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| 118 | Hi all, im a female pro men's rights and anti feminist, kicked from a reading group for supporting men's rights. | alianablueshadows | /r/MensRights | 03/06/18 04:56 PM |
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| 1 | “This is why girls don’t like you.”Coming at it as a woman I have said that before but it’s never been about the fact that the guy is complaining, it’s not about the fact that the guy is upset - when I say it it’s about the phrasing that he’s using. That’s usually what women are objecting to. for example if I just said something like “guys only care about pussy and having sex, they don’t give a fuck about my mind my personality what I want in life what my dreams are all he wants to know is he’s gonna get his rocks off” that would… | /r/MensRights | 16/04/24 11:15 PM |
| 3 | Gender pay gapIf you’re talking about it in terms of the feminist interpretation of the gender pay gap- in America no. they believe that we still live in a time where women are legally allowed to be paid less than men while having identical, qualifications, identical, work histories, etc. that is not the case. women are not allowed legally to be discriminated against in workforce in terms of pay or anything else. Any discrepancies or variances in pay between a man and a woman at this point in America are prim… | /r/MensRights | 05/03/24 02:30 AM |
| 12 | Reddit's hatred of men makes it so difficult to get relationship adviceYeah, honestly I don’t ever use Reddit for advice on stuff like that anymore because a few times I did when I would straight up say don’t tell me to leave that’s not what I’m looking for. I’m looking for advice on how I can better myself. All the comments were he’s a piece of shit leave and I was like -Again I’m the problem help me be better. | /r/MensRights | 03/03/24 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Is it even worth it to start a family in modern times?First thing it’s totally normal to think about the future. Think about what you want for your life and if you want one thing over another and all of those kind of things totally normal. as far as raising kids and starting a family - that’s some thing that once you get into a serious relationship you can talk about but you definitely want to start thinking about it now. thinking about what is the school system like in the country that you live would you want your kids going to public school, what… | /r/MensRights | 19/02/24 01:31 AM |
| 3 | There is a disconnect between women and menAbsolutely there’s a disconnect. like if you look at just basic media of for example Valentine’s Day ,that just happened right? there’s tons and tons of ads,little videos,everything that’s like “oh this is how to make a woman happy on Valentine’s Day. This is what you get her. hey get her this she’ll be happy” But there’s nothing that’s like. “Hey this is what you should do for a man for Valentine’s Day” except for the joke of like “oh yeah for his birthday Christmas anniversary and Valentines g… | /r/MensRights | 18/02/24 01:35 PM |
| 1 | We have normalized women and society as a whole invalidating men’s issues and it sickens me to my stomachYeah, that’s something that’s been frustrating me as well is the fact that if I go into a space that is supposedly all gender, inclusive and everybody’s equal and everybody has the same right to speak blah blah blah if I start talking about, you know male custody issues, male suicide rates, getting help for men who have PTSD or are in domestic violence situation’s - I immediately get shouted down and told that I need to stop talking about all these men’s issues because women’s issues are more im… | /r/MensRights | 16/02/24 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Why is reddit so full of angry, insecure women that hate men?I think in large part, it has to go along with what type of platform it is. the original point that we’ve been taught in a sense to believe of Reddit was that rather than going all over the Internet, to find people who think like you to talk to about topics that you like and have more discussions and to continue that and find friends yada yada “community”-rather than that what it actually is is a pressure cooker. where someone says hey this is what I think and then another community pops up and … | /r/MensRights | 13/02/24 03:51 PM |
| 16 | Are women allowed here too?Yeah for sure I kind of view it like look this is their private space to kind of vent and not feel judged and to feel like they can speak their minds without hearing oh but women kind of thing so I try to give them that space and only really comment where I can really contribute something or answer a question at least from my own experience that they’re asking other than that I just pretty much stay quiet and work on trying to help out in other ways | /r/MensRights | 11/02/24 11:07 PM |
| 29 | Are women allowed here too?Heyhey, another woman here. Generally it’s all good they don’t mind but just pick and choose carefully where to speak - and I as a habit usually will tell them I’m a woman and mostly comment in spaces where they ask “do women really think” type stuff. just to let them know. unfortunately there are a chunk of guys here who aren’t exactly fans of women and can say some not great stuff. But the overall space isn’t about that and is happy to have our support too from my experience _^ | /r/MensRights | 11/02/24 11:03 PM |
| -2 | Why the heck men get bullied for dating adult teenagers ?Ehhh….female here. I usually used my age + or - 7 so when I was 26 20 would be the lowest but when I was 26 I actually didn’t date younger than 23. My rule was if I can’t drink with you you’re too young. Lol.plus 18 could still be a high schooler. That’s the harm. A high school senior and a college graduate (assuming a 4 year degree) is..just gnarly. | /r/MensRights | 10/02/24 12:40 AM |
| 5 | Is it normal for men to be degraded and disrespected by their wife?It is not normal or acceptable for either party to behave that way. You both work, you both contribute to chores- financial contributions are not the only ones that matter. My fiancé and I for example. I make more than he does, but it never comes up unless it’s relevant to our budgeting for things “total cost is X, I can give Y if you can do Z?” Outside of budgeting who makes more is irrelevant. And me making more is just a luck thing, I made less all the way until a year ago so.. I suggest tell… | /r/MensRights | 07/02/24 11:58 PM |
| 6 | Mandatory DNA TestParents who have children have to pay for the cost of birth and supplies and so on in the hospital bill why would this genetic test not just be added to the hospital bill of the parents? | /r/MensRights | 06/02/24 09:27 PM |
| 17 | Mandatory DNA TestComing from a woman’s perspective hundred percent believe it should be a standard mandatory test number one because it sets immediately the precedent for child support in the cases of parents who are not together. Two. It allows for men who are not the biological parent to not sign the birth certificate, or to sign it, in full knowledge of the truth.and then, lastly, because it is imperative, that people know their biological medical history in order to avoid severe consequences later on with th… | /r/MensRights | 06/02/24 09:25 PM |
| 1 | How is it that this subreddit has 35% more memebers than r/feminism subreddit?Eh I’m my experience feminism is just LOUDER not really bigger.. and there are a lot of women like myself who see feminism as a general rule to be a toxic thing we don’t actively participate in but it takes a while to find quieter voices and once we do that’s when it becomes a choice of “agree with ideals quietly or agree openly” | /r/MensRights | 02/01/23 06:46 PM |
| 1 | I guess we're fuckedUhm.. how is height, vocal pitch or a mother working during his childhood a red flag?? Red flag for WHAT?? Clearly another person in need of a dictionary XD | /r/MensRights | 01/01/23 02:34 PM |
| 2 | What are the actual chances of a woman being murdered/raped by a man?Statistically it varies by multiple factors. Ex. city means more people/ higher population density, so of course more people - higher chance. If it’s an active war zone that increases risk.. also not to stereotype but the worse the disparity with income vs cost of living the higher the risk of all crimes. So like for example. I’m from an upper middle class us town of about 3k people. 0 murders or rapes in the last 5 years. Compare that to 45 rapes 3 years ago in a city 20 minutes away with a pop… | /r/MensRights | 04/12/22 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Do Women Hate Being Women?Yeah I was struggling too to find an equivalent .Dude, bro, boy, guy, none of those fit exactly | /r/MensRights | 24/11/22 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Do Women Hate Being Women?Eh like “chick” and “broad” would be along the lines of what you’re thinking I think. Like “oh yeah that broad over there” it’s just kinda disrespectful or insulting and the male equivalent would be like.. “dude” I think? | /r/MensRights | 24/11/22 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Do Women Hate Being Women?Eh I’d disagree. I’m female. My female friends and I. My female coworkers. Those are all times when woman doesn’t fit grammatically the same. “My woman friends” “my women coworkers” it doesn’t work. Same with male. “My male friends” “the male instructor” “our male relatives”.. it’s not insulting it’s just interchangeable, and context is important as well. Obviously male and female CAN be insulting but any word can be used in an insulting way. | /r/MensRights | 24/11/22 04:04 PM |
| 1 | What should a man’s role be in deciding whether to have an abortion?I believe the process should start with dna confirmation that he is the father. At that point there should be legal conversations about custody, prenatal costs, and then other things by circumstance | /r/MensRights | 02/09/22 12:03 AM |
| 7 | Oh Christ, I didn’t think they ACTUALLY existed!Agree here, any time I have “won” that kind of argument or moved the needle with someone it’s because I was able to maintain enough calm. I’ve always said you can’t change peoples minds by bellowing insults, only by showing them calmly. | /r/MensRights | 24/08/22 12:43 PM |
| 10 | A passerby told me I was “mansplaining” to my girlfriend and I had to lay into her.I second this, i constantly am ranting about feminist shit to my bf, and he ends up rolling his eyes like "yep. i know its dumb. no need to convince me" XD | /r/MensRights | 16/10/19 11:19 AM |
| 1 | How do you oppose the idea that male privilege exists?I’m on my phone, sadly I just type in giant things XD. | /r/MensRights | 08/07/19 10:57 PM |
| 1 | How do you oppose the idea that male privilege exists?Yeah, and I mean I agree there are definitely issues that are largely exaggerated or made up like the wage gap and that rape culture thing too. But I feel like just because the problems are ignored that men face on a large scale that denying that female issues even exist isn’t the right way to go about it because then people just invalidate the issues more because they end up using the same arguments that “women are so oppressed that men won’t even admit to these issues so we have to be louder” … | /r/MensRights | 08/07/19 04:47 PM |
| -1 | How do you oppose the idea that male privilege exists?Oh what a surprise another one, content to whine “men are BIGGER victims! Pity US! We are VICTIMS dammit not youuu! Oh btw Help us since we can’t do it ourselves!” rather than working to fix all this that happens to men. But the POINT yet again, I was trying to make was that women and men BOTH have shit going on that sucks. And if you can’t acknowledge that, you will never make progress because in order to make progress you.need.women. If you didn’t, it wouldn’t be a problem, you would already h… | /r/MensRights | 08/07/19 01:08 AM |
| 0 | How do you oppose the idea that male privilege exists?THIS is why you get hardly any women wanting to help. Men who would rather be "right" and a victim who should be pitied rather than to work with an ally trying to help find a middle ground by showing that the pity approach is wrong and more likely to make people NOT want to help you. like i don't particularly right now to be blunt. so sure. rather than actually doing something to change the things that are imbalanced, find a middle ground and let others see your side without resorting to whining… | /r/MensRights | 07/07/19 10:47 PM |
| -4 | How do you oppose the idea that male privilege exists?Easy social stuff for a start. Being treated like an idiot every time we call the tow truck or take a car in to get repairs. “Oh whaats wrong did the car go grr?” Being aborted at higher rates in non western countries. Not being taken seriously as Dominants in the bdsm community unless we are old school leather dominatrixes and sometimes not even then. A short haircut automatically meaning we’re a lesbian, or “trying to be a man”.the automatic assumption that we want/will have kids/like kids,or … | /r/MensRights | 07/07/19 09:49 PM |
| 0 | How do you oppose the idea that male privilege exists?Being a woman is basically living on easy mode. That's not true. Women have to deal with a lot of things men don't. is it easy being a man no. but it's not "living on easy mode" to be a woman either and it's insulting to suggest otherwise. Socially we have pressures that men don't. Physically, women have severe pain every month till menopause after puberty. Women have a higher incidence of things like osteoarthritis,Alzheimers,lupus. Women are physically weaker and shorter than men on average.… | /r/MensRights | 07/07/19 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Tonight I was sexually assaulted and I feel like I cant do anything about because I am a Male.First I would like to say that anyone touching you like that without consent has violated you and has committed a crime. It is unacceptable behavior regardless of gender. Do report this as best you can. Secondly, women do care about the mistreatment of and abuse toward men, myself being one of them. We are fighting the same fight you are, against the louder minority. But the thing that helps us fight is visibility. The more men report these acts the more visible they become. The more visible the… | /r/MensRights | 16/06/19 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Anthony Bourdain has died in an apparent suicide by hanging at 61 - male suicide continues to risewell just because someone "has it made" doesnt mean they dont have other things going on we dont see - Robin Williams for example. | /r/MensRights | 09/06/18 10:42 PM |
| 1 | UK: Nearly FIFTY rape and sex attack cases have been halted after vital evidence was withheld from defence, CPS reveals following urgent review amid collapse of several high profile trials. There is a conspiracy against all men in the UK.well the thing is its gonna get worse in the uk now that its legally not possible to have raped a man, rape is exclusively a female term now. that means that anything that would have been classified as rape of a man now has to be reclassified, new briefs have to be filed etc etc.. so while scrambling to "fix" all that chaos, on top of trying to prosecute people for "wrong think" of course they are gonna fuck this up too. they are trying too hard to change society rather than focusing on the issu… | /r/MensRights | 05/06/18 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Hi all, im a female pro men's rights and anti feminist, kicked from a reading group for supporting men's rights.I hadn't really thought of it in this way exactly but it makes a lot of sense. I've always just felt that there should be an equal opposite i suppose. for example. most domestic violence statistics i find suggest men are victims at a high rate, if not higher than women. and yet only 3 shelters in the entire united states are for male survivors of abuse. why is that ok? why if we'e going to say "well men experience it too" why not say "so lets have the facility to address the issue"? etc | /r/MensRights | 05/06/18 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Hi all, im a female pro men's rights and anti feminist, kicked from a reading group for supporting men's rights.in a lot of places yes i do agree. | /r/MensRights | 05/06/18 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Hi all, im a female pro men's rights and anti feminist, kicked from a reading group for supporting men's rights.yeah the thing is we've done this before in different areas. we would read say... what happened by hillary clinton and then art of the deal by donald trump just to read things by both sides of the aisle. or we read mein kampf once just to then read things like John Locke's works. so it wasnt a strange thing to me to go ok we read the feminist side lets see the other side. because we had never been a "feminist" reading group. otherwise i wouldnt have joined lol | /r/MensRights | 05/06/18 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Hi all, im a female pro men's rights and anti feminist, kicked from a reading group for supporting men's rights.pretty much. and the thing is i wasnt suggesting we start reading stuff about hating women blah blah just simple things. because they were reading things like "The Superior Excellence of Women Over Men" "Backlash: The Undeclared War Against American Women," and im like... ok...what about the other side. i should have known they wouldnt be open to it XD | /r/MensRights | 05/06/18 03:25 AM |
| 2 | Hi all, im a female pro men's rights and anti feminist, kicked from a reading group for supporting men's rights.That's what I've believed in a nutshell. Couldn't have expressed it better, thank you | /r/MensRights | 04/06/18 04:15 PM |
| 2 | Hi all, im a female pro men's rights and anti feminist, kicked from a reading group for supporting men's rights.mmhm my response was something to the effect of "mmm well ive heard enough of "housewives have internalized misogyny and men are monsters" to last me a lifetime so yeah im out" | /r/MensRights | 04/06/18 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Hi all, im a female pro men's rights and anti feminist, kicked from a reading group for supporting men's rights.yeah the majority of my state is very...feministy. to be nice about it. but there's a lot of quiet rumbles against it from people my age so its possible | /r/MensRights | 04/06/18 05:49 AM |
| 3 | Hi all, im a female pro men's rights and anti feminist, kicked from a reading group for supporting men's rights.yeah... it really is sad. i just hope it changes before im too old to run around and advocate! | /r/MensRights | 04/06/18 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Hi all, im a female pro men's rights and anti feminist, kicked from a reading group for supporting men's rights.it is in the us, im not sure on gov. funding but they just let the group meet there and organize through them. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/18 05:47 AM |
| 2 | Hi all, im a female pro men's rights and anti feminist, kicked from a reading group for supporting men's rights.nah it was at a college.. lets see https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GO_X4DkwA_Q | /r/MensRights | 04/06/18 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Hi all, im a female pro men's rights and anti feminist, kicked from a reading group for supporting men's rights.ill go grab that this week! | /r/MensRights | 04/06/18 05:42 AM |
| 6 | Hi all, im a female pro men's rights and anti feminist, kicked from a reading group for supporting men's rights.yeah.. and i admit to my own level or tribalism myself, but i noticed it recently in a debate on telegram, ended up deliberately seeking out opposing views after that.. i still find myself disagreeing about 80% of the time, but im more informed on why, and i want to at least be open to listening and being wrong. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/18 09:12 PM |
| 4 | Hi all, im a female pro men's rights and anti feminist, kicked from a reading group for supporting men's rights.eh i would say its more that there is a fashionable trend right now to be all prowomen anti men.. and because its fashionable some people go with it without looking at the facts...and others deliberately misrepresent the facts to sway more people i think there are moer manipulators than there are those brainwashed though. because most when backed into a corner just whine because they cant back up the thoughts they supposedly have on their own | /r/MensRights | 03/06/18 09:10 PM |
| 3 | Hi all, im a female pro men's rights and anti feminist, kicked from a reading group for supporting men's rights.exactly. example i use above in another comment was when men discussing male suicide had the fire alarm pulled on them to stop the convo. its like why is it dangerous to your ideology to let men discuss the issues they have. is it because they have more than you do and if the truth got out feminists couldnt claim victim status? seems like the only possible reason. and im sorry but i dont think ANYBODY should be /trying/ to claim victim status but if anyone in the developed world has a right to c… | /r/MensRights | 03/06/18 09:07 PM |
| 4 | Hi all, im a female pro men's rights and anti feminist, kicked from a reading group for supporting men's rights.mhmm and the thing that i hear more often is that "feminism is for men too" but if they bring up a topic and you mention "well what about the men" they go "omg we're talking about women why does it always have to be about men" and it never has a chance to be about men so... like the time a group of men got together to discuss better prevention and reduction of male suicide rates and the feminists pulled the fire alarm... that kinda thing. silencing because they would rather ignore the issue and … | /r/MensRights | 03/06/18 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Hi all, im a female pro men's rights and anti feminist, kicked from a reading group for supporting men's rights.yeah I can see that, i hear it a lot in conversations that are about societal norms as well "this is the way x should be because y is bad" as opposed to "well we could do this bit of y and not do that bit XD | /r/MensRights | 03/06/18 09:02 PM |
| 19 | Hi all, im a female pro men's rights and anti feminist, kicked from a reading group for supporting men's rights.They have that. They don't even want equity of outcome anymore just to crush the "opposition" | /r/MensRights | 03/06/18 07:15 PM |
| 12 | Hi all, im a female pro men's rights and anti feminist, kicked from a reading group for supporting men's rights.Exactly why I'm active in fighting that. Equality of opportunity is done. They have nothing to legitimately have grievance with so now it's just whining to be "better" | /r/MensRights | 03/06/18 07:15 PM |
| 26 | Hi all, im a female pro men's rights and anti feminist, kicked from a reading group for supporting men's rights.Yeah I really think it's hypocritical and usually contradictory logic that drives that type of sentiments | /r/MensRights | 03/06/18 05:16 PM |
| 13 | Hi all, im a female pro men's rights and anti feminist, kicked from a reading group for supporting men's rights.America, east coast | /r/MensRights | 03/06/18 05:13 PM |
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