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The dog's like "Please save me guys, I can't handle it anymore". Poor thing looks tired and traumatized.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/11/20 10:45 AM
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if you can accept me and my two children then good but if you can't then idk what to tell you Thanks for the consideration honey, but we don't need to rationalize our unwillingness to date you. You do, however, but clearly you're having a hard time doing it. Sucks to realize that you're the architect of your own demise, doesn't it?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/20 08:45 AM
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Typical case of female hyper-subjectivism. She wants to believe she's a virgin, she wants it to be true, but then she inevitably has to face the fact that the immense majority of people don't agree with her. In this situation, your typical man would start to question the notion of virginness and try to figure out some common ground between his own understanding and other people's understanding, so as to form a new concept that does justice both to his understanding and to other's understandings …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/11/20 08:31 AM
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Cannot post photos for fear of discovery. Makes me think of the Anthony Laroche case, a 60-something French dude who catfished dozens of women on Tinder by posing as a 40-something rich model, and who asked these women, for their first date, to come to his apartment and to blindfold themselves before he showed up and fucked them. He took pics of the women while he fucked them, which attests that there were quite a few of them, but only a tiny number actually testified against him when he eventua…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/20 09:53 AM
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Tell that to Aladdin, your typical dirt-poor dude, who falls in love with your typical super-rich super-powerful super-coveted princess. Just about every man can easily identify with him. Better keep lying by misrepresenting things through language, women absolutely delight in doing this sort of thing. Men are "intimidated", not "repelled" nor "attracted" nor even "indifferent". Women are "strong", not "bossy" nor "masculine" nor "rude".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/20 06:42 AM
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The message I got so far is that you're supposed to share your emotions, feelings, etc., as long as it's for the benefit of others in some way. In other words, you're expected to be emotionally supportive. When it comes to your own insecurities, doubts, frustrations, etc., you're still supposed to shut up and pretend everything's fine. In other words, you're not supposed to be emotionally supported. We're basically told to provide, not only on the physical plane, but also on the psychical one. I…
/r/MensRights08/11/20 03:23 AM
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Granted, my friends back home have been married forever. Some of them are even divorced or remarried. It’s not the same out here in the big city —people take a little longer to make it official. Now I’m at the age where even my friends here are getting married and having kids. Look at these rural, unambitious, traditional girls whom I called "friends" but secretly turn up my nose on. They settled somewhat rapidly because they're losers and have no options. A small number of them even separated f…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/20 10:42 AM
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Instead, he texted me a rude message asking about my “endless masturbation abilities over the weekend.” [...] I felt kinda violated, like “what makes this total stranger think that he can talk to me like this?” Well, to begin with, he was actually trying to mess with you and to lighten up the boring conversation you had so far. You might not like gross humor, but apparently you didn't even realize it was humor and took it at face value.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/20 11:50 AM
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At least the little mermaid is a hot princess. Don't get me started on the plethora of romantic chick flicks where the girl is barely average, boring, homely, dull or depressive, and still for some reason M. Perfect comes along and finds something in her to like. The male equivalent, where the average nerd attracts hot women for some reason, is presented in a comedic tone, while the female version is generally presented very seriously, as something that can actually happen.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/20 11:27 AM
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I would have used, be realistic in your wants. I doubt even that would work. Women who mostly had long-term, serious relationships know where they stand and are more realistic about what guys they can get to stick around, since they actually experienced some form of commitment. But women who complain about not finding guys who stick around, viz. women who mostly had casual relationships with men who are too in demand to commit to them, don't know where they stand at all. And you can't fix that a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/20 08:34 PM
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In fact this seems to happen quite often. I've read plenty of stories from women who complain that a man they kept waiting for a while (in the order of months) bailed out after they had sex for the first time. And then they call these guys "players"... I think even the guys who are willing to needlessly endure blue balls smell a bad deal when they see one. If you wait for months while spending much money on her, and all you get in the end is some unenthusiastic, vanilla sex with zero passion, yo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/10/20 05:20 PM
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This is what you get when women's inner fantasy of being a quiescent object of desire, lust or interest for everybody around them is fueled by society as a whole. "You're beautiful even if you're fat", "You shouldn't reassess your standards", "You deserve the best"...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/20 07:36 AM
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She's definitely still in her "fuck date the top guys" phase. It's usually blatantly clear when they've revised their strategy and are actually serious about being serious. The easiest tell is that they do their best to desexualize everything and to discard anything that has to do with physical/psychological attraction. Because these women are so easy by nature that the only way for them to get things in control is to remove sex from the equation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/20 06:46 AM
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This one's got "crazy manipulative bitch" written all over her face.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/20 01:01 PM
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If she's willing to pull that off for a first date, just imagine what her demands would be like further down the commitment road, when she's confident she's got him by the balls. Covering travel expenses for the whole family? Extra house for her mum? Greed and delusion know no bounds.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/20 07:56 AM
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I mean insulting every potential match seems like an amazing tactic. It never ceases to amaze me how swiftly they shoot themselves in the foot. You'd think everybody's enough common sense to realize that writing a profile like that is a bad idea, but apparently not. On the other hand, we're much better off if they keep being that open about their low value.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/20 09:24 AM
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Imagine approaching a job interviewer like that: Look, I was a low-paid worker in all my previous jobs. But now I want more. Make me a well-paid supervisor! What do you mean, "why"? Well, I thought being a supervisor is too much work. You have to spend your life at work, and if shit goes south you take the blame! So I preferred to do the bare minimum at work and enjoy my liberty. I've jumped from job to job, met new people and seen new places, it was fun! What do you mean, I'm not "qualified"? W…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/20 11:50 AM
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Not looking for a hook up, a fb or to be your cougar. Maybe she isn't a slut? Been there got the t-shirt. Okay, never mind.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/10/20 06:53 AM
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What she means by "bitter" is apparently that men stop trying too much (they become less romantic, less passionate, they don't wear their heart on their sleeves anymore, no more professing their undying love, etc.) after they've had enough experiences. It's definitely true, but I'd rather call that being realistic and pragmatic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/10/20 05:20 AM
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Has she given any indication that she is someone worth "building something" with? Most women don't seem to realize that they're supposed to sell us the idea of a relationship and marriage. As long as we're satisfied, which usually doesn't take much (sex and some company), there's zero incentive to bear a heavier burden.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/20 11:24 PM
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This one's probably looking for really, really rough sex.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/20 10:26 PM
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I don't think any of the women involved are actually trying to find a solution, even OP. It's just about making everyone feel better about the current situation (both OP and her friends), whatever the outcome.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/20 09:56 PM
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Men don't just show their emotions because we are perceived as weak if we do so, that's called being feminine. They basically want us to help them process their emotions, to provide emotional support, empathy, etc. But they still don't want to hear about our own issues, doubts, etc. because that would be too unmanly. Basically, they want a free psychologist, a provider of emotional support.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/20 08:45 PM
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Generous = "Give me more than I give you"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/20 08:01 PM
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They absolutely do need more from the men they're dating. There's a kid in the equation after all, so they must look for extra qualities that were irrelevant or secondary before they had one. It's pretty ironic that, when women need the most from men, men want them the less.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/20 06:56 AM
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Typical, not sure why the modern f-male thinks it is cool and edgy to come across as nutty. Plenty of women don't like to think because this tends to increase the distance between yourself and the world. They'd rather be in touch with their sensations and impressions, which is easier to do if you abstain from thinking. Thus they say whatever they have in mind at this particular moment and immediately forget about it (that's the "No filter" thing). The result is a stream of incoherent and disconn…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/20 06:34 AM
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I had a female friend who worked in a call center. Apparently women she had on the phone didn't like it at all when they were asked their age, so she resolved to ask them their date of birth and do the math instead, with much better results.
/r/MensRights17/10/20 11:11 PM
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Props to you for your commitment. It's frankly sad that some people would rather see you drown with them than, you know, learn to swim on their own.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/20 06:50 PM
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Even so, there are plenty of women delusional enough to rationalize that in their favor. "I'm attracting young men because I look young and hot!" You know the drill.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/20 06:01 PM
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Desperation knows no bounds. If you combine a lack of interest from women with enough self-loathing, shame, repressed sexuality and so on, you end up with guys who believe that they can't get something better than that. For them, these women seem absolutely inaccessible, and they're willing to do whatever it takes to bridge this gap. They believe that these women are so superior to them that they're willing to pay them, pretty much like worshippers who offer tokens to a goddess. There are probab…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/20 05:33 PM
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The idea of working was probably appealing to married women initially. Hubby already made enough for both to live on and wifey had plenty of extra time due to the introduction of washing machines, kitchen appliances and so on. Why not make some extra cash to treat her family herself? But now that salaries went down for everyone due to the introduction of women in the workplace, and that men aren't keen on the idea of marrying, you end up with tons of single women working dead-end jobs just to ma…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/20 04:49 PM
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I think these guys want to have some kind of "relationship" with the girl they're wanking to. They want to interact with them in some way, and paying them is already a kind of interaction. You get zero interaction when watching free porn.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/20 04:26 PM
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It makes more sense if you read it backwards: I will find someone to love me and my daughter [and most importantly to pay for us]. I will get my own place to live [the guy's place]. I will get a car [with his money of course].
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/20 04:18 PM
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Oh It's quite possible that a highly inebriated and desperately horny guy in a dimly-lit night club at 4 AM told her she looks 40 years younger than she actually is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/20 04:11 PM
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I'd argue that they still believe cleaning, cooking, etc. is a woman's thing, her doing and her area of expertise. But then they believe so even if they don't actually do shit. Say you spent the whole morning cleaning the bathroom, but then she comes up and figures out you didn't put some things in the "appropriate" drawer. It takes her 5 minutes to fix your "mistake", but she'll still see herself as the hero. I believe they see themselves as CEO of the "home" company. No matter how hard their e…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/20 09:36 AM
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The more you do compared to the guys she's been with so far, the more you turn her off. Women aren't active in dating, so they evaluate their market value through how much masculine attention they receive. If you give her a lot of that (where "a lot" is a variable quantity that depends on the girl's past experiences), you make her feel super awesome and attractive. But from there it's only a small leap until she believes she's so awesome that she can do better than you. Because frankly, why woul…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/10/20 02:58 PM
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See, that's where the hypocrisy of gender dynamics shows its true colors. She's got money, she's got that secured, so the last thing she should worry about is how much her partner makes, right? Well, actually no, this is just how a man thinks. For women it becomes even more of a worry, because, despite their claim to the contrary, they absolutely want traditional gender dynamics to remain the same. If anything, they're way more conservative than we are in this regard.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/10/20 09:33 AM
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I don't know about the US, but where I'm from research labs absolutely need PhD students to get subventions and function. In practice they have quite a hard time to find candidates, because scholarships are few and far between and because few people are willing to go through the whole thing without being paid. So in practice you end up with very few PhD candidates who are actually worth something (most of them are paid), and plenty of people (well, mostly women) who have absolutely nothing to do…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/10/20 09:49 AM
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Thank you, I didn't know about this "trend".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/10/20 01:00 AM
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What's the deal with the "Bisexual" thing?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/10/20 11:43 PM
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Middle-aged with a PhD, but still tasteless enough to believe the duck face is attractive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/10/20 11:40 PM
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Don't be silly! Clearly she doesn't love herself enough yet, because why would she doubt about her ability to attract M. Perfect?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/10/20 09:26 PM
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If sleeping with a bunch of randos doesn’t make you a slut, what does these days? Nothing, because nobody's supposed to judge a woman as being too easy. Sluts are mythical creatures, like dragons and stuff.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/10/20 09:06 PM
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I couldn't read it all, it's making me nauseous. All you can hear is "I, I, I, I, me, I, I, I, me, I..." Maybe if she stopped being so self-centered she'd be more successful in her interpersonal life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/10/20 08:34 PM
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If you're so awesome, why are you 38 and single? The fact that someone can live for 4 decades without coming to this simple realization completely baffles me. Just imagine the amount of lies she fed herself over the years to feel better about her failure! At this point, the inner voice that screams "you're not good enough for the guys you want" is buried so far into her consciousness that there's absolutely no chance it will ever surface again.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/09/20 12:34 AM
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