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alderheart/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 09:10 AM
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Enthusiastic consent is about protecting men who are not too sure about what consent entails.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/16 01:55 AM
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IDK; most women I know would feel awkward about being paid for. It would be like him showing up in a suit of armour on the back of a horse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 03:40 AM
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It takes much more strength than I - a 5ft 2 in, 110lb woman - have.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 03:23 AM
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It means we're looking for someone who prefers cards nights and dinner parties to video games and nightclubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 02:39 AM
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How many men aren't strong enough to start a lawnmower?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 11:40 PM
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Or you have a humiliation kink.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 11:39 PM
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When I couldn't start the lawnmower yesterday and had to ask my husband to start if for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 10:27 PM
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If you can't handle constructive criticism, that's your problem. Now take the log out of your eye and go hit the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 11:32 AM
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My source is common sense and experience. What do you have to say I'm incorrect?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 10:11 AM
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I pretend that I can't speak English and they lose interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 05:11 AM
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The biggest "slut" I know, in terms of being sexually active and busy with multiple partners is my 70 something year old neighbour. I doubt she cares about what angry boys on the internet think about her lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 01:28 AM
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1 and wear a burqua.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 01:22 AM
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I'm a Christian, and I believe in good and evil. Jesus is good. Westboro Bsptists are evil pretending to be good. My morality stems from the Golden Rule: Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. I believe what I believe because it makes sense. Free will is a pipe dream of underemployed academics. RP is like "Heck's Angels": they think they're evil, but they're just grotty and badly behaved. Justice is Humans trying to justify retribution. I try to be moral. I'm only human, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 11:33 PM
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I'm pro choice/anti abortion (I don't like them, but I don't think forced birthing is good for anyone), and your argument makes no sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 11:16 PM
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He's not a real men if he doesn't have hair on his chest.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 11:10 PM
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Champagne tastes on a beer smv.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 11:07 PM
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This is why my husband has a shed.
/r/RedPillWives16/09/16 11:06 PM
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My grandfather used to say this!
/r/RedPillWives16/09/16 10:59 PM
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I literally don't know a single man who hasn't visited a pro. It's just like a woman getting a mani/pedi.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 10:57 PM
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28 White, of English decent. Suburban Sydney, Australia. Married Bought up in a quiver full closed community similar to Exclusive Brethren. I converted to Catholicism for my husband. Middle class and middle class. No formal education (home schooled through the church community).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 10:53 PM
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It depends on how badly they want to retain him, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 12:53 PM
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A woman chaperone is no problem. I insist on one when I see my dr for a pap smear.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 12:45 PM
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CNN is never biased? It's car crash infotainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 12:03 PM
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Drunks are depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 12:02 PM
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Stupidity isn't a felony. Raping a sleeping person is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 12:01 PM
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If she's stupid, what's stopping a chaperone from exploiting that? My brothers did some really awful things to me when they were charged with chaperoning me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 12:01 PM
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Does she choose, though? For all we know he was a family friend and she had to make nice with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 10:05 AM
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Different women like different things. I don't like sex, and I would rather eat toenail clippings than have a ONS; whereas my boss can orgasm very easily, is a swinger in an open relationship and has had sex with more people than she's been able to keep count of.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 09:55 AM
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I choose? I don't drink, take drugs or allow myself to be alone with a man who isn't my husband. She made bad decisions. She may have mental health or cognitive issues. She may just be dumb. She doesn't deserve to be raped for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 09:45 AM
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Raping an idiot is still rape. He still chose (allegedly) to rape her. She didn't choose to be an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 09:33 AM
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Maybe she wasn't very good at making good choices. Does that give him the green light to commit a criminal offence?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 09:15 AM
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Ex bulimics often do. Fits with her feeling worthless enough yo hang around him after he hurt her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 08:25 AM
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Drunken people can be roused, then slip back into unconsciousness. I used to shake my father awake when he was drunk so that he'd stumble to the toilet instead of pissing himself. He would pass out again once he'd finished missing the toilet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 08:23 AM
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Yes. And both parents should get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 08:14 AM
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My ex husband is an mra, which is basically the same thing. I would rather join a nunnery than date another one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 08:09 AM
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That he's a grump and no fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 07:28 AM
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Some men can be smelled from across the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 07:28 AM
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Yes. And didn't go to the restaurant with them. She then drove them back to the party and went to sleep. She was asleep. A sleeping person can't consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 07:28 AM
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Wasn't she given Xanax on the first occasion?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 07:26 AM
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And didn't enter the restaurant. She fell asleep in her car instead. Then she woke up with a penis up her bum. Sleeping people can't give consent. The fact that she was with him as well as other people may have made her feel safer than she was.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 07:18 AM
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Funny how it's written in a way as to obscure that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 07:07 AM
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A smirk? I would be wondering if he'd just farted.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 05:50 AM
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Think young Jon Bon Jovi or Tom Cruise for the kind of 10000 watt smiles that attract a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 05:49 AM
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Other way around. The second rape was when she stayed in her car instead of attending the party, and he found her asleep and jumped her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 05:47 AM
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He sounds awful. To be asleep in your car and wake up to a penis up your backside is bad enough; but the dude had already drugged and raped her previously? Lovely "mates" of his, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 05:44 AM
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I had a c section. I needed someone to lift baby for me, pick up anything that hit the floor, make beds, carry the washing basket and groceries, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 05:39 AM
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You would be surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 05:15 AM
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It depends on how badly they want to retain a trained, loyal employee.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 04:17 AM
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To bond with the baby. Babies who lack a secure attachment to a primary caregiver don't have very good outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 04:10 AM
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My second son was a c section. I couldn't lift anything without tearing stitches for weeks. I wasn't insured to drive for 2 months. I needed him there to help me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 03:13 AM
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Neither is an adoptive or foster mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 03:05 AM
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Yes. Dad needs to bond with baby too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 02:23 AM
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Works for me. Right now he's dusting underneath my couch while I express milk for his grandma to feed him while I take my husband to a birthday surprise trip to the rodeo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 02:23 AM
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My sister in law is a card carrying feminist, and her 14yo daughter is the biggest goody two shoes you can imagine. Think volunteers for meals on wheels and runs the high school book club well behaved.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 02:17 AM
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My husband was taught "if you wouldn't put her behind the wheel, don't put her on your dick". Works for him...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 01:59 AM
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My husband found Mens Health very helpful when he was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 01:50 AM
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Because there is no sensible centre?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 01:44 AM
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I'm saying that whatever a mother does, she'll be doing the wrong thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 10:46 PM
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These ones are former flower children, and grow their own pot and have parties with other elderly nudists. I really have to move house.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 11:26 AM
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Not fuck off and go away. Just find a productive way of working through their anger. Wallowing in it just makes it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 11:10 AM
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Isn't it about breastfeeding?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 11:08 AM
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I live next door to nudists in their 70s.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 11:08 AM
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Most of the trp members don't seem to be, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 10:12 AM
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Wow. So many assumptions. Firstly - I'm not a feminist. I don't believe in committing to a singular ideology. Secondly - have you ever read The Second Sex? It's pretty heavy going. I doubt you have made it past the first three pages. Germaine Greer is alive - how much influence do you think she has now, compared to in her heyday? De Bouvier is an historically significant thinker. Historically.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 10:07 AM
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And Adam Smith wrote the original fiscal conservative blueprint. How many libertarians have read Wealth of Nations? How many progressives have read Das Kapital? How many Stormfronters have read Mein Kamph? How many punks still listen to The Clash or The Sex Pistols?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 09:35 AM
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He's trying to punch above his weight, or he needs better deodorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 07:30 AM
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Never been there
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 07:29 AM
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I have consciously decided to stay at home with my younger son. TRP considers me to be a leech on my husband's resources. When I decided to return to work after my oldest reached 6 months, TRP opined that I was a manjawed career bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 05:29 AM
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Could you take time off to care for your children if you had children? It's brilliant that workplaces are catching on that men are parents, too. My husband wasn't even allowed time off to care for his father on his deathbed, as his boss considered that "womens work, and he had sisters".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 03:45 AM
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Don't care; got sex is the position on this iirc
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 03:35 AM
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So they take time off for school holidays? When their kid is sick? Maybe the children's mother hasn't got unlimited leave from her job.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 02:17 AM
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So maybe you should stop caring until you can handle your anger?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 01:34 AM
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Influenced in very different to synonymous with or the central ideology. I mean, Roosh V influenced TRP, but are his ideas the only ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 01:33 AM
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The ones on here certainly seem to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 01:06 AM
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All straight men hate women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 12:54 AM
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Where can you back up that men are caring for children and sacrificing their earning potential in the sane way that women are? Now, I'm not a feminist (you need to be an activist, and I'm no one's activist), but I've never come across the "daddy tracking" of careers, fatherhood impacting on superannuation and employment security and the "dadtrapeneur" being self employed because of family unfriendly workplaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 12:46 AM
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I'm shocked about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 12:42 AM
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Wasn't she 1st wave? I thought Dworkin et al were the 1970s.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 12:42 AM
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I don't want to date a man who hates me for being a woman. That would be awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 11:02 PM
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You don't get the "breed before your fertility crashes" message where you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 10:59 PM
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Yes; this is what happens when a pendulum swings. We get a new kind of extremist. Not many of us want to live on the cutting edge though, do we?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 10:58 PM
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In 1949, we still had steam trains and rationing. Are those still relevant to modern engineering and home economics?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 10:56 PM
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Australia, Christian, two sons.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 10:54 PM
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That high a percentage of men are sole or majority carers? That sounds fishy to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 11:20 AM
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Is being able to divorce an abusive husband a bad thing? Julia Gillard was the Australian prime minister a few years ago, and a great deal of political mileage was made out of her being in a de facto relationship, and being childless by choice. The "old maid" stigma is well and truly alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 11:17 AM
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I thought that period of feminism was more about agitating for women to stand up and claim their right; something that was much easier done from the workplace than the kitchen sink.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 11:11 AM
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And who does the lion's share of nose wiping, vomit cleaning, nappy changing, milk feeding, solids feeding, dressing, bathing, healthcare appointments, booboo kissing, preschool fundraising, school reader helping, tuckshop duty, sports team fundraising, bedtime story reading, tricycle chasing and pram pushing?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 11:09 AM
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They're no longer preaching of Eve causing Adam's downfall? Wow...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 10:53 AM
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So you didn't cover original sin? Eve being the cause of casting out from the garden of Eden? All women being tainted with Eve's sinful nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 10:51 AM
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Is Jim Bob Duggar strong, or a bully?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 10:45 AM
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They have mothers and grandmothers. They read Austen, Thackery and Bronte. They live in a political climate where a woman who is barren is derided.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 10:41 AM
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It's kind of a big deal to go through 40 weeks of pregnancy, several hours of labour, months of recovery, and years of high dependency caring. All a dude has to do is shoot his load and shoot through.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 10:38 AM
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Didn't she write that about 50 years ago? As in, when it was ideologically important to show that women could do more than breed and clean?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 10:35 AM
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That depends if she can prove that she wasn't bullied or threatened into undergoing the procedure against her will. My ex beat his current wife so badly that she miscarried when she wouldn't agree to amniocentesis for a paternity test. Arseholes exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 10:24 AM
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Necessity is the mother of invention.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 09:39 AM
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Look at all the pretty women getting free drinks and favours from horny men with no filter between their brain and their nob.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 08:44 AM
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Women are taught to not hit per se. It's rough and unladylike.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 08:36 AM
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Only since we have been able to control our own fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 08:29 AM
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This. Sex with my first husband was about me doing my duty. If he hadn't have cheated on me in such a brazen way, I would still be doing it. Bizarrely, I find my second husband very attractive, but sex is still a duty rather than a pleasure due to my religious upbringing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 08:28 AM
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If only behaviour and attitudes of men had not created the need for women to rise up...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 08:19 AM
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No. I was home schooled, and then into an arranged marriage at 18. Wanting a career is like crying for the moon.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 08:01 AM
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Sex as being enjoyable for women is a very modern and contentious phenomenon. Many of us are still brought up to consider it a chore, a duty and to enjoy it as sinful.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 07:41 AM
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So they were stoic and endured it. And then invented feminism so that they had options other than brood mare and milk bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 07:34 AM
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I tore from anus to urethra. How is that doing my favourite thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 07:32 AM
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It's self protection. We know that men are bigger and stronger, and need to protect ourselves from harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 05:03 AM
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I think it's funny. There's nothing like a good parody.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 10:19 AM
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If it bothers you, why do you read it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 10:13 AM
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Only the pretty ones and their mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 09:18 AM
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They never read instructions or ask for directions. They think they're God's gift to women. They think they're excellent drivers. They assume they can fix or repair anything. They think they're the most talented person in the room. They think they were cheated if someone else gets that promotion. The older they get, the better they say they were in their prime.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 09:16 AM
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Wow, those rpw have really got under your skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 07:35 AM
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You can't put toothpaste back in the tube.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 05:17 AM
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These women - and men - really aren't bothered by what society needs. They are interested in what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 03:41 AM
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Society is changing. Libertarianism is catching hold, and this is part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 01:12 AM
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I thought an "alpha man" would be a lion tamer, or a cowboy or a freedom fighter - something physical and dangerous. Smart guys are too smart to want to be alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/16 11:09 AM
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You're assuming that the fun will end. Living out your twilight years in luxury sounds pretty good to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/16 10:54 AM
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According to your solipsism.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 12:07 PM
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What a brat. If he's such a "kid", then I hope his parents ground him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 08:21 AM
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I'm sure they're crying into their Jimmy Choo's at the prospect of missing the opportunity to ruin their figures and their careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 08:20 AM
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Obviously they do, though. Otherwise they would be condemning themselves to the drudgery and social and economic obsolescence of motherhood. If you want people to breed, you need to make parenthood an attractive prospect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 04:49 AM
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Obviously it matters to them. Why should they stick their necks out, only to have them wrung?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 04:31 AM
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Take a look at the SAHM thread. Would you want to sign up for people thinking that about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 02:31 AM
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Dp
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 12:09 AM
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Weren't a lot of people in 9/11 on the lower floors killed because they froze in panic?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 12:09 AM
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It seems much better as a guideline than as a law.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 11:27 PM
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How would it be policed in the general public? A closed community like a school or college is a very different environment to the wider world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 11:13 PM
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Ok. For some reason I thought college was for 16 and up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 11:10 PM
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None if my Japanese workmates want to have children. They know how society views mothers as "moo cows" who are no longer capable of anything other than housework and nose wiping.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 11:09 PM
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Those are reserved for people in psychotic states, not people who are timid about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 11:03 PM
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Lots of people? Or just girls on tumblr?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 11:01 PM
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Yes. They're called schools. Which is where these "laws" apply.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 11:00 PM
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Thank you, but he seems to have taken the hint.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 10:59 PM
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That tinfoil hat territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 10:59 PM
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I don't think that all adults are very "adult". Doesn't this law apply to schools?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 10:58 PM
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Can't you ride a bike? You complain like a child about your commute, but are unwilling to be proactive about changing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 10:57 PM
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Yes they do. Is that something you want to play chicken with, though? Legally, there is no such thing as affirmative consent. Ethically, I don't want to leave someone feeling violated.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 11:53 AM
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I don't think that we have the right to assume that. It would be nice if we could, but it's not realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 11:48 AM
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I live near a nunnery. Some of those ladies are pushing 90.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 11:38 AM
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Of course it's not fair. Neither is non disclosure of an std. Half of the population have below average intelligence, and some people are just flakes. You need to protect yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 11:36 AM
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Oh, I completely agree. How do you know that the person you climb into bed with isn't going to panic, though? You can't tell that they have ptsd, Catholic guilt or are a nervous virgin from watching them on the dance floor, or a shouted conversation in the nightclub.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 11:27 AM
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In an ideal world, yes. In the real world, we need to accept that not everyone is competent or reliable, and to proceed with caution. I would feel awful if I just pushed on, and found out later that the other person had had a bad time, but hadn't felt able to speak up about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 10:53 AM
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The first time I achieved orgasm, I totally froze up. I am forever grateful to my husband for checking and reassuring me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 10:13 AM
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I would set him up on a double date and my husband and I would watch how he does it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 10:06 AM
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Why are you calling me sweetheart? It's very patronising, and speaks poorly of your character. Please stop sending me PM's, too. I apologise that you found my answers unsatisfactory, but as a non lawyer, I have told you what I think is considerate. You will need to ask elsewhere for a legal explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 07:22 AM
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Then why are you badgering me?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 06:47 AM
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My opinion is that you should seek professional advice, as your anxiety seems to be out of control.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 06:45 AM
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Oh dear. I don't think that anything I say can help you, as you are obviously very anxious about this "law". May I suggest /r/legal ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 06:43 AM
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I'm sorry that you're getting that impression. Do you always struggle with the concept of Communication. /u/atlas_b_shruggin has given a legal perspective upthread. If that is still not enough; maybe you should ask in the legal advice sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 06:40 AM
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I'm sorry that you're getting that impression. Do you always struggle with the concept of Communication. /u/atlas_b_shruggin has given a legal perspective upthread. If that is still not enough; maybe you should ask in the legal advice sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 06:39 AM
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That's right.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 04:44 AM
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I'm sorry, but I really don't understand what you are asking me to answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 04:44 AM
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Men are not mind readers. This is why they need to speak with the person who they are having sex with and make sure that they are still ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 04:43 AM
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Do you buy a train ticket when you know there are no inspectors on the train?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 04:42 AM
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I wouldn't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 04:41 AM
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So why do you not take the tube? Or walk?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 04:08 AM
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Please do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 04:04 AM
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I don't. I'm just asking the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 12:22 AM
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Look them up. They are great.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 12:16 AM
1

Should a man be proactive in protecting himself from this, though? Just as a girl carries pepper spray?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 12:15 AM
1

Of course I like affirmative consent. I like men to be able to protect themselves from accidently causing harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 12:04 AM
1

Have you? Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 12:03 AM
1

I don't want to regulate the bedroom. I do think that people should be considerate of each other. If that is a struggle for someone, then perhaps they should look to themselves, before they look to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 11:57 PM
1

He wakes at 7, and I have breakfast and a prepared lunch for him. He leaves at 8 and arrives at his office at 8.30. Why do you work so far from home?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 11:53 PM
1

Oh, I agree. It would be much easier for a bigger man to hurt a smaller woman, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 11:45 PM
1

So why should a church reject the latter, but embrace the former?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 11:44 PM
1

Exactly. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 11:43 PM
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I would expect both lovers to engage in a dialogue, as a new lover may not move at the same pace as you. You want both of you to enjoy yourselves, don't you? You might be experienced and confident, but are they? As a non lawyer, I can't tell you about what will or won't stand up in court. I imagine that seeking regular, enthusiastic confirmation of consent will lessen your chances of ending up causing damage and finding yourself on the wrong side of the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 11:59 AM
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Downs is picked up in CVS and scans these days, and abortion is legal when the fetus has a trisomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 11:31 AM
2

Affirmative consent is really just making sure that you're both still on the same page, and both still enjoying yourselves. How awful would it be if she changed her mind, but was too frightened or shy to tell you? Or if you started to feel sick, but were too embarrassed to ask her to stop? There's nothing wrong with being considerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 11:29 AM
1

Because that is what I have seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 10:00 AM
1

That makes me really sad. Why do some men want to hurt women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 09:59 AM
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I don't think that there are any hard and fast rules, and you never know where life will take you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 09:42 AM
1

In my experience, an ugly man who smells bad is in a worse place than an ugly man who smells nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 09:36 AM
3

Is he being perfectly reasonable, though? Or does he just want someone who is easier to hurt? How is a girl supposed to tell, if she has no experience to draw on?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 09:35 AM
1

Do girls like that really exist? Some older friends of mine say this about their husbands; but it means that she cares for him all the time, but expects him to care for her when she is unwell.
/r/RedPillWives20/08/16 09:20 AM
1

No. I said that work does not mean only paid work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 08:30 AM
1

Is waking hourly to have someone bite on your nipples easy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 08:08 AM
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http://www.abs.gov.au/AUSSTATS/[email protected]/Lookup/4102.0Main+Features40March%202009 how is considering unpaid work to be work silly?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 08:02 AM
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Oh dear. Have you considered a men's makeover? Most department stores offer them these days; with lessons on grooming, clothes to suit you, and personal hygiene.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 08:00 AM
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When did men stop blame shifting? I thought it was part of being human.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 06:10 AM
1

If men felt empathy, they they wouldn't try to intimidate women by cat calling or looming.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 06:09 AM
2

PostMAN, workMAN, huMAN, chairMAN, MANslaughter, MANkind.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 03:47 AM
1

Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 03:03 AM
1

Don't girls slip men their phone numbers any more?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 02:48 AM
2

I appreciate your taking the time to clarify your position. I do think that being exploited is a woman's lot, be she protected or emancipated. I have been met with much more pain from my father, uncles, chaperones, husband and brothers prior to leaving the church, than from any man since I left.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 02:46 AM
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I don't know how to link. You said that girls shouldn't be allowed out without chaperones in the thread about boys distributing nude pictures of girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 12:25 AM
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Did you hate it? You have advocated strongly for women to be brought up like I was. My upbringing was awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 11:24 PM
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The "low N Girl" was me. I just figured that sex wasn't for my enjoyment, but a duty to perform. And then he cheated anyway. My now husband is a caring and gentle lover, and has shown me how to enjoy sex. No jackhammers!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 11:14 PM
2

Isn't "masculine" the standard to which everything is measured?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 11:08 PM
1

My father would have whipped me with his belt if I did that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 11:07 PM
1

When did spinning plates stop being a central objective?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 11:06 PM
1

Why are you being silly?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 11:04 PM
1

Post world war 2
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 11:04 PM
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Most ladies of that vintage use a colour rinse on their hair. White hair can be harsh, and a touch of colour softens it. I'm not sure how feminism promotes witchcraft though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 11:04 AM
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I really don't like my workmate calling me "legs". Is it "tougher" of me to ask him to stop, or to be afraid to mention it and just put up with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 10:58 AM
1

All my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 10:29 AM
1

How is unpaid work not work?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 10:29 AM
1

It's pretty common amongst Christians, especially older ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 09:56 AM
1

Why is that logical? Are men paid to care for their children?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 09:55 AM
2

My grandmother has blue hair. She thinks feminism promotes witchcraft though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 09:05 AM
1

Do men work more hours, or more paid hours?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 08:45 AM
1

Isn't spinning plates promiscuous?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 08:41 AM
7

Life happens when you're busy making other plans - John Lennon
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 07:52 AM
2

For me, it was him cheating. It was like a tap being shut off, the way my attraction dried up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 07:50 AM
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I wasn't allowed out without a chaperone at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 07:40 AM
1

Men can claim PND. The same burden of proof - beyond reasonable doubt - applies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 07:12 AM
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Shouldn't the strong help the weak to learn to be strong?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 07:10 AM
3

Red and purple people have been mean to me. Blue people have not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 07:09 AM
1

He cheated on me because I was unable to have sex post childbirth for a few weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 07:09 AM
1

How was the study flawed?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 06:14 AM
2

How is it different? I have looked over the sub, and it's scarily familiar to the "Man serves God, and Woman serves Man" that I grew up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 06:14 AM
1

Why were you a skinhead? Don't they kill Jews?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 06:12 AM
1

I'm long gone. My extended family are still there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 01:23 AM
1

I'm no longer devout. My extended family are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 01:22 AM
1

I worry about promiscuity and anger being promoted to children.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 01:21 AM
1

You said that they would just have to say it. PND and PNP are major psychological breakdowns. Like needs to be hospitalised and drugged for their own safety breakdowns.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 01:16 AM
1

Are you Baptist? This story sounds familiar.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 01:00 AM
4

I thought feminism was anti toxic femininity. Women should be strong and capable, not fragile and feminine?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 12:51 AM
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I thought feminism was anti toxic femininity. Women should be strong and capable, not fragile and feminine?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 12:51 AM
3

My grandmothers worked, as did my mother. The notion of a housewife is a very modern one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 12:47 AM
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My grandmothers worked, as did my mother. The notion of a housewife is a very modern one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 12:47 AM
3

I was bought up a Quiverfull Baptist. I'm no longer a member of their congregation. Are you familiar with the Duggar family? Their church is similar, but it's American.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 12:39 AM
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Apparently, the dirtiness is inherent. The same as Muslims. I don't believe it - I mean, we all have running water and soap these days. But the Church like to make themselves appear to be a better option.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 12:34 AM
1

That's how I was brought up. A woman's role is to serve man, and bring him children.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 12:24 AM
1

That's how I was brought up. A woman's role is to serve man, and bring him children.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 12:15 AM
2

I changed from purple because the blue people seemed nicer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 11:59 PM
4

I have never met a Jew. Are you really unclean and greedy?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 11:55 PM
4

I was an 18 year old virgin when I married. It didn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 11:51 PM
3

Red pill wives is how I was bought up to treat my husband, and I was badly burned. That is why I am wary of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 11:49 PM
1

I asked for help, and am being attacked. Is this usual for this community?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 11:47 PM
1

This is one of the things that worries me. Should I take it to the elders?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 11:41 PM
1

That is what my husband does. He is present, or he is absent.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 11:40 PM
1

That is what my husband does. He is present, or he is absent.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 11:40 PM
1

I was told to leave after I divorced my cheating ex. My extended family still attend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 11:37 PM
1

Thank you. You're a good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 11:36 PM
2

Thank you. I will check it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 10:54 PM
2

That works for me, but I hire a cleaner. My friends find it a major turn off, to the point where they see their husband as nothing but a big, lazy, demanding child.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 10:51 PM
1

Manslaughter in Australia means accidental death. You can plan for years, or kill them in a fit of rage - but if you meant it; it's murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 10:06 AM
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1st and second degree murder don't exist in Australia. We have murder (deliberate) or manslaughter (accidental). There are only 5 women in the study, because only 5 women committed the crime of spousal murder in that time period, and in those states. Further information can be found in the original article: http://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/13218719.2015.1080142?scroll=top&needAccess=true
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 10:04 AM
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http://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/13218719.2015.1080142?scroll=top&needAccess=true The original piece.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 10:00 AM
2

The two heaviest sentences for spousal murder were given to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 09:59 AM
1

http://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/13218719.2015.1080142?scroll=top&needAccess=true This is the original. The OP linked a blog about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 09:53 AM
1

The blog then. Not the actual article that the blog was about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 09:37 AM
5

From watching my friends who have marriages that struggle; when a woman comes home from work, and has to cook, clean, look after children and watch her husband laze on the couch on his smartphone - a woman gets resentful. Sex is one more chore, and you're doing it for someone who gives nothing in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 09:31 AM
5

Why did she suddenly despise you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 09:28 AM
2

That's really awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 09:24 AM
1

It's behind a paywall.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 09:23 AM
1

But not in the case of spousal murder, it would seem. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 09:21 AM
1

Of the blog? Or of the article that the blog is describing?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 09:20 AM
2

Isn't postpartum depression something that a lawyer would have to prove? Rather than just claim? I never suffered it, but a girlfriend had hallucinations that a demon was going to kill her and her baby if she took him out of his crib. She was literally hallucinating because of the hormonal changes associated with the withdrawal of pregnancy hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 09:19 AM
1

Yes. A woman is expected to fulfil a very nartow criterion to be eligible.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 08:11 AM
2

So if I randomly decide to kill my kid; I'll get away with it, because I own him? That's crazy talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 08:10 AM
1

England isn't Australia.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 08:05 AM
1

Not really. Australia is sexist like America was 40 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 08:02 AM
0

I'm 5 '1". My husband is your height.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 07:33 AM
2

I think it's a directive to be proactive, rather than get bogged down in details.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 07:27 AM
1

Is "smashing pussy" a vice?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 07:24 AM
1

And these virtues are considered important to trp?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 07:24 AM
2

What would the creators of the philosophy consider virtuous?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 06:15 AM
1

Author of the blog, or of the original article?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 06:11 AM
3

So it's a band aid?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 05:20 AM
4

Maybe in the 1950s. Stiff upper lips are now a sign of a repressed and troubled person waiting to explode.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 05:20 AM
1

Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 03:51 AM
2

I would remove their access to IT. What would you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 03:23 AM
1

Hey Jude...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 03:12 AM
1

Why would you "go up against" a woman in a courtroom? Are you a lawyer?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 02:36 AM
2

Taller than me, otherwise I feel like an awkward giraffe.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 02:32 AM
2

I miss them. I don't miss their God.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 02:31 AM
2

But it's about a piece from the SMH/the Age.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 02:04 AM
1

Not the stealthily distributed ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 02:03 AM
2

Oh yes! My parents consider me dead to them, and to God, after I left my ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 02:02 AM
1

A large percentage of the photos were taken without the knowledge of the girls, and sone were stolen from hard drives being repaired.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 01:27 AM
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Many photos were taken without consent (up skirts in public, siblings and schoolmates in showers or dressing rooms). Others were stolen from hard drives being repaired.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 01:26 AM
3

We all have our baggage. I was bought up conservative Christian. It's a hard bug to overcome completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 01:20 AM
3

These are the girls who historically have stayed home to care for their aged parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 01:19 AM
0

I prefer country
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 01:08 AM
2

We should!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 01:07 AM
2

Tinder? It's a meat market, and if you're not prime, you end up dogfood.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 01:05 AM
3

Me too. My husband needs to be careful that he doesn't crush me en route to getting what he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 12:58 AM
1

I went off sex after giving birth tore me from anus to clit. So he cheated on me. So it ended.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 12:56 AM
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I agree. I mean, I love my husband, but why does he get to make the final call on everything? He's my lover, not my dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 12:41 AM
0

Is that a feminist website? I thought Fairfaxwas a major daily, run by Conrad Black?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 12:31 AM
1

Australia is sexist like America was in the 1970s.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 12:21 AM
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