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Discussionalfen-dave/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 09:28 PM
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alfen-dave/r/MGTOW03/11/20 05:33 AM
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alfen-dave/r/MGTOW27/10/20 03:40 PM
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alfen-dave/r/MGTOW02/11/18 06:17 PM
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Discussionalfen-dave/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:10 AM
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Discussionalfen-dave/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:31 PM
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alfen-dave/r/MGTOW10/07/19 04:35 PM
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Purge CMV!alfen-dave/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 08:30 PM
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Discussionalfen-dave/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:01 AM
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alfen-dave/r/MGTOW31/07/19 04:00 PM
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alfen-dave/r/MGTOW29/11/18 09:11 PM
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Question For Menalfen-dave/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 01:43 AM
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Debatealfen-dave/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 08:53 PM
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Discussionalfen-dave/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 05:36 PM
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Question For Womenalfen-dave/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 10:20 PM
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alfen-dave/r/MGTOW02/12/18 05:23 AM
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This entire thread, from the premise, the screenshot from OP's meesgae is sad and further validates my feeling on the West. I've been reading PPD for over 5 years now but threads like this still touch an incredible angst within me. ''the God is dead, human will be selfish further, the neoliberal sexual marketplace is there to stay'' somewhat truthful approach of all this, combined with increaed technocracy, AI isation of society and art, mediocre Art and media being pushed forward for the Nelobe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:45 PM
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I think the argument that men shouldnt hit back because women are weaker is a fallacious one. I rememebr in High School, one little twerp was acting tough and enjoyed pushing others around to display how far he could go and shit, I was 14 and he maybe 9 or 10 ,still in Elementary school. Came around me at family BBQ acting all tough, and shoving me til I pushed and slapped him back. He was shocked and quickly apologized. In the next Family BBQs in the later years, he was much more respectful and…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 10:10 PM
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Accountaility on an individual basis is a good thing. But when a problem is chronic and systemic, then its the problem of a collective and a lot of time, a societal one. I think PPD is missing the point by not understanding that our current situation is due to the environment around us; not so much individual people being crap and not taking responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:19 AM
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Accountaility on an individual basis is a good thing. But when a problem is chronic and systemic, then its the problem of a collective and a lot of time, a societal one. I think PPD is missing the point by not understanding that our current situation is due to the environment around us; not so much individual people being crap and not taking responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:19 AM
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if youre a painter or a live canvas artist, they absoltely do find interest. If youre a deviantart, digital art wacom bound digital illustrator, no they wont as it doesnt have the glamorous bohemian feel of the typical traditionnal artist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:44 AM
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I left home over 4 years ago. And nothing has changed... When I lived in my ''mom's basement'', I had my own fride, oven, room and took care of the house, yard work, cooking and had my own groceries. 1/3 of my pay went helping her with rent and had my own car as well. This idea that people who live at home cant function alone is bogus to me and seems to frustrate a lot of women who cant figure out that the economy is not the same anymore; rent/avg salary simply just cant let people get out of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 04:29 AM
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Crude, Raw unfiltered red pill right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 04:18 AM
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I dont know. I never had a relationship. By that, I meant with my personality at the time; I was told I was a ''catch'' by the old ladies at my church. SO i thought I didnt need to change my behaviours.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 03:40 AM
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Great post and share the pain. What kills me is how vitriolic and hateful people and women can be about our situtaiotn; see how the Internet treat Jordan Peterson after he cried for lonely men a couple of days ago. I read their comments and keep on absorbing all the hate they have for people like us. What's even more treacherous is how the left, modern liberal media and woke society proclaims itself as virtuous and trying to help social issues but ''Inceldom'' has only and ultimately shown how i…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:54 AM
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I cannot comprehend how any straight man with a sex drive can make it to that point without going crazy unless they cannot find a single willing woman or they have religious motivation with a light at the end of the tunnel like eternal life after death or a virgin bride. Incels and Forever Alones dudes have been saying this for years; this is whatt fuels the angers and make you feel dissociated and aliented from society. Its the fact that people seem to achieve something that seem so natural and…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:10 AM
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Actually some women do understand and suffer from this problem it seems. https://www.reddit.com/r/ForeverAloneWomen/comments/xti6m8/why_does_everyone_get_scared_angry_upset_when_i/ This reminds me of the old truthful discussions back when all the Incels subs were still alive; specifically Braincels. This one attracted me the most https://www.reddit.com/r/ForeverAloneWomen/comments/xti6m8/why_does_everyone_get_scared_angry_upset_when_i/iqqqvtj/ Very in-depth simply re-stating what literally every…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 11:48 PM
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Actually some women do understand. https://www.reddit.com/r/ForeverAloneWomen/comments/xti6m8/why_does_everyone_get_scared_angry_upset_when_i/ This reminds me of the old truthful discussions back when all the Incels subs were still alive; specifically Braincels. This one attracted me the most https://www.reddit.com/r/ForeverAloneWomen/comments/xti6m8/why_does_everyone_get_scared_angry_upset_when_i/iqqqvtj/ Very in-depth simply re-stating what literally every Incel subredditos used to spout back …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 11:47 PM
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change country
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 11:22 PM
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If my country wants me to think with a less individual mindset then they had better start being less capitalist. 100% agreed and is the crux probelmatic of post indsutrial consumer economy society. We're screwd. People don't care; only think about themselves and their purchasing power; sacrificing common identity in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:16 PM
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Sacrifice personal comfrot and wealth for the future of your country.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:25 PM
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This is because you think with an individual mindset; you can't simply replace your population long term with migrants long temr without radically changing the socio portrait/ culture of your country. You need children because: -Economic basic principle of Workforce supply/ Consumer -Sociodemographic density= high social activity= Cultural Dynamic -More workers= Support for the Tax System + Support for the Elderly and Retirement
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:59 PM
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Over half of women in USA are unmarried. The same amount in the next 50 years will be unmarried and childless...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:06 AM
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this really. Life aint fair so lets just not fix anything and let people suffer; we cant do anything collectively about it after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:13 AM
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how tall is he.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:09 AM
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Been reading Red Pill/Manosphere since 2015 and I leget never head of this theory,,,
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 02:34 AM
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This is unfortunately autistic thinking as most content here is I would say that 10-20 years ago, it absolutely would have been,. Same as saying that men under 5'6 shouldnot have too many problems dating. However, I beleive the 2010s and social media really changed the acceptable stadnard for men when it comes to hair, height and face.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 11:24 PM
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It's what people mean when they say that modern social media has really distorted people's collective idea of what standard ''beauty'' looks like. When I was a kid in the 90s, the only 2 influences of beauty were your social circle/ local exposure and Hollywood/Media coverage of celebrities. At family BBQs, going at the mall, church,etc. Most men in their 20s; cousins, new graduates had balding hair or faily mature receding hairlines. No one ever talked about it. Same goes on TV/Media; Tupac, Sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 11:19 PM
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You don't find blue pill folks in Muslim countries, in latin america, in asia... definitely not in Africa I wish we talked more about this. Men in other countries would laugh at us and find western men absolutely soft and reason that the reson why we're getting cucked/divorced raped and droving our young boys into helplessness is because Western society have litterally decided to castrate them males and demonize mediatically masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:33 PM
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30% of young men between 18-30 have not been in relationship/had sex. In Japan, the problem is further exacerbated and is rising. Its the future that awaits us. 50% of women over 25 are unmarried. Loneliness is litterally killing young people, depression and suicidie, dissullusion and alienation of young men are well past the double digits and social media/ wealth gap is litterally killing social coheiosn between the sexes. This is NOT an individual problem but a a rising systemic issues that's …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:28 PM
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Depends on the culture. Some culture prefer striahgtforwardeness. you cannot deny that we raise people that way as the actual truth of their bioological incline appears unvirtuous or unfair based on our civilisational logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:15 PM
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Agreed but you cannot deny that we raise people that way as the actual truth of their beiological incline appears unvirtuous or unfair based on our civilisational logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:13 PM
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figure out the reason, fix it, or perish Do you agree that this type of thinking could be applied to every individual struggling to succeed within a systemic problematic? Homelessness, loneliness, racism, sexism..If people can't succeed, they should just ''fix it or perish''. After all, it makes sense; we live in a individualistc capitlist pyramid; those who are too weak either because of their upbrining, social shortcomings or detrimental environment should simply be left to die alone, without …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:41 PM
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Its not that weird..Me as well as a couple of friends, have our own place, car, jobs, hobbies; are reaching 30s and never had sex/relatiosnhip. Most women in our entourage are in relationship themselves and asking them out always results in a no which is why we go online to face further decline. We're fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 09:36 PM
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''Your problem, your fault, no one cares...now pay your taxes wage slave and get a fking therapist..eww u ugly dont touch me''
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 09:32 PM
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how tall are you? Im confident but being 5'4/bald/brown dude makes a lot of women irk. I groom, dress up and lift but seeing them quickly become uncoomfrotable is not easy when I used to smile and try to interact with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 09:12 PM
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no, i want companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 07:15 AM
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''just work on yourself'' theory I had never heard of this before. thanks. Also most athelete had direct contact trainers motivating them and usually have encouraging peers and social validation as they work on themselves. What happesn for the people who have no one?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 11:41 PM
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I seriously got into dating apps early 2021 but left early this year. Deleted all of it. People (men and woemen) often jump back into it because of loneliness and going out there doesn't actually work. Some people live with their parents in the suburbs, are too poor to move out and genuineley have zero ways to meet people where they live. I know plenty of late 20s folks who are struggling with depression due to complete social isolation due to layout of North American burbs. They cant rent; cant…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 05:41 PM
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I seriously got into dating apps early 2021 but left early this year. Deleted all of it. People (men and woemen) often jump back into it because of loneliness and going out there doesn't actually work. Some people live with their parents in the suburbs, are too poor to move out and genuineley have zero ways to meet people where they live. I know plenty of late 20s folks who are struggling with depression due to complete social isolation due to layout of North American burbs. They cant rent; cant…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 05:40 PM
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People here be like; ''They go out, they meet, there's cehimstry, they bond'' ''tee-hee its so simple OP, youre complaicating things!, you re the weirdo'' Yet; Reddit is plastered of Dating subs, Relatiosnship subs, depressed celibate posts, everyone IRL has had their complaints about how they cant find dates, movies, dramas, shows, books and art are always telling stories of an individual struggling to meet someone or better yet; the journey IS to meet someone. Even the bible had stories about …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 05:10 PM
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KPop boys and Androgynous Chads on TikTok proves OP is full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 05:06 PM
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KPop boys and Androgynous Chads on TikTok proves OP is full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 05:05 PM
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Athlete can get very inscure or lose confidence in their own sport discipline. It's still doesnt change the fact that they are the top of the leagues. Insecurity=/= concrete insastisfaction in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 05:00 PM
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the tall thing today is really more like a status symbol more than a biological wiring. I like ass and boobs but i cant see myself telling a partner ''I could never date a girl with no ass/tits'' without her looking at me wrong. Yes women like bigger men but the extent western society has pushed it is insane to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:56 PM
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LMAO literally all female poster here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:34 PM
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Fat and Chubby I' willing to Online dating only gave me 250-300 lbs women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:28 PM
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Yes, the argument that women are ''less sacrificable'' than men due to reprodructive capacity is BS because 1 women can still have 10 babies in her lifetime with 10 men. For every woman that refuses childbirth or pregnancy, just fund programs that pay women who want to be mothers to make 3-5 kids like we used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:20 PM
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False. Even if 5 women decides to not have children or die, a single women can have 5 to 10 children in a lifetime. Women's womb are replecaeble and replnishable for reproductive purpose. It just has a long downtime.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 07:02 AM
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I had seen footage from China in which guy ran over a kid and everybody just went on with their business. Kid just remained on the street dying for more then an hour. hey, ive seen that one. There's the one where a guy is chased by the cops but he picks up a kid randomly on the street then throws it away violently as a distraction for the cops but the cops dgas and keeps on pursuing him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 07:00 AM
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It's socially conditioned in Western Culture. Look at Islamic countries, African Countries, Latin Countries and Asian countries where women have little privlige in dating, the court system or even child rearing (the men get to keep the child if the woman misbheave in Islamic/African countries). White men have essentially castrated their own boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:56 AM
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"You have to be happy with yourself first and love yourself, only then can you get a healthy relationship" It does for people who have had previous relationships and need to wrok on themselves. If youresomeone with little to no experience, its BS
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 05:29 PM
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EVERY WOMEN, no matter their size, age, weight, face structure can get laid with any brand of men; given she's aggressive or assertive enought to entice him. There are 60 year olds hookers who make a killing on the streets with younger guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:59 PM
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I dont know; there's a huge difference between shagging a MILF privately occasionally versus actually bringing/introduce a long term partner during social events at work, with your friends or a family BBQ. I've always thought of women satsified being in that MILF I wont show to anyone position as odd or rather sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:57 PM
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That's projection, We never speak about our relationships, bring our partners or even talk much about relationships when Im will all my groups of male friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:10 PM
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I agree with the sex part however there are some real female priviliges that are often dismissed by women; namely, the fact that women can cry and shed tears for personal struggles and appear more emotionanly vulnerable in harsh situations. Men who cry are often seen as weak, not as a human person going trhough struggle. I think the big thing when it comes to (sexual) attention though, is that people who have lived both will ALWAYS tell they'd rather too much attention, even if sometimes it come…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:02 PM
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Sex is a biolgical imperative. Without it, we dont survive as a society. We have lived for millions of years without voting; hell even democracy itself is more of a ''want'' than a right. It's not needed for our survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:50 AM
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People who think that voting is a human right are absolutely sheltered from the actual reality of human rights. They're the same people who think "abortion" is a human right. I am all for easier access to abortion as it's should be a regulated CIVIC privilliege but in no shape or form should killing a future human baby a RIGHT.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:49 AM
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The right to vote is a human right. No it's not lol. Civilisation can survive and even thrive without it. We survived dictatorship, aboslute monarchies, feodalism, fascist autocracies and tyrannic empires for thousands of years until contemporary times; where in the 20th century, democracy as we know today became a civil necessity. There's not a single civilisation, group or community that has suvived without maintaining a relatively stable demographic growth. Today, this problem is so major tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:46 AM
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women not fucking dudes they don't find attractive is totally the same as being systematically denied the vote. To be fair, one is a modern civil right, thus an arbitrary social duty, while the other is litterally a Biological need. If you were to make a poll to both men and women you asked them; If you had to choose between No right to vote or no access to sex/intimacy for 15 years, which would you pick. Most people would probably choose no right to vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:09 AM
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LMAO absolute peak clown PPD shit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:31 AM
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How did it happen? Divorce? Indfidelity?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:30 AM
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I think youre full of it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:29 AM
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You wouldn't even have to buy a dude dinner. If it warms his heart, why would you do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:33 AM
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replying to a 5 month old comment. You make me feel valued and important. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:42 AM
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I've had the same experience; in shape, groomed, on the shorter side but still have some form of decent appearance; this really average chick had dozens of dates lined up while I was only seing her and texting another girl on okcupid sparsely... Even if you do max up and improve yourself with gym hobbies and friends, a chick whose main occupation is watching Netflix and ordering food on Ubereats will still have tenfold the selection you have with a quarter of the effort involved...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 05:33 AM
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so suicide?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 06:01 PM
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British guy grabbed me and started kissing me in a club. I know a lot of women wouldn't like that, but for me it's much better than mixed signals they're trying to asess if youre into them or not. If any guy would grab you and kiss you, its seen as sexual assault here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 04:11 AM
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what happens when you dont have any friends or social circle?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 04:06 AM
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no its online dating, social media and third wave feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 04:05 AM
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''just for fun'' LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:57 PM
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I think overweight people are afraid of getting ripped apart, so they're just not responding as much. People who are overweight are taught to hide. This is just Reddit's endless cycle of confirmation bias; this happens everytime with AskXYZ subs, where only the people who know they will have their comments haild or supported will be upvoted while a another substantial group prefer not posting knowing they will receive critics or see their comments buried with downvotes. This transforms most subs…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:55 PM
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by Chad, Tyrone, Enrique and Chang you forgot Chabdul and Pradeep
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 06:11 AM
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A world of individualism
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 05:24 AM
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this hypcrosiy was often called out by Incels who exposed that the poeple who one a previous post were squirming about how they enjoying new sex position on r/sex, living a happy fruitful intimate life on askreddit, then promptly putting their mask and shout ''Relationships aren't that great, they won't make you happy, learn to be happy alone teeheh'' That type of statement imo, created more Incels and angered further down the Black Pill those who already were deep in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 05:22 AM
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It was never privilidge but our God given rights; most infrstractures, innovations, inventions and governments were made and maintned by men, still today. If women could do as much by themselves, they'd be perceived differently but thats not the case. Not to mention that most societies are also DEFENDED and guarded by male dominated millitary complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 06:15 AM
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It's not the responsibility of women and PoC to kiss the boo-boos of assorted lonely young men. It's the job of the men on the left to deal with them. This is a very individualist statement that 100% fits the Modern Late Stage Neoliberal Capitalist structure that our divided and fractured cultured as locked itself into. The world is full of great compassionate giving people that get abused and manipulated by all sort of evil people, when these poeple find refuge online, communities and medias an…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:57 PM
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No matter how women and feminist try to spin it today, men today are way less sexist, racist and bigoted than their fathers and forefather was. Your average grand pa probably had less issue with enforcing gender roles, joking with sexist slurs and might have even done some catcalling in his heydays. Furthermore, the men in the West are extremely respectful of gender boundaries and the most understanding to women issues. You cannot be more ''female friendly'' than the guys we have today.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:16 AM
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''I dont go out to meet people in an organic way . Instead, I prefer to swipe strangers face like I'm shopping ''PRODUCTS'' on Amazon.'' You're so far down your social mediocrity you don't even realize the level of sociopathy you've achieved. An advice; Keep your autistic ass indoors as normal people might keep you in check if you sperg like that in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:53 AM
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At the end of day, plenty of men and women are happily dating, in love and completing their lives. Rant messages like yours just shows how psychotic jaded women like you are to even think that a litteral ''cat'' is more useful than a man in everyday life. Go empty your pet litter since its most likely the highest form of chemistry you will develop with any living thing in this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:21 PM
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I can qualify my type online like an Amazon product. Hopefully, young people and men dont read stuff like this. This sub really makes people insane of what they allow themselves to write.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:45 PM
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Well, not doing sometinhg because of low interest and not being able to do something because of the inablity to do it are different things. For example, women who know they can get laid dont mind not having sex since they have all the time and opportunities in the world to have it. However, as soon as they start getting rejected, their confidence in their ability to attract mates starts to falter and you start seeing odd behaviours from their part: seeking ego boosting and validation from online…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:10 PM
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In short term, most people can endure people they dont really like for the sole sake of sex, companionship, early dating and temporary validation. On a long term basis (3+ years/marriage) , they would rather go back single and wait until the next person comes in. This is a called serial mongagmy will most likely be the norm for the coming years.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 09:58 PM
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People come and go. I agree with that statement. The problem is..I am more and more applying it to marriage making me releuctant to dive in.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:44 AM
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Damn, any Incel, ForeverAlone or people who never got any action felt gloomy reading all those ''normies'' sex having posts. I woke up happy this morning but now feeling depressed reading all this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:44 PM
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Attractive =/= good genes This, I dont think any group of Male K-Pop stars would survive a week in prehistoric era or even just on a deserted island. However, put a bunch of Australians Aboriginals, South African Bushmen and even maybe a Maasai in those setthings, and I'd bet they could last a month given stones and sticks to hunt some stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:14 AM
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the hottest girls from his religious club: https://junkee.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/Sister-Act.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 01:54 AM
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some see it as a game but other simply want to get a brutal overview of gender sexual dynamics. A lot of the incels/ nice guys are clue less about women because their entourage probably fed them a Disney portrait of the gender/sex/relationship. As a late bloomer, it was the case for me. Some men are still stuck in the 50's way of dating. ''Just be nice, get a job, listen to her and they'll all fall for you'' narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 01:26 AM
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Women want men who can kill the woolly mammoth. That’s all. Everything else derives from that. I think most men understands that. Women desiring traits from men is expected but can men expect traditional traits from women. I think a lot the furstrations come from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 01:23 AM
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I noticed this as well. The social media new has really globalised female western behaviours to the whole world. What the middle class average guy could get in LatAm/ Asia or EasEurope has really gone down so going abroad can't even save Incels anymore. I think there's still leverage in Africa or South East Asia if you slum/favela dive but other than that, the value of male has drastically reduce globally.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 01:18 AM
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I had a lazy-eyed, skinnyfat, gamer (bad personality) 6'4" roommate who got chased by the hottest girls in college LMAO, only on Reddit you read stuff like that. Where are those ugly dudes who get chased by all the girls whenever I stroll at the malls? Where are they on tik tok or social media...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:52 AM
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Look man, your girlfriend looking for other options very next days she saw your mourn a just gone friend...That's not just women behaviour, that is sociopathy..The writer of the comment probably has a terrible taste in choosing partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 04:42 PM
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I dont believe you. this is too far fetched
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:00 AM
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A record high 47.2% of married men and women said they were in sexless marriages, 100% ture and all of these guys spend time and nights at soapland. But there are various channels talking about this thoguh. I am not trying to wind a debate here and think this is actually sad but the sex industry in Japan is a completely other level. You never really heard about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:48 AM
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Men here care a lot about what women will tihnk of them afterward + there's a higher stigma than using them +its illegal. In Asian, the stigma is MUCH lower, it doesnt bother women as much + some wives are even okay with theirman going out for sex with a pro.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:08 AM
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I used to tchat with him back when I still browsed Incels.co He was called BrendioEE
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:07 AM
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Different views regarding the occupation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:02 AM
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These guys are not as herbivore as you think. They're actually simply participating in the sex industry covertly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:18 AM
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is sex all about orgasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:45 AM
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Is sex all about orgasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:59 PM
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thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:34 PM
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and yet its a common reality for a lot of young men. what now?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:24 PM
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yeh but not him
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:56 PM
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that one guy with that one reply = whole sub said that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:04 PM
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Your reply litterally has zero sense in regard to the Original post
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 09:05 PM
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try having none
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 11:03 PM
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This thread has shown a lot of women here are deranged
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:45 AM
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Im glad this is the top comment
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:22 PM
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how? I wanna know your secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 07:14 PM
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his wife is shrek
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 10:40 PM
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why are you anti-incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 10:29 PM
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I read the whole thing and partially agree with some points, especially the last. With women and ''Chads'' benefiting and participating in the midst of the sexual revolution, leftover men are left to either fap alone or will end up seeking more and more sexual companionship from working girls. The resurgence/democratization of hookers is a result of the new societal dynamics between female sexual selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 10:07 PM
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good lord! what a lecture!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 09:45 PM
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ok princess
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 03:57 PM
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theyre the same as simps wrecking their bank accounts for an OnlyFans subscriptions; it's all hormones
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 04:04 PM
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TRUE STORY; HAPPENED THIS SUMMER. My sister was dating a guy she met on Hinge; balding high earning beta indian dude. Nice, caring and sweet but not really attractive. Guy was about to become a doctor or something. After 3 months of dating, she decide to dump him (no sex). Then she finds a handsome white guy on Tinder, she keeps spouting how hot and handsome he is. After about 2 weeks of dating him, she basically skips New years Eve dinner with me and our dad and goes to spends it with him. Resu…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 09:06 PM
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Nope. Women can go around slutting out on Tinder then demand an upstanding man as a husband to raise her kids. I ABSOLUTELY will partake in the dual mating strategy as well, fucking around whores way above my league and then settle down with nice little conservative Becky. Sorry not sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 09:36 PM
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not aknowledging the SMV of people is extremely blue pilled and makes me wonder why youre even in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 04:34 PM
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top tier lookwise like Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 03:09 AM
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There are more attractive woman than there are attractive men by men standards
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 08:03 PM
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I absolutely did not expect so much frustration to be honest. I wont complain and actually enjoying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 08:01 PM
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if youre referring to me. I absolutely respect most sex workers no matter their status. Dont listen to me when I act like a jerk here pretending I dnt care about women, Im low key just trolling the stuck up feminists who have dreadful double sexual standards for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 07:59 PM
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its shamed just like hard drug use is but its not a death sentance like it is here in North America. Come on bro, Brazil is SATURATED with Brothels and termas all over the fking country. Chapiadoras are even bigger in LatAm than it is here. Not its not casual and never said it was, but a huge part of the Latin male popluation has purchased sex once (they just dont talk about it).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 06:12 PM
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thank you for answering. a very interesting read. Its even more interesting reading from (former) sex workers themselves. And yeh, the recent surge of sugarbabies, Onlyfans girls and all make me question why there is so much shame on Johns where sex work seems to become mainstream more than ever. Whyd you stop btw? Do you have contempt for men now as a whole?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 06:05 PM
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Hey man thanks for the longer answer (wish youd have been more direct at first). Ok that is a really interesting answer and I def trust you as well. My paycount is still fairly low so I don't have that much experience in the scene as a John. Most of the escorts Ive hired were the indie one one middle range sites, usually InCalling in their condos or Hotels and while I did glanced on the backpage/street scene, I never partaked in it. When I look at the popular scenes like Figueroa street LA, New …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:12 PM
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Tinder has allowed women to artificially inflate the (vaginal) worth by fucking all the attractives mates they want while ghosting and swiping left on the actual male equal to their SMV. They are now fuming over the idea that males can do (and has always done) the same with a few bucks. Yes Becky, I can pay a nice looking slut with a quick visit on Eros.com, no I wont wait after your reply on Tinder while youre filtering out your top match. And no, I wont pay for your meal if your not entertaini…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:53 PM
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Most escorts I hired were middle class graduates who were doing it to pay the loans faster. The few times I asked them, they told me it was a faster way to make money ( not necessarily easier). Stop painting them all as victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:46 PM
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I can't speak for every region in the world, but in the US. Most of the prostitutes are trafficked. No theyre not and you sound like a fool. Stop watching CNN propaganda and go on and inform yourself better/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:43 PM
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Male sexuality is actively shamed now in the west
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:42 PM
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i wont shame sex workers. as for marriage, i dont intend to mary anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:26 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:20 PM
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I have lived in East Asia for 20 years. Slowly the culture of prostitution is eroding. A shame
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:23 AM
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Thank you for your reply. Not gay myself but I put this here because I was intrigued as to how most women can partake homosexuel/bisexual activity but refuse a man do the same. I know its double standards but if women can basically create double standards like that for sexual history, I think men must do the exact same thing and reject women on absurd stupid standards (hopefully if they have enough options).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:20 AM
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We dont get no cookie but we sure do get good coochie.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 02:45 AM
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And for 20 bucks?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 02:41 AM
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will any men date you at all? I know I wouldnt but if you ever down for a quick fuck, PM me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 02:39 AM
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Not all John.☹
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 02:33 AM
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Go have sex with lonely men then; problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 02:30 AM
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Still are
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 02:29 AM
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I used to think this way too before actually partaking in the habit. I also used to think Weed made you retarded due to my upbrining and how media depicted drug when I was a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 02:29 AM
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probably due to your social circle. My Latinos friends in my relgious circle are against it as well. But then again, I am mostly referring to the Street/ Working class so that might be the difference here?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 02:28 AM
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Then dont lock your husband in a dead bedroom and you should be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 02:22 AM
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Who is John Shaming? The same crowd who thought Kevin Spacey rsmoking a blunt in American Beauty was edgy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 02:20 AM
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This is not to say I don’t have empathy also for lonely or isolated men. I’m just explaining a difference. what are those guys supposed to do. stay in their bed and masturbate?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 02:18 AM
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Damn, I was wondering why the hell you raging so hard on this thread (plz dont , its not all that serious 😆) Then I got to dig in and found your thread on how men should always make the first move and pay for dates. Ouch, we'd be totally incompatible. How do you feel to know, I paid for sex but the last 3 dates I had, we split the check, got my dick wet and still did not feel like driving her home afterward (she was obese).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 12:58 AM
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we still will do it. just like women will keep on slutting around and fucking Chad despite male unaproval. Thought only girls could get alpha sex on the side? Think again. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 12:09 AM
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r/NotAllMen
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 12:07 AM
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Honestly, as long as they're enjoying themselves, who cares right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 12:01 AM
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Based and TruthPilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 11:57 PM
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You will never know about it if he has. :/
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 11:25 PM
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i agree with this answer. Women SMV depends a lot on the shaming of buying sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 11:25 PM
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nope, for some men, the unwanted feeling makes their dick harder. what do you think men did during most human history when raiding villages in war. its viscerally stimulating for some. I wnt go too much into that though to keep the thread PG Hint: Not proposing marriage I can guarantee that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 11:19 PM
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she mysteriously avoided this popular fact; the primary customers of hookers are married and rich men. They're the one sustaining a bilion dollar industry, not the single average middle class Joe like me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 11:16 PM
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i agree but tis still good fun from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 11:13 PM
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had dates and ONS in the past. I consider myself Incel because they were never my looksmatch. Whoremongering allowed me to bang girls that would'nt even look at me IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 11:12 PM
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hey thank you for answering. What is gross about this thread. Its a discussion like any other. And if that can soothe you, the low estimate of guys who pays/paid for sex is still fairly low at 15-20% in North America. https://prostitution.procon.org/wp-content/uploads/sites/50/percentage-of-men-by-country-who-have-paid-for-sex-at-least-once-the-johns-chart.png Personally, I think 1/4 ha spaid for it once in their life. And 5-10% routinely do it. It wouldnt be billion dollar industry if there wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 11:11 PM
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Im from the Carribean as well. My Dominican Barbershop while chatting with me asked me what brothel I visisted while speaking of hoes with his cowrokers while heavy Reggeaton was playing in the background. He's 6ft tall,, fit, tattooed and has the Latino rapper look. I dont think people here relaize how widepsread those things are in those communities, especially the middle class inner cities. I think the Reddit crowd is a cesspool of White, uppity, buttstuck, conservative sex prudes. I thought …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 11:01 PM
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It will never be <<normalised>> anywhere in the wolrd and it doesnt have to be. In the same way cocaine and hard drugs shouldnt be, drugs are prostitutions and hardcore vices than can be harmful to siociety if democratized. What am talking about here is that in the West, its REALLY REALLY almost EVIL like to pay for it wheras in other countries, its just a sad little vice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 10:55 PM
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worse thing in life than taking dicks. Matter of fact, they should feel blessed they can earn a living from it. ;) I can feel your frustration behind your message and enjoying it btw. Ive had great fun experimenting around and only regret not having more money to throw in. How's your sex life?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 10:51 PM
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lol no..not really. come on now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 10:31 PM
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Right. If anything, the overwhelming majority of the answers here showcase PPD still has conservative views of sex in general. Nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 10:23 PM
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tehee
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 10:21 PM
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you have not answered a single question.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 10:10 PM
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Thank you for responding to all 4Qs. I mean ignoring the moral/religious reasons to not partake in it, the shaming often comes from the context. Elon Musk the millionare buying hookers for a night is very different from the Elon Musk the balding nerd that bought hookers before creating Paypal/Zip-2 because nobody else wanted to hook up with him. Exaclty. Hence, its not the act itself but the context. Women will always hide behind the ''trafficked'' facade but all in all, its just a way to filter…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 10:09 PM
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hence, paying for sex is not the problem or the issue at all. Its the context.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 10:05 PM
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Yeh, there are exceptions in the West, Ive noticed, Germany, Spain (La Jonquera) and Netherlands seems to have looser rules around it. And for Q4, yes, middle aged white men from the Boomer gen have no issue with it, its really the millenial, gen Z liberal crowd who seems to be up in arms about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 10:03 PM
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Girl, were not talking about ''desire'' here. Guys dont giva a fuck about desire when paying for it, they want some good quick coochie plain and simple, none of the rest. Plenty of girls get pumped and dumped by Chad with the exact same lustful mindset (JFL at thinking Chad desires you) yet they dont see it as a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 10:00 PM
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she hasn't read the thread and hasn't answered a single question. She probably saw the thread title, engulfed herself in rage and panicked type the typical ''cuz yer losers'' answer JFL
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 09:58 PM
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ive paid around 7 times in 4 years spread. i would more if i was richer so i only do it occasionally for the well being of my wallet. I typically always hire the Big butt IG looking model. also, as any vice, it can get very adicting so I try to keep my lust under control.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 09:55 PM
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Just fucking lol This thread is cringe as fuck. Im an Incel but Im blackpilled enough to know women can still get loving Betas even after being ran trhough by the whole town.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 08:00 PM
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We share the same story. I am thinking of finding love abroad honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 12:04 AM
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based
/r/MGTOW24/01/21 05:42 AM
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you seem like your avg IncelTear users. I would not trade place with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 07:19 PM
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Rough translation: • Groom: Thank you everyone, here I have a person, my lawyer and a document. You guys know I am expecting a child. Here's the proof of pregnancy and I will be a dad. But you know what, you missed a small detail. Here's proof that she's been pregnant 6 months instead of 4. • Dad: Daughter what is this? What is your husband talking about? • Bride: It's a misunderstanding dad. • Groom: Calm down honey, just want to clarify the situation. • Sil: Angie let my brother finish talking…
/r/MGTOW03/11/20 05:35 AM
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not my post lol. im just sharing the misery of this poor guy. hope he's awakened now
/r/MGTOW27/10/20 04:06 PM
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We need a pill that reduces male sex drive without affecting their energy and willpower.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 08:20 PM
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That's actually smart.
/r/MGTOW20/03/20 10:53 PM
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