flex thst they don't need a man but the truth is relationships can be complicated to navigate and not everyone is cut out for it. Those people do everyone a favour by not engaging in an activity where sucking at it will hurt another person
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:43 AM
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Thats disappointing I understand your frustration
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:29 PM
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Did you have a relationship with the guy then he decided you weren't for him? Probably better he split earlier rather than later and waste more of your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:04 AM
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I wonder if he thought "Jesus this girl is smart everything I say is gonna sound stupid" and just bailed in panic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:39 AM
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I think we have our wires crossed. I didn't make the lying=rape starement a lady in another thread did and I was saying if thats the case you have to apply the standard here Edit we didn't get our wires crissed i completely misunderstood the point you were making and came up with a bizarre hypothetical counter argument to something you never said I've deleted them now apologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:36 PM
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I think the most disappointing thing is the comments from the women wishing for a man to supply a similar lifestyle for them. It doesn't seem to occur to them to try to achieve it for themselves or maybe be the ones themselves providing a great lifestyle for a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:23 PM
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Someone here likened lying to get sex is tantamount to rape earlier. So by the same token lying to secure a relationship should be considered a similar offence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:52 PM
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I think it's more about the man some men illicit a visceral attraction in women others have to do the emotional work. And women aren't monsters if you ask about emotional connection they won't say yeah I need it for you but I'll jump on Jason mamma's dick straight away. They will spare your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 01:12 PM
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I had to look up biological determinism as I wasn't familiar with it and it seems the theory has been largely discredited.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:58 PM
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I'm more than happy with how my daughter has turned out
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:18 AM
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We are an egalitarian household me and her mother both always worked and shared household duties we never married. she knows what a good partnership looks like I think she'll be fine. I'm not sure becoming someone's wife is a priority for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:29 AM
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Me and my so are so much better off as a single financial entity than if we were to split up. Half and half really is the only sensible split of assets accrued in the marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:44 PM
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I don't know if that's a sensible progression or a tragic loss but no-one seems terribly thrilled about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:04 PM
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I think maybe it men don't socialize the way you want them to but men socialise with each other just fine. You socialise with your girlfriends just fine so maybe it's not the men being inadequate maybe it's a general disconnect between the sexes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:52 PM
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Really? I remember early stages of relationships being a total blast and the women I was dating seemed to be enjoying themselves. Granted I've not dated for some time but what's changed? Is it it the transactional nature of modern dating? Everyone desperately trying to get as many ticks on their list as possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:46 PM
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I don't think old women want to horde chad but I do think women are extremely good at coming together to boost narratives that benefit them. If you want to play the field in your 20s and find a guy to marry in your 30s it's not helpful if all the guys in their 30s are able to date girls in their 20s so what do you do? You don't want to limit a woman's sextal freedom so you float a narrative that age gaps are icky and any man in his 30s dating a woman in their 20s is exploiting a power imbalance.…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:05 PM
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Same here I know a few people choosing not to date but those are all men. I think we have to be careful what we believe. It does sound great for women having great friend groups full of deep relationships with fellow women that are so fulfilling that women don't want to date. But is that the reality for most women? We need to look at who benefits from thst narrative. It's a bit like a kind of bluff holding relationships hostage until you give me what I want. I'd not pay much attention to it. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:25 PM
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Better the bar be high than low I guess. At least she has a great work ethic she's working 2 jobs to put herself through university. I don't pry into ger dating life but she knows my distaste for women who expect a man to pay for everything so hopefully that rubs off I taught her to always pay her own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 11:31 AM
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She'll have to do basic training but she'd be joining as a physiotherapist for the army's sports teams. So not a lot of killing I dont think
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:04 AM
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Yeah you can't placate your so whilst raising your eyebrows to your kids behind their back I'm a firm believer on a united front . I think id describe her mother as hard but fair
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 01:52 AM
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Well she's actually considering joining the army (uk) after her masters so I think it will be a non issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 01:11 AM
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I have a 20 year old daughter she knows I will drop anything and come to her aid if she calls, usually car related im pretty good with car maintenance. She recently shared a tick tock saying my dad will drop anything if I need him I'll accept nothing less from a boyfriend. I found that slightly concerning because whilst I'd like her to have a decent supportive boyfriend it's not a boyfriends job to be a parent to a needy adult. But she's pretty capable and I think it was just her sharing appreci…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 12:47 AM
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As a man in his 40s I remember back in the late 80s early 90s there was a lot of talk about the male ego and how men thought a lot of themselves but it was considered fragile because anything that pierced the delusion that he was an absolute boss couldn't be tolerated. I feel that's where women are now with female egos that are out of control.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:44 PM
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I think a man can keep a woman's respect as a house husband but the standard of homemaking he will be held to will be pretty high if you aren't bringing cash then that house better be run like a military operation
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 11:33 AM
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Ok then perhaps chang the "what guys do" part of your comment to what people do because I assure you its not just guys
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:25 AM
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Many ugly men will report similar experiences at the hands of mean women. Hell groups of women on nights out are absolutely merciless to unattractive men then they post videos of it online and thousands of female commenters cheer them on
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:13 AM
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I feel like the women are happier single narrative came out as a clap back when it became apparent many men were shunning the demands of rhe dating market anf socuety in general to play video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 08:47 AM
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I think it interesting that the gap in experience due to age is talked about but the gap in experience due to having had greater experience sexually and in relationships,which women tend to have far greater due to the ease of finding partners, is never discussed. I've lost count of the times I've seen some poor young guy being run rings round in a relationship because his gf is way more experienced and he has no clue wtf is going on. Also the ease at which a young woman can replace her guy grant…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:45 AM
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The only thing that really gives me the ick is women who are scruffy and unkempt I don't mean dressed casually in joggers/ripped jeans/faded t shirts etc. It's hard to explain but things like greasy hair or creased un ironed clothes not achieving the look you are going for, ill fitting clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 12:56 AM
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No but I heard cavemen bashed women over the head and dragged them back to their caves let's use that to criticise modern men on the Internet
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:38 PM
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You think men kick women out of their houses 1 week a month because they are on their period? Is there female menstruation centres to house women not allowed home until they stop bleeding? Of all the bad faith bullshit I've read on here this is by far the stupidest.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:18 PM
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I disagree that women don't know what they want but its possible there's a disconnect with what many woman know in their mind would be sensible desirable qualities in a possible partner and what they might feel a visceral physical attraction to. I don't think thats exclusive to women either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:01 PM
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Jesus I just clicked that link first post was a woman who is in a psychotic rage because her boyfriend turns on the lights that she doesn't prefer. Thank god for that poor sole that this unpleasant lunatic is leaving him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:55 PM
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I'm pro choice but I really don't think anyone really wants to control women's sexuality outside of lunatic religious people. Thats just the narrative that feeds into womens ego that they are so important people care what they do. Who cares if Debbie from hr gets railed by multiple guys every weekend? Even without abortion there's loads of options to not get pregnant that no one is suppressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:46 PM
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Wtf! Are there really people stupid enough to read these bullshit articles and think that's an OK way to behave? I think these websites are just rage bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:07 PM
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Who did that then?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:20 PM
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Horses for courses I guess. my mrs suffers anxieties about certain things she's a lot less anxious if i am calm. I remember being a kid having my dad around in sticky situations was always more reassuring than my mum because she would panic I felt like we could handle anything with my dad around very little phased him
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:55 PM
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Her anxiety about your kid driving would be a whole lot worse if you were freaking out too. It would help no one for you to share your worries with your wife
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:27 PM
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it's bizarre "masculinity is the problem" then proceeds to celebrate masculinity in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:23 PM
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Personally I believe the only sensible split is 50/50 for assets accrued during the marriage. I wouldn't categorise it as losing half my stuff that should be understood going into marriage its a split of joint assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:39 PM
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Because its the same risk as wifing up bagel maker girl only combined with the argument in court that she put her career on hold so you owe her for lost earnings/career opportunities
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:20 PM
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I don't think thats just women to be honest my colleague in his 50s just realised he can get what he wants having a string of dates on fb dating. Were I ever single again i think id stick only to casual relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:37 PM
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Yeah I think women tend to forget what work was like in the past. I gaurentee the wives of Welsh miners in the 1700s weren't clamouring for the right to go down the pit along side their men. Who benefitted from the "patriarchy" then?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:09 PM
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I'd add to this reject any woman who wants to take time from her career to be a stay at home mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:43 PM
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What does the right man bring just out of interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:02 PM
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I agree to wanting an equal partner. Interestingly though I just came from a post about a man who did a murder suicide with his family. There was the usual offshoot having a pop at men because 97% of these tragedy are perpetuated by men. Fair enough it's hard to argue but strangely whilst we are blaming male characteristics for much wrong in society women are being encouraged to behave more like men and at the same time men are also rewarded for being masculine and their gender roles are being e…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:36 PM
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They are just as likely to bag a 1% man as an incel is to date a supermodel
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:38 PM
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Running clubs,triathlon clubs,cycling clubs these clubs have a social side unlike the gym so it's not weird to spark up a conversation with women there just don't hit on every woman there on the first day lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:55 AM
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Logically you are right if you like a person at the end of the date just kiss them but there's a competition in dating to be the person who is the least keen as if thst grants you power in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:31 AM
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Thats what I did after no. 2 I think the mrs was a bit sad that there would be no third but we'd have needed a bigger house and she's always been dead set against a house move.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:47 PM
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Years ago I had a girlfriend like this it was pretty good early days but long term it wasn't practical. Once she'd lost contact with her friends I was her only source of human interaction so therefore itwas very hard to see my friends. Basically she expected me to reciprocate I was in my early 20s so that wasnt going to happen as I was playing in a band that shectried to insert herself into much to the chagrin of my band mates (no one likes a yoko). It was pretty unhealthy ste even let her faith…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:13 AM
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You are 200 years old? If you are under 50 you never lived under oppression
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:21 PM
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Yeah marriage is an obstacle to plitting up that encourages people to work harder on relationships I'd say a marriage likely to end in messy divorce will mist likely be a messy marriage. Not great for kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:14 PM
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Im struggling to reall think what difference it wouldve made to my kids, i know some people like to be married and id never take that from them. but it really is an imaginary construct with no inherent meaning besides what people choose to give it. Edit I'd also ad not every marriage is the ideal best situation to have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:56 PM
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Strange the ladies of ppd want to categorise men as simultaneously man children who can't handle rejection and can't tear themselves off theirgames consoles long enough to do basic chores and also machuavellian manipulators capable of destroying another humans self worth to an extent they can cage them against their will
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:49 PM
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I dont really disagree but if you can be committed without being married the effect is the same. Being non religious we really didn't see the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:37 PM
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I and my so never married my oldest daughter is 20 soon. she never asked why we weren't married it just never came up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:24 PM
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Yeah I haven't watched it yet but when I read the plot my first thought was the kens were as gender swap of women from the 50s grudgingly considered deserving of some rights but not considered bright rational or educated enough for any real power
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:19 AM
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Yeah I think everyone is entitled to their empowerment fantasies in movie form. God knows there's plenty for men to watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 05:09 PM
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Yeah I've not seen it but the cinematography does look great in the trailers so we'll done to the director for that. Just seems like a whole lot of telling women what they want to hear in the least subtle way possible in the script from the reviews I've seen. People are acting like it's citizen kane or something because it aligns with their worl view.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 05:00 PM
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Women can do these things because men are thirsty. 90% of men's dating issues would be fixed tomorrow if men weren't so desperate for pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:04 PM
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I'd imagine she's decided way before the bill comes if she wants to see you again if the bill makes a difference she probably wasn't that into you in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:31 AM
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I think you are right my education level is much higher than my so but she is much smarter than me she's been offered loads of promotions at work whiche she's refused as my wage easily covers our outgoings and she likes her job. She has no interest in politics really so conversations about that feel like me giving lectures but her mental arithmetic is astonishing and I consider myself a fast reader she can read a book twice as fast as me. If she was motivated in that way it's frightening what sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:21 AM
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I think a lot of people redditors in particular mistake educated for smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:55 AM
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Isn't Jim caviezel a raving q anon lunatic?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:56 PM
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I was saying this to a friend the other day I'm a 46 year old guy I've had my kids and had a vasectomy I'd never co habit again were I single I'd value my independence too much plus who is at their best 24/7? Best to just date.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:25 PM
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Ok that makes sense personally I never really had a visceral revulsion for women with high n counts as long as it wasn't with a load of people in my community its part parcel with having a desirable partner but I understand a lot of guys do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 09:31 AM
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Yeah thats true but I do think women would like a man who would be capable of attracting any women they want, and if a single man can he most likely will
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 09:17 AM
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That seems to be a bit of a contradiction women must like (or at least it no be a turn off) high n count guys for them to get the high n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 09:05 AM
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I've not dated recently but from what I'm seeing online young women don't want to pay on dates using rubbishe excuses like the cost of cosmetics as if men gives a shit if their nails are painted. Bizarrely when I dated in the 90s many women insisted on paying their way, like they were flexing their independence it was a point of pride for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:27 PM
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My wife just turned 40 I'm not sure I can put up with this disrespect lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 02:02 PM
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I've worked in engineering for 25 years I've yet to witness anyone not hired because they are women quite the reverse in fact. I'm just suggesting your gender may mot be why you didn't find work. Perhaps other candidates were better maybe some of them were even women. I don't think it's an insult to say that. But you flying off the handle as you have speaks volumes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:10 PM
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You seem lovely can't think why no-one wants to work with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:03 PM
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I'd not be so quick to blame being a woman for your lack of success in the job market most engineering companies love to flaunt their female engineers in the corporate marketing. Perhaps you don't come across well. Assuming victimhood will stop you developing into a person these companies want to hire.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 11:45 AM
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I think it matters all the time the majority of women prefer their partner to earn more than them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 09:18 AM
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He doesn't have the authority to issue orders lol he texted her about some shit he didn't like her doing she still did it ,as is her right,then he decided the relaionship wasn't for him and nope out. Nothing more melodramatic than that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:20 PM
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Stupid yes but I dont think manipulative manipulation is suble he just blurted out what he wanted over text and he was certainly not abusive
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 02:02 PM
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If a man was engaging with women who post thirst traps while single would it be ok for him to continue once in a monogamous relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 01:57 PM
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you can say to someone you don't like what they are doing and then leave them if they continue to do it. That's pretty much what happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 01:46 PM
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The whole thing was a non story brought to light by a wannabe influencer looking for clout and happy to throw a famous ex under the bus to get it. Bonus points for putting the mockers on the exes happiness with his new partner and baby
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:17 AM
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Just a quick insight I spend a fair amount of time at the track our athletic club strip is a full vest no bra top is available I've heard some of the women complain they'd like a more feminine alternative. There's nothing wrong with the vest in terms of performance it's very light made by soar an expensive boutique sports brand. I'm sure most of the women aren't really trying to turn anyone on but who knows? make of that info what you will
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:09 PM
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Seems a useful signal as to wether you want traditional family roles or a moe 50/50 progressive relationship a second date would have wasted both your time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:34 PM
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Seems likely she was an asshole back as her side of these conversations is conveniently missing. The release of these texts and the timing speaks volumes about her character. Not much to see here but 2 idiots arguing over text
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:36 PM
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I assume he's referinig to a housekeeper Charlie had a lady called berta he paid to clean the house
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:37 PM
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Well this is a very simplistic high school level view of history that ignores the impact of women in world events. If you belive women had no influence in conflict in the world then we can also ignore the female influence in everything good thing built by male hands
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:05 AM
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Plenty of women support going to war when it's in their interests they just don't put their lives on the line like men do
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 05:29 PM
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The heart wants what the heart wants I guess I bet that bird had a pretty nice bird box lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 01:55 PM
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Tesla's was a pigeon
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 01:43 PM
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I bet plenty of evil scumbags are egged on by the mrs. I'm not sure why a mana needs a women to be great I bet plenty achieve great things with no input from a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 01:01 PM
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I don't have lines I have social skills and instinctively know how to behave in social situations because of experience. If you are a loudmouth who just blurts out shit he feels no matter the situation you will be an embarrassment to your so and they will lose respect pretty quick You seem to missunderstand what game is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:57 PM
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Women like men who are able to say the right things at the right time because such a man boosts her standing in social situations. No girl wants to bring a stuttering awkward guy to their friends social event. Some women think they like shy awkward types but thst attraction soon goes away when all their friends are side eying each other with "what's up with this guy?" Expressions on their faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:11 PM
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My daughter has come home from school and told me her female teachers are openly hostile to the boys in the class and quite often push radical feminist rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:04 PM
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And also for the phrase behind every great man there's a great woman to be true there is most likely be a pretty appalling woman behind every terrible man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:01 PM
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My Teenage daughters would live like pigs if we were to allow it I'm honestly shocked at how bad they will let their rooms get if I don't intervene. I was messy as a teenage boy but never outright dirty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 11:49 AM
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They do come across a bit skanky but it's up to men to have higher standards
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:53 PM
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Absolutely. If you inflate the opposite sex's egos by chasing anything with a vagina you can't complain when they all believe they are 10s. If you can't get a decent girl to date you done blame her blame your mate who can't keep it in his pants
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:17 PM
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In our running club our fastest female runner trains with pretty much all men as we tend to run faster she's not pro active and never pushes the pace. Every now and again another woman might join our group and she will push the pace until the new women can no longer keep up. She completely denies she is doing it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 03:47 PM
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Do you live in the clueless cinematic universe?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:24 PM
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I used to comment on the bluepill sub an laugh at some of the more eccentric people on the red pill sub but honestly I did take on board the stuff on there I found useful. I got in shape and stopped texting my so multiple times a day with pointless crap (text for logistics only) and refused to entertain pointless arguments. I think it has really improved my relationship and maybe without it we'd not be together today.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:36 AM
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Well if someone is too stupid to feed themselves then they should not inflict themselves on another partner my dad is 70 abd pretty good in the kitchen
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:23 AM
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I totally agree women don't lave a lesser propensity for violence it's just that they know 50% of the population is stronger. If men disappeared tomorrow women would be beating the shit out of each other by the end of the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:08 PM
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Is that right? I've always been able to hold on as long as needed although I can finish quicker. I've never timed myself but 45 min doesn't seem excessive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:49 AM
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It's probably more satisfying to say I was used I'm a victim then admit that they were rejected because over time the guy realised she wasn't really what he wanted for a girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:47 AM
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Well if you've agreed to not have children then one of the partners in the relationship changes their mind for whatever reason that might seem like it's unfair, but if someone changes their mind about that what are you going to do? trap them in a childless marriage or have a child you don't want? The only option is to let them go and try to think fondly of the time you did have together
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 01:05 AM
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My forever girlfriend never wanted to get married. For reasons she never really disclosed I assumed it was because she's the child of divorced parents. Now we have a house and 2 teenage kids shes expressing an interest in marriage she doesn't want to make a big deal about it though I think just us and the kids at a registry office then lunch I think was the plan. She'll gain nothing financially from this as pretty much all our assets are joint owned.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:22 PM
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Have you never witnessed a women turn into super wife when she has people in her home to observe it? I doubt people act the same if they know they're filmed as they do when they aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:54 PM
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Those are usually surveys thst are self reported we had a big discussion about this on another thread and the upshot seemed to be people answer the survey with the answers they want the outcome to be rather than the truth so surveys asking women if they do the most housework will always come out saying that women do more. It was a discussion about a survey that had the outcome that men work more when you add work and housework hours together.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:43 PM
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Often men will feel positive feelings for people they are able to provide worth to. Emotionally damaged people need help so a lot of men will be drawn to that. Men want to save women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 12:56 PM
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The men in positions of power mostly have wives that influence and fully support their actions
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 08:12 PM
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Is that what he said? I run long distance my heart at rest beats just over half as often as average to unfit people if the argument is your heart only has so many beats in its lifetime then my heart is beating much less on a daily basis then normal people despite periods of increased heartrate
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:31 PM
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I don't think your average man wants to ban these things it's certainly not in his favour to do so. Here in the UK we've had abortion and pills for years no one questions it now. the USA will probably get there one day
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:45 PM
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I mean if you classify misandry as hatred of men in bet middle Eastern women do hate the men they just have to be quiet about it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:39 PM
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You think women didn't support a system that saved them from going to work in the mines?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:34 PM
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Ok fair enough probably the only thing everyone can agree on here is maybe drunken hookups are a bad idea lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:17 PM
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Does that mean thst if a guy is super attractive and women usually approach him and are usually being the coercive party if he wakes up next to a girl after drinking and doesn't remember it he can assume he's been raped?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:52 PM
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League of legends?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 09:57 AM
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Then my day has not been a total waste
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:33 AM
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You seem nice I'm rooting for you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:17 AM
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I'm no expert on therapy but that sounds a healthy mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:43 AM
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That's tough your father really hasn't done us guys any favours when it comes to cleaning up the poor image many women have of us it frustrating because I really think the majority of men are doing better. I've pushed hard against the narrative women are doing more than men on this thread but that's not me saying women are doing less than men or are lazy just that I believe most men are working just as hard
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:28 AM
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Where in anything I said does it indicate that I don't see the necessity of household chores? I'm saying women use the term to make themselves the victim when it turns out they are in fact unreasonable in their expectations and have reacted angrily
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:05 PM
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The idea that people do things wrong to get out of doing them is lifted straight out of a sitcom. t's just not a thing in real life.. mostly it seems to be women who want things done a certain way losing their temper with men wo dont see the necessity folding towels a certain way loading cupboards in a certain order etc. People can claim weopenised incompetence then its you who are the victim not the man you are screaming at
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:51 PM
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But if you don't have to remember it yourself you aren't doing the mental work I get texts saying appointments both I and my wife do and one of us takes them usually me if I'm honest. You can't build up your contributions into a huge mountainous task and expect everyone to believe it when it just isn't true. Most women who work don't do everything you claim they do or they have claimed to you they do. Just a tip most people male or female will exaggerate their workload if they think they can get…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:48 PM
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I disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:40 PM
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I think you overstate this most appointments for children literally message when the kid is due docs opticians dentist it's easy. Cards can be arranged online and amazon is great for projects materials I've done all the stuff you are talking about it's not thst hard
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:37 PM
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I speak to plenty of women you reporting what other women have told you isn't reliable data and I've explained why. It's expectation that drives these things the same reason few men like to admit if their wife is a better driver (my wife is) it's expected for men to be good at such things so it's difficult to admit if thats the case
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:34 PM
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Kids don't need constant care it's nonsense to add up all time spent at home with children and compare that to being at work
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:25 PM
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I spent plenty of time with women in real life I did the school runs with my children for years so I have interacted with many mothers. The female social matrix is such that women look down on other women who don't claim to be slaving in the home no one wants to be the one who admits their husband does the majority of the work in front of their friends. I've seen women who I know barely lift a finger in the home while their man does everything join in complaining about their lazy husband with th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:19 PM
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Many women here love love survey data when it confirms their world view not so much when it doesnt I don't trust survey data at all I maintain no one tells the truth in surveys if it isn't what they want the outcome if the survey to say. thats why there's still loads of studies saying in a survey women say they still do the majority of the housework. Lol if course they say that do the people organising the survey think the women are going to admit the husband is working just as hard if not harde…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:58 PM
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I've yet to meet a woman who downplays what they do in the home most women would never admit thier partner does more no matter how true that may be
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:50 PM
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As far as I can tell weopnised incompetence is mainly a term made up to justify spousal abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:44 PM
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I think this is where the advice to be yourself may be relevant don't put up a facade that will be exhausting to maintain then claim your partner is demanding
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:59 AM
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Men would be told "you got yourself pregnant deal with it" same as when financial abortion is brought up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:14 AM
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I wonder if what we are seeing is often a battle between partners to be the main character in the story. You need your partner to make you look good to your family and social and work circles and look good on social media .often if that's your thinking what your partners family/friends/colleagues think doesn't matter at all I've witnesse this with both my daughters who's last boyfriends expected the relationship to revolve around their family and friends barely visiting our home at all then seem…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:11 AM
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The bad faith arguing is really quite something
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:20 PM
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At the same time hand waving it away when women do the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:52 AM
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Yeah I agree one thing women were able to do is pull together for a for a common goal. Male organisations tend to be very tribal the red pillers don't agree with the mgtows neither like the incels and much like the alt right these groups tend to eat each other alive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:16 PM
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Nah its a grift as much as anything. not to say there aren't really issues that affect men that need addressing but as with any movement people trying to sell books aren't really trying to help in fact the grift comes to the end if the issues get sorted. There's a fair amount of grifters on the women's side also pumping out books full of nonsense for gullible people with victim complexes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:56 PM
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A roomba does have good suction
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:45 PM
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I think if a person sufferers through a few bad relationships it might be preferable to risking another.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 04:32 PM
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And it will go downstairs for you if you hear a noise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 04:30 PM
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I think it might be helpful for you to put yourself in his shoes you have to commute then do a tough manual job while your husband gets out of bed has a coffee fires up the laptop mayhe has breakfast while reading emails then gests to work with maybe the TV in in the background he's done by 3 so knocks up a bit of dinner meanwhile you've done physical labour all day and battlesd traffic to get home at 5 sweaty an dirty but your husband says it's selfish for you to want to bath before the kids so…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:51 AM
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This isn't most men. I'm afraid you have saddled yourself with one of the shit ones. I don't know any grown men who behave this way and I know less women who would tolerate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:27 AM
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I'm a guy the commenter above me says she laughs at passport bros I'm saying it's a viable option if you can't get what you want in your own country and not something to ridicule
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 10:55 AM
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I don't claim any moral superiority over those that earn their living I'm the oldest profession. I would advise men as a man in hos 40s that in a world where buying a home certainly where I live in the UK requires two decent incomes that they date with that in mind. In short don't commit to broke women. Most relationships crumble under financial pressures
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:14 AM
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I'm sorry maybe I am a little slow are you saying women dating in a pragmatic fashion and therefore go for men who earn a good wage are comparable to prostitutes?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:04 AM
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Well therapy is always good advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:30 PM
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Why is that funny though? A guy exercises one of his few options if he's been paying attention in his home country I doubt he'll be overly surprised to be screwed for a green card, but the other option is die alone. What would you do in his situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:16 PM
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I get the ridicule a man fails at dating he's such a failure he has to go to another country to find a suitable date. As adolescents we all laughed at guys who couldn't score but as an adult surely if you have been rejected by women in your own country the other option is to go to a country were what you gave to offer is valued. Its a little sad and not optimal but faced with the alternative of dying alone its a sensible decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:53 PM
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I guess so,women date more pragmatically than men, that's smart. In a world where 2 incomes are required to raise a family men should pay more attention to what their prospective partner earns
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:29 PM
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it's almost always money everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:23 PM
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Meh feminists are always scouring media for the slightest hint of sexisim to get outraged by and write a boring post or make a video about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 12:42 PM
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The power on amazon prime
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 06:30 AM
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I watched the first 3 episodes we are still in the wtf women shoot electricity! Phase so I'm not sure if the tv show will have the same honesty but there are signs it will. I've watched worse shows tbh As science fiction goes its a bit silly that out of nowhere women can shoot electricity but if you want to explore what would happen if women were suddenly more powerful than man I don't really know of a better way to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 11:57 PM
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They look good in a tube top
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 11:27 PM
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Although if I'm honest I never thought of my balls as perky
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 11:08 PM
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46 year old man here I've never really thought about this before but on inspection my balls are definitely less perky than they used to be
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:22 PM
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Is anyone watching the power? Looks like it might be interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:18 PM
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Ok that makes sense people don't always look like their pics
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:30 PM
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Did he say there was a set number of times you are allowed to look at the camera?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:17 PM
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I've never used these apps can't you arrange an in person meeting on the app? If I was ever dating again id probably wait until the first date to exchange numbers I think waiting for her to request my number would be a good policy so not to appear desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:15 PM
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Yeah I think we deal with men and women as a monolith here but in our friend groups we know the men who are thirsty and like womens pics for sexual interest ant those that like like because of hobby style interest and we now the women who are posting to for male attention and those saving pics of fun experiences and outfits/makeup for their friends. I think having respect for your partner with your online behaviour is important and being honest with yourself and your partner about why you are en…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:13 PM
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Ok yeah I think i agree with what you are saying. I think my view is this. If my other half posts a pic of herself and 200 men like and or comment. Fine I'm happy my girlfriend is hot and that feels good might even raise my social standing. If she posts 5 pics a day it can be assumed shes looking for that same attention. then we have a problem because I now look a total idiot infront of my friends and possibly colleagues. By the same token if I like one pic of a female friend in a bikini and may…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:14 PM
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There was no mention of sexual interes it was just he liked a pic of a girl in a bikini. You are just assuming the interest is sexual. If you are going to make that assumption then I can then make an assumption that if a woman habitually posts pics of herself in bikinis then she is hoping to garner male attention. Edit: just to clarify I'm not really against my partner posting pics online and she's never mentioned thst I shouldn't like womens pics. I think our rule is generally (sorry to use exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:45 PM
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Yeah I agree we can't assume women are soliciting male attention by posting pics in skimpy outfits by the same token if a man likes a pic of a girl we can't assume that he has anything sexual on his mind he might like the location or the ladies fashion sense. If you assume good intentions on one side we must do the same the other
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:29 PM
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That's just so they can squeeze more work out of the man
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:21 PM
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Yeah this sounds right to me. It's been a long time since I dated what's the deal with modern women and personality and kindness these days? Are they delivering that themselves? As I type this it occurs to me many men initially at least don't prioritise these values rather than "is she kind?" the question is "is she hot" perhaps therein lays the route of many mens issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:20 AM
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If you look after your body they aren't really my friend is a builder he's 46 and very wealthy he just ran a 2 hour 40 marathon. His body is fine. I don't understand why working a trade is worse for your body than lifting weights at the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:15 AM
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Yeah I think it's a culture issue everyone here in the UK knows that it's a certain type of women that expects everything paid for her so when we read about women in the states expecting to have her dinner paid for we assume she's that kind girl who lacks class that would expect that here in the uk.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 08:17 PM
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Yeah that was my experience dating years ago in the UK women here are very keen to show that they can pay their way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 08:03 PM
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Wasn't there a study floating around that when you ad up work and home chore hours men still work longer hours than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:26 PM
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I believe the premise is if you can become attractive enough in looks and behaviour a woman's physical instincts will override her more logical side and will agree to sex without receiving things that in her mind she knows are important to her in a long term relationship possibly she may believe that if she behaves how the man wants he will eventually come around. Eventually the woman will realise its not gonna happen and move on thats known as a broken plate. I'm not s repiller but I have read …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:46 AM
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I have no humidity its bloody freezing here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:25 PM
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We both go to the the same running club met at a cross country race
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:50 PM
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I'm 46 last year a 29 year-old woman sent me a message saying how attracted to me she was neither of us are single so the answer was no im not completely sure what she intended to happen . she messaged me "hey" the otber day to see if I'd answer (I didn't) I'd block her but the mrs finds it amusing and is interested to see where she goes with it. Anyway even I think its weird a woman so young and pretty hot would be approaching someone so much older. Maybe she has me confused with someone else l…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 03:47 PM
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Yeah I think the correct approach is to work to get yourself where you want to be and if an opportunity presents itself at a convenient time maybe shoot tour shot. Rather than actively searching maybe just do your thing until you get a clear indication of interest then approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 10:19 AM
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Personally I like to start off a stuttering mess and go down hill from there
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:27 PM
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You don't even have to visit a subreddit r/TwoXChromosomes appears regularly on the front page
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 01:59 PM
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I don't think I'm saying men shuld give up looking for partners and become asexual or live solitary existence I'm just suggesting that maybe we could work toward changing the attitudes that if you aren't having sex then you are somehow less than your peers who are. Isn't it crazy that a guy who has forged a great career in a difficult industry can have lower self esteem than a guy who has little going for him than looks because he fucks whilst the other doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 09:26 AM
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Have you ever rejected an angry woman for sex? Holy crap that sets them off
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 11:35 PM
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Yeah me too! I'm super calm but when a woman has a temper there seems to be little you can do to avoid the eruptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 11:00 PM
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If you could make men less thirsty or at least behave less thirsty and have a take it or leave it attitude to women ironically you'd probably see a lot more of young men getting girlfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 09:05 PM
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I am a guy. I'm not saying there isn't an urge to have sex and it's not a powerful one but I think the rage comes from a societal expectation that young men should be out dating and being successful at itand that if you can't you are somehow broken and that's your fault. I'll say this though a lot of guys put a great deal more effort into gaming than dating that gets criticised but perhaps it's just as valid a pass time as chasing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 09:01 PM
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I think the issue is not necessarily the urge more society placing so much of a man's worth in his ability to attract women. If there was no stigma to being a virgin and/or single a lot of men would probably dedicate more time to thier hobbies than bothering to date. There's never been any movement to de stigmatise not getting a women. Instead men chase women and every rejection reinforces the idea that they are in fact a loser. Then they go in search of methods to not be a loser and are drawn t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 07:44 PM
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Not to sound like a white Knight or a male pick me or anything but what the fuck? Grown adults behave this way? I've never on line dated, I met the mrs before it became a thing, but it seems it removes the filters from people that would be in place in an in person interaction
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:39 AM
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Who is ridiculing women for not wanting kids? I've never seen that happen
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:16 AM
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I'm 46 my dating years were the time of the spice girls and girl power lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 02:14 PM
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Yeah i think you are right It's been a long time since I dated but my experience years ago was that women were very generous and quite insistent on paying their way almost as if it was a badge of honour.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 01:21 PM
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It seems there's a subset (hopefully a small one) who actually pride themselves on being able to scam free stuff from guys and brag about it in videos whilst hundreds of women cheer them on in the comment section. It seems odd to be so proud of such unpleasant behaviour and even more odd to praise it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 12:55 PM
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Put them inside your socks and never take your socks off
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 01:20 AM
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Yeah this is true there was a study a few years back about men expecially over 35 don't really have friend groups. With this study in mind the running club I belong to started a social meetup every couple of weeks for the men of the club. It's made a huge difference I now have a thriving friend group outside of work mates that communicate daily on various mesage groups. It was so easy to do and I think we're I single again I think I could take or leave a relationship I'm not sure I'd even have t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 08:46 PM
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I didn't have a play station I had an amiga 500 I'm beginning to think I was abused 🤔 or just old
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 07:27 PM
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I struggled with this at school but eventually found my feet in male spaces at college. You are judged by how well tou take these jibes and throw them straight back."yeah i never kissed a girl but your dad enjoyed the blow job last night" that kind of thing I know it's stupid but it does work . If you are unable to do that very early on in the course you are studying it's going to be difficult sadly to dig your way out of the position of group stooge
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:34 PM
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I think it's probably more the case we don't need to wait for a mandated day to do special things for each other. We like to buy each other concert tickets last one was ugly kid joe we have razorlight and guns n roses coming up (we were 90s kids)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 09:51 PM
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I'm aware that was an admittedly poor attempt at humour. I've been with the mrs 18 years we don't do valentines.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:40 PM
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I'll take back the diamonds now I know all I gotta do is put on a tie and brush my hair the mrs will be thrilled
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:13 PM
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Ah sorry my misunderstanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 03:56 PM
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The people who collect my garbage seem like a fun group of guys always laughing and joking I'd join their crew. I think the money isn't bad either. I think it's a bit of a closed shop here in the UK not easy to get into. My daughter loved them as a toddler she used to look out thexwindow all day on garbage day to wave at them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 03:52 PM
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It's funny you say this actually, I don't go to the gym but I do use my local running track twice a week. Women approach me and chat all the time, in fact on 4 separate occasions just this week. mostly questions about training or to complement my speed. if I were of a mind to think that way I could construe their behaviour as creepy I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:25 PM
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There's so much truth in this. I really struggle accepting help when it's offered as a man . Its something I've really worked on recently because I feel like people enjoy the feeling g of having helped someone and by refusing an offer of helped you have robbed them of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 11:25 PM
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She comments on every thread that women in relationships are slaves I'd not waste my time arguing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:19 PM
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It seems to me that an awful lot of time and resources are being used to attempt to convince men they are better off married. If women are so much better off single why the push to convince men to marry them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 04:42 PM
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Ive not been single for a long time but as I understand modern dating men are unlikely to get the amount of attention that requires juggling multiple options in a talking phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:39 PM
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I think I was suggesting thst I preferred to look for romance thsn use a tick list. With regards to romantic love being recent history I was kind of expressing in general terms things I've heard here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:28 AM
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Yeah it's odd may parents pooled their earnings and I just assumed thats how things worked so me and my partner do too. I meet loads of couple who talk about his money and her money seems to cause a lot of conflict
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:50 PM
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Ah apologies that makes sense now I thought when you said you weren't 50/50 you meant you were expecting more than 50% from the guy in all departments (there are some odd fds people around who think this way i thought perhaps you were bone of them.)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:45 AM
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So you explain to dates that they will be expected to do the majority of work around the home and cover the majority of expenses Were the relationship to get serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:58 PM
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Ok interesting how does that go down with your partners are you up front about it from day one? It's refreshing in a way to hear this the majority of women struggle to admit they contribute less in the relationship than their partners
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:29 PM
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Ok when you say you don't do 50/50 is that in all contributions to the relationship or just financial?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:17 PM
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I'm comfortable with my contributions to my family we are pretty comfortable financially my kids are happy and well cared for marriage wouldnt change any of that, we aren't religious. Not every marriage lasts 18 years I'm proud of what we have achieved together
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:11 PM
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I'm 45 we merged finances when we bought our house 18 years ago. we aren't married but have children joint accounts etc. my mrs always paid her way it was a matter of pride for her even though I have always been the main breadwinner. I'd not consider living with a person who hadn't proved themselves a useful team player.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 08:24 PM
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In a marriage where there's kids thats not a sugar baby. But when dating thats the very definition of being a sugar baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:30 PM
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The way you have described your dating life really sounds a bit sugar baby ish. What makes it different?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:18 PM
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I missed a comma I'm saying that all relationships are trancational in some way and that I do not judge those who engage innthe sugar babyblifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:08 PM
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Yeah I guess that's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:12 PM
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I think this seems at odds with the tick list dating style that many are engaging in these days. I often hear it said that romantic love has only been a thing in recent history and isn't a good way to choose a life partner. I never dated with a list and I'll admit it bitten me in the ass a couple of times but tye whole tick sheet method seems so impersonal
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:43 PM
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I'm not disparaging that lifestyle relationships tend to be transactional one way or the other
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:27 PM
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Tomato tomato
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:06 PM
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I don't disagree it was just an example of something thst would discourage women from using the app. Personally I wonder if pics were removed and everyone had to date people based on their bio things maybe better at keast if you arenttracted to the person you can enjoy conversation with someone with similar interests
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 11:19 AM
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I've not online dated but from what I'm hearing the people on these apps are the majority male. Therefore the only changes that will happen are those that benefit women in an effort to bring more women to the app. that's why many apps allow for filtering by height but none allow for filter by weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:11 AM
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Ah ok so you tent to look for a sugar daddy/baby situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 12:41 AM
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I'm not sure why its a man's responsibility to fund a womans travel.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:37 PM
2

I'm struggling to follow your logic with the second part
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 10:45 PM
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This ae largely suveys and women will never admit their partner does an equal share regardless of wether he does or not so the resaults are worthless. We shall agree to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:16 PM
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The modern women is not what you paint them to be they are not selfless enough to behave the way you claim
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:05 PM
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I really don't think thats true anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:59 PM
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I (45m) think it's the way forward I've said here a few times were I to be single again I'd never cohabit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:52 PM
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This is true my mrs used to be obsessive about the state of the house my attitude was " fine if you want to do that but I'm not getting on that crazy train" since the kids have grown up and her work has become a bigger part of her life she's relaxed about the cleaning
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:29 PM
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This is a fantasy version of herself she created in her mind, a kind of dating super hero punishing supervillains with her seductive powers and bizarrely jar opening skills
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:04 AM
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Catch spiders (not me though I'm terrified of spiders)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:11 AM
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In a rational world full of rational people maybe but people are often irrational or completely unaware of why they engaged in certain behaviours
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:40 PM
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Sex is rarely just sex if you have certain deficiencies such as affection from a parent or attention from your peers sex can be a vand aid to cover those wounds.it's an endorsement however brief in who you are as a person. These days its framed as just a good time but it used to be assumed promiscuous people were searching for something that they were missing from their life. I think for many validation from social media has taken the place of that and thats possibly why young women are far more…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:05 PM
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Yeah that's stupid men do do that but only the stupid ones. Now ......where might one run across this strung out Stacy character? ......you know just so I can steer clear of her of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 08:43 PM
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I think a lot of us men genuinely believe that being wealthy makes them sexually attractive as if women get wet for zeros on a bank balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:40 PM
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Yeah I always say the same were I single again I may date but I'd never cohabit again. The constant fetch quests endless venting about this and that. the control issues. The sooner everyone is onboard with single living we will all lead more relaxed lives
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 05:27 PM
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What debate? all I'm hearing is "man bad" from people intent on engaging in gender war.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:35 PM
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It isn't but you're entitled to your opinion I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:34 PM
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The friends I'd recommend to women are already married
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:30 PM
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Where are you finding these men? Your vetting must be appalling.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:28 PM
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I'd say women provide great emotional support to other women. But attraction suffers if they have to provide too much emotional support to their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:24 PM
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You seem angry. Do you not think a person who commits to a selish asshole who won't pull thier weight is an idiot male or female? I'm not sure why you think I would wish anything for you. I don't know you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:52 AM
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I'm not the one who married a person oo stupid to clean a house lol and for the record it's extremely important things be equal in my home between me and my mrs were a team lim not her leader lol perhaps ltalk about what I said not what you imagine My mrs like most woman with half a brain picked a guy who keeps the house clean and the laundry going. Most men do that now so if you pick one who doesn't then yeah you are dumb as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:21 AM
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I think you may actually have a shot
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 12:36 AM
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Just out of interest who is your go to?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:25 PM
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This is all theoretical to be honest a few years ago I decided to get in shape I turns our under the layer of fat I was pretty good looking I have had women approach right in front of my partner even had a woman throw herself at ne on fb messenger which I showed to the mrs straight away. Rp theory suggests I have all the power in the relationship but her attitude towards me hasn't changed a bit god bless her lol. although we never did have a dead bedroom so I can't tell you if getting fit solves…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:09 PM
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But can women dictate the terms of their relationship to a hvm if she can be easily replaced?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:54 PM
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Yeah possibly I still think if a man is very desirable he'll most likely have his own checklist. Is he then not the one setting the rules?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:36 PM
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Yeah totally agree that occurred to me as I pressed send it's a strange dynamic no power in dating until you meet the criteria set by the women but once you do you can choose whatever dating life you like
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:27 PM
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If a guy ticks all yhe boxes and as a result has multiple options the game is whatever he wants it to be because he is a rare commodity even hot men tend to find a larger percentage of women attractive so hot girls are not a rare commodity they are just unattainable to the guys who don't tick the boxes who still attempt to date them meaning they have leverage over the lesser men but zero leverage over the most desirable men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:19 PM
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I don't think it's me doing the whining I'm fine with your opinion of me. It's worth noting that the distinguished experts are fairly critical of how feminist use their statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 09:05 AM
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It was my partner that pointed out we know 2 false accusers and zero victims. Its a simple truth the fact you don't like it doesn't stop it being the truth I'm sure there are rapists that go un punished but it's notbthe epidemic that people with agendas are making it out to be
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 08:54 AM
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Im not stre what you mean but Prosecutions were attempted under pressure from partners and family. luckily reason prevailed and the women admitted to cheating rather than sending innocent guys to jail. Edit: just a heads up fake laughing doesn't strengthen your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 08:38 AM
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It says that I know 2 women who cheated on their partners and claimed to have been raped to avoid repercussions then later admitted to lying. Thsts pretty much all it says about me. I'm pretty sure 1 in 5 women have nor successfully been proven in a court of law to have been raped here in the UK
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 08:25 AM
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I actually know of 2 people who were proven to be falsely accused of rape. I don't know anyone who was raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 06:46 AM
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Yep are we saying educated start middle class women can't convince the smart middle class educated man they choose to marry the importance of equal division of labour inthe home? Its really is time to stop with this bullshit narrative. If you find yourself in servitude in a marriage you are dumb as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:20 PM
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Just out of interest what privileges do men have that women do not here in the UK and what is the patriarchal system doing to uphold them?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:05 AM
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The truth is feminism is a multi million dollar business they literally can't stop because too many people depend on it for income. Why are there endless feminism articles convincing western women they are oppressed because a guy spreads his legs on a bus rather than tackling the issuse of third world women who literally don't have rights? Because those women don't have money to spend on the stuff the the companies funding these websites advertise. There's money in hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:45 AM
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My daughter is 14 and her female teachers push radical feminist rhetoric on the students and are according to my daughter quite hostile to the boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:19 AM
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Thsts just not true I told my s/o's workmate who asked what I was doing while she worked and I told her I was hoovering the house and doing a load of washing. She went and told mt mrs she was lucky and I got a text asking why I told her friend I was doing housework and why i didnt I mention all the things she does in the house because it made ger look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 10:58 PM
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Men are doing housework you just don't hear of it because a woman is judged poorly in the fsm if they admit their man shares the housework. A woman will never admit their partner does her fair share its just not the done thing in women's social circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 10:40 PM
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I feel like it's a net detriment both ways but men are slower to come to that realisation because society still judges men based on their success with women whereas women are becoming freed from that. Hopefully societal pressures can be removed from both sexes and marriage can become a thing of the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 10:27 PM
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I guess I should've added an /s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:20 AM
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Well I don't know about you but in my workplace we can't get anything done because of all the pesky women fucking alfas everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:26 AM
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Are you saying men aren't judged in society based on their succes with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:02 AM
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It was commissioned by awomansnation.org its absolutely biased
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:44 AM
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It's easier to avoid people who are likely to be troubling to date I had quite a popular local band and it was close enough to London for gigging and nights out it was pretty cool actually
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:21 PM
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Well I did do most of my dating in a small town pre tinder so everyone was acutely aware of who would be most likely to accept an ivitation to a one night stand. I'd probably avoid dating those people
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:11 PM
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When it comes to promiscuity in both men and women there's a lot of talk of enjoying youth and having fun. while I'd not disqualify a person for having done that. The people who engage in hookup culture don't seem particularly joyful.and have developed a pretty poor view of yhe opposite sex I myself tended to limit sex to people I was dating rather than hooking up.i have no regrets about not sleeping with enough women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:06 AM
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I was never too interested in a partners history. I'd probably be disappointed to hear that my other half was the local bike though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:06 AM
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I've yet to meet a woman who isn't absolutely convinced they are great in the sack but not many actually are. With minimal vetting it's pretty easy to have mostly positive experiences dating women if you pay attention to who they are as well as what they look like the crazies stick out like a sore thumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:29 PM
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Modern clothes are great at sculpting the fat to resemble muscle also
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:22 PM
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I'm technically not married but we have been together 18 years own a home together and have raised 2 kids I think if I were ever single again I'd would never co habit again at my age (45m) I really couldn't be bothered with the loss of autonomy having a live in partner entails.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 12:47 PM
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I have a thing for capable women.i thave a telephone pole outside my house a young woman pulled it in a van reversed parked it into a space I didn't think it would fit in got out climbed the pole to a sickening height did what she had to do climbed down and was gone in 10 minutes perhapsif id been single and had social skills id have gone and spoke to her. I also have a friend who is a police woman specialising in firearms which is a big deal here in the UK we run together often. So many interes…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 12:29 AM
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I had an odd experience yesterday I dropped something off for my other half at work the lady on the front desk is a friend she asked what I was doing with my day while my partner worked I said I'm vacuuming then doing a load of washing. Then I went on to say I do that every Sunday (it's my housework catchup day I work 12 hour days Monday to thursday). then I went off to do said chores. Half hour later I get an angry text from the mrs asking why I'm telling the lady on the front desk I'm doing ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 12:17 PM
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I don't disagree people should do what makes them happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 07:11 AM
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The rp answer to thst is Chad's threshold for a sexual partner in far lower than what he'd accept for a relationship. As with a lot of red pill ideas I'm sure reality is not so simplistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 06:58 AM
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I have found some studies suggesting people lie in surveys and a uk government study suggesting house chores are relatively equal when you consider garden and car maintenance in the mix I'll try and did them out. Just as an aside I honestly believe most men are prepared to pull their weight and many do. If yours doesn't then apparently young women have a plethora of options available find one who will. I think to constantly berate men for not doing enough no matter how much they do is how we get…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 11:00 AM
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You haven't produced any irrefutable data or facts. I live in the West if you want to discuss other communities we can but i don't have al lot of knowledge of those communities but if the woman still does the housework they are pretty backwards. if what you to be saying is true. I and the men I know must be total unicorns and I don't believe this to be the case . I feel like with the woman do all the housework thing it's one of those things that is accepted as truth because its a stereotype that…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 10:14 AM
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That was true in the 50s it's 2022 men take care of their pregnant partners. And if anything organise their partners lives. often while working longer hours. Can we drop this out dated women do everything narrative it just isn't true anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 08:10 AM
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You have to rely on people's honesty in these surveys and one thing I know about people is they always think they do more work than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 07:40 AM
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Unflappable calm under pressure
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:19 PM
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I actually agree with you here. You aren't likely to commit violence when half the population is stronger than you. I have a theory that If all men disappeared tomorrow women would fill the violence vacuum pretty quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:29 PM
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Male 45 I'm a runner run 6 days a week 2 speed sessions a week and 1 very long run on sunday the rest easy mileage rarely less tha 7 miles a day. Not as lean as I'd like most of the time because I enjoy beer but I cut that out when training for important races. I strength train also to avoid injury so still maintain a bit of muscle. I look pretty good get approached on occasion which I think isn't bad going for a man my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 12:41 PM
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This I becoming increasingly tiresome it's a tool to derail discussions when they move in to territory uncomfortable to women. There's plenty of solvable issues average people have in dating but when you try to discuss them some radical nut job throws "men kill and rape women" into the discussion like a grenade and the discourse is then dead. It's very deliberate
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 09:30 AM
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45 year old man here I very much enjoy attention from the opposite sex despite being with my partner for 18 years and having 2 kids it's still a buzz when a lady eyes me up or asks me out (I've never cheated further record)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:51 PM
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My mother's family are upper class the men are bankers,lawyers councillors etc. The women are almost all teachers
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:45 PM
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Yeahb as a man i find that odd. I'm aware a large part of a man's worth is judged by how easily he can obtain female partners. We really need to free men from these gender stereotypes and mist importantly the provider role. Then we can normalise living a live outside of sex and marriage as being perfectly worthwhile. you wanna work part time and game the rest of the time? You know what? That's a life well lived if you enjoyed it. Im married with 2 kids and whilst I love my life sharing life with…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:50 PM
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Happens from time to time it's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:27 PM
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Must be something about the pool when I was training for triathlons Women approached me at the pool all the time (I'm a man)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:27 PM
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Im convinced The manosphere and the redfems are driven by influencers who spotted thr amount of cash to me made spreading bizarre hateful rhetoric rather than those believing the drivel they spout. In fact if you upset enough people they'll spread your message for you on tick tock thinking they're hurting you by exposing your misogyny/misandry. Then damaged people who gave been hurt by the opposite sex eat it up and go to war in the comments or on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:39 PM
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I suspect this is very deliberate as soon as he got cancelled he probably rubbed his hands together. He's probably twice as famous now as he was before.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:22 PM
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He's a dumb person's idea of what a smart person sounds like
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 08:37 AM
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I think the whole love janguage thing is largely debunked. Useful for people who want to say "I'm not an asshole for expecting free stuff and my partner to doveverything for me thats just my love language" yes you are an asshole Janet your boyfrient isnt your slave and love languages are horse shit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:37 PM
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Interesting when you said that my first impulse was that you are right men are more comfortable expressing anger but then I thought about it and I can't remember the last time I saw anyone express anger publicly in my daily life outside of my home . My partner is much more likely to express anger than me in a public setting but then I hate confrontation and my mrs thrives on it so we are a poor example,and we also have the whole Karen phenomenon which suggests people do witness women expressing …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 11:19 PM
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I read a post somewhere where someone said anger was toxic masculinity I don't think being angry is a masciline trait. I don't think it's controversial to say a more physical expression of anger is more masculine behaviour but to feel angry is not. I think it's also important to note that masculinity is not exclusive to men. Many women exhibit masculine behaviours
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 10:53 PM
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I'm not sure it's a masculine trait to prefer to not upset a friend. Let's not fall into the trap of labeling everything that is harmful toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 10:24 PM
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Yeah you're not wrong also after posting my comment I realised the same could be said of men. It's not gendered. I've ignored advice on partners myself from well meaning friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:29 PM
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Telling a woman the guy she's dating is a poor choice is 100% the best way to get her to double down on the relationship and avoid you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:23 PM
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I wouldn't worry most households require 2 incomes these days and most of society recognises the value women bring to the workplace. I doubt we'll be going backwards most woman control a large amount of the household budget and a certain political power goes with that. My mrs certainly organises our finances.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 11:17 PM
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I still think being angry at men alive today who have never oppressed anyone and ignoring their issues because you want revenge on people long dead will not lead us anywhere good. Surely we must learn from past mistakes rather than repeat them in the opposite direction to move forward together as a society.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 10:49 PM
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Women and men alive today never even experienced any of what you are talking about. Do you want the men in your family and friends who never oppressed women to experience oppression because women you never met that lived before you were born were oppressed? This is ridiculous partisan childish thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 09:00 PM
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Are you hot for ardents?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 07:25 PM
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What about if the picture appears after a certain amount of interactions? That way you have to find someone interesting enough to converse with before you see what they look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 10:28 PM
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I just have never witnessed a man following his wife about trying to get more of her attention. My other half and those of my friends complain that we are out too much or don't listen when they speak about their day. not that we crave their attention or expect too much from them and more likely the reason many women initiate divorce is that they are neglected by their partners who would rather be elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:12 PM
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Most households own at least 1 console how much they play varies
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:01 PM
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I'm referring to real world men reddit relationship sites are bizarre spaces. every man I know would love their partner to get a hobby or go out just so they can enjoy their hobbies and friends. Also I've recently discovered tick tock and women wanting attention every time a guy sits down to game is a huge meme on there with hundreds of videos poking fun out of the fact that girlfriends constantly want their man's attention I know that's not hard evidence but art often imitates real life
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 04:56 PM
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This doesn't apply to any man I've ever met. Most men would love time to entertain themselves its the wives thst crave attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 04:29 PM
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I'm 43 and a funny thing happened to me the other day, as we are locked down my running club are running strength workouts over zoom. So as I was participating in this activity i must've looked pretty ridiculous as my 17 year old daughter took a video of me and sent it to her friend. To my daughters horror her friend who I assume is the same age replied that I was "fit" and a silver fox. So yeah I believe younger girls can find older men attractive. Now do I believe women in their early twenties…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 11:48 PM
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Well if you insist on the passive approach to dating than your dating pool is reduced to those that chase you. You are kind of the chooser but only of those that chose you first. I'm kind of a romantic I like the eyes meeting across a crowded room instant mutual attraction approach sending signals getting them back. I need to get back what I'm putting out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 02:24 AM
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I hear you. I'm well known in my family for committing way two early but second date is a bit soon even for me. Here's the deal as a young man I was rubbish at approaching (luckily I was in a band) but the master of the first month of the relationship I always had the right things to say. I'd have girls buyin me toiletries for their apartments on the second date they had no fucking clue who I was or I them. I went along with it belause I'm a romantic and I was getting sex which I probably mistoo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 02:10 AM
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Have you never chased a guy though? Wanted him so badly that who buys what doesn't matter? this guy has no problems getting his dates panties wet. I'm just saying be that guy find someone who wants you that badly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 01:48 AM
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It is a tricky one I think because if you take the stance a man does the approach and the man pays first date and the guy is of the same mind he's not displaying interest as its something he does with all his dates. It's a nice thing to have dinner bought for you and it is nice to take an attractive woman out and buy dinner for her but I think it's important not to come off as desperate that's a real passion killer. It's a difficult line to walk for a man these days I think
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 01:40 AM
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I'm not mad I haven't dated for a while I'm married. (as good as) I see it this way though if a male is having to expend all the effort and pay for dates he's probably batting out of his league and the relationship has no future. Conversely if you find you are dating men who make all the effort whilst you expend none you are probably batting below what you could get if tlyou are willing to meet a higher value guy half way. I dated a lot and this is how I've found it works
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 12:41 AM
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I don't know about this to be honest I'd take greater pride in having a woman display equal interest in me than being able to afford a meal I mean who can't afford that? It means nothing. The whole social construct of the man paying has been outdated for decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 12:29 AM
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I tend to agree balance must be established early on or there really is no coming back. Id advise any man that if he realises he's doing all the chasing to bail. There's got to be mutual interest and that has to be displayed by both parties. The sooner men realise this the better of we will all be. I don't want to convince a woman to date me. If I messaged and didn't get a reply I'd consider the matter finished not desperately chase if I'd set a date I'd probably expect my date to call me to set…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 12:04 AM
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But can't it be percieved that paying for all dates is a desperate act of a low value man? I'd like to believe that I have more about me to keep a girls interest then a free meal. I never had a date where the other party didn't offer to pay at least their half often I'd refuse if I've set the date but the offer was nice and felt genuine, many women took me out and insisted on paying as they set the date. I'd kind of feel I was being used for freebies rather than my personal qualities if I paid f…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 11:39 PM
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Done it it's not difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 07:35 AM
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If I remember from a previous post this lady runs a sub18 min 5k that dudes not catching her lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 12:21 AM
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Ah OK I assumed from your posts that you were unhappy with the situation. It's not my favourite thing but I do do it because my so enjoys it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 12:09 AM
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So you go down every time but no ones returned the favour in 4 years? I'm a man and that's unacceptable. I suggest you make this a deal breaker and make it very clear reciprocity is expected or gtfo. I'm shocked a man can behave in this manner and in an adult relationship and expect smooth sailing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 11:42 PM
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Ours both struggled to bring up wind which was a littls frustrating anf the occasional high temperature which is scary with a baby as they really burn up I've been sick on had an easter egg shoved into our printer and my parents vcr lol. we didn't breast feed I did all the night feeds as I'm a light sleeper and by the time I woke the Mrs I might as well have done it. But we had them sleeping through the night really early obviously there were tricky moments and going anywhere means you take so m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 01:14 AM
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Yes I'm a father of 2 girls uncle to a load more kids . Honestly we never really struggled when they were small. The only tough part is making plans knowing that sometimes of kids can't go one of you will have to miss out. I live in the country and my eldest loved Dora the explorer do I made her a map and bought a back pack put the baby in the buggy and off we'd go exploring. Honestly we both worked full time and it was fine I worked 2pm to 12 my wife worked early any stay at home mum who says i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 11:11 PM
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Well to be honest it was initially her wish to not marry I was fine either way. We have discussed the possibility of marriage mainly to make each other our next of kin. Im not vehemently against it so I expect at some point we will tie the not although I'd like the Mrs to take better care of her health before I commit to caring for her the rest of her life. Just a lack of exercise and carrying too much weight give me pause.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 09:24 PM
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I seem to have caused upset which wasn't my intention I'm gonna disagree about your assessment of my decency. Like you I try to be generous in bed I share housework and like you that's not always been reciprocated. honestly if you met me you'd love me lol. I took the liberty of searching your post history in an effort to find out why you are so angry (seems acceptable on reddit and you said you wanted specific ) and I will say this to you. If a guy is not excited to be with you in at least the e…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 08:58 PM
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After 5 years old children are out the house most of the day
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 08:23 PM
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I think women would have you believe this is the case I hear a lot of women at the school gates (I work shifts so I do the morni g run) complaining about how lazy their husband is even though I know the guy works his ass off while she will go home from the school take a nap the play with her phone the rest of the day. Then chuck a bolognese sauce on some mince and serve with spaghetti and call that cooking and declare herself super mum then give the poor guy grief for falling asleep without wash…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 08:20 PM
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I just made pooh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 07:53 PM
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My home is stable with mommy and daddy in it. I'm not married
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 07:32 PM
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I'm not married I live with my so we have 2 kids and a mortgage most people just assume you are married and even if you tell them your not people still treat you as a married couple. I believe in this country (UK) if you Co habit long enough you get common-law wife/husband status which entitles you to much the same benefits. With the inevitable separation of state and church marriage will eventually not be a thing. We have this discussion a lot and its mostly the ladies who want it not men so I …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 07:29 PM
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Vast sweeping staments assigning character traits to whole groups of people tend to be wrong.. Sometimes if someone thinks everyone's an asshole then the asshole is usually them. Bitterness and anger towards a gender tends to spring from bad experiences with that gender and I'm sorry you experiences have been bad but your focus groups is far too small to realistically extrapolate your findings to a whole gender. Your evidence that men are bad listeners is anecdotal and from meeting a very small …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 05:53 PM
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Well most people have a type for better or worse. I feel its more likely you have made bad choices than most of a whole gender are bad. You say your lovers have not reciprocated your generosity but the overwhelming response from the guys in this thread are that giving their partners a good experience is very important to them. I'd be surprised to hear that the majority of me don't care if they are considered bad in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 05:00 PM
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It's probably more accurate to say the men you have chosen to over indulge were bad people. Perhaps explore why you are drawn to such men. Many of the people here who have had negative experiences with the opposite sex and assume that's just what men/women are like ignore multiple red flags and choose their partners poorly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 04:25 PM
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Lol a pussy gives in to demands lol I make them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 08:24 PM
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Low quality men compensate using money truly high quality guys don't have to do that. Women trying to leech off me would be a big red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 10:13 AM
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I quite like to visit the odd dive bar here in the UK that kind of shit will get your head stoved in no matter what percentile you think you are in lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 08:55 PM
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Cats. lots and lots of cats
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 06:52 PM
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You discuss jackhammer fucking with your daughters?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 06:46 PM
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Lol what? I'm 42 with 2 daughters I did a large portion of the childcare its not difficult. My so is adamant sahm is a part time job at best in this day and age
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 04:51 PM
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Formula is easier all round I've found arguing with breast feeding advocates an exercise in futility and I've yet to be presented with any conculive proof that it's truly that much better than formula.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 08:20 PM
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I mean if the decision to breastfeed is taken it kinda makes it impossible for a man to take leave. That's why the important of breast feeding is pushed so hard you gotta keep your work horses working. Or it could be viewed as oppression of women keeping them out of the best jobs because they have to take leave they don't want to risk disadvantage their children so are pretty much forced to breast feed or be judged to be a bad mother I think women are either guilted into breast feeding or use it…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 07:39 PM
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Meh breast feeding isn't the make or break people think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 06:32 PM
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I think women would still like their partner to be the main bread winner and overwhelmingly marry men who earn more than them. I'm not sure how learning to be the lower earner helps you get married in a society where women don't wish to have a husband who earns less.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 03:25 PM
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I live in the south east in a small village we have people existing on benefits here it's definately harder than it used to be. The benefits used to go up with the number of kids so if you want a big house? pump out 7 kids. Now it's capped at 25k a year earnings on benefits I believe. The trick us to get your kids diagnosed with some kind of disorder there's extra benefits available and you could even get paid a carers allowance. Or work part time and get on the tax credit sceeme where there is …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 10:01 PM
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I'm 42 my so is 36 we've been together 16 years 2 kids one teenage one 11 we've never married my so originally never wanted to get married I believe as her mother's first marriage to her father was abusive and I am pretty indifferent to the whole idea. I can't really see huge advantages to being married the only worry is end of life decisions and how that plays out. We have no intention of ever separating we've built a good life together e are stronger financially together than apart. I expect w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 03:41 PM
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We have housing benefit in England loads of families exist solely on benefits in the UK.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 03:21 PM
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N:15 I'd expect sex on the 3rd date upto 5th at the most . When I was dating in the 90s I believe that was the culturally accepted number. If sex didn't happen then I'd feel I was getting a pretty clear message that it's not going anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 12:21 PM
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Rule of 3
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 12:12 PM
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I'm in the uk. My so's sister left the father of her children she was constantly after him for money so he said go through the csa. Because she was constantly asking him to have the kids overnight and weekends so she could go out it turned out she owed him money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 06:30 PM
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Perhaps that's true I don't have statistics but going by the comments I see from women here marriage iis certainly still very important to the female population
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 01:03 PM
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Most of my girlfriends have been college educated. women tend not to date down in terms of income regardless of how much they earn I'm 42 now but back when I was young men picked career options with supporting a family one day on mind if that's the future you want, which most do I guess, so you kind of end up with the provider mindset fwomen even today aren't really pressured to bring a decent income to a relationship regardless of how smart they are. Some might even say its not exactly dumb to …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 12:44 PM
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Before meeting my so I lived with a few different girlfriends(always with me as the greater earner) and whilst I found most women will be pretty generous with any income they have, in a cohabiting situation a man's income tends to be considered joint income whilst she will see hers as hers to decide what to do with. I'm not sure women will enjoy a situation where that role is reversed. I believe a woman very quickly loses attraction for a man she has to support. Men are dumb (myself included) I …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 07:32 AM
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But men aren't as pragmatic as women. They don't value cash over looks. Younger hotter pussy will always trump cash. Here in lies the problem. As women earn more than men this does not help them in dating as young hot men prefer young hot women and a woman's earnings is largely irrelevant. So you have to settle for man who is not as young and hot as he was and also earns less and I've yet to meet a woman who would support a poorer guy so he's not getting access to what you earn anyway. Neither p…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 04:11 PM
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Being adventurous is a positive trait people even put it in their requirements in dating sites all men want to be seen as adventurous. Ad says If you are adventurous you'd go to wyoming. People see an ad and think i live in a city I've never been to wyoming maybe I'm not adventurous no wonder no one will fuck me. Fuck it ill show them I'm going to wyoming
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 08:39 PM
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Wouldn't joint 50/50 custody as standard with neither paying child support (as long as both parents are fit to do so)go some whay to solving this issue? Baby gets 2 parents both parents have the choice to work obviously the reduced working hours will hurt both parents income but hey that's the price you pay. At least no one is handing over a large chunk of their paycheck to an ex. I suspect without child support payments and a fair split of marital assets youd see a reduction in 5be divorce rate…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 10:25 AM
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I have a 16 year old daughter I've rried to instill certain behaviours with varying success Look both ways before crossing the road - for reasons I don't understand she still occasionally steps into the road without looking it's terrifying. Be polite to serving staff - I believe I won this battle I'm not sure why but around the age of 13 teenage girls seem to think acting grown up is going to Costa and being rude to barristas. That kinda behaviour is an instant phone ban You never leave a brothe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 09:34 AM
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My mother was middle class my father is very working class I'm not sure what that makes me. I'm College educated but in my heart I'm working class, here in the UK a working class background is a source of pride. Not many people identify as middle class. Its hard to explain if you aren't british. A lot of my family are barristers bankers teachers etc. but would be horrified to learn the were middle class lol. I've dated all classes I don't really notice any class having different values or being …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 10:03 PM
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I wouldn't tend to approach a bitcy woman or begin a relationship with someone who wasn't initially nice to me. What do have experience of is women starting the relationship very nice and very much into me only to drop the nice act later in the relation ship. Younger inexperienced me would think "this girl is not as happy as she used to be. What have I done or what am I not doing that has caused this un happiness" then I'd go into super nice guy beta mode in orger to bring back the initial feeli…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 07:25 AM
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Offices suck who wants to spend their lives in a cubicle?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 07:44 PM
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Not here in the UK I've been doing it for 16 years
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 07:32 PM
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I'm also a 5'10" guy. I have a real thing for tall women I've had sex with a couple of women taller than me but never an actual relationship. I think 5'10" falls into the tall enough range for most ladies. I think I'd tend to steer clear of women taller than me for relationships mainly because I'm aware taller more imposing men would have an effect on my so that I would be unable to compete with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 06:55 AM
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Totally agree my so is adamant motherhood is not a full time occupation in this day and age and all women should be working.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 06:36 PM
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He sounds like a twat
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 01:26 PM
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You seem to have dated really terrible men or seen relationships where the men are terrible. I'm telling you honestly most men will shoulder their share of the workload and are happy to let women sleep and usually survive on less sleep than their partners. (I know I do) I think if your relationship experiences are as you describe you should have a serious look at why you have chosen to have relationships with such men. I think reading the replies to your thread that you should be gleaning that m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 01:24 PM
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OK you don't seem to want to engage with me that's fine . But I'll say this. A man doesn't think of his wife as a prostitute because he does does not realise he is beta bux. Oh he's, aware that his wealth has greased the wheels somewhat but stupid as it seems he still believes there is attraction. Having said that I very much doubt there's an intentional long con going on. But the fact remains if a lady chooses a beta bux (and its a valid sensible choice imo) usually the bux stays consistent but…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 09:19 PM
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You seem to be all over the place with your reasoning and mental gymnastics to make the woman the poor victim ant the man the evil aggressor the post doesn't really describe a toxic situation. A woman gets into a relationship part of the attraction is the lifestyle the man provides (women rarely marry down) the man gets into the same relationship part of the attraction is access to sex. This is normal. Over time access to sex dwindles but the lifestyle acrially increases. How is the woman the vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 02:56 PM
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Why is the wife a victim? She made her choices. Women also work men also do childcare we should be equal right? Well no because women tend to pick partners with higher earning power then themselves. Also I don't believe that is unreasonable to expect if you are in a relationship that there will be sex. I'm not sure how we jumped to being punched in the face though no one here suggested it's OK to punch their partner
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 06:24 AM
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I work in stem lol I know a fair few, all middle class all with degrees you'd be surprised how many people who passed exams aren't particularly smart in a real world sense. Anyone with a good work ethic can learn to pass a test its not hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 06:05 PM
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My father is working class left school at 15 no college. Put both me and Mt brother through college despite being dyslexic and having any formal education he's the smartest man I know. People straight out of college with their stem degrees coming to work in the engineering firm I work for are literally the dumbest people I meet best part is they don't even realise it. Edit: thought I'd add my mum is from a middle class background well educated never actually managed to out earn my dad he did wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 03:30 PM
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Ah yes Emily blunt she was fantastic in edge of tomorrow I must watch that again sometime. I remember she was linked with the captain marvel role perhaps would have been a better choice. One thing became apparent to me when trying to think of my favourite female action hero was that so few of them are the main protagonist in their own movie. My so believes the majority of women aren't interested in action/superhero films and the gender of the star is irrelevant This may be true of her generation…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 06:00 AM
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Yeah I think with pepper they over did the whole exasperated girlfriend routine I think cm will look less Mary sue ish as she encounters larger threats. I think Hollywood is very good at writing flawed yet likeable male protananists in action films but don't have the same ability to do that with female characters so I think they err on the side of caution and we neb up with flawless superwoman like we did in wonder woman and the last jedi Just out of interest outside of marvel as we've kind of e…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 12:25 AM
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Lol I always liked pepper I found the way she stammered and stuttered her way through the first film very endearing. I like bw also but then I don't want to identify with them they are meant to be male fantasies they don't need a great deal of fleshing out to do that. I liked the film captain marvel just fine bit I don't really find myself rooting for her like I do Tony and cap America but as brie larson says she's not written with me in mind so maybe that's OK
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 11:36 PM
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I think what we have with bw and what it seems they are trying to put right with more recent female characters is a female character written to appeal to men very sexualized always immaculate in appearance ultra capable but not overpowered. Vulnerable for the right man I myself find brie larson captain marvel immensely unlikeable but then she is in the comics too so perhaps that's intentional
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 11:24 PM
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I never found black widow to be particularly bitchy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 11:10 PM
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Most women seem to insist on marriage on many posts I've seen here. The term girlfriend seems to be almost considered an insult. Women still want to be married so I'm assuming it's still a good deal for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 10:46 PM
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Used to be the Mrs was hotter than me she was very slim and I carried a few extra pounds. I took up triathlon and am in very good shape now whilst she has gained a few pounds. I could replace her with someone hotter were I inclined to do so (I'm not) but I'd very much doubt at her current fitness level she could attract a hotter guy than me. We have 2 kids and as far as I know we are happy together and have a future planned Shes recently taken up running and I'm pretty excited about that it woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 04:09 PM
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I have low tolerance for peoe who can't control their emotions "oh it's your period? So what? You're an adult control yourself it's not an excuse to be a bitch"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 03:18 PM
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I lost about 40lbs built a bit of muscle from swimming my so became much more active in bed. I found women were more friendly towards me. I get more women flirting with me definitely a lot more ioi's.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 10:58 PM
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Basically this. money worries place a huge strain on relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 05:51 PM
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You most likely were an awesome girlfriend. Sadly in relationships many people don't necessarily feel the need to reciprocate if they are getting what they want. Sadwst realisation in my life was when l realised my so would not necessarily have my best interests at heart. Many women will hate on awesome girlfriend types because if there are more awesome girlfriends around it makes it harder for shitty girlfriends to act shitty and still get men to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 02:55 PM
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A low value guy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 02:28 PM
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I guess I was an 8 as a young man I played guitar in a reasonably successful rock band and ran 400m on the track so pretty fit. I used to get approached a fair amount especially after gigs. I was never really a lookist so if I found someone overweight attractive for example they were cool and funny I'd find they would not date me. Women I'd sleep with would very quickly start buying toiletries for me to keep at their apartments and clear a drawer for me. I dealt with a lot of possessiveness and …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 02:09 PM
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Eventually marriage won't even be a thing. There's really no need to ever get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 07:35 PM
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I think there's truth in what you say. What I've found runs parallel to this is that I f as a man you are slow to orgasm for whatever reason a woman can get quite agitated as if it's an intended slur
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 04:12 PM
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I don't think this is a male thing. I've yet to meet a woman who thinks they are bad in bed. I've had sex with a few who were though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 12:34 PM
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Meh if a lady wants a free ride I'd kick her to the curb I'd be confident in my ability to replace her with someone with more class. Lesson one always be prepared to walk away from a bad deal
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 07:54 AM
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Every one sets their own cost if entry I had many options (and I still get hit on fairly regularly) so yes as a young man I did set the cost of entry Edit where were you hiding when you spied on my dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 06:20 AM
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Everyone's earning 6 figures lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 03:52 PM
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We could probably go back and forth like this all day and as someone who got back in shape after getting very overweight I don't wish to trivialise the efforts of anyone who is trying to improve their health. Lots of men and womem put time effort and cash into appearances I don't think it's reasonable to expect to be compensated financially for that by your date
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 03:23 PM
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I must admit many men let themselves go later in life I think what I get from reading here is young women seem to be less fit than their male counterparts But it switches over later in life. But I stick by what I said an attractive male physique is very difficult to build a lady doesn't need anything like the muscle mass or defilinition to be attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 02:42 PM
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More time consuming than building and maintaining a muscular physique? Whilst at the same time staying lean enough for proper muscle definition? I don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 02:33 PM
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Yep as a young man I didn't really care either. But with the benefit of hindsight life becomes a lot easier with 2 decent incomes. I think I'd my so had never had an ambition to earn money I'd have eventually got pissed off as it was we survived on my income for a while. I think women are far better then men at positioning themselves with the upper hand in relationships that's the purpose of the expectation to approach and pay on dates. It's forcing the man to declare his desire for the woman an…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 11:58 AM
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if you date with the possibility of an ltr in mind then I've learnedit's smart to consider if a date can support themselves comfortably life becomes easier in an relationship with 2 reasonable incomes. Also there's the relationship dynamic to consider. If you begin a relationship jumping through hoops to qualify yourself to a date you'd better be prepared to keep that behaviour going as you've handed all the power in a possible relationship to your date. I prefer to be an equal partner
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 08:48 AM
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your points I can spin around to apply to a woman. I have no more desire than you to date a cheap poor moich. I'm not paying for their time clothes and makeup looking presentable is merely the cost of entry into the game. How can I tell if a date is into me if I've essentially paid her to be there? I'd tend to pay for the first date but like you if there wasn't at least the offer to pay that would be a red flag to me and disqualify from any more dates but as a young man most of my dates practica…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 07:32 AM
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When you date a woman are they not keen to meet you? Or even the least bit excited to be dating you? If you have the value women happily share the bill. i don't qualify myself to my date its not a job interview in my opinion women who believe they are owed a free ride are far from the top Maybe it's different these days but dating does not sound much fun the way people on here describe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 07:09 AM
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No I just bring more value than my wallet
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 06:21 AM
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Well what is considered an attractive male body is way more difficult and time consuming to achieve than slapping on a bit of face paint and wearing shoes especially at my age. I'm also pretty entertaining. I'm seriously thinking if I was single I should be charging the ladies for the pleasure of my company.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 10:24 PM
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I put an appropriate amount of time and money into being presentable gym fees harcut clothes etc. I don't expect to be compensated and to be fair the most desirable women will require the least time and money to be presentable. It says something about a person when they expect free stuff for putting on clothes. A woman who can't or won't pay their way in this day and age is kind of a red flag for me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 09:15 PM
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I'm 42 and I've never had to buy a woman's affections. I don't think I've had a date that didn't pay her way. I think it was a point of pride for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 09:02 PM
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You don't want to have sex with your husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 05:31 PM
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That surprisees me really because I bet if you asked a lot of men they'd find it hard to argue against an equal division of labour. Having said that I've found it's easy if you aren't careful to slip into traditional gender roles without thinking. My os is pretty traditional and often slips into housewife mode where I'll get home from work and everything's done around the house dinners cooked and my lunch for the next day ismade and in the fridge and there's basically nothing for me to do. Its k…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 12:57 AM
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I don't really expect my Mrs to work on a car tbh it's a bit of a hobby of mine but you get my point that in this day and age the house chores should be split if both parties work. I'd be surprised if most men didn't agree. This thread seems a lot of ladies circle jerking over what is nothing more than a tires 70s sitcom trope rather than reality
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 12:11 AM
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I can't believe Thet intelligent sensible men still think its OK to sit around why the old lady does all the cleaning. Men already do half the house chores I know I do it's women who aren't getting involved in the more traditional men's jobs so are doing less
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 12:02 AM
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I can't believe in these days of equality any chores are labeled feminine. men are expected to share the house work although women don't have the same pressure to work on cars or mow lawns etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 11:49 PM
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What kind of lazy ass man are you with that doesn't shoulder daily responsibilities in this day and age? Poor vetting. Me and the Mrs are pretty much 50/50 on doing stuff round the house. The only real nagging I get is my hobbies often take me out of the house a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 11:40 PM
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I think it's unfortunate that your husband is not allowed to express a dissenting view on something as important as having a child. It's telling that smart in your eyes is not doing thing that upsets me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 07:42 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 04:29 PM
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This meme is pretty insidious I'm hardly ever sick and when I am I pretty much just carry on as normal to listen to my so you'd think I was constantly claiming I was ill and some kind of malingerer it's totally not true its just women spouting the female narrative. I've instituted an "if your sick take care of yourself" policy in our relationship because of her attitude when I show the slightest sign of illness. I'd love to take care of her if she's sick but as its never reciprocated it just mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 04:39 PM
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Lol I do this all the time I also work in engineering and if I sense that anyone is uncomfortable with social interaction they become my new best friend and I loudly greet them every time I see them in the corridor. Bonus points if they totally blank me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 04:40 PM
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Wow incredible amount of sneering at the less educated and/or from humble backgrounds here on ppd my father left school at 15 with nothing and came from a council estate(social housing) and he's one of the smartest people I know
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 08:30 AM
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Academics are often insanely boring smart is no gaurentee of interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 08:02 AM
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Go swimming! honestly I meet more women when I'm swimming lengths in the local pool than at any other time in my day.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 07:23 AM
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British colonial of course then they can pretend they are doing the people a favour whilst oppressing them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 05:50 PM
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I sent my kids to despot school my eldest is predicted an A+ in oppressing the masses this term
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 05:35 PM
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As a man this kind of arrangement isn't for me, but I find myself admiring the honesty and pragmatism of your arrangement. Perhaps I'm overly sentimental from watching too many Disney films
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 08:36 AM
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This kinda sounds like a recipe for a dead bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 08:20 AM
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Undoubtedly swimming is great exercise and triathletes are definitely rarely out of breath running compared to the runners I train with, I believe due to their swim training but in 43 min I can swim 2000m burning 408cal or I can run 10km burning 656cal according to the data on my watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 06:56 PM
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Swimmer and runner here lol I've found running far more effective at burning calories I tend to consider my swim sessions a kind of resistance workout not great at burning calories but good for muscle although results are much slower than lifting weights. Swimming and running long term is a pretty powerful combination for fitness.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 09:35 AM
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In most households women handle the shopping most men don't give a fuck what razor appears in their bathroom
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 08:23 AM
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I'd agree with you. It certainly seems logical to me that a girl should be wary of entering a relationship with a guy that has a high n count. But what we see in real life is that many woman are attracted to a guy who is capable of having sex with a high number of women reasons for this are unclear to me possibly social proof or confirmation of a man's desirability as female attraction is less viscerally based on physical attributes than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 08:11 AM
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It's kind of an involuntary revolution, a turn off like poor hygiene or an ugly wart. It's like asking is why don't you find ugly people attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 08:01 AM
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We are all Steve Rogers in our own minds
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 06:21 PM
2

Look up the bycycle repair man scetch by monty python lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 06:17 PM
1

There's such a thing as a 2 year degree? So you can claim to be a college graduate after 2 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 11:07 PM
1

From being from a working class background and reading here the working class seems to have a much easier time dating the men approach with more confidence and in a more relaxed manner and the women are more receptive and approachable and enjoy it even if its an eventual rejection. Umc dating seems like a battleground to be honest not fun at all
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 11:33 AM
1

From being from a working class background and reading here the working class seems to have a much easier time dating the men approach with more confidence and in a more relaxed manner and the women are more receptive and approachable and enjoy it even if its an eventual rejection. Umc dating seems like a battleground to be honest not fun at all
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 11:31 AM
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To be honest I'm kind of battling ops ridiculous premise with one of my own. Nagging is a pet hate of mine and my experience when you comply to a person nagging you they just have more issues that are your fault to fix In all honesty if your partner doesn't want to do something all the moaning in the world won't make them actually want to do it they just do it grudgingly and resent you for pressuring them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 02:40 PM
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Not if you believe op
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 02:15 PM
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Well I think that the kind of woman who nags is probably the kind who is used to getting her own way things done for her and is therefore prone to tantrum when that doesn't happen. so I suspect the guys getting brow beaten by their nagging spouses are probably already pulling most of the weight
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 02:13 PM
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All women must do all the DIY because you do then Here in the UK or at least among my friends and family decorate is the same as renovate
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 01:55 PM
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Probably in the same place as the women who hang drywall and put up shelves
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 01:49 PM
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What misbehaviour? I think these old nags could benefit from closing their mouths rolling up their sleeves and pulling their weight instead of expecting a man to to everything for them because they are merely giving him the gift of her presence Excessive nagging on a man who already works his ass off is spousal abuse in my opinion Edit: mouths
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 09:10 AM
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Nagging 9 times out of 10 = wah wah wah you already provide for me, maintain my car, decorate the house I live in and share the housework but I really feel I shouldn't have do the dishes and because I felt it, it must be true
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 08:02 AM
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Surely Once kids are raised and moved out a man's obligation to finance his parter is over job done if by that time his so has not secured her own 6 figure income that's nit is fault if you need 6 figures earn 6 figures I'm not sure why keep it in his pants is relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 04:59 PM
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Well its the right of any person to leave a relationship and take their earning power with them whenever they want. I assume she chose her own career path. if the thought of losing a 6 figure income makes her suicidal perhaps she should have worked harder to earn her own
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 12:17 AM
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Kids don't need daycare for 23 years. I don't understand why you believe women should not contribute financially to their family in the same way a man does. This is what the last 3 generations of feminist women have fought for. No one has to sacrifice a career these days perhaps a woman should also step up to provide child care
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 12:11 AM
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But do you not think after 23 years she should have built a career and made some effort to match her partners financial contribution kisd really only require a sahm for first few years
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 04:31 PM
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Youth is not a gift to give someone it's a tool with a limited amount of use one of many with which to build the life you want. If you fail to use that tool to build the life you want and then you reach the end of its use period that's not the fault of the guy you thought you'd enslaved for the rest of his life
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 03:32 PM
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Many divorcees over 40 are looking at the end of the child support money as their kids approach 18 and are looking for another beta bucks
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 06:29 PM
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I'm afraid wub is right and not only are friends not available occasions to go partying over 40 are rare unless you don't mind being the sad old guy trying to recapture his lost youth in the eyes of all the younger clientele
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 06:27 PM
1

Was gonna write a post about myself but mine would be an exact copy of yours except I'm a guy and I do read the odd Michael connelly book
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 06:11 PM
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I agree with you but then last time I dated was 15 years ago and online dating was not really a thing it did exist but people were embarrassed to admit they had to resort to it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 04:08 PM
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This seems sensible but oddly women seem to still be demanding marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 11:24 AM
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I find it surprising that the ladies of ppd adopt very bohemian sex positive attitudes to their sex lives prior to settling down only to suddenly become very traditional with regards to marriage. The term forever girlfriend sounds a nice thing to me but the women here seem to view it as an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 12:09 PM
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What is the purpose of continuing the flirtation? (whilst at the same time laughing behind his back with a "get a load of this guy" post on reddit.)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 07:56 AM
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My so did this she now manages the store but I felt the pressure of being the main breadwinner whilst she was on the shop floor I warn a lot more now too and we're comfortable but it was frustrating when my so didn't really want to feel the pressure of earning for the family so turned down promotions and I was working shifts to pay the bills
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 02:44 PM
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Yes of course but there was the year they made a female friend of mine engineer of the year even though she never held an engineering position lol then they plastered the poor girl on billboards and leaflets all over the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 02:38 PM
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When I say decent I mean comparable to mine I was qualified and earning decent money in my 20s me and a partner earning similar money would have been able to live together extremely comfortably
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 02:32 PM
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I work in electronic engineering my company is always looking for female engineers and technicians. they look great on the company promotional materials.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 01:10 PM
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At 42 my advice to young men is for the love of God get on the property ladder as early as you can even if you buy a shit hole in a crap area and rent it out (if I'd bought my first house at 21 instead of 30 I would have paid £50k instead of £112k and my mortgage would most likely be done or I'd have a much bigger place now instead I partied my 20s away) And the second find a woman with decent earning power that second income makes a huge difference to quality of life make it a deal breaker don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 12:29 PM
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I guess it's perfect if you doubt your ability to maintain the commitment of your so through less legally binding means or you've secured an ltr by inputting a level of effort into the relationship that you don't intend to persevere with for the foreseeable future I've never found it necessary
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 11:41 AM
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I don't think there's much financial benefit to being married here in the UK. Inheritance would be easier I guess if one of us died but our life insurances benefit each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 08:29 AM
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I have 2 kids with my so we own a house together we aren't married. Not because we are against marriage in any way it just never really seemed necessary. I'm not sure what difference being married would make we talk about it every now and then but it's money better spent elsewhere usually on holidays. I'm shocked how many of the ppd ladies insist on marriage I'm pretty sure when you've Co habitated for long enough here in the UK you have much the same rights and responsibilities legally as a mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 02:10 AM
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Yes someone injured his cat
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 07:50 AM
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I'm the opposite I was swimming the other day and a woman said I had a pretty nipple (I have a tattoo around one nipple) then she quickly added she didnt always look like this (swim cap n goghles aren't the most flattering look) we discussed training techniques and we talked about how much we weigh she looked straight at me and said 69 kg and smilied. I was half way to work from the pool when it clicked she was displaying sexual interest lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 12:43 PM
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I've witnessed the same thing I work with a woman many men would find attractive and her natural demeanour is pretty freindly her desk has a constant stream of middle aged men stopping by for a chat she seems to quite enjoy the attention but it's still a little sad
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 12:31 PM
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Well if the women at your work are that blatant about their attraction I doubt masks would help to be honest. I'd be surprised if she wasn't aware she was doing it. Women tend to be way more subtle than that. In my experience they are fairly nervous about signaling attraction much the same way us men are nervous to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 08:30 AM
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People smile at each other I'm a fairly shy akward guy I tend to look down most of the time. A few years ago I decided that at work I was gonna make eye contact and smile at people I pass throughout the day wether I know them or not (we have a lot of long corridors where I work). You know what I found? 90% of people smile back. Many smile first. Does that mean the women I meat are attracted to me? It doesn't really matter I'm not about to start chasing women at work although I do tend to assume …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 08:11 AM
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Played in a few covers bands myself (guitar) it's a lot of fun but I'd definitely describe it as a job there's a lot of bullshit that has to be dealt with much more than in my real job and at the end of the work day in my day job my boss doesn't try to renegotiate my wages lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 07:52 AM
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Well there really can only be one so I make you right there
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 01:44 PM
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I don't understand this obsession with n count I mean no one wants to wife up the local bike but I've been with my so for 14 yearscand I have no idea what her n count is to be honest I'd have to think for a while to work out what mine is. Who keeps count of these things?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 12:08 PM
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I never really bothers with the whole hard to get game as a young man. I don't think I really understood it. If a girl didn't seem keen or I had to badger her to go out with me then I tended to steer clear if a girl isn't into me that's all good I'll find one who is. When I saw guys out in bars chasing women who seemed not to be that excited to talk to tjrm I used to think "my god man have some self respect" Perhaps I had interest from ladies I didn't realise and could have got had I been more p…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 08:35 AM
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Connor mcleod
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 08:13 AM
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Yeah that sounds pretty much how we did it my so despite the fact she thrives in a work environment never really wanted the pressure of being the main breadwinner I think she likes the idea she can jack it in at any moment if she chose although she's never done that I expect she'll out earn me one day her income makes us very comfortable but we could survive on mine she still insist on doing all the cooking and washing even though I'm more than happy to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 12:08 PM
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My wife always worked after a brief stahm period which she hated my kids are fine
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 01:36 PM
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Like a dancing monkey? No thanks I expect my so to be equally impressive and contribute to the fun
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 01:21 PM
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Where did I say to fuck the maid? A wife is under no obligation to fuck you in any case. Most women don't marry truly rich men and trust me when you got mortgage and kids a second good income comes in handy. I'm not carrying dead weight life's too short
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 01:15 PM
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Sounds like it would be cheaper for a man with any kind of value to hire a maid and install tinder homemaking doesn't provide anything like the value a good income does especially once kids are school age. There's no equality here
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 01:01 PM
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Whiy wouldn't you share cooking, cleaning. providing and child rearing? Gender roles are a thing of the past
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 11:43 AM
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Yeah I think you have it right I have 2 kids and there is a fuck ton of shit you have to do that you don't want to do as a parent and on top of that you have to pretend you are loving it. (does anyone really enjoy nativity plays? Thank god this is my last year of having to watch it) It's well documented that having kids is rewarding blah blah blah so I won't bore you with that but I'll just say there are things you feel and experience when you have kids that you can't have access to without havi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 05:07 PM
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Yeah I think the op is mistaken in his, assumption that a man falls for a girl who is initially boring in bed most relationships begin with an abundance of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 06:30 AM
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Stacy's and Chad's don't reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 10:18 AM
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It's nice that you take care of your other half you sound sweet. Sounds like your man offers things other than the 50%share in the housework so I'm thinking perhaps for you guys marriage is an equally good deal
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 08:21 PM
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Have you guys got time machines and travel back to the 50s to meet men? I've always shared housework and child rearing duties it's the way things are now, society expects men to do that I feel u ladies are outliers who are being severely short changed by your partners
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 05:56 PM
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I Don't think you are representative of most women I've had a number of ltrs over the years and the women have leaned heavily on me emotionally, practically and financially without offering much in return and my male friends experience the same. These angels you claim women to be don't exist in reality
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 05:09 PM
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30 years ago maybe today's women don't really do any of that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 04:57 PM
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Maybe 30 years ago maybe today's women don't really do any of that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 04:56 PM
1

What about it is a great deal for guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 04:40 PM
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Lol engineers aren't rich
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 07:30 PM
2

Well one day unless you find the fountain of eternal youth you won't be sexy its gonna happen but good news! Your man will also be old and un sexy you only have to compete against the women he can get and vice versa. Make sure you vet well. I'm not here to tell people how to live but I feel the standards you are giving yourself to live up to will only make you miserable make sure your guy really really wants kids because if he's a big earner he's not gonna be around much so you'll need him to wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 04:19 PM
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Just an observation from my Time as a parent when you have kids to feed clothe clean up after and the logistical nightmare of getting them to all the extra curricula stuff and working the 30k job you will probably find that you won't give a shit about wether your gym is posh enough or you have the right moisturiser.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 03:45 PM
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Just out of interest if he lost his hair would the relationship be over?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 02:51 PM
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Meh I have teenagers I paid out for all the dance lessons clubs hobbies, tutors for them over the years. One is mega academic goes to one of the best schools in the UK and the other is not academic at all and will probably go to the local school but man her manual dexterity is impressive she has been destroying her sister at computer games since she was 4 years old And despite years of ballet training(which they were desperate to do but eventually hated) neither can remember a single step.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 09:22 AM
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Oh yeah I loved that guy he imagined giant antlers on his head bigger than any other man's in the room and women had little point stubby ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 12:55 PM
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My so was recently promoted to magement she's constantly on the phone, work WhatsApp, or just plain going into work she's absutely obsessed with making sure work runs how she wants and she's damn good at it. Our kids are pretty self sufficient and her work is walking distance so homelife isn't impacted too badly. I'm really happy for her she doesn't really do hobbies and I spend a lot of time training for endurance events so it suits me that she's got her own shit going on. We get together she r…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 11:26 AM
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No it isn't
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 08:43 PM
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You'd be surprised how many people don't put any real effort into pleasing their partners. The whole meh this is how I am accept it or gtfo attitude seems to be prrety prevalent these days if you find someone who genuinely cares about pleasing you I'd advise you to never let that person go.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 07:34 AM
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I'm 42 I've lived with my so 14 years 2 kids mortgage etc. Our sex life definitely has an ebb and flow. Usually logistics stop our sex life what with the kids etc. I don't really sweat it when the sex dwindles but my so gets stressed out if go too long without. Also she takes it very personally if I turn her down (but I think that's common to most women)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 09:10 PM
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Yeah my so has always worked apert from a short stint as a sahm (which she hated) I think for me the whole provider thing is frustrating because between me and the Mrs I was probably better suited to be the being the child carer but without any pressure to perform as a provider my so never really put any consideration into earnings as a young woman so when the time came we couldn't live without my income so the option was never open to me. My so now has a job she loves and is shooting up the com…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 09:14 PM
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I'm not saying women don't contribute at all I'm saying that that even here in the UK where we are pretty progressive the responsibility for providing a standard of living still is seen as the man's. Very few women will start a family with a man who earns less than them. I'm from a working class background and most working men I know are builders lorry drivers etc. could probably buy a house without their spouse if they were pretty frugal this could not be said of their wives/partners who work i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 06:40 PM
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Those jobs pay well so as the burden of providing is still on men if you are Less academically inclined you will take those jobs. Women aren't under any societal pressure to provide even for themselves when in a relationship so they can afford to avoid these positions in favour of more cushy albeit lower paid professions
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 11:57 AM
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I don't recall saying anyone was a simp I myself was/am very active with my kids most fathers these days are. Most Kids are at school/playschool the large part of the day. My Mrs did the stay at home bit for a while she found it not enough to keep her occupied she maintains it's not a full time occupation for a productive human I was lucky to be earning enough to keep the Mrs at home many young families require 2 incomes to buy a house if you don't wanna bring your a game for your family don't h…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 04:25 PM
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I dont even know a sahm who doesn't share the housework with her working husband, these days men are expected to do housework and take the provider role and take the kids off their wife's hands when they are not at work because women push the mother is the hardest job in the world nonsense (it's not) and I certainly have never met a woman who works more than one job whilst looking after the home
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 08:41 AM
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It comes and goes, my so and I have been together for close to 15 years we still go through periods where we can't keep our hands off each other or we can go for days without sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 08:22 PM
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I've yet to have a conversation about sex with a woman who doesn't believe they are the most amazing lover ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 06:50 PM
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Well if you are just looking for sex as a man the only metric you are interested in is how hot is she? Social status(which I assume you mean by low tier?) is meaningless
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 07:19 PM
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Yep the ladies is always worse in my workplace so I'm told by women themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 06:30 PM
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Who said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 07:27 AM
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I have I telephone pole just outside my house. One day a young lady pulled up in a telephone repair van backed it into a space I didn't even think it would fit. Then proceed to climb the pole do whatever repair she was there to do climb down and be gone all in the space of 20 mins She was reasonably attractive not stunning but I have to admit to being a little turned on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 12:09 PM
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I don't think feminism gives much thought to forcing men into a provider role as an organisation But women absolutely expect their partner to be the main breadwinner in relationships even the most extreme feminist would prefer their partner earn more than them., So if you want a relationship you really do have to embrace the provider role
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 07:31 AM
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I'm the main breadwinner(male} but my partner handles our accounts. She essentially controls what I spend I don't feel that's abuse how in hell would she be able to keep the accounts if I just spent as and when I felt I wanted something. Also as a father raising kids past school age is not a full time job for a productive human
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/18 07:34 AM
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I'm not so sure. if I said my wife was a high court judge the reaction among my friend group would be pretty meh. Now if I said she was a Victoria secret model all ears would prick up and their opinion of my value would rise exponentially
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 03:50 PM
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I think what you say about dance culture is true for people who take their dancing seriously, but what we're talking about here is drunk people rubbing against each other in clubs. I'm not an expert on the female phsyce but I'm guessing it's nice to be able to confirm your own attractiveness and your ability to arouse the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 09:06 AM
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If it's not at all sexual when you grind on a guy when you are single would it make you uncomfortable to see a single girl grinding on your boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 08:40 AM
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I do triathlons an I'm not training 4 hours a day many of my club are in the UK teams and even they aren't training that much
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 03:23 PM
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I think this was the hardest thing to swallow about relationships. The fact that your partner does not necessarily have your best interests at heart. Or more accurately they believe that their best interests are also best for the relationship and you should just get on board with doing what they want even if it makes you miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 11:07 AM
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And to many people abusive = won't do what I want
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 06:58 AM
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I don't mind the sexual jokes I have female friends I know I can get away with that kind of thing with and they won't get offended or think I'm actually hitting on them . I don't flirt often though as I'm not good at it lol. my so and I don't really have jealousy between us except my so gets a bit jealous of my swim coach I don't know why though she's not particularly attractive and we have no chemistry
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 02:10 PM
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Well we are talking village bars here in the UK you don't really send strange women drinks you tend to just ask if they'd like one. I'll say this though my so is unlikely to categorise flirty "banter" as a sexual advance even if it strays into the realms of sexual innuendo she takes it as a joke. she very much enjoys that kind of thing and doesn't really understand people who are offended by it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 01:18 PM
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Social bubble? not really that's just her work she worked in bars a fair amount she's very social pretty flirty plenty of male friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 12:24 PM
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Has a discussion with my other half who is pretty hot she says that in the real world women are not bombarded with endless male attention on a daily basis perhaps its different here in the uk. She doesn't really do social media apart from fb She manages a amall supermarket that employs mostly women of college age and apparently the girls there are falling over each other vying for the attention of any hot guy that comes in the store so it seems if you are a hot guy at least the attention flows t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 06:14 AM
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That's the consensus from anonymous strangers on the Internet but i have to say I'm out and about in the real world a lot and I see many women every day going about their business free from male attention. I don't even remember the last time I even witnessed a guy approach a girl. I just don't believe that's the case
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 04:20 PM
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I'm not so sure the attention is what young women claim. I mean once a few do the weird kind I'd brag that "ugh I'm getting all this attention from boys it's terrible" then it spirals because who wants to admit to being the girl who is so unattractive she isn't getting crazy amounts of attention? I live in the real world not online and I really don't witness young ladies getting huge amounts of attention unpleasant or otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 03:33 PM
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Read a story on reddit the other day about a woman who held her child up to shield herself from a wasp then ran inside leaving the child to fend for itself against the wasp lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 09:04 AM
1

This is very far from my experience women do not nurture men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 09:01 AM
1

I have to say my personal experience varies greatly from the answers here as a young man my options were always greater when in a relationship especially if my so was super hot
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 07:11 AM
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I had the exact same experience with my so
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 03:27 PM
1

Unless you actually wanna go round a corner at some point
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 10:13 PM
2

Yeah but it looks like a space ship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 10:12 PM
1

I could go for some fun
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 06:23 AM
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We do but it's a bit of a mine field. Fit instance if I walk down the street and see a guy performing a task (say fixing a car) it's perfectly fine to go up and initiate a conversation about it. But if I was to approach a guy and complement an article of clothing he was wearing that would be considered weird
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 08:25 AM
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All of psychology is made up
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 08:17 AM
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Why are we we living in the past today's men didn't invent everything and today's western women have never been oppressed trying to get vengeance for wrongs committed to previous generations by previous generations is insane Live in the now people and enjoy your privileges
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 07:38 AM
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Oh my god you talk to people on the tube!!! Londoners hate that it's a cardinal sin lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 08:00 AM
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My brother lives in nairn but we are from South East England when I go up there I love how chatty everyone is just buying something in a shop requires an actual conversation lol you'd be considered odd if you did that down this neck of the woods
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 07:06 AM
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Or she was cheating and got caught. Perhaps wanted attention. Maybe wanted to avoid looking easy to her friends and family.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 01:56 PM
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My experience is women tend to not really be career minded once they've worked a few years they can't wait to pop a sprog and didch the rat race. an opportunity not afforded men as they are expected to be lifelong providers. You say to a woman I'll look after the kids and you go have the career most wiil laugh in your face and say I'm not supporting your lazy ass
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/18 01:24 PM
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Until everyone gets a handshake except you, you'd probably sure miss that handshake then
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 07:37 AM
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So was I at 35 I'm now 41 I got myself in shape 2 years ago dress better regular haircuts. I'm not single so I can't say for sure if I'd do well in the dating pool but I get a lot more looks and ioi's from women of all ages. Do I think a woman in her 20s would actually date me? hell no unless she has serious issues and tbh I'd feel pretty silly in that situation .
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 07:39 AM
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I don’t consider myself a douche bag but you however seem extremely unpleasant. Perhaps that why the quality of men you seem to be attracting/associating with is so low?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 08:33 PM
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I’m 41 I was overweight in my 30s my sex drive declined lost all the weight in the last year when I started doing triathlons and my sex drive returned nice thing is my so is 35 and her sex drive has gone crazy due to her age and my increased smv so we are at it like rabbits. I got in shape because I feared losing my mobility rather than smv decline my hair is thinning slightly but I’m of an age whew that’s expected. when you got a mortgage and kids you don’t have time to sweat such inconsequenti…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 06:29 AM
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What’s being said is that for purely sexual attraction only visual attractiveness matters. I’m not so sure that’s the case though, the other day a young female telephone engineer turned up outside my house reverse parked her van in a space I was sure it couldn’t even fit climbed the telegraph pole outside my Home fix the phone line and go. She was reasonably attractive not super hot but her skill in manual tasks definitely upped her smv a few points to me at least
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 07:49 AM
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These ladies are extreme outliers very few women over 40 are attractive enough to pull of that lifestyle. next time you are out in public look around at people over 40 how many would you actually find attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 07:29 AM
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Apparently only men can be bottom of the barrel these poor women are angels who just aren’t getting enough feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 05:54 PM
1

Cheesecake while sexing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 06:06 AM
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Wow it’s a while ago I typed this I think what I meant was that my partner never really absorbed the role of mother into her identity. Kind of like a “this is something I do not who I am “ attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 08:47 PM
1

Perhaps the reality is we are too foolish to achieve true socialism
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 10:36 AM
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Ok I gotta ask where are you ladies meeting these horrific excuses for men that have given you these bizarre opinions on the male gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 07:58 PM
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I play lead guitar toured in bands I’m good and yes it took a big commitment to get this good. it sure as hell does get you pussy if you play on a stage,but you know who gets more pussy? The guy who learns a few chords and learns to sing and bashes out a few simple popular tunes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 09:25 PM
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Well I’ve not witnessed a whole lot of women killing it in the housework department to be honest. Today’s women are a less capable in that regard than their predecessors, but men are now covering more bases than they ever have in terms of housework car maintenance diy and working full time and child care.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 03:37 PM
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I think the exasperated woman working full time and juggling housework whilst her man does nothing is a false out dated tv trope. Even sahm are splitting housework 50/50 with their working husbands as societal pressure drums into men that this should be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 03:26 PM
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Ok so now a guy has to kill Godzilla to get a swipe right? The smp is so unfair
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 07:30 PM
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I have a daughter who is 14 she’s very academic and driven I have no doubt she’ll provide for herself financially so I don’t think she needs a provider although I’d hope she’d have the sense to date people who at least have a job. I’d like her to date someone who is fun and adventurous. She’s quite a home body so I hope she’d find someone who would drag her out and do cool stuff and not be a door mat because it takes some doing getting her moving lol Last boyfriend was very dull all he wanted to…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 07:11 AM
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I regret selling my old Honda Civic I loved that car
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 06:55 PM
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The sensible thing for women to do is learn to cut hair and open a hair salon nearer. Then use the inevitable profits from that venture to influence policy. Far more effective than voting
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 08:15 AM
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Bet that’s not all you were beating 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 06:02 PM
1

That’s true although rebirth seems to be running out of steam a little
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/18 06:02 PM
1

Well I know hundreds of men in real life and I know only one red pil guy although he’s more mgtow. So I’m assuming where u live all men are hitler clones goose stepping through town raping and killing women and gassing ethnic minorities? Here in reality most men work to provide for their families. They have healthy relationships with the women in their lives. They give to charity and volunteer. Their hearts break when they are denied access to their children. They fight in wars against oppressio…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 02:51 PM
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It’s totally not true that men don’t rape because they are afraid of the law most men have no desire to rape anyone and to these men the thought of forcing themselves on a woman is repugnant Have you even met a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 02:00 PM
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As are men I’ve been groped leered at cat called wolf whistled at in the street by women(and the worst for this are groups of drunk middle class middle aged women). In fact the gay men that have approached me have been much more polite if slightly more persistent. Perhaps segregation would be beneficial to all concerned
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 12:50 PM
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Leering at underage girls is indeed pretty scummy behaviour but can we really punish people by what we assume may be going on in their head. If a woman imagined herself having sex with a celebrity or guy she desires is she raping that person? Or do you have to be a man for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 12:38 PM
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Yep just the other day I drove my car through a crowd of kids because I let someone out if a turning and they didn’t thank me. That’s just how we men are
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 11:25 PM
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Any man that lifts weights at least 3 times a week even with 12% body fat will eventually go into the overweight section on the bmi scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 07:26 AM
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I’ve actually heard my so and her friends admitting that whilst they know they should applaud a stay at home Dad they feel a sense of revulsion at the hand full of them that exist in our village. My so goes to great lengths to inform people I go to work as I am a shift worker and often do the school runs so people assume I don’t work and am supported by her lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 07:35 AM
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No woman will admit in a questionnaire that she does less housework than her partner not exactly scientific
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 08:20 AM
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I know what you mean when I see people who are overweight our running (much like I was a year and a half ago) I wish I could shout encouragement without it seeming like I’m taking the piss or being condescending.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 04:50 PM
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If you have children you are cleaning and washing clothes every day. To me a cleaning lady is a middle class thing. I consider myself working class so to pay someone to do something I can do. Myself is frivolous I’d rather have the cash on my savings
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 01:36 PM
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If we all earn enough to pay cleaning ladies then clearly no one is a cleaning lady so then who does all the cleaning?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 01:28 PM
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A woman will often hide their true personality for the first few months of a relationship. They are experts at holding in the crazy until a man is invested. It’s child’s play for a person to convincingly project whatever image they want up to the moment a couple have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 08:13 AM
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Are women doing more housework? Most of my male colleagues and friends are working longer hours and shouldering more of the housework than their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 07:01 AM
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I see a danger in affirmative consent for women. Having given affirmative consent, that then becomes an added layer of pressure she has actually put on herself through no fault of the man involved to continue with a sexual experience that has become uncomfortable/unpleasant And when I say a sexual experience has become uncomfortable/unpleasant it’s not necessarily a mans fault if a woman suddenly finds she’s not into what’s happening. people can be sexually incompatible or have different ideas w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 09:57 AM
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You seem to categorise all men as confident sexual predators. I’ve always tried to project confidence in my sexual encounters with varying degrees of success but the reality is the first time you sleep with someone is an awkward nerve wracking affair (although you may find many men won’t admit it publicly). A date can often feel like one of those old choose your own adventure book where any decision can end in disaster. I can only speak for myself but I’m hyper aware of making sure that the woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 08:06 AM
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I do more than my fair share round the house but after a bad day once my so complained about her unfair workload. Now I work far longer hours and am currently training every day for a triathlon. I didn’t say anything I just for the next 2 weeks handled every thing washing/kids/cleaning I’m super organised and made light work of it . It was frankly easy. Everyone had everything they needed clean when they needed it the place ran like clockwork. After 2 weeks the mrs said she didn’t want me doing …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 11:07 PM
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I did. The father who was her partner at the time disappeared during the pregnancy then denied parentage to avoid child support. My so was supporting herself comfortably so she didn’t push the issue the guy was not particularly wealthy at the time and it’s fairly pointless to force parenthood on someone who doesn’t want it. I met her when the child was 7 months old and in all honestly I fell in love with her little girl as much as her. The absence of the father allowed us to put my name on the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 05:21 PM
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Wow that article is a very long winded way of saying “crap I took too long to to find a man and now I don’t know weather to settle or stay single”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 08:34 AM
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Broom kid is the real Mary Sue I mean how does a kid that age manage to learn to sweep at such an advanced level
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 11:01 PM
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He did kill and cook a porg though. Clear agenda to imply overly hairy people eat small cute animals
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 04:28 PM
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The wall at 30 is a revenge fantasy for guys who didn’t get sex when they were young The sex and the city women are super hot into their 40s thing is a wishful thinking fantasy for ladies who don’t want the party to end. The truth is probably somewhere in the middle
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 08:30 AM
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Binge drinking got so bad here the government have had to tax the hell out of alcohol it’s pretty expensive to drink now so a lot of bars and clubs have shut down. In the 90s town centres were no go areas for a lot of people Noel Gallagher clones stomping around constantly looking for fights mass brawls and eventually police meat wagons on every high street To be honest it was exciting at the time but I don’t miss it Edit: watch the film Human traffic for a fairly accurate picture of weekends in…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/17 08:45 AM
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British girls on a gno can be pretty obnoxious after a fair amount of alcohol peeing/vomiting/fighting/crying in the streets is common. I haven’t been clubbing for a while so it may be different now but that kind of behaviour was pretty commonplace in any uk town centre on a Friday or Saturday night.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/17 08:28 AM
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Oh my god old people at check outs drive me crazy. I’ve yet to kick one but the urge to is very real
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/17 08:20 AM
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I was young when the whole ladette thing was going on in the uk. I’ve been groped and catcalled a fair few times. On a night out as a guy it was fun.During the day walking to work/college slightly uncomfortable but not totally unwelcome. I never felt threatened but groups of drunk cackling women aren’t particularly attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/17 08:11 AM
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I think it may be possible for most men as long as they are realistic about their place in the smp and aren’t too fussy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 01:54 PM
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I’m male I’ve been pursued many times I’ve rarely had to approach I don’t agree with the women are the top dogs blanket statement. A man who has a woman infatuated with him can pretty much make her do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 01:24 PM
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My partner and I exist as a single financial entity even though we are not married. Both names on the house joint accounts.etc. It’s a different situation as we have children. We both work I earn higher although were it not for the kids she could have taken more promotions. If we were to split we’d split the house 50/50 id keep my shares and pension. I don’t believe anything I’ve said is particularly arrogant although it seems I’ve touched a nerve. I read in your post that you have invested in p…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 09:07 AM
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Probably more scared of reaching retirement age and not being able to maintain my standard of living. That’s the risk your partner is taking investing in your financial future at the expense of his own Edit: I don’t get handouts I own my own home
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 08:30 AM
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Well it’s a lot of money being paid to someone with no financial return. I’d feel very uncomfortable if I wasn’t eventually gonna have my home paid for. Seems a pretty bad deal he’s getting. I once lived in a similar situation when I was young and dumb it was all “I want to feel like this is your home” until we had an argument then it was “this is my house”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 08:22 AM
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Does he invest in property elsewhere? I’d find that a very scary position to be in if not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 08:02 AM
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It’s more common than you think I’ve had women grab my crotch just walking down the street in broad daylight
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 07:48 AM
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This combined with western children rarely being told no or having been expected to do anything they don’t want to do. Imagine the shock when you first get a partner and they won’t give you what you want or expect you to do something that doesn’t outright benefit you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 07:00 AM
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It seems we have different experiences. Just to clarify I’m not saying women are less capable than men or are unable to do the same work as men or work the same hours. I just don’t believe the vast majority of women want to. That’s not a criticism i mean why the hell would you want to given the choice. if the future automation of industry and a possible ui releases men from the social expectation and pressure that they should be constantly working and the stigma of being out of work then we may …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 06:57 PM
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No we as a species do not have the social intelligence to make such a system work perhaps one day in the future. Sadly with current attitudes the well off will never see a benefit to being less well off so those in poverty are less poor and if I’m honest we seem to be moving in the opposite direction. Socialism isn’t really wrong it’s just humans aren’t capable of implementing it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 02:45 PM
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And my pet fish is less likely to overthrow society than my cat but I don’t lose sleep worrying that my cat is a danger to humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 09:32 AM
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Some Scandinavian countries are already experimenting with a ubi I believe. It’s probably far more likely in Europe than the us
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 07:31 AM
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Are women likely to become a cheap diligent workforce though? Perhaps in a middle class academic/white collar bubble but out in the real world the vast majority of women have no desire to replace men as society’s workhorse. And whilst women are going to university in greater numbers the more difficult technical subjects the majority is still men. Also a personal observation at the office where I work the female population is pretty much cleared out by 4:00pm whilst tee men stay much later. The v…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 07:10 AM
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Questions like that pop up every now and then on r/asktrp
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 11:39 PM
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I find the ones most cringey that ask “what is some alpha music I can listen to?” or what films are alpha?” As if before doing anything in your life you have to consider if it’s “alpha” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 09:14 PM
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In my head I definitely support anyone’s right to make whatever choices they see fit with their own bodies and I honestly try not to judge people for it but deep down I do get a feeling of revulsion for women who are known to be promiscuous. I’d avoid these women for an ltr perhaps it’s social conditioning I don’t know but it’s just how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 08:42 AM
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We are all commodities for capitalism to exploit it’s not exclusive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 08:21 AM
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I have an identical twin brother we went to the same college except I studied electronic engineering and he did performing arts (technical) I was constantly being accosted on campus by people in bizarre costumes trying to drag me away saying “what you doing here we’re supposed to be at rehearsal” We are so alike it’s almost impossible to convince people that know my brother I’m not him. my fellow electronics students thought this was hilarious Off topic but I don’t meet many fellow twins lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 07:40 AM
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I am a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/17 03:01 PM
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Plate? Nope I’m no.1 or gtfo I’ve had the odd ons though they were rare generally if I like someone enough to fuck I’ll date them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/17 02:06 PM
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Alpha and beta are descriptions of behaviours in any given situation a person can display actions that can be described as alpha or beta a man who displays beta characteristics in his marriage can still dominate other men socially or at work and vice versa. There are no alpha or beta males
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 08:21 AM
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That escalated quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 08:17 AM
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It’s no just redditors Ernest cline books pure nerd fantasy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 07:01 AM
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I saw your rate me post you are not unattractive. I’d have thought you’d have options. I’d not change my life as it is now but I often think life would have been easier if I’d had an so with a wage comparable to mine my so has potential to but not really the drive to make it happen Still nothing wrong with selling ice cream. do you get free ice cream?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 05:25 PM
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So you found a guy that you were attracted to who was broke? Was he attracted by your socioeconomic status? I’m assuming you mean you have a good career How did it work out?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 04:24 PM
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Have you been unable to find an so?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 03:40 PM
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Well if you follow the school of thought that women only find 20% of men attractive then you are in the same boat as 80% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 08:32 AM
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The whole pillosphere is a series of middle class college/ex college student circle jerks with very little comprehension of how the large majority of the world works.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 11:06 AM
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Yeah this is true if you have children with a person your name becomes me synonymous with dirty nappies housework and bills. New attraction offers excitement escapism tingles etc. It’s hard to compete with that long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 12:55 PM
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Hmmmm maybe we are witnessing the birth of the female beta bucks the most attractive women will get pretty much everything paid for. If you are less attractive you will find you will have to bring something more to the table. I think an attractive man who is smart will go for a slightly less attractive girl for ltr/marriage who has greater earning power. That second income sure makes life easier plus if she perceives your smv as greater than hers she’ll be a more pleasant companion
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 09:23 AM
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I’m sorry but plenty of people go without sex it’s not a physical need. It’s damaging psychologically to not have access to sex because that is for a man considered synonymous with failure. The “sex is a physical need” bullshit is something made up by incels so they can frame their rejection by the opposite sex as some kind of hate crime. You separate lack of sex from feelings of inadequacy then lack of sex has no physical consequences and you may even find many people happily go without. I’d no…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 03:35 PM
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You can go long periods of time without sex but without food you will die so that analogy doesn’t really work.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 10:40 AM
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Go to mars I’ve had sex a bunch of times but I’ve never left the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 08:28 AM
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Wow this thread is something of a shit show. Some people have pretty strong opinions on how others should live. I never wanted kids my so never wanted kids she’s never even wanted to marry and that’s fine by me. Due to circumstances I’m too lazy to go into here she had a baby. Turns out we actually have mad parenting skills people say shit like our kids won’t sleep at night or won’t eat this or that or have this or that issue and we look at each other like really? This shit ain’t that hard. foll…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 11:35 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 10:56 PM
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Can confirm kids are expensive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 10:50 PM
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I quite enjoy getting checked out. I also like compliments but I always find it difficult to know how to respond. As a young guitarist in a band I often had other guitar players come up to me after shows and tell me they were impressed and I’d find it excruciating I’d just mumble thanks and walk away I’m sure a lot of people thought I was rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 08:02 PM
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I think here in the uk we are possibly less progressive there’s big talk of equality but I am not aware of any women that out earn their partners and if you are a man who wants s family it’s pretty well expected that you are going to be providing for it. To be honest the concept of love and caring is pretty much lost on most people here at ppd both male and female. It’s I’ll have what I want or gtfo. I don’t think that’s representative of wider society. I think there’s a lot of “I’ve never had a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 03:05 PM
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You are definitely in the minority of women because most women certainly do expect men to be providers. Which kinda leads to the question what exactly is this huge value the ladies are bringing to relationships that men do not?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 07:35 AM
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Its tricky as a man to know exactly what options you have once in a relationship as women seldom approach and it’s something of a faux pas to approach possible options whilst in a relationship so yeah I agree with your comment
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/17 08:48 PM
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Yeah this is true I don’t live far from London you can find places where the wealthy and/or posh congregate. Although class is strange in the uk it’s not really fluid in the way it seems to be in the us. A working class guy will consider himself working class even if he accumulated great wealth and will wear it like a badge of honour lol. My mother’s side of my family are middle class poshos and my fathers is working class. I consider myself working class.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/17 08:23 PM
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As far as I’m aware all classes congregate in the same bars/clubs on a Friday/Saturday night this is certainly true in my town I’m not aware of any class segregated communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/17 08:04 PM
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I’d still say that on an average night out on the pull in a uk town most people will be non graduates and the most successful males will be the young cocky well muscled construction worker types at least that’s how I remember things when I was in my youth. Perhaps things have changed since my college days
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/17 07:54 PM
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I’m not sure what it’s like where you live but I don’t know that many people with college degrees outside of where i work. College graduates are a minority’s in the uk.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/17 08:14 AM
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That makes sense.so social status is not really effected by level of fitness? or it’s a smaller part of the matrix?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 07:04 PM
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Yeah I get that. I myself lost 40 lbs over the last year and it wasn’t easy but when I was overweight I kinda felt like buying good clothes and haircuts was a waste of time because everyone can see I’m still fat I guess the mindset these girls have is maximise what you have
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 01:58 PM
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Yeah that’s common my so will write the whole day off if she has one slip it’s bizarre logic like “ah crap I ate a chocolate bar fuck it I might as well have McDonald’s for lunch I’ll start again tomorrow” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 01:13 PM
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Yeah boi!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 12:51 PM
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Ah yes Essex the place where the ladies like to dye their hair blond or jet black and paint themselves orange
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 12:49 PM
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Ah yeah I’d not considered the instant return of grooming as opposed tho the long term nature of diet and exercise
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 12:47 PM
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Yeah good guess I am indeed. There seems to be a strange tendancy among a certain type of women in the uk to apply fake tan,nails,eyelashes,makeup everyday seems exhausting I’d rather go for a run lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 12:44 PM
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I’m chad and so’s my wife
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 07:05 AM
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I saw it a few months back there’s not much that’s controversial in it really. I think the feminists in it were likely hand picked to be the least reasonable more rabid types to make the movement look pretty hateful but hey if those people didn’t exist you wouldn’t be able to put them on film in the first place. It’s a fairly innocuous reminder that there are issues that effect men and perhaps they should perhaps be looked into. I don’t really understand people’s objections to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 03:22 PM
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I’m just wondering how much talent has been lost in Hollywood because great actresses quite rightly refused to put out. How many shocking performances have we been subjected to because someone got his willy wet?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/17 09:57 AM
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Hmmmm we can cure incels with dictionary’s? So simple we need to spread the word
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/17 07:28 AM
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Do you hang around at spelling bees hoping to attract men with impeccable spelling ability?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/17 07:23 AM
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I think either way it’s in your best interests to avoid rattlesnakes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/17 09:39 PM
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Personally I’m sceptical of the claims from ppd women that they are wading through endless seas of men approaching. It’s not something I’ve witnessed happen in real life. I think it’s become such a meme now that no one wants to be the woman who doesn’t get approached all the time so they’ll claim that that’s what’s happening much like no young man will admit in real life to being a virgin because it’s expected that men have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/17 06:08 AM
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Gamora from gaurdians of the galaxy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/17 12:02 PM
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Text invite for coffee/beer or whatever it is you kids drink these days. It doesn’t mattter what really if she likes you (and it seems like she does ) Note: if a girl gives you contact info she wants you to contact her. Edit- I’m gonna need updates on how this is going
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/17 09:41 PM
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The whole of ppd is behind you dude go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/17 09:17 PM
2

Wow very pretty I’m gonna guess figthief?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 10:08 PM
3

Willow
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 05:17 AM
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I don’t know why you can’t get a date you seem lovely
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 09:53 PM
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You don’t look ugly to me although I’m a guy so what do I know I’d recommend a more modern haircut and get a trim once a month at least. Also make sure you dress well for the occasion and be well groomed every where you go the eyebrows seem ok but if you don’t like them trim them jaw looks decent. I’m honestly surprised you can’t get a girl to say yes to a date. How often do you approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 04:25 PM
1

I quite like your gun driving licence idea I suspect there will still be opposition to that thought
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 03:53 PM
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2 girls slightly below average amount
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/17 09:18 PM
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Yeah of course one experience spanning 14 years Really though once kids are at school it’s easy people make hard work of it or pretend like it’s hard but really it isn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/17 02:00 PM
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Meh my so found it pretty unfulfilling and said that these days with all the labour saving devices it’s not difficult and can’t really be considered a full time job so she went back to work
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/17 12:12 PM
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But the guy got 70/30
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 12:55 PM
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My mrs and I both work full time similar hours although I usually rack up a few more hours in overtime. I’m more than happy to do housework but my so is like a housework machine she insists on taking care of all the cooking and all the families washing. Pretty much all that’s left for me is occasional hoovering and washing up at weekends. Although I do take care of the gardens and most diy except painting I hate painting and am crap at it. I also maintain both our cars I’m pretty handy with a sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/17 02:57 PM
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I don't think it's about being cucked I think it's about honesty I doubt there are more manly men by percentage in the us but when asked less people here in the uk are likely to pretend to be masculine. Oh and guns don't = masculine a female can be just as deadly with a gun as a man
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 01:37 PM
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It doesn't at all I'm fine I'm one of the lucky ones who live int the first world and can afford cars fuel and trips to malls and most likely the current financial situation will still in place long after I'm gone . But there are those that can't and that number seems to be getting larger I can only hope things continue to go well for me so I or my children don't slip into that group I'm not sure it's even fixable I'm just saying it is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 01:44 PM
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I guess 99 to 1 isn't a problem in itself but perhaps when it's 99.9 to 0.1 % and the wealth is still flowing that way i imagine eventually it will be unsustainable
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 01:36 PM
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Yeah I certainly agree that there's much of government that can be made obsolete. I'm no financial expert I just have experience of working in a large global company in based in the uk. What I'm seeing is the manufacturing staff is constantly being scaled back but bafflingly the number of white collar workers is increasing. My fear is that the reason for this is many western companies are not necessarily about producing anything but are financial entities to be manipulated by the financial secto…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 09:14 AM
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I certainly don't subscribe to the evil wealthy school of thought the wealthy are as powerless to stop the pooling of wealth as the less wealthy. very few people don't answer to anyone after all. in fact CEO's answer to shareholders I myself have shares in the company I work for so in theory if my company cut all wages by 50% the value of my shares increases but I become poorer. Here we have a system where anyone who owns shares wants the value of these shares to in crease lowering overheads is …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 08:36 AM
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I think you should watch Michael moore's documentary capitalism: a love story Capitalism I think served the west fairly well up till recently but the end game of capitalism is 1% of the population controlling 99% of the wealth. This is fine if you are middle class and are part of the 99% that has a good share of this measly 1% so you have a nice standard of living but if your not it's pretty miserable and I doubt the 1% are gonna stop at having 99% of the wealth, profit margins have to go up con…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 08:00 AM
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I think stay at home dad would have been my calling although until I was a father I never considered it an option. Sadly by the time I was ready to settle down I'd forged my career in engineering meaning i out earned pretty much every woman in my social sphere Telling a woman right I'm gonna quit work to take care of the kids as soon as we have them and you're responsible for providing the large portion of the family income would not go down too well
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/17 02:43 PM
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I dunno about that I'm pretty great :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/17 01:50 PM
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Hmmmm I believe my current so believes men should want sex all the time and initially I did but I'm 40 now and we've been together 12 years. I guess as she rarely turns down sex I don't feel the urgency to keep initiating like some men do. I have in the last year made considerable efforts to get in shape and had a vasectomy because as the children are getting older and require less care it might be nice to step our sex life up a notch I still consider it a recreational activity rather than a phy…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 09:11 AM
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Whilst I enjoy sex I can take it or leave it especially as I get older . I'm not sure if as a man that makes me low libido. I wouldn't drop everything in doing for an offer of sex sometimes I'd rather watch a film or read a book. My so tends to get upset if we go without sex for too long I've also noticed that women tend to take it very personally if you turn them down for sex almost as if you've insulted them I wonder from reading here if that anger stems from the insecurity of sex being where …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 07:12 AM
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Well they do say assumption is the mother of all fuck ups. Back when I was dating most of my relationships progressed from dating to boyfriend girlfriend situations and I don't remember having a conversation about if we were heading to an ltr. I guess I always considered dating as kind of the trial phase for an ltr meaning that if I was dating someone I was at least open to the possibility of an ltr otherwise I'm really just using Somone for sex which is fine as long as both parties are aware th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 03:10 PM
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Perhaps I've been out of the game for too long or where I live is different but my understanding is a Fwb is still a rare occurrence. a ons is different from dating no one expects a relationship to spring from that. I believe most people in the dating pool have an ltr as the end game especially after a couple of months of dating but perhaps that's an old fashioned idea. It would be better if everyone stated their intentions but I think usually people can tell what the other person wants they jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 02:51 PM
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Whilst I do wrinkle my nose in disgust at any guy who chases women giving free validation be they orbiter or pua, an attractive woman experienced with having orbiters is operating at a social skill level way beyond the comprehension of someone who is not smart enough to know that orbiting will not eventually win you the affection of the girl. It's no effort to keep this guy on the line whilst they enjoy all that lovely validation and they know damn well what they are doing In the same way that e…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 01:29 PM
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Social convention is relationships move forward it doesn't have to be stated. A person dating someone is perfectly justified in expecting that the relationship will eventually move into ltr territory unless it is stated otherwise. Also a lady who is aware that a guy is attracted to her should be aware that if she gives the guy attention and expects attention from this guy he's not being unreasonable in thinking making progress towards a relationship. These are basic truths everyone who has been …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 10:11 AM
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I'm in the uk seems to be a huge increase in people attending gyms etc. Quite a few gyms being built in my area at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/17 02:15 PM
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I moisturise I use an expensive one as it's the only one I've found that doesn't make me break out in spots. I'm not really trying to attract women as I've not been single for some years now but I do like to take care of my appearance. if that's vain and girly so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/17 11:53 AM
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Perhaps. I workout at my home so I'm not really in the gym culture but I'm told it's not unusual to see people injecting in the changing rooms but I've not seen it myself
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/17 10:55 AM
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I have noticed men of all ages clearly work out now(myself included). I heard that steroids now outsell other illegal substances.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/17 10:47 AM
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I've never consciously tried to have game some days it all clicked and I couldn't help but be funny and interesting and other days it's like I forgot how to person and I become a weird awkward social reject, on those days trying to game just made things worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 06:40 PM
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Clearly a woman would have an easier time finding casual sex partners in a polyamory relationship As a counterpoint though I've never been in a relationship with a woman that wouldn't loose their shit at another woman if she attempted to sleep with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 09:01 AM
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I think it's the fat acceptance movement that men find irritating. It feels a bit like saying right guys we are moving the goalposts what you think is sexy isn't sexy anymore and if your not on board you're a bad person. Anyone with a number of fat women on their fb friend list will have seen all the memes "you can't snuggle a stick" "curves are sexy" "this is sexy(pic of fat girl) this is not (pic of skinny girl)" The ting is a lot of these women still post pics of super cut muscly guys, and it…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 06:03 AM
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This is drivel
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 08:47 AM
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Yep I totally agree if someone cheats on a partner that's a pretty big signal to me that they are an unpleasant individual
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 08:46 AM
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Well yeah those women exist but I pretty much used to be the male version of that my mission was to make my other half happy it is the mother of all covert contracts and eventually leads to bitterness. You can't make another person happy by being nice to them and to try is costly emotionally and exhausting
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 04:41 PM
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Well it does kinda poke a hole in the theory that men are getting this Disney princess unicorn wife who is making marriage so much better for men because they care more for his happiness at her than their own and providing all this wonderful support. ( nor should a woman negate their own happiness for their man's that's just crazy)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 04:26 PM
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I'm gonna suggest that very few women are caring more about their mans happiness than their own
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 06:54 AM
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Women can be hot at 35 no doubt about that but they are in the minority very few look after themselves to the extent required to be considered hot against younger women. By that time most are married with children and believe me for men and women that age with partners,kids and jobs a thousand other concerns take priority over "am I hot"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 07:06 PM
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It's bitchy but the thing is no one bats an eye when a woman talks about their partner in this way it's completely considered normal. This is the level of disrespect that is pushing many men to mrp I think
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 02:44 PM
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She can be a hard woman the men in her family do not under any circumstances discuss feelings oddly when I'm fit and well there's pretty much nothing she won't do for me. She just cannot handle weakness in men (luckily I'm awesome 90%of the time:) ) The whole man-flu thing is really a huge thing on the uk it's used in to shows ads etc. Feeble man malingers in bed while heroic wife rolls her eyes and is on top of everything.its not women's fault it's how they have been conditioned to see themselv…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 10:52 AM
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Perhaps stomping was an exaggeration it's more subtle than that. My so will happily wash my clothes cook for me as I work longer hours and I take care of gardens diy etc. But as soon as I'm ill which is a very rare occurrence she'll start implying I'm faking and That I'm some kind of malingerer which could not be farther from the truth. This is pretty universal behaviour among all the women I know barely a day goes by at the school where some woman isn't telling her friends "ugh my man has "man-…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 10:23 AM
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In the same way that I as a man don't really have experience in what a relationship with a man is like the women here have not experienced what a relationship with a woman is like, they just know what their female friends tell them and guess what? They won't admit stomping in their guys emotions and resenting him when he needs care. They'll paint themselves in the best possible light. Luckily I've not really experienced mental illness but I've yet to be with a woman who will take care of me if I…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 09:04 AM
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I think the result of trp techniques is to cause anxiety or at least introduce a level of uncertainty to a relationship in the hope that this will cause a partner to behave how the red pill guy would prefer. The novelty thing reminds me of a conversation I had with my so one time we discussed how it becomes easy to associate your partner with the mundane especially if you have young kids and it's a constant cycle of washing working cooking and cleaning and a new option can look exciting. My so u…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 04:43 PM
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Trp wisdom seems to be that putting a woman on a pedestal and catering to her every need will cause that woman to lose respect for the man and cause her to see him as low value at which point hypergamy kicks in and the woman becomes unhappy with her choice of man. Is what you are saying is that your attraction works opposite to that and that you only feel attraction for men who give you what you want and you quickly lose attraction for men who don't cater to your needs?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 01:35 PM
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Wouldn't it be an indication of low value if a man was prepared to give of himself and receive nothing in return? I see the attraction of having my needs met without having to consider the needs of my partner but surely attraction can't last to a person who doesn't value themselves enough to have expectations of their so? Seems like a dead bedroom waiting to happen
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 08:35 AM
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When it goes well I really enjoy it sadly I'm socially awkward a lot of the time so I struggle with what to say. Only yesterday the new hot young girl at our local supermarket made a big performance of deciding wether I looked over 25 in quite a flirty way (I'm forty and clearly well over 25) my mumbling stuttering answer was so weird I doubt she'll ever speak to me again lol. Edit: I was buying beer shops in the uk advise their staff to ask for Id from anyone looking under 25
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/17 12:38 PM
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Thanks and I will concede that you seem refreshingly honest I read a lot of your posts actually you sound fascinating I'm really very boring by comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/17 11:23 PM
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To be honest I'm much the same online as I am in real life. I try to be as honest on here as I am able otherwise the discussion is pointless. I'm not married but I'm in a 12 year relationship 2 kids. I actually believe that people are less honest here and bizarrely will tell any lie to win pointless arguments against internet strangers. Otherwise I'd have to believe that every red piller is pulling in six figures and spinning three or four plates which is obviously nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/17 10:54 PM
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Your view of men is very strange I don't know any men that fit into your descriptions of male nature. I'd suggest you may benefit from going into the word and meeting as many normal guys away from Reddit as you can. Most are happy to be monogamous and aren't on a mad quest for power.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/17 10:29 PM
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I think there's an element of it being easier to treat someone who is originally a decent guy like crap till they get pissed at you if you believe they were never really a good guy at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/17 12:02 PM
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I work shifts so I do a lot of school runs with the kids so I'm pretty plugged in to what women married with kids in their 30's and 40's are like in my area. Most have not really looked after themselves and are looking pretty rough. A few whose kids are getting older and require less care are trying to get back into shape usually the ones that were hot in their youth not many are sinking into the depths of despair but I don't see any living the sex in the city lifestyle in fact I've not really w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/17 06:08 PM
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This is certainly true based on my observations
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/17 06:54 PM
1

Me n the mrs really enjoyed that we gonna try Shetland this weekend on your recommendation :) It's a bit weird but have you seen misfits? That's also worth a watch
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 04:48 PM
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Have you seen broadchurch?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 04:44 PM
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I think this may be true of some men but as a fairly average man myself when I was young and dating if I had a girlfriend I found that I was bombarded with sexual options I guess because of abundance mentality or not giving off a thirsty desperate vibe perhaps social proof. This tends to die off fairly quickly after a breakup. I and my male friends would often discuss the irony of this and we would attempt to acquire another sexual partner(s) as soon as possible after the end of an ltr before th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 12:19 PM
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Here's your I'm a better parent cos vagina award 🥇
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 02:35 PM
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Thanx 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 02:24 PM
2

I have never turned off my dad processing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 01:36 PM
2

"Sinkhole of cheese" is this a euphemism?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 08:15 AM
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Because there's already quite a few incel Reddits it seems to be the nature of many who identify as incel to be quite prolific posters. If left unchecked ppd will quickly become overpopulated with discussions of incel issues and not much else
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 07:51 AM
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Most of the girls I have been in relationships with approached me. I used to be really shy and had bad approach anxiety but luckily I got approached pretty regularly . I think my current so is the only girl I've actually approached
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 07:14 AM
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Join the real life superhero project
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 06:11 AM
2

40 year old man I believe my n count is 10 I'm s serial monogamist
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 07:52 PM
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Change fund to control
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 10:49 AM
2

I think it's less about choosing sexual partners and more about who we choose to give our attention to that influences the behaviour of the opposite sex. When you get more likes for being merely attractive than doing charity work, or if you approach and orbit the hot girl who turns up to the club wearing little more than her underwear rather than the less attractive girl you notice reading the book you love then you end up with s society where female attractiveness is the most desirable trait ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 06:31 AM
1

I like cute
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/17 08:56 AM
1

I would argue that PUAs who constantly chase and validate women do far more to entitle women and hand them the advantage in the smp than white knights
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 06:29 AM
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1/ I'd say 7/10 similar hair to Daniel Craig decent jaw line decent skin I'm 40 but look younger 2/ not anymore put on a little weight in my 30s but lost it now 3/ 3 I'm not really a casual sex kind of guy 4/ 10 I tended to rush into relationships as a young man 5/ I play guitar in bands and used to play soccer 6/ not really i didn't lack opportunities but I was always looking for relationships 7/ definitely no to both 8/ no not really I tend to regard sexual thirst as a weakness men who spend t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 09:49 AM
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Lol gerbiling
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 06:14 PM
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I think what wallstreeet3 is saying is your man sticks around because he likes you for qualities you posses other than your pussy as all women have a pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 06:33 AM
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Edit: replied to wrong comment
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 09:33 AM
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Do you really have a semicolon? A guy at work had half his colon removed he refers to it as a semicolon now. We spread Rumours that in actual fact he had a testicle removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 04:42 PM
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I've been lurking on the married red pill pages for a while I'm not really a red piller (in fact I did post on bp a bit)I have been taking some of the advice and implementing it in a very softly softly subtle way I've started with getting in shape,texting only for logistics and stfu. I've found just these little changes have gone a long way. The Mrs has been a lot more chill and respectful to me. Some of those guys on Mrp go steaming in making changes some even declare to their wife "I AM NOW AL…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 02:24 PM
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I'm glad you cleared that up I thought she was saying he was dead. I was gonna send condolences.....could have been awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 06:49 AM
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I'm 40 now and I don't remember having any trouble dating in my late teens early twenties women even tended to approach back then but the birth of the incel movement and trp would suggest that the youth of today are making hard work of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 12:57 PM
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Yeah I think I believe both genders have equal options in later life which is in contrast to dating at a young age when I think it's been agreed here that attractive women have far greater options
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 10:43 AM
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I have some insight into this, I'll say straight away that yes this is purely anecdotal and possibly not representative of the whole smp but I'll share anyway. I have both a male and female divorced friends at work in their 40s both in shape and take care of themselves both considered attractive and date age appropriately usually divorcees and use online dating. The woman gets plenty of dates and has no problem finding sexual partners but despite being hot and pretty fun cannot get a man to comm…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 09:16 AM
3

Yeah another vote here for dragon a unicorn is basically a horse
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 07:22 PM
2

Isn't this drunken rape/false raps allegations issue pure internet hysteria? I don't know anyone who has been raped and I don't know anyone who has been falsely accused of rape, but I know shitloads of people who have had drunken (sometimes regrettable) sex. Surely thousands of hookups happen every weekend facilitated by alcohol and those people just go about their lives after without any further drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 06:30 PM
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This is interesting, what made you realise that fighting for your own way all the time was an issue? Also what made you believe that you deserve your own way previous to toning down your inner bitch? I myself tend to be overly supplicating if I'm not careful giving me a tendency to be walked all over. I admire your self awareness
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 10:30 PM
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Sigh I think that was the toughest realisation of my life when I finally twigged that a significant other does not have your best interests at heart no matter how much You invested in them. Looking back that seems a very naive overly romantic notion. Im still a romantic but I have tougher boundaries now. It still saddens me that it's necessary to enforce them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 12:57 PM
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If I was ever single again I'd definitely expect a woman to have a similar income to mine before I'd cohabit with them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 11:30 AM
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My gf requested we try anal I never pushed for it although I was certainly open to it. In fact I've had many strange sexual requests from women over the years ill pretty much try anything once
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 09:54 AM
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I have a real soft spot for women who sing beautifully.That being said my current so has a voice that could strip paint from the walls lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/17 07:50 PM
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Yeah I agree with this, most women are not chad-worthy and are not hooking up with the top 20% of males as much as they would wish to. I think the current smp probably is great if you are a reasonably attractive woman it's probably pretty harsh if you are not conventionally attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/17 07:38 PM
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I think you world view is certainly not any reality I've ever witnessed. But hey I've not been every where and seen everything so I'll concede that what I'm saying is not proven fact but most men I meet are better than the picture you are painting
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/17 07:24 PM
2

From my experience modern men are far more active in the home and their children's lives than their partners who spend a huge amount of time crushing imaginary candy and sleeping
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/17 07:04 PM
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Hmmm maybe times have changed but in my youth stage 6 happened to me on a regular basis and Whilst I believe I was pretty attractive to some women I was certainly no pretty boy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 11:42 AM
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I can't speak for all companies but the engineering firm I work for prizes female engineers highly. Any half competent female engineer is fast tracked through the ranks and plastered all over our corporate newsletters literature and advertising and showered with meaningless awards. In fact there's a huge ad in London Bridge tube station featuring a female colleague of mine and I'm pretty sure the girl never even qualified as an engineer despite this fact she won young engineer of the year a few …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 03:55 PM
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This is so true I remember years ago people in the U.K. Were quitting financial jobs in the city to train as plumbers because the money was better
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 03:47 PM
2

To be honest if I dated a girl who then decides I'm not for her I'd much prefer she disappear off my radar for a few days leaving me to get the message she's not interested than have the excruciating ending the relationship discussion. Although in the past I have moved on pretty fast thinking I've been ghosted only to find the girl had a family emergency lol(I began dating before mobile phones we're widespread)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 08:39 PM
1

I believe they have quite an extensive screening process
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 06:45 AM
2

So long
/r/askTRP25/05/17 12:11 PM
3

Ewwww that's a disturbing image
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 06:57 PM
1

Yes you should absolutely play skyrim if you have a lot of time on your hands it's a big world
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 11:03 AM
1

I don't see things changing much. As a working class guy albeit one who went to college the large majority of normal women are still not really career minded and don't much fancy working long hours and rely on their men to provide the large majority of the family income. You need to realise most people don't have college degrees
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 03:07 PM
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Apparently in the uk at least women who are divorced re enter the dating pool as their kids leagally become adults and child support stops my freind regularly gets asked to move in with people after a matter of weeks. Makes me think many of these woman are keen to snare another beta bux
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 01:14 PM
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A friend of mine is in his late 40s (divorced) uses online dating he looks his age but is in shape gets a huge amount of action with mostly age appropriate women he's dated 3 different women this week. He's says that women definitely become more desperate post 40 especially divorcees and as long as you aren't chasing girls much younger then dating becomes a great deal easier for men. The real problem is these ladies do try to fast forward you into a relationship pretty quick
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 12:52 PM
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Whilst this is true mum is often the primary care taker I don't think it's the case that dad has forced his wife into that role its more that dad is forced into a provider role by society's expectations and the fact that many women do not want the pressure of being the main breadwinner. It's kind of unfair that dad should automatically be considered unworthy of custody because he worked for a living. I stated elsewhere that I in many way was far better suited to the stay at home dad role than my…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 08:00 PM
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There's a lot of talk on here about men needing sex because of the high male sex drive. Not much is said of the huge societal pressure on men to be seen to be having sex and the shame that many men feel if they are unable to secure a sexual partner especially if a young man is yet to lose his virginity
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 04:46 PM
2

Partly but much of the validation comes from being seen with said desirable woman by our peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 04:40 PM
1

If she was gonna earn enough for me to be a stay at home dad then yeah I'd move like a shot. Sadly I've always been the bigger earner but I've always quite fancied the house husband role I think I'd kill at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 04:43 PM
1

It's worth noting that your bf is not representative of all men in fact in my friend circle (all guys in ltrs with kids and a few years under their belts.) it's far more common for the man to be main provider and do the lions share round the house whilst their wives crush imaginary candy. Men who grew up in the late 80s early nineties were bombarded with this whole "new man" image where the man did half the household work even if his wife was a sahm.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 04:37 PM
4

wofe
/r/askTRP25/04/17 12:33 AM
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If you are doing this to get pussy learn to sing as well the guy who strums a guitar and sings gets way more female attention then a guy playing a thousand notes per second. Being ed sheeran is also way easier than being Steve vai.
/r/askTRP02/04/17 10:21 AM
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Tom hardy is overrated and not in the same league as al pachino. He's mainly popular with the ladies cos he's hot but overacting in a funny voice doesn't really make you a good actor. Jim Carey haven doing that for years
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 07:31 PM
3

In the U.K. There are endless initiatives and studies to encourage girls/women into this college course or that job, or schemes to raise awareness about this or that women's issue. Just yesterday there was a News report that young girls don't go into the sciences because of the way it's taught and that it should be changed to encourage more girls into science. I can't remember anything put in place to encourage young men into college At the same time societal pressures are still on the man to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 03:22 PM
1

Yeah fuck that shit I'll take social inequality over inevitable monthly pain/discomfort/bleeding/emotional rollercoaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 08:14 AM
2

People don't realise they are being insulted they don't see themselves in the show. To them the show is about other men/women not them. whilst their partner is laughing because that's exactly how they see their so. most people aren't very self aware
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 07:52 AM
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The fact that you refer to men you consider to be less attractive than you as losers and consider them beneath you is kind of a red flag when looking for someone to date. Guys experienced at dating and therefore probably pretty attractive learn fast to spot this kind of entitlement and avoid at all costs perhaps this is why you dot receive attention from the quality of men you would prefer. You are probably telegraphing this attitude without knowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 08:16 AM
2

I believe beating children was common up to the 70s also after that many children were grounded as punishment
/r/askMRP05/12/16 04:14 AM
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Ok lurker and blue pill poster here(full disclosure) I wouldn't normally post here but your dilemma resonates with me. Teenagers are tricky what we'd all like to do is confiscate the iPhone , my daughter has a near meltdown when separated from the mobile but it's a dilemma because you want to be able to contact them if you need to. First thing I establish is whilst she has an iPhone it is not hers it's a privilege bestowed by me and her mother and can be revoked at any time. I keep an old Nokia …
/r/askMRP04/12/16 06:03 PM
2

Won't his boner knock antiques of the shelves every time he turns around?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 12:40 AM
1

Good luck fighting gravity
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/16 07:31 PM
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