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alexgreat1/r/Divorce_Men10/04/22 07:32 AM
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alexgreat1/r/Divorce_Men20/06/20 04:47 AM
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Got tired of the manipulation of her threatening divorce over any small inconvenience. So I called her bluff and she hit me in front of the kids and I knew I was out.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/22 01:38 PM
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I already reached out to my lawyer on it and said I’ll do it but I have stipulations. If anything besides the kids comes up I’m walking out. If she wants it this bad she can pay for it. And if the counselor is biased and I’m uncomfortable we get a new one.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/22 07:02 AM
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No she did not hence catching me off guard
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/22 06:54 AM
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It’s in her court memo and petition to the court. She wants co parenting counseling. I just know what mediation was like and counseling before that. And I have less patience then I used to and no reason to hold back anymore on the blunt mean honest truth
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/22 06:48 AM
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No specifics were stated or indicated just that she wants the judge to order it in the case. No communication on any of it. I’m willing to give it a shot for the kids to get better stability but there is always another motive and I’m not sure what her angle is on it. But communication could be better all I get often to anything I try to communicate is a thumbs up emoji or just no response to actual relevant questions regarding the kids health and well being.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/22 06:40 AM
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I took all the pics of us or anything of her saved it to 2 separate flash drives so when I’m ready I can burn it but I still have them until I’m ready but deleted them off of my phone and other stuff so I no longer have to see them and that really helped me. I’m not ready to burn them yet but I don’t see them anymore
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/22 05:40 PM
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The biggest irony of all of this, the divorce was awhile in the making but the final straw was I had her arrested when she assaulted me in front of the children. That one was hard to swallow the Ego and call for help and tell police I got my ass kicked and just took it but it gave me full custody for now and put me at an equal chance in the courts by some miracle.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/22 05:12 PM
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We did the whole mediation thing. I sat in that room with her and the court appointed mediator when all this started. First time for 4 hours straight we had an agreement. She backed out. We did it again for 5 hours the next time. She backed out again. The whole time was “I’m just so upset and hurt, you’re abusive.” “You verbally, emotionally, religiously, (yes that’s a thing apparently) and borderline physically abused me” and the best one “You know you pretty much raped me the first time we had…
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/22 04:17 PM
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This is what I was thinking it was about I couldn’t figure out her angle. And why she would want to do counseling when I have made it very clear I want nothing to do with her the only reason I contact her is because we share children. My children are kind of young to explain what happened anyways at this point I don’t know why she would worry about it
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/22 03:58 PM
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I have been calling it counter parenting lately. So much of what I do has been a battle when it comes to trying to do what’s best for the kids she does the opposite on so many things just to be counter to what I do even if it makes no sense to do so
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/22 03:54 PM
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No we’ve done those classes already she’s asking the judge to have us go to counseling together “to be better co parents”
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/22 09:03 AM
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It was way out of no where especially with the fact she just bought a new house with her current guy. And the divorce isn’t final yet but she’s asking for the judge to mandate counseling for us
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/22 08:26 AM
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The best thing I have ever done for myself in my divorce and leading up to it was to go to therapy for myself. She had me convinced I was abusing her and the children. I was being gaslit into believing that was the case. Couples Therapy was the worst thing for me as it allowed her to gaslight me even more into believing I was wrong and that I had to be better. I would be careful about picking a couples therapist after having multiple that didn’t listen to me or let me speak but listened to her a…
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/22 09:13 PM
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I have sole legal custody, we split parenting time. She allows the children around SOs and the court system is moving so slow on anything happening it isn’t about control as much as it is about safety for the children.”edit” SO again does not mean significant other I mean registered sex offender
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/20 05:19 AM
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Yes I currently have plenty of time and I’m trying to set it up differently but I do not trust her judgment as one of her “best friends” is engaged to a SO and she was the babysitter! Until I pointed out that was illegal and going to be an issue “edit” by SO if it wasn’t clear I meant registered sex offender not significant other
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/20 04:57 AM
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