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SEEKING ADVICEallegracole77/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 12:45 AM
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I don't fight the feeling anymore. I've accepted that at some point I do want a healthy romantic relationship. Everyone is different but for me I spent my early and mid 20s denying that I wanted to be married with kids someday. I worked on my career, getting my finances in order, engulfed myself in hobbies and friends. As I progressed in my career, as my confidence in myself grew, as I became myself and understood who I was, I continued to have an internal battle of not wanting a husband and fam…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 07:02 AM
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This might sound crazy but I can’t have male friends because I’m the one who falls for them! I define male friend as someone who I would hang out with alone just like I would a girl friend. I’ll hang out with males I’m friendly with in a group but never alone unless I like them. For me, it’s not about sex at all but if I’m with a man who shares my same interests, we’re at the same place in our lives, we’re emotionally supporting each other as friends then yeah I’m going to fall for him. I’m goin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 02:40 AM
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I feel this very much!!! I think you can have a successful marriage with a variety of people but it's about timing and luck. Your high school boyfriend could've been a good match for you, but the timing wasn't right because you were both in high school and still had growing to do. A man you dated a few years ago could've been a good match, but maybe you weren't completely ready. The guy at the gym could be the one but you're never lucky enough to be there at the same time. You're so right that i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 08:13 AM
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100% agree on this! Some men never take it seriously though and stay f***boys until then die.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 08:02 PM
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Mine is very simple. I put that I like to travel, cook, I cruise a few times a year, and that I’m looking for a long term relationship. I try not to put anything negative like “if you’re just looking for a hookup, move on!” Because I see stuff like that on mens profiles and it’s just off putting to me. Instead of saying I don’t want hookups I put what I actually want. I see a lot of men say “I don’t want drama!” And it’s an automatic left swipe for me because it seems like they’re complaining/do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 07:55 PM
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They don’t want a relationship bad enough to put in the effort for a HVW. How someone is brought up defines them until they reach adulthood. At that point they need to grow up a realize that maybe what they were taught was wrong. I’m sure we all have things from our childhood we had to unlearn in order to truly love ourselves in order to allow someone to love us the way we deserved. Was it easy? No, but we did it. I see this time and time again with men. They don’t put in the work or the effort …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 04:55 PM
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The funniest part is him saying “Good luck with that” like you’re the one missing out! 🤣 This man is delusional thinking he’s filet Mignon when he’s grade D ground beef!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 05:22 AM
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Yesss!!! It’s like you took the words right out of my mouth. I see so many men say on their profile their perfect date is “a WaLK iN tHe pARk 🤪” I’ve never heard of such a thing. Nobody would ask someone out in person to go for a walk in the park. It’s hot outside, there’s bugs, you get sweaty. I don’t even take myself on walks in the park!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 08:24 PM
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“Only joking.” Sure, Jan. Why not walk your OnLy JoKInG butt right out da door. Over there. Exit stage left. Get to steppin. Bye!! That’s what she should of said. Unfortunately, she probably doesn’t think she deserves better so will settle with him and stay. If he says that on social media I’d hate to see what he’s “OnlY jOKinG” about in private.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 04:07 AM
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I’m not understanding why it’s so hard for men to understand this. If the men on these apps are the ones who are asking for nudes, FWB, casual sex, then I don’t get why they’d think women have an easier time finding a partner when THEY make it harder. I think men who actually want to find someone via OLD forget that OLD takes WORK. You have to WORK on your profile. You have to WORK to keep the conversation going. If you don’t put in the work you don’t get the reward. Instead of pitying themselve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 03:57 AM
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YES! This exactly!!! The men I find attractive are usually only looking for sex. I guess I thought by 30 even late 30s that men would be more inclined to not act like they’re 21, maybe be more serious about settling down but I was WRONG. It almost amazes me that these men want to live life just messing around with woman after woman, never having a true deep emotional connection with them. It’s so shallow and nasty. Who knows what diseases these men have from all of their encounters. I just start…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 04:29 PM
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With OLD, we all might as well be swiping through pictures of literal trash bags because most of these men are LV. I know that’s not the case for all of these men, but to find a guy who actually cares about his profile, wants to make sure it presents the right message, and is HV is rare. I try to only commit to about an hour a day of OLD, otherwise I get discouraged looking at all the trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 03:42 PM
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I hate to say this but in my circle of friends this is normal. I read the book ‘He’s just not that into you’ when I was 17 and never misinterpreted a man so I always know what’s up. I have a friend who wants to get married but keeps giving into men who just want hookups. I sat her down and told her she really needs to start valuing herself. I told her I was done hearing about her heartache over something she knew was going to happen. My speech worked and she thankfully turned a corner. I have an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 05:23 AM
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🤣🤣 I feel you on this one! All my friends are in relationships and are like "WhY nOt FiNd SoMeOnE oNLinE?" They have NO idea the type of garbage on there. These men might as well have a bag of trash as their picture!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 12:23 AM
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Every time I get on one of these dating apps I feel like I’m swimming through the swamp! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 10:15 PM
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I know couples who got married super young. Before they had a career, while one spouse was in grad school and the other worked odd jobs. They made it work because they wanted to make it work and committed to making it work. If your cousin's boyfriend wanted to get married, he would propose. I don't think the age/career is the issue here. It's his commitment level. I hope your cousin has talked to him about marriage and they're having an honest conversation about it. If he's not ready but she is,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 04:41 AM
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I’ve only seen him online. He has his Instagram linked to his profile so it scrolled through thinking I might find a picture I like but there’s just something about him that isn’t doing it for me. I’d hate to waste his time and mine. The conversation is okay but it feel like I’m talking to a male friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 02:40 AM
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I had a guy on Bumble ask me if I had a Snapchat after texting for 2 exchanges. I was like....seriously dude 😒. What about my profile and me making actual conversation with you made you think I want to send you nudes?? These men stay killing me to death on these apps being so dang thirsty!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 01:51 AM
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