alleykit Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
469	Negotiation tactic: always be willing to walk away	STRATEGY	alleykit	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/12/21 09:09 PM
189	What men want: women to do ALL THE WORK	LIES MEN TELL	alleykit	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/07/21 02:32 AM
1	Relationship advice comment section full of scrotes and LVMs calling OP a drama queen, not suitable for a relationship, and “not normal” for feeling emotionally connected after sex after she’s been ghosted.	FDS RESCUE MISSION	alleykit	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/04/21 05:37 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
87	Men's reactions to having their lies exposed The sheer entitlement men have when they: Lie to you and justify it to themselves "I deserve to be given a chance with someone out of my league" Then when caught, play the victim "You wouldn't have given me a chance if I didn't"-sob! That's also a reason not to disclose your standards clearly in the beginning to anyone LV/NV men will absolutely mirror the fuck out of you if you even hint at your standards. Agreed, they just wait it out for you to get involved so even when their lies are exposed …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/01/22 11:44 PM
1	A first year of not downloading Tinder out of boredom and depression I'm so proud of you! It's difficult when you're in a dark place to have those frank conversations with yourself, and doing that with a former habit or behaviour you've had in the past can be even more challenging. One of the things I'm trying to get away from too is focusing on other people to help me feel better about myself. In the case of OLD, and Tinder especially, the boost is just superficial because most if not all of those interactions are purely based on what I look like. I'm just placi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/12/21 06:40 PM
8	What men want: women to do ALL THE WORK They just simply are not expected to do anything. Exactly this! They’ve never been expected to do anything or engage with it, so even the men who do understand non verbal communication just ignore it. I think there is a subset of men who like you said are perfectly aware of these things and profit off of the “bumbling idiocy” of less emotionally intelligent men. These LVM will feign ignorance while manipulating the shit out of you. I’m talking about the emotionally stunted men who don’t have inh…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/07/21 11:05 PM
16	YEP👏🏼 Agreed 👏 I think for a lot of young women they don’t have a good alternative ‘model’ for modern sex. Even outwardly mentioning issues with the male model carry the risk of personal attacks saying you’re against “sex positivity” or that you’re comments are shaming others. Or being called a prude or immature (the IRONY). So it makes me so happy to see other women talk about this.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/05/21 07:19 PM
9	Educating my daughter on what men will say when she is confident and strong in her opinions, what are we missing? “It’s not attractive when you say it like that” Guys think our entire world should be centred around appearing attractive to THEM. This kind of comment dismisses what we are saying to try to get us to care about an apparent misstep in how we should want to behave around men.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/05/21 11:04 PM
25	Ditched today by a Pickme friend Impeccable use of the LOTR quote 👌 Seems like your friend was lacking in basic decency, knowing a friend is driving over from another city and didn’t keep her phone on her? Sorry this happened to you. On one hand though, you know the kind of consideration you can expect from your friend in the future and plan accordingly.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/04/21 06:05 PM
13	Guys who have a problem with sex during your period are LVM I like to respond to these over the top reactions with “looks like you’re not mature enough to be in a relationship” if I’m being generous and drop him. Otherwise it’s “Boy, bye” full stop. Kid can’t handle periods? Then he’s not qualified for relationships, let alone sex lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/04/21 11:11 PM