allieggs Archive

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5	About catcalling... I’m a west coaster in a city where this supposedly happens a lot and I never get catcalled either. But I’ve always lived in very white picket fence type places, and I wonder if that has anything to do with it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/18 02:50 AM
2	What is your opinion on a young woman carrying on an affair with her father's boss? Right, like, how inconsiderate do you have to be to tamper with your dad’s career like that? Plus, at 19 you’re probably still at least partially financially dependent on him. The consequences could directly affect your own life too. They might be consenting adults in this situation but it would just be stupid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/18 11:17 PM
10	Would you rather marry a man who’s a virgin, or a man who’s had over 30 sexual partners? As a fairly inexperienced person who would prefer a lower partner count but wound up with someone with a higher one anyways, I’d say the main thing is insecurity. You see that a lot with the guys that feel insecure about this with their female partners too. I don’t actually believe that my boyfriend is less willing to commit to me because he’s slept with lots of other people in the past. If I did, I wouldn’t have chosen to date him to begin with. But I do know that I’m very far from the best sex…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/18 06:36 PM
9	Would you rather marry a man who’s a virgin, or a man who’s had over 30 sexual partners? I think this is valid. I mean, I’ve never had the desire to get it all out of my system to begin with and I would probably be more compatible in that field with someone who felt similarly. But I’d rather be with someone who’s had that urge and has already satisfied it than someone who hasn’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/18 06:20 PM
5	Would you rather marry a man who’s a virgin, or a man who’s had over 30 sexual partners? Knowing nothing else about the two men, I’d pick the virgin. At my age, there’s a good chance that it means the virgin has always had a similar mindset to me about sex. But ultimately it would come down to whether or not their n-count was indicative of their current values. I’d rather have someone with 30+ partners who hasn’t had casual sex for years than I would a virgin who’s open to that in the moment. I’m with someone with a high n-count. He was very promiscuous for two years and then didn’t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/18 06:16 PM
1	What are your thoughts on long distance relationships? I’m only here because of my love for drama that doesn’t involve me. I sit back, grab the popcorn, and every once in a while I have an opinion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/18 10:03 PM
2	Men and older women... the teen fetish is actually pretty American and Japanese. It’s a thing pretty much all around east Asian cultures. In China, my cousin and his wife got lots of shit for being together because she’s three years older. Lots of comments got thrown around about how neither of them could do better. Whereas of course, if the genders were reversed and the age gap was even bigger, no one would’ve said anything. And people there do deliberately try to look like teenagers. I can’t really comment on the wa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/18 09:29 AM
5	What do you do that pleases the opposite sex? As the partner of a walking heat dish, thank you for your service. Not all heroes wear capes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/18 09:30 AM
1	CMV: Promiscuous women should date promiscuous men. Thank you for this. As of now, I think the good for sure outweighs the bad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/18 07:09 AM
1	CMV: Promiscuous women should date promiscuous men. but you may just be failing to look deeper into the greater root cause I think that's what I was trying to get at with my original post. It's not necessarily the n-count that's predicting it, as much as it is the root causes for the n-count. It's concerning to me that you are pushing through the incompatibilities. What do you think are his redeeming qualities, what keeps you in the relationship? He's a steady calm force in my life, and I honestly didn't really know that I was missing it until I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/18 06:21 AM
2	CMV: Promiscuous women should date promiscuous men. On the MBTI I'm an INTP. I don't know his, and I haven't bothered to ask just because I have my issues with it as a concept. I also know, from the brief encounters with Tinder that led to me meeting my boyfriend to begin with, that I don't want casual sex on my own and am probably never going to have it. But maybe I would if it didn't seem so...difficult to me. The insensitivity mostly comes from things like him making jokes along the lines of "wow, aren't I just so popular?" whenever I would as…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/18 04:19 AM
3	CMV: Promiscuous women should date promiscuous men. I just wonder when it comes to people like us, how common is it for the two people to be compatible. My boyfriend has a much higher n-count than I do and the n-count disparity is absolutely reflective of a bunch of other incompatibilities. The biggest issue in our relationship as of now has absolutely had to do with differences in how we relate to the other people in our lives. My family has long suspected that I was on the autistic spectrum, and the difficulties I have with that mean that havin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/18 03:42 AM
2	Q4Women: Do you expect your man to live up to your higher standards? I’m a slob with a neat freak partner and I can definitely feel myself doing this in anticipation of seeing him. It hasn’t been an issue yet because we’ve never lived together but I feel like if anything breaks us up super far down the line this might very well be it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/18 07:02 AM
2	What happens to socially unadjusted girls during childhood? This was me as a kid. My family has long suspected that I was somewhere on the spectrum and I have lots of motor skills/coordination issues that kept me from being well groomed. I was overweight until a few months ago, though I’m not sure if I’d be considered attractive otherwise. Friends were always a struggle. I had them, sure, but I’ve never been able to keep them. They’ve usually been just as maladjusted as I was, and the friendships tended to be mutually toxic. I would always be shut out of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/18 12:38 AM
2	I'm interested in a certain subset of people: those who are WAY above average in looks (model-tier) but have severe brain-problems that impair them socially/sexually. Does anybody here know any such people who fall within this (to me very interesting) subset? Sure. A lot of these people have been through lots of trauma of some sort, and that’s the root of a lot of their problems. It usually has to do with emotional abuse. They have sex with no problem, and many of them rely heavily on the validation that comes with being able to have sex easily. You could probably classify them as hypersexual. In my social circle I think there’s a correlation between being like this and having sexual fantasies involving humiliation. But they make terrible decisions i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/18 12:16 AM
2	I'm interested in a certain subset of people: those who are WAY above average in looks (model-tier) but have severe brain-problems that impair them socially/sexually. Does anybody here know any such people who fall within this (to me very interesting) subset? I know multiple people who fit these characteristics. But none of them are celibate, and many of them use sex as a coping mechanism for these problems. It makes sense. They can do that more easily than less attractive people with the same problems.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/18 08:07 AM
1	Do you find deadpan snarker attractive in men? That’s the way I’m wired so a guy like that would make me feel like I’ve found my people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/18 11:31 PM
1	(Q4BP) Lets look at the school of hard knocks 1) I’d leave. While I’d appreciate her honesty, and it would be enough for me to want to keep her in my life, our relationship wouldn’t ever be the same if I knew she had it in her to cheat. It would be an amicable split, though. While it’s not a desire I’ve had myself I could understand if there was something subconscious in her that made her want to see what was out there. 2) I could deal with this one if she were physically affectionate in other ways, though I’m not sure how well we’d sustain…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/18 05:34 PM
1	Q4women: would you be a man’s second (or third, etc) wife? Would you bear his second (or third, etc) child? How would this status compare to being a first wife? It depends on the circumstances of the divorce. I would think that someone who’s been married and divorced time and time again just isn’t particularly good at the long term partnership thing, and that would be bad. But I wouldn’t hold it against someone if shit happened and it just ended up not being meant to be, especially if it was a learning experience. Though, I will say that if someone’s been married at my age there would probably be a bunch of weirder things going on and that might keep me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/18 11:51 AM
10	Do women cheat more than men? If not, are women more loyal than men? There is a correlation between high N count and cheating, regardless of gender. While I don’t doubt that people who sow their wild oats can be monogamous, I’d think that the people who feel the need to would also be more inclined to want to cheat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/18 08:06 AM
1	If your (male) SO came out as bisexual, what would you do? I wouldn't care, nor would I be particularly surprised. I'm about as straight as they come, but most of my social circle is not. He also gets read as gay extremely often.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/18 08:25 PM
2	Q4All: What wouldn't you tolerate from your partner's past? If I found out that there was anything about his past that he was lying to me about. If he'd knowingly slept with someone who was in a relationship and felt no remorse. If he manipulated women into sleeping with him. If he'd given them STDs or had a history of refusing to use condoms. If he had a sugar daddy arrangement with someone. Having cheated in past relationships. Using prostitutes in a place where the industry is particularly sketchy. Having been involved in producing/curating NSFW stuff…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/18 08:21 PM
1	Q4All: How did parental and other relationships you saw growing up influence your views? This is very true. I think my mom could have been a much better partner and also a much better mother if she was able to reflect on her trauma and realize just how fucked up she was. She probably genuinely believed she was just sticking up for herself and for me, but she never got the bigger picture or realized that she was hurting me similarly to how she’d been hurt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/18 10:10 PM
1	Q4All: How did parental and other relationships you saw growing up influence your views? My parents have been unhappily married for 28 years, since they were both 21 and too young to know what either of them really wanted. They’re both horrible to each other, and don’t match each other well at all. My mom is extremely controlling and constantly accuses my dad of cheating. She’s dealt with every form of trauma that you could ever imagine, has an extremely warped sense of what’s normal and they come from a culture where wealthy men often cheat as a status symbol. My dad is a control f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/18 08:38 PM
1	Q4RP: What is the general consensus about lesbians? My friend and this girl were also showing really obvious signs of flirting the whole time. But neither of them wanted to confirm definitively that they were dropping hints at each other. I kept begging them to just have the fucking talk already and say definitively that she wanted to date. But she didn’t and then she wondered why it didn’t work out. Ugh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/18 09:55 PM
5	Q4RP: What is the general consensus about lesbians? I have a lesbian friend who saw a girl for two months, during which they were never on the same page about whether or not what they were doing was platonic. My friend was under the impression that they were friends, and the other girl was under the impression that they were dating, and neither of them wanted to confront the other about what exactly they were. It ended when the girl ghosted my friend. It was a gigantic mess all around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/18 09:43 PM
1	Q4Women: Besides frequent sex, what else do you have to offer in a relationship? Unsolicited forehead/cheek kisses. Random kisses in general in grocery store aisles. A very cuddly body. Someone to drag to movies with him and roll my eyes at him when he overanalyzes everything. A travel partner. An infinite supply of memes. Willingness to be the primary breadwinner, once I’m done with school and all. I know a lot of interesting people and getting to know them too is part of the package deal. My family is pretty fucking loaded. I don’t know. We don’t even have sex that frequen…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/18 08:41 PM
1	What do you guys think about the logic that "sex is overrated?" I like sex. It can be a lot of fun with the right person and it satisfies some very basic urges I have. But at the same time it’s definitely something I could go without. When I’m not in a relationship the urges don’t go away but I see it as intimate enough a thing that I don’t want to do with someone I don’t care about. It’s also such a big investment of time/emotional energy. Even if I can find someone to have casual sex with and even if it’s something I want to do, in the end it’s too much an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/18 10:04 AM