allemande1979 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Ex-wife of 4 years cheats. I realize how much of a loser I am with woman. He spoke to dude about his role in things. It’s not just this single event but a series of events that led to it. Etc. It was thorough and thoughtful, not just the usual “you have oneitis” comment.	/r/seduction	04/01/18 04:33 PM
2	Ex-wife of 4 years cheats. I realize how much of a loser I am with woman. Best response in the thread.	/r/seduction	04/01/18 09:03 AM
1	Should I hire an escort to lose my virginity and maybe gain more confidence? No. Don't do it. You seem very prone to shame and already have low self-confidence. Having a story like losing your virginity to a hooker that you can't tell anyone without feeling more shame seems like a worse situation for a guy with your sensitivity. Plus, if you think pick up is hard now, try doing it with an std. if you are any kind of a man, you'd have to start with, "Before we go upstairs, I wanted you to know I have herpes." Not shaming, but it's harder to find matches like that. Start s…	/r/seduction	29/08/17 06:57 PM
2	How to get rid of negative attitude from redpill and incel You were vulnerable to those points of view for a reason, you were really fucking angry. But you can't just pretend it's not there and see major changes. Acknowledge the anger in therapy and work through it. One day, you'll look at RP and incel and think "not for me" as you make out with whoever.	/r/seduction	22/06/17 10:02 PM
1	To men, feel objectified? It's not political. If you are reading the situation right, this girl is a lazy asshole.	/r/seduction	05/03/17 05:18 PM
1	Did pickup hardcore for a year, kinda miss it. Advice? Why people have affairs When to leave a relationship	/r/seduction	29/06/16 09:22 PM
1	"Women are disproportionately murdered in the workplace" - Here's a nice rebuttal in simple graph form! I wouldn't because prostitution is legal in places and has a hope of being legal someday and making a private military that conquers territory and extorts for a living is never really legal until they are recognized as a legitimate governing authority. If this is a compelling argument for you and you would like to count jobs without a taxable income like stay at home moms and caretakers for elderly folks, accidents around the home, house fires, and tornadoes become a significant part of this gra…	/r/MensRights	29/08/15 07:55 PM
2	"Women are disproportionately murdered in the workplace" - Here's a nice rebuttal in simple graph form! I wonder how this graph would tilt if it included prostitution. The most dangerous forms of work for women aren't legal…yet.	/r/MensRights	28/08/15 06:11 PM
2	After years of self improvement I still don't feel a whole lot more confident in myself. Why? You sound like you have thought habits that undermine all your progress. All of that is great progress. You should be proud! I think something happens at the primary functioning level that is so familiar and so immediate you can't see it. What is your relationship with your family like? What do they think of you? My guess is there is a lot of guilt and shame in you, a profound feeling of helplessness. The impressions you pick up in early childhood have a way of haunting you almost forever if not…	/r/seduction	25/06/14 11:35 PM
1	Opinions on Self-Deprecating humor? I think it is okay, so long as there is genuine confidence to offset the literal message you'd be sending out. It can be a way to play around and be fun without being offensive to those around you.	/r/seduction	23/10/13 03:44 PM
1	Cultivating Dark Triad Personality Traits To Attract Women You're arguing from a moral…standpoint, I'm arguing from a logical standpoint Learn the difference between ethics and morals. This doesn't offend my sense of right and wrong, but it does pollute the people I have to live next to and deal with. This has consequences you fail to mention. I won't tell you not to, but I will point out that it is unsustainable. My main problem with your techniques and arguments is that they haven't been processed critically. You say "Let's!" without ever asking wheth…	/r/seduction	04/10/13 07:30 AM
1	Cultivating Dark Triad Personality Traits To Attract Women What satisfaction are you getting from spreading your values…? So many things: Psychopathy: The expression of power and sadism over others for its own joy. Machiavellianism: The creation of the world I want to live in using an ends justify the means mentality. Narcissism: Your way is so much weaker than mine and it makes me feel good to take you apart to build me up. These aren't the complete answer. Here are some more: This is what Reddit is: An open forum for contribution that anyone can comme…	/r/seduction	03/10/13 04:02 PM
3	Cultivating Dark Triad Personality Traits To Attract Women I think it is weird you say "use the dark traits" in the title of your post and bold them for priority in the body of your post, but when called on it you are like, "disregard the dark parts." (not using the exact wording but paying attention to the message of your response) Your words make up your message. If they don't say exactly what you want them to, shouldn't you use better ones from the start? You seem to only care about quantity, not quality. If that is glory to you, go for it. My trash …	/r/seduction	02/10/13 05:56 AM
1	Cultivating Dark Triad Personality Traits To Attract Women I lived with a psychopath for 3 intolerable months. At first I thought he kept weapons around as accessories to look tough. I thought he was one of those "guns and ammo" people. It turns out when you act this way all the time there are consequences. You will get your ass beat. This may work in getting you women, but it will be the ones with diagnoses. He got lots of women. Looking back I would not have fucked a single one of them. There is no glory in this approach.	/r/seduction	02/10/13 03:38 AM
-5	An honest issue I have with this subreddit Helpful for few at an unacceptable cost for most. This turns your social life into a business and the standardization of it as game and giving levels is a way to do it lovelessly without thinking about those around you. I'm sure you can use this information to its conclusion. Should you? is what I want to leave you with. Get to know the bouncers: not because you like them, but to use them to get in and sometimes free. Get to know the waitstaff: Not because you like them, but because you want to …	/r/seduction	19/07/13 08:54 PM
-1	An honest issue I have with this subreddit Openminded - I read his post and thought about it. This is different than the automatically accepting everything you read Didn't downvote. Fought it openly with a comment. He described a power relationship. That is different than naming something differently than I would. This is doing something differently that is a commons problem as I see it. If his point was "I have an issue with people punching me back in the face after I punch them," He would have a shitty point and yes I would prove it.	/r/seduction	19/07/13 06:47 PM
-3	An honest issue I have with this subreddit All of this is granted. If this person gets the right to broadcast his beliefs, I share equal rights to say they are awful for everyone. The man who posted made the first push, btw. If the game is actually knowledge and just not enabling awful values, mine should also be used in the same way. Overcontextualizing is the problem here. Slavery was 'value added' for plantations for example. My goal is to show that his statements are missing something vital and human.	/r/seduction	19/07/13 06:32 PM
-4	An honest issue I have with this subreddit No downvotes, but a complete loss of regard. I think you have misread my post. You are claiming the style of the post is my issue when it is the content that is gross. Feelings don't enter into it, it is about the decisions made and transmission of values. People aren't objects no matter which way you try justify it. Treating folks that way just doesn't work when placed in a bigger-than-seddit-picture context. This kind of discourse is poison and should be refuted even if you want in to an exclu…	/r/seduction	19/07/13 05:35 PM
-6	An honest issue I have with this subreddit I didn't, but wanted to downvote your advanced game material because it comes off as a little sociopathic. In the section about promoters it said something about "understanding women's power as currency." Fucking gross, dude. You have to be a special kind of prick to think this way. As for the rest, the only thing the post said was to be social. What is advanced about that? People just want to get laid in a mutual way, not rub elbows with the monopoly guy. EDIT: Grammar	/r/seduction	19/07/13 02:45 PM
3	What are some attractive traits that would not typically be considered "alpha male"? THANK YOU. Douchiest fucking, axe-spraying, pick-up book trusting, non-listening, sales-y bullshit term ever. I like how people explain the workings behind the term, but this is not the fucking dog-whisperer. That is one for the privileged inner-circles of corporations and psychopaths.	/r/seduction	15/07/13 07:28 PM
3	Giving it Away / Getting lucky on the first date - Some stats and some analysis Cosmo may not be the best place to get these kinds of statistics. This guy is interesting: http://articles.washingtonpost.com/2011-07-14/entertainment/35267973_1_web-sites-ladies-mother-in-law	/r/seduction	12/07/13 02:06 PM