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| 8 | 24 year old loser. Not sure where my life is going.Socially, yes you will be percieved as a loser and be constantly reminded of that by society around you. Of course you will also struggle with dating. But does that make you a loser? Not necessarily. Your worth is entirely on you and independent of the world around you despite what people says. Here's how I came to this conclusion: What you have to understand is that societies perception is all that really is. A perception. It doesn't mean anything on its own. Being fat in itself is neutral. It … | /r/ExRedPill | 15/01/22 08:24 AM |
| 3 | All "Pills" are a waste of time. Spend your limited time and headspace productively and interact with women offline.Yeah I mean some guys will start at level 100 and some guys at 0 strategically. You can't compare the two, it will always be significantly harder for the guy starting out lower. Havign said that for the guys at 0 the numbers game is still key. You don't just scale a failing strategy and do the same thing over and over again. You have to do trial and error and refine it over time and that can only realistically be done with alot of volume if you are at level 0. Yes it's tough and the slope for ge… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/11/21 04:46 PM |
| 4 | All "Pills" are a waste of time. Spend your limited time and headspace productively and interact with women offline.Absolutely. These pills are very very addictive and even now I notice myself slipping back into having spent hours of my day going through all this shit. I guess what is key is to get off reddit and find a more meaningful and engaging alternative to all this stuff. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/11/21 01:05 PM |
| 6 | The experience that made me blackpilled.Thank you for your reply. How can't i describe myself with these terms when i'm exactly it? I'm a dark haired, ethnic 5'7 manlet - that's something i have to be honest about. And it makes me undesirable, naturally. If it is self-hate, well, no single man wants to be short LOL i can't help. As for beta and alpha, that's exactly what happens in the real life. Some of us are beta, some are alpha. I'm beta :( I've already accepted it. Yeah I get that and can appreciate all these things are true hold… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/11/21 12:55 PM |
| 20 | The experience that made me blackpilled.I don't have much to say but be mindful of the way you view yourself, the language you use and the power you give to your circumstances. I can promise you that nobody views you as negatively as yourself. Your language of calling yourself undesirable, beta, Manlet or whatever is indicative of self hate. If you truly view and disrespect yourself like that why would you expect anyone else to respect you? Also remember you are not your circumstances nor are you the judgements that society places on … | /r/ExRedPill | 28/11/21 04:23 AM |
| 3 | Opinion of a aspie black billDont really have much to say but my own observations and experiences as someone who's in the same situation as you with maybe slightly more hindsight being a bit older. The whole anti feminism and all that MGTOW stuff probably isnt gonna help you out alot. The redpill stuff, the only real good advice is working out and maybe being independent of circumstances and not giving a fuck. But honestly you dont need to believe in the red pill for that cause there's alot of weird extra baggage that comes… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/01/20 05:28 PM |
| 14 | Woman who is sinking to red pill philosophy. Help.Yeah. I'm a 23 year old dude so I guess we might have slightly different perspectives. But you arent wrong. Your paranoia isnt unsubstantiated. From a guys prespective, cynically and economically speaking if I can get more from your part without having to put too much on the line from my part I'll do it. Its almost human nature to do that. What's a solution? I think you should just be more selective with your partners and be honest with what you bring to the table and what you expect of them. Do… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/12/19 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Learn from my BIG mistake.Yeah I have tried that a couple of times but never in a seductive way. I just ended up asking her questions and stuff. But yeah thanks for the recommendation I'll put that book down on my reading list. | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 03:30 AM |
| -5 | Learn from my BIG mistake.Man. Isnt it weird though to just randomly approach a girl like that? Like what do you even say to her when you first approach? You have to be really really good looking or have really solid game for this to work. But yeah awesome stuff anyways man. Stories like these encourage me to keep going. | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Depressed because I have 1 year of uni left and didnt approach alot.Good stuff man. I can talk to random girls too now. I just cant escalate to a sexual level yet though I'm working on that. | /r/seduction | 07/09/19 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Depressed because I have 1 year of uni left and didnt approach alot.Well shit..... | /r/seduction | 07/09/19 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Depressed because I have 1 year of uni left and didnt approach alot.I'm in civil engineering. Same shit tbh. Its difficult but I do know like 3 people in the program who have managed to get laid so it's not impossible | /r/seduction | 07/09/19 12:03 PM |
| 2 | Depressed because I have 1 year of uni left and didnt approach alot.Man, I feel you on this. I also felt like I spent too much time on trying to figure out who I am and trying to cope with my depression since late 2015 and it really prevented me from living my live and trying to find a girl to have fun with. I am 22 now and I realized that our 20s are suppose to be the best part of our lives, and even though I may not have fully figured out who I am yet, it shouldn't stop me from putting myself out there and trying to date some girls. Yeah. I totally feel you on… | /r/seduction | 06/09/19 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Depressed because I have 1 year of uni left and didnt approach alot.Thanks for this. Being social is the main gameplan for now. Already met a couple of people and had a really casual and fun chat with this girl on the first day standing in line. But yeah. Overall I just feel like I'm not good enough still sometimes. Like I couldve used those years to practice game and get better. Beating that feeling and trying my best is key now. | /r/seduction | 06/09/19 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Depressed because I have 1 year of uni left and didnt approach alot.I think that's one thing all of us who "fucked it up" feel. I pretty much go just as hard with gym, hobbies and school too and now learning game. So I guess that's the one biggest positive to come out of it is that we know what fucking up and waste time feels like and we'll never go back. | /r/seduction | 06/09/19 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Depressed because I have 1 year of uni left and didnt approach alot.It's just harder from what I've heard. | /r/seduction | 06/09/19 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Depressed because I have 1 year of uni left and didnt approach alot.I dont anymore, but yeah I did counseling and it helped alot. I'll probably continue doing it. | /r/seduction | 06/09/19 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Depressed because I have 1 year of uni left and didnt approach alot.Not good enough yet + everybody there is older then me (I'm 23) | /r/seduction | 06/09/19 03:12 PM |
| 3 | Depressed because I have 1 year of uni left and didnt approach alot.Im just concerned how and where do you even meet women at that age? You arent surrounded by women like you would be in uni, plus Arent you bogged down by work and other life stresses? | /r/seduction | 06/09/19 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Depressed because I have 1 year of uni left and didnt approach alot.Absolutely. That's a major goal this year. To finally get over my fear. | /r/seduction | 06/09/19 02:27 PM |
| 5 | Something Toxic This Lifestyle Brought Me That I'd Like To Talk AboutYou present a really interesting and somewhat accurate case. The people in the most stable and healthy relationships that I have noticed, both the guy and girl tend to be laid back and the guys are not really the alpha dude seducer types. The girls aren't really the carrying baggage kind either(regardless if they are not or not) and that's imo the ideal you want to aspire to. I honestly hope this is the case for me. I personally feel really out of character and uncomfortable acting a certain way… | /r/seduction | 03/02/18 07:36 AM |
| 2 | What questions do you have about attracting women?Where can I meet women outside of online dating and how do I initiate a conversation and keep her interested in the moment? I see that my biggest problem is figuring out where to go to meet them. I literally can't think of a single place. Also I've noticed any interest in me a girl might have dies out very fast cause of me not keeping the conversation going well enough and having a speech impediment. I can't figure out what to do about this. | /r/seduction | 03/02/18 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Hopefully we are going here to practice game tonight. Care to join?Update on how this goes. Seems like a great venue to practice game | /r/seduction | 03/02/18 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Going to the club after a professional formal event in which I don't know anyone there. Need some advice on what to do.That's a good point. Theirs gonna be like 400 people so I don't think anyone will notice that much I hope. It would still help to be in a group as a sort of place to recuperate but If I'm on my own then fuck it lets do it anyways. I gotta ask though, say if your suggestion does work and I'm not singled out for being a creep, how should I approach for maximal results? Like how do I start a conversation with her and get things going without ruining attraction? Thanks for your advice btw. It gave m… | /r/seduction | 01/02/18 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Going to the club after a professional formal event in which I don't know anyone there. Need some advice on what to do.Thanks. This definitely helps. I will honestly be trying to make friends as soon as I get there. Hopefully getting something going can make things significantly easier. At the same time, I am extremely nervous and I am hoping it isn't as scary as I'm thinking it is. Doing this stuff alone is hard but if I have to do It, I'll do it. | /r/seduction | 01/02/18 02:50 PM |
| 17 | I want my boyfriend to be more dominant in the bedroom during sex. I want him to throw me on the bed, spank me and whisper in my ear. How do I get him to be more dominant and rough?Honestly, just tell him all this stuff instead of on Reddit lol. If you think that'll somehow ruin attraction (which honestly I've never heard of happening) the maybe give an exaggerated positive response for any rough acts during sex and say how you want more of that. But imo just tell him straight up. | /r/seduction | 01/02/18 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Afraid of false sexual misconduct allegations being a low smv guy. Not quite sure what to do?Yeah I think I might be overthinking this | /r/seduction | 26/01/18 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Afraid of false sexual misconduct allegations being a low smv guy. Not quite sure what to do?Thanks for the advice. I'm very around drunk women in general so I guess I'll avoid anyone with too many drinks. | /r/seduction | 26/01/18 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Afraid of false sexual misconduct allegations being a low smv guy. Not quite sure what to do?I mean I don't think I lack self respect which is why I'm trying this in the first place and not sitting at home eating cheetoes and playing Xbox. I know it may seem like im being a pussy but i understand dynamics of stuff like this and i know it's more then just "be confident bro". A bunch of other factors like looks, status, skill and previous experience all count and they are in fact the reason a lot of high smv guys seem to have an abundance of confidence in the first place. I personally am … | /r/seduction | 26/01/18 04:38 AM |
| 2 | Prom DateI'm a noob at seduction but here's what I think anyways. Honestly, if she's into you and there's already a pre established relation where she doesn't see you as ugly or creepy there's very little you CAN do to screw up. As long as your normal I'd say you have a very high probability of success Just be confident and simply ask her "Hey so theres this prom thing coming and I was wondering if you'd want to go?" It's really short and simple and I personally think it'll work. Whatever you decide to d… | /r/seduction | 26/01/18 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Never drank before. Going to a club alone for the first time tomorrow. Not sure what I should do.Just do it. Try and enjoy yourself and don't expect any huge success. First time I went to the club I was turned away at the door and that senr me into a kind of deep anxiety about clubbing. Don't let that happen to you. Have low expectations and try your best tbh. I haven't gone since then cause i got a job and I'm living with my Uber religious parents for the next 4 months. I'm trying to look at other avenues of actually dating though cause I'd rather intimately know a person since thats reall… | /r/seduction | 17/01/18 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Successful first time going to a club. Thank you guys.That's difficult. For the first twenty minutes I panicked a bit. I was in there alone and everyone seems to be having a blast. It didn't help that there were a bunch of much more socially successful colleagues whom I knew over there as well. So I had major anxiety for the first twnety minutes and was about to leave. But then I just said fuck it and started dancing alone. I just did what everyone else did pretty much. I tried making conversation but that didn't work so I just danced. Surprisingly… | /r/seduction | 17/01/18 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Never drank before. Going to a club alone for the first time tomorrow. Not sure what I should do.I didnt drink and managed to have a pretty good time. Check out my newest post. | /r/seduction | 26/11/17 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Never drank before. Going to a club alone for the first time tomorrow. Not sure what I should do.Its hard making new friends. I've only managed to make a handful of decent friends in the past 3 years. | /r/seduction | 24/11/17 11:34 AM |
| 5 | Never drank before. Going to a club alone for the first time tomorrow. Not sure what I should do.I honestly would love to go out more but absolutely zero of my friends go out and Im kind of in a weird spot where I can't depend on them for this and I can't seem to find people who enjoy going out so I'm gonna have to go at it alone. | /r/seduction | 24/11/17 04:51 AM |
| 5 | Never drank before. Going to a club alone for the first time tomorrow. Not sure what I should do.Hoenstly, the goal right now is to not come off as a creep and actually make conversation. I don't care about getting laid at this stage. | /r/seduction | 24/11/17 02:37 AM |
| 11 | Never drank before. Going to a club alone for the first time tomorrow. Not sure what I should do.Yes. This seems to be the common theme around here to talk as soon as I get there. I'll be trying my best to try and just keep the conversation flowing. Even if I just manage to not be seen as a creep and rather as a social dude, that's a success in my book. I hope this goes well. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 24/11/17 02:36 AM |
| 12 | Never drank before. Going to a club alone for the first time tomorrow. Not sure what I should do.Yup. That's the plan. What about chatting up women and at least trying to get a number? | /r/seduction | 24/11/17 02:32 AM |
| 5 | Never drank before. Going to a club alone for the first time tomorrow. Not sure what I should do.I don't have friends who want to hang out with me at clubs unfortunately. Id obviously go with them if I did but I gotta just bite the bullet and go and see what happens. | /r/seduction | 24/11/17 02:31 AM |
| 5 | Never drank before. Going to a club alone for the first time tomorrow. Not sure what I should do.Is that just a mental thing or are there some things that I can do to blend in? | /r/seduction | 23/11/17 10:26 PM |
| 7 | Never drank before. Going to a club alone for the first time tomorrow. Not sure what I should do.Lmao yes. This is part of the plan to not look awkward af. | /r/seduction | 23/11/17 10:12 PM |
| 1 | 21 year old kissless virgin going to a bar alone for the first time tonight. Wtf do I do to at least get somewhere?Eh. I failed horribly. Got shot down three times and one time girl wouldn't even respond to a "hey". I'll see what's next. Thanks for your help though. I really appreciate it. | /r/seduction | 29/10/17 05:40 PM |
| 1 | 21 year old kissless virgin going to a bar alone for the first time tonight. Wtf do I do to at least get somewhere?Pretty shit. Thr bar was empty besides a few dudes. I just made conversation for a bit and then just hit the gym. I'll probably try again Friday night and see how it goes. | /r/seduction | 13/10/17 03:08 AM |
| 1 | 21 year old kissless virgin going to a bar alone for the first time tonight. Wtf do I do to at least get somewhere?What might be 'my thing' then? What are these other places you suggest? I can't think of anywhere else besides bars and clubs to meet women. Hitting them up in coffee shops and libraries and stuff is very high level game and I'm not quite there yet. Hitting them up through mutual friends is not an option cause I have no mutual friends willing enough to introduce me to women. | /r/seduction | 11/10/17 10:43 PM |
| 2 | What can I learn from this mayweathee mcgregor fight?...what is there to learn? I guess from Mayweather it's that don't underestimate your own skill and dont believe in the self doubt others (McGregor) tries to put into you. Also Mayweather has been boxing since he was five so there's a lesson in hardwork paying off as far his career is concerned. From McGregor, it's to never back down and have massive self belief and confidence when facing a better opponent. Also on a side not unlike Mayweather, McGregor has a very good personal life and close re… | /r/askTRP | 28/08/17 03:15 AM |
| 1 | What are some cool things/hobbies I can do, get really really good at and make something of myself.Yup. Probably gonna try this. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/17 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Is there any hope?Love this comment. Addresses every single point. We all have shitty life circumstances to varying degrees but self pity is only a death spiral. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/17 01:55 PM |
| 1 | 100+ Tinder swipes. No reply. Is this normal? What can I do to change my profile?Yeah I guess the fitness archetype does somewhat apply to me. I did think of adding a photo of me skipping or hitting pads or something like that. | /r/seduction | 21/08/17 12:53 PM |
| 1 | 100+ Tinder swipes. No reply. Is this normal? What can I do to change my profile?Thanks for the advice. I'll try and follow this pattern of pictures. I've got two more pictures but their extremely subpar so I didn't post them. I just don't take pictures that often. | /r/seduction | 21/08/17 12:50 PM |
| 1 | 100+ Tinder swipes. No reply. Is this normal? What can I do to change my profile?Yeah I'm probably not the bets guy to pull of tank tops but I look really skinny and out of shape without them. Especially in T-shirts and polos | /r/seduction | 21/08/17 12:47 PM |
| 1 | 100+ Tinder swipes. No reply. Is this normal? What can I do to change my profile?Haha | /r/seduction | 21/08/17 12:33 PM |
| 1 | 100+ Tinder swipes. No reply. Is this normal? What can I do to change my profile?I can understand that. Let me ask then, what can be done 'specifically 'to set me apart? I just don't understand how one can look 'cool or unique'. | /r/seduction | 21/08/17 12:31 PM |
| 2 | 100+ Tinder swipes. No reply. Is this normal? What can I do to change my profile?Yeah that's the main issue. I don't go out much so I don't have alot of those kinds of photos. | /r/seduction | 21/08/17 02:18 AM |
| 2 | 100+ Tinder swipes. No reply. Is this normal? What can I do to change my profile?Lol really? I can't believe I'm getting turned down cause of some menial shit like jeans and basketball shoes. But anyways thanks for the advice. Though i'll probably not wait an entire year before coming back. This is something that can be fixed relatively quickly. | /r/seduction | 21/08/17 02:17 AM |
| 0 | 100+ Tinder swipes. No reply. Is this normal? What can I do to change my profile?Interesting. I have a few follow-up questions on that if you don't mind elaborating: -"Dressing like a grown man." Does that mean wearing a suit or some other formal shit? No tank tops? -"Lift, haircut, grooming". So as far as lifting goes I'm 165 5'11 16-18%. Should I be bulking or cutting? I thought this was ok. For haircut and grooming can you provide examples? | /r/seduction | 21/08/17 12:46 AM |
| 1 | What will happen to society in the next 10 years when AI is used globally?Those males designing AIs will be a minority. Maybe 2%. What about the low smv people not involved in this field? They will likely be unemployed and suffer | /r/askTRP | 20/08/17 02:07 AM |
| 3 | What will happen to society in the next 10 years when AI is used globally?It will kill lower smv males. Will make female hypergamy even more focused and alot of men will literally become obsolete. Many will become loners and resort to porn and Vidya. There will be alot more Elliot Rogers. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/17 12:27 AM |
| 0 | Is Conor Mcgregor and his relationship the best redpill story out there?Yeah that seems most likely now that I think about it. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/17 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Need some advice dealing with life in general.I used to be quite the opposite of you. I never gave a fuck what others thought and people still judged me. That's not a good way to be but here's the point. Regardless of what you do judgement will probably still be there. Not by everyone but still. So you just have to live with it I suppose. Fuck it. Let others judge. The only judgement that matters is from your close friends, family and relationships. Even then if it's only in good faith, not someone say judging you for dating xyz. You have t… | /r/askTRP | 15/08/17 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here got neck gains from gym?Me. My neck went from 13.5 to 15 in 5 years. It could be cause of late stages of puberty but I do kind of train my traps and they did grow big as well so that might have contributed something | /r/askTRP | 15/08/17 07:00 AM |
| 2 | Reforming incel, not sure where to meet people and what to do nextYup. I quit video games now. Their cancer to getting ahead in life. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/17 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Reforming incel, not sure where to meet people and what to do nextAppreciate your advice on the negative self talk. That was key to to me getting reformed Keep lifting, talking to people, focusing on hobbies (basketball, coding, guitar), and approach some young ladies. Nothing really matters in life, even if it seems like a really big deal. Just let your guard down and do you bro. This is the big one. I don't quite know where to meet people or approach them. Everywhere I go it seems awkward and not a social setting to meet. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/17 05:53 PM |
| 1 | I need help with friendsGot the same problem. I honestly believe if I can crack this I can beat the game. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/17 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Quick advice needed to approach. 21 y/o with no experience here.Probably not in all honesty but i want to at least have a conversation | /r/seduction | 03/08/17 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Stutterering killing my confidence, frame and any chances of success. How to deal with this.Unfortunately I have been in speech therapy alot and it hasn't worked all that much so far. Its also very expensive and I cannot afford it. I pretty much treat it as if I was in a wheelchair. Its a real disability. I have to live with it for the time being. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/17 05:24 AM |
| 1 | 21 KV possible hardcase. 8 approaches/rejections in the past year + depression causing me to stop. I Have a month to start over from scratch. Suggestions?Thanks for the advice appreciate it. Its not that I'm all that afraid to talk to random people. I can go up and talk to anybody.i guess in that sense I'm confident. Its the content of what I talk about. That is utter shit and I agree 100% with that needing practice. Would you say that it's better to talk to mostly women as friends and thwn maybe mix in some cold approach later on as a good way to practise this? | /r/seduction | 23/07/17 08:57 AM |
| 1 | How to not feel awkward/desperateI feel you fam. I was solid MGTOW till I was 19-20. I'm 21 now. The way I see it, you have got to see you own vision of what you want. Fuck everyone else. That's the only way, cause what are you gonna believe in? Yourself or others judgement of you? Also, you think your far behind? Come to Pakistan where I grew up and people in their thirties still haven't had a relationship. So relax. Its not too late. Your in North America and have access to a multitude of opportunities and options. Keep tryin… | /r/seduction | 23/07/17 06:12 AM |
| 3 | How to not feel awkward/desperateInteresting. I'm awkward as fuck, lack experience and don't get much opportunities either. However I am confident. I guess those two could be completely seperate things. For me personally, I don't really care what the other person thinks. I can look like a fat homeless person and not give a shit talking to others. This won't get you laid btw. Just confidence. For getting laid it's much more then that. You need some skills | /r/seduction | 23/07/17 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Below average incel male are justified being jaded, insecure and angry. What are some reasons not to be?Strictly speaking its "involuntarily celibate". The shitty connotations that go along with it I don't know if there considered part of the definition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Which Gym should I chooseMMA is a lifelong learning process. Yes you'll learn to fight in 6 months but you won't be good at it. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/17 07:52 PM |
| 6 | Which Gym should I chooseStick with a gym closest to you. A gym close to where you work or you see on your way and back. Doesn't matter about the quality as long as they have enough free weights. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/17 11:31 AM |
| 2 | FUCKOh shit, haha. Do interactions change when approaching different races? Of course its North America, but there are SOME differences even though most women think the same biologically. They were both brown girls so I can't say. But your chances with brown women are exponentially better then with white women so definitely try for them more. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Anxieties about time and losing opportunities after college?That's great knowing its still possible in your thirties. Thanks. Also I'm pounding away hard at the gym, reading and self improvement. I'll get there in a few years for sure if I keep this way. I just can't let' the anxieties get to me. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 09:48 PM |
| 1 | FUCKI mean cold approach does work if you know what to do after getting the number which I don't. I almost got two dates cause of cold approaching but I sabotaged them entirely by my own doing. As to what's better then that I'm not too sure. Maybe going to a bar or something. If you have a big social circle use that. Online dating is cool too if your good looking. Lie about your height. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 09:39 PM |
| 1 | FUCKYup. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 09:34 PM |
| 1 | FUCKYeah you will get rejected obviously. It'll build confidence though. That's what you lack right now. Plus its not 100% flat out rejection as it is not working. I have gotten numbers and shit from cold approaches so there's that. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Why does TRP assume Indian guys struggling are all FOBs when assimilated Indian guys can struggle due to ethnic appearance alone if in a bad area?Oh my bad lol | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 09:04 PM |
| 1 | FUCKHow would I know if I was below, lol? Did people shit on you? You see other people's facial features and if you really want to know maybe go on r/rateme. So you are still FAIRLY recent. You lost your desi accent? Of course I did. Your going nowhere if you don't lose it. FOBs don't succeed | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 09:03 PM |
| 1 | FUCKYeah. It's cold approaching. The other ways usually require you have some sort of social standing. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Why does TRP assume Indian guys struggling are all FOBs when assimilated Indian guys can struggle due to ethnic appearance alone if in a bad area?Yeah, Priyanka Chopra. The fetishization will hurt white people too tbh, though not as bad as it hurts FOBs. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 08:45 PM |
| 1 | FUCKDude, that's fucking brutal. Is approaching women in such setting even acceptable for most people? Of course above average attractive people can do anything. They can go full donald trump and say "grab her by the pussy" (not exactly that, but you get my point) and women will be like "yes, please." We don't have that option. Exactly. It's not socially acceptable. We don't have that option of socially acceptable. We don't have the social advantage others do. So you have to cold approach. It's the … | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 08:43 PM |
| 1 | FUCKIDK if my face is even attractive. It may or may not be. I know I'm probably at least average at minimum. Your average then. Don't worry. You'd know if you were below. No the problem is that I'm worried that women my height will feel the same, lol. Are you a recent immigrant, BTW? Nah I don't think they care of your the same height. They care if your shorter. Alot of women are under 5'4. I am not a recent immigrant. I am an immigrant though. Came here 7 years ago from pakistan. Didn't fit in at … | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Why does TRP assume Indian guys struggling are all FOBs when assimilated Indian guys can struggle due to ethnic appearance alone if in a bad area?Thats....... rare | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 08:38 PM |
| 0 | How would you open, game, number close in a high speed elevator? You only have MAYBE 60 seconds.Yeah I definitely see what you mean. Thanks for the critique. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 08:36 PM |
| 1 | How would you open, game, number close in a high speed elevator? You only have MAYBE 60 seconds.This is better. Much better. Take this advice. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 08:21 PM |
| 1 | FUCKMaybe. I get rejected for being ugly and stutterering, but I got to live with it. So do you. Find a way around this. Build a better physique. Short guys can build carzy muscle. Also go for girls around your height if your that insecure about it. I doubt you'll have any success with taller women if your this self concious right now. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 08:21 PM |
| 1 | FUCKIt was at a Starbucks. She was having coffee and I sat next to her. She told me to piss off. This was 8 months ago. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 08:19 PM |
| 0 | How would you open, game, number close in a high speed elevator? You only have MAYBE 60 seconds.Well I can tell you how to number close, but it's likely you'll get ghosted afterwards like I did. Also im a complete amateur at this stuff and you probably have more experience then me so take my advice with a grain of salt. I basically just asked her name, asked her what she was studying (she had a book in her hand), then said "You seem like a cool person and I'd love to chill later. Whats your number?". I mainaitend solid eye contact and good posture throughout the interaction. Other RPers pr… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Why does TRP assume Indian guys struggling are all FOBs when assimilated Indian guys can struggle due to ethnic appearance alone if in a bad area?Why is it specifically white women? If you focus on that one element you're only going to be successful with people who want to be fetishized. The fetishization is sickening. Truly sickening. It's deep rooted into Indian culture. White is beautiful. In fact, Bollywood hires white girls to dance in movies and pays them ten times as much as brown dancers cause according to one of the top agents in the industry they "look better and the audience wants to see a sexy classy white girl." Self hate and… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Successful Indian, Arab, and ethnic guys of red pill; why the fuck don't YOU speak up?I think it's cause they're to busy succeeding and they aren't as self loathing about the colour of their skin as the ones failing are. So they can't really tell you anything cause they just don't share the same experience. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 08:07 PM |
| 5 | Why does TRP assume Indian guys struggling are all FOBs when assimilated Indian guys can struggle due to ethnic appearance alone if in a bad area?They can but I think they're appearance is the least of they're concerns. At least not for me. It's their upbringing and culture for the most part. The more Indian you are raised the worse you are. So me I was forbidden to date and raised in a strict islamic household and that is the majority of the reason why I struggle today. Not my looks though I am below average. Also alot of Indians especially FOBs have this sick heirarchal mentality where they see white women as the best and often just go … | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 08:06 PM |
| 1 | FUCKThat's good. It means your less fucked then me. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 07:53 PM |
| 1 | FUCKZero successes. Im 5'11 | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 07:51 PM |
| 4 | Never asked a woman out. Thinking of taking the first step. Need advice!Dude. First step is just to approach. You will most likely fail I can garuntee you that. But just do it. Get it out of your system. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 07:13 PM |
| 3 | FUCKYes. Yes I was. I can tell you some real horror stories if I really think about it. Here's what I can think off from the top of my head. In school my mom told me to take the beating and not fight back. Told to be a good Muslim boy go to school and let mommy get an arranged marriage for you with some weird ass cousin. Told to obey authority no matter what, cause they're older. Don't talk to girls sexually ever. (Didn't ever ask out a girl till 12 months ago. I'm 21) Avoid people that don't follow… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 08:50 AM |
| 1 | FUCKYup. Every day bro. Probably even worse. Grew up ultra beta even by Indian standards and watched my social life and friendships crumble around me as I failed to grow socially as everyone else moved ahead in life. You at least had friends to hang out with. I didn't even have that. Developed depression and social anxiety so bad I could barely leave my room. Stayed in for most of 2014-mid 2016. On the road to recovery now. Lifting, eating right and grooming does wonders. Faced 8 rejections this pas… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Young girls are told to ACT ladylike, Young boys are told to BE gentlemenJames Bond is a gentleman. Be like James Bond. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend talking to other guys drives me crazyIs this isn't the first time this has happened......your hunches may be correct | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 07:42 AM |
| 2 | Why do a lot of Indian/Asian guys whine about not getting girls, even though what I've noticed is that a lot of them actually do decent with womenI agree and those Indian guys deserve that shit. But whatever. More hot brown girls for me. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 07:40 AM |
| 2 | Why do a lot of Indian/Asian guys whine about not getting girls, even though what I've noticed is that a lot of them actually do decent with womenOn the other hand I've seen Indian guys who are absolutely killing it (a lot more than a few btw) , they aren't the most attractive men but they're getting women like crazy, at the end of the day I'm pretty sure Asian people get girls it's just the Asian people with low confidence and ugly looks that don't get girls Seriously we need more of THOSE Indian guys. I guess they're more common in the states. Here in Toronto they Very much tend to stick to their own kind just cause Toronto is basically… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 07:38 AM |
| 1 | Why do a lot of Indian/Asian guys whine about not getting girls, even though what I've noticed is that a lot of them actually do decent with womenYes. This ranking system is also true. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 07:35 AM |
| 6 | Why do a lot of Indian/Asian guys whine about not getting girls, even though what I've noticed is that a lot of them actually do decent with womenI'm Indian. I don't do well at all. Most other Indians I know don't as well either. Most of it was my fault for not lifting and assuming that "If I follow the rules set out by society/parents I'll succeed" but in college last year I realized I'm fucked and i basically wasted alot of time I could learn socializing, talking to girls etc just in my room studying. There was a sense of betaness that's almost encouraged in Indian culture. As a guy your supposed to earn women as these trophies not by b… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Please help how do I get plates? I am getting demotivated.Ok. Whats the solution here then? | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 05:50 AM |
| 1 | What's the point?Sex is a bi-product of being a social, fit and interesting person (boldness helps alot too) Relationships are a bi-product of having an awesome life alone, and a committed relationship would be a supplemental benefit. Mind elaborating on this just a little bit further? I thought the goal of stuff like PUA, redpill was to get laid. I never considered it a byproduct. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/17 02:44 AM |
| 1 | What is the one best piece of advice on social skills you can give?You know what. You are absolutely correct. I have noticed that. I say bullshit all the time but now that I've built a bit of confidence over the past few months talking to receptionists, cashiers, colleagues etc, I've realized if I look them in the eye and say it as if it's truth they'll believe it. It's actually not that hard to convince people of stuff. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/17 02:42 AM |
| 3 | What's the point?Also......don't go MGTOW. MGTOW is fking stupid. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/17 02:40 AM |
| 2 | What's the point?I think.....we might. I see all these PUAs and they're nothing special in all honesty. They look like me and you, don't have amazing physiques and in fact some of them like Johnny Berba I'm way more confident then. It just our social retardedness when it comes to girls is why we aren't getting laid. I personally think it can be overcome. We need just ONE lay, one breakthrough and we'll be off. His mindset will die and with all our ingrained good habits, who knows how much farther we can go. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/17 02:39 AM |
| 0 | My obsession with women has subverted my life and caused nothing but problems21 year old dateless virgin here. No yeah your definitely right. You software career matters more. Money and survival matters more. You need to get the basics down before you go pussy hunting. And don't worry about game. I think it can be learned. Its a long, time consuming step by step process. Relax you can do it. I'm going through the same problem as you. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/17 02:10 AM |
| 3 | What's the point?I am cutting for the summer right now and will have a six pack by halloween - and i know for a fact that even with a six pack and extremely good social skills - i ll still get blown out .........You've already got two things I'll probably never have, especially social skills. Wtf are you doing, if I had those things I would be getting laid like crazy. Oh yeah I'm ugly as shit too so you probably have that going better for you as well. I am not trying to be whiny or complain-y here. But really? E… | /r/askTRP | 09/06/17 02:06 AM |
| 1 | What to try next after eighth straight rejection?They walk away within ten seconds. So I guess my looks are ok but my personality is god awful. I need to work on that alot. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/17 09:08 PM |
| 1 | What to try next after eighth straight rejection?Mostly day game. Aesthetics are 70% of maximum potential which I'll be honest is very low. My approach is a mix of direct and indirect, depending on the situation. It's mostly direct though. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/17 02:38 PM |
| 1 | What to try next after eighth straight rejection?How? Through literature or more field work? | /r/askTRP | 04/06/17 06:02 AM |
| 1 | As a 6'2 Indian guy in the USA, what is my SMV like?Bad. Bottom of the totem pole. I'm Indian. I know. I guess being 6'2 helps but You'd better be in shape though, cause if your not being Indian your likely to pack fat all around your midsection and look like a pregnant alien. Otherwise if you put it all together perfectly you'd be considered average at most 8/10 is the best you can hope for and that's assuming you have top tier Indian genetics and your doing everything with absolute perfection. Grooming, diet, confidence etc. Don't expect to loo… | /r/askTRP | 04/06/17 05:41 AM |
| 1 | I hit rock bottom in my life. What would you do if you were me?Wow. You are just like me. Welcome to hell. Weve stayed here all our lives and will be here permanently if we don't do anything. It's almost as if I'm reading my own life when I read this post. I get everything you mean, with the not having a girlfriend, being an immigrant, not fitting into cultures, being below average in looks, social anxiety/rejection, being broke, bad teeth. Everything. I got all your points. I cannot give you a solution but I can offer you this. I can offer companionship on… | /r/askTRP | 31/05/17 04:19 AM |
| 7 | Can someone explain Chris Brown?When it comes to mega celebrities trp probably doesn't apply as much I guess. He'll be getting women regardless of him being beta or not. His worth as a man is just so damn high. Same with Justin Bieber. He can dress like a complete ass hat but still get laid by twenty girls every night. He still breaks up/gets back with his ex too. Why does he do it? Who knows. Maybe women mean nothing to him cause he can get them in a heartbeat. Maybe it's a status thing. No one knows. They're probably not re… | /r/askTRP | 31/05/17 04:08 AM |
| 1 | How do you eliminate doubt and believe in yourself as a very low smv individual.Amazing read my man. I'm happy you made it. Half the battle indeed is inside the head. I too am at that point where I try my best every single day and try and find contentment in that. I'll be honest though the realities of low smv and loneliness do get to you every now and then. I'm trying to fight it every single day. I go to the gym, eat right, study hard, learn social skills where I can and push myself to maximum improvement. Thanks for your comment. If you don't mind I might pm you for some… | /r/askTRP | 29/05/17 09:21 PM |
| 1 | How do you eliminate doubt and believe in yourself as a very low smv individual.Oh yeah. Before the gym I didn't even see myself as ever having the slightest chance of success. Now after an year of the gym I'm in a place where I know it's possible but still very difficult and that's where the self doubt is coming from. As soon as I see success it'll vanish. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/17 10:17 PM |
| 1 | I am a depressed, 2/10 Foreveralone.....I cabt take this anymore please help me escape.Also, start talking to women. Seriously. Nobody can tell you what's going to happen, and I can tell you from experience that the universe/random chance/God throws so many opportunities your way every day that you'd probably spend a whole week kicking your own ass for being a moron if you knew how many chances you missed. Lack of opportunity. That's 80% of my problems right there. I personally believe that if I truly did have enough chances of eventually make something out of them. | /r/seduction | 25/05/17 01:31 PM |
| 1 | I am a depressed, 2/10 Foreveralone.....I cabt take this anymore please help me escape.Yup. I don't really have much of a problem talking to random people. I have cold approached a few times. I'm not really good at it, cause wtf do you talk about to a random girl. I did however Manage to get a few numbers here and there but always ended up getting ghosted so this led me to stop. From what I've seen, It's a very inefficient method unless you already have a high base level attractiveness. However no, I don't talk to women on a day to day basis. I don't have a social circle, let alon… | /r/seduction | 25/05/17 01:03 PM |
| 1 | I am a depressed, 2/10 Foreveralone.....I cabt take this anymore please help me escape.I'm open to any advice, but im just surprised thag you think all of this is cause I'm lazy. | /r/seduction | 24/05/17 08:57 PM |
| 2 | I am a depressed, 2/10 Foreveralone.....I cabt take this anymore please help me escape.Ok. What's your hard luck story? | /r/seduction | 24/05/17 08:54 PM |
| 2 | I am a depressed, 2/10 Foreveralone.....I cabt take this anymore please help me escape.Boo fucking hoo. Fix yourself. I can’t stand [supposed to be ] men that play the victim. No matter how good, how bad life is, it’s up to you to make something of it. Suck it up and shut the hell up.” Join a gym. Can't afford it? Lift heavy stuff and run, push ups. You have time to cry to strangers on the interweb, you have time to exercise. Clean your self up. Get some style. A haircut. Stop being so fucking lazy. Get a J.O.B. You are the only thing holding yourself back. Lol fam do you think I'… | /r/seduction | 24/05/17 07:57 PM |
| 1 | I am a depressed, 2/10 Foreveralone.....I cabt take this anymore please help me escape.The healthcare situation in the US makes me so angry sometimes. This shouldn't be a limitation and it shouldn't be the reason you're not in therapy. May I ask, what did that therapist do? Like what methodology did he use to approach your depression and anxiety Honestly it wasn't much help. I'm not really depressed and anxious but I do have a really low sense of self worth caused by failures with women. The therapist told me to take it easy and just focus on doing the best I can at those goals. I… | /r/seduction | 24/05/17 04:23 PM |
| 1 | I am a depressed, 2/10 Foreveralone.....I cabt take this anymore please help me escape.Easy to make, maybe for you.... I know im not a shitty person. I guess I'm just not interesting enough to be worth other people's time and that's why I can't make friends. | /r/seduction | 24/05/17 01:38 PM |
| 2 | I am a depressed, 2/10 Foreveralone.....I cabt take this anymore please help me escape.I've only tried one therapist cause that's the only one I can afford. I was on celexa 10mg for four months. It could definitely be a lack of confidence as well. I actively try to avoid people and keep to myself. | /r/seduction | 24/05/17 01:35 PM |
| 4 | I am a depressed, 2/10 Foreveralone.....I cabt take this anymore please help me escape.I do. That doesn't help, cause I don't really have any friends and doing stuff alone all the time gets boring very fast. | /r/seduction | 24/05/17 06:18 AM |
| 1 | I am a depressed, 2/10 Foreveralone.....I cabt take this anymore please help me escape.Get off foreveralone. Never go back. It will keep you trapped in this mindset. The only way you get better at this is by talking small actions and slowly peeling away at your anxiety. This is possible for everyone, you just have to commit. Yeah that sub is quite toxic. Also if you don't mind me asking what is it that did it for you to beat the anxiety? What was that thought that came nti your head where it all made sense not to be anxious anymore? | /r/seduction | 24/05/17 05:33 AM |
| 1 | I am a depressed, 2/10 Foreveralone.....I cabt take this anymore please help me escape.He won the lottery; you didn't. I have more respect for those who can keep a good face in a nasty storm. Climb that fucking mountain. Thank you for that. Once I cross over from the storm, I swear the whole thing will fall like a deck of cards. | /r/seduction | 24/05/17 05:30 AM |
| 1 | I am a depressed, 2/10 Foreveralone.....I cabt take this anymore please help me escape.Did therapy and the meds for two years. Didn't help. In fact I'm better off without them cause I have the urgency to actually try. The way I see it though, frue confidence builds with success like you say. Also how do you even pick up girls at a bar? I get told off for being g too ugly and creepy. Thankz for the advice though. | /r/seduction | 24/05/17 05:20 AM |
| 3 | Need adviceYes. I have been in the same situation as you and still am for the most part. I'm 21 as well. First things first. Lift, eat right and take care of your health. I went from skinny fat Gandhi looking dude to 17% BF 168 lbs with the physique of a UFC fighter. So it's possible and very easy. Next take care of your mindset. Years of abuse by yourself and others destroys your inner self. You start believing the lies they tell you. They tell you to look at yourself as a "Kissless virgin". Thats how I'v… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/17 03:06 AM |
| 1 | I am a loser. I just can't break this cycle.No definitely. I agree. I grew up in pakistan till the age of 16 and no one obviously gives a crap about being single and all. I didn't either till I came to Canada and my religious beliefs changed alot. I was more happy doing over there if I'm quite frank. Way more happy. But here in Canada, most people treat you as the "other foreigner" in their country. So generally speaking the more different you are from the norm the more isolated you get. And yeah I'm quite isolated here. Anyways yeah life… | /r/askTRP | 30/03/17 05:49 PM |
| 1 | I am a loser. I just can't break this cycle.Sure, I'd love to message others like me. I'm originally from pakistan but I live in Canada now. I've been severely maladjusted for life here and yeag the being raised Muslims, stutterering and social awkardness don't help either. I'm slowly trying to improve things though. I'm working out, eating right and what not. I dropped out of college last year as well but I'm back now and just finishing up this year. I'm trying to meet new people as well but it's a 90% miss 10% hit. Still no real friends… | /r/askTRP | 30/03/17 09:53 AM |
| 1 | How do you build a social life from scratch?Definitely there's some piece of the puzzle that I am not quite getting. Thanks for the reading list, I really need to read that stuff | /r/askTRP | 12/03/17 01:44 AM |
| 1 | How do you build a social life from scratch?If some random guy invited you to a party would you blindly go? | /r/askTRP | 12/03/17 01:42 AM |
| 1 | How do you build a social life from scratch?No one will show up, they barely know me | /r/askTRP | 11/03/17 04:37 PM |
| 1 | How do you build a social life from scratch?How do I know that they feel comfortable around me though? | /r/askTRP | 11/03/17 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Economics degree?I'd say it is. Alot of cool very high paying jobs for it as well. Analytics, actuarial science, economist etc Biologist is good too. Personally I don't know if teaching is a good degree or not cause alot of teachers don't actually require the specific teaching degree. An engineering or science degree works just as well. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/17 10:25 PM |
| 8 | For those of you with sisters, what do you do?Mine is 19, is studying to become a commercial pilot. Thank fuck she has her head on right and doesn't sleep around and shit. | /r/MGTOW | 10/03/17 09:46 PM |
| 2 | 20 year old male just got back into collegeMakes me so sad that I'm wasting my valuable time in college 😔😔 | /r/seduction | 26/01/17 09:22 PM |
| 1 | 20 year old male just got back into collegeMove into a dorm if you can. That'll help a ton. | /r/seduction | 26/01/17 03:26 PM |
| 1 | I am a loser. I just can't break this cycle.Do you not get the difference between being confident and being unsuccessful? Like I said, I can fricking talk to anyone. Doesn't mean I am good a it or the talking goes anywhere | /r/askTRP | 27/11/16 09:11 PM |
| 1 | I am a loser. I just can't break this cycle.I was a Pakistani born and raised. Now living in the US. My whole family on both my mom and dads side were uber conservative and Islamic even by paki standards. I dont know a single relative of mine on either my dad's or moms side who has dated anyone ever. Every single one of them had arrange marriges. So yeah I was raised even below FOB. Thankfully ive outgrown alot of that. I've started working out, developed an American accent, started to interact with people outside of my "heritage". Etc. S… | /r/askTRP | 27/11/16 07:23 PM |
| 1 | I am a loser. I just can't break this cycle.I'm m20, live in and go to college in Toronto. Studying civil and environmental engineering. Outside of school, I work out 3-4 times a week and I have a few close red pill friends who are in a similar situation as me. That's pretty much it. I want my life to be more then that. My schedule is monotonous and doesn't offer me chances to meet new people, go out or do anything. My current friends aren't doing any of that either so I either need to make new friends or find another way of doing things.… | /r/askTRP | 27/11/16 03:55 PM |
| 1 | I am a loser. I just can't break this cycle.It was mostly my fault I'll admit. I didn't critically think this stuff through. Islam at least the way I was taught it, contributed to developing my character as it is now. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/16 03:42 PM |
| -1 | I am a loser. I just can't break this cycle.Actually not. 6'0 165lbs 16% BF, I'd say I'm 5-6 on facial attractiveness. Being confident I mean I can go up anf talk to anyone. Me coming off as absolutely weird or awkward well that's the thing I'm trying to change. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/16 03:40 PM |
| 14 | I am a loser. I just can't break this cycle.The muslim part is extremely relevant cuz it fucked with my brain big time. I began to legitimately hate women and people who weren't of my faith. It fucks you up once you leave cuz the world seems so different. The confidence, yeah maybe you are right. I am confident enough to talk to people of all kinds and what not but I'm not confident about myself and my abilities. My past experience told me I was an outcast and a piece of shit and my brain just keeps buying that BS and maybe that's why I c… | /r/askTRP | 27/11/16 12:45 PM |
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