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He does not love you. This is not love. Please please please get out while you still can. Before you throw your whole life away.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/26 11:17 AM
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Well I'm glad he prioritizes you when he's not working. I hope you can find meaning & connection beyond your marriage. And I hope he really really makes a lot of effort with your kids. My dad did his best, spent every minute he wasn't working with us and giving us amazing bonding experiences. But ultimately, you get what you put in. Quality over quantity isn't always true when the quantity simply isn't enough. The hours together just aren't there.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/26 02:33 PM
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Sorry I edited this a few times, because I wanted to give you the long term picture of how this dynamic actually turns out. Feel free to DM me if you want more details or have questions. The life you're living looks fun, but behind the curtains is not as pretty as the outside. Flying on a private plane as an 8 year old to go skiing for the weekend was def a privileged experience. I would have rather had my father around to get to know me. My mom would have rather had her husband.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/26 02:30 PM
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He can be a good dad and still be absent. 65 hr weeks, assuming he starts at 8am, means he isn't getting home until 9pm each night -- assuming his commute is less than 15 min. And that is assuming a 5 day/wk schedule. That means your kids probably only see him on weekends. He isn't there to help with homework. He isn't there to hear about their days or help them through issues at school. No matter how great he is when he is home, the fact of the matter is that there simply isn't enough time for …
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/26 02:17 PM
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How is his relationship with your kids? You say he works 65+ hours/wk. I can't imagine that your kids enjoy that. Obviously they don't know any different, but if you're lonelier than you've ever been in life, don't you think your kids need their dad too?? This life sounds like a dream on the surface, but money is meaningless after a certain level of comfortability. After that, it's all about maximizing time with loved ones. Life ends quickly. I couldn't possibly be married to a man who prioritiz…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/26 01:55 PM
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This!!! Gratitude first always
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/26 02:14 PM
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Idk if you're religious or not, but something that sticks with me is "A human will never be able to love another human enough to fulfill them, only God can." The longing you're feeling isn't your husband's fault. It's human nature. We are designed for a relationship with God.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/26 02:13 PM
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We spend every day together. Our only hours apart are when we're working or doing something 1:1 with the kids. There's been the occasional work trip as well. But typically, we're always together. Been married 6 years, together for 8. Have 2 kids.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/25 08:26 PM
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Absolutely the fuck not.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/25 08:31 PM
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My husband does the majority of housework and cleaning in our home. And he doesn't mind at all, because I treat him with respect and show constant appreciation. Men will bend over backwards to make their wives happy as long as they are given the lead to do so and shown respect.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/25 08:27 PM
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The cost is fixed. It's not something that requires any decision making on a regular basis. You don't sit down and decide how much to spend on the mortgage this week because the kids need new shoes and the pantry is out of pasta. The cost of those things are a single decision made once.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/25 07:32 PM
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Car / mortgage decisions are made only a handful of times in a lifetime. That's not managing a budget or doing family bookkeeping. Those are inputs, not part of the actual process of doing the accounting work
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/25 07:24 PM
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Women still make up the majority of consumption
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/25 07:22 PM
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All the women I know/have known of that age did the bookkeeping. It could be locally cultural/regional specific
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/25 05:30 PM
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"Traditional" marriages actually rely on the wife doing the bookkeeping and budgeting. That was the standard back in the 1950s model nuclear family. Men made money, women managed & spent it. If anything, having a man manage the budget is more modern not traditional.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/25 02:27 PM
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I'm the breadwinner in our household and I still submit completely. Financial control doesn't mean financial dependence.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/25 02:26 AM
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I disagree. You can be submissive and still hold a job. You can have your own savings account. Do whatever you need to feel secure.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/25 01:51 AM
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How do you manage with 5 kids?? We have 2 and I want more, but my husband doesn't think we/I could handle it. (I'm on the spectrum and so is our son)
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/25 01:50 AM
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I don't think anyone expects men, in general, to like their makeup. Everyone, men and women, have differing opinions on what is "attractive". What some men find over the top, another finds hot and sexy. Wear and present yourself with the energy you want to attract.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/25 01:36 AM
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Reddit is an echo chamber. Don't engage in groups where you have differing opinions. Find your corner/interests and stay there. And yes they're all 13 boys
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/25 01:34 AM
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I would never betray my own morals and ethics. That's part of the vetting process. Don't marry a man you're not fully ethically aligned on. Embracing religion can help make sure you find one that you're aligned with as religion is the foundation of ethics.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/25 01:30 AM
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There's a lot about embracing femininity and feminine energy in it, and the yin/yang between men and women
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/25 01:28 AM
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Following for advice! I just finished reading "The Surrendered Wife" and it really opened my eyes
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/25 12:27 PM
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