| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 4 | Need marriage advice | LTR/MARRIAGE | alla1one | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/05/17 03:44 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Need marriage adviceI think it quite possibly is a lie. However if it's not I'm leaving for sure. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/05/17 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Need marriage adviceThank you for all of this, youre not to offer the younger girls being a lie, I've thought it out and I think it is. However we do have a HUGE difference in sexual market value. That wasn't an exaggeration. We have been together since I was 14, I changed In several different ways. He's doing really good after our separation working out and such and we have found our way back to each other every now and again. I miss our time. I wanted his children. Don't you think if some of this weren't true (Wh… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/05/17 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Need marriage adviceWell I had a blood test taken and we had a positive. However you can't actually see or hear anything and no signs from me so it's another limbo. The doctor rates it pretty high though. I think therapy would be great I should look into that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/05/17 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Need marriage adviceI am also pro-life, I would have to be in the worst position possible to actually abort. However these are all options I have to look at. However in my own situation it's his fault he wanted to get me pregnant so if we are there, then he owes me child support for awhile. I know this man enough to know he makes a shit ton of money now And I make like 20k, He made himself a money tree instead since he didn't choose his family and decided to get everyone knocked up. Alternatively I am also a trust … | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/05/17 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Need marriage adviceI have cut that contact since I learned of the other female who is in the picture now. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/05/17 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Need marriage adviceI was a confused wife who lost our child. I felt like I had failed at becoming/doing the one thing I should be able to do. I was and still am very hurt about it, I know that mistakes were made but this was my last effort to win him back. I realise now how stupid I AM. He is a very intelligent business man, who would help out anyone if he can spare the time. He is a wonderful son, and a great friend, but lacking in his love life. I am also angry and remember there are two sides to every story (al… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/05/17 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Need marriage adviceHe was 18. Maybe you're correct in that sense however even when I did grow up, I let him get away with everything. My last straw is cheating. This was the nail in the coffin. My marriage is dead. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/05/17 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Need marriage adviceI like to think at this point he is less of a drunk captain and more of a failure. I will never forget how he did support me but that part of him is dead now. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/05/17 02:36 PM |
| 2 | Need marriage adviceI have never consider this an option and really value this input. I have been a lurker for some time and never thought he would flat out lie about it, maybe that's why this feels so much like a movie. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/05/17 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Need marriage adviceI apologize for such an emphasis on the role of this new male in my life, I meant it more as what does this mean for our marriage rather than I'm going to be with this man. I agree with your statement as well, it takes someone very interesting to look past these things. I don't see him as marriage material this was supposed to be my rebound, as a response to my husbands actions. I don't think it was a great choice, either of them. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/05/17 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Need marriage adviceI've never thought it all the way through like this but youre absolutely right. I don't want to be that person, I don't want to be married to that person either. All of it is disgusting. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/05/17 09:10 PM |
| 3 | Need marriage adviceThank you for this honest answer, as a young female good advice can be hard to come by. I think this will look less like my whole life is over and more like a big mistake I made when I was a teenager. I can't express how much I agree with feeling sorry for this new girl. I know she's young and I believed all his lies at that age. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/05/17 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Need marriage adviceI am working on myself, starting college next fall and getting up earlier and working out! I would love to stay and chat with you all, it's helping me feel less like the world will think I failed and more like I endured. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/05/17 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Need marriage adviceWe have been married only 5, however I can't make it hurt any less. I don't know about friendship, but I'm sure we can remain civil to one another. Despite this history. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/05/17 07:52 PM |
| 0 | Need marriage adviceThis is recent behavior, I wondered why it had started at all but maybe he has always been this person and I'm only seeing it now. I obviously do not appreiciate this behavior and that's why I'm asking is it worth it to fix it or is it time to ditch this sad falling apart wagon? | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/05/17 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Need marriage adviceI defintely agree, easier said than done I suppose. I just so badly want everything to be back to normal. Guess it's time to thank him for making me into the perfect wife and move on. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/05/17 07:34 PM |
| 2 | Need marriage adviceUnfortunetly I do not know whether or not I am. Just a chance so far. I know what a huge step abortion is for most people, and I believe it would be a step in the right direction to help me find another man or to not ruin my own potential. I do not have my own children, but indeed (due to a Angel mother) raise my own siblings, who are 9-17 years young than myself. I have been doing this awhile and know the stress it has on everyone around you and not just yourself. I would never choose to contin… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/05/17 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Need marriage adviceHe isn't the greatest lover, but I will admit he is not that bad. Outside of our marriage he still seems like a god among men to me, however I don't see him as the same man I married so I understand how my contempt leads to excuses now. He is selfish, but it used to be different. I so badly want that back now too. I don't think I can continue to pretend to be his wife when he can't even feel the smallest amount of remorse for what I'm going through. In all honesty my marriage ending fails in com… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/05/17 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Need marriage adviceI didn't mean to put emphasis in this other guy, meant it more as what does it mean for my marriage if I'm this far as well. Obviously I don't think running to another man I don't trust is a good idea for me or child. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/05/17 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Need marriage adviceI live in a state where alimony or spouse help is usually unavailable and almost never granted however I am trying. I have always believe cutting ties was the best way to make a clean break. I am trying to be civil and he is trying to get amusement out of this. You're correct when you say he's not worth my time. I'm beginning to see it too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/05/17 07:15 PM |
| 2 | Need marriage adviceI appreiciate your input, and I believe youre absolutely right. I also didn't mean to put so much emphasise on a new person in my life, I more wanted to know what it meant for my husband and I. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/05/17 07:12 PM |
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