alianthuss Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
208	FDS led to the demise of my relationship	LESSON LEARNED	alianthuss	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/10/20 10:33 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
21	What’s your best FDS quote? Imagine the person you’d become if you stopped trying to fix others and put that energy into yourself- Florence Given I used to spend all my energy trying to mold low value men. When I stopped I became so much happier and developed a healthier self esteem	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/08/21 02:50 PM
2	Why do so many guys and girls say size doesn't matter? Do they genuinely believe this? Because it does matter for me.... It doesnt matter to me but im demisexual. I really dont care for size except if its too large then its a no for me	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/08/21 05:08 AM
38	Never date someone who criticizes your fitness routine. I went on a date with a really wealthy but out of shape guy and he told me that i was too old to still be rock climbing (26 at the time) 🙄	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/07/21 01:34 AM
17	To My Divorced Women- How Are Things? I divorced at 24. I got to experience things i would have missed out on. Had so much fun and discovered how to love myself. When i lived alone, i never felt lonely cause i had so many hobbies and also i really like my own company. I would marry again, im not bitter about marriage at all	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/05/21 07:55 AM
6	I’m really crying over an LVM on Christmas... someone talk some sense to me. there isnt anything to love, you did so much for someone who didnt deserve it that its hard to let go because at the same time youd have to acknowledge that you allowed someone to basically clown you. you can grieve, but after a while you do have to stop. Abusive relationships are like drug addictions. youre hurting cause its like withdrawals, youre not hurting cause you lost something good. I always remind myself that I need to win at life and winning doesnt look like crying over shit people. i…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/12/20 10:21 PM
10	I know I'm probably late to the party but my friend and I finally learned that being a HVM has ZERO correlation with someone's education, career, statue etc. I used to always go out on dates with doctors. Ive had absolutely horrible experiences read below if interested on hearing what happened I met this guy who had been in foster care /group homes with a history of being sexually abused. I normally dont date people who have been in unstable situations a children because I grew up that way too and I dont think im right to help someone with that kind of trauma. he was a doctor so i thought this would be okay cause he seemed to be doing well. Turns out…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/12/20 08:36 AM
7	sEx pOsiTiVe dating coach who is in polyamorous relationship with NVM discovers that he's not attracted to her during pregnancy (but don't worry, he's pro-fetishization of pregnant women!) lmao. this reminded me of mybest friend in high-school would not wear deodorant or shower for days to try to attract males with her pheromones 🤦🏽‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/11/20 08:57 PM