alimxy Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	I am really bad at reading hints and I need help!. Whether there’s a hint or not, I don’t think it matters that much. Even if there are 20 hints, it might not even mean anything. However, what matters the most is what YOU do. The only (accurate) way is to attempt to take it to the next level, and then the next. Her reaction will give you the real answer you need.	/r/seduction	21/06/20 11:58 AM
1	Yesterday I got rejected, hard I think it was good that you let her know. You probably harboured those feelings for a Long time till it affected you. Let it be a good learning experience. In life, we don’t always win. And don’t see it as a failure. Perhaps, in the future, you might want to show your intentions sooner. If it doesn’t work out, it’s easier to move on. If not, your mind might play you out to think there’s a chance when the possibility is zero.	/r/seduction	07/02/20 11:20 AM
3	long story short, my ex told me to stay at her place if i was too intoxicated to drive, i declined, more info inside. That’s the right thing to do. You showed self respect. No contact and moving on is the way to go, no matter how much you want things to be as they were.	/r/seduction	26/01/20 08:54 AM
8	I went in for the kiss Good job in stepping up. There’s no point in walking around the fence. In my opinion, I wouldn’t apologise for something that I wanted to do - try to kiss her. That move was to test her reaction to how she feels about you. And you know you can’t take it back, especially if the outcome is unfavourable. So I would just accept what she said and let her know that I wouldn’t want to be friends because I don’t see her that way. Now what comes after that has to align with what you want, be it telling h…	/r/seduction	26/10/19 10:28 AM
1	Girl gives number but with no enthusiasm, still a way to save it or nope? Thinking about the possibilities - positive or negative - don’t get you anywhere at all and is a waste of time. Just do the action and it’ll leave you with a clear indication of which path to take - move on or move ahead	/r/seduction	24/04/19 10:18 AM
3	Last night I finally stopped caring and approached That’s a great start! We always learn and improve along the way. You could try “hey, I know this may seem weird and I rarely do this, but I thought you’re cute and wanted to say hi, I’m __” or whatever works for you	/r/seduction	12/04/19 10:31 AM
2	Not sure if to give her another chance or to move on Her responses are sincere enough and are positive. If she’s not interested, she wouldn’t reschedule. But who knows for sure? Only time and action (good on you for that) will tell. This is the part where “rules” are broken. “I only ask her out once” ... “3 rejections and you’re out!” If what she says is true, then she doesn’t have a choice but to reject and reschedule (logically). And if this were to continue on? Of course, there should be a limit. Crossing this limit will be detrimental to our t…	/r/seduction	10/04/19 01:55 PM
4	How would you respond if a girl older than you opened to you with “Sup kid” on Tinder? “Mom???”	/r/seduction	07/03/19 07:13 AM
3	Is this a complete no? I think it was great that you clarified that you’re asking her out. But it might have appeared gamey when you said you won’t ask her again. She might legitly had plans. And by saying that, it forces her. It would’ve been better if you’ve asked for another day instead. I would say she’s interested (at least at the start) and it’s not a solid no. It’s too early to tell though. Best is to play it cool	/r/seduction	01/02/19 11:57 AM