alefmale Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	[Mod] Make the community worth a fuck by not acting like a cunt. It's called abuse of power and yeah all these cocky motherfuckers are liable to fall prey to it. No humility sometimes.	/r/TheRedPill	28/06/17 10:00 PM
1	Some life truths that I wish I could tell my past self. me too. appreciate the input from yall	/r/TheRedPill	27/06/17 05:19 PM
1	Why getting back with an Ex is a bad idea: your Cinderella is really the Paper Bag Princess who kissed the ground he walked on I am interested in hearing from you guys: do you actually want a relationship like this?	/r/TheRedPill	21/06/17 02:56 PM
1	Paternity Test results. I've only responded to what you've written, whereas you have seemed to find it necessary to resort to personal attacks.	/r/TheRedPill	19/06/17 10:45 PM
1	Paternity Test results. Your response to my critical comment includes a suggestion that I commit suicide.	/r/TheRedPill	19/06/17 10:44 PM
1	Paternity Test results. Your comment isn't funny. That woman is a woman. That's the point.	/r/TheRedPill	19/06/17 10:37 PM
1	Paternity Test results. Great clip. Outkast, perfect song for a paternity test results celebration dance.	/r/TheRedPill	19/06/17 10:34 PM
15	I have fun, then you tell me what I said that's wrong Does not sound like a validation seeker to me.	/r/TheRedPill	19/06/17 10:14 PM
16	My Revelation - Skype session with GayLubeOil How much did he charge you	/r/TheRedPill	19/06/17 10:03 PM
2	She's not yours. It's just your turn. If I lay my head on her lap, she makes a certain face. Haha. Yea, I fucking bet she does. She wants to be the baby not you.	/r/TheRedPill	19/06/17 06:47 PM
1	[FR] She wants monogamy and a boyfriend when her pussy isn't getting her what she wants Denial Anger Bargaining Depression Acceptance Which phase do you want to be in?	/r/TheRedPill	19/06/17 06:39 PM
3	[FR] She wants monogamy and a boyfriend when her pussy isn't getting her what she wants Probably the drugs were fucking with your sex drive too though wouldn't you say?	/r/TheRedPill	19/06/17 05:53 PM
8	Don't Hate Women For Being Women find a new job = not that hard start your own business = much harder working out 5 days a week = not fucking hard at all.	/r/TheRedPill	19/06/17 05:42 PM
7	Don't Hate Women For Being Women I once heard a rabbi say that. I'm just gonna pretend you're a rabbi.	/r/TheRedPill	19/06/17 05:39 PM
3	My girlfriend continues to present TRP stuff. This is intense...She described women's break-up, get-over-a-man strategy and basically said all women are manipulative, and men are stupid for thinking they'll find a non-manipulative, perfect woman who "loves them for who they are." It tends to be so simple so often that it's hard to even be surprised when a girl who has an unclear sense of self drops the fact that her dad's dead, deadbeat, or just a wimp.	/r/TheRedPill	19/06/17 05:35 PM
2	AWALT is Real: A Cautionary Tale It's possible, but this is about her, not him.	/r/TheRedPill	19/06/17 03:59 PM
2	What it's like to be a 49M, dating 20–25 year-old females Lol you just casually write off daddy issues as if they don't exist.	/r/TheRedPill	18/06/17 10:00 AM
1	AWALT is Real: A Cautionary Tale Thats makes sense. What happened when you confronted her about it?	/r/TheRedPill	18/06/17 09:56 AM
11	AWALT is Real: A Cautionary Tale I'm confused. She saw a therapist who has bad boundaries and communicates unprofessionally, and she is friends with a shitty person. So what.	/r/TheRedPill	18/06/17 09:20 AM
17	Holy Fuck men, always protect yourself the right to rescind consent at any time Use it. Rejection is healthy. They'll grow.	/r/TheRedPill	18/06/17 09:15 AM
7	My first Red Pill experience Yea ya never want to ask if she's in a relationship	/r/TheRedPill	18/06/17 08:41 AM
2	You're not Beta. You're Codependent. Why risk and give others leverage over you? Oh gosh I don't know, I guess because LIFE IS RISKY and it's worth it to have friends.	/r/TheRedPill	13/06/17 06:33 PM
1	The Mind Fallacy: Change What You Do, Not What You Think Hmm. This is almost not worth responding to. We are rational and yet not living in paradise. How could this be? Reason is about the means by which we achieve an end, not the end that we choose, necessarily. So some people use their rationality to deceive others and take more for themselves, and others use their rationality to help others. Not sure who you're calling selfish, either--but of course there are healthier and less healthy ways of being selfish. tldr: yea we are rational (not always, o…	/r/TheRedPill	12/06/17 10:34 PM
2	Motivate me to get past my sexual anxiety. The more you think about it the faster you will come. That's true and you know it. Be willing to fuck up. You can do research about specific techniques for not coming so fast, like kegels etc., and these do work sometimes. Yet, as a great alpha once said: And it make me cum fast but I never get embarrassed -Kendrick I come fast too. It sucks. I've gotten the hang of it, but you're right, it is tough with the first time banging a girl. Just finger the fuck out of her and slap her pussy with your …	/r/TheRedPill	12/06/17 10:10 PM
5	Mommy’s Love is the Root of All Addiction Human interaction, eating well, going for walks, being creative, going to movies, doing a good job at work, caring for loved ones, reading, cocaine, just kidding about cocaine, but the other ones.	/r/TheRedPill	12/06/17 09:57 PM
2	Never believed treating girls like shit makes them want you, until yesterday! Good man. Now take away those quotes from "left me" and you're on your way to swallowing the pill.	/r/TheRedPill	12/06/17 06:42 PM
8	Don’t be afraid to get up and WALK OUT ON A DATE five minutes in if she oversteps your boundaries in any way being entirely honest Right, because Rule #1 of TRP is: "Always be entirely honest with women."	/r/TheRedPill	12/06/17 05:48 PM
3	Don’t be afraid to get up and WALK OUT ON A DATE five minutes in if she oversteps your boundaries in any way I thought the same thing about the capitalization. Well said.	/r/TheRedPill	12/06/17 05:46 PM
3	Don’t be afraid to get up and WALK OUT ON A DATE five minutes in if she oversteps your boundaries in any way Addicts want to cumulate some negative feelings, they want to throw a tantrum, then they can finally fix themselves with a dose of a drug of choice. Good to have you around exaddictbro, well said.	/r/TheRedPill	12/06/17 05:44 PM
31	Don’t be afraid to get up and WALK OUT ON A DATE five minutes in if she oversteps your boundaries in any way I can't wait to show the boys my 20,000 word post about how much IDGAF	/r/TheRedPill	12/06/17 05:42 PM
27	18 YO - Rich but beta af The problem is that I'm beta as fuck. and yet I found this subreddit about 1 week ago but have always been redpilled as fuck. Hm. You're everything as fuck!	/r/TheRedPill	12/06/17 05:37 PM
1	Mommy’s Love is the Root of All Addiction Well put. It is an adjustment we come to terms with at a certain point. Usually this point is the disintegration of a romantic relationship.	/r/TheRedPill	12/06/17 05:30 PM
3	Mommy’s Love is the Root of All Addiction you must love as a father figure not as a child That's great. Don't be a Motherfucker. That's even better.	/r/TheRedPill	12/06/17 05:28 PM
3	Mommy’s Love is the Root of All Addiction Not the guy you asked, but I'd say diversify the sources of dopamine.	/r/TheRedPill	12/06/17 05:26 PM
1	You're not Beta. You're Codependent. In your experience, all friends eventually turn against you?	/r/TheRedPill	12/06/17 05:09 PM
3	You're not Beta. You're Codependent. I asked for details to your claim above, but now seeing your comment here it makes plenty sense. You're right about talk therapy, or "psychotherapy/psychoanalysis". CBT and DBT, even EMDR if you're into that, can absolutely help, and they don't undermine the client's self-determination.	/r/TheRedPill	09/06/17 05:09 PM
2	You're not Beta. You're Codependent. Same with friends and family, never share your true feelings. Isn't it fine to express yourself even if you don't get great feedback or they don't understand? It can still be valuable to speak your mind. And one day you will find a friend who you feel comfortable expressing yourself too. I don't feel like that's too dreamy or farfetched for me to claim.	/r/TheRedPill	09/06/17 05:05 PM
1	FR: Always respect Iron Rule #7; know when your relationship is finished, don't dig the garbage Where did you get that gif	/r/TheRedPill	09/06/17 04:58 PM
1	THE TRUTH ABOUT WOMEN I know this one young married couple (early 30's) where she and he have a lot in common, hobbies, etc. and he literally makes jokes about how she fakes her orgasms while she sits there and tries to ignore him.	/r/TheRedPill	08/06/17 09:20 PM
8	Feeling one sided. I sense that there may be a number of other problems in your life that have nothing to do with this bitch. Work on those problems and this won't be one. She broke up with you because you don't communicate your feelings effectively? That's either 1) her way of dominating you and making you do exactly what she wants, or 2) you need to work on how you communicate (probably especially with women). Maybe i'm just insecure If you have to wonder, then you have your answer. because i treat her nicely Aw…	/r/TheRedPill	08/06/17 09:09 PM
9	askTRP Megathread June 07 Step 1: Ask yourself, is my room clean? If answer is yes, you can stop right here. If answer is no, proceed to Step 2. Step 2: Clean your room.	/r/TheRedPill	07/06/17 10:25 PM
2	Cynical Implementation You didn't even spell retarded right.	/r/TheRedPill	06/06/17 10:01 PM
2	Trying to understand my girlfriend "I love you buy I am not in love with you", Any good red pill write-ups on this?	/r/TheRedPill	05/06/17 10:44 PM
5	Having sex with the slutty "good girl" and confirming red pill logic. Wow didn't expect a Nathan For You reference on RP. Not exactly the prototype alpha, and yet...	/r/TheRedPill	05/06/17 10:36 PM
8	OP's girlfriend of 4 years breaks up with him, sleeps with the local Chad, then asks if they can get back together. He considers it. This is your brain on BluePill. Beta All that sucka shit is in their DNA	/r/TheRedPill	05/06/17 10:31 PM
1	Cynical Implementation Using bold font doesn't disguise the fact that you didn't answer the question. How is it helpful to the red pill community for endorsed contributors to make disparaging remarks about "black fathers"?	/r/TheRedPill	05/06/17 10:14 PM
0	Cynical Implementation Hm. Not a very funny or necessary comment. This community does not need to put down any specific demographics of men from any race. I don't see how that's beneficial to the red pill community. Would you like to explain to me how it is?	/r/TheRedPill	05/06/17 06:55 PM
8	NLP: Stop asking questions, make statements He's accomplishing an actually good fucking conversation. Sorry if you don't know any women you can do this with.	/r/TheRedPill	02/06/17 09:02 PM
9	Instead of deliberately trying to make yourself seem busy and unavailable to women, how about you actually do stuff with your time and let that behavior come naturally? Beta characteristics can be endearing when in balance with an alpha drive. Very reasonable. I appreciate your perspective.	/r/TheRedPill	02/06/17 06:51 PM
1	askTRP Megathread May 31 Fuck yea great response. I'm a social worker. It's extremely gratifying and stimulating.	/r/TheRedPill	02/06/17 05:39 PM
5	Why I'm moving over to the red pill. Masculinity + Femininity = Attraction And you get more feminine girls the more masculine you are. This is why you see wimpy dudes with unattractive, loudmouthed "women".	/r/TheRedPill	31/05/17 07:51 PM
1	Cynical Implementation You just respond in command form.	/r/TheRedPill	24/05/17 02:02 AM
0	Cynical Implementation disappear like a Black father. This stuff is not necessary guys.	/r/TheRedPill	22/05/17 05:23 PM
1	I can't stop thinking about children This does sounds like a good plan.	/r/TheRedPill	22/05/17 05:15 PM
1	If you're in a relationship, you need to remember this. Hey troll, "his" is the opposite of "her". Dumbass. Possessive versus direct object.	/r/TheRedPill	22/05/17 04:53 PM
2	Having a "high SMV" isn't enough if you are an ethnic guy, what actually changed things for me, and what we should be talking about. an ethnic guy Not to put too fine a point on it, but that's dumb.	/r/TheRedPill	22/05/17 06:24 AM
1	askTRP Megathread May 17 Meditate. Sit for one hour and don't let yourself do anything or think of anything.	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/17 05:49 PM
2	New York Times Promotes Open Hypergamy (a must read) Maybe insane but at least not delusional.	/r/TheRedPill	12/05/17 05:25 PM
10	New York Times Promotes Open Hypergamy (a must read) Yea alpha is a relational term. The power dynamics of relationships ensure that one personal is always the alpha and one is the beta. If you don't lead your dog, your dog will lead you. Women aren't dogs, obviously, but that's not important. In any relationship, there is the need for leadership.	/r/TheRedPill	12/05/17 05:17 PM
2	Do you think all girls are like that? Matrix metaphor is also very similar to the brains in the vat idea: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brain_in_a_vat	/r/TheRedPill	05/05/17 04:54 PM
1	How I let a woman destroy my life How I let a woman destroy my life	/r/TheRedPill	04/05/17 07:20 PM
1	30 Day Challenge the mainstream media saying your will power is limited What the fuck kind of MSM talks about this?	/r/TheRedPill	04/05/17 07:19 PM
1	"I believe I am weak" Yes, the body and mind are connected, obviously. Start meditating. When it happens, focus on the warm sensation, feel exactly where it is in your body, and just bring your attention to it. Don't let your attention waver. The feeling will fade. Calling your belief system "ruptured" is counterproductive. reality hit me hard Welcome to TRP.	/r/TheRedPill	04/05/17 06:44 PM
1	"I believe I am weak" Yeah, there's an ABC model. A is activating event, B is belief, and C is consequence. Practice noticing what events or circumstances trigger what negative beliefs about yourself, and then what are the consequences of that belief in your behavior. For example, the activating event of being disrespected by someone could trigger the belief that I'm not good enough, which could cause the consequences of either me striving to overcompensate, or me just giving up, or etc.	/r/TheRedPill	04/05/17 05:50 PM
2	"I believe I am weak" Cognitive Behavioral Therapy works by targeting your negative beliefs and discovering how they affect your behavior patterns. Another therapeutic model is the Adaptive Information Processing model, that is well worth looking into.	/r/TheRedPill	04/05/17 04:26 PM
3	askTRP Megathread May 03 Tell her she is bad at kissing.	/r/TheRedPill	03/05/17 08:20 PM
16	First time poster. Wife issue Looks like he found his heroine.	/r/TheRedPill	03/05/17 08:10 PM
2	Red Pill Philosophy: Betas as Artists and Dreamers Thanks for the Nietzsche. That's an interesting idea that betas are the artists that create the works of art that perpetuate the matrix. There are certainly pieces of art that strip away delusions rather than add them, though. The first thing to come to mind is Shel Silverstein's dirty adult comics in his 'Different Dances' collection, some of which are about relationship dynamics and seem to see things from an unplugged perspective. Certain music can obviously strip away delusion as well, but I…	/r/TheRedPill	03/05/17 08:04 PM
3	Am i falling into a beta trap? I can honestly say I don't know. Long distance relationships are very difficult for any amount of time. To be honest it definitely sounds like you've fallen for her and you've just been trying to follow a certain kind of behavior pattern that's advised in a lot of the threads here. I'm now battling with whether to express that i really like her and want to be with her or not. Express whatever you want to express. But what does "want to be with her" mean exactly? It does in a way sound like you a…	/r/TheRedPill	03/05/17 07:48 PM
5	askTRP Megathread May 03 Yea. I cried in front of me ex-LTR. I think that's like a once-a-decade thing. But: I mean my family member did die recently but it was just crying about her. I totally relate to that. It was at the point where I had turned myself into such a little bitch that I was in a way happy when sad things would happen in my life so that I had a reason to be sad around her, when really the reason I was sad around her was that I was a sad little bitch. Side note, props on dropping the dope. You more than l…	/r/TheRedPill	03/05/17 07:03 PM
1	How to have a conversation with a woman Great post. Cheese pizza idea stands out. The idea of thinking about something that's important to you when you're around a woman so you don't forget for even a second that you have your own life and you are perfectly satisfied with it.	/r/TheRedPill	02/05/17 07:17 PM
1	Thanks Redpill. You broke me out of a decade-long loop of voluntary beta-ization and bitchdom. My desire to be free of her pervaded all of my actions. Eventually she became so frustrated that she broke up with me. Realized I do this a while back. Beta as fuck, to manipulate her so that she needs to make the decision to end it and I get to feel like the victim with no responsibility. Much better to be the responsible person and be honest with myself about what I want. If shit ain't working, shit ain't working. And it doesn't have to work, because abundance.	/r/TheRedPill	01/05/17 06:33 PM