| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 12 | Nerves | DATING ADVICE | alicemic29 | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/17 08:25 AM |
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| 1 | How do I Always end up losing power in relationships?I have similar issues with having an alcoholic father. I don’t have a close relationship with him. I still love him and he was always there to support me and my mother financially, however there was no emotional support in the relationship between my parents. It was arranged they only knew Each other for a few months. Growing up I never saw my father do anything nice for my mom, they would always just fight. So when I started college, I of course went for the wrong guys. Guys that paid less atte… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/17 03:09 AM |
| 1 | NervesI blocked his number need to go into nun mode and etc!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/12/17 03:19 PM |
| 1 | NervesI feel like I mak progress then go five steps backward. I don’t know what’s wrong with me. Why do I crave his attention and the less he gives me the more I need? It’s so pitiful I can’t handle it anymore I feel like I’m going to break because I let myself get drawn in. I tried doing everything being more feminine and talking to more girl friends, and focusing on myself but then I just threw it all away once he started giving me attention again and I was like a rubber band and reeking of desperat… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/17 07:43 AM |
| 11 | New Years resolutionsI want to work on myself. Take swim lessons, go to yoga more often, make new girl friends, stop talking to guys who don’t want to date me...I’m new to rpw and feel like sometimes I really am excited and believe I want to change and then sometimes I feel like I’ve made no progress and take two steps back. I’m also in a new city and the loneliness makes me vulnerable to spending time with the wrong man. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/12/17 06:10 AM |
| 1 | NervesI have a problem. I started reading all this RPW and worked on myself, started reading “surrendered single” by Doyle as recommended by someone else in this site. I was feeling great this week, smiling and dressing my best being confident and trying to talk to more females, focusing on working out and my own interests. then the guy I slept with, started taking more interest it seems like because I was talking to him again (I had ignored him for weeks) . Asked me to “come over and hang out” he wan… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/17 03:33 PM |
| 1 | NervesThanks!! Just started to after your recommendation!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/17 07:09 AM |
| 2 | NervesToday I tried to talk to a girl at my gym class! Baby steps!! Today went very well especially day 2 if wearing a skirt or dress it really does make me Feel more feminine!! Thanks for all your help :) also I ran into the other guy and didn’t really bother me when I saw him | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/17 03:15 AM |
| 2 | For Single Ladies “Late to the Red Pill” Part II: Nun Mode, Realism vs. Settling, Vetting MistakesTemporarily Single by choice :) !! I love that!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/12/17 01:46 PM |
| 1 | We're going to finally be fully intimate in 5 days!This is so positive! I’m very happy for you and hope to learn as much as you have! Do you have any advice on how to use this site? I’m a little new and just wondering what you found most helpful? What kind of autobiographies have you read that we’re interesting to you and helped your relationships!? | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/12/17 10:58 AM |
| 9 | For Single Ladies “Late to the Red Pill” Part II: Nun Mode, Realism vs. Settling, Vetting MistakesThank you so much! This made my day. I was sitting around feeling bummed about single and wallowing but now...Ready to go into “nun mode”. I always thought being single with a negative connotation at my age... but I will try to put it in a positive way and stop looking and just start building my interests and having a fuller life. Thank you and I’m excited to read the next installment. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/12/17 10:40 AM |
| 3 | NervesOk thanks vintagegirlgame. So spot on!! I got to move on and start life again !!! He hasn’t texted me in weeks and I have not initiated contacted him as well. Will focus on RMV and stop moping around when I don’t get his attention. Yes it’s like I need compliments to function. Instead of recognizing my own value I often times seek approval from these player type men which is not healthy for me. Then I become obsessed and end up liking these players for no reason other than them giving me validat… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/12/17 06:07 AM |
| 2 | NervesYes my goals are to keep meeting people and making more girlfriends. I decided to wear a dress to clinic instead of pants it felt much better and more feminine. Usually I’m wearing dress pants or scrubs when I go to the hospital! I tried to smile more and be more friendly to staff today and ask them about their lives. Unfortunately I also work with the other male I was talking about so things can be weird. I learned my lesson. It’s hard because I was a little hurt today he didn’t try to talk to … | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/12/17 01:19 AM |
| 1 | NervesThanks so much vintagegirlgame, everything you say is spot on. As for upping my girl game, I love your analogy. My male friends will often drop out of orbit once they realize I’m not interested. I’ve lost a few male friends because of this. And my female friends in medicine .... I don’t have many “feminine” female friends. The ones that are in medicine and I feel like we give off this masculine energy in the workplace. I don’t know how to be coy and flirt and don’t have those skills now. The one… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/12/17 01:39 PM |
| 2 | NervesYes I often will friend zone them but they are the ones I never was attracted to in the first place. But I have such an easy time talking to them so then I am not interested in them romantically but they will start to be. The ones I actually like and am attracted to, I end up just getting more physical than emotional with them. So I realize that’s something I need to work on. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/17 09:58 PM |
| 2 | NervesThanks for the advice it helps a lot. That sounds like something I can do. I am to try what you say little by little and hope to push my boundaries and get out of my comfort zone. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/17 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Nervesyes 29 but acting 16. I can be flirty and fun when it’s a guy I’m not attracted to but when it’s someone I like, I haven’t been able to be the same way. I need to grow up and I’m so mad at myself for being so shy and boring. Rpw opened my eyes and made me realize I need to work I myself and screen men. I’m a doctor and most of my life been having not much social life and shy when I’m attracted to someone. I was an ugly duckling in high school, wore the wrong clothes no makeup whatsoever and was … | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/17 03:51 PM |
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