alexk218 Archive

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1	What advice would you give someone in his mid-30s who never had success with women? I think it’s the opposite. You got a PhD in some medical whatever stuff right? You’re above average in intelligence. The vast majority of people with BELOW average intelligence don’t have this problem. I’d seriously consider hiring some type of “social skills” coach or something of that nature. I have no idea what that is but I’m sure it exists (Obviously avoid the quacks and scammers). You don’t need to have genius-level wit to have a normal conversation. You don’t even need average-level wit. …	/r/ExRedPill	23/11/22 06:16 AM
1	What advice would you give someone in his mid-30s who never had success with women? I used to be exactly like that man. Had extreme social anxiety as a kid. During conversations all I would think about is what I would say next, praying that I wouldn’t fuck up the conversation with something embarrassingly awkward. Is that your situation? Cause I realized that’s not how conversations are supposed to feel. Only piece of advice I could give is practice. Practice having conversations and actually listening. Instead of thinking about what your next words will be. Pay attention to th…	/r/ExRedPill	23/11/22 05:49 AM
1	What advice would you give someone in his mid-30s who never had success with women? Based off your “small talk” part.. it looks like you need to learn to be more sexual and flirty. I don’t know how you talk to girls exactly but I’m assuming your conversations are very platonic. And being flirty is a skill like any other, and anyone could get better at it. Maybe not world class pickup artist level 9000… but BETTER. So don’t give me any excuses mate	/r/ExRedPill	23/11/22 05:20 AM
1	As multiple studies suggest, High n count is a red flag for both genders. Impulse control is a preferable quality for marital stability and has nothing to do with gender. Agreed	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/22 09:14 PM
2	As multiple studies suggest, High n count is a red flag for both genders. Impulse control is a preferable quality for marital stability and has nothing to do with gender. Idk mate, for what it's worth my n count is about 25 (22 yrs old), and it would turn me off from the idea of a LTR if a girl my age has the same. Although I'm probably more lenient than guys with a very low n count... If a girl my age has been with 15+ that's when I'd consider it a deal breaker, but lower than that I can manage. The sentiment is the same for all the guys I know in my position. Just my anecdotal experience	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/22 04:17 PM
12	Why Mate Guarding is a subconscious turn off Not mate guarding does not equal letting your woman flirt with other guys. I'm assuming mate guarding in this context means things like monitoring her phone, making her unfollow other men on social media, etc, which you shouldn't feel the need to do if your girl is obsessed with you and you know you're the highest value guy she'll find.	/r/TheRedPill	07/02/22 09:52 PM
5	Is crying a turnoff for you? Bro just accept reality, what that guy did is unattractive to a lot of women. No point being upset over human nature, it'd be the same thing as a woman getting upset that we're not attracted to girls with a flat ass & no tits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/22 10:21 PM
-2	The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life. I'm assuming you're a young guy. I can assure you once girls get past their early 20s it generally starts to become unattractive to them, other than a small minority of gaming chicks	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/21 01:56 AM
31	The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life. Women and men are attracted to different qualities in each other. A hot girl who sits at home and watches Netflix all day is still desirable, whereas the same doesn't apply to a man, who generally has to be successful in multiple areas in his life to be desirable. Sitting here complaining that life isn't fair isn't gonna get you anywhere bud	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/21 01:39 AM
1	Has anyone had to tell a plate to not make it obvious they’re fucking other people? Thank you. All these other comments saying to ignore it otherwise he'll seem weak are retarded. If a girl is doing something you don't like you tell her... and you let it be known that you'll leave if she's not willing to comply. It seems 100x weaker to passively let her do something that she DEFINITELY knows is disrespectful. Girls are not stupid, she knows sending you snaps while she's on another date is disrespectful and by ignoring that you seem passive as hell. This goes without saying that…	/r/askTRP	03/03/21 05:23 PM
1	1/3 of people have lied about their sexual history to their partner Fair enough	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/20 03:04 AM
2	1/3 of people have lied about their sexual history to their partner I know girls with really low n counts who binge watch tv all day. Wouldn’t call that a low inhib trait, the others yes	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/20 05:11 PM
2	I'm dealing with extreme sexual performance anxiety. Need help. I had performance anxiety from 16-20 years old. Currently 21. A BIT of alcohol + Cialis/Viagra. Your doctor likely won’t prescribe it to you. I won’t tell you the rest lol. Focus on your pleasure solely. Don’t give a fuck about her pleasure for a moment. Easier said then done but whenever I get into that mindset I would find it very easy to get hard and from there you’re good to go. If I notice I’m not getting hard from making out with a new chick I’d make her give me head till I am and think on…	/r/askTRP	13/10/20 02:51 PM
2	For the teenagers on asktrp I agree with this. Every time I took the rp advice of logistics-only texting it went badly, unless the girl had crazy high interest to start with. I find it comes off too cold. I’m also 21 so maybe that plays a role	/r/askTRP	25/09/20 09:29 PM
9	Ex texted me that she's fucking other guys Reddit moment	/r/askTRP	21/06/20 08:56 PM
5	I'm angry towards women close to the wall Even if you were right bro who gives a fuck	/r/askTRP	21/06/20 04:28 PM
3	Something that I am never going to understand... Should people not live their youth? Unless by "living your youth" you mean partying 24/7 and getting nothing productive done	/r/askTRP	10/06/20 05:21 AM
1	Is the happiness and fulfillment of bottom tier men dependent on the suffering and misery of women? But IQ isn’t irrelevant in the dating market. It won’t do anything as a short term dating strategy but it’s an attractive trait for a long term partner (aka beta). IQ is highly correlated with financial success and there will always be women looking for a “betabux” as they want to settle down. Also women will almost always only settle down with a man that they perceive as more intelligent than them	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/20 06:22 AM
1	People reccomend a women should get married during her peak years in order to secure the best guy and therefore have more happiness, however I dont believe this will end in her being happy. That sounds nice but in reality this will eliminate all high value men. Any very high quality man will want a woman with both looks and a personality to match. This doesn't necessarily make them a guy who only wants an 'arm candy trophy wife'.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/19 08:25 AM
1	How to maintain gfs respect for you when you live together? I love it. The key is having a life apart from your gf and never putting her on top of your priority list.	/r/askTRP	21/02/18 07:55 PM