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| 1 | Don’t want to date someone I’m not attracted to, but I disqualify myself and deem myself unworthy of the ones I am attracted to, been fighting this forever. how can I fix this?What is it about you that’s so problematic? I mean if every aspect of you life is in a completely shambles, there’s no point in dating or practicing any of this. This is a hobby, like yachting or go karting. You only do that stuff if you have your shit in order not if you’re struggling to make ends meet. | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 12:55 PM |
| 2 | Is sex in club bathrooms a thing or just something in movies?It’s real. I’ve done it | /r/seduction | 11/05/24 04:41 PM |
| 1 | After meeting a girl in person and getting their contact, do you chat for a few days before asking out or just go straight to the point?If something that small matters, you already lost. These little details are no enough to tip things one way or the other. | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 08:54 PM |
| 9 | why does it seem like the less energy a man puts into women, the better his life gets? such an enigmaI’m not sure I really buy into that. If this was true you’d never leave your apartment. Like how do these women even find out about your existence? | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 02:09 PM |
| 46 | Do women chase guys who "ignore" them?This kind of advice. Saying you should just ignore women are treat them lesser. Like Bilzerian said to look at women like they have chlamydia. That stuff doesn’t work. It’s not the answer. The answer is that women are looking for a leader. Standing in a corner and ignoring won’t do anything | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 08:42 PM |
| 0 | Will most girls ghost you if you don't make a move on your dates?That can actually be true. But when it comes to that situation where it’s time to make a move you need to go for it. It shouldn’t be an issue. You need to stop with this “inexperience lack of confidence” vibe. Don’t act like that | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 08:29 AM |
| 1 | How to escalate touch on a date?You don’t need to do that on a date | /r/seduction | 05/04/24 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Would you guys be interested in workshopping parts of game?I looked into some dating apps. They said that I got a bunch of likes or matches or whatever but you had to pay to look at any of it. It seemed like a scam. Have you personally used apps successfully recently? I did like 10 years ago but when I looked at them now, I couldn’t make much sense of it. It looks like a scam. You actually gave me a good idea about those coffee shops which is to make a map of every coffee shop in 50 miles or so, and drive around to each one, take a look if there’s anyon… | /r/seduction | 04/04/24 12:49 PM |
| 1 | How hard is it, to take 2 Women from the Club home with you?Buy some champagne and just tell people you’re having a champagne after party. | /r/seduction | 04/04/24 07:05 AM |
| 0 | Would you guys be interested in workshopping parts of game?The struggle these days isn’t with the game itself, it’s where to go to practice | /r/seduction | 03/04/24 05:46 PM |
| 2 | How hard is it, to take 2 Women from the Club home with you?I’ve done that. That’s not the hard part at all. It’s orchestrating what you actually do at home. I never really go threesomes. You only have one dick so I don’t really see how it can work out like people say. Is there a course in that or something ? I don’t get how it works. But just bringing them home is not a problem | /r/seduction | 03/04/24 04:50 PM |
| 1 | You guys need to understand that there is no magical place to meet single women.There are some exclusive clubs that have a lot of hot women. But then you need to make it like a part time job in your life to get in. | /r/seduction | 01/04/24 08:05 AM |
| 6 | What are subtle hints that a man can give to communicate he is romantically interested when going out with a woman??I think this is actually a pretty good question. I think one of the big challenges is how do you go from vibing, flirting, just running really good game with a woman where she’s complaint and clearly into you. Like how do you go from that to making plans actually hanging out one on one. It’s kind of jarring to just go from that great convo to “hey want to go out on a date?” It’s so weird that that doesn’t really work, it’s easier to get a one on one date with a complete stranger on a dating app … | /r/seduction | 31/03/24 08:13 PM |
| 0 | Where to meet singles if you don’t go to bars and clubs?Your only choice is just to meet them out and about during the day. Most women aren’t going to bars and clubs these days anyways. Rarely if ever. | /r/seduction | 31/03/24 10:07 AM |
| 1 | How DO you hit on a girl who's the center of attention?So I can maybe understand if that’s at his work. Does he actually work at the gym though ? | /r/seduction | 29/03/24 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Finding a girl who wants to grow with you?I do. But you wouldn’t be able to understand. There is levels to this game. I goes beyond just being a poor scrub hoping to get any woman’s attention, regardless of her qualities. Once you actually make something of yourself, you begin to realize that it’s you who have something to offer. The game isn’t just chasing chasing, desperately hoping to get anything you can even if you have to commit to marriage. Don’t fall for that. A major problem with this community has always been that it’s made up… | /r/seduction | 29/03/24 05:16 AM |
| 0 | How DO you hit on a girl who's the center of attention?Asking someone respectfully one time, and then if they say no, respectfully don’t bother them again. That’s not gonna get you banned unless you’re a mega-creep. | /r/seduction | 29/03/24 04:50 AM |
| -1 | Finding a girl who wants to grow with you?You can’t be seriously asking that question. Now you’re just trolling me. | /r/seduction | 27/03/24 07:22 PM |
| -1 | Finding a girl who wants to grow with you?How about the qualities that you would actually want to have in a wife. Do you really think American women in general embody that? I can get women. I’ve had 2 women propose to me in the past. But those marriages would have been a disaster. They weren’t wife material. | /r/seduction | 27/03/24 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Finding a girl who wants to grow with you?It’s not just about loyalty. | /r/seduction | 27/03/24 04:44 PM |
| 0 | Finding a girl who wants to grow with you?I know I was also looking into “passport bro” to get a woman who could actually be a wife. I’m not sure how that even works, or even if it would work. But you’re not gonna find that kind of wife material in America. If you do it’s basically winning the lottery. | /r/seduction | 27/03/24 08:20 AM |
| 5 | How to not be a “nice guy” over text (and on dates)? Don’t want to give off that vibe and be closer to a stereotypical red flag guy!You shouldn’t be texting much anyways. If there’s pages of text message, that’s your problem. Texting is only to set up the logistics of the real life meet. When they say you’re nice, it could mean a few things. It might not mean that you’re a “nice guy” just that they don’t see you sexually. Like that might have nothing to do with being nice or not. Sometimes women will also just say that as a compliment but don’t really mean it like that | /r/seduction | 27/03/24 06:11 AM |
| 0 | What’s something money buys that quickly increases SMV?I mean the obvious nice clothing. One thing that I realized recently I should have known my whole life is to have slick back hair. Almost 100% of the time slick back hair is more attractive than the hair forward style most guys have. If you just look at the 2 side by side it becomes so obviously alpha vs beta indicators. If I could go back I would only have my hair neatly slicked back, from the beginning. | /r/seduction | 26/03/24 04:46 PM |
| -4 | What's your the best advice you have regarding the dating world nowadays?If you’re in a city you should get out of there. It’s making every aspect of your life worse. Life isn’t supposed to be like that, so draining. | /r/seduction | 26/03/24 08:27 AM |
| 1 | What's your the best advice you have regarding the dating world nowadays?Apps are so convoluted now , I get the at. I used to think it was easy but I just downloaded the newer versions of the apps and it was trying to charge me money just to see other profiles. Like it wouldn’t show matches or searches nearby unless I paid ? Arranged marriages are starting to make more and more sense. Like get your mom involved she might be able to find a good husband for you who ticks the boxes. | /r/seduction | 26/03/24 08:26 AM |
| 11 | It feels like the seduction community was in its prime 10 years ago and now there are hardly any personalitiesI think everyone moved on because in the end it’s kind of a creepy and weird thing to do for a job. And you don’t want to carry that stigma on your shoulders. Make a few million, then get out and move on to less taboo things. | /r/seduction | 26/03/24 07:58 AM |
| 9 | It feels like the seduction community was in its prime 10 years ago and now there are hardly any personalities2014 it was already mostly dead and gone. It’s kind of sad what’s happened. That helped a real need in society. Like socially retarded men who just wanted to find a partner. There will always be a need for that. | /r/seduction | 26/03/24 07:56 AM |
| 1 | How DO you hit on a girl who's the center of attention?Just ask her out. | /r/seduction | 25/03/24 02:38 PM |
| 14 | I’m convinced you don’t need tight game to get laid, only confidence.Yes “Tight game” isn’t a thing. The confidence in your self is the real game | /r/seduction | 25/03/24 02:34 PM |
| 7 | Why do women need constant emotional stimulation to keep them attached?Just be good in bed and give her the gift of missing you. Don’t overcomplicate things. Also be a fun person don’t have bad vibes. Remember when you were a kid and used to be playful | /r/seduction | 24/03/24 03:17 AM |
| 2 | Womanizer vs traditional manI mean sure stay celibate and lonely. It’s more comfortable, follow the rules ! | /r/seduction | 22/03/24 08:04 AM |
| 1 | 25M and still a virgin. Need help and advice on how to lose itThere’s no such thing as texting game. The only point of texting is to plan your meet up. It’s highly likely you’re ruining a lot of chances by being cringey trying to be slick with texting. | /r/seduction | 21/03/24 07:58 AM |
| 0 | How should I (24F) initiate sex after a date?If you have to be the one to do that it’s a problem. | /r/seduction | 19/03/24 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Inner game is more important than looksImo it can be kind of overestimated in this stuff, saying that x y or z doesn’t matter that much. It all matters. It struck me the other day that 90% of the community has been made up of ppl who probably shouldn’t be there. Gurus tell you you can be fat, poor, stupid, ugly, short etc, and if you just have this one factor you can succeed. That’s just not the case. You should put in effort to improve all these areas of life. It works a lot better when you have pretty much everything already going … | /r/seduction | 19/03/24 12:13 PM |
| 1 | There is generally speaking two types of guysAlso it really depends on what kind of guy you are and your energy | /r/seduction | 13/03/24 01:07 PM |
| 1 | There is generally speaking two types of guysWhen I say “being sexual” I meant that more as an inherent quality of the guy himself. Some men exuded sexuality and always have. Others don’t and it would be weird for them to pretend they do. | /r/seduction | 13/03/24 01:06 PM |
| 23 | There is generally speaking two types of guysI get what you’re saying. Another way is that there’s 2 ways to go wrong. 1 is the friend zone guy. He is super friendly able to talk to women easily but not nearly sexual enough. That’s actually why women talk to him so easily, it’s just a vibe, they know he poses zero threat. Probably most normal men are like that. The other guy comes from the opposite direction, he is too sexual and has to always tone it down. That guy is me, like I always am holding myself back and getting myself to behave p… | /r/seduction | 12/03/24 04:50 PM |
| 0 | How to conquer the fear of escalation when not being aloneYour instincts are probably telling you the right thing. | /r/seduction | 12/03/24 04:29 PM |
| 0 | Why is it that a girl will desire you more when you’re toxic?What does toxic have to do with it | /r/seduction | 12/03/24 04:17 PM |
| 10 | How to be less intimidating to women?That’s not the reason for your problems. Just work on your game. It’s not that. Women like that. | /r/seduction | 11/03/24 12:50 PM |
| 20 | 22M. Was scared shitless to go out solo. Did it for the first time and it went goodAh ok. I just ask cause I rarely stay with a set for a long period of time. But the fact that you left them at one point is huge. That’s probably when secured it for you in the end. You give them a chance to miss you and show that you’re willing to walk. This is how I’ve also had every win almost. | /r/seduction | 09/03/24 07:05 PM |
| 24 | 22M. Was scared shitless to go out solo. Did it for the first time and it went goodWow so you basically stayed with the whole set most of the night ? | /r/seduction | 09/03/24 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Why you should focus on meeting women in person and not OLDWhat city is it? I didn’t necessarily mean that no women go out. What I meant was that the women of a particular caliber. The really beautiful women. The ones who inspired us to even get into this. And I don’t mean those who rely on plastic surgery or makeup. | /r/seduction | 09/03/24 08:38 AM |
| -1 | Why you should focus on meeting women in person and not OLDThe problem is women don’t go out like they used to. Beautiful women aren’t going to bars clubs or social events. They’re not even going to restaurants, or even the supermarket, everything is just ordered delivered to to them. | /r/seduction | 08/03/24 04:07 PM |
| 2 | What are some tips that you wish you knew earlier when it comes to dating/seduction?As men the world isn’t designed to make us comfortable. Venues that have a lot of women are designed specifically for them not for us. | /r/seduction | 06/03/24 04:46 PM |
| -3 | Women have options! So, I realised I have to do something to make them choose me, and how do I do it?If you’re cold approaching on the street make sure you’re dressed really well like business casual or even a suit. Nothing “urban” style. You need to make sure you come across as someone completely safe to talk to. It also helps to have a similarly friendly looking group with you. | /r/seduction | 06/03/24 03:03 PM |
| -1 | Answers to the "What do you do for a living ?" question“It’s too complicated for you to understand.” Often that’s actually true. | /r/seduction | 06/03/24 02:50 PM |
| 3 | What are some tips that you wish you knew earlier when it comes to dating/seduction?I think it’s about venues that it worth it to try to get into more exclusive places. I always wanted to go where I’m comfortable and I think that really held me back. For me nightclubs are torture but dealing with that discomfort is just another price you have to pay. | /r/seduction | 06/03/24 02:45 PM |
| 1 | How do people manage to have sex with someone they don't know well?You have to spend some time getting to know them and forming some kind of connection. There’s no way around it. | /r/seduction | 04/03/24 05:39 AM |
| 1 | How to properly deal with AMOGs who become physical first despite there being no justifiable reason?Wouldn’t it be awesome to be a ufc fighter. The respect you’d have | /r/seduction | 28/02/24 07:40 AM |
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