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| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNot terribly helpful to anyone looking for actionable advice though, is it? “Be attractive”, goes without saying. “Don’t be creepy”, you’re not wrong, but we all know how incredibly subjective and dependent on circumstance and mood perception of creepiness is. I would seriously question you on the point of behaviour mattering very little too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo “be attractive, meet someone who wants to meet someone”. Bonus tip : the sun will rise tomorrow. More helpful tips to come from the game masters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Are rich and sucessful women less likely to be willing to have a husband and less likely to marry than low income and middle class women?Not only is it harder for a wealthier woman to find a husband (based on her criteria for a partner generally getting narrower as she gets wealthier), as soon as the wife in any married couple starts earning the majority of the income, the statistical risk of divorce rises significantly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThere are perfectly valid logical risk mitigation based reasons one may hold here. Rather ironically, for how much you talk of others being insecure on this point (and for some that may indeed be true) you seem to be repeatedly cycling back to this same topic on your own, and not in direct response to anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIm sure there is some degree of truth to that too, no doubt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBut it clearly wasn’t non existent prior to said studies, was it? Or are you going to argue that promiscuity has generally not been consistently frowned upon, or at the very least not encouraged save for a select few societies? I personally don’t care either way. Just pointing out how flimsy your argument is on its own terms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’m not saying anyone should do anything. But you would also do well to realise that decisions carry consequences, some of which are not obvious nor immediate. You can’t have it all, and the data at least heavily suggests that on aggregate, more partners equals worse outcomes. But again, people can either acknowledge or disregard this data as they see fit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadParadox of choice and more experiences to compare one’s current situation to. It makes perfect sense. Give someone more options, the less happy they tend to be with their choices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Addressing Two Common RP MisconceptionsWell, if you are stuck in your a priori position unswayed by any logical point that makes rational sense that you may not have yet considered, why would you indeed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Addressing Two Common RP MisconceptionsI freely conceded I could be misremembering that specific point. I explicitly said I not only looked at the source itself, but also glanced over the methodology aswell. I notice a conspicuous silence about the rest of what I said however. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Are women more superstitious?I both agreed with the general sentiment above, and (admittedly you probably didn’t come across it) further down I explicitly gave the male tendency toward conspiracy theory thinking as a textbook version of male delusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Addressing Two Common RP MisconceptionsThis came up the other day. Firstly, I believe you might actually have the figure itself wrong (unsure if I recall that specific point right), and secondly, I looked into the methodology and that is not accurate. The data in this set was gleaned from asking people about what crimes they were subjected to. Therefore, what this data represents is not a crime rate, but an accusation rate. This is an important distinction to note. And even that is assuming no other methodological nor data related fl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Are women more superstitious?By “manifesting” in this context, I am referring to the widespread female belief that one can influence external events simply by thinking about them. That one can simply “manifest” a new job, money, whatever by repeating narcissistic mantras to themselves. Surely I am not being too reductionist in simply stating thinking like that is utterly absurd. Thoughts on their own do not directly externally influence things such as this, in the way that this common idea typically shows up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Are women more superstitious?The initial point I made was my befuddlement at peoples typical reluctance to plainly state things like astrology, manifesting, crystals, etc. have zero rational basis in reality. And the subsequent common next step to give a vague non committal response to the effect of “well it’s all just fun” or move the goalposts to something else vague and ill defined. It’s the common reluctance to call a spade a spade I find both puzzling and interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Are women more superstitious?Obviously we disagree here, and that’s cool. Though I would also point out look how far we have already strayed from the initial point of discussion to simply avoid calling such things nonsense. Just my two cents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Are women more superstitious?Glad to see that despite the disagreement, this back and forth seems fine. To answer your question simply, absolutely I think tons of money is being thrown at many things that don’t actually do shit (not just in this specific context either). Unfortunately many people tend to believe things that don’t rationally align with the knowledge humanity has fought hard to win over our collective timeframe. They often have poor reasoning for believing what they do which doesn’t stack up to observable rea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Are women more superstitious?Put simply, no I don’t. I think people who honestly believe such things are fools and disconnected from reality living in magical fairy tale land. But, though I am being direct and we disagree, full points for being pleasant throughout. That counts for something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Are women more superstitious?No, energy has a very precise meaning. It is typically used as a unit of measurement for the amount of “work” something can do. Calories in food would be such an example. Manifesting, crystals and such is self delusionary nonsense that has zero relationship to the scientific application of the word “energy”. It’s actually slightly depressing that this actually needs to be said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Are women more superstitious?Yes, energy is in fact a concept in observable reality. Though, it has zero scientific merit in the way that certain women typically use the term. “Energy” in this context is often a vague term used to fill in the gaps for what would otherwise be rather obvious childish nonsense thinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Are women more superstitious?Not so much directing this at you yourself, but why is it so common that whenever this topic comes up, people are reluctant to just simply call these kinds of thinking the objective bullshit self delusional nonsense it is? It seems to me there is always some attempt to pussyfoot around that obvious reality and reframe is as something else. Often something else also vague and ill defined. Just an observation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 01:54 PM |
| 1 | There’s this weird phenomenon where when an average man is dating an extremely hot girl. Other girls try to get a piece of him despite him being takenThis is an impossible question to answer accurately, because you will get different answers depending on who you ask. Not too dissimilar to a term like “feminism” in the sense that the response you get largely depends on the person you ask. Though, I would say the common thread is looking harsh reality in the face for what it is, not what you want it to be. Understanding that peoples choices and observed actions carry more weight than anything they might choose to tell you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 11:22 AM |
| 1 | There’s this weird phenomenon where when an average man is dating an extremely hot girl. Other girls try to get a piece of him despite him being takenThis is false. Anybody claiming you can get anyone with any particular method is lying or trying to sell you something. Even the most successful pick up artists (whether you believe their claims is another thing entirely) reported around a 10% close rate. 10%. But, there is something to the idea of not really caring one way or the other. Most guys are simply far too eager with women and unknowingly fuck themselves because they are too agreeable/trying too hard. But anyone who tells you that you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 10:55 AM |
| 1 | The average straight woman would be getting no girls if they magically turned into a straight man.I don’t know you, so who knows? Maybe there is some truth to it. Though I will say, your response is completely in line with what most women think. Most of them are completely wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 06:02 AM |
| 1 | The average straight woman would be getting no girls if they magically turned into a straight man.Holy shit EIGHT times. That’s a new record to these ears. Not sure if I read it right elsewhere, but did you mention something about your father being abusive? Assuming that to be true, I would simply point out notice how he didn’t seem to have any trouble getting partners. I mean, he married four fucking times. Not saying it’s good obviously. Just an observation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 03:38 AM |
| 1 | The average straight woman would be getting no girls if they magically turned into a straight man.FOURTH WIFE?!? Some motherfuckers just do not learn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNot that it matters, I’m just curious. What was the age range for both? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWasn’t familiar with the male reality calculator until right now. What did you put in for the “exclude married”, “exclude children” “exclude overweight/obese” and the income fields? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEither way, it’s such a glaring automatic disqualifier the whole question is a total non starter. Ladies, it’s tough to think of a single bigger red flag. Do with that information what you will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFuck no. I’m also incredibly skeptical on the very term “reformed sex worker”. Oh sure, many may say that. But it’s like a long time heroin addict expecting me to take them at their word that they will never relapse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou would make a killing manufacturing men made of straw | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 07:28 PM |
| 1 | There is zero reason as a man to get marriedWhat on earth are you talking about “when women are given a choice?” Women are the only ones who have every available child having choice open to them. This is not true in the same way for men. I’m actually stunned you said that. If women choose not to have children, that is also fine. Zero problem with that whatsoever. Again, we bear responsibility for the choices we make, for better or worse. Furthermore, I never once said or even implied that men who also desire children do not benefit from i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 06:08 PM |
| 1 | There is zero reason as a man to get marriedClearly most men want children too. I never said nor suggested otherwise. Given that a big part of what you said centered around having children, that is why that emphasis was made. As for the eternally debunked wage gap, I ain’t going down that rabbit hole. But yes, having children comes at a cost. Nobody is denying that. But it is a cost you choose to bear, nobody is forcing you. You are not a victim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI can grant that. Though I would also say an adult woman loudly proclaiming that “she pays her own bills” is not the achievement she thinks it is. Congratulations. You’re a functional adult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 05:52 PM |
| 1 | There is zero reason as a man to get marriedRight. Not saying there is nothing to what you said, but this eternal framing of the female side as a poor passive victim is beyond frustrating. Specifically speaking in terms of stay at home mothers here (this obviously changes with dual parent working households, which I could also argue), yes, generally the woman in such a situation will be disproportionately dealing with things like looking after the kids, running sick kids around and so on. Clearly, in such a situation this is very necessar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Redpill just means toxic relationships while Bluepill means healthy relationshipsI can actually make common cause on the last part of what you said. I would say the same thing applies to many men to. Not gonna deny there’s a ton of “fake it till you make it” out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Redpill just means toxic relationships while Bluepill means healthy relationshipsOf course not all women are the same. I’ve repeatedly gone out of my way to build in all the necessary caveats to every point I’ve made. Yes, individuals vary. Though I would also point out that there are certain tendencies that are far from uncommon too. As for confident women (a phrase I personally find overused to death nowadays) moving on from toxic men, I think that claim is highly questionable. Some? Absolutely. Many however, like to parrot this same kind of rhetoric whilst doing almost th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAgain, I don’t have an opinion one way or the other. The only point I am making is that if they are both adults, then by definition that is something they both choose. That’s it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread“Older men try to stop us from warning women about them….” I don’t intend this to sound unnecessarily confrontational, but what on earth are you talking about? Who is trying to stop women from warning each other about anything? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don’t have an opinion on it one way or the other, but assuming they are both adults, such a situation requires both parties to decide on it. Let’s not go down this road of pretending an adult is a victim for a choice they themselves made. With choice comes responsibility. You can’t have one without the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 04:23 PM |
| 1 | There is zero reason as a man to get marriedYes, AFTER the divorce (you know, when they no longer have access to another persons money and have to provide for themselves) the stats show that women tend to do worse. Though I find it amusing that this framing is always employed with zero mention that DURING the divorce, it is rare for the woman to get the short end of the stick. So in other words, statistically when women have to provide for themselves, they tend to do worse than men. Who do you think might be largely responsible for that? … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 04:06 PM |
| 1 | The common mistake people make here is generalizing too much about the other gender and ignoring specific information about a personYou’re not completely wrong here. Yes, general trends and statistics do not cover the whole picture when it comes to individuals. However, I think it is also somewhat disingenuous and/or naive to argue from the point of exceptions to the rule. Isn’t it funny how when you ask people, everyone seems to be the exception? Broad patterns and statistics certainly don’t tell you everything. They also don’t tell you nothing, either. In the vast majority of cases, people tend not to be the exceptions the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 12:38 PM |
| 1 | There is zero reason as a man to get married“Women leave because they can envision doing better on their own” Yes, they certainly can envision that, can’t they? However, the stats tend to show that long term, most of these women turn out to be wrong. Furthermore, let’s not gloss over the fact that these vows don’t really seem to count for shit the moment a “better” option (whether that be another man, or just being “single”) presents itself. It always cracks me up seeing how much people trumpet this kind of pleasant sounding stuff on the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 10:47 AM |
| 1 | There is zero reason as a man to get marriedRight. Yep, it’s boring for them. Have you ever known a woman who is currently mooning over some other guy when she is already in a relationship? They often get total “schoolgirl giddy” over it, and if they feel you won’t judge them, cannot wait to tell you all about the other guy. Even stepping away from direct observation personally, the sheer number of articles by even feminist minded women who routinely post articles dealing with the topic of casual sex and how exciting it can be is beyond s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 10:00 AM |
| 1 | There is zero reason as a man to get marriedOkay, an exchange here is pointless. Others can decide who makes the most sense here. Not pointlessly bashing my head against a wall when I see one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHang on I’m confused. Did they specifically claim to particularly like yours, or did they say “I could take ‘em or leave em”. Legit question, as I’m suddenly unsure as to whether you’ve either contradicted your initial post, or whether I’m simply getting confused and/or missing something here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 09:09 PM |
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