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I think this ties into a more general pattern of men wanting to appear woke, allies, enlightened, better than the other men etc. It's literally all about getting praise and ego strokes. If they don't walk the talk or talk too much about how they're so good at feminism is a good indicator of narcissism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 10:55 PM
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How is this controversial? A man's entitled ass depends on wasting a woman's time. That's about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 11:34 AM
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"my ex told me that I used to make her feel raped sometimes" Spoken in a soft voice and Bambi eyes like he was sorry for her, and the behavior wasn't even his, or if it was, it was an unfortunate inconvenience. Don't judge me pls, I was 20 and he was 30. I thought rape couldn't happen in relationships and when he said that, I thought she was the problem for not setting boundaries (after all they were still friends, couldn't be that bad, no?). Looking back I'm so ashamed of myself. They do tell y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 09:51 PM
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I've been thinking about this since I started reading FDS. HVM traits of "high effort" HIGHLY overlap with narcissistic lovebombing behavior. This needs to be made much more clear than it is now. Actions are important but are not enough. You need to investigate why they do what they do. What's their worldview, values, history etc. Narcissists love to tell you on themselves so that should be relatively easy to spot. Let me tell you what's NOT easy to spot: our own vulnerability to high effort ges…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 03:02 PM
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This episode was awesome, and it's true that humans are immensely resourceful, but it's not true that babies are born happy. The baby's nervous system is in fact shaped by the primary caregivers. Babies are vulnerable and neuroplastic and it can go either way. That's why healing needs to be approached as reparenting and compassionate reprogramming. Affirmations and stuff ain't gonna cut it, you are creating yourself anew. If you were raised by narcs you are wounded at a pre verbal level, because…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 06:48 PM
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My poly friend says he cant miss out on so much "beauty" and "joy" 😂😂 because life is short. He feels extremely enlightened despite blatantly ignoring that the women he dates are only putting up with his bullshit to avoid losing him, and even told him so. He keeps repeating they're actually on board against all evidence pointing to the opposite. He feels very independent despite being incapable of going 1 day without female validation. Typical deluded wokebro stuff, do not recommend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 02:57 AM
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Same!!! 😍😍😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 07:10 PM
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❤️😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 11:50 PM
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For years and years, I've always, ALWAYS been extremely empathetic, patient and understanding with men and their pity parties. I truly believed that almost everyone has good intentions and deserves a chance. I even took pride in making men a better version of themselves, it made me feel that I was doing a better job than my parents at being in a couple. Spoiler: I got nothing in return apart from getting my life destroyed and my time wasted. More spoilers: most women around me have been through …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 11:49 PM
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The Cool Girl is a coping strategy for so many things, including feeling like you don't belong with other women because you deviate from patriarchal standards that women themselves often enforce, and perceived rejection from them. It makes no sense to me to add more female rejection on top of it for being a "cool girl". Cool girls need to be shown alternative coping strategy and liberation strategies and female solidarity. That's how you understand you're not really "special", you just deserve m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 05:50 PM
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the cool girl is a response to an attack from men to our femininity It's more like a response to an attack from men to our humanity. The fact that they see us as inferior has nothing to do with nails and "femininity". Those are the lame justifications they provide for feeling superior and entitled to exploit us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 05:35 PM
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It's actually worse than this. Many women take huge pride in having unprotected sex, like it's a badge of honor that makes them ascend to "emancipated" status and makes the women who actually care about their own health to look like hysterical boring hypocondrial prudes. When you challenge them on their own self neglect, masochism and recklessness they call "AbUsE" and "SLuT ShAmInG". Ok sis, enjoy your STDs. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 05:28 PM
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Barf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 11:00 PM
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What a mood. Stealing this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 10:56 PM
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Vetting needs to be conceived as a process in at least two main stages. First vet all the obvious NV, LV, non compatible people. Then if you do find someone who seems to be a HVM, the actual vetting starts, in order to assess their true character and if they're real. Unfortunately some lying psychos will always slip through but we shouldn't underestimate how our guard goes down after we perceive HV behavior. That should only be the starting point. I'm guilty of this myself. Especially when you'r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 12:38 PM
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This is a good green flag for sex. Humor. Playfulness. .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 11:15 AM
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Sex feels scripted, like a movie where you're supposed to play a certain part, and he literally doesn't function if you don't go along with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:31 PM
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Dead soulless eyes I wish I knew earlier this was a thing. I thought it was all in my head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:21 PM
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I love this idea and as a non anglo person I don't understand the resistance. I know that US politics is super polarized and toxic but it doesn't have to be that way especially when it comes to women's issues. The whole point is that we as women have common interests and goals and problems that no one in the political spectrum is representing or giving a shit about. I see this in my own country too. This "left vs right wing women" is another patriarchy triangulation we have fallen for. Only when…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 10:30 PM
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I've been feeling like this for many years, way before finding FDS. I just can't be bothered on many levels. Some sort of desire for actual intimacy is starting to kick in, but I just can't go back to unsee what I see now. Most romantic and sexual relationships around me are shit. I genuinely don't understand why people are so compelled to fill their life with fake connections and lies (both lies to self and others). I know I once was in a similar place but I'm truly over it and done way too muc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 07:01 PM
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