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6

Don’t volunteer to boost SMV , do it because it’s what you want to do. Everything is not centered around women.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 09:08 PM
1

You have to keep working on your self and gain pleasure from improvements. It’s like playing an RPG video game. You keep leveling up your character. In real life you keep leveling up yourself , there is no cap or limit on what you can achieve. That’s what I believe. This has nothing to do with women. You aren’t doing it for women. You are doing it for self satisfaction. Self satisfaction is going to drive your confidence and charisma.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 08:48 PM
1

Is English your first language? It sounds to me like you are saying why not settle for this one girl ? Or something along the lines. Personally I have done long term relationships and it’s not something I’m interested in, I’m not looking for one woman. So that’s speaking for me. I just feel like I’m always going to want the next young lady I come across later on.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 06:53 AM
19

Attractive woman like to be around a guy that is high value and has his life together. Using it to your advantage would be knowing they only want to be with you because what you have to offer. So you let them enjoy the ride, but you as a high value you make have options so you continue to date , don’t let them lock you down. It’s natural that women want to find the man with the most to offer. Just as it’s natural that you want the most attractive women. Be a man with options. Sleep with them, go…
/r/askTRP18/06/21 11:26 PM
11

Maybe you should date men idk , but I think the only natural step is to use female nature to your advantage.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 11:19 PM
3

If you don’t believe you are a good catch why would they? It 50% mental. If you believe you are the shit you will start believing it. Once you become high value you will attract more women but don’t associate your value with the women you get or don’t get. Start acting high value.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 05:59 AM
12

Sounds like you don’t wanna do the self improvement. Your confidence is low. Get your body right and your money up. Not for the girls but for you
/r/askTRP17/06/21 03:19 AM
3

Maybe the Marine Corps. But the military is a mixture of men and women. So you could could end up working with a bunch of ladies lol. They may even boss you around 😂😂 Going cross fit gym or something 😂 If you also need a job the military might help with some of your needs.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 03:14 AM
6

Stop looking for a easy way out and keep working on yourself.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 03:22 AM
10

Stop
/r/askTRP14/06/21 01:22 AM
3

Pull back completely until she’s hitting you up, you should be talking to more than one girl.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 09:44 PM
8

It’s the woman’s job to ask what you are looking for.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 11:09 AM
-1

You should feel like the world is my oyster are you guys married ?
/r/askTRP13/06/21 06:12 AM
4

Exactly it’s a shit test. Ask them if they want your bank statement too 😂, hit them with the sarcastic I don’t kiss and tell.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 10:41 PM
12

You need to have a picture with your shirt off but be more subtle, go to the beach and toss a football around but have someone take a pic. At the beach everyone has their shirt of anyway. You gotta do it but without the hey I have my shirt off factor. You could also use a frisbee or volleyball. Just find a situation that warrants being shirtless.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 10:10 PM
4

Improvement of you body will make you feel good about yourself . It’s something you have control over. It’s like playing a video game but you get satisfaction everytime you level up so to speak. Additionally there are chemicals the will be released that will directly effect your mood and emotional health. As humans especially men we need to get out there and move and use our muscles. Genetically speak our body still wants to hunt and win. The gym will assist with this basic need. The effects wil…
/r/askTRP11/06/21 07:49 PM
6

Sounds like you have answered your own questions. If you are high value she will gravitate to you and she will be scared to lose you because she knows you could have better women then her. Just never let her feel too comfortable, never let her completely have you. And don’t be afraid to walk away from her when she crosses the line. She will make it her mission to tame you. Just be conscious that you are untamable.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 07:41 AM
2

Bro , it’s not even about that. If you are going to be know in a group that is controversial use an alias. Red Pill has alot of negative connotation behind it. Just use what works for you to improved your life. No need to get on a podium and debate everyone that disagrees. If you are truly living it you don’t need to advertise all your opinions to the world. Just enjoy the abundance. What you are doing is inhibiting yourself
/r/askTRP07/06/21 03:14 AM
5

Exit the online community. Is it your main source of income??? There are safe groups on FB like Alpha Male Kingdom, and Alpha Male Strategies.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 02:09 AM
1

You need to raise your SMV, and fix that loser attitude. If you had a charismatic personality,money, muscles, and style you will get girls. See how I didn’t mention your ugly face.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 02:20 AM
6

Max your finances and your body. Focus on school and career. Once you have money and physical fit. Make sure your fashion is good. All that should give you the confidence you need. Even if your looks aren’t great you will still get laid if you do the self improvement. But once you get to this point you need to realize you are doing it for yourself. Not to get laid. Check out AMS he covers this. Well atleast watch his first video how to prevent flakes. It covers most of what you need to know. Edi…
/r/askTRP26/05/21 09:19 PM
1

What’s that got to do with us ?
/r/askTRP25/05/21 01:14 AM
3

What are you asking exactly?
/r/askTRP20/05/21 09:48 AM
1

You shouldn’t be chasing. If they aren’t on your program get another one
/r/askTRP20/05/21 09:30 AM
3

Just an abundance mindset in all areas of life. Having that mindset will stop you from zeroing in on women.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 08:39 PM
3

🙄 I think u meant to post this in ask the blue pill beta bitches.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 02:20 AM
18

Get the car you like. Don’t get a car because you think it will attract women. That’s the wrong mindset my brotha!
/r/askTRP29/04/21 03:47 AM
1

String her along. And then avoid the issue.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 09:27 AM
9

Red Pill rage. Women have a short shelf life of being attractive let them enjoy their good years . Stop being so sensitive, we have decades to enjoy women . It was probably one of use she was suckn and fuckn while telling you she wants a house and white picket fence. How about you be one of us and bang girls that want a relationship with guys like you.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 05:04 AM
4

Gotta be a little more subtle .
/r/askTRP23/04/21 05:01 AM
6

The pandemic is a gestation period. You have to be ready to get back to normal whenever this thing ends. We have to be ready
/r/askTRP21/04/21 09:29 PM
0

Use redpill knowledge to your advantage. It’s the way things are. Self improvement makes redpill your benefit. Image if you were in great shape and had a good job but women were only interested in fat guys with no job.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 06:02 AM
7

It’s his life and his choice. We all have a life and choices.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 02:17 AM
2

This subreddit has changed.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 06:57 AM
5

Showing weakness by being possessive. I wouldn’t have ever brought up the issue. I wouldn’t even acknowledge it. It’s the woman’s job to push for exclusivity not the man. You are currently losing.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 12:16 PM
5

I’ve been on a few dates, nothing serious.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 09:15 PM
2

You should be focusing on the next one
/r/askTRP29/03/21 09:36 PM
4

Just take her on a date. It might not go anywhere, just give it a try .
/r/askTRP23/03/21 07:16 AM
7

Use your self dissatisfaction as motivation for self improvement. Start working on your body and your wardrobe. Also you should take pride in the success you have. That success should give you all the confidence you need to bang chicks.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 05:04 AM
2

Not exactly the same situation. But when a woman is high interest and I prioritize friends, gym, or my hobbies , she values the time I make for her
/r/askTRP19/03/21 01:46 PM
1

Leave with your friends and end the conversation with , that will let her know your friends are more important than her. If she’s interested enough she will pursue.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 08:13 AM
2

Some girls do only fans, some don’t. I’m my reality it doesn’t effect my journey or goals. I will just disqualify a woman that does OF if I come across one.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 12:12 AM
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I just don’t feel like this has anything to do with me.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 08:49 AM
2

Probably because you are young. Trust me you don’t want a wifey at your age.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 02:59 AM
39

Unless she is show extremely high interest , it’s not going to happen. You are better off having drinks and trying to escalate afterwards. If she’s feeling you mentioned you had to move back home temporarily because of the pandemic or whatever. If you raised her interest enough she may be dtf initially but it may also take time depending on you game.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 08:21 PM
2

Politics and Religion have nothing to do with redpill. Why even post here?
/r/askTRP09/01/21 07:06 AM
3

Bro . You have a lot to learn. Don’t zero in on one girl. She doesn’t have to text you back right away. You should be playing the field and exploring your option. There is no long term when you are 16. You should of acted like you didn’t know she was texting other guys so you could skew with her later. She’s not your girlfriend or wife. You still in the redpill rage phase. That being said, you have a long way to go.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 06:49 AM
1

Like I said there’s not much you can do. But I think the best option is to hit her up in a few days and act like nothing ever happened. If she brings it up just say “oh I meant to delete this other girl not you”
/r/askTRP09/01/21 05:52 AM
1

When I’m getting physical with a girl I stay rock solid. Even went a couple rounds with a girl I was barely attracted to. I’m 32. I’m guessing it varies from person to person
/r/askTRP09/01/21 05:51 AM
1

I would recommend not deleting messages in the future, even if things go bad, don’t let them get the satisfaction or you reacting to the . Not much you can do to save face here lol
/r/askTRP09/01/21 05:49 AM
4

Not necessarily. If you are looking at her lips and she alluded to sex the it’s a go.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 03:42 AM
1

Definitely
/r/askTRP07/01/21 10:59 PM
1

I would of deflected and dodged. You gotta not cooperate and let her know you have options .
/r/askTRP04/01/21 08:37 AM
2

You deactivated your dating profile after matching with one girl?
/r/askTRP04/01/21 08:20 AM
59

Sometimes getting your ass whooped is better than backing down. This is one of those times.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 08:08 AM
1

Best answer imo. The Covid has changed things for everyone. As long as you are planning to bounce back and don’t sound defeated you should be able to smash.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 09:10 PM
2

He might not believe you and take her side , especially without evidence.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 08:09 PM
5

Leaving them on read and not responding right away will work a for a while but it’s a band-aid for a gunshot wound. The not responding/responding late is only useful when she would have some fear that your are with other women. But if she knows you are upset and playing PlayStation instead of writing her back it’s not very effective. Good luck brother.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 10:41 AM
4

It’s the woman’s role to pursue a relationship and more.... she should be begging you to commit. Honestly you gotta pull back some. We all know how easily women get bored. When they are bored their pussy gets dry. Once that persists the first guy to excite her is gonna get an easy piece of P-sleeve. It’s just the reality.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 10:29 AM
20

Nothing is greater than the strength to walk away. You might lose her for good, or you may be able to recalibrate things. When a woman acts like that she’s saying break up with me. When you don’t it shows you have no options and she’s gonna keep losing attraction everyday until she’s cheating (assuming she’s already not). When you break up with her for acting that way, you are letting her know you see yourself as high value and that you believe you can do better. It’s just the way it is. You hav…
/r/askTRP02/01/21 10:11 AM
2

English isn’t my first language my lady.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 06:37 AM
3

Purpose can be a hobby that you enjoy but also makes you money.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 06:07 AM
1

Just let her know you’ve been super busy and you will make time for her soon.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 11:20 PM
1

If you watch sports, a sports bar is a good start. Just look for like minded individuals, meet people from work and start branching out.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 02:08 AM
2

🤦‍♂️ your best years are ahead of you. I promise.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 06:29 AM
5

You have sex with her.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 10:00 PM
1

Ginger stole your soul huh
/r/askTRP29/12/20 09:29 PM
1

What purpose does it serve to still talk to her other than wasting time. If you want companionship hang with the boys, or get a dog.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 08:41 PM
5

She will never view you as a man again. It’s over .
/r/askTRP29/12/20 08:39 PM
1

That’s your problem. You aren’t working hard enough on your career or in the gym. I’m grinding at work then grinding in the gym. I’m too tired from being on my purpose for sad boy hours. If you were grinding you would be sleeping now listening to Drake thinking about the dicks your ex is sucking.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 04:38 AM
12

He just found out women have been out here fuckin and suckin. He’s just slowly coming to terms.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 04:34 AM
6

Who cares about what she is doing before or after me? That has nothing to do with me? You think Leonardo DiCaprio cares about the girls past and future? He just keeps fucking girls in their 20s and replaces them once they get close to 30. You seem emotionally attached to women you don’t even know.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 04:30 AM
3

I can never be replaced because I’m not Wifing girls or entering relationships. I can tell you have really lived this lifestyle long. They aren’t your girlfriend. You date them, fuck them , get their souls and keep them around for your leisure, until she stops coming around. But when she eventually stops coming around I couldn’t give a fuck because I’m about to meet my favorite girl “ the next one” but some girls will stay around for years which is fine too.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 04:25 AM
5

Speak for yourself. We all know women have plenty of options. The purpose of redpill is not just picking up chicks. It’s about becoming a high value male( this is what you should be pursuing). Don’t center your life around chasing women. We know women are hypergamus by nature. Women are looking for the best possible mate. Having an abundant life will provide you the opportunity to live how you would like. Drive the car you want, live in the house that you want, travel the world and much more. If…
/r/askTRP29/12/20 04:15 AM
2

Sad boi hours ?? I don’t what that is but it sounds very homosexual. Go figure out how you are going to do something constructive. Shift all your motives and intentions onto how you are going to become a high value male. Not a sad boi. And you deserve to be slapped for spelling boy with and “i”
/r/askTRP29/12/20 04:08 AM
9

We know female nature over here. Learn to use it to your advantage or keep complaining and enlist in The MGTOW army . I’m sure they will be happy to have you .
/r/askTRP29/12/20 04:01 AM
4

You and him are equally bitches then as far as I can see. I think he could whoop your ass based on the emotional state you are in. Learn to be a man, a wolf. Don’t let people who aren’t even thinking about you control how you feel. You need to get control of your life and your emotions. Get that estrogen out of your system. Man-thee-fuck-up.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 03:58 AM
2

Anything that happened after you and her broke up has nothing to do with you. Also I hope her new bf whoops your ass.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 03:16 AM
190

Just be thankful you have the strength to walk away. Also stop putting your heart in it. Enjoy the time but you have to work on the attachment. Learn to enjoy being single as much as being with a girl. I enjoy myself but I also enjoy spending time with a female. But either is fine.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 10:46 AM
1

You probably treated her like a celebrity, that’s why she treats you like a fan. Stop stalking her and improve your life and stop equating your happiness with a female.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 09:25 AM
1

I could give a fuck less , my body count is a lil high too. I’m not out here looking for a wife tho ... I don’t want no Mother Theresa
/r/askTRP28/12/20 08:14 AM
11

If you care you already lost.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 08:03 AM
1

Are generally happy aside from the lack of sex?
/r/askTRP27/12/20 05:33 AM
1

I would just pull back .
/r/askTRP27/12/20 02:41 AM
7

Yep. Those are moderate to low interest responses.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 02:02 AM
3

Yea or at the beach/ pool. Throwing a football/frisbee, or some others activities where being shirtless is normal.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 09:39 PM
2

Once a woman loses attraction ain’t much you can do to reverse that.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 04:52 AM
3

How are his grades at school? At 15 pussy and girls is still pretty new and I wouldn’t puss him to that unless he’s wanting to date. But school and physical fitness is necessary. You have to look at the situation and see how you can encourage him . But pushing him to do things he’s not interested in can garner resentment and pushing him further into incel life.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 02:01 AM
1

When it comes to female friends there is change in dynamics for me. If it’s a legitimate plutonic relationship what would change? They just keep wondering why I’m not in relationships anymore.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 01:55 AM
2

Exactly, in this one video he covers so much material. He was straight up dropping data. Still relevant, still true.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 01:16 AM
1

The video answers your questions and gives better solutions than I can type.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 12:29 AM
2

Have you ever noticed how the girls that you are most interested in have less interest in you. And the girls you barely care about have high interest in you? Here’s some gold for you. How to prevent flakes : https://youtu.be/eRTOURSsHkE
/r/askTRP26/12/20 12:20 AM
1

Marry her my guy. Why is it so hard to relegate woman to a rotation? Downgrade her. Sleep with her until you don’t want to anymore. Leave your feelings at home for this one.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 12:18 AM
1

There’s just another guy that she is chasing that she sees as higher value than you. Don’t put all your eggs in one basket. You should be DATING . As in more than one girl.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 12:15 AM
7

Getting him involved with women will take him off his purpose. Let that man succeed in his education. Girls will always be there
/r/askTRP25/12/20 05:15 AM
1

Being high value is the largest net.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 01:13 AM
2

Love the fishing analogy. The OP needs to learn to cast the widest possible net. Even with the biggest net you won’t be able to catch all the fish but you will catch some. Right now he’s fishing with a fork.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 12:11 AM
22

Some women are going to disqualify you because of your height. But you have to be unbothered by your height. You also must compensate on other areas. You body has to be tight, your clothes must be on point, you have to work on your social skills. But you must arm yourself for the shit test. When a woman mentions your height you must response and react. “ oh you must date a lot of short guys huh?” You just have to be prepared. Also shift your focus to a career and making money. Money and the righ…
/r/askTRP24/12/20 10:55 PM
23

They just get fat, marry someone else that’s fat. Then squirt out some kids .
/r/askTRP24/12/20 05:03 AM
1

Get a hairstyle you like, no need to emulate Kpop stars.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 04:39 AM
1

IP Ban on 3... 2... 1....
/r/askTRP24/12/20 04:36 AM
1

“Act as if” act abundantly until you are . I highly recommend Facebook, Instagram and Snapchat . Simply because it’s easy to gain a lot of followers initially. Even if you only have one picture of you golfing, it better be a good picture, it better be your best golf outfit . Telling a girl you have no social media in 2020 might seem odd . Like you don’t have friends. Start building a profile little by little but think too hard or try too hard.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 02:16 AM
4

What are you doing to improve? Are you a 10/10?? You will have an abundance mindset when your body built is 100% the way you want, you have a nice wardrobe of clothes for every occasion, when you have money in the bank. When you have all those things you won’t be pursuing fat girls because you will look at yourself and know you deserve better. Also don’t go on dating apps average. Get on your purpose and start your mission. If you just a average dude why do you think above average girls should w…
/r/askTRP23/12/20 11:49 PM
1

Hoo-yes (hooyah) Definitely can provide great opportunity if you have the right mindset and get the most out off it. 13 years later, no regrets for me. Hasn’t always been smooth sailing( my last ship ran aground) but i will leave with more than I entered with. A lot more more money and experience .
/r/askTRP23/12/20 11:41 PM
4

My rule with social media is , if I have nothing to post , don’t post anything at all. Right now I’m just in the gym so when Covid is over I can have higher quality photos because my body will be on point. I won’t just post a selfie with my shirt off.... I post a picture of my self tossing a frisbee or football at the beach. Instead of posting a selfie at the bar I’ll post a picture of me and a group at the bar. Social media is all about displaying social proof. That being said , follow my ig @a…
/r/askTRP23/12/20 11:25 PM
-9

Naturally attractive women cure any lack of libido. Lol . I wake up with a diamond cutter since I was 12
/r/askTRP23/12/20 04:34 AM
-2

If you are having troubles with staying hard, bang hotter bitches?
/r/askTRP23/12/20 04:28 AM
2

Bro there are no owners out here. Get back out there and hunt . Hunt or Starve. You should use this weakness to fuel your self improvement. No woman is gonna want the weak mf you currently are. Take six months off healing mentally, getting in the gym, saving money, and dressing better. Covid should be regressing and you should be ready to play the field again.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 04:25 AM
5

We can’t cure your scarcity mindset? The best chick is the next chick.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 04:22 AM
-3

Are you not attracted to attractive women?
/r/askTRP23/12/20 04:19 AM
3

He’d probably whoop your ass tbh
/r/askTRP23/12/20 04:14 AM
3

Indifferent/ take it or leave it attitude because in any situation you realize there’s more than one way to skin a cat. I will be brilliant either way.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 02:54 AM
5

Yea sometimes it’s better to lead them on, just stall. “ I like to take things slow” “ I take relationships very serious” “ if the right woman comes into my life” “ I just have to be sure” Stalling can lose a woman, but it can also result in them seeking your validation and proving to you they are good enough.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 02:10 AM
7

You taking the moral route. I like to lead girls on until they completely lose interest or they keep trying to will me into a relationship.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 12:26 AM
3

I’m not a fan of attachment. Keep it casual for a few months and you should be able to avoid some of it . But I don’t allow chaos on my life. I feel like deserve peace. So once I see some drama I pull back. I don’t even deal with it.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 08:32 AM
0

You might be over thinking this. She’s probably just busy texting other guys or mouth full of cock. You need to be texting more than just one girl. Also don’t over text, a quick joke or short convo. But everything needs to be about actually meeting in person not conversation . That’s how you become an orbiter.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 06:39 AM
5

You gain confidence from mission accomplishments. Start small. Nice hair cut, mission accomplished, upgraded wardrobe mission accomplished, upgraded body from staying consistent in the gym, mission accomplished, graduating mission accomplished. This is how you build confidence. Notice how I didn’t mention women once?
/r/askTRP22/12/20 06:29 AM
1

I just comment that the puppy “he/she” looks like a little badass , gets the conversation rolling usually.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 12:37 AM
1

Are you trying to marry her or fuck her brains out?
/r/askTRP21/12/20 08:40 AM
1

The good reason is she had another guy with a bigger dick. Just don’t over react and wait your turn.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 08:05 AM
2

You need to bang some hotter girls. Also no one is going to read that. Let’s edit that essay and get the abridged version.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 07:50 AM
1

Yep girls get bored quickly. She doesn’t need to learn too much about you until you meet gave to face on the date. And even then remain mysterious as possible. Women like to try to figure things out. She’s gonna wonder why you aren’t gushing all over her and being a dancing monkey
/r/askTRP21/12/20 06:56 AM
3

You want her to know you are still dating. Just let her know you still go on dates but nothing serious. She’s not your girlfriend. If she gets pissed be like you want me to delete it? She might get pissed, or she might seek your validation even more. Worth experimenting with.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 06:40 AM
2

Or 10 days can build interest. Don’t be her texting buddy. Just do the occasional check up and then leave her on read. If she gets pissed just let her know you been swamped at work/online classes/ gym / anything but her. But just check in to make sure she’s alive , if she’s already agreed to the date you don’t have to be her pen pal until the .
/r/askTRP21/12/20 06:31 AM
15

Bro, scared of being alone? I enjoy my time as much as I enjoy my time with other people. If you don’t like being alone with yourself why would anyone else wanna hangout with you. Put yourself first.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 11:36 PM
3

This year has been an anomaly for everyone. I’m 32 and honestly Covid is the best thing that happened to me. It’s been like a gestation period. Gym and Job. It won’t last forever. I want to come out of the other side better than I entered. But that being said it’s time that you put the work in and elevate yourself. When you are younger it’s easier to get by without much effort as far as dating and social life. But as you get older there is a fruitful life for you. You have to do the work and ear…
/r/askTRP20/12/20 10:43 AM
4

Sounds like you are making a lot of excuses not to get on your purpose. Maybe you should just take the easy way out. Here have a Big Mac and fries.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 10:33 AM
14

You are too available. That’s all. After that trip you should disappeared for a week or until she was initiating things. Edit: once you fuck , leave most of the pursuing to the woman.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 09:05 AM
23

When a woman disrespects you , and eventually breaks up with you, it means you should of walked away weeks or even months ago. Things can be salvaged as long as you are the one that’ causes her turmoil or distress to save the relationship . If a man is trying to save a relationship it’s already over.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 09:02 AM
1

That proves my point. Why conversate with someone that you don’t even care what they think. Especially in regards to an ex.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 07:39 AM
15

If you live with her, pack your bags and get out of there. If you don’t live with her, just let her know it’s over. And move on. I know your natural instinct is to confront her and get answers. But there are no answers . Get out of there.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 07:01 AM
4

Do an honest assessment of yourself and ask , if you were a cute girl would you date you? That being said, build muscle, dress nice, and put your education and career before women. There is no shortage of pussy.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 06:03 AM
1

“I only buy drinks for girls that are good kissers, (look at her lips) and you look like a bad kisser. “ I read somewhere looking at a woman’s lips turn them on or make them think about sex, can’t remember for sure.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 04:39 AM
1

That’s the problem . Your mindset. She’s not the prize , you are the prize.( well atleast that’s the mindset you need to have) you were probably like “wow , gee golly, I’m lucky to have her” and that type of energy is gonna push the girl away. There is no maxing out. As a high value I feel entitled to the type of women I’m attracted to. You need to go get the right mindset. I recommend going to AMS channel, and watching “ how to prevent flakes” it’s his first video. Then watching every video aft…
/r/askTRP20/12/20 03:52 AM
1

Keep dating. Banging better bitches is the number one cure for chronic bitch dependency aka the oneitis.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 03:43 AM
5

It’s a push and pull type of thing. As you gain more experience you will be able to feel what the chemistry is. Last weekend I was making out with a girl on a balcony, I stopped kissing her to enjoy my drink and the view, because we were kidding but it wasn’t very intense. Maybe leaving her hanging made her hornier but when we started to kiss again it led to sex .
/r/askTRP20/12/20 03:18 AM
20

Cold approach is good sometimes but other times wait for choosing signals. Leaving the house with the intention of approaching women puts me in a different energy. When I’m out living my life, having a drink, chilling with friends and catch a girls peeking at me, then I’m in a better energy to chat with her progress things. Sometimes cold approach just puts me in a funky/thirsty energy. It’s probably a turnoff idk.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 02:51 AM
2

Have you been dating new girls? Only way to forget a old girls is to get new/better girls.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 02:48 AM
6

If she’s lost attraction , there’s nothing you can say to change that. Imagine having a one night stand with a girl you aren’t really into , you don’t desire to sleep with her again but she keeps contacting and confronting you. You will see her as pitiful. That’s how you will look engaging a woman that has lost attraction to you. She will see you as pitiful. Atleast leave the situation with dignity. And realize there’s a better girl on the next block or around the corner.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 02:19 AM
7

depends on the situation, but he said an Ex, what do I have to gain with even communicating with an ex? I’m guess she broke up with him. She’s already disqualified the OP as not man enough, confronting her only validates her point . That’s why one of the core principles of RP is abundance mindset. How is it abundant to go back and forth with an ex? Miss one bus catch the next bus. Don’t sit there and wait for the first bus to come back.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 02:15 AM
1

Check out the rational male, also practice stoicism. I’m guessing you are young but learn to be a little more indifferent.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 02:11 AM
47

What do you have to gain by venting and looking like a beta bitch to some girl that is sucking another dudes cock?
/r/askTRP20/12/20 02:07 AM
3

Condoms exist for a reason. But sometimes you have to make judgment calls.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 12:07 AM
7

Why should you ask a girl about her past? A: she’s gonna lie about it anyway. B: shows weakness and insecurity on your part. C: if you are operating in your masculine frame and redpill aware you will know how to lead your relationship wherever you want it to go.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 11:07 PM
265

When a woman loses attraction it’s almost impossible to reverse it. She no longer chasing your validation because she got it. If I were you I would break up with her before she breaks up with you . That’s where it’s going , save yourself the heartbreak. Once you let her know you want to see other women , there’s a slim chance that she will try to pursue you again.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 10:26 PM
1

I usually say, he this is Alex, we met at XX . A lot of girls have a healthy amount of men texting her. I’m not texting her the same day unless she is very high interest . And even then I might wait . Usually making a good impression when we meet is a good placeholder until we decide to chat. Depends on a lot of factors.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 08:58 PM
5

Why be so direct? It has to have a high fail rate. Why not say chill and have a few drinks? PS: women already know we want to fuck. Got dress it up a little bit.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 11:37 AM
1

Why did you text her right away? Maybe you should of waited a few days. Texting right away comes off as desperate like you don’t have any other options.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 10:24 AM
24

I think they are turned on by what they have to gain from the situation. Edit: in my opinion they wanna reproduce with the physical instinctually, but survival is also tempting by a provider type. Speaking on an animal level. Goal: be ripped with assets .
/r/askTRP19/12/20 07:45 AM
2

So if you fell in love once , you could possibly fall in love again. I know it’s not easy to ask for help or call the suicide hotline. If you just wanna chat it up in more detail I’m willing to DM with you and lift your spirits. Nothing is permanent but emotions are powerful. Use this downtime as a gestation period to improve and get better for when things open up so we can meet better women. Like I said I’m here.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 05:33 AM
6

These women aren’t perceiving you as high value or masculine. Do you know what that means?
/r/askTRP19/12/20 02:17 AM
5

I have tried this on lunch dates , but I have done it on regular dates or events. If I really don’t want to go, I’ll still agree to go, but the day of or before just say you have to work to do for your online class. Or let them know you have to meet with a friend from out of town that you haven’t seen in years. Sometimes they have chased my validation even more. Sometimes they back off for good. You can’t be scared to lose them.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 11:23 AM
6

Schedule lunch dates but cancel last minute. Just say work is too busy. Sets a precedent that you put everything before her, and she will pursue you in hopes of being #1
/r/askTRP18/12/20 09:10 AM
3

Dildos are also very popular but that has nothing to do with us high value makes and aspiring high value men. If we do our part we don’t have to deal with that part of society. I have nothing against sex workers and etc but that is a subculture like the LBGTQ+ , has not a got damn thing to do with me .
/r/askTRP18/12/20 08:41 AM
15

Bro this seems like you made a wrong turn at some weird rabbit hole. Also who gives a fuck what they think. They sell pussy. Let me know know why I should care. What does sex workers have to do with self improvement and abundance life?
/r/askTRP18/12/20 08:36 AM
1

Make sure you have the right nutrition. Vitamin E, Fish oil, cod live oil. I’ve heard these things help. But I had to shave my hair of at 26. I’m black so once I could line it up anymore I had to let it go. Bald works for me tho.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 07:32 AM
3

I’m guessing your kid will resemble the landlord.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 07:30 AM
24

I think the better option for what your are trying to do is “I’m dating but nothing serious” you want to promote value and that you have options. Saying you have a gf will disqualify you from “relationship “ minded girls, you wanna let them pursue a relationship with you, while they are pursuing the relationship you get to blow their back out.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 05:06 AM
0

Just didn’t know this was this place to get advice on kinks
/r/askTRP15/12/20 12:40 AM
-1

Kinda weird that this is your desire.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 10:37 AM
1

I figured as much
/r/askTRP14/12/20 01:29 AM
3

Female manipulation
/r/askTRP13/12/20 05:52 PM
4

This is ask the redpill. Not Dr. Phill. I’ll give you my recommendation because you sound young and inexperienced. Keep sleeping with her. Sell her the dream, let her think it’s a relationship. But you need to be a man and work on yourself. -Get a career -Get your own place -Save money -Get in the best shape of your life. Then you will see there is endless amounts of women out there. You won’t have anything in life if pussy determines value. Well you will have a bunch lil kids running around.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 12:23 PM
2

Bro I’m not saying stop sleeping with her but you are risking being connected to a woman just because she’s good at sex. Have you considered that you might put too much value on sex? Good luck.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 12:16 PM
3

Alright bro go marry her . 🙄
/r/askTRP13/12/20 12:09 PM
3

Sex is just one quality. You must be young. Keep sleepying with her but don’t let her move in or move in together. Also lots of girls are good at sex.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 11:44 AM
2

You aren’t doing a good enough job remaining a mystery. Don’t tell her everything about you and don’t meet up with them every week. Also don’t be her texting buddy. Being too available let’s them feel comfortable and bored.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 10:22 AM
6

Simpin’ ain’t easy. Have you read any red pill content ? Cuz you are doing the opposite.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 10:18 AM
6

It’s not cold. You shouldn’t ever be scared to walk away from a woman. She doesn’t see you as a man right now. Go away, hit her up in a month for drinks, if she still see you as a friend , you should be shifting attention to one of the other women you are talking too. If she’s the only woman you are talking to, remember she stopped the sexual relationship with you because she met a guy with a bigger better dick.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 10:16 AM
3

Pull back. She has disqualified you. Most likely you were sending her relationship vibes. Remember it’s the woman’s job to pursue and push towards a relationship, you should be the complete opposite. Either way, the fish broke the line and got away. You have to focus on catching other fish, put them in a barrel called your rotation.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 10:14 AM
1

I used to work at a carwash with older junkies and drunks when I was a teen (05’-07’). I picked up a bunch of one liners lol.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 10:09 AM
2

I wouldn’t enter an exclusive relationship or have kids with her. Thank us later. You said you have low self esteem, how about you put some energy into that instead of settle for a crazy girl you will hate in a year.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 09:56 AM
1

Depends if how much self improvement you are willing to do.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 09:54 AM
21

Banging a fat girl is like riding a moped, it’s fun until your friends find out about it.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 09:53 AM
8

Why are you sitting around waiting for one girl to respond. Talk to other girls. You might meet a better girl and flake on girl #1, because if she meets a better option she’s gonna flake too lol.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 09:25 AM
9

I pursue being high value because I like everything that comes with the lifestyle, not keep one funky pussyhole around.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 09:22 AM
1

Your motivation can be anything, maybe you want a bigger house, a nicer car, nice clothes, more vacations, a pay raise. There’s always a new mountain to conquer.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 07:39 AM
1

Hopefully she hasn’t noticed you deleted her, Id see that as a sign of weakness if I was a woman. It’s better just to mute them. Deleting them shows that you felt one way or another, and she was able to illicit a reaction out of you. They like getting a reaction.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 07:21 AM
7

Your world must be shattered discovering they aren’t all princess peach.
/r/askTRP12/12/20 11:01 AM
1

You need to go watch AMS- “How to prevent flakes” https://youtu.be/eRTOURSsHkE You are too available. You let them know you have nothing going on all weekend
/r/askTRP12/12/20 08:29 AM
4

They have an abundance mindset and you should too.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 12:01 PM
1

You need to do self improvement for yourself not to get an ex back. Go talk to some other girls for a fresh taste.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 09:20 PM
2

Doesn’t matter the details, let her know she needs to find a new place to to stay. A week will turn into a month, and month in a year etc. get her out of there ASAP.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 03:04 AM
11

Would you try to convince friends of a different religion to convert? Red pill is your worldview. Let them have theirs.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 12:06 PM
1

Stop hitting her up and see if she ever contacts you. Sounds like she’s using you for your nonsexual attention. Does she ever initiate contact?
/r/askTRP27/11/20 07:03 AM
2

Fasting is free
/r/askTRP27/11/20 06:28 AM
2

Have you ever been to Thailand, after a couple hours walking the streets it’s not difficult to distinguish ladyboy vs lady. Also ladyboys gets tons of business down there, never saw them trying to trick people.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 05:58 AM
7

This dude probably doesn’t even know you exist and you over here writing an essay about him.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 11:16 AM
1

I do feast and fast cycles. It’s kind of covered in the video. I might fast for 48hrs (2days) or more. Then eat meats and vegetables until satiated in feast window. The good things about fasting is once you enter a faster state your body primarily uses stored fat for energy. There’s a lot of Info about fasting out there.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 09:09 AM
2

Starvation mode isn’t really a thing. I recently lost 40lbs just fasting. Starvation mode isn’t really a thing. https://youtu.be/APZCfmgzoS0
/r/askTRP26/11/20 08:41 AM
3

https://youtu.be/PS5XqoiMnrE Have you made adjustments to your diet to see if that will help clear your skin. I’d recommend cutting any greasy or oily foods. Have you thought about increasing your muscle mass ?
/r/askTRP26/11/20 08:34 AM
8

You should be dating other women . She’s not your wife or girlfriend .
/r/askTRP26/11/20 07:13 AM
1

Aries Spears has a couple bits on divorce
/r/askTRP26/11/20 03:10 AM
1

Well being average is your choice. Self improvement to raise your value is a large part of red pill. So how about stop being average?
/r/askTRP24/11/20 07:21 AM
2

Her downgrading you to the friend zone makes me wonder is she is till putting out? If I were you I would pull back if she isn’t giving it up anymore. Hit her up once a month to setup a situation that would result in sex. In the meantime you should be pursuing and bedding other women.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 07:05 AM
4

Get a life. Get your own life, also 18 lays but are they better? My prescription is to bang better bitches. But you appear to need a bond with a woman. You have case of chronic Bitch Dependency . A lot of us used to have it too. So get to know a cute one before you fuck her.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 11:07 AM
7

Tall women have way less options, they generally want a man taller than themself. They only pursue the small percentage of men taller than them. Edit: fkn giant Amazons are horny
/r/askTRP22/11/20 01:12 AM
2

How women think: “She doesn’t want you, why should I” Not completely useless to have her as a friend because it will act as some social proof that you aren’t a complete weirdo but doesn’t help prove you are fuckable.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 10:47 AM
17

Go over to MGTOW or INCEL network. We are about self improvement and maximizing our life.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 06:28 AM
1

There all sluts bro. Which is good.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 11:34 PM
3

Agreed. I keep things vague. I let them pursue a relationship until they get pissed and go away. Short months later I see them pregnant or married😆
/r/askTRP19/11/20 08:04 PM
5

I don’t , a lot of us aren’t looking for a wife. Kinda doesn’t benefit us to get married.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 01:48 PM
47

If you have an abundance mindset you know that you will find another one, and then another one, and a better one. Got it?
/r/askTRP19/11/20 10:44 AM
6

Bro what are you even doing here ??
/r/askTRP19/11/20 10:32 AM
1

She won’t lose weight because she knows you aren’t going anywhere. I’d start scoping slimmer chicks. Or get caught checking out others women.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 06:44 AM
1

She sounds like someone I’d want to sleep with.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 06:40 AM
3

Yea I think it’s best to do things you naturally enjoy , instead of going in with the pussy hunting . If anyone ask, say you want to be more pliable and you just enjoy it.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 04:32 AM
35

Sign up for Yoga or hot Yoga. Befriend the ugliest girl in the class, watch magic happen. Don’t acknowledge other chicks in the class. They will be like “ why doesn’t he talk to me” Either they will subtly approach you or they will give queues for you to approach them.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 04:27 AM
3

Just roll over and spoon her with a boner, kiss on her ear or neck, or whatever you know what she likes. Don’t even talk about it. If she tries talking , just don’t buy if she refuses, don’t even say anything and sleep on the couch every night lol.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 11:58 PM
5

I would just try to sleep with her as much as possible before I left and never look back. Fck her feelings and attachment.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 11:56 PM
8

Because I had a girl before the military and I let her hang on to me, and married her. Then I had no choice but to start cheating with all the Asian bitches from Thailand to Japan.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 11:45 PM
3

In my honest opinion, once you leave for military, leave her behind. Only have sex with her while you are home on leave. Just leave her behind. Ask me how i know.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 11:38 PM
20

I leave religion and politics out of red pill.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 11:12 PM
7

“ you must like short guys huh? “ “you must date a lot of short guys huh?” Own it .
/r/askTRP17/11/20 11:08 AM
1

Hey you can be pissed or you can find a way to enjoy your life. Get satisfaction and validation from improving your life and situation. Balls in your court.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 07:21 AM
1

I had a receding hairline, and I cut off my hair and embrassed that shit. I’m not that short. But if I was I would dress nice and perfect my body as much as possible. Grow a beard and keep it manicured and on point. I would look max for the cards I was dealt. Some girls will disqualify me but some won’t. Like I mentioned that your SMV changes based on your geography. Travel to get a taste of what it’s like to be high value. And keep that feeling. Act high value. Be high value.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 07:07 AM
2

This is the cards we are dealt. What’s the solution? Accept it and or don’t. The game is the game. If I were you I’d take a trip to a place where you hypergamy is reversed just to get a boost . I went to Philippines when I was 20 and I finally got a taste of what it’s like to be a hot girl in the US.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 07:01 AM
1

Bro. Handsome men get cheated on too. So yes if you are rich , you would use Hypergamy to your advantage and sleep with many women. You sleep with them because they are attractive and they sleep with you because you are rich. Women don’t love any of us for who we are.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 06:54 AM
0

Why not drink every once in a while and have fun. Alcohol isn’t that bad in moderation.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 09:17 AM
5

It hasn’t been easy. But AMS kinda put it in my head a couple years ago. He has some videos about it. It’s just about being confident in who you are. I don’t need validation from anyone else other than myself. Having this mentality helps me when dealing with women and being less thirsty. Truly not caring whether they stay or leave sometimes raise their attraction for me. There’s more things that help me keep this mindset but I hate long responses.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 06:14 AM
11

Learn to enjoy your own company. Just have a take it or leave it mentality. I could have coffee at this café alone or I could invite a women and receive equal enjoyment from both experiences. Maybe even more alone.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 04:21 AM
4

This is a doozie. Stay strong my brother.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 11:20 PM
3

In my past experience whenever I’ve been willing to break up with a girl and go my own way , they generally want to get back with me and fix the situation or whatever they did wrong. Women don’t do well with rejection. Edit: you don’t break up with her hoping she will try to get back with you, you break up with her because you believe you deserve better. She might come back, she might not.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 09:34 PM
1

Yep. His first video “how to prevent flakes” is a classic. It’s the first video I saw from him. I didn’t know what red pill was etc. he lays a pretty good foundation.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 06:40 AM
9

Let her know you wanna take a break. The strength to walk away will either recalibrate the relationship and she will seek to fix things and work it out, or she will run free as a bird and enjoy the other penis’
/r/askTRP11/11/20 12:35 AM
10

She disrespects you because she knows you ain’t going no where.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 09:31 PM
1

Sounds like you are her pen pal. Leave her on read, revisit later.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 09:21 PM
3

I’m not a long term relationship guy, I’d say keep smashing and keep things vague as possible relationship wise.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 07:00 AM
3

Gotta keep the same energy . Keep the same vibe at all times and it will feel less fake and manufactured when test. “ Train how you fight “
/r/askTRP10/11/20 02:21 AM
8

If you are one of those dudes in a long term relationship ( not sure why guys like that shit) and you need to appease your woman, Valentine’s Day , or an anniversary, then you can set up candles, flowers, wet naps, camp fire and all that other stuff lol.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 02:11 AM
9

You might be over doing this lol. I’m not a woman but I’d get a weird vibe from a dude doing this much planning.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 02:03 AM
1

There are women outside of college as well believe it or not. The point to live abundantly. There is no shortage of women.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 09:17 PM
1

If you are in the military, it all depends on where you are stationed to be honest. Where you live will boost or lower your SMV. That being said try to get stationed overseas.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 06:35 AM
2

You sound repressed and unable to think for yourself.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 06:35 AM
12

Bro you have a case scarcity mindset, there’s like 3.5 billion women walking around here suckn and fuckn.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 06:28 AM
21

“Baby you know how I feel about you” throw her some crumbs lol
/r/askTRP08/11/20 09:06 PM
1

Status is a large part of the computation known as SMV
/r/askTRP07/11/20 08:47 PM
5

Yea. I wouldn’t show them any interest. Going forward they have to initiate the contact. If they don’t it’s fine , keep hunting. Once they see you with a hotter chick they will be interested again.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 08:02 AM
7

Just say you and your ex broke up a year ago. “ we just grew apart” they don’t need details.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 07:43 AM
112

Theres plenty of betas ready to throw a ring on it when she’s ready.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 10:55 AM
7

When a woman pulls back, I pull back twice as hard, because I’m talking to other bitches.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 07:46 AM
4

Yea. Be a good rat with all them in prison with all the real “men” while we out here fucking hoes to sleep. Red pill is about self improvement, being independent, and living abundantly. You can be masculine without throwing down with every person that looks at you the wrong way.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 10:21 AM
3

Limit contact with unstable individuals.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 05:47 AM
7

Everyone grades women differently shrug 🤷‍♂️
/r/askTRP01/11/20 04:21 AM
1

This is a low interest woman. You should only touch base once a week to every other week. In the meantime you have to be making other moves. Don’t put all your eggs in one basket. That’s how you get a scarcity mindset.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 12:23 AM
2

You make money to live in the house you want, and to drive the car you want to drive and live the type of life you want to live. What does that have to do with money and hiding it fro women? Also try living with your momma and inviting hot girls over? Now try inviting girls to your nice apartment/house? Let me know the results.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 07:40 AM
3

Borat 2 just came out . Give it a watch .
/r/askTRP29/10/20 09:12 AM
2

Some aspects of it suck but there are a lot of benefits, you can use it to your advantage, and definitely build a life for yourself and accomplish some of those goals.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 08:40 AM
1

I keep my social media vague but also portray some abundance. I only post when I have quality to post. I keep things compartmentalized. Some girls I only have on FB, some only on IG etc. certain girls that are low interest will follow me on IG them eventually start commenting or DM. Once a year I post on my FB that I’m focused on finishing my degree and getting in the best shape of my life, or some variation of this. Some reason it raises atleast one or two girls interest enough for us to reconn…
/r/askTRP29/10/20 07:15 AM
2

Having social media is kinda necessary for social proof purposes. Having pics with friends, vacations/travel, with other girls, living abundantly, etc can boost your smv and is social proof . Telling a woman in 2020 that you don’t have social media is going to make her suspicious. But then again it’s not 100% necessary but it can be used as a tool .
/r/askTRP29/10/20 07:10 AM
10

Life is about cycles. Right now is a famine season for me when it comes to dating. So during this dry season I’m focusing on a few other things like self improvement. When summer hits I’m planning to feast.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 08:02 AM
2

If you can’t help discussing politics , just do it online with strangers . Problem solved . I’m the problem solver .
/r/askTRP27/10/20 07:44 AM
2

You are serial killer ain’t you? Get her mind and soul. If you are living the life your were supposed to be living you wouldn’t be over her trying to control one woman. Additionally if you are living the life of an alpha she would be constantly working to please you and stay in your good graces.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 10:41 AM
3

Introduce yourself, she how the vibe is . Give her your number and exit the situation unless her face lights up like a sunflower. If she is even slightly interested she will hit you up. Other than that don’t acknowledge her again and don’t zero-in on one girl ever again. Pursue other women in the meantime .
/r/askTRP25/10/20 09:07 AM
1

She’s trying to ration the vagina to get you in a relationship, just pull back as much as you can until the next scheduled meet, or if you want raise your chances on her giving it up. Flake at the last minute. Then don’t hit her up again until it’s plaining the next meet.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 08:49 AM
0

Be diplomatic and nice to her and see if an abortion is on the table.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 08:45 AM
1

So you have a low SMV and you still think you deserve hot chicks . You have to boost your SMV by getting a job and your own place to live. You can still get some action but it shouldn’t be your focus. Get your life right and women will be wanting to come to your place everynight.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 08:37 AM
2

IG isn’t really for getting girls. You can get girls on IG if your profile is on point which means your life is on point. For example, you have traveling pictures , yourself with other women and friends. Having a good time , vacations etc.... If your profile is just a bunch of selfies what do you expect? And if your life was on point you wouldn’t be prowling on IG. See what I’m getting at? Edit: forgot to mention , this is how women see IG. Her = celebrity vs follower = fan , her = princess vs y…
/r/askTRP25/10/20 08:31 AM
1

Depends on your preference. I personally prefer Japanese women because that’s mostly all I’ve dated . But I like visiting Philippines and Thailand because it’s like hypergamy on crack. You get to see what it’s like being a hot woman in America lol.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 08:08 AM
3

Sounds like you have had your feelings hurt. Women know how to creep. He can sleep with her if she wants to. And see will stay happily ever after with her man for 50 years. We know female nature over here.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 06:24 AM
2

I think the goal in life is to being well rounded. Keep grinding and do the things you enjoy
/r/askTRP25/10/20 05:38 AM
1

Approach women and give them your number . Giving away your number is a little easier for beginners. Don’t hang around for conversation to long after giving your number out. Get back to your friends table. If they are interested they will text you .
/r/askTRP24/10/20 10:03 PM
1

Don’t react period. She’s not your girlfriend. Bringing it up or showing you care will cause her to lose whatever attraction she has for you. She sounds moderate to low interest. Also why are you zeroing in on or girl?
/r/askTRP24/10/20 07:34 AM
3

Muscles don’t ever go out of style. And you need to be strong to knock heads lol.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 03:00 AM
1

Enjoy your time , doing what you like to do, and becoming a well rounded better man. You will get hoes don’t worry, they will always be here.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 11:52 AM
5

If you like her I would stop contacting her period. You are an orbiter in her friend zone. If she hits you up to work out let her know you have a date, then busy with class. Then after a sustained period of not being an orbiter , invite her out to drinks. But in the mean time you should be DATING BETTER BITCHES . The only way to raise her interest is her to know you are with more attractive women. She probably has zero sexual interest in you FYI.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 09:58 AM
6

Accept their nature and learn to use it to our advantage.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 09:45 AM
7

Yep i recommend going back to his first video “ how to prevent flakes” then watch them in order. You can literally watch his evolution as a coach . The information just gets better overtime.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 09:46 PM
1

Personally I haven’t been pursuing dates as much just because of Covid. A mask is still required in my area. Some women are just way to cautious and don’t want to open up physically. Also I live on island normally has a high tourist population but without the tourist not much of a revolving door of women unfortunately 😞
/r/askTRP22/10/20 10:09 AM
1

Any tips for a deeper voice?
/r/askTRP22/10/20 07:35 AM
9

Post a link
/r/askTRP22/10/20 07:34 AM
6

I know it’s hard to travel right now but a change of scenery might be good for you.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 10:45 AM
43

Maybe you come off as desperate? Women can smell desperation and it’s a turnoff. I would just focus on myself for a bit. I’ve been waiting for Covid to die down and it’s allowing me to save money. Right now is a famine but when it’s next summer I’m feasting.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 09:34 PM
1

Fasting really helps me get over those plateaus.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 03:47 AM
1

I’m not against hats if it’s what you want to wear. Just kill any self conscious energy you may have. Women are like sharks they pick up any sliver of weakness. Women pick up on the smallest drop of self conscious-ness because they are super familiar with it because it’s trait they all possess.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 03:03 AM
2

Bro , don’t even think about it. Some women like bald guys, some don’t. Coming from a fellow badly, the best thing you can do is never even think about it. I don’t even acknowledge when ppl acknowledge me being bald. If a woman brings it up I’ll just say “ you must be attracted to bald guys” or “ you must date a lot of bald guys huh ? “. Grow a nice trimmed beard if you can.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 02:50 AM
1

I usually wouldn’t go for a kiss on a first day unless she’s really high interest and giving me googhly eyes. When you go for a kiss it’s like saying “ you like me right? You like me??” I don’t seek her validation on the first date. I don’t want her knowing if I like her or not on the first date.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 10:17 AM
2

That’s the downside of being purple pill. You know female nature, but you still choose to stay in a relationship with her. Those feelings aren’t going to go away. And the more weakness you show, the higher the chances of her sleeping with someone else , assuming she already hasn’t.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 12:24 AM
1

Remember ugly women allows for men to be on their purpose and push technology forward.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 10:58 AM
1

Stop being friendly.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 01:56 AM
2

Social media translate to social proof, post pics of yourself living and abundant life. You and a group of friends, (should be a few girls in the group, be near girls just so it appears it could be a girl you are dating but not clear) show off your body , have some sex appeal. In stead of a shirtless selfie , post a pic of yourself throwing a football at the beach. Do you travel ? If no start traveling take pics , take pics with some locals. Just be generally interesting. Soft approach girls on …
/r/askTRP11/10/20 09:44 AM
1

Sounds like you might just have to put in extra effort in being the complete male with the exception of height. If they mention your height just egg them on saying” oh you must like short guys huh? “ Have some charisma and own it shorty.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 09:37 AM
3

Don’t initiate contact with her anymore. If she’s interested she will reach out to you, then invite her out to drinks, or ice cream if you are younger than 21. You should be pursuing more than one girl ya know.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 09:08 AM
2

The key is to not give af.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 04:57 AM
4

Just remember they are all sluts and stop putting the pussy on a pedestal .
/r/askTRP10/10/20 12:19 AM
2

Once you get older and get your own place you will have less issues with the whole way of life.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 09:02 AM
1

Go YouTube Alpha Male Strategies, go to his first video “ How to Prevent Flakes” then watch all his other videos.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 12:39 PM
1

Alright bro let me ask you this, why are you low SMV? Are you doing any education on gaming? And you working out and making money to improve your confidence? Don’t bang ugly girls / fat women because you will subconsciously lower yourself and limit yourself.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 09:46 AM
1

When I lived in Japan I had girls from Chiba, Tokyo, Yokohama, out to Machida. I was riding the training all over the place . I didn’t even know about Red Pill. I had like 90+ contacts in my Line app. So idk what you are talking about those hoes was fcking
/r/askTRP04/10/20 01:48 PM
2

But right now I wouldn’t expect great results, some people tend to be big germaphobes, Covid can’t be helping
/r/askTRP04/10/20 11:25 AM
2

I had the best experiences in Japan just dating and getting to know ppl . Thailand and Philippines are just hypergamy . We get to see what it’s like to be a woman lol.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 11:21 AM
1

Depends on the country. Meeting girls in Hong Kong isn’t the same as Singapore, Tokyo isn’t the same as S. Korea .
/r/askTRP04/10/20 10:37 AM
6

If you were doing something with your life losing her would be a joyous occasion. There’s other girls just like her at every Starbucks.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 10:56 AM
45

In my late 20’s before RP , I used to believe I was coming to the end of my prime and let myself go. Luckily men in their 40’s at my job living their best life really motivated me to get back on my grind. Thankful for men like you sharing. These young guys need to know we age like wine.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 09:25 AM
2

Rule #1 never show weakness.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 08:57 AM
2

Exactly. Don’t even respond when she hit you up.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 02:12 AM
0

Have you gotten you libido checked? Lol
/r/askTRP29/09/20 10:24 AM
1

Text back the next day. And if she ask just say you’ve been busy. You need a lil mystery. A lil too available.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 09:14 PM
2

I assume a woman is always sleeping with someone else. Isn’t that the bases of this sh*t
/r/askTRP27/09/20 06:52 AM
7

Don’t zero in on her. Also it sounds like she’s only interested in getting help with the class. I’d pull back for atleast 2 weeks. No texting back and limit your availability to her. Then contact her back out of the blue to check for her availability for drinks. She sounds very low interest. That’s why I suggest limiting contact in hopes of raising her interest.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 03:23 AM
1

What exactly are you not liking about yourself? The good thing about life is we have the ability to improve the things we aren’t please with. Don’t center your value around women. You are valuable regardless of turning heads or not.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 12:41 AM
3

I’ve been to Thailand , some girl from a clothing store let me have sex and all I bought her was a little bag of chicken from 7-11. The dollar goes along way out there. I make exceptions to the rules whenever I’m in Thailand or Philippines simply because women aren’t about gaming. I just find the most attractive girls I can and go from there.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 11:52 PM
1

Men age like wine if we take care of ourselves. You can have kids at 70. It’s not natural for a man to want to settle down considering there is no amazing woman ready for that role standing in front of you.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 10:45 PM
10

Just keep building muscle, it never goes out of style
/r/askTRP24/09/20 04:25 AM
4

When I was 20 I went to the Philippines and Thailand, hookers were all over me. At the time I thought it was morally wrong but I gave in pretty quick. 30 or 40 bucks per smash. Plus I met a couple regular girls too. Changed my prospective on the concept. I’m 31 now and haven’t done the escort thing just not my thing. I’m cheap.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 08:33 AM
2

Maybe women will feel more sexually liberated and feel less guilty giving it up the first night idk lol. This is not a topic I have deep thought about.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 01:10 AM
3

There are not many absolutes in our existence. Also how you you say she would never cheat? Plenty of great men get cheated on whether they know it or not. Women are a little better at hiding it than we are. Women stay in meaningful relationship for life and still sleep with men they are more attracted too. “Sexual Alphas.” Additionally you can go back to being blue pill if you want to.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 07:41 AM
13

As a high value male you are able to attract the opposite sex and have normal interactions with those women.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 07:24 AM
1

Loving the sarcasm
/r/askTRP17/09/20 01:45 AM
2

She will be totally fine. If you break her heart she will get over it with the next guy. But if that’s not what you do maybe you should just marry her.
/r/askTRP13/09/20 08:24 AM
3

Ever hear the term sell them the dream? Just keep her in the rotation. Give her Monday nights and be busy the rest of the week.
/r/askTRP13/09/20 04:41 AM
17

Red pill is mostly about embracing your masculinity and self improvement. Women and money is a byproduct of self improvement and being a high value male. ( fitness , finances, fashion, game)
/r/askTRP11/09/20 07:13 PM
1

https://youtu.be/2UpV167CPgg
/r/askTRP11/09/20 07:49 AM
3

Do what ever you like. Being Alpha is about living on your own terms.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 03:14 AM
1

You ain’t been red pill for 10 years.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 02:53 AM
2

You are over thinking this.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 07:08 AM
2

You might be over thinking this.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 03:58 AM
1

Most of them get fat when they have kids. Also relationships create complacency to allow them to get fat.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 11:30 PM
8

Sell her the dream
/r/askTRP08/09/20 05:34 AM
3

https://youtu.be/M64sBkwGubc
/r/askTRP05/09/20 06:56 PM
6

I would be studying and getting good grades to ensure I have a successful career. Pussy ain’t going no where. Focus inward. Dead serious, don’t get tangled with one girl. Pussy overrated and is everywhere. Just take this time to improve yourself so you are getting high quality pussy. No fatties, never get married.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 04:59 AM
10

Females sneaky . They hide in plan sight. You should feel disrespected. You can be afraid to walk away aka break it off. If she’s really down for you she will chase. My theory is the guy is good enough for some outside dick but not good enough for her to leave you or be in a relationship with him.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 06:44 AM
8

Having knowledge of female nature but choosing to be in a relationship is going to have you pissed off whether she’s cheating or not. You just gotta accept the possibilities and not give AF.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 06:45 PM
8

Banging single moms yes, but no to legitimate relationship. Just lead her on and hit the road.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 11:03 PM
11

It’s best to keep it civil with a baby momma. Also never have kids my fellows. Being tied to a woman is terrible.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 02:51 AM
9

Contacts are much nice. I feel like glasses left lines on the side of my head and bags under my eyes .
/r/askTRP11/08/20 08:32 PM
6

I’ve almost bought a Supra multiple times. And I should have. I was going to have one for 14k at one point that would easily be worth double now. But most of the time a car is a poor investment. If you have 20k to drop have you considered buying property? Edit: I would recommend a used 350z for a fraction of the price.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 12:07 AM
9

Plenty of betas to be stepdad .
/r/askTRP07/08/20 11:17 PM
1

Bruh. All women have preferences , some woman don’t like bald guys some do , some don’t like short guys some do. European and American women are a small percentage of the worlds population. Keep up the self improvement. Also there plenty of negative connotation around Islam. I can totally understand. May if you are Arab but not Muslim it could garner more success?
/r/askTRP06/08/20 03:55 PM
2

As we get older our SMV should increase. The older we get the more resources we should have. Which boost our SMV. Men don’t really have a peak . Women only have their looks to go on. When I’m 40 and have my stuff together I can still get decent women in their 20’s. But a 40 year old woman can barely even find a date with someone she sees as valuable.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 08:31 PM
6

Pussy is there in your 20s,30s, and 40s and 50s if you do what you supposed to do.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 02:29 PM
8

I’m not being evil, but this is the game. Woman’s job is to pursue a relationship. She just used the pussy to reel you in. Now you gotta string her along, next she’s going to ask “what are we?” You just have to to let her know” I take relationships very serious” “ if the right girl comes along” blah blah blah. Milk it.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 04:07 PM
19

This is where you sell the dream, and let her think a relationship is possible. String her along.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 03:12 PM
9

Yep. Nothing more nothing less.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 05:36 PM
1

Nah that ain’t it.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 01:29 AM
3

I would like to recommend for the other men reading this. Do not let them move in. That is all.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 08:44 PM
4

Just wait for her to text you first. Set a date for later in the week. On text her in regards to the meeting. No chit chat. If she’s reluctant to have drinks.dont respond for atleast a month.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 02:36 AM
3

Get money and career so you can enjoy life on higher level. Own the cars you like, the type of house you want, the clothes you want, and travel to the countries you want to go to.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 04:30 PM
2

Can have pups with the weakest wolf in the pack.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 09:45 PM
2

As a man , you ca. Have kids a 25 or 55, there no rush to do it. I wouldn’t even recommend it honestly. Keep gaining resources and enjoy life. The option to have kids will always be there, there’s no time limit. You may find a unicorn one day. If you are an all around alpha in all areas of life it will decrease a woman’s chance of cheating and they will be more submissive to you. Additionally once you gain red pill knowledge being in a relationship can be frustrating because you understand femal…
/r/askTRP20/06/20 05:27 PM
1

You should be getting other girls, and avoid watching their stories, they love the validation.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 02:30 AM
2

You just gotta get it out of the way or you will over think it
/r/askTRP18/06/20 10:32 PM
3

I wouldn’t have responded until Monday to remind her to come over.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 07:28 PM
3

You should be make other moves in the meantime.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 11:46 PM
2

I have a couple of recommendations, get a mentor. Some one a little older than you that has what you want. You can even have multiple mentors. Find someone that has alpha fitness lifestyle, find someone who is a financial alpha, find someone who is a sexual alpha that is good with the ladies. Who we surround ourselves with plays a role in who we become. Masculine friends will boost your masculinity to some extent.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 10:24 PM
2

I always say I’m busy with online classes , also never text people back when you are together because she will question why you don’t text her back right away. I avoid taking my phone out of possible.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 07:56 PM
3

I can’t really tolerate that lol. I’ll just wait until they calm down and want to have drinks.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 02:43 PM
2

Alpha Male Strategies: Dating Techniques In The Social Media Age https://www.amazon.com/dp/1723744298/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_4eL2EbYXBCJXM
/r/askTRP05/06/20 02:06 PM
0

This is what men do, brag lol. You are supposed to respond that you had a foursome with some playmates you met at hooters. It’s how bonds have been built since the beginning of time.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 01:13 PM
1

They will do it to you and not blink or think twice about it.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 01:45 AM
2

Jesus Christ
/r/askTRP05/06/20 01:22 AM
2

Plant a seed , and hit them back up later. Texting them everyday will probably result I then losing interest.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 02:40 PM
1

I’m sure you will gain some interest just for being something new.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 11:46 PM
7

I’m hoping you moved to a small town for a good reason. Having a rotation will bring drama for sure. I used to live in a country area/ small town growing up. About 40,000 people. I remember my moms friend’s brother(he was between 17-19, he always had girls all over town. Only problem was he’d be smashing other guys girls as well. One night he answered his door to gunshots. He survived tho. Lol.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 11:32 PM
1

Get back on your grind. Even if you gotta wait one year or two to get your sh*t together. Self improvement first and everything else will fall into place
/r/askTRP01/06/20 06:59 PM
1

I’m 31, and if I meet a girl around my age and she expects to see some social media. Facebook is for my actual friends and family. IG is my social proof. I only post pics on IG from traveling, out with the guys, activities, some pics with other girls but never overt that I slept with them or anything romantic.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 05:53 PM
1

https://youtu.be/B4srBfiOIIM Here’s a good video on the topic.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 05:37 PM
1

You ever hear the term social proof ? Social proof is a form of pre-selection. Post pics from your vacations ,or boys night. Just post every once in a while.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 05:34 PM
2

Did you take a time machine from 1998? We know the game and current state of affairs, we just have to adapt and change . Learn to use this system to your benefit.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 04:57 PM
1

Work on your seduction. It’s something that comes naturally to some. Even tho I was getting girls in my teens and early 20s , seduction is something I was doing until my mid 20s. I’m guessing you are in high school. Seduction is some you could work on. I still work at it to this day.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 01:38 AM
1

Some girls like black guys some girls don’t. You don’t need to be alpha to get girls. You might be over thinking this. Take a look at yourself, you are lacking somewhere. Work on your charisma, be more indifferent, keep improving your looks and fashion, don’t lack confidence. Stop thinking too much, they can see that in your eyes. It’s a turn off.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 01:31 AM
-1

Mind your own business? What’s it got to do with you? All women are hoes to the right guy. If you bring up her past that’s a bitch beta move imo. If he ever finds out you hit it , just say I didn’t think much of it. Gossiping ain’t Alpha.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 01:11 AM
1

She doesn’t see you as an alpha. She sees you as a possible beta make provider. Getting married with red pill knowledge makes you purple pill. You have red pill knowledge but have beta aspects of your life due to your wife.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 11:55 PM
4

Smash and pass . She’s looking for a beta male provider.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 08:19 PM
6

If you miss one bus catch the next one.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 09:23 PM
10

Maybe you should get your body count up? Also you trying to wife her or something? Her past is none of your business. Gotta leave the beta mindset in the past.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 08:59 PM
10

There’s no “100% in love “
/r/askTRP24/05/20 06:38 PM
2

Worshipping another guy is just beta af. Use your critical thinking and decide how you want to live your life. Your decision may make your family unhappy but it’s your life. I used to be born again at some point and it feels great not having to live within set guidelines. But that works for me and my mom doesn’t like it. But idgaf.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 02:48 AM
5

Once I learned female nature I decided to stop having relationships. Just sell them the dream that a relationship is a possibility but you take relationships very serious. In the process she will keep chasing your validation. She will keep asking and want a relationship but keep having her try to earn it. She will keep trying or go away. Rinse and repeat.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 01:04 AM
1

We just learn female nature and use it against them.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 06:13 PM
2

Increasing your finances is apart of raising your SMV. When you have finances a lot of women will see you as a beta male provider and will want to ride your wave. We use that to our advantage because we already see them coming
/r/askTRP22/05/20 06:06 PM
1

At 17 I woke up with a rock hard every morning. Be alpha , right now it sounds like she is the center of your universe instead of yourself. You should have peak testosterone . Maybe sure you start working out. Working out and gaining muscle will help boost your confidence. You didn’t really describe how you have been acting beta. But don’t have a scarcity mindset. Continue your relationship but dont be afraid to lose her. Have you considered that she is getting alpha dick somewhere else?
/r/askTRP11/05/20 08:05 PM
6

I can’t recommend it tbh. But if you can’t control your primitive urges, reproduce with a woman that is ultra submissive and also has her life together. Wouldn’t do it before 40 but hey that’s just my opinion.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 11:41 PM
7

This can not be expressed enough. There is zero reason to get married imo.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 10:18 PM
16

I don’t hate my kids but being linked to woman permanently is just the worst case scenario for me.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 10:17 PM
2

https://youtu.be/-1UUBtFMCKM Alpha Male Strategies often recommends pulling back to raise her attraction. But it’s kinda touch because you might lose her in the process or your relationship can be re-calibrated and she starts seeking your validation again.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 04:50 PM
1

Pull back.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 04:48 PM
1

David Bach was the author.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 02:28 AM
3

A longboard might not be a bad idea , get a lil exercise and sunlight on your way to work. Also a way to clear you head . If you are able to use your longboard to get to work consistently do it for as long as possible. I’m guessing you are a younger guy. Having a car is nice for convenience but cars are money pits . The car payment, insurance , gas, maintenance. It all adds up. I recommend deferring it as long as possible. Might hurt in the short term. But pay yourself a car payment in the meant…
/r/askTRP03/05/20 01:57 AM
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Bruh, it ain’t even that serious. You might be homophobic. You should be secure enough in your sexuality. It’s not like you knew. Also nobody cares or is judging you. Let it go. A lot of women are SJWs, they’d probably praise you for it 😂👌👌
/r/askTRP03/05/20 01:48 AM
3

Make sure you are getting enough vitamin D, this can really improve you mood. Even if it’s just a walk with some headphones. With all the Covid19 and quarantine going on I can’t even blame you for being in a rut. If you are down to a few hundred bucks I’d recommend tucking it away and saving before buying something for a hobby but that’s just me. Think of some short term goals you want to accomplish , something attainable. Be a little selfish and think about the things that you want to do and wh…
/r/askTRP03/05/20 01:34 AM
3

I’m pretty sure most of us that are familiar with red pill know female nature . We understand hypergamy. So use hypergamy against them. Sell them a dream , smash them and keep it moving. Are you looking for a wife? If not keep selling them the dream. Everyone has a different idea of what a 9 or 10. Honestly I don’t even know what I considered a 9 or 10 right now. I just tell myself “they are all sluts” or focus on something negative about her, it’s helps me stay in frame even when I’m very attra…
/r/askTRP03/05/20 01:08 AM
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Additionally, women are out here fcking more than you think. Stop putting them on a pedestal. They out here fcking and sucking dudes that got their bodies right, that know how to socialize and charm their panties off , but you over here following random women in IG getting pissed. Get on your purpose Youngblood.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 01:01 AM
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My question for you are you a 9 or a 10? If you a 3 why you worried about what they are doing? Boost your SMV, why aren’t you a millionaire? But honestly the women you see on social media getting flown around the world and living the high life is less than 1% . There are real women out here and you have to be prepared to deal with them.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 12:57 AM
1

I just recommend stop giving af about your face. You are letting it effect your confidence.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 12:45 AM
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Push up, sit-ups, air squats, and pull-ups should work as a substitute until things are back to normal, we ain’t about excuses over here. We about solutions. It’s easy to find a reason to give up but there’s away. How old are you?
/r/askTRP03/05/20 12:21 AM
1

If you really that ugly , you need to look max , boost your confidence and charisma, also go make some money. Money is the biggest aphrodisiac, boost your confidence and charisma.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 12:20 AM
1

It’s good you got cold approach out the way, now you are used to rejection. Shouldn’t really give af, about getting rejected. You should be numb to it by now. You should of been trying to figure out why you were getting rejected. My recommendation is don’t approach women unless they have given you choosing signals, or have shown high interest. Beyond that you shouldn’t even be approaching women. But it appears this dude is just down on himself and doesn’t want to improve himself or raise his sex…
/r/askTRP03/05/20 12:12 AM
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Stay in frame. Don’t be a dancing monkey and let her run off with the dudes with game. Trying to make a woman laugh is pretty much begging for her validation. She should be chasing your validation. Noting wrong with limited jokes and humor but keep it to a minimum until you have hit it and have her under your control.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 12:05 AM
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There’s always something you can do. Think about about a fat chick wearing a shower cap and pajamas, do you want her?? that’s you right now. If you improve you will get women. And stop making women the center of your universe. Worry about improving your quality of life. This personal now. Tired of seeing young men become MGTOW or incel when it’s not necessary. This personal now. We have enough knowledge in this group to fix you. Looks ain’t everything. Game, looks/physique, finances, status, all…
/r/askTRP02/05/20 11:53 PM
2

Everyone gets rejected. I could careless about getting rejected, if I miss this bus ima catch the next one. But if you work on self improvement you will cast a wider net and be more appealing to more women. Also don’t let women be the center of your universe. If you had your money up and your own place you will get somewhat decent girls at a minimum. It sounds like you don’t have your shit together... but that’s ok. Get started. I’m going to recommend Alpha Male Strategies for you. Watch his fir…
/r/askTRP02/05/20 11:33 PM
2

Are you trying to get a gf or a rotation, meet more women? Sounds like you haven’t had a lot of experience. Like every rule there are exceptions. Everyone isn’t blessed with good looks , or naturally masculine features. Some men are just natural alphas which allows them to have the charisma to get attractive women due to there natural physical traits. Because of their physical gifts they are naturally confident and charismatic. You have to be honest with yourself, and look max, ways of look maxi…
/r/askTRP02/05/20 10:59 PM
1

What is high trust? Need to worry about being high value.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 10:37 PM
0

Your purpose is something you enjoy but can also make you money. Generally speaking.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 08:22 PM
8

Some women are going to like your accent some women won’t. Some women like beards, some don’t. There is no catch all. Just keep improving yourself and you will always get more women. Getting in shape and getting more money help increase our confidence and charisma.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 03:58 PM
1

Just remember there are two people in a relationship the ass kisser (you) and the person getting their ass kisser (her)
/r/askTRP02/05/20 01:54 AM
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You will never have abundance mindset if you are afraid to let her go. You know female nature, might be cheating with chad anyway. But honestly breaking up with her could reset the balance in your relationship, once you cut her off, if she starts pursuing you again you slowly let her back in. She should be chasing your validation. Also you are you so you probably don’t realize this but women love drama. Sometimes rocking the boat is the right choice because women get bored easily and don’t like …
/r/askTRP01/05/20 12:46 PM
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Bro. Just use her for sex and stop being so emotional. Don’t even entertain her when she brings up other guys , that has nothing to do with you. Just make sure she brushes her teeth before you kiss her so you don’t taste my cum. 👍
/r/askTRP29/04/20 12:45 AM
7

🤨 try ask the blue pill .
/r/askTRP21/04/20 02:33 PM
3

I would break up with her just to reestablish the power balance. Just let her know you need a break. She will either pursue you to keep you around or she won’t. In the meantime you should be playing the field.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 12:20 AM
2

I lived in Japan 6 years, and visited Korea, Philippines, Thailand and a few other places in the region. Being American really does boost your SMV. As a man you get to feel what it’s like to be a woman or a rich man. That being said moving abroad isn’t the answer necessarily. I don’t think I’d want to live in Philippines unless I was old and wanted an affordable place to retired. The right answer is to boost your SMV to a universally higher level. Minimize your sugar intake. Max your looks. Go t…
/r/askTRP19/04/20 11:29 PM
3

You trying to sleep with Gay men or women ? I’m confused .
/r/askTRP19/04/20 08:50 PM
2

I think enjoying life independent of females or relationships will do wonders for you. Helps to recalibrate. Once quarantine is over I’d recommend a trip somewhere completely different than what you are used to. I can never recommend a relationship honestly.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 07:51 PM
16

Do you know female nature? Do you have red pill knowledge?
/r/askTRP18/04/20 02:48 AM
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Also never “rage” on a girl ever again. Not something a high value male would ever do. Also never ask about her liking another man. You are supposed to be high value which means you have options. You aren’t acting like a man with options. You have a lot to learn. Learn the after of indifference.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 04:22 AM
1

She should be trying to trap you into a relationship. Not the other way around.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 04:09 AM
2

Either way. Keep focusing on your studies. Your friend sounds like an attention whore. She just wants your non-sexual attention. I wouldn’t give her any attention and be short with her whenever contact is unavoidable. Money will matter in the future as you start to bang hotter women. Sometimes they just want to come to your place just to see what you are working with.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 04:05 AM
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Bro. Who gives af about the tattoo on her leg? Are you planning to wife her? She’s DTF, don’t really answer her personal questions, remain a mystery as long as possible. Let her wonder what you are about. If you don’t like her place, bring her to your place. STOP text her so much. Only text you should be sending is to set days , or letting her know to have a nice day once a week. You are way too available and chatting it up too much. Let her continue to chase your validation. Keep her in your ro…
/r/askTRP11/04/20 03:53 AM
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She seemed high interest. Also get over your ex. Never be depressed about a women. There are literally 4.8 billion women. It sounds like you don’t even need to be dealing with women because your mind isn’t strong enough yet. Are you in the gym/working out? Are you in school or making money?
/r/askTRP11/04/20 03:48 AM
1

Self improvement is the first step. As you improve yourself you will feel more confident. As you get in better shape and get more money you will increase your SMV . Confidence comes from the things we accomplish. If you ain’t complishing anything no wonder you feel pussy.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 03:45 AM
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I’d let her have my Sunday evenings. Having sex Sunday night , helps you seem less desperate when dealing with new woman Monday-Thursday.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 03:40 AM
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Continue to eat more. Also start taking protein and creatine. Gain weight and build muscle. Also consider full self improvement. Make money , save money . You will feel confident . Start feeling confident about the improvements you are making in your life. Boost your confidence and charisma . I tell myself I’m the best looking muthafcka in this room and these sluts should be happy I even consider them. Just have a high value mindset .
/r/askTRP11/04/20 03:38 AM
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Bro. Don’t talk to her anytime soon. It may be a year until she looks at you as someone she would sleep with. You need to increase your sexual marker value. Don’t talk to her again until you bang a hotter chick. But she would have to know you banged said the hotter chick. Also don’t zero in on one girl. Start working in the next one.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 03:33 AM
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This is quarantine, she is text you seeking whatever validation she can get. Probably from you and atleast 2 other guys. I wouldnt text her for a few days. And only once a week until you are able to schedule a meetup. Have you slept with her yet?
/r/askTRP11/04/20 03:31 AM
3

Have you heard of intermittent fasting? I highly recommend it. I even recommended longer fast like 2 or 3 days. Helps shed fat . It will stay off of you cut sugars and high carb food. I recommend fasting until you can get to manageable weight. Start with air squats , push ups, planks , and sit-ups . Once the gyms open up focus on compound exercises.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 03:27 AM
1

Be indifferent. You shouldn’t care about what she doesn’t. I’m not saying don’t leave her in your rotation. Why not keep sleeping with her. I’d say it was a mistake to let him know you were bothered. I think a big part of being red pill is being unbothered. Stay in your masculine frame of mind.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 03:24 AM
2

Sounds like you have a scarcity mindset. There are no owners out here. Be yourself. Start seeing other women if you aren’t already. Sounds like you have oneitis
/r/askTRP11/04/20 03:19 AM
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Sounds like a bunch of fun excuses . If you are committed to self improvement then you will naturally have more interactions with women. If you are physically fit , have decent income, your own place and you have no girls you have not game. So start working on your personality and charm. Everyone isn’t naturally charismatic. But if you are committed to self improvement like I mentioned above you will have girls. If you have the things stated and no girls we can start talking above improving your…
/r/askTRP11/04/20 03:00 AM
3

Break up with her. She will be chasing your validation in a couple weeks
/r/askTRP10/04/20 02:00 PM
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Post a link to the subreddit
/r/askTRP09/04/20 09:57 AM
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Bro. Girls will always be there. The older you get you should have more resources , so at 40 you should still be banging women 25-30. The older women get they have less to offer like looks. If you have a home, nice car, stay physically fit you shouldn’t worry about women. They will always be there. Edit: you have a case of scarcity mindset. Learn to have an abundance mindset. Women can smell desperation and it’s a turn off.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 01:55 AM
4

Embrace yourself, if you don’t enjoy your own company why would others ? There’s always room for self improvement. Hobbies, Gym, etc... find your purpose.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 01:25 AM
1

Get in the gym and work on your fashion:
/r/askTRP04/03/20 02:11 PM
7

Stop chasing her validation. Women need 3 things , food, water, and validation. You essentially in the friendzone. You are one of her multiple male orbiters . Just cut of the the whole relationship. She adds no value to your life.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 07:10 PM
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I’d recommend finding ways to enjoy life. Sometimes a trip to a foriegn country provides the perfect reset. New land, new drinks , and new women is always great. Take an adventure!
/r/askTRP29/02/20 10:36 PM
2

Don’t have a scarcity mindset. Start looking for some new girls. Keep her in the rotation but exclusivity should be out the window. Leave her on read atleast a month .
/r/askTRP29/02/20 02:41 PM
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Thailand is a red light district lol jk but it’s a party area, last time I was in Phuket there was a cruise ship full of Scandinavians lol. Very many hot blondes walking around. But a bunch of viking dudes trying to cockblock. But it’s tons of fun plenty of women but it’s nothing compared to Pattaya Beach.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 02:32 PM
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You are in Phuket. Go to Bangla street and have fun. We all know female nature. No reason to married bro. That feeling of suspicion will only fester. Being purple pill isn’t for everyone.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 12:16 PM
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