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/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:51 PM
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Im in the uk. By getting drunk in bars, i mean in town in very little clothing, like some single women do. No, if she goes back to work, then we split it, or if she goes part time, then we split proportionally. If we divorce, its split 50/50 - we've both had our roles to do. In terms of pensions - yes. The money in the joint account is the same as if we both earnt it - all the regular outgoings covered, and some personal money each to treat ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:21 AM
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That when you have kids, she steps back from work, and focuses on them, rather than them going to childcare. It does also mean she may take on more housework. I also wouldnt expect her to go around town getting drunk - but i wouldnt either. But... The money I earn is our money, it goes into a joint account, with equal say. We each get time to ourselves to do what we want. When the kids are at high school, she can work or not work, its up to her, id happily provide if she didnt want to work. We h…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:45 PM
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A want a traditional wife. I dont want a lot of what youve listed....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:37 PM
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Possibly. Would have to tick all the other boxes though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:56 AM
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Im not saying youll change your mind. Im saying a) you may well change your mind, so dont be closed off to it, and b) really take time to appreciate what you will be missing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 07:25 PM
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The reverse can also be true, people that were against kids, may become open to having them, realising that centering life around careers can be very unfulfilling
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 05:28 PM
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Im not saying people should get pregnant if they say they dont want kids. What i am saying is that they should really be open to the idea of kids and think about their lives in a deeper sense, and that is a process that should keep going over time, people change all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 05:14 PM
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If they think a partner is too much headache, then they are basing this off previous experience or anacdoatal from friends. If you fond the right match, it is never a "headache".asexual can absolutely have partners and be in love btw....aromantic is made up, its just some people feel/describe love differently as everyone is different - even so, aromantics get married etc too. Temperament for children - most people start off not having that, because they are young, and they then mature into it. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 11:29 AM
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Sounds like they got pregnant by accident (sorry to hear that btw). Choosing not to have kids ever is different. Its evaluating your life, values, what really brings you inner happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:07 AM
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Id say thats an awful shame. Why do you not want them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:02 AM
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Sounds like you just hate men because of a bad experience maybe. Im talking about being with a proper partner, where you are equals and best friends. Career? The west have been brainwashed - careers are never as fulfilling as family. Sounds like you dont consider the positives. You talk about screaming children - you realise they dont sit there screaming 24/7 right? They also love you. "Menatal and financial pain" - you really have been brainwashed. I have plenty of time for my hobbies and frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 08:55 AM
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Yes, because they have issues. Its a shame they arent able to move past those.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 08:18 AM
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Hard cringe. Any woman or man that doesnt want kids at some point or a partner that is perfect for them, is missing out on an awful lot
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:42 AM
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I really dont think shes even considering, and if she is, its way down the list after looks and money
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 09:25 AM
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She doesnt even mention anything about personality, its so incredibly shallow. I would never date a woman like that. I suppose my other half must be part of the 20% thankfully
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 08:46 AM
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God thats depressing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:57 PM
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You said "a lot of men", my disagreement is that its not. There will absolutely be men that do that, but i think youre just bad at picking lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:01 AM
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Well they wont will they. I cant say ive seen men thinking the woman should work, sort the kids, sort the house, and the guy just work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 06:45 PM
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I suppose it would depend on what the culture was, why she would keep her name. I dont know of a specific culture example. In terms of british culture, someone who wants to take my name generally has similar values to me. Id still want my kids to have my surname in that scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 08:37 AM
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oh ok lol Well, it certainly seems that whatever stats you look at, there are more women take their husbands names than don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 09:51 PM
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so you think the people surveyed lied? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 09:13 PM
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If people want them to. There's clearly a massive chunk of the UK that clearly still want it to, including me and my wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 09:01 PM
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it isn't tradition for a man to take a womans name....clue is in the word 'tradition'.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:42 PM
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so you dont believe the results?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:32 PM
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I am saying that when in the context of that tradition. A wife taking a husbands name. It's not hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:06 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:42 PM
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lol sassy. Of course I am committed, which is why I work hard, to give her the life she wants and she only works 2 days a week. She wanted to follow tradition and take my name too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:42 PM
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YouGov for the woman taking the mans name in marriage. I'm not sure on double barrels being included in the kids data though, quite possibly they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:27 PM
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90-96% of kids have their fathers surname. Approx. 90% of British married women take the husbands surname.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:00 PM
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At our village primary school, every single kid in my kids classes has their fathers surname. Same at the local high school (that one of my kids is now at), same when i was at school, same at all the other surrounding villages.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:57 PM
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Middle class, village life, vaguely Christian (CofE school etc), right leaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:41 PM
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In the UK, certainly in my demographic, it is the norm to take the husbands name. I would not take her name, unless I really didnt like my own I suppose, same for double barrel. If someone sees a wife and kids with one surname, and a husband with a different surname, they usually assume the kids arent actually his. If its just the wife with a different surname, people are more likely to assume she just wanted to keep her name. My main reason is Id see it as her really comitting to me, and wantin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 04:46 PM
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Probably not, would depend on the reason, and id want our kids to have my name.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:43 PM
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Errr you sound like a great catch tbh! A lot of men woukd be super happy with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 03:56 PM
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The only acceptable place now for a man to approach a woman (that he does not know), is now apps or in a club.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 08:50 PM
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Easy - Its been massively pushed through media for men to not approach women, with them being labelled as creeps etc
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 04:09 PM

Does this tie in with sweden having one of rhe highest % of foreign born men....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 04:06 PM

Theres different varieties of red pill as far as im aware. I believe in more traditional marriage roles. I think a woman should be at home once shes had a baby, at least until its at school, but ideally longer. I see that as being the most important role, dedicating time to the child. The trouble is, because of the push for women to be in the workforce, its now very hard for mums to be able to do that. Is that still red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:57 AM
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Social skills can be very misleading. Can you adapt to the type of person she is, and read those clues straight away.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 11:29 PM
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Depressing. I wouldnt say theyre not meant to find a partner. I would say that their chances are greatly reduced, particularly for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 02:05 PM
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Completely disagree. Any kind of enforced representation by features is not right.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 12:08 PM
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He was asked if she was the greatest tennis player. It wasnt some off the cuff remark he made.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 02:54 PM
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For most demographics this is now the case. In bars and online are the only acceptable places now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:18 PM

You're missing the point. As a right wing white straight man, i dont want special treatment, i want: - My family to be as safe as possible. - My own country to be put first. - To pay the same or less income tax. - If I work harder for my family, i want them to have better lives than those who do not work as hard. I will vote for whoever says they will improve one or more of those points. Dems obsess over identities, like you said in your post, rather than core values.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:26 AM
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From my experience, they like muscular, but not the insane look you get from steroids.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 11:17 PM
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There is absolutely a disproportionate amount of criminals from single mums. I would say people generally blame the absent fathers though, which they should. This is also massively dispropotionate with black fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 07:03 PM

What on earth have you been smoking?!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:54 PM
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So he was sober enough to make an order, but was then so wasted he passed out WITH his pants down... Come on, have some logic lol She is the victim. You choose to believe men regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 02:05 PM
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Why, because I use facts? Guy ordered, and knowing food was coming, proceeded to pull his trousers down and leave his door ajar. These are all facts yes...? Or are any of those untrue?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 04:40 PM
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"Victim" ok sure lol The sexual pervert you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 10:04 PM
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Lol im a guy, im not a misandrist. Im just a realist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 10:03 PM

It was ajar for a reason...because hes a pervert. Stop defending sexual freaks. Must be your high IQ that makes you defend pervs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 08:56 AM

I know you are, but it was incoherent drivel. Embarrasing and strange tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 08:54 AM

My god what a load of drivel. I cant tell if you're drunk, dumb, english isnt your first language, or, most likely...you're insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 12:24 AM
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Ordered food, then left his door open and pulled his trousers down exposing himself....sure, hes the victim lol What a bizarre IQ statement btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 09:29 AM
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How is he the victim? He obviously hoped she would see him, hes an exhibitionist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:35 AM

Sounds weird
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 10:04 PM
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Finances - you will obviously have less money yes, but a) that doesn't mean there is zero money for self care, and b) a partner is not going to say 'let yourself go', only a bad one might. Yes SOME mothers can struggle, and some might not, or some may struggle on one birth and not another! Op states it like a fact, when it's not. Mothers and rearing - yes, I would say mothers do more rearing particularly in the childs early years. Part of that may be 'old fashioned', but also a significant part …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:19 PM
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Her numbered points aren't true though, except for point 5
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:54 PM
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Sounds like you have a warped view, influenced by personal experience. All of your points are entirely wrong as an across the board statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 07:24 AM

Either a screw loose or had your heart trampled on. This is not correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:48 PM
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Lol that sounds ridiculous. "Just incase you accidentally get pregnant, I want you to know I'd have a paternity test done"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 06:29 AM
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You have zero logic
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 04:16 PM
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What a terrible effort lol it's not the same thing at all. The same thing would be if the man has slept with loads of women, and been pegged, and his new gf says she wants to try pegging him. In which case, fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 01:46 PM
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So are you picking the bear or the man? What do you think the chances of the man being bad are?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 12:36 PM
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You've not mentioned way more important factors. Can he hold a conversation? Can he make a girl laugh? Is he kind? Is he confident?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 10:48 PM
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Very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:58 PM
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What country do you live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:45 AM
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What reality or country are you living in? I've seen zero evidence of this. I'm in the UK. Women just want a guy that is loyal and has some motivation about him. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:19 PM
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Pretty easy. In terms of how fast they want it to move, and how they like to be chased (type of flirting, physical etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:25 PM
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Absolutely we want that too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:40 AM
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Every woman is different, but every one of them wants to be 'chased'. This doesn't mean she wants to have sex, but she wants to know you want her. You just have to gauge each one as to what that looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:29 AM
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I'd agree with that. I only got married as I was absolutely certain it was a good decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 09:13 PM
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Personally for me it's a gain. If you pick the right partner then marriage is only ever a gain. If you have a net loss, you chose the wrong person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 07:18 PM
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Certainly not my type of woman. If men were doing the exact same thing I would think the same though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 11:26 AM
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Not true. It's only if you are needy as well as nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 08:14 AM

Some kind of early mid life crisis. Possibly weren't popular at school when they were a student.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:55 AM
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Yes, any father should have the right to request one, without lengthy or costly legal proceedings.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:41 PM
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Because media/society has dictated that to women, who have stupidly bought into it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:21 PM
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Entirely depends on both of their relationship experience, sexual experience, and life experience
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 11:41 AM
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Look at the measures, absolutely rubbish statistic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 09:00 AM
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Can't be so, I've heard it's a patriarchy 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:48 AM
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There are plenty of women that aren't promiscuous. It's usually pretty obvious which ones to avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:22 PM
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I wouldn't say there is an age.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:19 AM
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Lol what do you call an extended family?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:56 PM
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I married with 2 kids. Never affected sex or the relationship. Kids aren't the cause of the breakdown of a marriage. They might be the push over the edge, but the issues will already have been there. "The right romanticises having children"? You mean they think a nuclear family is a positive thing? TBF lots of people, myself I cluded would agree with that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:51 PM
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Not one real female has ever said or thought that. Only air heads sniffing for views. Women want a guy that can support himself and has a work ethic. Sure, more money is a bonus, but that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 11:09 PM
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Money is just one of a set of attributes to attract a woman. It's always a plus, but never a must.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:25 PM
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In general I would agree. Although I got lucky with my wife who hadn't really done anything before me, but is great at sex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:48 PM
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Womens expectations being too high Men being afraid of approaching women for fear of being called predators
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:42 AM
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Married a SAHM, was a good decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:51 AM
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