alicat104 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Does anyone else worry they’re infertile? Look into Modern Fertility! It tests hormones outside of the lutenizing hormone that give a better clue as to how your fertility is, and whether or not it’s average, better, or worse than others of your age.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/12/20 04:25 AM
1	Struggling to reconcile wanting children vs. being childfree It doesn’t have to be large family or nothing! I came from a large family and was in a similar spot of motherhood vs career . I’m now currently working from home as an accountant with my 3 month old with a part time nanny for 3 hours in the mornings just to get some focused work and meetings done.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/11/20 10:35 PM
4	What are the ways to NOT get pregnant besides abstinence? This! But fertility window only matters if you’re on a non-hormonal method of BC like condoms, diaphragms, non hormonal IUDs, etc. Otherwise attempting to track fertility is pointless because hormones will prevent you from having a cycle (you’re essentially placed in a hormonally induced state of fake pregnancy). Also, don’t combine pullout and the FAM method (fertility awareness). They’re both very prone to failure/mistakes and are a horrible combination.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/05/20 12:07 AM
1	Burnout I’ve been getting it real bad too, to the point where I’ll literally just sit and cry. I’m also pregnant and entering that magical time where I’m exhausted and everything is uncomfortable and smells bad. Budget permitting, I’ve started ordering dinner out for pickup once per week (usually a Saturday/sunday!) and we do one “down and dirty” meal per week like a bunch of appetizers with a veggie platter. My husband eats like a picky 5 year old so he loves the two low effort days and if I space them…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/05/20 12:47 AM
8	Is it bad I don't always take my partner's side with conflicts with his family? No matter how deadass wrong he is, take his side in public and THEN discuss in private. My husband and his parents are very opinionated people and will argue just for fun at some points so I’ve had my fair share of “on the spot” situations. But if my husband says the sky is green in an argument or discussion with them and they turn to me for my side, the sky is green! I’ll pull him aside later and talk to him and go “hey, dude, the sky is definitely blue...”, but my backup and support of him is …	/r/RedPillWomen	27/04/20 02:00 AM
2	Saw Him liking some booty models photos on instagram I may be in the minority, but I don’t see it as a bad thing. I met my husband when I was 16 and he was 17 (we’re 22 and 23, married with a baby on the way now). He’s always had a bit of a following on social media and he himself follows certain models. Guys really are hardwired to look, but I know liking a model’s booty pic doesn’t take away from his commitment or love for me. I’ve actually used the models he followed as a way to reinvent my fashion style when he mentioned things he liked about …	/r/RedPillWomen	20/04/20 08:44 PM
2	Conditions for young marriages? Started dating at 16/17, got engaged at 21, married at 22, and our first child will (hopefully) be born at 23 this year if all goes well! We are definitely young, my husband is only a year older than me. It was the military commission that pushed our timelines up and it was either we marry or we’d be living apart for 4+ years.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/01/20 11:17 PM
–	Gratitude: What are you thankful for? My husband and I found out we are expecting our first baby on New Years, and our finances are in a place where I can stay home with our baby indefinitely. I’m so thankful that he made the sacrifices he did for us to be in this position and that I can count on him to lead us as a family ❤️	/r/RedPillWomen	12/01/20 05:49 AM
1	At what age and how did you meet your boyfriend/husband? Met at 16 in high school, started dating at 16, engaged at 21 (2 months ago!) and we’ll be married at 22 for me and 24 for him. We are on a bit of an expedited timeline due to his military service though, otherwise we’d probably be getting married much later lol.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/05/19 05:29 AM
–	Monthly Goals May goal: attend 20 CrossFit classes at the gym I pay to go to but always somehow end up “not having the time” for. Lose 4-6 lbs through diet and exercise. I’m getting married in potentially less than a year (we find out the date from Disney May 25!) and I definitely want to lose about 20 lbs to feel and look my best for my future husband. I always have something come up with work or with college and the thing I end up prioritizing least is always myself.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/05/19 01:14 AM