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SELF IMPROVEMENTallaboutthepill/r/RedPillWomen04/01/18 09:11 PM
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ADVICEallaboutthepill/r/RedPillWomen25/12/17 06:25 PM
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ADVICEallaboutthepill/r/RedPillWomen18/02/18 01:42 PM
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Haha. Thanks for sharing though!
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/18 09:15 PM
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He wants me going nuts and wants to feel borderline abuse
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/18 05:34 PM
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Gentle biting can be sexy...
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/18 04:16 PM
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Oxford Vitality biotin
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/18 07:59 PM
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Sorry, misread the topic.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/18 09:44 AM
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Hello! I hope you are doing great! ♥️ Just wanted to get some insight with some topics i have been struggling with. I was having a romantic relationship with a guy. He took things so slowly due to his past and I was impatient. I am younger and wanted him to commit. He broke things off 1.5 months ago because he could not commit due to his fears, he is kind of a commitnentphobic and I pushed things too hard. The thing is I was really in love with him and I felt he had feelings towards me too. I ha…
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/18 07:56 AM
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I believe that is something you can come over if you really concentrate and want. Something to think about. You don’t want to be remember as that girl who bites nails. This idea got me losing weight. I used to be 20kg overweight but suddenly I realized I don’t wanna be that fat girl my hole life. It might sound harsh but sometimes when I’m having cravings for crisps or chocolate I’m thinking: do I wanna be fat and eat chips or be pretty and have better life? Suddenly the choice becomes easy.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/18 05:01 PM
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Oh, you should definitely work with biting your nails. Does not look good and nails are ugly after as well. Sad but true.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/18 02:47 PM
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Source?
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/18 08:57 PM
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I live in a colder place so need to apply sunscreen only from April-September.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/18 11:31 PM
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Oxford vitality, check out their eBay page.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/18 11:10 PM
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How is my love life going this year? I am wondering if I should open myself to new people or should I take some time off and be single and be with myself for some time.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/18 06:03 PM
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You are right, but I also sad things that I shouldn’t have. I should have said things without being resentful. So I dont blame him. Just hope we can accept the wrong things we did and let go hurt.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/17 04:27 PM
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I started when I was 17 but then was single several years. I guess from 20-22 approximately. I had some bad years during 20-23 on my life when I was partying too much and didn’t take care of myself. Also, had some one night stands and spent a year studying abroad. I did drink and smoke a lot which I’m not proud of. Thank you for your kind words. I was recently seeing somebody but he turned me down. We had been seeing each other occasionally for 6 months, I felt he was not investing and I became …
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/17 03:41 PM
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Yes. I am deeply sad and often feel like I don’t deserve to be loved. I feel I need to earn it. I don’t know what is unconditional love. I have never felt that. At the same time - this is one of the RPW principles not to expect something for nothing. So it’s not that bad. I am 26. Really hadn’t have time for more LTRs as these two have taken 7 yrs of my life.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/17 10:44 AM
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Thanks. So valuable.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/17 07:58 PM
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Yeah, I think you are Right. He wanted me to join music festivals and hipster bars, but I Like more Jazz Concerts and Dinners in Nice reataurant. I guess we were not compatible which is result of poor vetting.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/17 07:36 PM
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Oh no 😭 Will I be happier if I’m going to work some years in pharmaceutical industry and then graduate later on? I’m having really an motivational crisis and want to go back to work more and more. Being financially vulnerable is weighing me down but I’m afraid I won’t become successful without a 5-year degree.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/17 11:28 AM
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I was wondering if he is dating with other women at the same time or am I the only one for him? He seems to get easily hurt. Is there a possibility that he will get over the pain that I caused? I did not know I hurt him. How should I reach him? He tells me he’s hurt and seems that he wants to be in his shell.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/17 01:51 PM
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Interesting reading! Do you have any advice when is it the right time to talk about marriage, kids etc? Is it the first date, second date or when becoming official?
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/17 05:51 PM
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Was my career change a good idea? Am I going to be in a better place financially? I started pharmacy studies 2 years ago and still have 2 more years left. I had degree in linguistics but could not find satisfying job (with good salary) so I went to university again.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/17 12:26 PM
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Wonderful!
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/17 12:17 PM
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Can you ask if he is considering me as a potential partner for life or just a casual fling for fun?
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/17 12:16 PM
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Thank you So much 💜
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/17 12:14 PM
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Okay, I see. How does anybody else feel about the things he says?
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/17 08:32 PM
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I don’t agree with you. I think it’s nice to have some quiet time after having an intense night together. Also, how is your day is the most boring question one can come up really. Talking about the sex that night - yes, that is a good idea.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/17 08:12 PM
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If I felt good and secure about two of us I wouldn’t do anything. Maybe I would send a funny meme (text message) of something we have laughed about before and see what happens if I hadn’t hear about you for 2 days already. If I felt insecure, maybe sent the funny text the day after sex happened.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/17 07:44 PM
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Actually not that type of insecure. I can stop myself from getting the crazy mode on before sending bazillion nagging texts. I think the insecurity in me is more like me overthinking what to wear, what to say, how to act etc etc. Thinking am I good enough for him and that he does not really like me because what is there to like.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/17 06:53 PM
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I think I have chosen wrong men. I haven’t met them online and they have not found anyone else. I still feel like I’m needy, clingy, a bit insecure and getting emotionally attached too early. That turns men off and they don’t want to invest because they don’t want to rush things even more. So then I’m in a position where they’re not doing anything and I’m still trying. Also, I must admit even though I have a lot of good qualities, I’m not very bubbly. I tend to be more of a serious and practical…
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/17 06:40 PM
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Not that I know of. I feel that I am really still very excited about the relationship and guys are not. I guess it’s the neediness and clinginess what is causing it.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/17 06:35 PM
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Yes, my ex-boyfriend introduced me quite early. I spent Christmas with his family when we had been dating only 1 month. Even he told his mother won’t be interested in getting to know me because she had mentioned she will only get to know his girlfriends after getting married we actually became really good girlfriends with his mother. My previous potential partner only took me out once with his friends for a dinner. It was nice.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/17 06:31 PM
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I have some questions. What is the timeframe? How long should I wait until moving on if a guy doesn’t suggest being exclusive? Is it for 3 months? 5 dates? My last potential boyfriend was keeping me waiting for about 6 months (we did cuddle and spend the night but never had sex, he said he “does not want to ruin me”). So after waiting for commitment for so long time at one point I felt he is just using me and became resentful, so I said things out of anger (u don’t care about my needs and are pa…
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/17 05:20 PM
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Thanks. Yes, definitely nun mode for at least few months.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/17 04:30 PM
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Yes. How does on inspire men to commit?
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/17 04:26 PM
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Thanks a lot. I think that might be something you discribe: if hormones are getting balanced again I’m starting to act weird cause I’m afraid it’s going to end. Even though we are just getting back to normal after a huge “high”. I do get extremely “high” during the dating period. I wake up with a smile on my face and feel butterflies during that period even if I’m not with my SO.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/17 03:34 PM
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As a result of unmet needs: bitter.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/17 02:10 PM
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I agree.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/17 12:15 PM
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Thanks! Where can I find the pursuit/distance dynamics theory? "What you're doing is giving too much, too fast. This devalues what you're offering and makes him want you less. When he invests less and you pull back, he sees he can't actually get what you're offering easily (and thus, other men can't either) and he feels special when he gets those things. When he pulls back and you pursue, it further devalues what you have." I think this is just how it is. "I don't mean to be dehumanizing, but as…
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/17 12:15 PM
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So I guess they get this kind of security that whatever they do or say I'll always be there for them and become lazy assholes. :-(
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/17 12:09 PM
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As I previously commented, I don't think it is the problem. Mostly I bring much more to the table than men and tend to "overdo" with everything, trying to be perfect and always there for them.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/17 12:08 PM
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I have read some of the posts but need to read more and then start all over again to learn it by heart :-)
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/17 12:07 PM
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Sorry, I don't know yet how to insert citation. PS. English is not my first language. :-) "Do you cook or clean? Are you supportive? Are you naggy? Do you keep in good shape? After the relationship gets comfortable do you stop wearing makeup and being sexy when you're just hanging out alone? Do you have anything valuable to contribute to, or do you take any interest in their hobbies? Do you buy them gifts? Do you give good blowjobs? Do you turn him down for sex often? Are you of lower SMV/RMV th…
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/17 12:06 PM
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/r/RedPillWomen25/12/17 11:06 PM
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Hello! I need to know what should I do with the man I’m in love with. We have such a great time together and I would like to take another step further and become exclusive. At the same time his moodiness is making our relationship complicated and sometimes makes me wonder if it is worth it or not. Maybe you can give me some advice. Thank you! 💜
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/17 10:19 PM
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I am new in this site but I am really starting to feel all the principles you point out here and RPW have. All my life I’ve felt I am a woman that is proud of her femininity. As a little girl I couldn’t wait to grow up and wear high heels and make-up like my mother did. My good male friends have said I have very strong feminine sexual energy that they sense just being around me. At the same time society has fucked me up a bit with stories like “you can be beautiful in all sizes” and “looks does …
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/17 10:31 AM
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Thanks a lot. I hope wasting 6 months is not that bad. Even though there were red flags a lot earlier.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/17 07:45 PM
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I guess I'm really bad at letting people go. The same things have happened in my previous relationships. When things are starting to go downhill, I am holding on desperately. I hate when things end emotionally. I prefer to have a proper conversation why things will not work out and do it as an adult. But this has only happened when I have been the one finishing a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/17 06:13 PM
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"If a woman is in a relationship with me I understand male competition, but "threats" seemed very offensive and pretentious. (Pre-TRP) I didn't even know it was "dread," except I was not playing that game." The thing is, we were not in a relationship and we never talked about being exclusive. I even did not know if he was and would not have been surprised if he wouldn't have been. "At your ages (40M, 32F) you both are mature enough to disregard the games and be straight with each other. There’s …
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/17 05:57 PM
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Let’s do a little exercise: what should I do to make him regret his impulsive decision to leave me? I can’t go back to him as he is always playing his games but I’d like to know what advice would you give? As he is an impulsive person I’m pretty convinced he already regrets or is starting to regret the way things went. His impulsiveness was something I was getting used to already and never took it personally. Don’t you think there are some unwanted personal traits you can tolerate if there is so…
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/17 03:59 PM
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I feel I’m not compatible with anyone and screw up every potential relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/17 03:51 PM
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Personally, I’d give him another chance as he seems an insecure person and probably was searching for a closure. Obviously his ex is having still some power over him. Other question is - do you want an insecure partner for a life.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/17 09:51 AM
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I agree that this threat was stupid and immature. An act of desperation. I appreciate your honesty, that’s what I need. And no, I wouldn’t have gone with another guy. I’ve turned down any invitations for coffee or cultural events etc. At this very moment I am not able to apologize as he said he is in pain and he feels hurt when I’m trying to contact him. So I need to give him at least few more weeks, maybe even months.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/17 12:44 AM
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When I first told him he's passive and.. I'd like to take some steps further. He said "some day in the future" and at that time it seemed disrespectful for me as I had been waiting for several monts so I added some fuel to the fire. Which was obviously a big mistake. I guess if the topic ever comes up I'd just need to admit him I was desperate and didn't know what to do. He might understand me as he had really been putting me on hold for a long time.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/17 12:28 AM
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So is there any way to for example... become FBs over some time? It makes me crazy he is so freaking hurt right now. He does not want to be in a relationship with me and then suddenly he's sad adn hurt when we end it? I don't get it. :s
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/17 12:01 AM
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Actually, few days after our last meetup he told me we shouldn't see eachother anymore and I told him that he is punishing me for saying things I did. And he just sent me a smiley. I guess he is doing the "hard next" thing on me. Just recently became familiar with this term and it seems he has been using this tactic several times on me before. He also left me out of the blue few months ago (at least I don't know the reason) and then came back acting nothing happened after a month. Fuck reading t…
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/17 11:47 PM
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No, it does not mean sex, just spending time together. Shit I'm smarter now I guess... lol. I am sure he has read bazillion pages of game theories 'cause he has always this thought in the back of his mind that maybe I'll leave him, maybe I'll try to manipulate him etc even though I'm nothing like that. It's just that sometimes I fuck up because I'm so inexperienced and sometimes plain stupid (lol). Just discovered this Red Pill thing few days ago and got interested. It seems there's no way you c…
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/17 11:41 PM
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No, I'm not punishing him. He tells his hurt and needs some time alone. I don't feel sad neither angry. It's just his behaviour made me restless and I needed him to step up his game or end it.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/17 11:33 PM
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My resolutions are quite similar as OP has. I lost 11 kg this year and plannin to lose 10 more in 2018 (started with 85kg and target is 64kg, I am 170 cm). Secondly, minimalistic lifestyle. Collecting money and start with investing it and become financially independent. I think that is it. Keeping it simple and achievable.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/17 09:16 PM
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