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| 1 | She lost interest after a bad first kissMaybe it’s your personality | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 04:06 PM |
| 0 | Do you actually get better results when you get fit (I got none)?Maybe it’s your personality | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 11:34 PM |
| 2 | What is your opinion on the phrase: "She is not yours, its just your turn"Serious or a joke we shouldn’t be acting like women are objects that we own | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 01:00 AM |
| 7 | How to recover from sleeping with a known whoreImagine calling a woman a whore lmao | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Getting shamed for dating women younger than meWhy is your preference that age? | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 02:33 AM |
| 2 | Kissless virgin at 20, might be until I’m 21. Do I have any hope of true redemption/becoming a confident man?Toxic lol | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Does every girl inevitably goes cold, lose interest and break up?Woof talking in the language of “the game” is cringe | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Does every girl inevitably goes cold, lose interest and break up?What do you act like before and during this? | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Why is everything a man does considered creepy?The way you approach is the way you shouldn’t approach — which is the way the advice is referring to | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 03:59 AM |
| 3 | I can not get laidThat would be why he is not getting laid | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 05:21 AM |
| 8 | I can not get laidHave you tried talking to women without the explicit intention of fucking? | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 02:28 AM |
| 3 | How many dates before throwing in the towelSo his highest priority in the relationship is sex, as he would end the relationship even if they had chemistry. His focus is on sex, not her. No wonder she’s not sure if she’s comfortable. She clearly doesn’t want someone whose primary interest in her is sex. It isn’t complicated | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 09:42 PM |
| 6 | How many dates before throwing in the towelThere’s nothing wrong with wanting sex, but it’s clear you’re focus on this relationship is sex. If you respected the woman you were dating you wouldn’t have made this post lol Constant escalation is cringe and toxic | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 07:51 PM |
| 26 | How many dates before throwing in the towelSeems like you’re into the relationship for sex and not for her. | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 05:27 PM |
| 6 | Serious question for the women?Bing bong yet again you show your toxic view towards women, but please assert how no one knows it | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 05:30 AM |
| 7 | Serious question for the women?Oh what do you know, another part where you showcase your view on women | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 05:30 AM |
| 3 | Serious question for the women?Oh hey look it’s you low showcasing your views of women right here lmao | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 05:30 AM |
| 6 | Serious question for the women?You literally posted in this thread that you believe women were meant for men and that you’d like to save up to leave the country to go to areas with less lesbian relationships. You view lesbians as competition and women as objects for your affection. It’s not hard to figure out your view of women with that information. | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 05:19 AM |
| 7 | Serious question for the women?For someone that says they’re fine, you’re awfully judgemental towards people having relationships with people they’re attracted to. Then again you’ve posted you believe women are for men, so of course you obsess over it. You probably think that lesbians take away women you could get with — as if you had a shot, given their sexuality. Borderline incel right here. | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 05:11 AM |
| 2 | Serious question for the women?They’re attracted to them. It’s not that hard | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 04:57 AM |
| 6 | Tinder experiments are some of the most eye opening things you could run..Omg cringe | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 03:09 PM |
| 1 | This is NOT an incel sub, and some people on here need reminding of that. You have control over your own dating success if you improve & approach.This is an incel sub | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 04:11 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Anyone who thinks it’s not C is just a weeb who got rejected and didn’t handle it well | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 03:37 AM |
| 2 | Giving a girl from my hometown a ride back from campus. She’s super hot. How do I not make it awkward and werid?I would ask this question away from r/seduction, like legitimately | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Going after college girls at 25?Lmao imagine trying to use biology to try and validate your predatory behavior and toxic mentality towards women | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Going after college girls at 25?You ever think about why only a 20 year old will date you, a 27 year old man, but someone in your own age range and period of life won’t? Might have to do with that comment. | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Going after college girls at 25?As you continue your life alone, wondering why women choose not to be with you outside of a hookup, I want you to remember this comment you made. The reason women, and people, do not like you is because you view women in this way. But please, give me more incel talking points! I love when people like you play the Greatest Hits! | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Going after college girls at 25?Ah yes, creeping on the youngest legal age group because they’re ‘the horniest’ is a fantastic reason — totally not toxic or a problematic view towards women. Such a banger of an opinion that when you posted it 22 days ago it was the most popular post in Reddit history. Just because an opinion aligns with your incel mentality doesn’t mean it’s appropriate. | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 05:24 PM |
| 1 | What am I missing?No the point is to stop seeing women as an object you're trying to obtain (an attractive woman) and start seeing them as people. Talk to them as people, not as objects you want to attain, | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 01:52 AM |
| -6 | What are some places that are meant for hooking up?You’re looking for places to approach women, you’re a creep lol | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 05:20 PM |
| 2 | What am I missing?Nah. You need to not treat talking to women like anything more than talking to another person. Your second paragraph is straight r/niceguys trash. | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 05:10 PM |
| 1 | What am I missing?Your coworker treats women like people, not objects to woo. That is why he is successful and you are not | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 09:06 AM |
| -1 | Physical Touch Is On, But NO KISSING...Have you thought about respecting her boundaries | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 06:08 PM |
| 0 | How to not ruminate on what you did wrong?Stop treating women like objects that you can obtain and see interactions with people as interactions with people. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 05:26 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Only giving for reciprocation is the toxic part. Let’s not implant toxic ideas into OP | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 05:19 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Toxic mentality | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 03:39 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]If you have questions in regard to your sexual relationship and how it is perceived, I’d recommend asking your partner. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Never worry about how many IG followers she hasLot of toxicity and insecurity in this post | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 03:38 AM |
| -1 | Going after college girls at 25?yeah that reason isn't a good reason, which was my point. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Going after college girls at 25?I was implying that a 25 year old trying to hang out with college kids is predatory and toxic behavior due to the inherent differences in places of life. I'm saying he's aiming for the low hanging fruit, which is inappropriate. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Going after college girls at 25?Think about why college women (18-22) is more desirable than your own age range and ask yourself why that is | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Should I keep cold approaching or give it up?I’m 100% serious. I’m not saying you need to focus on your weight — that was a hurtful thing for her to say. But dead ass serious | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Should I keep cold approaching or give it up?You need to stop trying to talk to women solely to get them interested. | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Ex who I’ve been talking to again stopped initiating conversation and is responding simplyYikes toxic | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 04:53 AM |
| 1 | having success by literally just talking to womenI mean it’s true. Your post proves that lol. When you treat people like people, and act like a person yourself, instead of doing a routine/openers/approaches it just works better | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 06:31 PM |
| 1 | having success by literally just talking to womenPeople just like people. It’s not that hard | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 06:32 AM |
| -6 | Why would she give me her number and not reply :/Dude is this what happens when people tell you that your behavior is toxic? You just reject it without consideration? lmao. No wonder you can’t get people’s attention without openers. Literally cringe | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 05:34 AM |
| -3 | Why would she give me her number and not reply :/You’re single and rely on openers to get women to give you attention. They’re not working. | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 05:29 AM |
| -4 | Why would she give me her number and not reply :/It’s not getting to know women that is toxic, it’s the way attempt to do it. Having the mentality of using openers and doing “cold approaches” is the toxic part. Did you use a canned opener that you practiced in your mirror to introduce yourself to your best friend the first time you met? | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 05:23 AM |
| -16 | Why would she give me her number and not reply :/I talk to people. The idea of a ‘cold approach’ is toxic. You can’t make social interaction into a strategy. Again the idea of an ideal approach is toxic. This is so cringe. You are cringe | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Why would she give me her number and not reply :/Again, complying (saying yes) is safer. It’s not a hard concept to understand. | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 05:17 AM |
| -10 | Why would she give me her number and not reply :/There’s no such thing as an ideal approach. You talk to a woman the same way you would anyone else, whether or not you were attracted. The idea there is an “ideal approach” or a “good opener” is just toxic mentality | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 05:15 AM |
| 5 | Why would she give me her number and not reply :/Yes I do think she would make the conversation keep going if she was uncomfortable. The fact you don’t think that’s plausible makes me certain you made her uncomfortable | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 05:14 AM |
| -9 | Why would she give me her number and not reply :/Yeah that’s not a good approach. Calling something an approach isn’t good either. | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 05:13 AM |
| 8 | Why would she give me her number and not reply :/Now consider why she lied to you. This wouldn’t happen if you approached like women were just people, not objects to attract with openers | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 05:10 AM |
| 21 | Why would she give me her number and not reply :/Saying yes is safer than saying no. You think of women as a game that has openers. You made her uncomfortable | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 05:06 AM |
| 54 | Why would she give me her number and not reply :/I mean it’s true. The interaction didn’t go this way and you actually made her uncomfortable. Saying yes and never responding is safer than saying no. | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 05:02 AM |
| 140 | Why would she give me her number and not reply :/To get you to go away. | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 04:50 AM |
| 11 | TBH getting pussy isn't that difficult despite what i thought beforeMaybe you shouldn’t look at individuals as “pussy” | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 06:49 PM |
| 0 | Girl on dating app ghosts for two weeks, then reappears and wants to get drinks. Do you respond?I gurantee you if you show her this Reddit post, she’ll rescind that phone number. You getting a number doesn’t mean your mentality and this subreddit isn’t toxic. Frankly thinking it’s a big enough flex to call people bitches is an indication of that toxicity lol. Also congrats. Dating is cool. Enjoy getting to know a new person, it’s fun | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 06:11 PM |
| 0 | Girl on dating app ghosts for two weeks, then reappears and wants to get drinks. Do you respond?You left this girl on read instead of just taking some time to get to know someone because you’re insecure lmao | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Girl on dating app ghosts for two weeks, then reappears and wants to get drinks. Do you respond?No. I mean become a better person if the real you is off putting to a point where you need to pretend through a strategy. Your comments are an example of your toxic mentality | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Girl on dating app ghosts for two weeks, then reappears and wants to get drinks. Do you respond?If being too real is unattractive then you’re either doing it wrong, or your real you needs to be worked on. Women playing games is also toxic. Who’d have thunk. Now consider what most of this sub is | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 02:11 AM |
| 0 | Girl on dating app ghosts for two weeks, then reappears and wants to get drinks. Do you respond?“maybe I need to work on my text game” Dating and interactions just need to be real my man. Thinking of women as a way to attract with strategy is toxic. | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 01:59 AM |
| -2 | Girl on dating app ghosts for two weeks, then reappears and wants to get drinks. Do you respond?Because of the words you said. | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 01:55 AM |
| -4 | Girl on dating app ghosts for two weeks, then reappears and wants to get drinks. Do you respond?Good god your mentality towards women is toxic lol | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 01:21 AM |
| 0 | I hate the fact that if you're even off your game for one second, its enough to completely kill a girl's attraction to youThe best way to stay 100% on game is to not have game and just be yourself. As well as see women as people, not objects to get and seduce. This subreddit is so toxic. | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 06:12 PM |
| 9 | Learning to pull girls in clubsI think you should see a professional to work on that. Legitimately. It’s a common, but damaging mindset to equate worth to sexual prowess, as well as creates an unhealthy view towards women | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 02:33 AM |
| 2 | Learning to pull girls in clubsYou said it yourself, you do best when you’re not trying. Just merge the mindset | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 02:24 AM |
| 5 | Learning to pull girls in clubsUgh you’d get so many more women if you didn’t see the world the way you do | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 02:23 AM |
| 30 | As a guy , shit test the girl aswellJesus Christ, being manipulative ain’t cool | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 06:26 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I would stop believing that she thinks about you as much as you think she does. You are likely not a central character in her story, and aren’t the reason for her actions (flirting, eye contact, etc). She is likely mildly uncomfortable, especially given the ongoing nature of this. That’s normal. She is not likely analyzing every one of yours moves. Be a normal person and be kind. Let it just progress, just as your initial friendship did Also there’s no such thing as beta or alphas. Don’t restrai… | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 06:38 AM |
| 1 | If you have sex with a girl but don’t orgasm did you still lose your virginity?A state of being that is strictly a social construct | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 03:53 PM |
| 29 | If you have sex with a girl but don’t orgasm did you still lose your virginity?Virginity is a made up social construct who cares | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 06:17 AM |
| 6 | So basically you have to act all distant and not-care-ish for women to like you?God damn this is toxic. Treat women like people. It’s simple | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 08:08 AM |
| 10 | Do many women like giving head?Why does it still trouble you? | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 06:13 AM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]It may be the edible, but y’all come very analytical, matter of fact statements made about something only explained from a single perspective. It doesn’t really respect the idea of other perspectives on her side | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 11:39 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]This comment section is a ces pool | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 11:26 PM |
| 1 | If you get dumped and stay friends with your ex after the breakup, this is what will happen.Oh cringe | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 06:41 AM |
| -1 | Do you guys agree that women in dating apps average 2-3 points lower in real life compared to their pics?Who ranks attractiveness by points? Just say less attractive | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 07:35 AM |
| 1 | My little bro has had more sexual experience than me…Maybe it’s your personality | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 09:59 PM |
| 3 | Why did this smoking hot girl turn cold?My dude slays | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 11:49 PM |
| 48 | Why did this smoking hot girl turn cold?Your confidence is drastically different from your “I can’t get laid” posts of months ago | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Best books for men according to 56 blogs (see comments for the list)Did not answer the question at all. | /r/seduction | 04/08/20 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Best books for men according to 56 blogs (see comments for the list)1984, Fahrenheit 451, To Kill a Mockingbird, and Catcher in the Rye. Explain. Ready set go. | /r/seduction | 03/08/20 11:14 AM |
| 2 | Best books for men according to 56 blogs (see comments for the list)This list does not have to do with seduction. | /r/seduction | 03/08/20 03:08 AM |
| 2 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 51 Progress Report (First Kiss)Yeah this is super rapey | /r/seduction | 19/07/20 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Besides confidence, what qualities attract women?Genuine kindness | /r/seduction | 19/07/20 12:07 AM |
| 6 | I’ve never had a girlfriend. Or a kiss.How did you meet with a 6 year gap and just out of high school? | /r/seduction | 08/07/20 02:08 PM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 14 Field Report“To celebrate her beauty and get her in my life” Your on my goal with a woman shouldn’t be to get her in your life. | /r/seduction | 15/06/20 12:06 AM |
| 1 | How to really stop putting women on a pedestal?Ok neckbeard | /r/seduction | 12/06/20 10:44 PM |
| 5 | How to really stop putting women on a pedestal?Said by a true nice guy | /r/seduction | 12/06/20 10:43 PM |
| 44 | Cold approached and asked a girl out on coffee and got rejected.You don’t need a guru or education to get a date. Just be respectful and treat women like people. | /r/seduction | 10/06/20 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Daily field report and my confusion on the comments I get here sometimesIt’s bad you’re doing this at all. | /r/seduction | 10/06/20 12:31 PM |
| 0 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 10 Field ReportI mean I don’t think it’s being lazy. In a world with known stories of people reacting poorly, it’s easy and a way to end the conversation. Which in turn is safer | /r/seduction | 08/06/20 05:40 PM |
| 2 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 10 Field ReportWould you prefer “you’re creeping me out?” | /r/seduction | 08/06/20 03:17 AM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 9 Progress Report (Most Adorable Girl)Stopping a runner is rude and weird. Let people do their thing man | /r/seduction | 07/06/20 03:45 AM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 5 Progress Report ( 8 Approaches + 1 number)There’s a reason why you get the occasional number and they don’t respond consistently | /r/seduction | 04/06/20 10:46 PM |
| 3 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 7 Field ReportIf someone says they don’t want to walk with you, it’s the length of time that they don’t want you. They’re uncomfortable. | /r/seduction | 04/06/20 10:45 PM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 6 Progress ReportYour strategy of not talking to girls at lights because they could leave is creepy as fuck | /r/seduction | 04/06/20 03:21 AM |
| 2 | How do I be laid back and unimpressed, without looking depressed or like an asshole?No problem! Yep it’s hard. But be patient. The best advice I ever got is all the waiting wont feel like waiting when it’s right. Good luck my dude | /r/seduction | 30/05/20 04:27 PM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 2 Progress ReportI agree confidence is nice. But talking to people isn’t a journey. You’re literally making the idea of getting a date, being intimidate, etc this romanticized thing that it doesn’t have to be. And doing that is putting women on pedestals that make them objects, not people. At its core dating is finding a mutual connection and attraction for someone. You can approach someone because they’re attractive and maybe you hope to see them again, which is fine, normal, and literally a basic foundation of… | /r/seduction | 30/05/20 02:04 PM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 2 Progress ReportOne, white knight* Two, I go back to once again: an objective of getting laid, getting a date, etc as your sole objective is shitty. That’s not protecting feminism. That’s not being a shitty person. Woman are attracted to people who get what they want, but they aren’t attracted to someone who views them solely as a goal. View them as people. | /r/seduction | 30/05/20 01:57 PM |
| 3 | How do I be laid back and unimpressed, without looking depressed or like an asshole?No problem dude. Can I make a sincere recommendation? Get the hell off of pages like this. The people that preach wisdom on here, comment a lot, support a lot, etc are good intentioned but if you notice they don’t offer real advice like all this. “Seduction” is not a healthy thing, especially not the way they’re going about it. Dating as a whole is hard, yes, because it’s hard to meet people. But dating as a concept is simple: you meet someone, you be yourself, and you see if you like them. It’s… | /r/seduction | 30/05/20 11:20 AM |
| 2 | How do I be laid back and unimpressed, without looking depressed or like an asshole?Seems to me like you are a pilot and have an app idea. Both of those seem to be things about you. Dive into those. | /r/seduction | 30/05/20 04:58 AM |
| 3 | How do I be laid back and unimpressed, without looking depressed or like an asshole?Then what you need to do is figure out you. Jump into hobbies, get out of your comfort zone, etc etc etc. Find religion, read books, hike, go to therapy, do anything that helps you grow and learn. I’m not a believer you need to love yourself in order to be loved, but if you want a chance at a legitimate relationship you need to know yourself first. It takes time and it isn’t necessarily noticeable. I’d say don’t shut off dating, but don’t make it a priority, make learning yourself to top objecti… | /r/seduction | 30/05/20 04:57 AM |
| 2 | Apparently asking for a Facetime is "rushing things."She just wasn’t comfortable with you yet. She offered you an opportunity to build to that and showed she would be interested. You’re too intense and seeing her as an object. Your goal shouldn’t be to just date her, it should be to get to know her and see where it goes. All that only works if both parties are comfortable. You talk about wasting time and that’s fair. But if you met someone and fell in love, would any of that time have been wasted? No? Then why play on a timeline? | /r/seduction | 30/05/20 04:00 AM |
| 2 | Subtle Tells, signsJust ask her. Real relationships are that easy. | /r/seduction | 30/05/20 03:57 AM |
| 8 | How do I be laid back and unimpressed, without looking depressed or like an asshole?Just be yourself dude. If she doesn’t like you, your jokes, whatever now, she won’t like it when you open up. Be genuine and find someone who likes that part of you. Dating has the misguided notion that you’re out to impress the other person and persuade them to fall for you. Really, it should be the other way: you’re looking to be you and fall for them. | /r/seduction | 30/05/20 03:56 AM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 2 Progress ReportHonestly, you should stop seeing these interactions as ways to get dates, build confidence to get dates, etc etc etc. Women are people. You wouldn’t write a daily update of you going out of your way to have cold approaches with males or people you weren’t attracted to. Stop treating women, dating, fucking, etc as a goal. They’re people. You losing interest in connecting with someone due to their relationship status I’d direct evidence that you don’t give a shit about them as people, unless they’… | /r/seduction | 30/05/20 03:50 AM |
| 5 | My first approach and Starting One Year Long Cold Approach Challenge with at least 5 approaches a dayA psychopath often demonstrates psychotic behavior... but cool | /r/seduction | 28/05/20 11:17 PM |
| 2 | My first approach and Starting One Year Long Cold Approach Challenge with at least 5 approaches a dayThis is some mega nice guy shit. | /r/seduction | 28/05/20 10:02 PM |
| 12 | My first approach and Starting One Year Long Cold Approach Challenge with at least 5 approaches a dayBecause what he wrote is psychotic | /r/seduction | 28/05/20 10:00 PM |
| 0 | Whiner Of The Year.Y’all are all upset over a 16 year old that’s passionate about the environment lol | /r/MGTOW | 20/10/19 02:15 AM |
| -1 | Youtuber party thot and first in the UK to die riding a electric scooter, Emily Hartridge, was so sick when she found out her date was 5'11" and have lied about his heightBig oof | /r/MGTOW | 14/07/19 01:19 PM |
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