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2

Just because you're not getting laid with it doesn't mean no one is.
/r/seduction07/04/17 03:17 PM
1

If she has a bf she's a shitty person. Not worth your time. If you end up going on some dates and falling in love with each other she will do the same to you that she is doing to him. You deserve better than that.
/r/seduction06/04/17 03:34 PM
-12

Lol. This sub is a god damned joke... How the fuck does this nonsense have upvotes.
/r/seduction26/11/16 07:58 AM
3

"don't put the pussy on a pedestal."
/r/seduction25/11/16 03:35 AM
4

Move on.
/r/seduction17/10/16 06:28 AM
7

That's way more than most people in this subreddit can say! You went all out for it and that's the best way to learn. You shouldn't be mad at yourself at all, you made some mistakes but you should be happier about the success - the goal is to improve as a person and keep getting better, not fuck every girl you see. You crushed the goal. Well done!
/r/seduction15/10/16 03:58 PM
2

She was just as shallow as he was. I would feel so much worse as the girl telling my future husband "I sucked a guys dick once because he had a lambo," than being the guy and telling her, "once I got my dick sucked because I was driving my grampa's a lambo."
/r/seduction12/10/16 08:09 PM
1

Tinder.
/r/seduction12/09/16 04:08 AM
-1

Not at yours though, I'd bet nobody does.
/r/seduction12/09/16 02:22 AM
-1

Why? It's an easy way to get dates. You must just suck at it.
/r/seduction12/09/16 02:14 AM
2

Well let's see, he hid in a corner and listened to girls in a private conversation for an hour, that's not a vibe, that's just creepy itself. Second, he gets so desperate that he asks girls, probably the girls he just randomly met and got rejected by, "what's wrong with him," which is what a creepy guy would do, and a girl can just see he reeks of desperation and neediness, and that is creepy. And finally, he offers to post pics of the girls. The guy is a fucking creep.
/r/seduction09/09/16 05:13 AM
2

She said he is ugly but he obviously has no game. If he had game she would have said, "he wasn't that hot but he was cool/confident and I gave him my number/fucked him." This story is in no way definitive proof that looks matter 100%. You lack confidence and give off a creepy vibe, the girls see right through this which is why you have no success.
/r/seduction09/09/16 12:33 AM
3

You're desperate and it's shining through. Asking girls what's wrong with you? Lol, your a creepy guy and the girls pick up on that.
/r/seduction09/09/16 12:31 AM
1

Did you guys cuddle?
/r/seduction08/09/16 03:33 PM
1

The reason you only see them as an orgasm dispenser, I'm assuming, is because you don't have any friends who are girls. You don't have any girls in your life, and that's why you think of them as just something to have sex with. If you get to know girls as friends, or friends with benefits, or get a girlfriend, you'll see them as more than an orgasm dispenser, because they'll contribute something to your life. Right now, it's pretty clear from your replies that you have no girls in your life, so …
/r/seduction26/08/16 09:04 PM
2

LOL this is hilarious. Because you have never had sex girls must not like sex. It's you - not them. You're obviously doing something wrong.
/r/seduction26/08/16 08:57 PM
1

It's whatever you believe it to be. If you want to use it as an excuse to not talk to girls out of your league, or blame it for your failed opener - ya, looks matter. If you want to up your game, take control of your life, and take what you deserve - no, they don't. This topic comes up weekly, and it's always got the ugly guys on one side saying they matter, and the uglies on the other saying it doesn't. The difference between the two is that the successful ones didn't give up on all areas of se…
/r/seduction25/08/16 04:45 PM
3

What in the fuck? "Ohai I feel you appear attractive and consequently would like to explore the possibility of enhancing your life by means of exposure to my awesomeness kthxbai". At least add a 'm'lady' in there to make it believable. Is this guy playing tinder for 13 year olds? After reading that and claiming its response rate at 92% I don't believe a thing he wrote. Is he including negative responses or something? That's the only way that makes any sense. This is fucking cringe worthy.
/r/seduction31/07/16 02:34 AM
1

Debatable. By approaching many people you allow yourself to reopen the sets later for those deeper conversations. The beginning phase of the night should be to meet people who you can probe into later, in more ways than one.
/r/seduction25/07/16 12:07 AM
1

He's approaching everyone and getting rejected but he's learning and trying. When he gets it he'll be the life of the party. If he was good he would be smoothly going into all the sets and look like a known friend.
/r/seduction24/07/16 11:20 PM
3

Personally, I just kept at the game, through the rejection, through the hard times, and kept adjusting and tweaking my game until it started to work. I also did the whole "fake it til you make it" confidence thing. It worked great for me. Whenever you get cynical and feel angry or resentful towards the girls or other guys with respect to the hotness thing push those thoughts out of your head. Stop with the negativity, and focus on the positives. Be happy and get excited about the small victories…
/r/seduction23/07/16 05:21 PM
1

Drop the insecurity dude. You are enough.
/r/seduction23/07/16 03:59 AM
3

Then meet people playing real life tinder, you know, meeting them irl. Your numbers will be more solid and you can do instant dates. Your insecurity is showing and I've read two comments of yours, now imagine how it shines through in your tinder conversations...
/r/seduction23/07/16 03:57 AM
2

It's because most people don't actually practice anything here and just read about it. They pretend they know what they're doing. I bet over 90% of subscribers don't actually game.
/r/seduction21/07/16 01:07 AM
3

It's a rare thing when someone on r/seduction doesn't get all butt hurt when receiving a bit of criticism. It stops me from posting a lot because getting in fights with people who know nothing yet claim to be slaying 10s daily is so annoying. Anyway, glad you're not a dumbass. Happy hunting!
/r/seduction17/07/16 05:18 PM
15

Lots of good advice here, but I disagree with letting her contact you after the date. Maybe give it some time, but if she doesn't contact you for whatever reason and you don't try you could easily be missing out. If she decided she doesn't care enough to do another date (not that she doesn't like you, just indifferent) and you don't contact her then you will never get her. If you do contact her you can still have a chance. Slightly related example: I texted a girl from tinder after I got her num…
/r/seduction17/07/16 07:55 AM
7

Just talking to girls is a win! You probably weren't talking to girls on the regular before, but look at you now! Keep going and you will eventually get to a kiss or a number, and then eventually a hook up. Every step is a win. It's improving you as a person to just put yourself out there and you should be proud of that. If you only take sex as a win you're setting the bar too high. If you take the smallest victory and be proud of it you will come off as a happier, more confident person, and tha…
/r/seduction16/07/16 07:22 PM
5

I honestly don't know. I'll try to think of something. I'll get back to you.
/r/seduction15/07/16 09:28 PM
2

Cute works, that's why we use it. Hot can come off as too aggressive, same with sexy. Ya, compliment her style, that works too. As for number, just ask. It gets easier with time, like every other aspect of this game. That way you aren't putting the power to text you in her hands. I always say, "you seem fun/cool, we should hang out again. What's your number?"
/r/seduction15/07/16 04:09 PM
6

Hi, I'm Al. You looked cute so I had to come talk to you. What's your name?
/r/seduction15/07/16 07:42 AM
4

She's curving you. Move on to the next one.
/r/seduction15/07/16 07:33 AM
-1

A ring means almost nothing.
/r/seduction13/07/16 05:50 PM
4

Same way you did it in your old school. Basically you're asking for the whole game to be explained to you in a thread. Do some research and read/watch videos. This whole subreddit was made to answer the question you just asked. How about you look through it and read some articles. There's confidence, lines, conversation topics, how to communicate, how to read their body language, hours and hours of material to look through. Put in some effort rather than expecting a comment to give you the game.
/r/seduction13/07/16 07:12 AM
4

What do you think you could have done to improve the outcome? What would you do differently next time? What would you do the same? Analyze how it went so you know what you can do better next time!
/r/seduction13/07/16 07:10 AM
4

20+ body count probably came about 1 year after starting? But don't compare yourself to others, some can do it faster, some slower. Body count isn't everything, anyway. You could pick up the girl of your dreams (if that's what you're looking for) the very first girl you have success with. Started 10 years ago at 18, have been on and off as girlfriends came (lol) and went. Started with reading the game and branching out from there (mystery method, pua Casanova, rsd) I have not perfected it, as it…
/r/seduction09/07/16 06:01 PM
2

You just said exactly what I said... It's not robotic once you understand it, it flows naturally. I don't think about it anymore, it's just how I speak. Sorry for remembering how I word things and how I speak. I'm trying to help people become natural and get them to flow too, I'm telling them how to get there, not just saying "be yourself" like the people downvoting me. You are useless in this sub if all you're doing is telling people they're wrong then saying "I don't even know what I say, I ju…
/r/seduction08/07/16 08:33 PM
0

K
/r/seduction08/07/16 06:44 PM
1

Rsd julien is pretty aggressive. Grabs hands and backs, pulls in, pushes, kisses. I'm a huge advocate for him.
/r/seduction08/07/16 06:42 PM
1

Finding what works for you was seeing which style I liked before I learned it. I like the cocky funny style of Julien because it's how I naturally am. It seems you just got lucky with that one girl that you approached, so I wouldn't keep thinking that opener works if it's been an instant rejection every other time. And ya, plow through the opener and get over it so you're not reaction seeking. You're doing the intro for yourself, not her. I'd say hey I'm Alex/Al/Alexander (depends what I feel li…
/r/seduction08/07/16 05:55 PM
1

There are so many different puas and they all have their own style, so ya, look them up and see which one you can relate to and watch their videos. See what material they have to offer and how you can learn from them. Start on YouTube watching a few different people and then go in the suggested videos and click on different puas until you find one you like and then watch all their stuff. Make sure you actually practise what you learn or it's all useless. Practise is the most important part becau…
/r/seduction08/07/16 05:36 PM
2

It's not robotic when you understand it... it's just forming your sentences slightly differently than normal. Instead of saying "I want to grab a drink with you this week," it's "we should grab a drink tomorrow." Your saying "we" which makes you two something together, and she will think of it more as something she also wants to do rather than just you. And putting a date on it makes you higher value while also getting the answer right away, rather than more texts saying "hmm I'm busy this week …
/r/seduction08/07/16 05:30 PM
1

If you think chemistry is a thing you can't form with most women on tinder (or in real life) then you're missing out on a lot of women. But hey, do your thing.
/r/seduction08/07/16 05:26 PM
1

You can be yourself and word conversations properly. I have a life so it's not being a robot when I'm not constantly free.
/r/seduction08/07/16 05:18 PM
1

Exactly, there are so many different styles of pick up you have to find the one that works for you. I'm in Canada and direct game works well here. Usually I'll just walk up and introduce myself and compliment her like "you look so cute in that dress I had to come talk to you" and before she reacts you get into a conversation so you're not seeking a reaction from her, you're assuming she's interested and wants you.
/r/seduction08/07/16 05:16 PM
1

No, I can't get any girl I want. I can get lots of real numbers and make outs every night with maybe a pull home 25% of the time. I introduce myself, ask them a few questions, take them on a conversation roller coaster, escalate kino, bounce them around the bar. Laser eye contact is a must. Be confident.
/r/seduction08/07/16 09:00 AM
1

I got rejected all the time at the start. It's because you're not good yet. You need to try different things, tones, inflections, body language, etc until you get it right. Don't give up or you'll never get good.
/r/seduction08/07/16 08:44 AM
1

You've got your game I've got mine. Do your thing.
/r/seduction08/07/16 08:42 AM
1

I'm trying to help people out here, and you're just bringing people down with your bullshit about how looks are everything. Every pua always says looks don't matter that much. Get it through your self doubting head and gain some confidence.
/r/seduction08/07/16 08:28 AM
1

Look up rsd Tyler then come back here and tell me what you think he is out of 10. Dude is like 40, chubby, ginger, high pitch voice. Neil Strauss is another great example. Mystery was lanky as hell. That brown British pick up guy sure as hell isn't good looking. Obviously a grandpa will have a hard time with 18 year olds, but you're not that old. You can blame your looks or you can keep trying until you learn.
/r/seduction08/07/16 08:25 AM
2

Is that why you're always complaining on here about how game is all about looks and not what you say? I totally believe you.
/r/seduction08/07/16 08:20 AM
3

Different strokes for different folks, chief. Saying what you want and not caring about their reaction is high value and self amusing, straight off of the internet. It's direct game.
/r/seduction08/07/16 08:18 AM
0

Whatever you want to believe, man. Rsd Tyler looks like a little troll with a high pitch voice, girls think he's hot because of what how he does his thing, not his looks. But keep that attitude up, it's definitely getting you laid!
/r/seduction08/07/16 08:14 AM
1

You clearly don't know what you're doing if you're blaming your lack of looks for failed game.
/r/seduction08/07/16 07:35 AM
5

No. They already matched, she already said, "he's hot enough." She bailed because he couldn't keep her interested or get to the number properly.
/r/seduction08/07/16 07:33 AM
-5

It's robotic until you get good, and then it's just part of you and flows easily and naturally.
/r/seduction08/07/16 07:31 AM
0

Getting a relationship doesn't require it, getting a smoking hot girl back to your place successfully 9/10 times does.
/r/seduction08/07/16 07:30 AM
0

Prequel: this is long, but hopefully worth your time. It's also written on mobile so may have typos. Since I started so long ago my path may be different than the one you choose. I started by reading "The Game" by Neil Strauss. It doesn't teach you much if anything, but it's a good fun read and will get you pumped to learn. I then read about the mystery method and took notes. I eventually torrented (don't tell the FBI) mystery's Magnum opus, which is a bunch of in class video that people who did…
/r/seduction08/07/16 07:22 AM
7

If someone finds you on tinder or on POF that means they have it too. Your other option is taking to them in real life.
/r/seduction08/07/16 05:11 AM
2

I'm a systemic creep because I'm honest to women and don't lead them on just to get laid? Or because I learned how to pick up women through books and videos? Lol give me a break.
/r/seduction08/07/16 04:32 AM
7

Getting laid is a lot different than hanging out with someone to the point where one of them feels they're in a relationship, and the other just saying whatever they need to in order to string them along. In my experience every good pua is honest, and tells the girl they're not looking for more than a hook-up if they ask, "what are we?" (Unless they are looking for more or seeing where it could go) Always remember to leave the girl better off than when you met her. So ya, this is a lot different…
/r/seduction08/07/16 04:23 AM
-20

It does matter, and if you think it doesn't then that's clearly why they're bailing on you. If you ask her to chill and say "I'm free all week," that doesn't convey high value, it shows you either have no life or are willing to drop any of your plans for her. But hey, don't take my advice, more girls for me. Edit: and obviously the bail is not just rooted to that question, but you need to take a look at how you're phrasing everything in order to see why she bailed. Edit 2: you guys are hilarious…
/r/seduction08/07/16 04:00 AM
21

This week? Don't let her know you're free all week, don't make it seem like you're the one who wants to chill. Say "we should get together for a drink. I'm free Wednesday or Friday."
/r/seduction08/07/16 03:45 AM
5

Did she put out? If he was that attached to her and she wasn't putting out then he's an idiot. If she was putting out to get what she wants then she's a psychopath.
/r/seduction08/07/16 03:03 AM
1

Someone needs to hire an editor.
/r/seduction20/06/16 04:45 PM
1

Just marry her. She sounds perfect.
/r/seduction30/05/16 02:26 PM
0

relevant
/r/seduction28/05/16 09:16 PM
-2

How the fuck is this getting upvotes?! Where are the mods?
/r/seduction24/05/16 09:43 PM
1

Laser eye contact, touching, hand holding, kissing, neck biting, hair pulling...
/r/seduction03/05/16 07:46 AM
3

You have all these videos, but have you put any of it to work? Maybe you have, but if you haven't then there's something you're not getting from their videos - you can learn all you want on a computer, but you'll never get good if you don't get out there. Anyway, on topic - there's a lot of stuff online for free, like the youtube stuff, but I noticed all of it (and more) was in pimp, which is the only one I own. A lot of the stuff from pimp is easily accessible online, but pimp is just nicely pu…
/r/seduction02/05/16 11:20 PM
1

If you're a quiet guy with no balls it comes off as low confidence. Your success rate will be lower and you will get less women.
/r/seduction27/04/16 01:50 PM
12

It's coffee dude. It's not like you invited her to your bedroom. It means nothing to a girl to grab a coffee.
/r/seduction27/04/16 04:04 AM
8

You sure did, definitely a win. As long as you know that asking in person would have been better and you'll try to next time that's all that matters. Just make sure you have the balls to escalate on her, or else you're for sure in the friend zone, if you aren't already.
/r/seduction27/04/16 03:28 AM
80

Well done, but you took the easy way out by going the facebook route. Not easy as in it usually works (if you're a quiet guy in class she may not even know you exist and wonder who is trying to add her), easy as in you didn't have to muster up any balls to do it. Don't count on that technique because most gorgeous girls you see you wont be able to find on facebook because you don't know their names. Keep us updated, though!
/r/seduction26/04/16 05:39 PM
9

There ain't, though.
/r/seduction25/04/16 05:07 PM
26

TL:DR: "I’m not looking for anything serious right now. Don’t get me wrong, I think you’re awesome and I like hanging out with you, I just really enjoy my freedom."
/r/seduction25/04/16 02:51 PM
7

Look at this kid's comment history and tell me he isn't trolling. That or he hasn't bothered learning even the most basic things. Mods delete this trash.
/r/seduction20/04/16 05:21 AM
1

Yep, that's it buddy. Now go out there and get yourself a 10!
/r/seduction20/04/16 05:15 AM
1

Read some basic seduction material.
/r/seduction20/04/16 05:01 AM
2

Ya, that's exactly what you wrote the first time. Are you trolling? The world doesn't give a shit about you. Do what you want. If you want to be confident then do it. I don't give a fuck if you are or not. The girls like it, so if you want girls then yes, do it. Edit: I already know the downvotes are coming but I don't give a fuck. I guarantee this kid is 13 and hasn't read anything from the side bar. Where are the mods to delete this thrash? And I know you're all thinking the same thing.
/r/seduction20/04/16 04:55 AM
1

Are you 8? What the hell are you talking about? Take the advice you are given and stop pretending to be deep.
/r/seduction20/04/16 04:52 AM
1

Read the sidebar.
/r/seduction20/04/16 04:51 AM
23

Whatever you have to tell yourself to discredit his skills, man. This guy deserves respect, he killed it, camera or not.
/r/seduction07/04/16 08:50 PM
2

Letters are a horrible idea, unless she's already super into you. If you can write her a letter like you described in the OP and she would react in that way then you should already be dating her. There is no way a girl that you haven't quite won over is going to decide she likes you over that letter. It's a chump move, shows you care way too much, and is going to push her away because she has you wrapped around her finger. If she's going to have a rough day and you want her to know you care just…
/r/seduction05/04/16 10:54 PM
1

It actually feels good after the initial rush of frustration. How is there a rush of frustration if you're trying to get rejected?
/r/seduction31/03/16 05:19 PM
3

So why did you read past number one?
/r/seduction30/03/16 12:20 AM
20

This guy is a total badass. /s Edit: Sorry, forgot to add the sarcasm.
/r/seduction10/03/16 05:41 PM
15

Smiling and laughing before a fight is THE BEST way to avoid a fight. What kind of nut gets that excited and happy to fight? A guy who loves fighting, that's who.
/r/seduction02/02/16 06:17 AM
6

We need more info. How can we tell you what you're doing wrong if you don't tell us how the date goes and what it consisted of?
/r/seduction01/02/16 10:47 PM
3

It could be a test! Maybe you can overcome it. It's worth a try, I mean sure you may end up looking like a bitch and "losing" the argument, but you're never going to meet this chick by chewing her out. Give her some shit back, maybe she's in to that.
/r/seduction31/01/16 06:57 PM
5

It's a lie. I'm 27 and match all age ranges, right down to 18. Don't let it get to you. PS, once I met up with a girl whose age range was 25-33. Why did she choose those numbers? "Anyone below 25 doesn't know what they want," But here's the good one, "33 was when Jesus died, and that's when he was in his prime!" Christ almighty when she said that I promptly got out of there and never spoke to her again.... Ok maybe I got her to blow me, then never spoke to her again.
/r/seduction31/01/16 06:05 PM
-1

Lazy? You sit there and watch two hours of free material. It's a video, you don't even have to read it. Literally zero effort required. This is why you'll never be good at game, you aren't putting in even the slightest amount of effort.
/r/seduction30/01/16 07:11 PM
7

Lol. Don't open girls walking down the street, they have places to be. Don't open girls at a book store, they're busy finding books. Don't open girls at the bar, they're there to dance. Stick to tinder where they are looking for guys. /s
/r/seduction30/01/16 09:00 AM
6

Agreed. 😂😜👋✌😇😇
/r/seduction29/01/16 11:16 PM
1

That's quite the long write up for those shitty openers. And way too many emojis unless you're 15 years old.
/r/seduction29/01/16 11:16 PM
2

Memes are close to one of the dumbest thing you could possibly post on a picture to make yourself seem funny/cool/interesting. Unless you're in grade 7.
/r/seduction28/01/16 07:04 AM
2

You've got nothing to lose... She sure as hell isn't going to reply now, so there's no harm in trying again.
/r/seduction27/01/16 08:43 AM
2

How has nobody said that mystery invented this?
/r/seduction05/03/12 05:22 PM
20

Who is gonna xpost this to pics? It applies to everything!
/r/seduction01/03/12 02:39 PM
3

These people need to be spoon fed it seems!
/r/seduction14/02/12 05:00 PM
1

Should you be so willing to immediately fuck every woman that shows interest? She is saying she would fuck him if he was younger...that's more than interest, that's clear cut "I want to fuck if you want to fuck". Too many guys here have that problem--they think that sleeping with every woman they can will make their life better, as if the mere number of women you've slept with equates with happiness I definitely didn't say anything about fucking every girl that you can will make you happy. I per…
/r/seduction14/01/12 06:55 AM
1

I meant more of a direct like "I'm sure we could work something out." As opposed to "OK let's fuck" or some teasing crap. There are some old schoolers who still go your way, and others who go direct like the new age. They both work...just one works even faster.
/r/seduction13/01/12 06:34 PM
6

Funny joke, but why would you neg her when she obviously would fuck? u could be direct then.
/r/seduction13/01/12 04:06 AM
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