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MOOD FOR LIFEalli4202/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 11:28 PM
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DISCUSSIONalli4202/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 01:05 AM
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alli4202/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 01:28 AM
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alli4202/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 03:41 AM
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NICE FOR WHAT?alli4202/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 10:51 PM
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What a psycho. That’s on camera.. turn his ass in
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 09:09 PM
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This. This is perfect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:39 PM
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Ohh my gosh me too. I’d lose my mind. There’s just no way. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 I’m glad it didn’t happen to you either honey!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 03:29 PM
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That’s a good one.. I have a quote in the middle of my back. It says: “ I don’t need you to hold me, I can hold my own.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 01:26 AM
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I joined this over a year ago.. because a dude was treating me like complete shit.. And I made excuse after excuse for him.. I kept coming back to this.. And finally.. I can say I am SO thankful that is eliminated from my life.. I can say I am SO glad I found FDS ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 11:27 PM
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Sorry just read this... This is so true what you say about someone not being defined by their money or social status.. I have had a cardiologist ask me out and the gas station attendant ask me out.. Here’s what I found out: the cardiologist asked me what I was going to wear to dinner, if I would send him pictures, and told me women that don’t wear make up are lazy, and wanted to know when I was going to stay the night.. the attendant asked me how my day was, told me I looked great in my work uni…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 08:48 PM
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Lol. Put them all in a group text...hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 08:49 PM
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What a fucking moron. I honestly didn't think I could hate men more until I read this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 06:54 PM
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Lmao@pandemic pickmeishas
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 04:05 PM
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This is the only social media I have...do I'm really not sure tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 10:09 PM
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I'll be your friend! Lol I'm not a mom, but I do work full time and I'm finishing my business degree, working on my relationship with myself still. It'd be cool to start a community like this with women to help each other out. More personal than Reddit but still using strategies from FDS to push through...if any of you ladies are interested I'm just putting it out there that I am too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 09:56 PM
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That's awesome! I love that you're doing this with a friend. That's such a good strategy and creates a great support system. Keep going!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 04:02 PM
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Me too. This helped. Thank you for posting this. I know I really needed it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 03:59 PM
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Ty!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 09:41 PM
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Someone told me this...and it's the truth.. "People that have a backbone and are honest, they have less friends"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 09:40 PM
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Good!!! I wish there was a way to help all females let go of that whole "I have to stay" thing. No one deserves it. No one has to stay. And you'll totally end up being a better woman bc you left. With this last guy, as nasty as he was to me, I started being mean too...just to get him back. And then it would just go from there..like who could hurt who more...that shit is poisoning, it wears on you too bc you carry guilt afterwards. Keep going, keep coming back to this sub. It's so supportive and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 01:19 AM
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Hey what dating coach?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 12:59 AM
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Appreciate your honesty...that takes guts to say. In the past I have had the same feeling..."we've already broke the ice", "it's comfortable"..... The truth is..it might be those things..but we don't grow if we don't exit our comfort zone. When someone treats you poorly, you fuckin leave their sorry ass. Since I've been on here...I think like this now...and I love it.... When you stay in a toxic environment you are choosing to be treated poorly.. it might be false hope, it might be how comfortab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 12:58 AM
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Truth. Why the hell do we stay? most the time they bring nothing to the table and can't get get us off anyway...cause a bunch of stress. Like....that's a good question, why do we stay? When in reality...there's no reason to stay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 11:37 PM
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Me too. Underperforming and your out. They expect us to do all kinds of shit....if held them to their own standards they'd fail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 10:10 PM
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Truth. I'm 32. Been single for 2-3 years. When anyone asks this question I tell them it's a chore to date anymore. By 32 you realize it's not worth the stress of wondering if your dude's with some mother of 5 sporting a tube top around Kroger...It's just not worth it..you begin to evaluate your quality of life in a different way.. Unless Mr. Right shows up and isn't some man child, I'll stay single. I seem to be just fine. It's a two way street gentleman....I can be "single" and "date" 10 men at…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 12:08 AM
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Right...15??!! I thought the same thing. If that happened now suits are filed for various reasons. Personally, I think yeah, we don't have 70year marriages anymore because women typically don't marry so young now...also there are laws in place now that don't allow that to happen (even though it still does) I do believe because of some of the laws and ethics behind a 30yo man marrying a 15yo girl are in place it adds a layer of protection for women long term. Absolutely. Just a thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 04:41 PM
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I love this... This is right. You're right. Thank you for putting this out there. I feel like this is overlooked nowadays....everything is based off of looks from the start. So if she doesn't make the cut he moves on to the next but will keep her on the back burner. Even when the "10" he moves on to can't hold a conversation, has no goals, has no job, etc...it seems like they really only look at what's on the outside and don't want to get to know someone when they could be missing out on what th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 01:00 PM
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Girl yes..the men in the 90s were enabled... The men in the 80s.... I'm gonna go ahead and say even in the 70s... Dad talked to Mom like shit so son thinks it's okay to treat women like shit... Mom takes care of kids and house...Mom gets a job to finally be able to leave the house.. Mom can vote (oh shit!) Mom can go to school... But the respect for her hard work never showed up...so now its come down to work like a man and look like a porn star. Smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 07:21 PM
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It's sucks to have to think like that...but the more I date or even just get to know any guy...I can easily pin point it in conversation alone... They're quick to tell you when you're wrong, or they think you're wrong. Fast to judge your dreams/aspirations, and very forward thinking on telling any female why she can't/won't succeed at something or what she "needs" to do. In my head I'm just like ok...well that's why it's my body- not yours. They're my dreams- not yours. They're my decisions- not…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 03:45 PM
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Agreed 100%. It's not just that she's bigger that some man gets upset when her confidence shines through....it's anything. If she's thinner he'll tell her she needs to gain some weight. If she goes for the job she wants, he'll put it in her ear she really might not be cut out for it. If she goes back to school, he'll question why she would do that. Imo, it's not just a curvy woman having confidence, it's any woman having any confidence in any area because they don't want you to out do them and t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 02:45 PM
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EXACTLY....it's $8.99/mo mf....smh...get your own...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 12:27 PM
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Every young girl needs this book.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 03:31 PM
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Me too I'm like why would I even bother now? It's a big mess to clean up and deal with mentally....like why even step into that? Nah..I got other shit to do, better investments to be made, and more sleep to catch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 01:31 PM
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Hahaha!!! That's awesome 👍 love it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 01:28 PM
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Hahaha I love it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 01:27 PM
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Oh.my.gosh......ladies if we could see their comments the internet would shut down.....lol. I can hear it now..Female news anchor: "please be informed...the internet is frozen due to too many stupid pricks saying more stupid shit to women that take no shit on Reddit's Female Dating Strategy."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 10:36 PM
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Hahahaha "Pls get fucked" Fr tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 10:30 PM
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Hahahahah "sand you're clit off your body". So true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 11:00 PM
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Please do. ...this is a real thing that men do to women. It's been done to me. It is incredibly damaging. Teach me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 06:35 PM
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Maybe he's trying to make both sides jealous to see who he can get with first. Typical dude. Smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 11:36 PM
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You know how a lot of people, myself included, are really quick to see the negative in things instead of seeing the positive....I feel like that happens a lot inside social media. ....and I just feel so much lighter without that bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 02:33 AM
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Isn't it weird how we can't stop staring at what's fickle..... But if it powerful, we squint. Hmmm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 04:38 AM
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I am too. I'm so damn happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 04:35 AM
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I love this sub💓💕💞 best support system I've had in such a long time:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 05:48 PM
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I love the way you put this. So true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 01:48 PM
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This is true girl...I've dated 2 men that were iffy characters and I met their parents and wondered, "wtf happened?...they gave you too much, you had no repercussions, and you've never had to do it by yourself."...that's why they expect so much out of a woman but don't want her to take the steps to get there...bc they know their high valued mother...but they didn't know her when she was taking the steps to get there that made her what she is today..nor did they know their father while he stood b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 04:51 PM
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It does make them feel insecure. And they'll even tell you it does...without really telling you, yk? Telling a female you don't want her to get the better job, to go to school, or even to pursue her own dreams and aspirations is bs. You just don't want her to outshine you... When really, she just wants to shine with you. As a woman that's experienced it first hand.....I wish they knew we just want to do well and it's mostly a self satisfaction thing. I'm not competing with anyone with my goals..…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 03:58 PM
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Hahahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 10:23 PM
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Can I just chime in and say they seriously do....like fr...they think they're God's gift. I wanna where TF they got all this self confidence????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 10:23 PM
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Reply- Oh my gosh.....someone married you????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 11:57 AM
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Just a thought.... I agree with you..it's less common now..I've thought about why, I've been trained in some behavior detection areas, I've studied sociology and communications in males and females across all different backgrounds and different geographical placements... It comes down to being a "now" generation...that's just my take on it. We get everything we want RIGHT NOW. immediate response is how we communicate.. the internet makes everything faster. Amazon order in 2 hours? Sure. Text on …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 01:04 AM
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This was so nice. This puts it into perspective...stop subjecting yourself to toxic situations. Be your own best friend. This was really helpful. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 05:24 PM
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Aw thanks so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 04:03 PM
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Thank you:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 02:35 PM
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What? You think I'm a troll? No...I literally came to FDS about 2-3 months ago to find some help with this....that sucks that you think that... Now where do I go? ...thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 02:31 PM
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I did. And changed my phone number. Deleted my accts and he showed up here and that just wasn't cool at all. I don't even know what to make of this now...it's so messed up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 04:22 AM
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No one else has ever gotten in my head like this tbh... Maybe I just need to detach for awhile...some mindfulness and self care stuff? Idk...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 04:15 AM
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What if he finds other ways to contact me? And has even shown up at my house when I did follow through with blocking?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 04:09 AM
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Nope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 04:07 AM
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Ya...it's like I can't follow through....what in the actual f is that....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 04:06 AM
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I have now..this is what happens though..he does that to me and I get mad when I get these photos..I voice my opinion, he tells me I'm a psycho, then I block him......then I start to feel horrible for the way I've went about voicing my opinion ...so I unblock him and I say I'm sorry for what I said... Then it continues. Really I shouldn't be saying sorry....... Why am I apologizing for defending myself?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 03:57 AM
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Will do. Thx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 03:51 AM
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Thank you:) So it does change after awhile? Or do I need to do something to make it change?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 07:08 PM
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What's a throw away account?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 01:46 AM
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I love this rule. I've had a horrible situation with a LVM...it's went on forever..it seems like the longer it goes on the lower we can get..so I really liked your 10/10/10 rule bc it's a total reminder of what's important and what to focus on. Love it. Thanks girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 01:45 AM
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I love this I love this I love this. You're right. So right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 04:53 PM
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