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Here's a simple question for you. Wheres the "friends" part in your fwb situation? B/c your describing is barely a fcuk buddy.
/r/seduction18/02/26 05:54 PM
4

If you're on the internet asking for advice on strip club game you should probably stay away from them. You're the goofy dude that's gonna be going every night he can giving all his money away. thinking the stripper is your gf b/c she's doing the thing you literally paid her to do. Give you attention for money. Stripper game is for guys that can get laid consistently outside of strip clubs.
/r/seduction14/12/24 03:00 PM
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Don't look at the approaches as the goal. The goal is to have fun during each approach.
/r/seduction06/10/24 01:34 PM
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Your not most guys. And they might be meeting women at parties, clubs, through friends that are girls, efc...You don't seem to be able to do that b/c your view is still "how do I get a gf?" And not how do I enjoy this interaction with this person?
/r/seduction06/10/24 01:27 PM
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Yes but the point is to get rid of the "how many" thought. It's not like there's a set number that's going to earn you an award. The point of approaching is to get comfortable w/talking to strangers particularly women. The goal is to have fun talking to women. So how many approaches? Well that's entirely up to you.
/r/seduction06/10/24 01:08 PM
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Try setting a concrete time instead. Leaving it open like that sends the message that you're just another random option she has. Girls have multiple options to choose from. You're essentially saying "hey if you can maybe set some time for me I dunno if that doesn't ruin your plans maybe you might be able to squeeze me in." It comes off unintentionally sounding needy. Make you're date sound like it's the best option. So if that's just saying something like "damn welp guess we're gonna see who thi…
/r/seduction01/06/24 04:16 PM
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Her choice her fault. Hopefully, she learned to make her intentions clearer.
/r/seduction30/05/24 11:30 PM
2

>We had even agreed to not talk to other people. No goofy, she got YOU to agree to not "talk" to other people. She agreed not to "fuck" other people she was still getting emotional validation from social media and every other place.
/r/seduction11/08/22 04:25 AM
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If I make food that everyone wants that shows my talent as a chef. If you're supposed to be a great food critic and all the food you critiqued is gas station and fast food that's not really impressive is it?
/r/seduction29/06/22 10:53 PM
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I mean yeah I get that. However, she might feel undesirable but that is only temporary. A woman is always going to be desirable by some guy. Fucking her and then letting her know your leaving because she was unfaithful would leave a more lasting impression in my mind. We probably just have different opinions though. I do get your view though.
/r/seduction23/06/22 01:02 PM
1

I mean I think the point of fucking her is to let her go immediately after. So that she knows if she wants to cheat on anyone then that is all she will be to any guy. Disposable.
/r/seduction23/06/22 01:17 AM
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>"but I actually have a headache You keep repeating that like if you say it enough you'll start to believe it.
/r/seduction18/06/22 03:12 AM
2

If you don't have a problem then great good for you. That's not the question. The question was "how do you politely ask someone to leave after you just had sex with them?" Answer that question. If you don't have any answer then don't respond.
/r/seduction18/06/22 03:09 AM
4

"Look guys I played the lottery once and won $20 it's so easy."
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:56 AM
1

That wasn't the question I asked was it?
/r/seduction05/06/22 05:56 PM
1

If you really believe that then why did you choose a BPD woman is your example?
/r/seduction05/06/22 04:33 PM
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That's the point. You're making broad statements based on a few women who had BPD. Most women who are not mentally unstable aren't trying to fuck after a first date. Which is what OP is saying.
/r/seduction05/06/22 02:30 PM
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"I had a BPD chick" Making broad statements on one woman is a stupid way of thinking.
/r/seduction05/06/22 01:45 PM
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You are incorrect.
/r/seduction05/06/22 01:43 PM
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It's his "problem" depending on how much he wants to pursue this woman. Most men don't. If he doesn't that's fine. However, if he does those are all things he needs to deal with. But if she's as attractive as he says she is she is probably just using him as a meal ticket.
/r/seduction04/06/22 06:23 PM
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No. Why would she? You still give her a certain amount of attention. Some attention is better than no attention to a lot of people. And you're still open to the idea of banging this girl. Which means you're still going to give her what she wants, attention. That's what she wants. You haven't even kissed her so she's using you for offers of dinner, walks, and talks. What you're really asking is how do you get a kiss? She's doing the talking to deflect your attempts at escalation. And it's mostly …
/r/seduction04/06/22 06:19 PM
1

If that were true you wouldn't be on reddit/r/seduction posting about a homeless woman denying your physical advances.
/r/seduction04/06/22 03:18 PM
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I mean yeah. Relationships are hard enough. You just added an additional layer of difficulty by unintentionally "dating/pursuing" a woman who is homeless.
/r/seduction04/06/22 03:14 PM
1

No I'm implying that she may have been sexually assaulted recently (whitin 2 years). And that is the reason she doesn't want to be physical or romantic with anyone. It may be the reason she is homeless.
/r/seduction04/06/22 03:06 PM
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Again you're someone that she probably sees that treats her not as a "homeless" person. That being said she isn't interested. So block whatever number she is calling from and don't go near where you know she'll be.
/r/seduction04/06/22 03:04 PM
0

Yeah, you don't know that. And statistically, it is more possible that's partially what is happening.
/r/seduction04/06/22 02:58 PM
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Imagine being homeless and then one person treats you kinda of like a human. Yeah no duh she's not wanting to escalate. If you're going to break things off I'd suggest you contact a woman's shelter and "meet up" with someone that can help her. It's not your responsibility but it seems like that's what she really needs.
/r/seduction04/06/22 02:56 PM
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Not to be a downer but homeless women are sexually assaulted at a higher rate then other women. If this woman is even moderately attractive as you suggest that could be part of her disinterest in anything physical. Also, you've pretty much painted her into a corner. You gave this woman financial assistance kinda. Why would she jeopardize that?
/r/seduction04/06/22 02:37 PM
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Homeless women are sexually assaulted at a higher rate of other women. Just an FYI.
/r/seduction04/06/22 02:33 PM
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First things first. Make sure your basic hygiene is up to snuff. That means showering, brushing teeth, etc... semi consistently. At least every other day. No one wants to be around a smelly person. Next thing start "flirting" with at least one person a day. It doesn't have to be really forward. Just a small compliment. "Wow you have a really beautiful smile." They'll probably say thanks. That's it. That's all you need to start with. You just need to get comfortable talking to women. It doesn't m…
/r/seduction02/06/22 05:22 AM
5

Just because you don't want to play games doesn't mean she has the same mindset.
/r/seduction28/05/22 09:26 PM
2

Yup. Plus just b/c 1 person may not be trying to play games doesn't mean the other person might like playing games.
/r/seduction28/05/22 09:21 PM
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You're assuming that the person your interested doesn't want to play games. So you ask hey are we still on for tonight. "Yeah I'll see you there." Then later at your still at the place feeling like a dope when you get stood up and then a text maybe the day later saying. "OMG I took a nap and my phone died so the alarm didn't go off.🥺😬can we reschedule?"
/r/seduction28/05/22 09:18 PM
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Yes...that's why it works because it gives the girl an out. She didn't stand you up. More importantly, anything that happens "it was just so random I didn't plan on anything" even if she did plan on all of it. It gives her the feeling of spontaneity. Girls get to have the feeling guys don't.
/r/seduction26/05/22 04:03 PM
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>Also it's the coolest, high value guys who go to the most dates. While I never used the word 'date', I've never beaten around the bush pretending it's something else. Except you didn't use the word date for the exact same reason. Because it triggers alarms. Yes you can plan a date without saying that specific word. Which is what the post is advocating.
/r/seduction26/05/22 03:59 PM
2

Your entire rant comes off as a 20-22 year old angry dude who isn't getting laid.
/r/seduction09/05/22 12:44 AM
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"I am a calm, collected, easy going guy. Are you? Or is that just how YOU perceive yourself? Calm and collected might just come off as serious and not able to take a joke. I'd say start off joking with other guys when girls are around but not near. Usually, that's enough that girls get annoyed that they aren't part of the fun but they also see you can be fun. She may also not genuinely like you. Who knows maybe you remind her of a teacher she hated.
/r/seduction23/04/22 02:08 PM
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Real-world examples won't help. Not because they don't work but because they most likely don't match your personality. What is your personality? Really think about it. What is your personality when you are talking about something you are confident about? How do you tease someone lightly about not knowing something about that subject? Do the same thing but about being attracted to you. That's a start.
/r/seduction23/04/22 03:19 AM
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You buy a kinda of mid range bottle of wine. Bring it over and say. "Hey, I just wanted to bring a welcome to the neighborhood gift." It's a normal thing to bring over. And it's not weird. But at this point I don't know how long it's been it maybe too late. And that may come off as weird too.
/r/seduction09/04/22 02:19 PM
1

Except the wine they were talking about was hallucinogenic.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/04/22 03:10 AM
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Don't think of it as ignoring her. Just think/do about something else. And yes you dumped her. Then tried to get back with her which makes you look even needier. Trying to continue a relationship now makes you look goofy. 4 months maybe that's when you can "talk" to her. Don't ignore her just don't initiate anything.
/r/seduction25/02/22 02:52 AM
1

Yeah it is pretty arrogant to think someone you're working with should care about your birthday. We aren't friends I'm you're co worker
/r/seduction13/02/22 07:05 PM
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https://www.twitch.tv/search?term=healthygamer_gg
/r/seduction09/02/22 03:39 AM
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That's what I thought. Nice shoes = weirdo.
/r/seduction07/02/22 06:16 AM
1

It seems like you did the best thing. I think the only other thing may have been to have given her a choice. "I'm heading out, if you wanna come with text your friend that you'll meet up with her later." The bitch shield is removed and you and the girl can go to a pool hall or some other place.
/r/seduction28/01/22 11:45 PM
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She wants you to try to catch her again. The question you need to ask is "Do I really want to put in all this effort into someone I already caught?" Really you already know what you need to do.
/r/seduction17/01/22 04:50 AM
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The 1st one was getting rejected by you. By "making" you type in your name she was able to take back control and reject you. I mean look you're still thinking about the one that rejected you. Saying no to Insta was a pretty good move honestly. But I get it lots of girls use it as security its less dangerous to use then a phone number. I think instead of saying no to insta try saying that you're not on social media or better yet give a girl a place and time that you're going to be if she wants to…
/r/seduction18/11/21 03:26 PM
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...? What our expectations are. How many guys do you know that genuinely bring a girl home to "sleep over"?
/r/seduction20/10/21 03:08 PM
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In order to get to that place, however, need to get a lot of that out of their system. That's generally the problem. For one, most guys don't have a problem taking care of things themselves. So even when guys do sleep with a girl it's just another orgasm. If it's bad sex guys can't even blame anyone but themselves. So part of guys going from girl to girl is that they know if the relationship isn't going well it's going to be the fault of the guy. So why wouldn't a guy try to get a 9 or 10?
/r/seduction19/10/21 04:01 AM
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>At one point she noticed the tip jar and said I'm gonna go put my number in there. Tell a girl you're with that. See if she would find that acceptable.
/r/seduction11/05/21 04:52 AM
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That's the vibe I got too. There's a difference between being confident in what you got and letting a girl pull some unacceptable shit.
/r/seduction11/05/21 02:49 AM
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