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They are having phone sex and masturbating together on zoom
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 08:15 AM
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Maybe, but what if they are more intimate with each other than you are, in all ways but physical sex? That’s cheating imo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:12 PM
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I ask bc my ex partner had sex with someone else but I found the emotional affair more damaging than the physical
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:03 PM
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Ok so sexting and zoom/webcam sex do count?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:02 PM
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Say for example they spoke all day every day about both mundane and intimate parts of thier lives, over text and phone and only couldn’t be together physically because of things like distance or social pressure (coworkers, etc). They have exchanged nudes every couple of days, do have phone sex and on zoom, just not been intimate physically due to the above issues. That’s an emotional affair as I know it. Basically a couple but not physically having sex. I am open to other interpretations of emot…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:54 PM
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What about a multi year emotional affair? Does time make a difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:29 PM
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I wouldn’t date anyone who wanted to do this, so it’s a no from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:25 PM
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It doesn’t matter if your dick is big or small, i imagine most men don’t want to suck in bed (correct me if I’m wrong). If you don’t know how to make your partner orgasm, you should improve, no matter what gender you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:23 PM
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Why do you say that? I have never had a problem with men being stingy if that’s what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 11:21 PM
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Regardless of the physical attractiveness levels between an obese person and a fit person, what would these two even have in common? If one person likes a sedentary lifestyle and one is into fitness, they aren’t going to even have many activities they both enjoy to do together on a date. This reminds me of this episode of scamfish where the one lady is very sedentary and the guy is a navy seal, like fit to the max, and the lady’s roommate calls this out. Tell me what you guys think of this: http…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:06 PM
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People can reject other people based on anything they want. No one forces a person to be attracted to a specific trait. This includes obesity, facial features, personality, height, education, career, etc. People also have the ability to improve themselves in an extreme number of ways, like losing weight, hair plugs or extensions, medical procedures, education, etc. If someone chooses not to, that’s their choice. If someone wants to remain obese, they can absolutely do so, but if people aren’t at…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:01 PM
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You don’t feel the pressure to look a certain way? In the west there is huge pressure, and you will be treated differently based upon it. Things like if you’re wearing makeup or not, or if you’re overweight or fit. Based on how well you fit the look determines how well people actually treat you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 11:08 AM
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Yep this is it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:50 AM
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Does it matter what the divorce was over? For example, if a wife cheats on her husband and he dumps her, I would feel less respect for the cheating wife and more respect for the husband for leaving, even though they had been though a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:06 AM
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Same here, I’m in my 30s and my husband had cancer. This makes me not want to enter the dating pool again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:03 AM
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The richest men in the world don’t date 20 year olds. Jeff Bezos or Donald Trump Jr for example. Both of them date women who look about 45. I guarantee those men could easily date someone very young should they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:01 AM
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Not if she’s recently single. What if she is a widow, or divorced for a reason other than cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:57 AM
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I’m single in my thirties, my pics in my profile. I have never had anyone say anything negative unless it’s when guys hit on me and I tell them that I’m not looking to date anyone. They always seem to get all butt hurt and rude then. I always assumed it’s because they are hurt that they aren’t the exception and don’t like to hear no, but maybe it’s something else. I am interested in viewpoints on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:25 AM
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What bad things do people say about single women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:18 AM
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Amen!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:07 PM
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Yes! Well said
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:57 PM
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I used to be friends with a guy who worked on a webcam site, and he made more money than a lot of the women. There were several men who he worked with who made the leaderboard every week over the ladies too. This was like $10,000+ a week, sometimes much more. So I think he’s proof that men can make more than a living with sex work. He was marketing himself to gay men, with his thing being that he was straight and they could try to convince him to be gay. I do think you have to be very good looki…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:57 AM
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I just saw a podcast on this! A psychologist who studies this topic was interviewed. Watch the first 15 minutes, they explain why women want to marry up, scarcity, and how men can up their game to be attractive to prospective mates. https://youtu.be/Gxmq9rWggqw Edit: listen to the first 18 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:20 AM
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Jordan Peterson explains what each gender want in a mate SO well, and I think knowing what each find attractive is very misunderstood, especially on this sub. This misunderstanding is leading to a lot of frustration imo. Watch this and tell me your thoughts of the first few mins. As a woman, I can tell what he says women want is correct. Im interested in a man chiming in his opinion on if it’s right. The lady in this video is not correct, I feel like she just wants to win the debate over him. ht…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:48 PM
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I must be a passport lady or something then since I’m canadian and it’s mostly American men who I end up with lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:10 AM
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For some reason men who I would not say yes to don’t tend to ask me out, which is ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:09 AM
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What is a passport bro? A man who wants to move to another country to marry someone there?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:36 AM
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No, but low value men will feel it. Women no longer have to put up with being cheated on or beat for survival. I don’t think women will lose interest in marriage however, because all humans want to love and be loved. Marriage today is a public show of respect and commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 05:44 PM
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Here’s a Ted talk with the science behind the answer: https://youtu.be/eyq2Wo4eUDg
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:16 PM
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I don’t think money is all men are good for. I was above my ex husband in both physical attractiveness (measured according to gay men) and income earned (measured by $) and was 100% faithful to him through our marriage and also through him having brain cancer for a reason. Men can provide sexual abilities, companionship, a partner in crime, not to mention getting to live with your best friend. I think if a woman’s putting into her appearance to please her man then it’s 100% fair he contributes a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:20 PM
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This is subjective. If you’re a college student, it’s forgivable. If you’re a lazy bum, it’s just not sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:12 PM
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Thos is a tale old as time that men are attracted to a woman’s physical appearance and she’d attracted to what he can provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:10 PM
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Over the first 3 dates and he asked me to do them then yes. If I asked him twice then I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:07 AM
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I need to know someone’s personality to know if I’m sexually attracted to them, plus I don’t want to develop feelings for someone who loses interest after sex, which seems to be the case, according to this Ted talk: https://youtu.be/eyq2Wo4eUDg .
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:31 AM
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The chances of being on the 4th sexual partner when someone jumps into bed on the first date is extremely low.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:01 AM
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Well I don’t believe in sleeping with a guy on the first date in any case, If he can’t handle it that’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 02:59 AM
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Probably bc they were burned on those one night stands. If anything it’s a compliment because they want the guy to stick around. I’m not a one night stand lady myself but I imagine that is the mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:55 AM
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Ok, as a newly single woman, I have some questions. How do you know if a man’s using you for sex or not if you’re expected to jump into bed before dating? Is my I pay for the third date rule inappropriate? I am not into sleeping with tons of men, so how long is an appropriate wait time nowadays? I would expect to do something nice on a date like dinner and drinks. Is that considered expensive? Or are we talking something like helicopter ride dates as expensive? Does what I look like make a diffe…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:45 PM
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It makes a difference since young people often times don’t know how to act with things like this.. I’m in my thirties and my rule is that whoever asks the other out pays, but neither should pay more than twice in as row. And yes I’ve initiated and paid for dates on tons occasions. I think your target market is maybe off as the women who refuse to pay for anything are imo either: A. Young and don’t know better B. Low value But I am open to hearing thoughts on my ideas as I am not really up on wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:29 PM
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I think maybe the majority of women who refuse to pay are maybe low value women or those who are very young and don’t know better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:21 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:17 PM
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But I’m female and have asked a man to go out to do something and paid for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:06 PM
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What the hell is a parasitic foody?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:03 PM
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I initiate sometimes on the second date! I’d never let a man I was interested in pay more than twice in a row though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:02 PM
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Haha I know, it’s like we are different species in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:00 PM
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I think whoever asked the other on a date pays unless it’s a committed relationship, but if the guy pays 2x in a row I always get the next one regardless of who asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:56 PM
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I don’t sleep with guys right away either. If you jump into bed on the first date the men playing these kind of mind games would label you a slut. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Guys here say they want a woman with a low body count and also to sleep together on the first date. Which is it actually?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:54 PM
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I would never date a man playing mind games like this. He would come off as a cheapskate and would be cut off way before sex happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:52 PM
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I wouldn’t date guy A. Theres a photo in my profile if you want to see what the kind of woman who would say this looks like :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 10:00 PM
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Maybe stop picking women who will cheat on you? Not all women are like that. Learn the signs of BPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:02 AM
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I saw him at a restaurant downtown Vancouver and he is SO much hotter in real life if you can believe it. Easily the sexiest man i have ever seen based on the outside alone. Edit: Harry Styles, but I imagine Paul Rudd is also incredibly sexy irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:50 PM
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What are you talking about? This is the first time I’ve been truly disgusted by a post on here. I’m actually pro men’s rights and the fact so many men are saying she deserved to be raped is making me rethink things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 01:45 PM
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Would you want a man larger than you to knock you down and rape you then get away with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 01:41 PM
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People with the incel mindset who don’t open themselves to education will stay in that self fulfilling prophesy from what I’ve seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 01:39 PM
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Most reasonable people know that what this person is saying is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 01:37 PM
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That's too bad you felt that way because think many people here do too. Anyway, i do agree with you as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 01:28 PM
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I think it’s hard for everyone to judge their own attractiveness, and it’s at least partly why so many people think they’re a 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 01:24 PM
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I’m shocked a man on here would date someone overweight in the first place, considering how those poor women get criticized in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 08:55 PM
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I know you don’t actually believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 05:13 AM
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I think someone who truly does think these are average needs to get off the internet and back into the real world. I feel like a portion of this sub is where people who wouldn’t normally interact because they aren’t fitting into society get to do so and reinforce their totally misinformed theories by all agreeing and ignoring evidence to the contrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 03:05 AM
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But a man with beautiful looks and a shitty personality will never be attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 12:27 AM
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My theory is that the women who are into a one night stand for looks alone are low value women or those who have no genuine confidence. Women are biologically programmed to desire men who can provide, even if she makes the same amount of money. It doesn’t always include looks. You may not be putting yourself out there in the right way, because you sound alright to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 12:10 AM
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No not the same for sure. I think it’s that lustful, I’ll do anything to have you feeling when it’s physical, and love when it’s based on personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 11:05 PM
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I meant that you wanted me to believe you knew what women want, when I am a woman and had just said man B is my pick. I didn’t mean to offend. What I meant is that most women wouldn’t want to date a lazy, uneducated man with no career or life success, who’s riding on his good looks to get him through life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 11:02 PM
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I meant that you wanted me to believe you knew what women want, when I am a woman and had just said man B is what we would choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:58 PM
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I stated my opinion in my original comment, and am confused as to why I should now believe that a man knows more about what a woman wants in a partner, than me, a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:56 PM
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my husband had brain cancer
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:47 PM
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Why would you say that when you don’t know what I make?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:47 PM
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Someone can become attractive to a woman based on their personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 09:57 PM
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How would he get that job?? Being hot doesn’t replace an education or genuine career success. It might get you preferential treatment, but never above an entry level management position, unless you’re movie star hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 09:55 PM
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Some just want others feeling the same way to agree and further reinforce their theory instead of listening to what women say. I had posted above about high value women not even considering dating a hot homeless man, and someone still said that I should trust him because he knows what what women look for over my own female opinion. Edit: fixed an autocorrect
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 09:53 PM
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How do you know, and why should we believe you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 09:39 PM
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Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 05:39 PM
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I’ll dm you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 05:32 PM
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Sometimes divorce isn’t the fault of one spouse. It’s different if you choose to leave because you get bored or cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 04:05 PM
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I would choose guy B if I were going to date one or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:07 PM
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Sounds like the female version of simping
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:05 PM
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​ As woman, I would only date guy B.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:04 PM
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Well what do you do if your spouse dies, stay single for the rest of your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:02 PM
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Agree from a female POV
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 02:57 PM
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I find it so interesting many men are choosing to be guy A. I read a post awhile back about a guy who was homeless. Instead of getting a full time job, he spent all his time at the gym, working on his looks, and eating healthy. Even though he was probably quite good looking, I can’t imagine many high value women being attracted to someone who’s living as a homeless man, even if he looked good. Now that I say that, I’m sure tons of low value women would be ok with a car quickie with someone physi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 02:56 PM
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Seriously guy B is who to be I think
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 02:44 PM
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Do you mean 7 figures? Cause 6 isn’t very much nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:19 PM
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I’ve heard someone say that your first marriage is just a trial run, which seems so true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:46 AM
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Unattractive people are just unnoticed for the most part. They get negative attention and put down when they are a jerk or a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 02:50 PM
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I didn’t know that they were into height, interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 02:43 PM
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Can’t tell what it is til I know your personality, that’s half the score
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 02:41 PM
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Not ugly!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:38 AM
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I did think they were like me but I am starting to doubt myself.. so what are women generally like? I’m early 30s so I’m above the dating age so don’t pay attention those trends
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:14 PM
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How do you know it’s a requirement? I’ve seen women hotter than me go out with a local standup comedian who’s like 5’3. I’m 5’5 and my ideal height is 5’11 but I wouldn’t break up with someone over it. That’s the attitude it seems where I am, at least from talking to girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:05 PM
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I just said it. I was married to someone who thought that’s all he needed to turn me on and it sucked. I’ve heard other women say this too. When did people start rejecting partners on dick size though? I’ve never heard this, but i haven’t tried to pick a guy up since I was a teenager, so. What happened to dating awhile first, is that not a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:59 PM
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Whats smv?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:45 PM
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You are most welcome
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:41 PM
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How is it you know more about what a woman wants than a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:39 PM
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You knew what I meant
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:35 PM
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So you say women are wrong about what men want, and you also know what women want more than a woman does? I’m open to hearing why you think this. Sources for all of this data?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:32 PM
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I don’t believe that height is the number one factor in choosing who to date. That’s like saying tit size is men’s number one factor. None of my female friends have dated based on height alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:28 PM
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Well I have all the lady parts so idk what to tell you. Maybe it’s cultural, as I’m Canadian.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:20 PM
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You had it pretty much right :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:19 PM
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You think women should have sex before the first date??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:36 AM
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It’s not that fun to go on dates with someone you’re not into. I honestly think it wasn’t a scam.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:35 AM
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Yeah, why not just say she doesn’t have sex on the first date?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:34 AM
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Yeah perfect example of face, status, and career success overriding height. I absolutely guarantee he has his pick of high value women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:19 AM
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Big dicks are often a sign a man’s bad in bed, since guys can think it’s all they need to pleasure a woman. I’d way rather have a average dick attached to a man who knows how to arouse a woman. Big dick and man skilled in bed is great though I haven’t experienced it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:15 AM
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Bezos has a hot girlfriend. I’d date him, actually. Drive to succeed is very sexy to women, whether it’s a financial payoff or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:13 AM
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From a female pov 1. Charisma and Personality 2. Career success (not necessarily money, but ambition and drive to reach his goals) 3. Face 4. Physique 5. Height 7. Money
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:08 AM
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You were right. They care about charisma, body, face, but I also will add ambition and drive in his chosen field. I said in another comment I’ve dated pro athletes in perfect shape 6’- 6’4, but the sexiest man I have ever met is a 5’8 fighter pilot
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:00 AM
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what’s the Korean standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:56 AM
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I think it might be similar to a woman all of a sudden developing D cups. Like it’s sexy but not essential in a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:51 AM
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At past 6’3 it’s downhill for me. I’d way rather pick a 5’11 guy over 6’5
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:48 AM
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This is the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:47 AM
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He’s the right size
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:46 AM
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I’ve heard I’m an 8 from gay men in the fashion industry, though I’m not sure how that translates for straight men. I said in another comment I have dated pro athletes who are 6’2, 6’4 and 6’0 but the sexiest man I have ever met is a 5’8 fighter pilot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:43 AM
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Yeah, that’s still taller than me. Until a guy is like is .. I guess under 5’3, I probably wouldn’t rule him out, because I’ve been attracted to a guy that height before. I didn’t date him, because he already had a girlfriend. I judge a man on if he treats me well and makes me laugh, we can have fun together, has good hygiene and style, and has ambition and drive in his chosen field, whatever it is. I find those things more important than height when it comes to dating, and they all have to be t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:23 AM
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As a woman, unless you’re shorter than me, it’s not really an issue. I don’t think men understand that women aren’t into looks the same way men are. I’ve had relationships with 6’4 pro athletes in perfect shape and also a 5’8 man with a dad bod and he’s way sexier imo, and better in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:05 AM
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If I’m into the man I’m there with, no. If I’m not into him I’m probably occupied with an excuse to leave and not checking out other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:42 PM
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If they approach with a come on maybe, but say you work with a woman who’s a 8/10 and you’re a 4/10. Her getting to know you long term there is a way higher chance of dating you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 07:57 PM
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So true, but even more than that is ambition and success, which women find very sexy. A 5’8 doctor, pilot, or executive isn’t going to have any problems picking up ladies even with an average body.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 07:53 PM
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You don’t need looks to get a foot in the door. You just need a reason to interact with them. Having a good job and working on yourself to succeed, etc is a great use of time in regards to women finding you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 07:45 PM
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Your first paragraph is absolutely accurate and should be a pinned post lol. The sexiest man I’ve met is only 5’8 but I was attracted to his ambition and success, his personal style, attitude and personality, along with how he treated me. Plus once together I realized that he was a sex god.. like the guy you said is dominant that gets all the women. I call it the sex god effect haha. I’ve also dated professional athletes 6’2-6’4 that can’t hold a candle to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 07:41 PM
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The sexiest man I’ve met is only 5’8 but I was attracted to his ambition and success, plus once together I realized that’s he was sex god... I’ve also dated professional athletes 6’2-6’4 that can’t hold a candle to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 07:37 PM
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This. The sexiest man I’ve met is only 5’8 but I was attracted to his ambition and success, plus once together I realized that’s he was sex god... I’ve also dated professional athletes 6’2-6’4 that can’t hold a candle to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 07:36 PM
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Clips from the mm?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:43 AM
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Same!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:04 AM
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This whole sub is either women saying they don’t like men’s standards posts and men saying they don’t like women’s standards posts lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:19 PM
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This. I’ve had sex with one person in the last 12 years and was married to him. I’m currently single, and so I haven’t had sex in a while. I’ve had opportunity to many, many times though, so a woman who wanted casual sex would have a lot of opportunity to. I personally don’t believe sex without some sort of relationship is worth it or good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:01 PM
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It’s been two days since it happened for me, but I was at home one of those days and at my parents place the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 10:45 AM
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Ok well if you need help send me a message.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:07 AM
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What’s your car worth? Why not trade it for a little motorhome or a trailer you can park? Surely that’s worth it to be able to prep your food, have a fridge, stove etc since you’re into healthy living. And majorly worth it to have a bed and a shower. Being physically hot is great, but only if you have a place to bring dates back to. Are you living this way because of substances? I’m asking in a non judgemental way because I work with a lot of people who live in cars or shelters and maybe you can…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:28 AM
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I got that, I was actually just agreeing with you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 01:07 AM
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I’m a woman and from our perspective this advice is awesome. Great job on this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 01:02 AM
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Most women aren’t into random sex but do it because they think the man will be all of a sudden wanting to date them, it’s unhealthy imo. Even Jordan Peterson promotes marriage. Isn’t mgtow into him?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:18 PM
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Good point, you actually make me agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:13 PM
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That’s a very bitter way to look at things. Im in my thirties and ’ve only had sex with one person in the last decade and was married to him. Most women aren’t chasing dick 247 like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:12 PM
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That’s actually been scientifically proven, it’s why when you look at couples out and about they’re usually the same level of attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:09 PM
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What about love or companionship? Raising a child together? Having another person to fall back on in hard times and someone who’s on your side?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:58 PM
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Why don’t you upgrade to an RV? Then you would have your own kitchen to indulge your passion for cooking, and also a private bathroom/shower/bed. Probably less people would phone you in as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 01:37 PM
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Well I have heard the following from a multitude of advice givers. 75% of these came from guys I’ve not been in a romantic relationship with. “i think you look better at 120lb” said after gaining 10 lb “Have you thought about getting your boobs done?” “Are you sick?” Going in to work without a full face of makeup “Smile, honey” “You’re never going to get a man to stay unless you….“learn to cook”, “focus on having kids instead of a career “ “Don’t forget to put your makeup on before we go out” No…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:22 AM
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This sex theory does work, but only under specific circunstances It will work if: You’ve (the female) eaten nothing and are dizzy, but you’ve got a perfect body to wear the tight clothes op speaks of on. -Body: Hourglass shape only. Big tits, tiny waist, wide hips. F me heels and a tight dress. a beautiful heart shaped face, with a defined jawline, high cheekbones, and big blue eyes. Dimples if you’re extra lucky. Inject your lips so they look perfect around him in his fantasy. skin cannot be to…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 01:13 PM
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I still don’t see why you even care
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 10:42 PM
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It was still on your mind for almost a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 10:38 PM
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Just because I didn’t reply didn’t mean I didn’t read them. Why would you come back to this post almost a week later to comment this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 10:31 PM
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Thanks :) thats nice if you to say. I do think it may be the case since I feel I looked unhealthy before and also If I was a man I’d want T and A lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:34 PM
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Thanks 😊 I feel better with curves. I was doing a lot of partying before so I didn’t look hot imo at 110 lbs.. I find it interesting a lot of people here are saying the curvier someone is are the easier they are, It’s a pairing I wouldn’t have come up with on my own. Also the comments on asking out curvier women vs waif type women are causing so many more questions. Why do people think curvy women are going to say yes and thin women won’t? Is it that they think they can only ask out a large woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:33 PM
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Weird thing about this, I have had way more guys ask me out 20 lb heavier than I was before. I mean I have got my pic in my profile so you can see I am not as big as the girl in the example, but significantly more men have hit on me like this. Why do you think that is, do you think it’s cause I am less hot now and less intimidating to ask out? I am curious from a man who doesn’t know me’s perspective. I don’t have a before ready but basically 20-25 lbs less than in the pic on my profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 11:01 AM
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As a woman, when I think of incels I think of guys who tend to be angry towards women and the men who date these women. These guys usually don’t seem to be doing much to improve their circumstances. I also kind of group nice guys into the bunch labelled incels as well, as they are being cock blocked by themselves. Both the hateful incels and nice guys react badly to rejection and feel they deserve more from society. From my perspective, the nice/shy guys you mentioned are usually men who are jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:20 AM
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I don’t think many women find virginity as super important anymore, religious reasons aside. I think the change has more to do with many women being happy being on their own and being more selective with partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 05:24 AM
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I couldn’t find this in the sub wiki - what are shit tests and comfort tests?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 02:10 PM
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